The 12 most LGBTIQ+ friendly places on Earth: where to go for Pride 2023

Keith Langston

Jun 1, 2023 • 12 min read

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Let your pride flag fly at these top destinations around the world © Eugenio Marongiu / Getty

Everybody say "love!" We're headed around the world in pursuit of the very best cities welcoming the LGBTIQ+ community. These are the kinds of places that understand that life's meant for celebrating; whether it be rowdy drag shows that thrill with sass or thumping dance clubs that party on till sunrise.  

Follow us to some of  the most progressive, inclusive and accepting destinations around the world where you can go to really show your pride.

Sydney, Australia 

2023 Pride dates: This year, WorldPride, the global bi-yearly event that rotates between different cities, was held in Sydney  in February. That event coincided with Sydney’s famous  Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras , which is one of the largest LGBTIQ+ celebrations on the planet and takes place during February or March of each year. But that doesn't mean the celebrations are over. You can still find events happening all around the city for Sydney Pride Month in June. 

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  The heart of gay Sydney is the Darlinghurst neighborhood , which is conveniently located near Sydney’s central business district and is easily accessible by the city’s mass transit system.

Though Australia only legalized gay marriage in 2017, the country has long been a welcoming place for the queer community. Sydney is the LGBTIQ+ center of Australasia and the South Pacific and has developed a global reputation for its inclusivity. Not only does the city have excellent LGBTIQ+ nightlife, such as the expansive, three-story  Stonewall Hotel , but it also has a deeply queer culture that celebrates LGBTIQ+ art and history.  The Darlinghurst Bookshop  has been selling queer books, magazines and films since the 80s and the city hosts the yearly  Queer Screen  film festival.

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New York, New York

2023 Pride dates:  June 17-25.  NYC Pride  is one of the largest Pride celebrations on the planet. The main festivities, including the parade, will be held during the weekend of June 25. 

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  No LGBTIQ+ visit to New York City would be complete without stop in the West Village . It’s here that the Stonewall Uprising took place during the summer of 1969 after police raided  the Stonewall Inn  and began arresting patrons and bartenders. From here, the modern gay rights movement was born.

Aside from Stonewall, NYC has a deep history and profound connection to the LGBTIQ+ community. From painful moments, like being the epicenter of the HIV pandemic, to joyous ones, like the evolution of Harlem’s ball culture, New York City is a must-visit for all queer travelers.

NYC’s most prominent LGBTIQ+ neighborhood is Hell’s Kitchen . The neighborhood’s 9th and 10th Avenues are loaded with LGBTIQ-owned restaurants, barbershops, cafes and bars. You’ll see rainbow flags flying from windows on virtually every corner. Go-to nightlife spots in Hell’s Kitchen include the wildly popular  Industry  bar, and the campy, country-themed  Flaming Saddles Saloon.

Barcelona, Spain

2023 Pride dates: July 14-15.  Barcelona Pride 's official lineup and event info are still to come.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Barcelona’s L'Eixample neighborhood is one of the biggest LGBTIQ+ boroughs in all of Europe. It’s even been lovingly given the nickname “Gaixample”. Here, you’ll find LGBTIQ+ beauty salons, bookshops, saunas, cafes, bars, restaurants, sex shops and everything in-between.  

Spain has long been at the forefront of LGBTIQ+ rights. The nation legalized same-sex marriage back in 2005 and has since enacted numerous laws that ensure equality and protection for the queer community, including those who are nonbinary and trans.  Platja de la Mar Bella  is Barcelona’s premier gay beach (and it also happens to be clothing optional) with most beachgoers baring it all. Among the numerous other LGBTIQ+ hotspots,  Arena Classic  is a popular lesbian bar that’s a staple to the local community, and  Candy Darling , a Warhol-inspired club, sees partygoers dance nightly until the early hours of morning, sometimes all the way until the sun comes up.

Auckland, New Zealand

2023 Pride dates : Being in the Southern Hemisphere, Auckland  held its  Pride celebration  all through February. But there are still events and celebrations happening in June. 

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Karangahape Road, referred to as “K Road” by locals, is where you'll find most of Auckland’s LGBTIQ+ nightlife. Many Aucklanders make a night of it by starting their evening at  The Eagle  bar, a local, unpretentious watering hole that welcomes a wide variety of members from the LGBTIQ+ community. Later in the night, locals make their way to  Family Bar … which is conveniently located across the street. Family Bar has more of a club vibe, with a bustling dance floor and weekly drag shows.

New Zealand has long been known as a friendly and welcoming country. It has robust anti-discrimination laws and legalized same-sex marriage in 2013. Since then, the nation as a whole, and especially its major cities like Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch , have become known as some of the most LGBTIQ-friendly places anywhere in the world.

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

2023 Pride dates:  Puerto Vallarta Pride  was held in May, and is one of Mexico’s biggest Pride celebrations, with a fun mix of locals and visitors alike. Check out local venues to find Pride events during June. 

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Emiliano Zapata (also called Old Town) is where a vast majority of Puerto Vallarta’s queer nightlife is based. However, the entire city is an LGBTIQ+ vacation magnet and it’s virtually impossible to find any section of town that isn’t welcoming.

Throughout the years, Mexico has become more and more LGBTIQ-friendly, and the oceanfront resort town of Puerto Vallarta is one of the nation’s most progressive cities. All the big brand resorts are LGBTIQ-inclusive, and there are even LGBTIQ-exclusive hotels, like the  Almar Resort . For socializing and meeting other members of the community, the options are endless. From the beachy, indoor/outdoor  Mr. Flamingo ; to the comic-book-inspired  Blondies Loft + Slushbar  and even the sleek and trendy  La Noche , there’s no shortage of places to go. Plus, there are all the fantastic beaches , with Playa de los Muertos  known as PV’s “gay beach.”

Amsterdam Gay Pride on the canals

Amsterdam, Netherlands

2023 Pride dates: August 1-6.  Amsterdam Pride  is one of the world’s more unique celebrations since its parade takes place on boats floating along the city’s famous canals.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Amsterdam is a very progressive city and LGBTIQ+ venues can be found throughout, but a lot of activity is centered within the Reguliersdwarsstraat neighborhood , located at the center of town.

The Netherlands was the first country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage back in 2001 and has remained one of the most LGBTIQ-inclusive countries on the planet thanks to its numerous anti-discrimination laws and policies that protect civil rights for the queer community.

Cafe 't Mandje  is an absolute staple of the city’s queer scene. It was opened in 1927 by its boisterous lesbian owner, Bet van Beeran. To this day, patrons continue to enjoy the eclectic interior and friendly crowd. If late-night adventures are more your style, check out  EXIT Café , a thumping LGBTIQ+ bar that welcomes everyone from the LGBTIQ+ spectrum and their allies. Best of all, EXIT is open later than most bars in the city, making it perfect for night owls and those looking for an epic night on the town. For first-time visitors, the  Pink Point  info kiosk is a great resource. It’s a dedicated LGBTIQ+ information booth that provides travelers with tips, recommendations and information on all things queer in the city.

London's gay pride

London, United Kingdom

2023 Pride dates:  July 1.  London Pride  is the biggest Pride celebration in the UK, and one of the largest in Europe, and the world.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Soho , in London’s West End , has historically been the city’s epicenter of queer life, and to this day, it remains a hub of the city's LGBTIQ+ bars, shops and clubs.

London has been one of the most prominent epicenters of queer culture for hundreds of years, dating all the way back to the city’s 18th-century “Molly Houses”, which were meeting places for LGBTIQ+ people. London remains a massively queer city and is known for its brimming underground LGBTIQ+ scene that can be found at rotating parties, like those put on by  Cybil’s House .

A must-visit for any LGBTIQ+ traveler is the  Admiral Duncan . It’s a chance to learn about queer history, honor the past and find community… all while enjoying a pint. Admiral Duncan was bombed by a Neo-Nazi in 1999 because it’s located in the middle of  London’s largest LGBTIQ+ neighborhood, Soho .

It was a massive turning point for the city. Following the bombing, a giant rally was formed outside the pub and London’s police force promised to do all they could to find the perpetrator. They even staffed a police van outside the bar with openly-LGBTIQ+ officers to help make the community feel safe and more comfortable approaching the police to file reports. To this day, the Admiral Duncan is a symbol of London’s LGBTIQ+ community coming together to grow stronger in the face of adversity.

While in the city, be sure to visit one of the various pubs that serve  PROUD beer , a queer-owned beer company that helps support local charities. Best of all, PROUD is totally cheeky, naming its brew the LGBTQIPA .

A 600-foot rainbow pride flag is marched through Palm Springs as part of Palm Springs' annual Pride Fest

Palm Springs, California 

2023 Pride dates:  November 3-5. Thanks to the city’s year-round warm weather,  Palm Springs Pride  takes place much later than most.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  All of Palm Springs is an LGBTIQ-centric neighborhood. In fact, Palm Springs has such a queer presence, that even adjacent suburbs like Cathedral City and Palm Desert are developing their own queer populations, holding their own Pride celebrations.

It’s believed that Palm Springs became an LGBTIQ+ hotspot because of the film industry. During the Golden Age of Hollywood, actors, actresses, directors, producers and agents made Palm Springs their desert escape. Naturally, with the heavy LGBTIQ+ populous within the arts, Palm Springs became a refuge for many who had to hide their sexuality. It became the go-to spot for closeted artists to let their hair down and enjoy themselves. That vibe still exists to this day, with  numerous LGBTIQ+ resorts  dotting the town, many of which are clothing-optional. For a bit of the city’s famed LGBTIQ+ nightlife, be sure to check out longstanding staples like  Chill Bar  and  Hunters .

Amnesty International marches in the Toronto Pride Parade

Toronto, Canada

2023 Pride dates: June 23-25.  Toronto’s   Pride celebration  consists of a parade, parties and a popular street fair that’s a great option for those looking to have a more laidback and kid-friendly Pride experience.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Queen Street has been Toronto’s main LGBTIQ+ destination for decades, perhaps most recognized as the filming location of the US version of the groundbreaking drama  Queer as Folk .

Canada has some of the best protections for LGBTIQ+ people anywhere on the planet. The country as a whole is known for being welcoming and is considered one of the friendliest places on the planet. To visit the bar where  Queer as Folk  was filmed, make a trip to  Woody’s . It’s Church Street’s oldest LGBTIQ+ establishment, dating back to 1989, and remains one of the most prominent staples of Toronto’s queer culture. For something you can only find in Toronto, visit the  Buddies in Bad Times  theater. It’s a queer performance space and cabaret that also transforms into a nightclub during nights when there are no performances.

Tel Aviv's pride parade attracts crowds from all around the world

Tel Aviv, Israel 

2023 Pride dates: June 9.  Tel Aviv Pride  is the largest (and one of the only) Pride celebrations in the Middle East… and it also happens to be considered one of the largest in the world. 

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Tel Aviv doesn’t have a specific “gayborhood”, but instead, is incredibly LGBTIQ-friendly throughout. In fact, the Boston Globe cites Tel Aviv as having 25% of its population identify as gay, literally making it one of the gayest places on Earth.

Tel Aviv is a very strange anomaly. Gay marriage isn’t legal in Israel, yet Tel Aviv has become one of the most progressive, LGBTIQ-friendly cities on the planet. Many say to look at Tel Aviv as its own entity that operates differently from the rest of the country. A great example of this is  Hilton Beach . While it’s technically an “unofficial" gay beach, it’s such a well-known fact that even Tel Aviv’s tourism website bills it as a hotspot for the LGBTIQ+ community. One of the city’s most popular locales for queer nightlife is  Shpagat . The club is renowned for being a welcoming space frequented by people from the entire LGBTIQ+ spectrum, as well as allies. It’s also a great mix of locals and tourists, ensuring that you’ll always be meeting someone new.

Provincetown, Massachusetts 

2023 Pride dates:  June 2-4.  Provincetown Pride  has a diverse lineup of events, including everything from the town’s famous parade to a comedy showcase, 5k race, yoga sessions and more.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  Provincetown (known as P-town) can be seen as the Palm Springs of New England . The entire city is a flourishing queer hotspot. And much like Palm Springs, it was P-town’s connection to the arts that began attracting its large LGBTIQ+ populous.

Located at the very easternmost tip of Cape Cod , P-town has been a summer escape for the LGBTIQ+ community for over 60 years. From the riotous parties at  A-House  to the (technically illegal) nude beachgoers at  Herring Cove Beach , there’s no shortage of fun to be had in P-town. Plan your visit to align with one of the town's many queer festivals, including Bear Week, Girl Splash lesbian weekend, Fan Fair trans week and more.

Berlin's Christopher Street Day

Berlin, Germany

2023 Pride dates:  June 18-July 23. Berlin's   Christopher Street Day  (June 18) is  Germany’s largest Pride celebration. The annual festival is named in honor of the Manhattan street where the Stonewall Inn is located.

Must-visit LGBTIQ+   neighborhood:  The heart of Berlin’s LGBTIQ+ activity is in Schöneberg , which has had gay and lesbian bars since the 1920s, making it one of the oldest gay boroughs on the planet.

Germany is a progressive nation when it comes to LGBTIQ+ rights, especially in its major city centers. Berlin especially has a fascinating queer history. In the 20s and 30s, queer culture flourished in the city, before being almost eradicated by the Nazis during World War II. After the war, the LGBTIQ community was forced to rebuild from the ground up, ultimately creating the buzzing and beautiful Berlin of today.   

Berlin is famous for being a city where people stay out clubbing until the sun rises the next morning. This is great for clubbers who want to party at Berlin institutions like  GMF . But Berlin has so much more than clubs. Its  Gay Hostel  is a unique lodging opportunity that’s only available to LGBTIQ+ people under the age of 38, creating a safe space where you’re bound to meet some new friends. The city is also home to the  Schwules Museum , one of the only museums in the entire world dedicated to researching and preserving the history of LGBTIQ+ cultures around the world.

This article was first published October 2019 and updated June 2023

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The Best LGBTQ+ Friendly Destinations Around The World

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While safety is usually a consideration when traveling, it's typically at the forefront of the minds of those who identify as LGBTQ+. Unfortunately, about 70 countries across the world have laws in place that criminalize queer activity, with punishment ranging from fines to prison time or even the death penalty (via  BBC News ). However, the good news is that LGBTQ+ communities are being embraced in many areas of the world and the acceptance of queer culture continues to grow. In fact, 2020 surveys reveal that 72% of Americans agree that queer people should be accepted, up from 51% in 2002, according to U.S. News . Many other countries also show an increase of acceptance, including South Korea, Japan, Canada, Poland, Argentina, United Kingdom, South Africa, Australia, and Germany. 

Even amidst COVID-19 restrictions in 2021, Gay Pride festivals were celebrated worldwide in more than 107 countries (per  Outright International ). As a traveling queer person, it is important to know which countries are best to be avoided and which ones will embrace you with open arms, for both safety reasons and because you deserve an enjoyable vacation! Let's explore some of the most popular LGBTQ+ friendly places across the world. 

San Francisco, California, USA

San Francisco is well-known for being a liberal city, and as a matter of fact, it's often referred to as the "Gay Mecca" of the world (per  We are Global Travellers ). The city is packed full of gay clubs and bars — it's hard to walk several blocks without spotting a rainbow flag. Not only is San Francisco home to one of the largest Gay Pride festivals in the world, but there are many more queer events worth checking out, like the Fresh Meat Festival, the Folsom Street Fair, Up Your Alley Street Fair, and the Castro Street Fair (via  San Francisco Travel ). 

The Castro Street Fair was actually started by Harvey Milk, the first openly queer politician in the city who has been featured in several books and a popular American film, and takes place in the Castro District, a must-see in San Francisco — it's known as being America's first "gayborhood." The Castro is a colorful and welcoming part of town, with vibrant LGBTQ+ murals and rainbow painted crosswalks scattering the streets. The Rainbow Honor Walk features gold plaques dedicated to the LGBTQ+ individuals that made a huge positive impact on queer rights (per  San Francisco Travel ). 

Mexico City, Mexico

An overwhelming majority of people in Mexico are Catholic, a religion that has notoriously been unaccepting of queer culture. Even though same-sex marriages are not permitted in Mexico, Mexico City took big steps in 2009 by legalizing gay marriage. Then in 2010, the Mexican Supreme Court ruled that all same-sex marriages that occurred in Mexico City were valid and should be honored throughout the country (per  Pew Research Center ). Every June, Mexico City hosts the Pride parade and more than 1 million people gather here to celebrate. It's considered one of the largest Gay Pride events in Latin America, according to  Gay Travel 4 U .

In Mexico City, be sure to visit the Zona Rosa neighborhood, a rich and thriving area of town with a big LGBTQ+ community and many gay bars and night clubs to explore. It's also known as the city's "official gayborhood," according to  Out Traveler . The name "Zona Rosa" translates to Pink Zone, which is a nod to the many buildings in the neighborhood that have been vibrantly painted pink. Zona Rosa boasts many delicious cafes and restaurants, vintage stores, a feminist bazaar, and a three-story night club named Kinky with topless bartenders (via  Appear Here ).

Portland, Oregon, USA

Like San Francisco, Portland is also well-known for being a liberal city that embraces the LGBTQ+ community. "Keep Portland Weird" is the unofficial slogan of the city — the catchphrase has even been trademarked and pasted all over bumper stickers, T-shirts, and signs across town (via  Stumped in Stumptown ). Not to say that being queer is weird, but this phrase showcases how accepting and inclusive Portland is of all types of people, regardless of who they are.

The city has long been involved in gay rights activism and hosts a huge, two-day Pride parade celebration, as well as many other queer events throughout the year. You can find different types of drag shows across town — with Drag Brunch being a huge weekend hit — and there are lots of queer bars and dance clubs to choose from. You can also pay a visit to nearby Rooster Rock, which is known by the locals to be a gay riverside hangout spot. According to Travel Portland , the queer community in Portland is one of the five largest in America, with at least 100,000 people who identify at LGBTQ+. Portland also prides itself on having many locally owned queer businesses and it was the first big city in America to have an openly gay mayor: Sam Adams in 2008.

Auckland, New Zealand

New Zealand has a lot of things going for it: The landscape of this island country is jaw-dropping gorgeous and they are also a leader in gay rights activism. In 2012, new legislation declared non-binary as a legal gender and in the following year, same-sex marriage was legalized (as per  Thrillist ). After you immerse yourself in the beautiful natural wonders of New Zealand, you'll want to head to Auckland, the largest urban area in the country, located on the north island. Auckland is home to New Zealand's Pride festival, which occurs in January because that is prime summertime in the Southern Hemisphere (via the  Lonely Planet ).

For a queer-centered experience in Auckland, you'll want to visit Karangahape Road, also known as "K Road," which is considered the hub of the LGBTQ+ community. Here you'll find many queer bars and night clubs, like The Eagle Bar, The Family Bar, G.A.Y Auckland, and Caluzzi Cabaret, just to name a few. And besides Pride, this area of town also hosts a lot of different queer events year round, including drag shows, art nights, live entertainment, and more.

Berlin, Germany

Berlin is recognized as one of the biggest party cities in the world — many clubs literally never close (per Explore ). This city is home to one of the oldest gay neighborhood's worldwide – Schöneberg — where the first gay and lesbian bars opened in the 1920s (via the  Lonely Planet ). In Schöneberg, you can find a queer-only hostel — aptly named Gay Hostel — that only allows gay men under the age of 38 to check in for the night. Other notable queer neighborhoods in Berlin include Kreuzberg, Bergmannstraße, and Mitte (per  Visit Berlin ). 

Berlin's Pride celebration, named Christopher Street Day, pulls in about 750,000 festival goers every year, according to  We Are Global Travellers . Not only does Berlin offer many LGBTQ+ bars, clubs, and events, but the city also features a queer museum called the Schwules Museum, which honors and highlights the history of the LGBTQ+ community across the world. Many businesses are open about being LGBTQ+ friendly and a lot of them are owned by queer people themselves.

San Juan, Puerto Rico

According to Discover Puerto Rico , San Juan is the ultimate destination for any vacation for LGBTQ travelers. If you're traveling from the United States, this city can feel like an effortless vacation — because Puerto Rico is a U.S. territory, you won't need a passport, you can use U.S. dollars, and it's quite easy to get by with minimal Spanish speaking skills. In recent years, San Juan has taken progressive steps to protect the rights of the LGBTQ+ community. In 2018, trans people were granted the right to edit the gender on their birth certificates, and in 2019, conversion therapy was banned (via  Thrillist ). 

The Condado neighborhood is well-known for hosting annual Gay Pride marches and there's even a beautiful "gay beach" in the area. Condado and Santurce have the best gay nightlife in San Juan, with many bars and clubs notorious for being popular queer hangout spots. Be sure to check out Toxic, SX The Club, Oasis Tapas and Lounge, Tía María's Liquor Store, and La Sombrilla Rosa. And if you're in the mood for drag, Kweens Klub is the place to be. Parties in San Juan typically don't pick up until after midnight, so if you're going out, be prepared for a late night. 

Denver, Colorado, USA

There are many queer-friendly cities across the United States, but Denver often gets overlooked. However, this city is quickly becoming one of the most welcoming and exciting destinations for LGBTQ+ people. As a matter of fact, the River North (RiNo) Art District neighborhood in Denver was just declared one of the top five newest gay neighborhoods across the U.S. by  Passport Magazine . RiNo is home to several popular gay bars and nightclubs, including The Wrangler and Tracks, which hosts many queer events and meet-ups, like "Babes Around Denver." There's also drag queen bingo at Hamburger Mary's or country western line dancing at Charlie's. 

According to Denver The Mile High City , LGBTQ+ individuals are welcome at any and all of the bars in the city. The city also hosts its own Pride Festival, and other annual queer events, like a Queer Film Festival and the Gay Rodeo. This all-inclusive, three-day event is like your classic rodeo with entertaining additions like the "wild drag race" and "goat dressing," as per The Denver Post . What a great excuse to put on some cowboy boots and wear a rainbow flag.

Tel Aviv, Israel

The Middle East has a bad reputation for restricting the rights of LGBTQ+ people. However, the one exception is Tel Aviv.  The Boston Globe  calls Tel Aviv the "gayest city on Earth," noting that at least one-fourth of its population identifies as LGBTQ+. Tel Aviv is also often referred to as a "city that never sleeps" due to its thriving nightlife (via  Explore ). Nestled along the breathtaking coast of the Mediterranean Sea, the city doesn't really have specific gay neighborhoods to visit, but rather, the beautiful beaches are the LGBTQ+ party destination that dreams are made out of. Hilton Beach is known as the area's "unofficial" gay beach, according to  Lonely Planet . 

Tel Aviv Pride takes place in June and is known as one of the biggest Pride celebrations in not only the Middle East, but the entire world. The city markets itself as a hub for gay tourism year-round and it delivers — the entire city is truly LGBTQ-friendly. Be sure to check out the all-inclusive Shpagat nightclub, which is popular with both locals and foreigners.

Amsterdam, Netherlands

Not only is Amsterdam a famous vacation destination for being alternative and liberal, it's such a picturesque place to visit. While many people know Amsterdam for its colorful city, romantic canals, and the infamous Red Light District, it is also one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly travel destinations. The Netherlands was actually the first country in the world to legalize gay marriage, and they have continued to pass policies in support of LGBTQ+ rights ever since (per the  Lonely Planet ).

In the summer, Amsterdam Pride is an epic entire week long affair that takes advantage of the city's many charming canals by floating Pride boats in them throughout the city. While the whole city has queer friendly establishments, the hotspot of LGBTQ+ life is in the Reguliersdwarsstraat neighborhood in the center of town. Be sure to visit the Cafe 't Mandje, a queer-owned business known for its unique vibes that's been open since 1927, and the notorious EXIT Café, a LGBTIQ+ bar. The Pink Point information booth is a great first stop upon arrival, which offers queer-focused tips and tricks to help plan your perfect trip.

Manchester, United Kingdom

In 2013, the U.K. passed the same-sex marriage act, legalizing gay marriage throughout the country (per  Thrillist ). The government has also passed many anti-discrimination laws, including The Equality Act 2010, to help protect people from being discriminated against at work (via  Gov.UK ). Many cities in the U.K. host Pride festivals, with London Pride pulling in more than 1 million participants — although Brighton Pride along the English coast brags that it is "the UK's biggest LGBTQ Pride festival," according to the  Lonely Planet . 

The city of Manchester gets the queer gold-star though, since it not only hosts a noteworthy Pride event, but throws many other LGBTQ+ celebrations during the year, including the Sparkle Festival, Queer Contact Arts Festival, and Drag Fest U.K. The Gay Village near Canal Street is the queer hotspot you'll want to visit in Manchester. It's home of many queer-owned bars, night clubs, restaurants, and other small businesses, including Richmond Tea Rooms, G-A-Y club, Vanilla lesbian bar, The Rembrandt, The Goose, and Churchills. The city even offers a gay heritage guided tour.

Montevideo, Uruguay

If you've ever dreamed of visiting South America, Uruguay is the place to go. This open-minded country has embraced the LGBTQ+ community for a long time: Same-sex acts have been legal since 1934, LGBTQ+ anti-discrimination laws were passed in 2004, and same-sex marriage was legalized in 2013 (per  The Luxury Travel Expert ). Montevideo is the capital city of Uruguay, situated right along the coast, with beautiful beaches and awe-inspiring views, and it's well-known for being a queer-friendly destination. 

Ciudad Vieja houses many of the city's oldest historic buildings, as well as the town's thriving night life for the queer community (via  Travel Gay ). While Montevideo isn't considered a huge party city, there are plenty of queer-centered venues to choose from. Chains Pub is a popular spot for drinks and dancing, and Il Tempo is a bumping bar with amazing drag shows. There's also the Toronto Sauna, which is only open to gay men and offers alcoholic beverages, a sauna, steam bath, and jacuzzi hot tub.

Ibiza, Spain

According to Ibiza Spotlight , this beautiful Mediterranean island off the coast of Spain is known as one of Europe's top LGBTQ+ hotspots. Ibiza is a world renowned party destination, featuring all-day pool parties and festival-like events in clubs going all night long, every day of the week (per  Explore ). Ibiza's gay neighborhood is centered in the colorful street of Calle de la Virgen and you'll find most of the queer bars and clubs in Ibiza Town, Dalt Vila and Figueretas. 

Ibiza Gay Pride started in 2015 and continues to be a big celebration every summer. For the ultimate gaycation, consider visiting in mid-June when Pride takes over the town for more than one week of queer-focused events like drag shows, DJ sets, live musical entertainment, film screenings, theatre, street celebrations, and more (per  Ibiza Spotlight ). But really, it's hard not to have fun in Ibiza any day or night of the year.

This small European island in the heart of the Mediterranean Sea is both gorgeous and LGBTQ+ friendly. In fact, recently Malta has been deemed the most progressive place in Europe regarding rights for queer people. According to Rainbow Europe , Malta places first out of all the European Union member states when looking at discrimination, human rights, and equality. After Marie Louise Coleiro Preca was elected president in 2014, seemingly overnight many progressive bills supporting LGBTQ+ rights were passed, including laws recognizing civil unions, adoption rights for same-sex couples, outlawing conversion therapy, and the ability for trans people to change their gender identity on legal documents (via  TIME ).

When traveling through Malta, make sure to visit the iconic Pembroke Beach, the "unofficial" gay meet-up spot. Just be prepared, it is also a notorious gay nude beach. As for LGBTQ+ friendly bars and clubs,  Matador Network  recommends checking out Michelangelo, queer-owned Maori, and The Birdcage Lounge, which features fun drag shows and unique cabarets.

Winnipeg, Canada

Canada has a reputation for being one of the kindest countries out there, and they sure live up to the name. According to the Gay Travel Index of 2021, Canada ranks number one as the most gay-friendly travel destination. The countries are ranked based on a wide-variety of legislation, as well as discrimination factors, including death sentences and murders. Canada, Montreal, Toronto, and Vancouver are all great LGBTQ+ friendly choices — however, Winnipeg takes the (queer) cake with its rich history in gay culture.

Pride Winnipeg started in 1987 and still remains a huge annual production as a 10-day celebration. Glen Murray became the first openly gay mayor elected to office in 1998 and the Canadian Museum for Human Rights opened in 2008 (via  Matador Network ). The notable gay neighborhood to visit lies in eclectic Osborne Village, which houses a city staple gay disco called Club 200, and Fame Nightclub, frequented for its next-level drag shows and gay themed events.

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Top 10 LGBTQ friendly travel destinations in the world

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After sheltering in place for more than a year, many Americans all over the country are itching to break free from their homes and travel the world over – especially with all of those credit card travel rewards we’ve been racking up with our pandemic shopping. 

Indeed, the travel bug has hit many of us hard, and as we begin to prepare for a world post-COVID , we are finally beginning to allow ourselves to once again contemplate the prospect of travel. There are the usual challenges of traveling to a new place and learning to navigate new city systems, as well as new travel restrictions and guidelines that are currently regulating international travel .

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For members of the LGBTQIA+ community, however, it’s not always as simple as picking a place on a map. When searching for a travel destination , things like tolerance and inclusivity become an issue of utmost importance not only to preserve your relaxation vibes but to protect your safety , as well. There are also varying requirements that can make travel more difficult, such as TSA screenings and special identification requirements.

The LGBTQIA+ community has been long accustomed to the challenge of finding inclusive travel destinations, but every day, all around the world, it is getting better. More and more cities and countries are both embracing and celebrating LGBTQIA+ visitors, creating week-long and even month-long festivals, celebrations, and extravagances all to celebrate the freedom and expression of self.

These are some of the world’s most inclusive LGBTQIA+ travel destinations in 2021, including travel guidelines for international hot spots like Tokyo and Cape Town.

1. Key West, Florida

Welcome to key west’s “one human family”.

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More than 250,000 visitors come to America’s most southernmost point, which is known as an LGBTQIA+ haven with tons of LQBTQ+-owned businesses, inns, and B&Bs, including LGBTQIA+-exclusive communities. Revelers fill the quaint streets of Key West at all times of the day and night, with Key West Pride in June and Womenfest in September. Plus, be sure to check out the Tennessee Williams Museum , Key West’s homage to its former openly gay resident and playwright. Rooms average about $200 per night, but there are also options for more affordable accommodations.

2. Providence, Rhode Island

“lgbt providence” lights up the night.

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Providence offers a charming downtown with a high population of LGBTQIA+ residents and visitors. It’s an affordable vacation spot , too, with rooms averaging less than $150 per night.

Rhode Island offers a small-town charm all its own. There is fun nightlife with a calendar full of LGBTQIA+ events, and it’s close enough to pop over to nearby Boston for larger LGBTQIA+ events. Don’t miss Rhode Island Pride , which features an evening parade with light-up floats to set the night aglow.

3. Portland, Oregon

America’s leading lgbtq+ haven for pride .

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Portland is nestled amongst a mountainous skyline with gorgeous coastline to appeal to the nature-lover . With America’s first openly gay mayor, it’s a city with a thriving LGBTQIA+ urban community that is highly involved in advocacy and legislation efforts. 

There’s plenty to do, too, with tons of regular LGBTQIA+ events and parades. Don’t miss Portland’s signature Peacock in the Park event each June. Rooms are affordable, too, averaging between $125 and $150 per night.

4. Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Enjoy the hrc’s top lgbtqia+ hotspot.

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The HRC’s Municipal Equality Index awards Cedar Rapids a perfect score for its community of inclusivity and diversity. With accommodations for less than $100 a night, this Iowa city regularly welcomes visitors from all over the world. 

Famed local hotspot Belle’s Basix has been an LGBTQIA+ staple for more than 20 years, featuring live drag shows every weekend. There is also the family-friendly CRPrideFest , which runs a full week in late June and early July and is a free event with tons of vendors, entertainment, and food to enjoy.

5. San Juan, Puerto Rico 

Visit the tropics here in the u.s. .

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San Juan is a nearby oasis that offers a quick tropical getaway with no passport required . Indulge in the LGBTQIA+ beach between Calle Vendig and Condado Avenue, then skip off to a nearby island for the afternoon to enjoy warm hospitality and endless exploration. Take in the vibrant murals that color the streets and tell stories of days past, and explore the many historic sites in town. It’s affordable, too, with rooms averaging around $100 a night. 

6. Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

Mexico’s go-to lgbtqia+ island tropical escape.

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Puerto Vallarta is one of Latin America’s most inclusive LGBTQIA+ communities set amongst some of the world’s most beautiful beaches. Your dollar stretches further here, too, with plenty of options for accommodations for under $100 a night. 

Waving rainbow flags dot the Zona Romantica, an area bustling with LGBTQIA+ bars, clubs, hotels, and resorts. Consider visiting in May for Puerto Vallarta Pride , which runs for eight days and brings revealers from all over the world.  

7. Toronto, Canada

Visit “queer west” for toronto pride.

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Toronto is Canada’s largest LGBTQIA+ community, offering an entire month-long pride celebration for its Annual Toronto Pride festival lasting throughout June. Immerse yourself in the Village, which offers tons of bars, restaurants, and business with LGBTQIA+ owners – including Woody’s of Queer as Folk fame. There is also an enormous urban cultural scene with May’s Inside Out LGBT Film Festival . 

Rooms start around $125 with pricing fluctuations based on resort or hotel type. 

8. Auckland, New Zealand

The world’s 15th top lgbtqia+ community.

Level 3: Reconsider Travel

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This South Pacific island offers gorgeous waterfront fun with its beautiful beaches, but there is an equally-beautiful countryside with exciting volcanoes and rainforests to explore. It’s a progressive cosmopolitan where guests settle in at the popular Caluzzi Bar and Cabaret for leisurely libations and a show. 

Most notably, New Zealand has experienced one of the world’s lower COVID rates , making for a safer international destination than most. Hotel rates are also at record lows right now, averaging around $91/month for an extra affordable getaway. 

9. Tokyo, Japan

High-energy with a quirky anime culture

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Also prominently featured on Queer as Folk , Tokyo is a clean, fun, and pulsing city with a super-inclusive and welcoming attitude to LGBTQIA+ visitors. Check out Ni-Chōme, Shinjuku’s LGBTQIA+ hub, and stop by Campy! to say hi to celebrity crossdresser and owner Bourbonne. 

Tokyo also has a huge gaming community that offers experiences unlike any other. Don’t miss the opportunity to discover Tokyo by go-cart dressed up in your favorite Mario Kart gear. However, hotels run on the higher end of our list, averaging between $175 and $200 per night. 

10. Cape Town, South Africa

The Gay Capital of Africa with penguins!

Level 4: Do Not Travel

top gay travel destinations in the world

Regularly recognized as one of the most inclusive LGBTQIA+ communities, Cape Town is known for its gorgeous beaches, an impressive wine country, and even penguins. Catch a cabaret show and wander around the bustling De Waterkant neighborhood , which makes up the heart of Cape Town’s rainbow district.

Rooms average around $175/night with some of the world’s most beautiful resorts. Visit in late February to early March so you can enjoy the 11-day Cape Town Gay Pride festival . 

The bottom line

A vacation can be one of the best ways to relax and unwind after a global pandemic, but it’s important to remember that coronavirus is not over yet. As COVID continues to affect countries differently, there may be new or revised guidelines that can interfere with travel. Before you finalize your travel plans and hop a flight to your next LGBTQIA+ vacation, it’s important to continuously check the State Department’s travel advisories and guidelines. 

Also, give consideration to the time of travel. Many of our top LGBTQIA+ destinations feature special festivals and fun events that can make your vacation more memorable, but they can also affect the cost of travel, such as flights and hotels. Your travel credit cards can help you save money here.

Regardless of when you choose to travel, a stay in one of our best LGBTQIA+ vacation destinations can help you shake off the pandemic blues and recharge your batteries with fun, sun, and plenty of excitement. 

Now, it’s just a matter of which hot spot to visit first.

Lena Borrelli

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LGBTQ Travel: A FABULOUS Guide to Gay Travel in 2024

We’re going to start this LGBT travel guide off a little differently than any old post. We’re going to start with a story .

*cue dramatic music*

Baby Indi, aka your caffeine addicted author, left home at 18. I booked a one-way ticket and swapped small town Australia for the delightful chaos of Ho Chi Minh City. Bold move for someone who still got lost in her four-street town.

With no phone, no map, and no iota of Vietnamese, I stopped for coffee in an alley. The first foreigner I’d seen in five days sat next to me. We got to talking and I thought things were going well. Then they asked:

“So you’re a lesbian right? Aren’t you afraid of travelling gay? ” I barely knew how to travel, wasn’t entirely sure I was a lesbian, and I didn’t really know how to give them an LGBTQ-friendly spiel… A gay travel guide assortment of tips and advice… Their questions really threw me. Should I be afraid to be a gay traveller?

Luckily, I kept travelling . I’ve never liked questions I couldn’t answer, so I started collecting dots and figuring out just how “difficult” it was to travel queer.

I learned that you’ve got to call a spade a spade and admit that sometimes being an LGBT traveller is not easy. But I also know that travelling can be the best gift to give yourself while trying to figure out which booties you like bumping and how to live a life that is still not considered “normal”.

Also, there are some super smashing gay friendly cities to fill the inspiration cup along the way. 😉

So buckle up, queer fam – this is everything I’ve learned so far and everything I wish I’d known before I went travelling. This is The Broke Backpacker’s LGBT Travel Guide!

A man holding a rainbow flag on the beach celebrates his LGBT travel life.

Experiences of LGBTQ Travellers – A Challenges and Inspiration Sandwich

Best lgbtq travel destinations, lgbtq travel safety – how cautious do i need to be, lgbt travel guide – bonus tips and advice, faqs of gay travellers, wrapping up the lgbt travel guide.

For this article, I interviewed several other badass LGBT travellers. I have included their insights throughout this piece.

A common theme in the interviews was the sticky topic of labels. Labels are a bit of a funky one. They can feel very claustrophobic. It can also feel like you’re making it easier for someone else to understand you – and then they still don’t.

Also, it might be obvious to some, but there is  so  much more to someone than who they choose to smush. I feel like I’m a scrappy dirtbag, a sailor, and history nerd with a propensity for saying fuck at inappropriate times. Oh, and  then  I also happen to date men and women, sometimes at the same time (although to be honest, monogamy is my preferred arrangement these days).

But everyone I interviewed agreed that no matter which LGBTQ+ letter described us best, there are some common challenges (and rewards!) to being a gay traveller.

Hitting the road as a solo traveller is always going to be daunting. Hitting the road as a couple will always have its moments of drama. But whether you are backpacking alone, or with your partner, if your sexual orientation and/or gender presentation is not considered “normal” there are going to be unique challenges.

At one end of the scale, to put it bluntly, you could be beaten up. Or arrested.

Moving along the sliding scale of discrimination, as a gay traveller, you may face various forms of judgement depending on where you are in the world.

Perhaps it’s a little optimistically nihilistic of me, but I choose to remember that hometowns and family members aren’t always the most accepting rays of sunshine either.

There will, unfortunately, be people in every country who cannot find it in themselves to understand someone who is different from them. But you go ahead and live your best life anyway.

Two girls sit next to each other with the LGBTQ pride flag wrapped around them.

Besides, the transformative experience of travel is something undeniable. I also think it’s especially powerful for those of us who are gay. We weren’t handed the same script as everyone else. There is no “normal” for us – we have to write our own manifestos .

But instead of that being alienating, I think that’s a hidden superpower! Sorry, I’m not signing on to a 9-5 job and pretending to care about taxes. It’s just not part of the gay agenda.

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Hell yeah, you heard right! There are many great places in Indonesia, but none of them can live up to Tribal Bali .

A unique coworking hostel for those that want to travel the world while working from their laptops. Make use of the massive open-air coworking spaces and sip on delicious coffee.

Need more work inspiration? Staying at a digital nomad-friendly hostel is a really smart way to get more done whilst still enjoying the social life of travelling… Mingle, share ideas, brainstorm, make connections and find your tribe at Tribal Bali!

But most importantly, Tribal is a place for open-minded and friendly travellers. Diversity and respect are two of the big core values that the hostel represents. No matter where you come from, what you look like or what you prefer, Tribal will welcome you with open arms!

Solo LGBTQ+ Travel

Going on a solo backpacking trip is all about freedom – and the consequences of that freedom. It can be little things like choosing the exact place you want to eat for breakfast. Or big decisions like saying, “to hell with it, I’m gonna live on a sailboat !”. There are no negotiations with anyone else!

BUT, you trade security for freedom when you travel alone . This gritty growth zone is the ultimate reward from solo travel. You get to break free from your old self and see just how diverse the world truly is.

A Nugget of Wisdom from a Cutie Interviewee

“(Coming from a small city) I had a very specific impression of what it meant to be gay… there wasn’t any nuance. Travelling alone was like realising oh, this is it. Even just little things like seeing two men (in Barcelona) holding hands in public and no one batting an eye. Immediately I was like, I want to live here forever.”

I want to stress that solo experiences will differ depending on which LGBTQ letter you most strongly identify with. Your gender, and your presentation of that gender, will also shape your experiences.

Even a small thing from my own travels drove this point home for me. The more feminine I look outwardly, and the ‘straighter’ I behave, the fewer comments and judgement I get about my sexuality. But then the less masculine I look, the more comments and fear that is directed toward me about being a delicate little girl travelling all alone who is going to DIE. So much for badass solo female travel …

A girl sits in a hammock while travelling solo

Travelling as a trans person, or as a gender non-conforming person, is not something I have experience with. I’m not going to speak for someone else’s experience.

However, I do believe that it is not so much your sexuality or gender presentation itself that bothers people – it’s how far from the ‘norm’ you appear to deviate. Another way of saying this is: (unfortunately) the more you look like stereotypes of the gender binary, the less discrimination or judgement you will face.

Travelling Together When Gay

There will be differences in the challenges – and rewards – of travelling as a partnership or group of friends depending on the same factors above. I’ve found that judgement comes less from your sexuality directly and more from how you present yourself. People are so damn afraid of anyone non-conforming!

A Nugget of Sad Reality From Another Interviewee

“(In a rural Australian town) it didn’t matter that I knew other gay people in town. Obviously, we exist. But if (as a lesbian), I was to hold my girlfriend’s hand in public I’d worry about getting spat on. Or at least, some kind of comment.”

I’ve been lucky that there have never been overt threats of violence made toward me relating to my sexuality. When I was living and travelling in Central America , two of my gay friends faced more overt threats of violence from small sections of the community (mostly borrachos late at night). But in many ways, they were very accepted too.

Nobody questioned their cross country quest on a motorbike, or whether they would be safe alone on the road. Well, of course, their mamas worried! I suspect that because the two friends I have in mind were typically masculine looking, they didn’t face the same judgement they might have if they were more feminine presenting.

Two old men on a motorbike travelling together while gay

Travelling in an LGBTQ group is not all compromising schedules or judgemental comments. You get to bond with your nearest, dearest, and most fabulous – all while travelling the world! There is also an extra sense of security. To this end, even finding a travel buddy can be a great way to make memories with someone special as well as feel a little safer.

A group of people – no matter what their orientation – checking into a hotel raises fewer eyebrows than a same-sex couple. Maybe the real gay agenda is uniting enough gays to safely check into a hotel in a foreign country.

The best place for gay travel? Well, that depends on your type! 😉

Let’s face it, there is nothing quite like some steamy cross-room eye contact with a chiselled stranger in a foreign country. One minute, you’re sipping wine and pretending you speak the language better than you do. Nek minnit… giggity.

Whether you want to swan through classy restaurants, luxury LGBTQ hotels, and secluded beaches – or you just want to PARTY HARD – there are gay-friendly cities for you!

A lgbtq traveller stands in front of a colourful mural in mexico

However, as I wrote this, I reflected on why there are safe spaces and gay cities in the first place – even why we have Pride in the first place. Gay Pride commemorates the Stonewall Uprising of 1969 . Gay Pride commemorates LGBTQ resistance to the violent police enforcement of immoral ‘morality laws’.

The New York cops raided a gay bar – as was typical of the time. They checked the sex of drag queens. They roughed up those who had gathered in a safe space. They violated our community and expected compliance. Yeah, fuck that. The uprising that followed marked a turning point for LGBT rights in the USA.

Our moments of joy and our spaces of inclusion have been fought for – tooth and nail. Then, when they couldn’t arrest us, they ignored us.

Again, fuck that . There was nothing to be gained hiding behind closed doors while misinformation allowed the AIDS crisis to spiral out of control. No, we stepped up and advocated for ourselves. We created community.

To that end, joy itself became an act of resistance . Existing as your unedited, loud, proud, gay-ass self gives those around you permission to be themselves.

So there is no reason for you to not claim your space as an LGBT traveller in some of the world’s best gay cities.

#1 Wellington, New Zealand

Wellington makes the top of my list for gay travel partly because there isn’t a whole lot of dedicated gay bars and LGBTQ+ spaces. There is a small and thriving scene, but Wellies (as the locals call it) is so welcoming and diverse that you don’t need to restrict yourself to LGBTQ places to feel safe .

There’s no need to worry about whether or not you can hold your partner’s hand in the street here!

two people cuddle in wellington

The city is alternative, funky, and has more coffee shops per head than New York! There are some truly epic hikes to be done around the area (try the Pinnacles Loop track where they filmed some of Lord of the Rings). Plenty of accommodation options around Wellington too, from the budget-friendly right up to the ooh-la-la . Also, museum nerd or not, you have to see the Museum of New Zealand Te Papa Tongawera!

Wellington really has a bit of everything. It’s a beautiful city and, if you can get past the miserable weather (summer notwithstanding), you might find yourself wanting to stay here forever.

#2 Melbourne, Australia

A photo of the famous laneways in Melbourne.

What is it about great gay cities and good coffee? Melbs (as the locals call it) is another city that thrives on coffee, art, and craft beer. It might get a bit overshadowed by Sydney’s showy Madi Gras parade, but the gay travel scene in Melbourne is still epic.

The best things to do in Melbourne are interwoven into the fabric of this progressive city. So, while you can find cheeky speakeasies and gay bars all over Melbourne, you don’t have to stick to one area of the city to have a gay ol’ time!

You should try and time your trip with the Melbourne Comedy Festival or the Melbourne Fringe Festival. No one does comedy quite like Australians.

And let’s face it: if you come here single, the Aussie accent can prove hard to resist. Or so I hear…

#3 Bangkok, Thailand

Have you heard the saying that anything goes in Bangkok? I’d say there’s never been a truer aphorism! Bangkok is a very liberal city – and even more so for foreigners.

Alongside incredible street food, golden temples, and floating markets, there is also incredible nightlife. You can find a party that suits your style. There are burlesque clubs (I’m looking at you Maggie Choo’s!) and drag shows, as well as parties that go well past dawn.

A woman cooking Pad Thai on the street in Bangkok.

Far from what many still believe, gender has never been binary. Across cultures, and throughout history, there have existed those who don’t fit into ‘male’ or ‘female’.

Thailand is known for having a thriving scene full of kathoey , or ladyboys. I think this is partly due to Thailand’s broad acceptance of LGBT folks – as well as the low cost of medical and gender reassignment surgery.

Now, I didn’t go to Bangkok looking for sex shows, kinda shady dance clubs, or taking drugs with three beautiful ladyboys – and yet, thanks to my terrible sense of direction, that’s exactly what happened (sorry mum!).

There is so much intrigue and adventure to be had in Thailand with or without a soiree of Bangkok’s red-light district! But, it is quite a safe city in which to experiment in certain pleasures.

There is also the classic backpacker scene, which most definitely means booze, babes, and a total lack of worldy inhibitions. Book a place to stay in Bangkok , find a place to party, and the rest will fall into place.

As a gay traveller, you’re spoilt for choice in Bangkok!

#4 Barcelona, Spain

This is where the sexy eye contact with a sexy stranger anecdote came from. The many colourful neighbourhoods of Barcelona are known for brimming with a burning passion, vibrant art, cobblestone streets, fantastic wine… and an epic gay scene!

This city was the birthplace of the Spanish Pride movement and today is home to bars, beaches, and boulevards that are LGBTQ friendly. The balmy weather, the sexy locals, and the tolerance of the city means it is consistently ranked as one of the best gay cities in the world!

A person hanging out on some steps in Barcelona surrounded by graffiti

How could you say no to tapas, paella, and red wine while sharing a kiss with your partner on a beach?

There are even beaches specifically for LGBT folks.

Also, for the art nerds like me, the streets are literally shaped by Antoni Gaudi. His modernist architecture gives Barcelona its classic building style that has been the backdrop for many romantic proposals.

Barcelona is definitely a more refined place to travel to – but that certainly doesn’t mean you won’t be in for a good time.

#5 Berlin, Germany

To me, Berlin is the grungier counterpart to Barcelona’s sleepy Spanish siesta take on LGBT travel. There’s way less sunshine – and a little more hedonism. But sometimes you need a little bit of that in your travels. 😉

I’ve been to Berlin twice. The first time I spent all day bawling at the Holocaust museum and shaking at the Berlin Wall monument. I was grappling with how such horror affected the psyche of a city.

The second time I went to Berlin, I got my answer. I think that you have to respond to sadness with an overwhelming embrace of life at its ‘most’. That’s how I explain what happens when the sun sets and the techno takes off.

Brandenburg Gate in Berlin with sunset behind

There are clubs and bars galore, as well as cheeky substances on offer to enhance your night. Being gay in Berlin isn’t going to be about restraining your sexuality – but maybe it’ll be about restraining yourself in other ways (like, how about we limit it to three orgies per night?).

Again, I wasn’t exactly looking for sex clubs. And yet, my incessant curiosity and patent disregard for following directions lead me to drinking liquor out of a plastic bag and waiting for my new friend to finish her shift at a very kink-friendly club.

Berlin is a lot to take in; it’s a big city filled with diverse areas and a whole lot of history. But it’s definitely somewhere you can feel safe as an LGBTQ traveller.

#6 Riga, Latvia

Eastern Europe has a mix of Catholic and Communist values when it comes to gay rights. That is to say: it’s not known for being exactly accepting.

Riga – and Latvia at large – has tried to define themselves as the opposite of these values. It has an alluring and classy art nouveau scene with some truly stunning architecture. As a reaction to the values of many of its neighbours, there’s also thriving nightlife!

A clear day in Riga - a top city for gay travellers.

There are a few gay bars, but it’s not a huge scene. That being said, Riga is quite open-minded and LGBTQ travellers aren’t likely to face open discrimination.

We don’t always go travelling to go from bar to bar though! There is so much more to Riga that will make you fall in love with it. The buildings are incredibly ornate and look straight out of a gothic novel – House of Blackheads is insane!

Plus, you can try your hand at learning Latvian. It’s not the easiest language to learn on your travels , but damn if it isn’t fun to try and pronounce uz redzesanos (goodbye).

#7 Mexico City, Mexico

Viva la Mexico! I would argue that this could very likely be the best gay city in the world . There is a heady mixture of sinful nightclubs, low key dining, and incredible art and history. Mexico City itself is quite liberal – it was the only place in Central America you could get an abortion and was the first Latin American city to legalise gay marriage!

Museum display of Frida Khalo's clothes on manequins at the Blue House Casa Azul in Mexico City

Transgender people have also been able to legally change their pronouns since 2008. Guess that’s why it’s Mexi- can and not Mexi- can’t .

Zona Rosa is the famous gay neighbourhood in Mexico City – and you should definitely visit. Be prepared to PARTY, though! There is also an incredible crafts market here where I found a good deal on amber, but you can find almost anything .

If you are looking for something a bit more chill, I had an amazing time Couchsurfing in Roma. There is still a good gay scene here, but it’s a bit more laid back – think more good coffee and fine wine.

Mexico City can be quite confronting. There is extreme wealth and poverty side by side. There is an element of criminality that can’t be ignored. However, there is such an energy to the city and the locals are so overwhelmingly welcoming that I think it should be at the top of your gay travel list!

#8 Medellin, Colombia

Medellin has truly transformed from the murder capital of the world to one of the most welcoming cities in Latin America – and the world – for gay travellers. Brimming with colourful neighbourhoods and areas , Medellin offers EPIC food, endless fun, and people so beautiful that if you’re not bi… you might just try. 😉

The Pride festival is not to be missed here! It’s an epic show of support in true Latina fiesta style. The locals of Medellin are super welcoming – especially to foreigners. While Colombia is still quite a conservative country, gay marriage is legal and so is same-sex couples adoption.

Friends in hostel bunk bed

The Flower Festival held in August is not something to be missed. And neither is a street food indulgence – I mean the churros, empanadas, even the perfectly barbequed corn. They are all amazing!

And Colombians – of both genders – really know how to dance. I was left wondering if I was born with two left, unsexy feet!

#9 Cape Town, South Africa

Cape Town is the unofficial gay capital of Africa. Along with torrents of captivating coffee, the best gay cities always seem to have scrumptious wine of the vine – and Cape Town doesn’t disappoint .

There is incredibly beautiful scenery around alongside some great hiking to be done around the edges of the city.

two gay penguins in cape town

Cape Town is also a great place to learn to surf… or even swim with great white sharks. That could be a romantic surprise for your not-so-confident-in-the-water friend! Be sure to check out the nearby penguin colonies too.

I will say that the lived reality of some gay South Africans does not match their fairly progressive legislation. Even though gay marriage is legal here, there is still resistance to queer folks in parts of the country. However, as an LGBTQ foreigner – especially in the progressive areas of Cape Town – you are unlikely to face discrimination. Many businesses openly display rainbow flags, and there is a concerted effort to promote equality amongst large sectors of the local communities.

#10 Tel Aviv, Israel

Tel Aviv is a paradox within a paradox . The most accepting city of LGBTQ rights within a notoriously divisive country within an even more infamously unaccepting region of the planet.

But, the Tel Aviv Pride is known to be rambunctious and full of life! There are many amazing bars that are LGBTQ+ friendly, and you are likely to feel right at home when partying with Israelis. Because once the bass starts to wobble at an Israeli throwdown, there is only shalom.

A handful of LGBT travellers skateboarding in the streets of Tel Aviv.

There are many gay bars in Tel Aviv that range from low key gardens, to epic nightclubs. It’s also a fascinating city full of complex history and holy sites. (Yes, even in Israel’s “Sin City” there are holy places!)

So, as a foreigner, you are unlikely to face discrimination in Tel Aviv. In fact, you’re probably going to have an amazing time eating hummus and partying all night. But you probably won’t be able to escape this feeling that gay spaces in Tel Aviv aren’t exactly representative of the country as a whole. But in no way is Tel Aviv either.

On Tel Aviv, From Another Interviewee

“The reason it is so full of life is that it has had to resist pressure from within Israel and across the Middle East. Throughout Israel and beyond there is pervasive resistance to ‘queer’ lifestyles. I love to be out in ‘gay Tel Aviv’ because it is a break from the constant pressure to conform.”

Like I said at the beginning of the article, I’m not going to tell you that you shouldn’t go somewhere . I’m not going to tell you how you should or shouldn’t travel in these places either. Ultimately though, there are countries in the world where it is more dangerous to be an LGBTQ traveller.

The penal code of some countries explicitly criminalises acts of buggery – with punishments varying from death to prison sentences to fines. On top of that, there are cultural and religious perceptions of ‘queerness’ that range from acceptance to contempt.

However, I think it’s important to recognise that even within countries that are considered safe for LGBT travellers, there are ALWAYS people that won’t accept you. Many of us come from families that don’t fully accept us. And even within countries where being gay is a literal crime, gay people still exist. Life is murky soup and no matter where you go, you will find that people are people.

Perception is Everything

“That reminds me of being in Greece with a girl I was seeing… she got really scared I s’pose for being out together and holding hands at night together because of all the men just standing there on the corners. I didn’t feel like they were looking at us like they wanted to attack us, so I think it depends on the person (as to how comfortable you are).”

The most comprehensive article on LGBTQ travel safety I found was this list of the 150 Worst and Safest Countries for LGBTQ travel ; the article made the link between many countries which have “anti-gay” legislation and their status as former British colonies. Add that to the dirty laundry list of colonialism – widespread criminalisation of non-hetero activities and the breeding of stigmas that still lingers to this day.

When thinking about the regions of the world and how dangerous it would be to travel gay there, I thought about this question: what would happen if I held the hand of my same-sex partner in public in this area?

If no one would blink an eye – I think this is a pretty accepting area. If there may be some eyebrows raised and judgement passed, but ultimately little risk of violence, then it’s amber. If there is a threat of violence or holding hands could be seen as criminal, this is a red area for gay travellers.

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There is no easy way to generalise whole countries. As we know, some of us come from green zone countries and yet still face homophobia from our families or communities. Conversely, some places that are likely safe for LGBTQ travellers are not safe for LGBTQ locals.

And within countries that on the whole are unaccepting, there are still some of the best gay cities to be found. Mexico is a good example of this. Even though it is a country that can be quite conservative and overtly violent toward LGBTQ travellers and locals, Mexico City is one of the safest and most enjoyable cities for gay travellers in the Americas!

Also, some countries in South America, for example, might seem like they wouldn’t be considered ‘safe’ countries. I would argue that somewhere like Brazil will add elements of danger to your travels, but they won’t necessarily stem from your sexuality.

Gay or straight, walking through a favela in the early hours of the morning will lead to you fighting street dogs at best and at worst… Let’s just say there is an element of common sense to all travel.

Tl;dr? Life is murky soup: use common sense.

How to Travel in the ‘Red’ Areas (some ideas from one queer to another)

And on the topic of common sense…

  • Sometimes masking is your safest option. As one friend glibly put it to me: “There’s no problem travelling gay – you just pretend you’re straight.” But in all seriousness, if you find yourself in an unsafe area – in any country – sometimes it’s best to just play the game.
  • Travel with someone else anywhere you don’t feel safe. There is strength in numbers should something go terribly wrong. But another person can be all the confidence boost you need when travelling somewhere you don’t feel super safe in.
  • Always let your mum (or a friend) know where you’re going and when you expect to be back. That way, if you are alone and the worst does come to pass, there are people in the know who can raise the alarm.

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There are general safety tips that apply to ALL travellers.

Things like not showing off your sexy, shiny new watch and locking your valuables away… It’s always worth keeping an eye on the weather before you head out and go on a hike you’ve never done before… And for veteran backpackers, these things become second nature.

However, I do want to highlight a couple of extra safety tips that are unique to the queer travel community.

Down to the Fun Stuff

Hook up apps are da bomb ! They are a tried and tested method to find love and sex on the road . Where else can you find the best bars to go to and also chat with cute-ass strangers? But I’m gonna lightly drizzle on this parade.

If you do use dating apps in countries where there are legal or violent repercussions for being gay, a quick word of warning: the police and other vigilantes have been known to use apps to lure other gay men to icky ends.

Do I think this is fucked up? Absolutely.

Do I get riled up for a twenty-minute rant about why the fight for LGBTQ rights is far from over and then voice memo it to my colleague at 8.30 in the morning? Fucking oath I do. (But he loves it.)

BUUUUT… do I still think that Grindr can be a super fun way to meet people on the road? Hellz yeah!

The same goes for casual sex. The backpacker life and hook up culture go together like good wine and gay cities. There’s a fair bit of experimenting and the odd romance on the road that makes you believe in love again. Why shouldn’t gay travellers indulge in the same sexy smush times?

You just gotta do it safely. Safe sex is good sex.

Young backpackers dancing on a bar whilst partying in Cambodia, Southeast Asia

Yes, safe sex includes raspberry-flavoured condoms but it also involves some genuine sensitivity, open communication, and the odd moment of vulnerability. Free love is about love as much as it is about sex, so be kind to each other.

Also, sex toys are considered illegal in several countries. This is something worth knowing before your bag gets searched at the airport and suddenly old mate from customs is wielding three of your double-ended dildos! (Was that one a personal anecdote?)

Travel Insurance – The Not So Sexy Essential

When your sense of direction is as shit as mine is, you find yourself in some interesting travel situations. Sometimes it’s in the back room of a sex club in Bangkok; sometimes it’s assisting a sailor to extract a botfly from his own leg and trying not to vomit in your mouth.

Basically, the best travel can get weird . To cover your butt while you’re out adventuring – I’d highly recommend getting some travel insurance.

ALWAYS sort out your backpacker insurance before your trip. There’s plenty to choose from in that department, but a good place to start is Safety Wing .

They offer month-to-month payments, no lock-in contracts, and require absolutely no itineraries: that’s the exact kind of insurance long-term travellers and digital nomads need.

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What to Pack for LGBTQ Travel

A gay traveller with a pink plushie strapped to the outside of his backpack.

Along with the usual essential travel items , there’s a few extra items that you don’t want to forget! If you’re taking PrEP, or hormone medication, make sure you have enough to last through your trip. These are not often readily available throughout the world.

As I mentioned before, sex toys are illegal in many countries . They have been used in some instances as evidence that a gay or transgender person was intending to work as a sex worker in that travel destination.

Do I call bullshit? Yup. This is likely discrimination through and through. But call a spade a spade, know the risks, and hide your sex toys well.

Also if you are travelling as a transgender or gender non-conforming person, getting through airport security – no matter what country – can be an extra challenge. Things like having paperwork from your doctor explaining why you might be travelling with needles, or having a passport photo that looks as close to your appearance as possible can make it a little easier. I’m going to pass the mic to this excellent breakdown of the challenges trans folk face with the TSA.

Top Tips LGBTQ Travellers Wish They Could Tell Their Younger Selves

  • Hook up apps aren’t just for hook ups! The best bars, the most secluded hikes, and even some of the best street food can all be found by having a chat on hook up apps. Also, not to be crass, but you can also find certain substances on there too if you’re so inclined. It’s not all bang city!
  • But they are still good for hook ups. Duh! Especially when you are new to a place, one way of meeting people is a cheeky swipe of Tinder or Grindr.
  • Don’t be afraid of the world . “I wish I had been less afraid,” is the phrase that came up again and again when talking with other LGBTQ travellers about their first time on the road. The world is not as scary as we make it out to be and you’ll always find your tribe.
  • Travel provides the anonymity to find yourself . Sexuality is a complicated beast and it’s hard to listen to yourself and what you truly want over the din of other people. Sometimes you have to become a ‘no one’ and unwatched by friends and family to give yourself the space to learn more about yourself as a traveller, as a gay person, and as a human on this crazy planet.
  • GO TRAVELLING SOONER. This is the NUMBER ONE tip for gay travellers. You can always come home (or find a home). But leaving and discovering the world and your place in it rewards you 1000-fold. Go travelling as soon as you can. Whether that means hitchhiking for the first time , or backpacking around Europe, or a road trip up the coast of your home country. Just go travelling sooner.

The top questions gay travellers always want to know!

Can I still travel alone if I’m gay?

Of course you can! And I’m a huge advocate of solo travel for LGBTQ folks as well as anyone else. Will you always be comfortable? Probably not. You can do your best to be safe, and you can do all the ‘right’ things, but ultimately there is risk. Nonetheless, I think you should still travel alone as an LGBTQ person. Fear should not be a limiting factor in your growth or adventure.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you as a gay traveller?

So many little moments of hilarity spring up when travelling but this one comes to mind: I was in a market in New Delhi, India, on a sort-of-not-quite-but-definitely-a-date that lesbians are fond of. She began haggling hard with one of the vendors for a scarf while I sat on the milk crate. Shopping, unfortunately, has never really been my thing. Two other young Indian guys were waiting for their girlfriends in nearby market stalls. I started chatting to one of them who realised I was also waiting for my girlfriend, like he was. Once that penny dropped, he kept showing me photos of his brother and his brother’s husband in America and suggesting the best underground gay bars in New Delhi! I guess it wasn’t so much funny as incredibly sweet. Life is murky soup: people are always people.

Will travelling LGBT be dangerous?

It’s most likely not going to be dangerous! Especially if you pick a destination that is known for being welcoming to LGBTQ travellers. You could learn salsa in Medellin or hike in Portugal or party it up in Bangkok! And even if you do push into countries that aren’t known for being LGBTQ friendly, there are no guarantees that you will face danger. But you may find yourself editing the way you present yourself to the world at times.

How do I deal with people who don’t accept me as gay?

A good friend of mine (in her words) is a “fat, hot lesbian”. I think I’ll throw it to her to answer this one: “I grew up near London. I’ve had mouthy twats… if they see a gay person, you know, I can’t even count how many times I’ve been told, YOU FAT LESBIAN. But you’re not telling me anything I don’t know, ya prick! I’m fat and I’m gay well done you’ve got eyes! But in all seriousness, you can’t expect that someone who’s been raised in a Church for twenty, forty, fifty years who has been told that being gay is a sin to just suddenly love the first gay person they meet. You will also be wrong about a lot of things in your life, and this is just something they’re fucking wrong about.”

Should I ever hide being gay while travelling?

I think there is a distinction between hiding your sexuality publicly and ignoring it personally. Sometimes I do think that hiding that you are gay while travelling is the safest option. Knowing a country and how risky it is to LGBTQ travellers helps, but ultimately there will be moments that set off your intuition. Listen to your gut and get the hell out of dodge. But even as you might have to hide yourself publicly, you should never forget within yourself who you are or what you stand for.

By now I think it’s clear that I want everyone to go travelling as soon as you can. You have the space to grow into yourself without the pressures or expectations of home. You get to push yourself into the best version of yourself.

Two men show off their beer bellies while travelling gay together.

I know it would be a lie to say that I never faced hurdles for being queer. You have to look the beast in the eye and know that some regions of the world still don’t accept the LGBTQ community.

However, this should not be a reason for you to stay at home. The greater presence of gay travellers then the more normalised we become, and the less dangerous it is for the LGBTQ travellers that come after us.

Also, there is far too much good coffee and the fresh mango on this side of the Pacific to be sampled for LGBTQ travellers to simply stay at home! You’ve got continents to hitchhike and the great gay cities to enjoy. Travel bonds are supercharged, and you can’t help but come back with friends that you never can quite kick out of your heart (not that you want to!).

We were never given a script to follow. There is no ‘normal’ life when so many people – even within our own communities – still don’t see who we love as normal . In that sense, there is no point trying to fit your fabulous self into an itty bitty box that only has room for a dead-end job and forgetting to take the trash out. There is all the more reason to explore the world as an LGBTQ traveller.

“Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”

That is to say, joy is an act of resistance . So pack your bags and prepare to travel gay. You’ve got a chiselled stranger, a glass of fine wine, and the secluded beaches of somewhere spectacular to enjoy.

A couple sit at the end of a dock at sunset.

Hey, folks – thank you for making it to the end of the article and I hope you enjoyed it!

Basically, as I touched on at the beginning of the article, I can only write from my experience. If you think that a crucial piece of advice is missing for our queer travelling family – please reach out in the comments. Especially if you are a trans traveller – I’d love to be able to put together some more resources and inspiration for y’all.

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Data scientists and researchers at Misterb&b, the world’s largest LGBTQ + travel community, have used the habits of its 1 million registered users to create an index ranking the gayest cities in the world for 2024.

Founder Matthieu Jost created Misterb&b after he and his partner were victims of homophobia and harassment while trying to rent a room during a vacation in Spain.

The company connects LGBTQ+ travelers with rentals and services provided by family and allies in their destinations.

His latest feature, Weere, now allows travelers to connect socially before they travel. Users can chat with locals or make plans with fellow visitors.

You can learn more at misterbandb.com , but keep scrolling to find the 15 gayest cities in the world for U.S. travelers according to Misterb&b.

15. Atlanta – USA

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Atlanta is the city of hot summer nights and even hotter Southern men.

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14. Miami – USA

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Miami knows how to party all year long.

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What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas — sometimes.

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You can find just about any experience in the City by the Bay.

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The City of Lights is also the unofficial gay city of love.

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Puerto Vallarta is Mexico’s gay Pacific paradise.

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Enjoy fun, food, and sun year-round in San Diego.

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6. Washington, D.C. – USA

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Boys Town celebrates Pride

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The gay men's clothing-optional Descanso Resort in Palm Springs

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2. Fort Lauderdale – USA

Fort Lauderdale beach at night

Fort Lauderdale is known as the Venice of America for its 300+ miles of navigable canals and waterways.

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1. New York City – USA

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7 Best Places For LGBTQ+ Travelers to Visit in 2023

7 Best Places For LGBTQ+ Travelers to Visit in 2023

We count down our top destinations for LGBTQ+ visitors to travel to.

This year LGBTQ + travelers want destinations that offer something special, whether that is cultural immersion, historical or culinary tours, out-of-this world adventure, gorgeous beaches, or just the biggest queer parties on the planet. With that in mind we chose our top seven countries, including destinations in the Americas, Europe , Asia , Oceania, and Africa . Join us as we count down to number one.

Cenote in Mexico by LRC Imagery/Getty Images

Mexico continues to be a top destination for queer travelers. The country’s tourism department (SECTUR) reports 3.5 million LGBTQ+ visitors annually.

The beachside resort town of Acapulco first gained an international queer contingent in the mid-20th century as a magnet for Hollywood celebs. It has recently experienced a resurgence and now its LGBTQ+ scene and businesses are luring more queers back to the region. It’s gaining a reputation as a gay party town with Las Vegas-style drag shows, techno nightclubs, and beachside dancing.

The capital of Jalisco, Guadalajara, is often called the “Gay Capital of Mexico” due to its embrace of the queer community. It is among the most LGBTQ-accepting in Latin America (Mexico City also ranks in the top five). Guadalajara is Mexico’s second largest city and offers diversity in food, cultural, and entertainment options. Its gayborhood is located in the historic center of the city, where parties spill into the streets most nights. Come during February to experience the local Carnival.

The Riviera Maya destination of Playa del Carmen features white-sand beaches and turquoise waters. There are three gay beaches here: Mamitas Beach, Coco Beach, and Xangrila Beach.

Becoming known as the “Mexican San Francisco,” Puerto Vallarta features some of the most beautiful beaches in the LGBTQ-embracing state of Jalisco. The city’s Romantic Zone is a popular spot during the day and locals and tourists mingle at buzzy queer clubs nearly every night of the week. During Pride (celebrated here in May), the neighborhood becomes one big block party. Puerto Vallarta offers many activities for those who want to have more adventurous experiences, including day trips to Punta de Mita and nearby Marietas Islands, where the diversity of birds and sea life has earned it the nickname of “the Mexican Galapagos.”

#6 Australia

Australia by Louise Denton Photography/Getty Images.

Australia is a dream destination for adventurers, albeit a distant one. The nation’s Great Barrier Reef just off the coast of Queensland is rightfully on many travelers’ bucket lists — and Sydney is undeniably a gay hot spot. But with abundant natural beauty, outdoor adventures, historical sites, and a rich Indigenous peoples’ culture, the island continent has much more to see.

In Sydney, New South Wales, the world-famous Harbor Bridge and Opera House are must-sees, with the more daring climbing the bridge itself. Also worth a visit is the Royal Botanical Gardens, the gay Oxford Street LGBTQ+ district, and the Sea Life Aquarium to observe Sphen and Magic (aka Sphengic), the world-famous gay penguin couple. You can also learn about Australia’s history as a penal colony with visits to Cockatoo Island and the Hyde Park Barracks. Walk the cliffs outside Bondi Beach and Manley, where at least 80 gay men were killed in the latter portion of the last century.

In Queensland the Great Barrier Reef may be the most famous tourist destination, but the state is also home to Daintree Rainforest.

At Adelaide in southern Australia, you can cage-dive with great white sharks. The area is also renowned for its wine regions, including McLaren Vale, Barossa Valley, Adelaide Hills, Clare Valley, and Coonawarra. To truly get off the beaten path, head north to Darwin, famous for its 86 degree waters. The Tiwi Islands, home to a large Indigenous population, are renowned for fishing and isolated resorts. The waters here are crystal clear and invitingly warm, but patrolled by deadly crocs.

Retrace the route of the 1994 film The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert , starting at the Imperial Hotel in Sydney, Proudly LGBTQ+ since 1983, the hotel features Priscillas, Drag N Dine, and Carlotta's Rooftop. Follow Imperial with visits to Broken Hill and its Queenslander-styled Palace Hotel , the mining community of Coober Pedy (BYO ping pong balls), and finishing at the Lasseters Hotel Casino in Alice Springs.

In late February and early March, Sydney will be hosting its annual Mardi Gras as well as Sydney WorldPride . It’s the first time WorldPride will be held in the southern hemisphere.

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Malta is a small archipelago of islands, just off the southern coast of Sicily in the Mediterranean Sea. The country has been continuously occupied for almost 8,000 years as an important port and trading hub connecting Europe, Africa, and the Middle East. Its culture reflects these intersectional roots and Maltese food is a nuanced blend of many worlds.

Malta is known for gorgeous views and perfect year-round weather. Peak season is both crowded and pricey, but in spring or fall, fewer tourists compete for space on its beaches and in its restaurants.

Visit the fortified cities of Mdina and Birgu, the former established by Phoenicians in the 8th century B.C.E. Gozo should still be high on your list, even without the Azure Window, a limestone arch that once reached into the sea before collapsing in 2017. Visit the world-renowned Blue Lagoon on the island of Camino. The breathtaking natural pool features deep azure-colored waters.

Malta is gaining a reputation as one of the most queer-inclusive spots in Europe, with festive annual Pride celebrations every September. It would be difficult to name every gay bar and LGBTQ-welcoming establishment in Malta, but there are a few that top our list. We love club Lollipop, located in the coastal capital city of Valetta. The Birdcage Lounge in Rabat has a fun mixed crowd and karaoke. Though not an exclusively LGBTQ+ space, lesbian-owned Maori is popular due to its monthly parties for queer women. The Phoenicia in Valletta offers 1920s elegance and 5-star luxury while the Marco Polo Party Hostel in St Julian’s provides a lively mixed crowd.

#4 Thailand

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Thailand has a rich culture and long embrace of gender and sexual diversity, and outlaws LGBTQ+ discrimination. In the most LGBTQ-welcoming country in South East Asia, Bangkok is considered the region’s queer capital. On the city’s pedestrian-only streets in the gayborhood Silom, you’ll find gay bars including Circus, Balcony, and Stranger Bar (considered the epicenter of Bangkok drag culture). The neighborhood features many other LGBTQ+ establishments including hotels, massage parlors, clubs, saunas, and restaurants. After partying all night refresh by checking in for an advanced wellness experience at luxury spa Sindhorn Wellness by Resense.

Bangkok is enough to captivate any traveler for weeks on end, but you’ll want to visit other areas as well. Taking a train is a great way to travel through Thailand, but some areas can only be reached by boat. Gay tours are abundant, for example, Out Of Office offers numerous options from island hopping to culinary tours to a New Year’s celebration on a gay beach.

Phuket is another common queer destination. There the Patong neighborhood plays home to gay bar and cabaret club Zig Bar/Zag Club and the Patong beach where Phuket Pride is held each year.

Visit Koh Samui in southern Thailand, where the queer-run Samui Elephant Sanctuary allows elephants to retire from giving rides or entertaining tourists. Enjoy your own refuge at gay-owned Six Senses Samui Thailand which features an infinity pool overlooking the gulf of Thailand — and your own tree house. Party at Pride Bar Samui which features drag queens and karaoke.

#3 South Africa

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South Africa is a land of amazing natural and cultural contrasts and is a much sought-after destination for adventurous LGBTQ+ travelers.

No visit to South Africa is complete without an extended stay in Cape Town. This cosmopolitan city has a vibrant food and arts scene with plenty of opportunities for exploring, and iconic Table Mountain looms over it all. To sample the city’s eclectic art scene try a walking tour of the Woodstock Street Art District. The Cape Town region also offers hiking, swimming, surfing, sport fishing, and golf. You can also try your hand at lawn bowling or take in a match of cricket. Day trips to nearby wine regions are highly recommended, with many tour operators providing outings.

Another must-see destination is Robben Island northwest of the city. Nelson Mandela served 18 of his 27 years in prison here. The island penal colony had a reputation for harsh conditions and prisoner abuse. Closed for good in 1996, it is now a South African National Heritage Site as well as an UNESCO World Heritage Site.

There is no hiding the nation’s ugly history of apartheid, the institutional system of racial segregation that plagued South Africa for decades. And yet the people persevered and overcame the oppressive system and continue to address the injustices that it wrought. Johannesburg’s Apartheid Museum enumerates those errors, while offering hope for the country’s future by highlighting the nation’s constitutional pillars enshrining freedom and equality (including for LGBTQ+ people). Consider also exploring the city with a walking tour, which can include spots important to both Mandela and Mahatma Gandhi, the Indian leader who lived in South Africa for over two decades.

An hour-long flight south takes you to Durban, famed for its Golden Mile of shoreline on the Indian Ocean. The city is home to the largest concentration of Indian nationals outside of India, and their cultural influences are reflected in the area’s diverse foodie scene. A visit to the nearby Valley of 1000 Hills provides an excellent opportunity to learn more about the Zulus, the country’s largest Indigenous tribe.

North of the city, a wind-blown, nondescript location is home to the Nelson Mandela Capture Site memorial and museum documenting not just Mandela’s 1962 arrest and 27-year imprisonment, but also the Nobel Prize winner’s subsequent political contributions.

#2 The Dutch Caribbean

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The Caribbean islands represent a range of communities whose diversity has been intensified by their colonial pasts. The Dutch Caribbean (once known as the Dutch West Indies) are islands once claimed by the Netherlands, specifically: Aruba, Curaçao, and Sint Maarten.

The Dutch are some of the most accepting of LGBTQ+ rights and these islands embrace queer travelers, (though some admittedly haven’t extended true equality to all their own citizens).

Sint Maarten is half an island (the other half is Saint Martin, which follows French laws, including marriage equality). On the Dutch side, homosexuality was never a crime, but the government hasn’t embraced same-sex marriage rights. You’ll find plenty to do here when you can pull yourself away from the gorgeous beaches. The restaurant L’Escargot is known for its French cooking, and La Cage Aux Folles- style cabarets. Bliss is the island’s best gay-friendly nightclub. The open-air space has a pool, dance floor, and two bars that specialize in creative mixology, plus plenty of space for lounging.

Aruba hasn’t codified LGBTQ+ equality in law, but queer travelers will find themselves warmly welcomed to the “One happy island” that prides itself on embracing diversity. Those seeking adventure should turn to De Palm Tours for dune tours and off-road safaris; as well as SNUBA, snorkeling, and semi-submersible exploration of the underwater world. Pamper yourself with a visit to the spas at The Ritz-Carlton, Aruba , or Aruba Marriott Resort & Stellaris Casino . Outside the hurricane belt, Aruba offers year-round sunshine, vibrant art and culinary scenes, and ambitious sustainability efforts. At last report, 7 Club Lounge Bar (@7), once known as Jimmy’s Place, remains closed.

Curaçao is one of the Caribbean’s smaller islands, with a population of 160,000, off the coast of Venezuela. The island never criminalized homosexual relations and in 2011, passed anti-discrimination protections for gay and bisexual people. Lyric’s Café was once the island’s only regular queer venue, but many locals now drink and dance at Wet and Wild Beach Club. Floris Suite Hotel’ s LGBTQ+ Rainbow Lounge holds quarterly parties and events. Nearby Moomba Beach is an adults-only gay-friendly beach where the boys hang out.

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Canada is one of the most LGBTQ-inclusive countries in the world. In fact, it topped the 2022 LGBTQ+ Travel Safety Index , an annual ranking of the 203 safest (and worst) countries for queer travel. America’s neighbor to the north also has stunningly beautiful wilderness, leading ski resorts, vibrant Indigenous communities, and culturally diverse cities.

In the predominately French-speaking province of Quebec, Montréal has old-world European charm in neighborhoods with cobblestoned streets. The annual Fierté Montréal Pride Festival is one of Canada’s most colorful. The Gay Village’s Rue Sainte-Catherine, becomes a walking promenade during most summer months and the queers have busted out of the neighborhood, spilling into the surrounding historic district with additional LGBTQ-owned shops, spas, and restaurants.

On the banks of the Great Lakes, Toronto is said to hold the title for the most diverse metropolis in the world, where 230 nationalities are represented and the residents speak over 140 languages. The largest city in Canada’s kaleidoscope of cultures has helped spice up the vibrant culinary scene and neighborhoods. Toronto’s celebration of diversity extends to its LGBTQ+ citizens. The Village at Church and Wellesley remains a queer institution and the trendy Queen Street West is sprinkled with new LGBTQ+ hangouts.

Calgary is in the Alberta prairie but perfectly located to explore the Canadian Rockies and the country’s most stunning national parks. Nearby Jasper Basin holds one of the top gay ski weeks. Calgary is also known for its cowboys, and the city hosts the world’s largest gay rodeo association, so visitors may be surprised at its metropolitan neighborhoods and shocked it’s home to the biggest queer Canadian nightclub west of Montreal, Twisted Element.

Between the Pacific Ocean and the base of North Shore Mountains, Vancouver is a beautiful city that draws LGBTQ+ visitors year-round. Its location provides a great starting point for outdoor adventure whether it’s hiking the local trails, kayaking to Vancouver Island, or hitting the nearby slopes at Whistler, Canada’s top ski resort. As the country’s biggest port, the city has attracted a diverse population, which has helped fuel its bourgeoning foodie and art scenes. There are two gayborhoods: Davie Village, with a wide variety of gay bars, restaurants, and stores; and Commercial Drive (also locally known as The Drive), home to a thriving lesbian community. The largest Pride celebration in western Canada is held in Vancouver every August.

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The World’s 30 Best Gay-Friendly Travel Destinations 2020

While any travel destination should offer a wonderful experience for all, the fact of the matter is that this just isn’t the case. Fortunately, myriad destinations around the world are rolling out the red carpet for travelers of all kinds, including those who are LGBTQ+. Below, we’ve highlighted 30 of the world’s best gay-friendly travel destinations for 2020.

Amsterdam, Netherlands

The Netherlands has long been known as one of the most progressive and tolerant countries on Earth, and that makes its capital city of Amsterdam an excellent choice of gay-friendly travel destination. Though Amsterdam is not as large of a city as some of its European neighbors, those hoping to experience all of the gay friendliness it has to offer won’t be disappointed booking a hotel in neighborhoods like Kerkstraat, Amstel, or Reguliersdwarsstraat. Here, travelers will find myriad gay clubs, hotels, bars, and even saunas. Amsterdam has a ton of things to see and do, including the heartbreaking Anne Frank House, various art museums, and boat tours of the city’s canals.  

The Caribbean is not really known as a gay-friendly travel destination. Fortunately, there are exceptions, one of which is the beautiful country of Aruba. Book a room at the Bucuti & Tara Beach Resort , an adults-only resort that prides itself on providing a romantic atmosphere for all. When you’re not lounging on the white-sand beach or cooling off in the crystal clear turquoise waters for which Aruba is so famous, be sure to grab a drink or two at Jimmy’s Place, one of Oranjestad’s most famous gay bars.  

Berlin, Germany

Despite the brief Hell that was the Third Reich and World War II, Berlin has a long history of being gay friendly. Today, the city consistently ranks as one of the best destinations for LGBTQ visitors. In addition to the beautiful architecture, the world-class shopping, and the tantalizing food choices, Berlin offers a lively and practically never-ending nightlife scene. Try booking a hotel in the Schöneberg neighborhood, where hotels like the adults-only “heterofriendly” Axel Berlin offer such features as a rooftop hot tub and a solarium-by-day, bar-by-night. And don’t forget to visit SchwuZ Club, one of Berlin’s most famous gay clubs. Check the club’s calendar to ensure you make one of their famous party events, which in the past have included “MadonnaMania” and “Sclagernacktparty” — that is, a naked dance party.    

Cape Town, South Africa

Not only is Cape Town one of the world’s most gorgeous cities, it is also one of the planet’s best travel destinations for LGBTQ travelers. While you’re in Cape Town, you’ll want to experience all that the city has to offer: Table Mountain, Robben Island, wine country, and the Victoria and Albert Waterfront with all of its shops and street performers. Head to the De Waterkant neighborhood for the city’s best gay bars, clubs, and hotels. As you’re deciding on which beach to enjoy, consider Clifton Third, said to be one of the best gay beaches on Earth.  

Chicago, Illinois

If you’ve seen all there is to see in New York or San Francisco, then why not expand your U.S. travel experiences to Chicago? This gorgeous Midwest city is full of picturesque public art installations, historic hotels, and pedestrian-friendly areas like the Riverwalk. There’s also a rapidly growing foodie scene, with more and more celebrity chefs opening restaurants in Chicago every year. If you’re one for nightlife, there are plenty of options. Andersonville is a well-known lesbian community and neighborhood, while Boystown is, as its name suggests, a mecca for gay bars and clubs.    

Copenhagen, Denmark

Denmark was the first country in the world to recognize registered same-sex partnerships — need we say more? LGBTQ+ travelers will love exploring all that Denmark’s capital of Copenhagen has to offer. This colorful city is home to Centralhjørnet, the continent’s oldest gay bar at more than 100 years old. Vesterbro is the perfect neighborhood in which to book a hotel. it’s famous for its on-trend fashion scene, gay bars and clubs, and its many organized parties and special events.  

Of all the Caribbean islands, Curacao is most vocal about welcoming guests from the LGBTQ+ community. Indeed, the Curacao Tourist Board has published on its website: “With exceptional gay friendly hotels and attractions, [Curacao] encourages gay and lesbian travelers to visit the island and experience its ‘live and let live’ atmosphere for themselves.” The same website has loads of information about the island’s gay-friendly resorts, hotels, restaurants, and clubs, and can even arrange a same-sex wedding.

Dublin, Ireland

LGBTQ+ travelers shouldn’t let Ireland’s long-time reputation as a strict Catholic country deter them from visiting. Ireland voted to legalize same-sex marriage in 2015, and since then, its capital city of Dublin has established itself as one of the most queer-friendly travel destinations in the world. While Dublin’s famous Temple Bar has always been a favorite hang out amongst all, there are now entire other streets lined with gay bars, hotels, clubs, and saunas. If possible, time your Dublin trip to coincide with the Dublin Pride parade, held each June.    

If you need some convincing about just how gay-friendly is the Rainbow State, consider this: Hawaiian kings once had in their employ a number of aikane , or young male concubines. Today, the Hawaiian islands remain a welcoming place for LGBTQ travelers, and gay-friendly hotels, bars, and beaches operate on every island.  

Asia isn’t exactly known as a super gay-friendly travel destination, but Hong Kong is an exception. Surely a reflection of its long-time British occupation, Hong Kong is quite forward with regard to LGBTQ+ issues. For the best nightlife and most active scene, head to the Central Business District on Hong Kong Island. If you are willing to travel a bit further, then check out Gold Coast Beach and Middle Bay, both of which are gorgeous beaches with a strong gay presence.  

Iceland has been called “one of the most inclusive places on Earth,” and we absolutely agree. Not only are the Icelandic people warm and welcoming to all, but the country is absolutely stunning and makes a great vacation destination. For the ultimate LGBTQ+ Icelandic experience, try to plan your trip to coincide with Reykjavik’s Pride parade, one of the oldest in all of Europe. And don’t forget to take advantage of the country’s many natural sights, including:

  • geothermal lagoons
  • waterfalls, geysers, and more.  

Los Angeles, California

Los Angeles and its surrounding areas have long been considered one of the best vacation destinations for the LGBTQ+ community. The most famous gay scenes can be found in West Hollywood, the San Fernando Valley, and Silver Lake, or at beaches like Will Rogers State Beach near Santa Monica. Myriad restaurants, bars, and hotels throughout the area cater to the LGBTQ+ population, including Roosterfish , one of the most famous gay dive bars in the country.  

Melbourne, Australia

Australia’s second largest city is its most gay-friendly city. To experience life down under, head to the St. Kilda neighborhood. The gay and lesbian communities are active here, and there are tons of nightclubs, restaurants, cafes, and shops to enjoy. The beaches are excellent, too. Try to plan your trip around the Midsumma Festival, a three-week arts and culture festival which takes place from mid-January to early February (or “mid summer” as it would be in the Southern Hemisphere).  

Montevideo, Uruguay

Situated between Brazil and Argentina in South America, Uruguay has been rated the 9th friendliest country on Earth. That friendliness extends to its LGBTQ+ residents and visitors. Indeed, same-sex marriage is legal in Uruguay after only three months of residency. The country’s capital city of Montevideo is especially appealing to gay travelers, as it boasts a number of restaurants, bars, and clubs which cater to the LGBTQ+ community. Usually around September, the city hosts the Diversity March, their version of the Gay Pride Parade.  

Mykonos, Greece

The next international destination on our list of the most gay-friendly travel spots is Mykonos. Besides being welcoming to the LGBTQ+ population, Mykonos is a place of stunning natural landscapes, unique architecture, and a seemingly never-ending party scene. Oh, and if you’re into nude beaches, Mykonos has those, too. Elia Beach is especially popular amongst Mykonos’s gay community, as is Jackie O’Beach, a busy beachside bar complete with a pool, hot tubs, daily drag show, and even a private church for weddings.  

New York City, New York

New York City prides itself on its open-mindedness and inclusive culture. There’s also a ton to see and do. Besides making the expected stops, head to The Stonewall Inn, where the 1969 Stonewall Riots occurred. Other LGTBQ+ landmarks in NYC include:

  • the Leslie Lohman Museum
  • the Harvey Milk School
  • the Lesbian Herstory Archives

For the best gay-friendly nightlife, check out Chelsea, Hell’s Kitchen, and the West Village.  

New Zealand

New Zealand is another place that prides itself on its inclusivity. In fact, the country was the first in the world to create and use the “Gay/Lesbian Friendly” accommodations label. Travelers interested in seeing some breathtaking natural scenery will have their pick of itinerary options, and with nearly 100 gay-owned home stays throughout the North and South islands, their pick of places to stay, too. For the most exciting nightlife, there’s no question that Auckland is the place to be.  

Nice, France

There’s a growing gay presence in Nice, the French Riviera’s biggest city. Known as a place of luxury, Nice boasts myriad bars, cafes, saunas, hotels, and more that cater to the LGBTQ+ community. This is especially true in the part of the city known as Old Town, and along the Mediterranean waterfront — just look for the rainbow flags! For a beach experience, we recommend Castel Plage and Coco Beach.

Palm Springs, California

Palm Springs has long been a favorite travel destination of LGBTQ+ travelers. The city — which is known worldwide for its kitschy and flamboyant local culture — is home to a number of gay-friendly restaurants, bars, clubs, hotels, and shops. Toucans Tiki Lounge and Cabaret has become famous for its delightful drag revue, while restaurants like Eight4Nine Restaurant and Lounge welcome all guests with yummy global-inspired small plates. Gay travelers will have their pick of hotels and resorts, some of which are clothing-optional.  

Puerto Rico

The fact that Puerto Rico is a short flight from the United States makes it an appealing travel destination. But the fact that it’s ranked as one of the most gay-friendly places on Earth makes it a slam dunk. Indeed, as a U.S. territory, Puerto Rico offers travelers the protection of the same anti-discrimination laws that are in mainland U.S., and same-sex marriage is legal. Puerto Rico is home to what has been called “the Caribbean’s only real gay nightlife scene.” That is, of course, referring to San Juan, where travelers will find the Eros club and the Atlantic Beach Hotel and Bar , which is set on a gay beach and hosts a weekly drag show). Other gay-friendly resorts can be found throughout Puerto Rico.  

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

Rio has a lot to offer the LGBTQ traveler, so it’s not surprising that this vibrant Brazilian city consistently ranks as one of the most popular gay-friendly travel destinations in the world. Dozens of hotels and clubs cater specifically to the city’s LGBTQ+ population, while a number of Gay Pride celebrations occur throughout the year citywide. In addition to must-see sites and events like Christ the Redeemer, Sugarloaf Mountain, and Carnival, Rio is home to some of Earth’s most famous beaches, including:

  • Ipanema.    

San Francisco, California

San Francisco is practically synonymous with LGBTQ+ culture, and has a long important history of paving the way for gay rights. The City by the Bay is also remarkably beautiful. Gay-friendly restaurants, clubs, hotels, and bars are a dime a dozen in San Francisco. Even so, the area of the city where most of the fun happens is The Castro.  

Sitges, Spain

Located just southwest of Barcelona, Sitges is one of Europe’s most popular gay-friendly beach destinations. The first gay disco in Spain opened in Sitges, followed by a slew of other gay-friendly hotels, restaurants, clubs, and more. The beaches range from clothing-required to clothing-optional, though all are pristine sandy beaches located right on the Mediterranean. Before you go, check out the Sitges calendar of events, because the town is known for its many gay events that take place throughout the year.  

St. Barts is often referred to as the most gay-friendly island in the Caribbean. Whether or not that’s, it is sure to be a safe, welcoming, and beautiful destination for any traveler in the LGBTQ+ community. The local culture is laid back, and most accommodations include an option for private villas. Sounds good to us!

Tel Aviv, Israel

Tel Aviv isn’t just gay friendly, it’s been called an “LGBT utopia.” The city is known for its swank cafes, gorgeous beaches, and slew of interesting cultural and historical sites. Must visits include the Hilton Gay Beach, which often hosts swimsuit-optional parties, and Evita, the oldest gay bar in Tel Aviv. Try to match up your visit with the city’s huge annual Pride festival, which attracts people from all over the world.  

Buddhists are well known for their friendly, open-minded nature. And considering Thailand is made up of 95% Buddhists, then it’s safe to say that Thailand makes for a great gay-friendly travel destination. Most gay travelers head to Bangkok, where they find dozens of gay-friendly hotels, clubs, bars, and other establishments. Another popular destination is the southern part of the country, especially Phuket.  

Toronto, Canada

Toronto has the advantage of being both extremely gay friendly and located only a short distance from the United States. There are lots of gay-friendly establishments in The Village, the part of Toronto known for its theater scene, museums, and other cultural sites. A number of events take place in Toronto throughout the calendar year, including Pride Week, the Pride March, and the Dyke March.  

Tulum, Mexico

Located on the Yucatan Peninsula, Tulum is well known for its laid-back beachy vibe. The locale has long been known as a welcoming destination for gay travelers. Indeed, Tulum’s native Mayans were very tolerant of sexual diversity. You won’t go wrong booking at any resort or eating at any restaurant in Tulum itself, though nearly Playa del Carmen does have quite a few exclusively gay bars.  

U.S. Virgin Islands

Like Puerto Rico, the U.S. Virgin Islands are subject to the same anti-discrimination laws as the mainland United States. Gay travelers can expect a tolerant attitude throughout the islands, though St. Croix is known to be especially welcoming to and popular amongst those in the LGBTQ+ community. For a great gay-friendly resort, check out the Sand Castle on the Beach Resort in Fredericksted.    

Like Hong Kong, Vietnam is one of Asia’s more gay-friendly destinations. In 2016, the country’s new government ended its ban on same-sex unions (though same-sex marriage is still not fully recognized). There’s lots to see and do in Vietnam, and the country has a wonderfully inviting culture in which one will want to immerse oneself. For the best gay-friendly bars, hotels, clubs, and saunas, base yourself in Hanoi.  

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6 of the Top Gay-friendly Resorts Around the World

Planning the ultimate gaycation? Travel + Leisure spoke with travel agents who specialize in helping LGBT travelers plan luxe adventures around the world to pick some of the top gay-friendly resorts on Earth.

All recognized on T+L's A-List (an annual selection of the world's best travel agents) in the last three years, John Clifford, Lynda Turley, and David Rubin pointed to luxe properties in buzzy European cities and Hawaiian islands.

Whether you want easy access to amazing gay bars or undisturbed beaches, you can count on all of six these properties to be welcoming, design-forward, and LGBT-friendly.

The Late Birds in Lisbon, Portugal

John Clifford, of International Travel Management, loves Portugal’s under-visited capital for its food, fashion, and scenic location along the Tagus River. He recommends the intimate Late Birds resort for gay travelers. The men-only boutique inn from owners Carlos Ruvio and Sonia Santiago occupies an 18th century villa with a sleek, contemporary design. “A mix of steampunk and bohemian luxe round out the lounge, bar, gallery, and pool,” Clifford told T+L.

Hotel Esencia in Riviera Maya, Mexico

Formerly the vacation home to an Italian duchess, and later a mediocre resort, the now upscale Hotel Esencia sits on 50 waterfront acres between Tulum and Playa del Carmen. Owner Kevin Wendle and his partner purchased it in 2014 and set about upping the glam factor. They added Mid-Century decor and Charlotte Perriand furnishings, attracting “high octane gay couples and fashion’s elite” to enjoy the resort and its powder-white beach, according to Clifford.

Halekulani in Honolulu, Hawaii

“ Halekulani is one of my favorites,” said Lynda Turley of Alpine Travel. “You feel as soon as you enter the property that you are somewhere quiet and relaxed.” The beachside resort is an oasis of tranquility, with soothing rooms done in signature “seven shades of white” and balconies overlooking Waikiki and Diamond Head beyond. For LGBT visitors, it’s just minutes away from the gay bars, and an easy walk to the gay beach at the far end of Waikiki.

Otahuna Lodge in Christchurch, New Zealand

Gay-owned Otahuna Lodge , outside of Christchurch, is a “stunning Victorian mansion with its own organic garden,” said Turley. “But what makes it really special are its hosts, owners Miles and Hall.” The couple gave up real estate and publishing careers in New York City to refurbish the 30-acre estate, which had fallen into disrepair. They turned it into one of the South Island’s most stylish getaways. Explore nearby vineyards or volcanoes during your stay, but linger long enough to walk the manicured lawns, visit the spa, and enjoy five-course, property-grown dinners.

Uxua Casa Hotel & Spa in Trancoso, Brazil

“An amazing, relaxed, LGBTQ-welcoming property in the totally cool Brazilian beachside town of Trancoso” is how David Rubin, owner of DavidTravel, describes Uxua Casa Hotel & Spa . “The owners are hip and in the design industry,” he added. And it shows. The 500-year-old villas, dating back to the UNESCO-protected village’s founding, are now a study in beachy simplicity, with dark wood furnishings accenting the whitewashed walls. Walk a few minutes through mangroves and you’ll find yourself on an undisturbed — unless Anderson Cooper happens to be there — stretch of sand with turquoise waves lapping at the shoreline.

Four Seasons Resort Lana’i Lodge at Koele in Lanai, Hawaii

Closed for renovations since 2015, Four Seasons Resort Lana’i Lodge at Koele is a perennial favorite for Rubin. The resort sprawls across 20 acres of Lanai’s central highlands, with rooms overlooking manicured croquet and bowling lawns, rolling hills, and glimpses of the ocean far below. He’s excited for it to reopen in 2018, when guests will once again be able to explore the rugged island by foot, horse, or jeep, and relax by the lodge’s enormous stone fireplaces. Rubin particularly applauds the staff for its attentive care, like welcome notes for Mr. & Mr., for example.

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The world’s most LGBTQ+-friendly cities, according to LGBTQ+ travellers

From São Paulo to Stockholm, these are the best cities for queer travellers around the world – according to people who know them best

Happy Pride Month, one and all! It’s the most wonderful time of the year, and to celebrate, we asked Time Out’s LGBTQ+-identifying writers and editors to tell us all about their favourite city on the planet. The resulting list covers all four corners of the globe, from the beaches of Brazil to the creative hub of Glasgow ’s Southside. These are cities with a vibrant queer community, cities that support and protect  LGBTQ+ citizens and visitors, and  cities that are notable hubs for LGBTQ+ life in their respective countries and regions. So, what are the world’s most LGBTQ+-friendly cities? While we couldn’t possibly name them all, these are some of our favourites.

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New York City, USA

1.  New York City, USA

Sticking to just one LGBTQ+ scene in New York is like doing drag in the middle of the day: it’s possible but not advisable. I’ve had equally fun nights out hitting up the piano bar circuit of Duplex, Marie’s Crisis and the Monster in the West Village, bopping to top 40 at Hell’s Kitchen bars like Rise and Industry and dancing all night to house and techno at Brooklyn hot spots like Good Room, Elsewhere and 3 Dollar Bill. I’ve also found that it’s a good policy to check out what one-off LGBTQ+ events are happening at Knockdown Center in Queens.

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2.  Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

I’ve called Puerto Vallarta in Jalisco, Mexico (the unofficial LGBTQ+ capital of Latin America) home for two years. I arrived on the last day of pride in 2021 and headed straight to the lesbian-owned-and-operated bar, Elixir Mixology . I instantly felt accepted and decided to make Puerto Vallarta my homebase. Same-sex marriage has been legal in Jalisco since 2016, and Puerto Vallarta has been a queer destination since the 1960s when Elizabeth Taylor moved to town and gay travelers began flocking to the area. Emiliano Zapata is the town’s gayborhood where many LGBTQ+ events take place, including Vallarta Pride , BeefDip , and nightly drag shows.

London, England

3.  London, England

London ’s streets are drenched in queer history: they’ve been stalked by Virginia Woolf and Oscar Wilde, hosted secret gay coffee houses, and fought over by generations of activists. But what I love about its LGBTQ+ scene is that it's anything but stuck in the past. While this country was losing its mind over the corrie naish, I was watching drag kings rip into an outdated institution at Dalston alt-cabaret haven The Glory. London's brand new LBGTQ+ Community Centre offers classes in decolonising queerness or comfort activism, while bookshop The Common Press puts intersectionality first. And if you want an old-school night on the tiles? Soho's buzzing, storied gay district is still pretty hard to beat.

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4.  Melbourne, Australia

I’ll never forget the morning of November 15, 2017, when the results of Australia’s same-sex marriage equality came in. We’d won. Nerve-wracking doesn’t come close to describing the painful few months that preceded our victory – but the one thing that held us together? Community. In many ways, the struggle for our rights made Melbourne ’s queer community even stronger. The LGBTQ+ scene reflects the city’s creative, slightly rebellious personality, especially in the arty inner northern neighbourhoods of Fitzroy and Collingwood. Smith Street, has become the northside’s unofficial LGBTQ+ nightlife village, but it’s not just about partying. On any night of the week, you could catch a subversive drag king show at Beers for Queers at the The Fox Hotel, a poetry reading at Hares and Hyenas bookshop, a queer pottery throwdown at Pink Ember Studio, comedy at Pride of our Footscray or visit a neurodiversity-friendly space at Beans Bar. If you visit in May, don’t miss the annual Kylie Birthday Ball at Sircuit Bar , where queer Melbourne’s patron saint is celebrated.

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5.  São Paulo, Brazil

Even though I don’t speak Portuguese, people in São Paulo have been so welcoming each time I visit! The vibe of the city is exciting, especially for queer visitors. LGBTQ+ activism has shaped the character of the city, where being visible is key to dispelling homophobic attitudes in a country that can still be dangerous for queer people. Queer creativity is thriving; visit LGBTQ+ library in Frei (‘Gay’) Caneca Street, or see a spectacle in Blue Space Drag Club . Try to plan a visit in June for the world’s biggest Pride march, which attracts over 2 million people.

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6.  Glasgow, Scotland

Glasgow ’s gay scene is not small, but there is a special place tucked south of the river that’s a haven for LGBTQ+ introverts like me, where just by quietly walking around you feel like you belong. The Southside’s independent bookshops and coffee shops open a space for queer creativity to flourish, and helped to shape my bisexuality. I felt heard and seen the very first time I stepped foot in Category is Books , a small, independent and purposefully queer bookshop. I like to soak up the welcoming energy of busy Victoria Road after an oat flat white from Short Long Black Coffee, and head to the Glasgow Zine Library, a space that gave my bisexual poetry a collective platform to exist.

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7.  Vienna, Austria

We stumbled onto Vienna ’s queer scene by accident. After a friend’s wedding, my partner and I returned to the Parkhotel Schönbrunn. Built in 1787 as an imperial guesthouse, it’s a stately establishment – so the new rainbow lights caught us off guard. So did the queer glam crowd packing the lobby. We’d found the Rainbow Ball, an LGBTQ black tie waltz that’s the unofficial start of  Vienna’s gay calendar . At 2am, we made the only possible choice: we joined in and danced until sunrise. The only downside? The DJ had terrible taste in music and played English-language Christmas songs (in May)!

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8.  Johannesburg, South Africa

Growing up as a queer African with a love for travel was not an easy feat, but Johannesburg became a safe haven for me. It’s where the first African pride march was held in 1990 and since then, the queer movement has continued to grow in South Africa, with the annual October Jo’burg pride now dubbed the Pride of Africa . I usually spend my days exploring the adjoining neighbourhoods of Melville and Illovo, where most of the city’s gay nightlife is. To really get acquainted with Johannesburg’s queer scene, I recommend Babylon Bar and Beefcakes .

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9.  Bristol, England

The city where I shakily set foot in my first ever LGBTQ+ club, Bristol will always hold a special place in my heart. Back then, we used to party at the now-defunct Wonky – an early blueprint for Sink the Pink, according to its Bristolian founder Glyn Fussell – but as the years have passed, this inclusive, experimental spirit has held fast. From the incredibly niche Bristol Bear Bar to the trashy-but-dependable OMG, there’s something for everyone here, and in June beloved London night Big Dyke Energy is set to take over clubbing institution Lakota for a big all-dayer. I also love Modern Queers – the quarterly LGBTQ+ Bristol-based newsletter which cheers up my doormat with its pale pink paper.

Auckland, New Zealand

10.  Auckland, New Zealand

​​Auckland is truly a jewel in New Zealand’s queer scene. I spend most of my time at the bars of Ponsonby – the whole place practically pulsates with energy. Or sometimes I’ll explore the art-infused thoroughfare of Karangahape Road, or ‘K-road’ as it’s affectionately known. Once Auckland’s red light district, the road is now a hub of gay bars and clubs and fabulous drag shows. (Make sure to catch the talented and unapologetic performers at Caluzzu Cabaret ). In Auckland, it’s easy to lose yourself in the warm embrace of the city. I’ve certainly found a place I can truly call home.

Santiago, Chile

11.  Santiago, Chile

Santiago has been my hometown for years and is where I came out in 2016. I’ve seen and lived through a lot of progress in terms of LGBTQ+ rights. Last year, marriage equality was finally legalised! Chile’s capital is a haven for the country’s queer communities who may not experience the same tolerance in other parts of Chile. As a result, there’s an active LGBTQ+ community and plenty of queer spaces. Check out the bustling lesbian hangout Chueca in the trendy Barrio Italia neighbourhood, or explore entire streets packed full of gay clubs in the leafy downtown Bellavista district.

Berlin, Germany

12.  Berlin, Germany

Berlin ’s Schöneberg is one of the world’s oldest queer districts, and every July – along with the rest of the city –  it largely shuts down, as crowds of over 1 million take to the streets for the city’s Pride parade. As an LGBTQ+ capital, Berlin knows how to go big. But whether it’s drag shows and English-language pub quizzes at the Tipsy Bear in Prenzlauer Berg, leather-clad men at Schöneberg’s Prinzknecht , or trans and non-binary night in Kreuzberg’s Möbel Olfe , the city knows how to welcome you among friends. No matter who you are, Berlin loves you back.

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13.  Buenos Aires, Argentina

Buenos Aires is preceded by its reputation as a gay hotspot. After all, it’s the capital of Argentina: a country which introduced same-sex marriage in 2010 and has legally recognised gender self-identification since 2012. The city’s hate crime laws offer protection against discrimination based on gender identity and sexuality, leading to a visible queer contingent on the city's streets. I went to Buenos Aires to ease the sting of heartbreak and, once there, found myself among welcoming friends of friends who were relatively new to the city but knew all of the best queer haunts. Together, we visited LGBTQIA+ cultural centre Batacazo Cultural , a trans-feminist, self-run space that runs queer milongas (tango parties) every week, and danced to reggaeton and Anitta at Glam Disco in Recoleta. During the days, I visited MALBA to see Las Dos Frida by Las Yeguas del Apocalipsis , and was hugely moved to see such a vivid record of the artistic duo.

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14.  Montreal, Canada

Montreal is renowned for being an exceptionally LGBTQ+-friendly city. It offers a welcoming environment with inclusive legal protections, a diverse and accepting community, and vibrant LGBTQ+ neighborhoods like the Gay Village. The city also hosts one of the largest Pride festivals, LGBTQ+ organizations providing resources and support, a cultural scene that highlights queer artists and events, specialised healthcare services to enhance to community’s well-being… I could go on. Though challenges may persist, Montreal is a fantastic place to be LGBTQ+.

Barcelona, Spain

15.  Barcelona, Spain

A pioneer in the fight for LGBTIQ+ rights (it was the first Spanish city to hold a demonstration in 1977), Barcelona is today one of the world’s capitals of tolerance. The ‘Gaixample’ – the Eixample Esquerre enclave where most of the city’s queer-friendly venues are concentrated – continues to fly the flag for the LGBTQ+ community in the city, led by the incombustible Candy Darling : a bar open every day that hosts exciting events. In Poble-sec, La Federica and La Raposa are institutions, while La Casa de la Pradera celebrates its 12th anniversary in the Raval this year. The city’s effervescent drag scene can be witnessed on the Ravalada Drag Tour , and the Maricxs party offers the perfect mix between techno music and queer culture.

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16.  San Francisco, USA

Growing up, I lived half an hour away from San Francisco , and the city quickly stole my heart. Since the late 1960s, the Castro neighbourhood has been a colorful beacon of hope for queer travellers. Follow along the rainbow-paved road to discover LGBTQ+-owned vendors, speakeasies, pubs, restaurants, and bars. On a weekend night, the places to be are Lookout , the Cafe , Toad Hall , or Beaux . Most of these spots host drag nights and Sunday morning brunches that may get a little out of hand – in the best way possible!

Adelaide, Australia

17.  Adelaide, Australia

I was born and raised in Adelaide , a city that has come, cartwheeling, out of the closet. It’s shaking off its conservative roots and ‘city of churches’ label and becoming a place that’s fluid, fun and flamboyant. While overlooked for its size, the LGBTQ+ community owes a lot to the city – with South Australia being the first state to decriminalise homosexuality in 1975. And the LGBTQ+ spirit is felt even more because of Adelaide’s small size. Within its convenient square-mile, CBD heart, there are drag parties, lesbian bars, the Rainbow Walk, and the annual queer Feast Festival. Mary’s Poppin and My Lover Cindi are LGBTQ+ venues that celebrate queer life, along with the city’s arts and cultural festival circuit. 

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18.  Athens, Greece

Queer parties in Athens may be the most comfortable parties I know. Filled with and organized by political activists, parties like Draga Drouga and QReclaim (held in the recently closed Communitism ) have a unique history: they are heavily defined by anger over the transphobic killing of activist and drag queen Zackie Oh in 2018. The LGBTQI+ scene in Athens is still constantly developing but it’s incredibly vibrant and artistic. Squats and universities routinely host art shows, drag performances or vogueing competitions, while clubs like BeQueer offer a welcome escape.

Leeds, England

19.  Leeds, England

Not only did I grow up in Leeds , but it’s also the city I found myself and my identity in. From Leeds Pride  to open mic nights, LGBTQ+ bars, venues, and clubs; the city is brimming with a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. Feeling like drinks and a cabaret? Check out Viaduct Showbar , for performances by drag artists, tribute acts, or just a good old dance. If you’d prefer to sit down and eat, also located in Freedom Quarter — known as the heart of the Leeds LGBTQ+ scene  —  is Fibre , a bar that hosts a Bottomless Drag Brunch every Saturday afternoon. For something a little more lowkey, try one of many spoken word and open-mic nights; I recommend That’s What We Said , which is open to speakers of marginalized genders this July at Hyde Park Book Club.

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20.  Stockholm, Sweden

From Moxy’s queer women-only party to Pride Park where I danced at a silent disco, I’ll never forget Stockholm Pride. I witnessed bondage demonstrations, and swooned while Kool and the Gang sang ‘Celebration’. Sweden has a proven track record of supporting the LGBTQ+ community: in 1972 it was the first country to allow gender changes and same-sex couples have been able to marry since 2009. I felt very welcome as a pansexual woman in the ‘open city’ while sipping champagne at the gay-owned Mälarpaviljongen bar and performing ‘Mama Mia’ with holograms of the iconic bandmembers at the ABBA Museum.

Hyderabad, India

21.  Hyderabad, India

This south Indian city offers plenty of safe spaces to be queer. The  People’s Choice Cafe is queer-owned and welcomes everyone, while  LGTBQIA+ movie nights , queer fests, Pride parades, and  DragVanti – a space to discover India’s drag culture – make up a fun and welcoming environment for LGBTQ+ travellers. Hyderabad hosted India’s first-ever drag convention and is the proud home of India’s very first queer magazine, where the LGBTQ+ community can express themselves and celebrate their identities. The city even has a queer support and legal aid center . Despite instances of homophobia and transphobia, Hyderabad’s diverse culture offers the queer community a home away from home.

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22.  Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

Sun-drenched beaches, samba rhythms, and a queer scene that sizzles like a caipirinha on a summer’s day: Rio de Janeiro is pure magic. From the legendary Copacabana to the pulsating beats of Ipanema, Rio embraces LGBTQ+ travelers and locals with open arms. The Gamboa neighborhood is my favourite: I love the dazzling drag shows at Rio Scenarium . You’ll also find great nights out at Bar Bukowski and the LGBTQ+ parties at Seven Cruising Bar and Pink Flamingo. Rio dances to its own rhythm, and it’s an irresistible paradise for LGBTQ+ souls who seek a little extra sparkle in their lives.

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14 gay-friendly cities that LGBT travellers love

Hostelworld Blog | Posted on June 5, 2022 |

Looking for the most gay-friendly cities to visit on your next trip? We asked the top LGBT travel bloggers from around to world to recommend the cities and destinations they really love. From Pride festivals in Auckland to the clubs of Berlin, there’s a rainbow-coloured spectrum of inclusive destinations waiting to be discovered.

And with so many amazing Pride festivals taking place this summer, now is the perfect time to travel and connect with like-minded adventurers. So get ready to pack your bags as our blogger friends handpick the most LGBT-friendly cities and destinations in the world.

Amsterdam, The Netherlands

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Amsterdam, recommended by Roxanne & Maartje from Once Upon A Journey .

Amsterdam has been our hometown for the past four years and is the (former) gay capital of Europe! In 2001, the Netherlands became the first country in the world to legalise gay marriage and the country is known for its tolerance. Our culture is about celebrating diversity and therefore our Pride Week is all about partying and less about protesting. In Amsterdam, the gay scene is mostly concentrated around the many gay bars in the Reguliersdwarsstraat, and we’ve had many fun parties at the Amstel Fifty Four on Wednesdays, the drinks night of student association A.S.V. Gay.

Amsterdam Pride takes place every July/August.

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Berlin, Germany

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Berlin, recommended by Adam from Travels of Adam .

I love Berlin for the creative and open spirit that this city seems to nurture. It’s what made it a gay hotspot in the 1920s (Cabaret!) and continues to make it so special and unique for LGBTQ people today. There’s so much room in the city for so many different types of interests as well, which makes it really diverse for the many colors of the LGBT rainbow… with queer parties and meetups for just about every interest! There are great queer bars such as SilverFuture in Neukölln and Facciola in Kreuzberg, both with their flare and social atmospheres that make them great places for tourists, whilst mega techno clubs and parties (what guide to gay Berlin couldn’t include Berghain?!) still attract a mix of LGBT locals and tourists.

Berlin Pride, known as Christopher Street Day (CSD) , takes place every July.

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Brighton, United Kingdom

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Brighton, recommended by Cora & Helen from The Mini Millionaire .

Brighton: is there anywhere more gay-friendly in the UK? I think not. It’s been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember to take the long drive south to see what all the fuss is about. So, for my birthday last year, my girlfriend Helen and I did just that. And FINALLY, I understood. Brighton is beautiful. Everything from the burnt-out old pier to The Lanes is just perfection. With hundreds of bars, restaurants, and accommodation options to choose from, you’re never going to struggle for something to do, a good bite to eat and a place to stay. You’re also never going to struggle to feel accepted as this is undoubtedly one of the best gay cities around. So, if you’re looking for the perfect gay-friendly city for your next staycation, then Brighton it is! I know I’ll be back there again very soon.

Brighton Pride takes place every August.

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Guadalajara, Mexico

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Guadalajara, recommended by Sam and Zab from Indefinite Adventure .

Guadalajara may be Mexico’s most gay-friendly city. Compared to other places in Mexico, it was the city where I saw the most signs of affection in public between same-sex couples, and there are plenty of gay bars, clubs and parties for everyone. One of the best known is Voltio, which every Friday hosts the scandalous underwear party where men of all kinds strip down to their pants and get to know each other in this grungy, former warehouse. Despite only having started three years ago, it is home to one of the largest Pride events in Latin America, taking place every June with over 4000 participants. Finally, it’s not far from the famous Pacific beach towns in Banderas Bay, including the super gay Puerto Vallarta.

Guadalajara Pride takes place every June.

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Buenos Aires, Argentina

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Buenos Aires recommended by Stefan and Sebastien from Nomadic Boys .

Argentina is extremely progressive with LGBT rights. It was the first country in Latin America to legalise gay marriage in July 2010, which included full adoption rights. The right to change legal gender has been in place since 2012 and anti-discrimination laws are in full force in Rosario and the big capital city, Buenos Aires.

We love Buenos Aires because it has one of the best gay scenes across Latin America, which is heavily supported by the government, in particular in August when it has its BADiversa week every August. The gay scene of Buenos Aires is quite spread out, but the focal point is in the large, residential neighbourhood of Palermo, plus a few places dotted about in super cool San Telmo and well-to-do Recoleta. Some of the best places to visit include Glam Club in Recoleta, Sitges bar in Palermo, Contramano bear club in Recoleta and Pride Café in San Telmo.

Our favourite memory from our travels in Buenos Aires is dancing the tango together as a same-sex couple at one of the queer milongas (a tango dance hall). There’s nothing more romantic than dancing this famous Argentinian/Uruguayan dance together and it was the best place to meet like-minded people. The two main queer tango milongas in the city are La Marshall (in San Telmo) and Tango Queer (in Recoleta).

Buenos Aires Gay Festival takes place every November.

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Auckland, New Zealand

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Auckland, recommended by Robyn & Emily from Backpacking Babes .

New Zealand was the first international stop on our year-long journey abroad. We stayed with a friend in Auckland before moving onto Waitara, also on the North Island. Here we worked with renowned NZ photographer and LGBTQ+ activist Fiona Clarke (you should look her up) and then spent a month camping on the South Island. We knew Auckland would be something special but we had no idea just how unique our experience of the city, and with Fiona, would actually be!

Each year Auckland hosts a week of Pride events, one of which is called The Big Gay Out (as if New Zealand wasn’t already the most epic spot). TBGO, organised by New Zealand AIDS Foundation, is a free event that takes place in Coyle Park and is full of music, art vendors, food and dancing. We were excited to attend in 2016, especially when Emily (musician/songwriter Emily Kopp) was asked to play on the main stage! We had a beautiful time not only in Auckland but in all of New Zealand: the country is stunning and full of kind people. It’s a MUST SEE in our book.

Auckland Pride takes place every February.

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Gran Canaria, Canary Islands

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Gran Canaria, recommended by Stefan and Sebastien from Nomadic Boys .

Gran Canaria is an extremely famous destination throughout the year for European gays. This Spanish island is part of the Canary Islands, which lies off the coast of Africa, therefore guaranteed almost 365 days of great weather. Spain generally is a very gay-friendly destination, but Gran Canaria has always had a more tolerant attitude. During the harsh, repressive Franco years, the government turned a blind eye to homosexuality as the island was too far away from the mainland to bother with. From the 1960s, tourism really started to take off, attracting more and more foreigners and therefore even more tolerant attitudes.

We love Gran Canaria because there is a massive gay scene at Maspalomas and Playa del Ingles in the southern part of the island. The Yumbo Centre is the focal point for the area: a large shopping mall full of gay bars, clubs, restaurants and boutique shops, making it a gay man’s paradise. Slightly further south of this is the large gay beach at Kiosk #7. Gran Canaria also has several gay pride festivals happening throughout the year such as the Maspalomas Fetish Week in October, Maspalomas Winter Pride in November, Carnivals in February (both in Maspalomas and Las Palmas), Maspalomas Gay Pride in May and finally numerous bear parties in October and another in March.

One of our favourite experiences in Gran Canaria was taking a boat trip (run by Canarias Gay) with friends to the remote beach called Gui Gui. This is a clothing-optional beach on the Western coast of the island, hidden away at the bottom of a Grande ravine. This was the perfect day trip and a more relaxing way to see a different side of this remarkable island.

Maspalomas Pride takes place every May.

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Milan, Italy

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Milan, recommended by Luigi & Daniele from Gayly Planet .

We love Milan because it has the best GLBT scene in Italy. There are plenty of bars, parties, cultural events and film exhibitions that focus on the gay community. We also love Milan because everyone is welcome! Most of the bars we like to drink at before going out are around Porta Venezia and at the heart of this area is Via Lecco. Here you will find a number of bars where you can have an “Aperitivo Italiano”, stay out late and meet the locals. During Pride, this street becomes the city’s Pride Square. All the gay events in Milan start from here and it’s also the best place to end the night at the most trendy clubs.

Milan Pride takes place every June.

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New York, USA

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New York, recommended by Meg and Lindsay from Dopes On The Road .

New York City is the ultimate LGBT travel destination with a little bit of something for everyone on the spectrum. There’s Hell’s Kitchen, where lots of gay guys hang out, or Henrietta Hudson in the Village, which is one of three remaining lesbian bars in the five boroughs. If the queer and transgender scene is more your speed, check out Wednesday nights at The Woods in Brooklyn. Not a drinker? No problem – head to Chelsea and have dinner at an LGBT-owned restaurant such as Elmo or Cafeteria. Don’t forget to check out the Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art or join an LGBT history walking tours with Oscar Wilde Tours. And of course, no trip to New York City would be complete with paying respects at The Stonewall Inn.

New York Pride takes place every June.

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Rome, Italy

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Rome, recommended by Luigi & Daniele from Gayly Planet .

Rome is an incredible city with tonnes of amazing places to take photos and historical sites that will take your breath away. Inclusive and international, the gay life in Rome is fun and easy-going. Both during international events or smaller local festivals, you will meet plenty of good-hearted people that will offer to show you around. The heart of gay life in Rome is Gay Street, right behind the Colosseum. This is the place locals prefer for a drink to start the night. You’ll find yourself talking to everyone and, with the night coming, you’ll want to discover one of the most popular Italian clubs: Muccassassina in winter and Gay Village in Summer.

Rome Pride takes place every June.

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Lisbon, Portugal

Gay-friendly cities Lisbon @viaggiaescopri

Lisbon, recommended by Gian Luca from Viaggia e Scopri .

One of the most amazingly gay-friendly cities I can recommend for LGBT travellers in Lisbon. As the capital city of Portugal, Lisbon is full of culture and nice spots to see and visit. The nightlife in Bairro Alto is really fun, and there are several gay-friendly pubs, discos and a sauna. But Lisbon’s gay life is not only limited to the city centre. Extended along the southern coast is the Costa da Caparica, a stunning place to enjoy the sea, with beautiful, long beaches and areas equipped for tourists. This region is served by a slow train that starts from Lisbon and travels along the coast. Beach 19 is a well-known gay beach and a great place to meet new people and have fun. Last but not least, the Portuguese people are very open-minded and LGBT people are free to be themselves.

Lisbon Pride takes place every June.

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Tokyo, Japan

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Tokyo, recommended by Roxanne & Maartje from Once Upon A Journey .

During our current world trip, we fell in love with Japan and especially with Tokyo. Previously, we’d heard about Japan’s crazy culture with its cosplay, maid and cat cafes and much more. But that’s not the best part of Japanese culture: it’s the people. Japanese people are the kindest and most polite people we have ever met. Culturally, they consider saying ‘no’ as impolite, but it’s also in their culture to be a little distant because of personal space. Therefore, public displays of affection (PDAs) and topics like sex and sexuality are things Japanese do not talk about, though gender norms are more fluid in Japan than elsewhere in the world.

Most LGBT people in Japan are just ‘gay for the weekend’ and often even have a ‘normal’ family during the rest of the week. Nonetheless, it’s also in their culture to not openly judge people who do show PDAs or talk about their sexuality. Especially while drinking, Japanese people open up about these things and that might be the reason that Tokyo has more gay bars than London! These gay bars can be found in Tokyo’s gay area Shinjuku-nichōme, the perfect place to either find your special someone or to celebrate your love with your special someone. And in between all the gay bars we found the perfect place for us: bar Goldfinger, hosting women-only parties every Saturday night!

Tokyo Pride takes place every May.

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Washington DC, USA

Gay-friendly cities Washington DC @twobadtourists

Washington DC, recommended by Auston & David from Two Bad Tourists .

Washington DC is an exciting place to visit and there’s an engaged local LGBT community. Beyond the history, you’ll find plenty of entertainment, shopping, dining and other recreational opportunities. Washington DC is also home to lots of great festivals and events like Chinese New Year, the National Cherry Blossom Festival and the Smithsonian Folklife Festival. For LGBT-specific events, check out the Best of Gay DC Awards in the fall or Capital Pride’s Holiday Heatwave in December. Visit DC in the summer to attend the Capital Pride Celebration or DC Black Pride. DC also has great neighborhoods like the trendy Shaw district or Logan Circle, with an upscale and elegant feel, including chic boutiques and wine bars. Or head to Columbia Heights to experience a strong Latino and hipster crowd with a mix of ethnic restaurants and cool taverns. To find the best gay hangouts, the top neighborhoods include the U Street Corridor, Dupont Circle or Logan Circle with LGBT favorite spots like Cobalt, 30 Degrees, Green Lantern or DIK Bar.

Washington DC’s Capital Pride takes place every June.

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Bangkok, Thailand

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Bangkok, recommended by Craig Crowther from My Gay Globe . 

Bangkok is an Asian megacity, bursting with energy and colour. Often overlooked by visitors eager to reach the glorious beaches of Southern Thailand, this capital city has life pulsating from its core. The traditional backpacker area is centred around Koh San Road but the real heart of authentic Bangkok beats from Silom. The city’s premier financial district by day, once the sun goes down the area is home to delectable street food, rooftop bars and Thailand’s prosperous and lively gay village. Bangkok is frantic yet spiritual; a place where you feel alive from the moment you arrive. Boredom isn’t an option in here: with its cavernous maze of sois (filled with more eateries than you could ever sample), the rich heritage of its royal past and thirst for modernisation, Bangkok is unique, crazy and utterly unforgettable.

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Bangkok celebrates Pride in June.

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The Most LGBTQ+ Friendly Places to Travel in the World

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The insatiable urge to pull your suitcase out from under your bed arrives each summer.  Though your nine-to-five may not come with an official summer break, you probably deserve one. So go ahead: set your OOO request, book a flight, and pack those rainbow shorts you bought for Pride because it’s time to hit up one of the friendliest LGBTQ+ travel destinations for a little R&R.

Whether you’re looking to spend a week dozing off on a lounge chair next to a crystal-clear ocean or you’re ready to find out how late you can stay out at a nightclub, there are plenty of destinations that will fit your dream itinerary. Most will even give you the opportunity to do both. 

While places like Tel Aviv, Amsterdam, and Berlin are known for their huge Pride celebrations throughout the months of June and July, all the destinations mentioned below have LGBTQ+ pride woven into the fabric of their modern culture. These locations are just as safe as they are vibrant. For additional context, we’ve included quotes from travelers who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. Take their positive personal experiences as an excuse to jet set ASAP.

Keep reading for the 14 most LGBTQ+ friendly places to travel this summer and beyond.

Tel Aviv, Israel

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Between the stunning beaches, vibrant nightlife, and everpresent gay pride, Tel Aviv should be at the top of your must-visit list. In Israel, same-sex couples are protected against discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, can adopt, and can serve openly gay in the military. However, however, Israel does not recognize same-sex marriages performed domestically (or any other non-religious marriage). According to Tourist Israel, 25 percent of the population is estimated to be LGBTQ+, so you can expect to see Pride openly celebrated. Tel Aviv just celebrated the 25th anniversary of its annual Pride parade, the biggest pride event in the Middle East, with over 200,000 attendees. 

According to traveler Michael Kay, “There was an energy, a vibrancy unmatched compared to any other city I had visited. It immediately became a safe space. And today, as an openly gay man, it’s where I’ll be spending my next Pride.”

Berlin, Germany

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Berlin is known for its nightlife, which definitely extends to the LGBTQ+ travel experience in the city. Berlin has an extensive list of gay clubs, bars and saunas, making Berlin one of the best gay capitals of the world. Schöneberg is the official gay district in Berlin and has been so since the 1920s. Berlin celebrates Pride (known as Christopher Street Day) throughout July with over 200 events throughout the month. With over 500,000 people in attendance each year, Berlin’s Pride parade is one of the biggest celebrations throughout Europe. 

Montreal, Québec, Canada

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Canadians have a reputation for being friendly, and based on how positive the reviews of LGBTQ+ travel experiences are in Montreal, it seems to ring true. Montreal is Canada’s second biggest city and has a rich French heritage (steak frites, anyone?). The city is known for its dining scene and the 12-block stretch of bars and rainbow flags in the Gay Village. 

According to traveler Blane Foster, “Montreal exuded gay energy from nearly everywhere, not just the gay village. And I don’t have words for that bathhouse… top tier gays!”

Traveler Bianca M. also has rave reviews for Montreal: “Montreal feels like it doesn’t matter who you are, what you wear, what you look like. It’s like they compensate the cold winter with the most loving, caring personalities.” 

Ibiza, Spain

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Ibiza may be a small island, but it has a big reputation as an LGBTQ+ hot spot. If you’re looking to spend some time lounging in the sun in one of the island’s many hidden coves or dancing the day away at a beach club, Ibiza might be the vacation destination for you. The Spanish island has accommodation options that range from budget-friendly rooms to luxurious ocean-front villas, plus a wide range of activities besides partying (though there’s plenty of it). 

London, England

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You don’t have to be a fan of the royals to have a great time in London. The LGBTQ+ community is woven into London’s culture, making it an ideal urban travel destination. Soho is considered the “gay hub” of London and is filled with gay shops, bars, clubs, and restaurants. If you’re looking for an edgier scene, East London is the place to go—you can even join some of London’s drag queens on stage for a night of karaoke. 

According to traveler Anya Kapustianyk, “I just spent three months in London and it’s really great as a queer person, especially East London, like Hackney.

Mexico City, Mexico

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Mexico City is one of the most populated cities in the world, and with lots of people, comes lots of things to do. Between the cuisine, shopping, art, nightlife, and cultural happenings, there’s something for everyone to experience in Mexico City (known more popularly as CDMX). In 2010, Mexico City was the first capital in Latin America to legalize same-sex marriage and same-sex couples’ adoption. If you’re not in town for the CDMX Pride celebration in June, you can still discover queer artists, exhibits, and nightlife. 

According to traveler Shannon Del Prince, Mexico city had, “Lots of cool underground raves full of queer people and club culture. There are definitely areas that can be unsafe (like any big city), but that’s more just in general. I feel like because there’s a large population of queer people there, so I didn’t feel like a target as a queer person (which is definitely the case in some countries).”

Amsterdam, Netherlands

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Amsterdam is widely considered  the  gay capital of Europe. You can spend the day enjoying Amsterdam’s exquisite selection of museums, operating your own motorboat on the canal, smoking in the local coffee shop,s and dining at LGBTQ-owned bars and restaurants. There’s also a robust offering of nightlife with clubs, bars, and shows. If you’re looking for something a little relaxing, be sure to hit one of the city’s famous saunas. 

According to traveler Blane Foster, “Amsterdam could be a gay paradise. Just don’t try space cakes before you fly out of Schiphol airport.”

Brighton, England

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Brighton recently got a facelift, which makes the historical seaside town a trendy beach destination for travelers. According to the 2021 census, almost 11 percent of the Brighton population ages 18 and up identify as gay, lesbian or bisexual which means LGBTQ+ tourists will fit right in. Naturally, one of the top activities in Brighton is sunbathing, and if you really  want to avoid tan lines, you can do so on Brighton’s official nude beach.

Traveler Sarah Jarque-Deakin, who is from the U.K., put her experience visiting Brighton quite simply, “Brighton is very gay.”

Tokyo, Japan

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While many Japanese people are accepting of LGBTQ+ identity and relationships, the cultural norms and legality surrounding queerness is still relatively conservative. Same-sex activity is legal in Japan, however, sex-same couples are not afforded the same rights as heterosexual couples, such as same-sex marriage. In general, Japanese culture values privacy and you won’t see displays of public affection, regardless of identity. That being said, Tokyo has a thriving gay scene even if it may not seem as apparent as other cities. There are over 300 gay bars that come alive at night. The Shinjuku Ni-chome neighborhood has a strong gay community and is a must-add to your Tokyo itinerary.

Montevideo, Uruguay

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Uruguay has historically been accepting of the LGBTQ+ community and is one of the most gay-friendly countries in Latin America. Homosexuality was legalized in 1934 and gay marriage became legal in 2013. Montevideo is a coastal town where half of the country’s population resides. Same-sex couples are common and you’ll likely notice displays of affection in public. Montevideo has a great architecture and arts scene, a host of gay clubs and bars, and plenty of space to relax on the beach. This safe and friendly city would make for an excellent vacation destiantion.

Mykonos, Greece

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If the viral video of Lindsay Lohan dancing at her beach club in Mykonos wasn’t enough to convince you to take a trip to the island, who knows what would be? Mykonos is a stunning island in Greece with clear blue water, layers of white buildings, and an array of places to party. Get your TikTok ready to recreate the “bus, club, another club” audio because you can go non-stop. On the contrary, if you just want a place to relax, Mykonos has a strong portfolio of relaxing boutique hotels that will make you never want to leave the property. 

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

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Puerto Vallarta is a popular destination for the LGBTQ+ Mexican population and international travelers alike. You can spend the day lounging on a gay beach with a spicy margarita, partying at a dance club, taking a sunset boat tour or exploring the historical towns.

According to traveler Lawrence Cardenas, “The Romantic Zone is like its own little gay city where everyone is gay. I have never seen as many gay men in one place, and it really makes you feel safe and encourages you to be free.”

Prime time to visit is between October and June when the weather isn’t too hot.

Buenos Aires, Argentina

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The capital of Argentina is known for its grand architecture, steamy temperatures, and nightlife flair. Buenos Aires was the first city in Latin America to legalize civil unions and has a reputation for being a fun LGBTQ+ travel destination. The nightlife at gay clubs is known to be a little wild (you might want to look into a tango lesson before you book your flight). But don’t worry, you don’t have to be a nightlife aficionado to enjoy Buenos Aires; the art museums and restaurants will keep you plenty busy.

Barcelona, Spain

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Barcelona is the second largest city in Spain and has a bustling LGBTQ+ culture in addition to its UNESCO heritage sites, ocean views, and art history. Spain is one of the most progressive countries in the world when it comes to LGBTQ+ rights and that is reflected in daily life. Barcelona hosts its own LGBT festival in June and is quickly overtaking Ibiza as the  gay destination in Spain. Checkout the “Gaixample” district for the city’s most popular gay bars and nightlife spots. 

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11 under-the-radar LGBTQ beach destinations

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Beach culture has been an integral part of LGBTQ travel for decades, since the emergence of now world-famous gay resort meccas like Provincetown, Massachusetts; Mykonos, Greece; Key West, Florida; Sitges, Spain; and Brighton, England.

These days, queer travelers flock to dozens of enticing beaches, from secluded spots where you're free to sunbathe au naturel to festive party playgrounds flanked by world-class resorts and gay nightlife districts.

Some of the world's most amazing beaches are still relatively unknown — at least, internationally. Try one of these 11 LGBTQ-favored seaside getaways as you plan your next coastal adventure.

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Kauai, Hawaii

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The least populated and most ruggedly spectacular of Hawaii 's four largest islands, Kauai is hard to beat if you're looking to commune with nature or laze on a tranquil beach with nothing but the sound of the surf as your soundtrack. Two of Kauai's popular LGBTQ beaches — Lydgate Beach Park and Paliku Beach — can be found on the lush eastern (or windward) shore.

Centrally located Lydgate Beach Park draws more sizable and eclectic crowds and offers close proximity to plenty of fun options for post-beachcombing cocktails. There's also a section enclosed by jetties that's ideal for swimming.

If it's complete serenity you're after, head to Paliku (aka Donkey) Beach. The magic begins with a stroll from the parking area through the Tree Tunnel, a gently sloping pathway beneath a canopy of verdant vegetation. Once you reach the stunning golden sand you can bliss out for hours, often in near solitude — just keep in mind that the rough surf here makes swimming treacherous.

Paliku Beach is an especially enjoyable place to decompress after hiking the spectacular sea cliffs of Kauai's Napali Coast or the otherworldly red-clay bluffs of Waimea Canyon.

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Zipolite, Mexico

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Set amid the towering sea stacks and rocky ramparts of Mexico 's dramatic Oaxacan coast, Zipolite sits along a string of minimally developed beach villages — there's not a high-rise or internationally branded resort in sight.

Bohemians, yoga enthusiasts, surfers and free spirits have been vacationing here and in neighboring Mazunte for years, and although it's far less touristy and pricey than Puerto Vallarta or Tulum, this former fishing village offers a growing number of stylish boutique hotels such as El Alquimista and Hotel Noga.

Many queer visitors come to experience the inclusive vibes and surreal beauty of Playa del Amor, a clothing-optional, horseshoe-shaped sandy cove nestled between cliffs and massive boulders. All day long, and especially at sunset, this compact beach on the eastern edge of town offers a delightful mix of socializing and seclusion, while an unpretentious beach bar dispenses micheladas and fresh coconuts.

Fringed with palapa-roofed ceviche restaurants, Zipolite's main beach stretches along the crashing surf for another mile or so and is every bit as gorgeous. Several airlines make the 75-minute flight from Mexico City to Puerto Escondido and Huatulco, which are each about a 90-minute drive from Zipolite.

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Durban, South Africa

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Cape Town may receive more international attention, but South Africa's third-largest city is arguably more appealing for a beach vacation. The consistently warm waters of the Indian Ocean make this LGBTQ-welcoming city ideal for swimming, surfing, bodyboarding and sunbathing, and the tropical climate is mild year-round, though it can get muggy during Durban's wet summers (from October to April).

This lively and diverse port city on South Africa 's east coast has plenty of oceanfront hotels and is just an hour or two by plane from Johannesburg and Cape Town. Durban is fringed by a stretch of breathtaking beaches known as the Golden Mile, with lively North Beach just a few minutes' drive from the gay cafes and bars of the colorful Morningside neighborhood.

Just a short drive up the coast you can mingle with locals and laze in the sun at LGBTQ-popular Virginia Beach (next to a small, private airport) when you're not lounging on the section of sand adjacent to Umhlanga Lagoon Nature Reserve in the affluent town of Umhlanga.

With several upscale hotels within walking distance of the beach and the town's Instagram-worthy Whalebone Pier, Umhlanga is an appealing base for exploring the region. You'll find everything from five-star beach hotels to budget-friendly outposts from brands like Hilton and IHG.

When it's time to satiate your appetite, be sure to sample a bunny chow, a local street food consisting of a loaf of crusty bread hollowed out and filled with spicy curry. Durban is home to one of the world's largest concentrations of Asian Indian immigrants, so it's packed with superb Indian restaurants.

Lisbon, Portugal

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Although Spain is where several of Europe's most iconic gay beach destinations (we're looking at you, Sitges and Ibiza) are located, neighboring Portugal is rapidly gaining ground in popularity, with the hilly and historic capital, Lisbon, leading the charge.

One of Europe's top vacation values, Lisbon offers a heady mix of vaunted restaurants, well-preserved Roman ruins, buzzy art museums and inviting queer bars. The latter are set mostly along the quaint cobbled lanes of the Bairro Alto district.

This dynamic metropolis at the confluence of the Tagus River and the Atlantic Ocean is just a half-hour drive from Beach 19, the country's most beloved LGBTQ sunbathing locale. This beautiful clothing-optional beach is set against gentle dunes and occupies an undeveloped span of the Costa da Caparica, which is blessed with sunny and generally dry (at least, from March through September) weather.

Looking for refreshments? From Beach 19, you can walk just 10 to 15 minutes south to the breezy beach bars of Fonte da Telha.

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Ogunquit, Maine

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While Provincetown may be New England's better-known LGBTQ beach destination, this charming, historic, seaside village on the coast of southern Maine has its draws. Set along a jagged, rocky swatch of shoreline that looks like it belongs in a Winslow Homer painting, this dapper village of clapboard bed-and-breakfast accommodations and eateries has been an artists' colony since the late 19th century.

The exceptional Ogunquit Museum of American Art and the Ogunquit Playhouse, which presents acclaimed summer stock musicals, carry on the village's rich artistic tradition.

The queer beach scene here is relaxed and fun, and from the south end of the long and sandy beach it's just a 10-minute walk to the town's gay bars and restaurants. You can also stroll along Marginal Way, a paved pathway along the granite ledges that fringe the ocean, to Perkins Cove, a quaint fishing village that abounds with lobster shacks.

Should you crave a bit more variety, you're in luck: A few more beaches and an acclaimed dining scene can be found just 45 minutes up the coast in Portland, Maine.

Bali, Indonesia

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Thailand — and Taiwan, to a lesser degree — are undoubtedly better known and more established among Asia's LGBTQ beach destinations, but blissful Bali 's gay cachet has risen rapidly in recent years. This mountainous, volcanic island slightly smaller than the state of Delaware is famed for its biodiversity and artistic traditions, not to mention its bounty of posh spa resorts.

The only Hindu-majority province in Indonesia, Bali has a relatively welcoming attitude toward the LGBTQ community. This is especially apparent near the southern tip of the island around the Seminyak resort area and just to the north at gay-friendly Batu Belig Beach.

You'll typically encounter plenty of queer vacationers sunning and swimming in these parts, and there are several swanky gay-favored spa resorts nearby, including the W Bali and The Seminyak Beach Resort & Spa. In the evening, the scene moves a couple of miles inland to Seminyak's Jalan Camplung Tanduk quarter, which is home to festive gay clubs like Mixwell Bar and BaliJoe Bar.

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Santa Catarina Island, Brazil

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This sunny, verdant island in southeastern Brazil stretches 33 miles and offers some of the most alluring beaches in the country, along with an abundance of stylish resorts, from full-service Il Campanario Villaggio Resort in the tiny beach town of Jurere to the stylishly intimate Hotel Boutique Quinta das Videiras in Florianopolis. The latter is close to Praia Mole, a crescent-shaped beach backed by emerald hills that LGBTQ sunbathers flock to.

Although Santa Catarina Island has become a favored gay weekend getaway among those seeking a less party-driven alternative to pulsing Rio de Janeiro, which is less than 90 minutes away by plane, you can still find opportunities here for revelry. In Florianopolis, there's dancing until dawn on weekends at Jivago Social Club, Conca Club and other queer nightspots.

Another bonus: This lush island, which is roughly twice the size of Martha's Vineyard, offers gorgeous hikes through the rugged mountains of Sao Joaquim National Park and the otherworldly sands of the Joaquina dune field.

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Portland, Oregon

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A progressive hub of craft coffee and beer, indie arts, shopping, hiking and biking, Oregon 's largest city lies 80 miles inland but is nevertheless close to a pair of captivating queer sun spots: Collins Beach and Rooster Rock.

Collins Beach lies 25 miles north of downtown Portland on placid Sauvie Island. While it's a pretty drive by car, fans of cycling might consider renting a bike and pedaling here, stopping to gather sweet marionberries and juicy peaches at one of the island's colorful farm stands.

Rooster Rock State Park is 25 miles in the opposite direction from Portland and is set beneath the sheer and lushly forested cliffs of the Columbia River Gorge. From the parking area, follow the signs east to the officially sanctioned clothing-optional stretch of sand — the thicket of rainbow flags and beach blankets will clue you in that you've arrived. Rooster Rock's array of secluded nooks and crannies make it ideal for those seeking a quieter and more private day at the beach.

Marseille, France

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Much of France 's LGBTQ beach scene is centered around Nice and the adjacent French Riviera, but this colorful port city is where you'll find the country's oldest gay beach, Mont Rose. Adjacent to the scenic fishing village of La Madrague and accessible via a 45-minute bus ride south from central Marseille, this picturesque expanse of craggy ledges draws a predominantly gay male crowd, and nude sunbathing is popular.

Marseille's gritty reputation, which was solidified by its starring role in the Oscar-winning 1971 crime thriller "The French Connection," has softened a bit over the years. In 2013, this diverse city featuring a lively queer scene hosted EuroPride.

You'll find a handful of appealing accommodations, including the luxe C2 Hotel and the old-world, yet chic, Hotel Maison Montgrand Vieux Port, in or near the charming Old Port district, which is also home to several gay bars and restaurants specializing in bouillabaisse, Marseille's most celebrated dish.

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Port Douglas, Australia

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Home to Australia 's most famous LGBTQ hotel, the Turtle Cove Beach Resort, as well as the gay-owned Pink Flamingo Resort and a bevy of vacation rentals, the former gold-mining hub of Port Douglas is one of the Southern Hemisphere's premier gay beach retreats. It's just a 45-minute drive from the small city of Cairns (which is a three-hour flight from Sydney ) at the northern tip of Queensland.

Port Douglas' Four Mile Beach is the stretch of sand to prioritize, as it overlooks the turquoise waters of the Coral Sea and features stunning golden sand to walk at sunrise or sunset.

Those keen on scuba diving and/or snorkeling will love that the town offers direct access to the Great Barrier Reef, while hikers and wildlife enthusiasts flock here to explore the natural wonders of the Daintree Rainforest. For a sneak preview of this beautiful little slice of paradise, hop onto YouTube to seek out Kylie Minogue's bubblegum-pop video "It's No Secret," which was filmed entirely on location in Port Douglas in the late '80s.

Related: Luxury on the Great Barrier Reef: A dreamy trip to the InterContinental Hayman Island

St. Petersburg, Florida

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No city in Florida has experienced a more dramatic renaissance during the past couple of decades than St. Petersburg, which now buzzes with superb art spaces (including the striking Salvador Dalí Museum), hip restaurants, a newly rebuilt pier extending into scenic Tampa Bay and the trendy and LGBTQ-popular Historic Kenwood retail and entertainment district.

With 35 miles of sugary white sand beaches fringing the Gulf of Mexico, surrounding Pinellas County is also a fantastic destination for a relaxing seaside vacation.

The area's calm waters are ideal for swimming, kayaking and fishing, and there are a couple of spots with a pronounced queer presence. You'll find more of a party vibe at Sunset Beach, a haven for LGBTQ beachgoers on Treasure Island. The beach is a short drive from a number of stylish accommodations, such as The Saint Hotel and Hotel Zamora.

A bit more tranquil and beckoning to a slightly more mixed crowd, Pass-a-Grille Beach sits adjacent to the historic village of the same name. It offers several inviting seafood restaurants with waterfront terraces that are perfect for sunset cocktails.

Related: 13 of the best beaches in Florida

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Gay United States Uncovered: Top Destinations And Tips For Queer Travelers!

Posted on Last updated: December 7, 2023

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Gay United States Uncovered: Top Destinations And Tips For Queer Travelers!

Queer travel expert Jack Kenworthy turns 250+ city adventures into your guide for safe, vibrant, and inclusively fabulous global journeys.

From the neon hues of San Francisco’s Castro to the vibrant beats of New York’s Greenwich Village, the expansive land of the free houses a universe of experiences for the LGBTQ+ community. The story of Gay United States is a tumultuous yet triumphant tapestry woven with threads of political activism, civil rights milestones, and passionate pride parades.

It’s a nation where Harvey Milk once ignited a movement and where the echoes of the Stonewall riots resonate even today. This dynamism makes the Gay United States a thrilling realm of exploration for queer travelers, promising tales of resistance, celebration, and love at every turn.

Dive deep, and you’ll unearth the electric nightlife that has become synonymous with cities like Miami , Los Angeles , and Chicago .

The nighttime revelry of Gay United States isn’t just about neon-lit bars or fabulous drag shows; it’s a reflection of a community that thrives under the moonlight, dancing away past struggles and embracing the promise of a brighter tomorrow. Every club beat, and every glittering float at pride events tells a story of the resilience of a community that has faced adversities but continues to shine brilliantly.

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Yet, the heartbeat of the Gay United States isn’t merely found in its jubilant parades or bustling bars. It’s discovered in the lived experiences of its queer citizens: same-sex couples enjoying picnics under the vast Montana sky, transgender youth finding acceptance in the supportive communities of Minneapolis , and non-binary individuals expressing themselves freely in the bohemian alleys of Portland .

These everyday stories form the lifeblood of a nation that, while still grappling with challenges, has made significant strides toward equality and acceptance.

For wanderers with a penchant for history, the US offers myriad landmarks: places where pivotal moments for LGBTQ+ rights unfolded, institutions that have chronicled the community’s journey, and spaces where love has always transcended boundaries. From the National LGBTQ+ Wall of Honor in New York to the GLBT Historical Society Museum in San Francisco , there’s a wealth of exploration awaiting the curious traveler.

So, why does the Gay United States magnetize LGBTQ+ travelers from all corners of the globe? It’s because of its unique blend of historic sites, party hubs, tranquil retreats, and a sense of community that binds diverse stories together. Whether you’re seeking solace, celebration, or solidarity, the vast expanse of the Gay United States invites you with open arms and a promise of unforgettable memories.

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History Of LGBT Rights In The United States

The history of LGBT rights in the United States can be traced as far back as the 1920s when the first documented gay rights organization was founded. However, the movement for LGBTQ rights gained significant momentum in the 20th century. This section will provide a brief overview of the events and organizations that have shaped the history of LGBT rights in the United States.

One notable event in the history of LGBT rights is the Stonewall Riots, which took place in 1969 at the Stonewall Inn in New York City . This violent demonstration against police raids and discrimination is now considered a pivotal moment in the modern gay rights movement. Since then, various groups and movements have formed to advocate for the rights of the LGBTQ community.

During the 1950s and 1960s, the homophile movement emerged, consisting of organizations such as ONE, Inc., and the Daughters of Bilitis. These groups aimed to challenge societal norms and promote the rights and dignity of the LGBTQ community. Anti-sodomy laws, which were in place in many states, were often used to discriminate against and persecute members of the LGBT community. It wasn’t until 2003 that the US Supreme Court invalidated these laws in Lawrence v. Texas.

In 1953, President Dwight D. Eisenhower signed an executive order banning gay and lesbian individuals from federal employment, further highlighting the discrimination faced by the LGBTQ community. This order remained in effect until it was overturned in 1975.

The American Psychiatric Association played a significant role in changing societal attitudes toward the LGBTQ community when it removed homosexuality from its list of mental disorders in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) in 1973. This important step led to the gradual acceptance of LGBTQ individuals within society.

The 2010s saw notable advancements in same-sex marriage rights. Legalization occurred on a state-by-state basis until the Supreme Court’s landmark decision in Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015, which legalized same-sex marriage across the United States.

Efforts to combat discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity have also been an essential part of the LGBTQ rights movement. In 2020, the Supreme Court ruled in Bostock v. Clayton County, Georgia , that Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 applies to cases of employment discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

It’s important to note that situations surrounding LGBT rights can change rapidly, and information can become outdated. Readers should seek current advice before traveling and be aware of potential risks. Remain vigilant and be aware that bad actors exist everywhere. Local perspectives on LGBT rights can differ from those afforded to tourists. Reaching out to relevant LGBT advocacy groups such as the Human Rights Campaign , Lambda Legal , or GLAAD can provide further information and resources.

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The LGBT Legal Situation In The United States

In the United States, LGBT rights have undergone significant progress in the past few decades, with changes in federal and state laws, as well as landmark cases in the US Supreme Court. However, it is crucial to remember that situations can change rapidly, and it is essential to stay vigilant and consistently seek current advice.

Federal Law and US Supreme Court Decisions: Some of the most critical advancements in LGBT rights have resulted from notable Supreme Court cases. In 2003, the court struck down remaining state sodomy laws in Lawrence v. Texas , effectively decriminalizing same-sex sexual activity. A monumental victory for same-sex couples came with Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015, when the court ruled that same-sex marriage was a constitutional right, making it legal across all 50 states.

Anti-Discrimination Laws and Protections: The legal landscape for discrimination protections varies across the country. Presently, 22 states have employment protections for LGBT individuals, and 20 states have hate or bias crime protections. The Equality Act, a comprehensive federal legislation aimed at providing nationwide anti-discrimination protections, has recently passed in the US House of Representatives but still faces challenges in the Senate.

Adoption Rights: Same-sex couples have the legal right to marry and adopt children in the United States. Following the ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges , adoption rights for same-sex couples have been recognized, though local adoption rules and regulations may still vary by state.

The Armed Forces and the U.S. Military: Since the repeal of the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy in 2011, LGBT individuals have been allowed to serve openly in the U.S. military. Furthermore, the ban on transgender individuals serving in the military was lifted in 2021.

It is indispensable to understand that the legal situation concerning LGBT rights in the United States may differ for local people versus tourists. Tourists should take note of relevant local laws and remain vigilant.

Active national organizations and advocacy groups, such as the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) , work tirelessly to advance LGBT rights and monitor legal developments.

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The LGBT Social Situation In The United States

Discrimination against the LGBTQ community in the United States remains a persistent issue despite significant progress made in recent years. Both local community members and tourists alike can face challenges related to their sexual orientation, gender identity, and expression. It is essential to stay informed and vigilant, as situations can change rapidly, and individual experiences can vary.

LGBTQ individuals in the United States may encounter discrimination in various aspects of their lives, such as employment, housing, and education. They may also experience hate crimes, harassment, and bullying. Transgender youth, in particular, may face increased challenges and risk of suicide.

Public opinion on LGBTQ issues has evolved in recent years, with a majority supporting equality and same-sex marriages. A Gallup poll conducted in 2020 indicated growing acceptance of LGBTQ rights. However, conservative and religious freedom groups continue to resist these changes, sometimes resulting in rhetoric or legislation that threatens LGBTQ rights.

Despite this, the LGBTQ community continues to advocate for their rights and work towards equality. Organizations such as the Human Rights Campaign contribute to this effort, focusing on issues like public accommodations, family rights, and the protection of LGBTQ youth.

To ensure personal safety, LGBTQ individuals should remain cautious and updated on current events related to LGBTQ rights both locally and nationally. It is also beneficial to connect with relevant LGBTQ advocacy groups for support and resources. Additionally, it may be helpful to identify safe spaces, such as LGBTQ-friendly businesses and establishments, as a precautionary measure.

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Trans Rights In The United States

Transgender individuals face a range of challenges and discrimination in the United States. Although there have been significant advancements in recent years, they continue to experience disparities in rights and protections compared to their cisgender counterparts.

At the federal level, there has been slow progress in terms of protections for transgender individuals. The landmark 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges case granted same-sex couples the right to marry, but it did not address wider issues of discrimination based on gender identity. However, recent changes to the Equality Act under President Joe Biden’s administration have expanded the protection of transgender people from discrimination in multiple areas, such as housing, education, and public services.

One important aspect of transgender rights is protection against hate crimes and harassment. The Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, signed in 2009, expanded hate crime law to include crimes motivated by a victim’s actual or perceived gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability. This federal legislation helps in prosecuting and punishing those who commit acts of violence against transgender individuals.

In the context of education, transgender youth face unique issues, including the ability to access appropriate facilities and participate in sports. Title IX, a federal law that prohibits sex-based discrimination in educational programs, has been extended to protect transgender students. However, controversy surrounding these policies continues, often fueled by fear and misinformation.

Transgender individuals looking to serve in the military have faced a long and complex struggle. Following the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy in 2010, various administrative restrictions on transgender service members were removed. In 2021, President Biden signed an executive order lifting a ban on transgender individuals serving openly in the U.S. military, providing a more inclusive environment for all members of the armed forces.

Employment discrimination is another critical issue for transgender rights. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 prohibits discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, and national origin in employment. In the 2020 Supreme Court case Bostock v. Clayton County, the Court expanded the definition of “sex” to include sexual orientation and gender identity, providing greater protection for transgender employees.

Anti-discrimination laws and federal agencies play a critical role in safeguarding the rights of transgender people in the United States. Nevertheless, it is important for transgender individuals to be aware of the ongoing challenges, including potential changes in legislation and enforcement on a state-by-state basis. Vigilance and connection with local LGBTQ advocacy organizations can help provide necessary support and advocacy for transgender rights in the community.

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The Future For The Queer Community In The United States

As the United States continues to advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and equality, it can be observed that recent policy initiatives and legislative efforts indicate a promising future. Following President Biden’s Proclamation on LGBTQ+ Pride Month in June 2021, his administration has championed LGBTQ+ equality as a focal point for policy changes and reforms.

In Congress and state legislatures, an increasing number of bills are introduced to promote and protect LGBTQ+ rights, including the Equality Act. Though there have been instances of bills restricting LGBTQ+ rights, the overall trend indicates positive progress. Advocacy groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign and Lambda Legal, actively lobby and drive initiatives in favor of LGBTQ+ people.

However, it is essential for individuals to remain aware of the changing landscape, as situations can change rapidly, and the information available may be outdated. To ensure personal safety, one should keep up-to-date with local laws and seek advice from trustworthy sources before traveling or relocating.

While the future of LGBTQ+ equality may appear promising on a national level, progress may differ among local communities and for various demographics, such as residents versus tourists. To protect personal rights and create a more inclusive environment, individuals can engage with local LGBTQ+ advocacy groups and collaborate on initiatives focused on equality and education.

In conclusion, the United States demonstrates significant progress towards LGBTQ+ equality, but vigilance and active participation of local communities and individuals is vital to ensure their rights are protected and promoted.

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Protect Yourself While Travelling In Gay United States

In the United States, LGBT rights have come a long way over the years, with many strides made to ensure equal rights for everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation and gender identity. However, it is important to protect yourself as situations can change, and there may be bad actors, whether you are a local or a tourist.

Discrimination and Legal Protections Anti-discrimination laws have been enacted, such as The Equality Act, which passed the US House of Representatives in February 2021, aiming to protect against LGBT discrimination in various aspects of life. While it hasn’t passed the Senate yet, these protections are essential for ensuring the human rights of LGBT individuals. The federal Fair Housing Act further helps protect against sex discrimination, including discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity, in housing situations.

Education, Employment, and Housing In education, employment, and housing, it is important to be aware of your rights and report any instances of discrimination, violence, harassment, or bullying you encounter. Mishandling of your privacy may also be a concern, so it is crucial to know your rights concerning confidentiality and how your information is treated.

Public Accommodations and Services Public accommodations, such as restaurants, hotels, and retail stores, are required to treat everyone equally, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. In case you face any discrimination, it is helpful to be knowledgeable about state and federal laws and seek remedies accordingly.

Health and Safety In the face of violence or harassment, either in person or online, take appropriate measures to safeguard yourself. Remain vigilant at all times and consider reaching out to supportive networks and legal systems if necessary.

LGBT Advocacy Groups There are numerous LGBT advocacy groups that can assist in providing information, support, and resources to help navigate any challenges you may face. Some of these organizations include the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) and Lambda Legal.

As situations can change and information may become outdated, it is essential to stay updated on current events and legal developments. Always consult reliable sources and seek current advice before making decisions related to travel or other matters related to LGBT rights in the United States.

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Best Gay Destinations In The United States

Ah, the vast and varied landscape of the United States, a tapestry of cultures, stories, and unparalleled experiences!

As we set forth on this curated journey to unearth the best gay destinations in the United States, we embark on an inclusive celebration of cities that have painted their own unique strokes on the canvas of Gay United States. Every metropolis, with its distinct vibe and flavor, contributes to the vivid spectrum of LGBTQ+ narratives that make the U.S. such a captivating destination.

In this compilation, we’ve chosen to spotlight these cities in alphabetical order, ensuring each locale gets its well-deserved moment in the spotlight without the confines of hierarchy. After all, the beauty of Gay United States lies not in ranking, but in the rich diversity and individual charm that each city offers.

Whether you’re drawn to the glittering coastal gems or the unsung heartland heroes, this guide promises a myriad of experiences that beckon LGBTQ+ travelers with a promise of warmth, wonder, and welcomeness.

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GAY ALBUQUERQUE

Darlings, let me whisk you away to Albuquerque or, as the in-crowd calls it, AluQUIRKY! Immerse yourself in a city that marries history with neon-lit vibrancy, where the echoes of ancient civilizations meet the fabulous beats of a thriving gay scene. With each twist and turn, you’ll find Albuquerque’s allure is in its eclectic blend of past and present, making it an unmissable gem for every queer wanderer seeking adventure and authenticity.

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GAY ASHEVILLE

If you’re yearning for a blend of boho-chic vibes and mountain majesty, then Asheville, North Carolina , is your haven of fabulousness! Nestled amidst the mesmerizing Blue Ridge Mountains, this vivacious city isn’t just picturesque; it’s a roaring crescendo of culture, creativity, and queer camaraderie. With every twisty trail and artisanal ale, Asheville whispers, “Be bold, be you, and belong.”

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Prepare to be dazzled by the allure of Gay Aspen, where the shimmering snow-kissed peaks meet a cosmopolitan vibe like nowhere else! It’s not just the breathtaking vistas that’ll leave you spellbound but the magnetic fusion of high-octane mountain adventures and a pulsating LGBTQ+ friendly scene, making it an unparalleled retreat for the modern queer nomad.

Whether you’re carving your path on the slopes or sashaying down the boulevards of this mountainous haven, Gay Aspen promises a rendezvous with the extraordinary, serving both the thrill-seekers and the cosmopolites with equal panache!

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GAY ATLANTA

Oh, honey, let’s paint the town peach in fabulous Atlanta! This southern belle of a city, fondly dubbed the “Gay Capital Of The South,” isn’t just a hub of mouth-watering soul food and heartwarming hospitality. Dive deep, and you’ll discover a glittering gay scene buzzing with passion, creativity, and that iconic Southern charm, making Atlanta an unmissable, sultry dance of queer celebration amidst the broader backdrop of the Deep South.

So, whether you’re here for a hot minute or planning to stay, prepare to be dazzled and embraced by Atlanta’s vibrant LGBTQ+ tapestry.

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GAY ATLANTIC CITY

Grab your sequins and shades because Atlantic City is calling your name! With its glittering casinos, resurgent queer scene, and a history that’s as fabulous as a drag queen’s wig, this New Jersey gem is the ultimate playground for LGBTQ+ travelers. From its 1950s heyday as a gay haven to its modern renaissance, Atlantic City serves both nostalgia and newness, perfect for those who want to bet on love and luck and live their best gay life.

Gay Austin United States Travel Guide

Honey, if you’re looking to find the glittering heart of Texas, search no further than fabulous Austin! Embracing all with its eccentric vibes and a rhythm that pulsates with queer energy, this city is where cowboy hats and glitter boots dance together under the same neon lights, proving that the whole town truly is a fabulous, sprawling gayborhood.

So, dust off those dancing shoes and let the dynamic and diverse beat of Austin woo you into its inclusive embrace. Are y’all ready for this vibrant Texan gem?

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GAY BALTIMORE

Allow me to introduce you to the sassy cultural mosaic that is Baltimore! A stone’s throw from Washington DC, this glittering queer haven pulsates with a vibrant LGBTQ+ heartbeat, with whispers of iconic filmmaker John Waters in its historic streets. Beyond the sizzling gay nightlife, Baltimore tantalizes with its rich tapestry of history, from ancient Native American hunting grounds to colonial marvels.

Dive into this delightful queer playground and watch as Baltimore unveils its charismatic charms and fabulous secrets, ensuring every LGBTQ+ wanderer leaves with stories they’ll never forget.

Gay Boston United States Travel Guide

Pack your bags and put on those fabulous shoes because historic Boston is calling! With its storied past steeped in revolution, Boston has transformed into an LGBTQ+ beacon of hope and progressiveness, reminding us all of the city’s continuous journey for change.

From the cobblestone streets that once echoed revolutionary cries to the contemporary havens championing queer culture, Gay Boston beckons with a harmonious blend of history and modernity, proving that while we’ve come a long way, darling, the party is far from over!

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Honey, if you haven’t dipped your toes into the glittering waters of Gay Brooklyn, you’re truly missing out on a queer utopia! Brimming with a rich tapestry of history intertwined with an avant-garde zest, Brooklyn is the sanctuary where vintage charm melds seamlessly with trailblazing LGBTQ+ trends.

So, whether you’re in the mood for a sassy drag brunch in Bushwick or a tranquil sunset saunter along the DUMBO waterfront, Gay Brooklyn serves it all with a side of sass and unmatched flair. Prepare to be bewitched because this borough doesn’t just set the trends; it’s the gold standard of queer jubilation!

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GAY BUFFALO

Let’s talk Buffalo! This Queen City, shimmering in New York State, isn’t just about those famous wings – it’s a dazzling cocktail of rich history, architectural marvels, and a sizzling gay scene that’s been setting hearts aflame since the 80s. With streets that seem to sing and dance in queer celebration all year round and a backdrop that’s a masterpiece of design, Buffalo isn’t just a destination, darling; it’s an LGBTQ+ revelation waiting to be explored with flair and fabulousness!

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GAY CHARLOTTE

Pack your finest and get ready for a Southern soiree unlike any other! Charlotte, a shimmering gem in the South, beckons LGBTQ+ travelers with its radiant mix of evergreen charm and unstoppable queer energy. With nights as dazzling as its skyline, gay Charlotte isn’t just another pit stop; it’s the epitome of Southern hospitality draped in rainbow colors, setting the gold standard for what a queer haven should truly feel like.

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GAY CHATTANOOGA

Honey, if you think the South is all about sweet tea and slow twangs, Chattanooga is ready to serve you a delightful surprise with a side of fabulousness! This gem, snugly tucked amidst the Appalachian Mountains, isn’t just bursting with scenic allure and a beacon of vibrant culture and culinary zest.

Chattanooga’s heart beats in sync with artsy rhythms, tantalizing flavors, and an under-the-radar queer scene that’s as warm as a Tennessee sunset. Dive into this unexpected haven, and let Chattanooga’s charm embrace every shade of your rainbow.

Gay Chicago United States Travel Guide

GAY CHICAGO

If you haven’t let the infectious rhythm of Gay Chicago sweep you off your feet yet, what are you waiting for? With Boystown’s sparkling allure and Andersonville’s welcoming embrace, Chicago is not just a windy city but a whirlwind of queer celebrations, delicious deep-dish delicacies, and architectural marvels waiting to be explored.

Pack those glittery boots and dance to the heartbeats of one of America’s most underrated LGBTQ+ paradises. Don’t just catch the breeze; let Gay Chicago blow you away!

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GAY CINCINNATI

Let Cincinnati, Ohio — the sparkling gem of the Midwest — be your next decadent escape! With a legacy of its first gay bar in 1945, Gay Cincinnati has since blossomed, offering an eclectic array of nighttime haunts, rich architectural wonders, and a culinary scene that’s as diverse as our community.

From the irresistible allure of historic Over-the-Rhine to the iconic Cincinnati-style chili that’ll tingle your tastebuds, this city truly marries tradition with progression. So, strap on your most fabulous heels, immerse yourself in the vibrant hues of Queen City, and let Cincinnati’s embracing queer spirit whisk you away on an unforgettable adventure!

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GAY CLEVELAND

Darlings, let’s spill the tea: if you think Cleveland is all about rock ‘n’ roll and rust-belt charm, you’re missing half the story! Come for the Gay Games and the historic Leather Stallion Saloon, but stay for a city that’s a dazzling mosaic of queer culture, world-class museums, and lip-smacking corned beef. Trust me, honey; Gay Cleveland is not just any pit stop; it’s a queer haven waiting to be discovered—one where every night feels like a performance worth a standing ovation!

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GAY COLORADO SPRINGS

If you’re yearning for a blend of rugged beauty and a touch of queer resilience, look no further than Colorado Springs!

Set against the canvas of Colorado’s spellbinding mountains, this gem might wear its conservative badge with a mix of military pride, but beneath it lies a heart of gold — a tenacious LGBTQ+ community and allies championing change, ensuring that every visitor, no matter their stripe, feels the embrace of this city’s evolving warmth. So, buckle up, and let’s paint the town rainbow amidst its scenic splendors and tantalizing culinary treats!

Best Gay Dallas United States Travel Guide

If you’re craving a dash of Southern charm blended with a rainbow burst of queer culture, look no further than Dallas! In this Texas titan, you’ll find cowboys and drag queens dancing in harmony, and the pulsating heart of the Oak Lawn gaybourhood gives you nightlife zestier than a jalapeño margarita. The ‘Big D’ proves that the best things come in fabulous packages, and darling, this city is shimmering proof that love, diversity, and a dash of glitter can transform any place into a queer paradise.

Gay Denver United States Travel guide

Honey, if you’ve got the Rockies in your eyes and some sass in your step, then Denver is calling your name! A harmonious blend of cowboy charm and queer pizzazz, Gay Denver surprises and captivates, turning those mountainous backdrops into a stage for one of the USA’s most vivacious LGBTQ+ playgrounds. So, slip on those boots, slap on some glitter, and let Denver’s high-altitude allure whisk you into its warm, inclusive embrace.

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GAY DETROIT

Darlings, let’s talk Detroit! A city pulsating with raw energy, where iconic history meets electrifying nightlife, Detroit is an LGBTQ+ traveler’s dream wrapped in industrial charm. Dive into its decadent drag scene, twirl under the neon lights of Gigi’s, and by day, immerse yourself in the cultural embrace of the Detroit Institute of Arts – all before unwinding in the luxury of the Motor City Casino Hotel. Trust me, in the heart of Motown. Gay Detroit doesn’t just hum; it roars!

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GAY EUREKA SPRINGS

Let’s spill the tea on Eureka Springs, Arkansas – the unlikely starlet of the South and a glittering haven amidst the Bible Belt! From its vibrant ‘Diversity Weekends’ to streets adorned with pride flags and LGBTQ+ art, Eureka Springs isn’t just any quaint town—it’s the shimmering heart of gay fabulousness in a region you’d least expect. So why keep wandering? Grab those sparkly boots, and let’s waltz through America’s gayest small town, where every corner promises acceptance, allure, and an unforgettable adventure!

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GAY FIRE ISLAND

If there’s an Eden for the LGBTQ+ souls, it’s undoubtedly Fire Island! Just a stone’s throw from the bustling streets of NYC, this shimmering oasis offers not just sun-kissed beaches and playful waves but also a legacy of queer liberation that resonates in every sunlit corner.

Here, amidst the wooden pathways and starlit soirees, you’ll find a heartbeat that syncs with the rhythms of acceptance, freedom, and love. So, why just hear about the legendary parties and iconic moments? Slip into those fabulous beach outfits and make your own memories at this utopia of unabashed authenticity.

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GAY FORT LAUDERDALE

if you’re seeking a sizzling gay haven, look no further than Fort Lauderdale, where the rainbow doesn’t just touch the ground – it paints the town! Envision a place where the sun kisses both the shimmering beaches and the hearts of countless queer souls, crafting a vibrant tapestry of community, pride, and unapologetic flamboyance.

In Fort Lauderdale, every day feels like a Pride parade, and every night, an invitation to revel in its legendary LGBTQ+ nightlife. Dive in, darling, and let this fabulous Floridian gem sweep you off your feet!

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GAY HOLLYWOOD

If you’re seeking a destination dripping with glitz, glamour, and a sprinkle of rainbow magic, Hollywood in the heart of Los Angeles awaits you with open arms! This iconic locale, where dreams become a reality and the stars align (both on sidewalks and in the sky), isn’t just the birthplace of cinema; it’s a veritable playground for the queer community.

Dive deep into the pulsating heart of Hollywood, and you’ll find a vibrant mosaic of LGBTQ+ hotspots, from electrifying gay bars where the party never ends to chic hotels that scream opulence. And trust me, honey, once the allure of Hollywood captures your queer heart, you’ll be smitten for life!

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GAY HONOLULU

Aloha, darlings! Dive into the tropical allure of Gay Honolulu, where the shimmering sands of Waikiki Beach beckon by day, and the effervescent glow of the nightlife calls when the sun sets. Amidst the harmonious hum of waves and vibrant luaus, Honolulu stands as a luxurious LGBTQ+ haven, intertwining the essence of aloha with the free spirit of queer culture; believe me, honey, this radiant city is where the rainbow meets the ocean in an explosion of fabulousness!

GAY HOUSTON United States Travel Guide

GAY HOUSTON

Oh, honey, when you’re dreaming of cowboy boots, big dreams, and even bigger hearts, let Gay Houston be your shimmering southern star! A glittering beacon in the heart of Texas, where the Montrose beats like a rainbow-colored heart, Houston effortlessly mingles that down-south charm with an urban cosmopolitan flair that rivals global gay meccas. Dive into this exhilarating fusion of cultures, where rodeo meets runway, and where, beneath those wide-brimmed hats and sparkling city lights, acceptance and unity dance a sultry Texas two-step.

Gay Indianapolis United States Travel Guide

GAY INDIANAPOLIS

If you’ve been snoozing on Indianapolis, it’s time to wake up and smell the vibrant culture brewing in the heartland! Beyond the roaring engines of the Indy 500 and amidst the golden landscapes, this Midwestern gem sparkles with an electrifying gay scene that dances between historic charm and modern allure. Whether you’re sipping cocktails in a chic LGBTQ+ pub, drifting over the city in a romantic hot air balloon, or being serenaded by the autumnal symphony of its parks, Indianapolis welcomes you with a fabulous embrace that’s simply irresistible.

Gay Jacksonville United States Travel Guide

GAY JACKSONVILLE

Honey, pack your most fabulous sunglasses because Jacksonville, Florida , is beckoning! With its sun-kissed beaches and a pulsating queer heart, Jacksonville is the perfect blend of Floridian charm meets LGBTQ+ revelry. Dive into this southern gem, and you’ll soon discover why it’s the latest buzz in the Gay USA circuit: from sashaying through its artsy districts by day to shimmying in its inclusive nightlife spots by night, Jacksonville is the unmissable gaycation waiting to be explored!

Gay Kansas City United States Travel Guide

GAY KANSAS CITY

Darlings, if you’re looking for an unexpected gem that fuses heartland charm with a progressive spirit, Kansas City is calling your name! With its vivacious nightlife, iconic drag shows at places like Missie B’s, and an ever-evolving cultural tapestry that stands tall in its embrace of the LGBT+ community, Kansas City isn’t just on the map, it’s lighting it up in rainbow hues. Dive into this bustling metropolis, where acceptance isn’t just a policy but a way of life, and discover why Kansas City is the dazzling yet underrated star in the glittering constellation of gay destinations.

GAY KEY WEST United States Travel Guide

GAY KEY WEST

If you’re hunting for a sizzling paradise infused with an ever-evolving gay legacy, look no further than the glittering shores of Gay Key West! With its vibrant history of queer pioneers transforming it into an LGBTQ+ haven juxtaposed against azure waters and candy-colored homes, Key West is an alluring tapestry of acceptance and tropical luxury. Dive into a world where acceptance isn’t just a buzzword but a lived experience, where every sun-kissed lane and sultry soirée screams: “Be you, unapologetically!”

Gay Las Vegas United States Travel Guide

GAY LAS VEGAS

If you’ve ever dreamt of basking in neon lights while sipping on world-class cocktails and dancing your heart out to iconic beats, Gay Las Vegas is your glittering playground!

This vivacious city, once seen through a straight-laced lens, has now unfurled its fabulous wings, welcoming LGBTQ+ wanderers from across the globe with a promise of unforgettable adventures, star-studded residencies, and an acceptance that resonates down the iconic Strip. Dive into this oasis of glamour and liberation, where every corner bursts with rainbow-hued energy, and the mantra is clear: Be bold, be you, and let the dice roll!

Gay Lincoln United States Travel Guide

GAY LINCOLN

Oh, honey, if you think the Midwest is all cornfields and conservatism, prepare to have your sequins blown away by Lincoln, Nebraska—a little gay haven just waiting to dazzle you! Imagine stepping into a city where the queer pulse is as alive as the beat dropping in its fabulous gay dance clubs, a place that serves you history with a twist (from saltwater flats to the tech revolution), all while rallying its LGBTQ+ community together like a glorious, gay Kool-Aid—yes, the original, darling!

Gay Long Beach United States Travel Guide

GAY LONG BEACH

Allow me to whisk you away to the sun-soaked splendor of Long Beach, a jewel where rainbow hues shimmer brighter than the Cali sun! In a world where every gay destination claims to be the next big thing, Long Beach seductively whispers, “Why strive for the spotlight when you can shine effortlessly?”

With its intoxicating blend of vintage charm, architectural wonders, and a gay scene that’s as vivacious as a glitter-filled soirée, it’s no wonder this city-by-the-sea has become the go-to haven for those in the know. Step aside, WeHo and Castro; Long Beach is here, and it’s fabulous, fierce, and unapologetically thriving!

GAY LOS ANGELES United States Travel Guide

GAY LOS ANGELES

Honey, if you’re searching for the ultimate blend of glitz, glam, and all things queer, look no further than Gay Los Angeles – a shimmering oasis where the rainbow flag flutters amidst the palm trees, and every boulevard feels like a runway. Bursting at the seams with star-studded allure and a queer scene so vibrant it could outshine the Hollywood sign, Los Angeles beckons LGBTQ+ travelers with the promise of dreamy sunsets, iconic LGBTQ landmarks, and nights in WeHo that you’ll reminisce about for eons!

Gay Louisville United States Travel Guide

GAY LOUISVILLE

Pack those stylish boots and ready your palate because Louisville, Kentucky , is calling! Dripping in sultry Southern allure and bursting with a queer vibrancy that would make any LGBTQ+ heart sing, Louisville effortlessly marries its iconic horse-racing heritage with a rainbow-kissed nightlife.

Whether you’re sipping world-famous bourbon, trotting down to the legendary Kentucky Derby, or dancing the night away in its pulsating gay clubs, Louisville promises a whirlwind of memories. So, why hear about it when you can live it? Strap in for a fabulous ride!

gay Maui Hawaii United States travel guide

Darlings, if you’re yearning for a sultry soiree on sun-kissed shores, let the intoxicating allure of Maui sweep you off your feet! Marrying its pristine natural beauty with a burgeoning queer scene, Maui is where the spirit of aloha intertwines seamlessly with the rainbow flag, making it a dazzling gem in the crown of the Gay United States.

Whether you’re sashaying along its pristine beaches or grooving to the beats of its vibrant nightlife, Maui promises an unforgettable escapade for every LGBTQ+ wanderer. Honey, if paradise had a postcode, it would undoubtedly be Maui!

gay Memphis United States travel guide

GAY MEMPHIS

Brace yourselves for a symphony of soul, rhythm, and rainbow-hued vibes in Memphis! Dance to the hypnotic beats of Rock N’ Roll and sashay through the very streets where legends like Elvis left their indelible mark, all while relishing the city’s vibrant queer spirit. With a history as rich as its barbecue and gay haunts that sparkle with Southern charm, Gay Memphis is a Tennessee treasure where the past waltzes with the present, inviting every LGBTQ+ traveler for an unforgettable soiree.

Gay Miami United States Travel Guide

Dive headfirst into the vibrant allure of Gay Miami, a sun-kissed paradise that seamlessly blends the sultry rhythms of its diverse cultures with a passion for unbridled celebration. Whether you’re sashaying through its iconic art-deco boulevards or surrendering to the infectious beat of its legendary nightclubs, Miami promises an intoxicating escapade that captivates the soul and ignites the spirit. Darling, Miami isn’t just a destination; it’s an exuberant dance of life that awaits your every move!

Gay Milwaukee United States Travel Guide!

GAY MILWAUKEE

Allow me to let you in on a shimmering secret in America’s heartland: Gay Milwaukee. This vivacious Midwestern gem, with its intoxicating fusion of classic charm and innovative flair, has transformed into an avant-garde haven for the LGBTQ+ community.

Bursting with festivals, dazzling art spaces, and an unexpectedly vibrant gay scene, Milwaukee promises an allure that rivals even the most celebrated gay capitals around the world. So, don your most fabulous attire and dive into a city that’s reinventing the Midwestern gay experience. Cheers to Milwaukee – where the beer flows, hearts glow, and queer spirits soar!

gay Minneapolis United States travel guide

GAY MINNEAPOLIS

If you’re searching for a romantic escape that dazzles with a unique blend of urban chic and natural splendor, set your sights on Minneapolis! This jewel in America’s heartland is not just a kaleidoscope of glittering lakes and sky-piercing towers; it’s a gay utopia where love flows as freely as the Mississippi River and LGBTQ+ vibes resonate in every corner. With every heartbeat of its vibrant arts scene to the sultry rhythms of its gay nightlife, Minneapolis beckons lovers to bask in its embrace and revel in its radiant queer energy.

gay Mobile United States travel guide

Honey, let’s dive deep into the heart of Dixie and get charmed by the undeniable allure of Mobile, Alabama ! This Gulf Coast darling not only serves you a heavy dose of Southern hospitality and decadent culinary delights but twirls you around with its vibrant gay scene and trendsetting boutiques. Trust and believe Mobile is where the past marries the present, creating a dazzling dance of history, culture, and queer fabulousness that will leave your heart full and your bags even fuller!

gay Myrtle Beach United States travel guide

GAY MYRTLE BEACH

Darlings, let’s spill the tea on a seaside gem that’s serving sun, fun, and a splash of queer magic: Myrtle Beach! Don’t be fooled by her humble façade; beneath those sun-kissed dunes lies a pulsating heart that embraces every shade of the rainbow, making her a sizzling hotbed for LGBTQ+ wanderlust. Whether you’re voguing beside the iconic SkyWheel or sashaying down ‘The Grand Strand,’ Myrtle Beach is that underrated diva who’ll serve you history, adventure, and a dollop of fabulousness on a silver platter!

GAY NASHVILLE United States Travel Guide

GAY NASHVILLE

Dive into the dazzling enigma that is Gay Nashville: It’s where Southern charm meets an unapologetic queer heartbeat, crafting a mesmerizing musical journey that promises both twangs of tradition and pulsating modern vibes. From the legacy of Dolly Parton to neon-lit nights that sing tales of acceptance, this city is a radiant testament to the harmonious dance of the past and the present. Honey, if you’re looking for a place where cowboy boots tap alongside stilettos, where music, acceptance, and sparkle meld seamlessly, then Nashville’s waiting with open arms and a sassy wink!

Gay New Orleans United States Travel Guide

GAY NEW ORLEANS

Let the magnetic allure of Gay New Orleans enchant you! A city where sultry jazz notes blend seamlessly with the beats of your heart and the vibrant tapestry of cultures promises an experience as rich as a Creole dish.

Dive into this melting pot of history, art, and unrestrained passion; a city where every corner pulses with life and acceptance, beckoning LGBTQ+ souls to sashay down Bourbon Street, lose themselves in euphoric festivities, and relish the joy of being unapologetically fabulous. In New Orleans, every day is a celebration of life, love, and the enduring spirit of queerness.

Gay New York City USA Travel Guide

GAY NEW YORK CITY

If you’re looking to dance to the beat of the world’s most fabulous drum, there’s only one city that beckons with electric allure: New York City! With its iconic gaybourhoods and an infectious spirit that’s bolder and prouder than anywhere else on the planet, Gay New York is not just a destination; it’s an experience, an emotion, a sashay down the runway of world-renowned queer culture.

From the historic cobblestones of Greenwich Village to the avant-garde festivities in Brooklyn’s House of Yes, every corner of this metropolis pulsates with pride and passion. Honey, pack your sparkliest ensemble because NYC is calling—and trust me, you’ll want to answer!

gay Ogunquit United States travel guide

GAY OGUNQUIT

Honey, if you’re looking to be swept off your feet by New England’s magic, then Ogunquit, Maine, is your ultimate LGBTQ+ coastal romance! Picture this: a dreamy stroll down the Marginal Way, every step echoing the town’s vibrant gay legacy, while the symphony of crashing waves, passionate art scenes, and tantalizing cuisines beckons your senses. Darling, Ogunquit isn’t just a destination; it’s where your queer fairy tale comes to life.

gay Oklahoma City United States travel guide

GAY OKLAHOMA CITY

If you’re thinking Midwest and craving a slice of queer magic, let Oklahoma City surprise you! Often overlooked, this Southern belle has been secretly brewing a fabulously inclusive scene, blending rich tradition with a fresh, vibrant LGBTQ+ pulse. From the art-infused havens like the 21c Museum Hotel to the electric energy of Angles, there’s a sparkling gem in this city waiting for every glitter-hearted traveler. So, pack those sparkly boots and let OKC’s southern charm sweep you off your feet!

Gay Orlando United States Travel Guide

GAY ORLANDO

If you thought Orlando was just about fairy tales and roller coasters, think again! Peel back the pixie dust, and you’ll unveil a shimmering Gay Orlando pulsating with Latin beats, exuberant pride events, and neighborhoods buzzing with cosmopolitan verve.

This sun-soaked city not only knows how to throw a legendary party, but it stands as a testament to love’s enduring spirit, proving that even in the shadow of tragedy, love and unity dance on. So, pack your sequins and dancing shoes because in Gay Orlando, the dance floor awaits you, and honey, it’s fabulous!

GAY PALM SPRINGS United States Travel Guide

GAY PALM SPRINGS

Dazzling desert dreams come alive in Gay Palm Springs, a shimmering oasis that magnetically draws the LGBTQ+ community into its sun-kissed embrace. From its retro-chic pulse and iconic mid-century architecture to a bustling nightlife that rivals global gay hotspots, Palm Springs isn’t just a destination; it’s a flamboyant declaration that the best party on Earth is happening right here, right now. Darling, pack those shades and shimmering swimwear; this desert gem awaits your fabulous arrival!

GAY PHILADELPHIA United States Travel Guide

GAY PHILADELPHIA

Honey, if there’s a place where history meets hedonism, it’s Gay Philadelphia! This city is a fabulous fusion of iconic landmarks and flamboyant nights, where the bells of liberty harmonize with the beats of electric LGBTQ+ dance clubs.

With streets kissed by rainbows and tales of historic bravado, Philly isn’t just the cradle of American democracy; it’s a gay haven where every queer soul finds its rhythm. So, pack those glittery boots and join the parade because in Philadelphia, every cobblestone echoes with pride, and every corner invites you to embrace and celebrate your authentic self.

GAY PHOENIX United States Travel Guide

GAY PHOENIX

Honey, throw out those preconceptions and let’s spill the tea on Gay Phoenix! This sun-drenched oasis isn’t just about the scorching temps; it’s sizzling with a queer scene that will leave even the most seasoned jet-setters in awe.

Rising like a fabulous phoenix from the desert, this sprawling metropolis offers a unique blend of sunshine-soaked days and electrifying nights, proving that there’s more to Gay Phoenix than meets the eye. Prepare to be dazzled because this desert darling is on fire and waiting for you to dive into its radiant embrace!

gay Pittsburgh United States travel guide

GAY PITTSBURGH

Allow me to spill the tea on a glittering gem in the Rust Belt! Pittsburgh, often lauded for its industrial prowess, is bursting with queer energy and shimmering vibes that make it a must-visit destination for LGBTQ+ travelers.

Dive deep into the Warholian wonders of the Andy Warhol Museum by day and by night, sashay your way to the Blue Moon Bar, where drag queens reign supreme and the spotlight never dims. Amidst the steel and bridges, the heart of Gay Pittsburgh beats with passion, warmth, and fabulousness, ensuring every LGBTQ+ wanderer leaves with a story they’re dying to tell.

Gay Portland United States Travel Guide

GAY PORTLAND

Ah, honey! If you’re searching for a city that’s a kaleidoscope of quirky, chic, and unabashedly queer, then Portland, Oregon , is your glittering gem. Marrying its iconic landscapes with a nightlife that’s as vibrant as a sequined jumpsuit, Gay Portland dazzles and dances to its beat – an anthem of love, acceptance, and sassy flair.

Whether you’re here for the tantalizing burlesque shows or the ethereal embrace of Mother Nature, this eccentric enclave is bound to leave a sprinkle of its fabulousness on your heart. Dive in, darling, and let Portland’s authentic rainbow hues illuminate your queer journey!

GAY PROVIDENCE United States Travel Guide

GAY PROVIDENCE

Pack your finest and set your sights on Providence, Rhode Island — a city that shimmers with queer energy and wraps you in a rainbow embrace like no other! Providence emerges as an unexpected beacon of LGBTQ+ celebration, where every corner pulsates with inclusivity, history, and unparalleled charm.

Not just a historical gem, this city is a glittering fusion of arts, gastronomy, and unabashed pride. So, darling, if you’re yearning for a destination that dazzles by day and electrifies by night, strut on down to Providence — where every day feels like a fabulous Pride parade!

Gay Provincetown United States Travel Guide

GAY PROVINCETOWN

If you’re seeking a flamboyant fusion of history, art, and queer culture, then Gay Provincetown is your ultimate destination! An iconic haven at the tip of Cape Cod, ‘P-Town’ isn’t just a town; it’s an experience brimming with exuberance and a rich tapestry of LGBTQ+ stories that have left indelible marks on its sands. From its pulsating summer fiestas to its tranquil winter allure, Provincetown is a shimmering gem that promises not just a getaway, but a glorious embrace of everything fabulously queer.

Gay Raleigh United States Travel Guide

GAY RALEIGH

Honey, if you’re chasing a Southern charm with a queer twist, let Raleigh be your next sojourn! This North Carolina gem dazzles not just with its radiant LGBTQ+ spirit but with a tantalizing blend of vibrant nightlife, drool-worthy eateries, and the ever-glowing warmth of Raleigh Pride. So, whether you’re dancing the night away or sipping cocktails in a chic bar, Gay Raleigh beckons you with open arms and a promise of unforgettable memories.

Gay Rehoboth Beach United States Travel Guide

GAY REHOBOTH BEACH

If you’re hunting for that shimmering blend of sun, sea, and unadulterated queerness, look no further than Rehoboth Beach! Nestled in Delaware’s embrace, this petite coastal gem might boast a modest year-round headcount, but come summer, it metamorphoses into a scintillating LGBTQ+ haven, shimmering with charisma and allure. Trust me, the effervescence of Gay Rehoboth Beach, teeming with over 200 gay-owned businesses and beaches that sparkle with pride, is an East Coast secret you simply can’t afford to miss!

Gay Reno United States Travel Guide

If you’re yearning for a splash of desert dazzle intertwined with mountain mystique, then look no further than Reno, the Biggest Little City in the World! While its LGBTQ+ pulse may play coy, once you’re in the know, you’ll discover an oasis of vibrant gay haunts and a digital tapestry of queer connections waiting to embrace you.

Amidst the shimmer of casinos and whispers of gold rush tales, Reno beckons the wanderlust-driven souls with its blend of history, nightlife, and the irresistible allure of Lake Tahoe’s splendor. So why wait? Reno is that fabulous gem, waiting to be unfurled and cherished by every vivacious traveler like you!

Gay Sacramento United States Travel Guide

GAY SACRAMENTO

Darlings, if you’re searching for an under-the-radar gay haven with a sprinkle of history, culture, and politics, then Sacramento is your golden ticket! Nestled in the heart of California, this vibrant capital city serves you not just political realness but a flourishing gay scene in the Midtown neighborhood—especially around the fabulous Lavender Heights.

With an eclectic blend of queer-owned businesses, riveting annual LGBT festivals, and a rich tapestry of history and diversity, Gay Sacramento is an unsung gem that guarantees a kaleidoscopic experience you won’t soon forget.

Gay Salt Lake City United States Travel Guide

GAY SALT LAKE CITY

Honey, if you haven’t sipped the splendidness that is Gay Salt Lake City, you’re in for a vivacious surprise! Nestled between towering peaks and a deeply-rooted history, Salt Lake City spins a tale where queer vitality thrives amidst natural wonders and cultural sanctuaries.

Here, alpine vistas share their space with shimmering disco balls, and you’re just as likely to be swept off your feet by a charming drag queen as by the view from a mountaintop. So, don those hiking boots by day and glittery heels by night, and dive headfirst into this dazzling dichotomy that only Gay Salt Lake City can offer!

GAY SAN ANTONIO United States Travel Guide

GAY SAN ANTONIO

Let me spill some tea: San Antonio is Texas’s shimmering queer jewel that too often plays coy beneath the shadows of other well-known LGBTQ+ hotspots.

But make no mistake; Gay San Antonio is the eclectic fusion of Texan swagger and vibrant gay life, where the sparkle of the River Walk meets the beats of fabulous queer fiestas. A confluence of history, sass, and undeniable charm, this city wraps you in a sultry dance – promising wild nights, rich cultural tapestries, and the kind of southern hospitality that’ll make you swoon!

GAY SAN DIEGO United States Travel Guide

GAY SAN DIEGO

If you’re craving a destination that’s a potent cocktail of sun, sass, and sumptuous vibes, Gay San Diego is where you need to set sail! Shimmering beyond its past, this coastal haven is a radiant confluence of surfer allure, culinary wonders, and queer energy so infectious; it’ll make your heart skip a beat.

Dive into the vibrant tapestry of the Hillcrest district, where rainbow flags sway in rhythm with the Cali breeze, and every nook seems to whisper tales of pride and celebration. Amidst the golden beaches and soulful sunsets, let San Diego’s irresistible charm wrap you in a fabulous embrace, and trust me, honey, you’ll wonder why you didn’t arrive sooner!

GAY SAN FRANCISCO United States Travel Guide

GAY SAN FRANCISCO

When we utter the magical words “Gay San Francisco,” every fiber of fabulousness within you should be on high alert! This isn’t just any city; it’s a glittering haven of acceptance, activism, and unapologetic celebration.

Think of San Francisco as the shimmering North Star on the global LGBTQ+ compass – a divine intersection of history, culture, and revolutionary spirit. For those seeking to revel in a world where being queer isn’t just accepted but celebrated with gusto, San Francisco offers an invitation wrapped in a rainbow flag and sealed with a sassy wink. Dive in, and let’s toast to the queer utopia that’s been setting the gold standard for decades!

Gay San Juan United States Travel Guide

GAY SAN JUAN

Oh, honey! San Juan isn’t just a stopover, it’s THE queer tropical dream. Imagine sashaying down cobbled streets, framed by Spanish colonial wonders, only to end up dancing the night away, surrounded by vivacious locals and fellow LGBTQ+ wanderers. From its pulsating beats to its rich historical tapestry, Gay San Juan invites you to don your most fabulous beach attire and immerse in a city that’s equal parts historic charm and modern queer celebration.

Gay Santa Cruz United States Travel Guide

GAY SANTA CRUZ

Let’s talk Santa Cruz! Where the Pacific kisses golden sands, and counterculture thrives, Santa Cruz emerges as a sun-soaked utopia. Mingle with Silicon Valley moguls and hippy dreamers alike in this bohemian haven, and while the nightlife might not mirror Vegas’ dazzle, the town’s vibrant gay community promises events that shimmer with authenticity and pride. Dive deep into its charm and find yourself dancing to the rhythm of waves and acceptance in Gay Santa Cruz.

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GAY SANTA FE

Honey, if you’re craving an intoxicating mix of art, history, and queer energy, look no further than the sun-kissed Santa Fe! Dubbed the “second gayest city” in the USA, Santa Fe isn’t just a melting pot of cultures; it’s a pulsating hub where every alleyway and adobe building exudes a spirit of acceptance, artistry, and unparalleled allure. From its buzzing queer scene to the labyrinth of galleries that celebrate creative genius, Santa Fe wraps you in a bohemian embrace that’s simply too fabulous to resist!

Gay Sarasota United States Travel Guide

GAY SARASOTA

If you’re looking for a sun-kissed, culturally rich, and undeniably queer-friendly getaway, let Sarasota seduce you with its radiant charm. Beyond its sultry beaches and tantalizing gay nightlife, this Floridian gem beckons with a tapestry of history, adventure, and vibrant LGBTQ+ celebrations – a riveting blend that ensures Sarasota is far more than just a fleeting summer fling; it’s a passionate love affair waiting to unfold.

Gay Saugatuck United States Travel Guide

GAY SAUGATUCK

If you’re searching for a hidden gem that glitters with gay allure, look no further than the enchanting Saugatuck, Michigan! With a heart that beats passionately for its LGBTQ+ community, this petite beachside haven boasts over 140 queer-friendly establishments and the iconic Dunes Resort, ensuring every visit is sprinkled with fabulousness and flair.

Meanwhile, as you saunter through its historic streets or bask in the sun-kissed embrace of the world-renowned Oval Beach, you’ll quickly realize that Saugatuck’s charm transcends labels, offering a slice of paradise for every kind of traveler. Get ready, honey, because Saugatuck is serving some serious sizzle!

Gay Savannah United States Travel Guide

GAY SAVANNAH

Pack your sequins and southern charm because Savannah is the unsung gay belle of the ball you’ve been waiting to dance with! Imagine sipping a mint julep along the historic River Street, where queerness is as woven into the cityscape as the Spanish moss hanging from the trees, especially during their radiant Savannah Pride in October. From Forrest Gump’s iconic bench at Chippewa Square to an 18th-century backdrop that’s just begging for your Instagram moments, Savannah is a gay travel paradise hidden in a historical daydream.

GAY SEATTLE United States Travel Guide

GAY SEATTLE

Honey, if you’re dreaming of a city where innovation marries fabulousness, and progress walks hand in hand with pride, then look no further than Gay Seattle! Bursting at the seams with diverse neighborhoods, it’s Capitol Hill that steals the limelight, serving as the pulsating heart of LGBTQ+ life — from its myriad queer cafes to its flamboyantly fabulous nightlife.

Add in the city’s unwavering embrace of individuality and its natural beauty, and Seattle emerges not just as a destination but a vibrant experience, ever-evolving and unapologetically queer. Dive into this enchanting dance of diversity; Seattle’s calling, darling!

Gay St. Louis United States Travel Guide

GAY ST. LOUIS

Honey, if you think the shimmering Gateway Arch is the only sparkle St. Louis has to offer, you’ve got another think coming! Beyond its emblematic moniker as the “Gateway to the West,” St. Louis emerges as a vivacious haven of LGBTQ+ revelry and camaraderie.

The rhythm of jazz might have put the city on the global map, but it’s the infectious beat of Gay St. Louis that keeps the heart pulsing, promising nights of unbridled joy, dancing, and delightful encounters. Dive deep into the queer nooks and crannies of this Midwestern jewel, and you’re bound to discover that when the sun sets, the true colors of Gay St. Louis shine brightest.

Gay St. Petersburg Russia Travel Guide

GAY ST. PETERSBURG

Pack your sunglasses and your sassiest swimwear because St. Petersburg, Florida, is calling all fabulous travelers to bask in its perennial sunshine! With a glittering gay scene that might just outshine its legendary 360 sun-soaked days a year, this coastal gem marries its rich tapestry of history with an audacious LGBTQ+ spirit that rivals even the most iconic pride celebrations.

Dive into the vibrant queer nightlife, and then indulge in its storied past, tracing back to ancient indigenous cultures and flamboyant Spanish explorers. In St. Petersburg, every sunray is a spotlight, and darling, it’s your time to shine!

GAY TAMPA United States Travel Guide

Honey, pack those bags and prepare to be dazzled because Gay Tampa is the Floridian gem you’ve been missing out on! With its seductive blend of pioneering gastronomy, buzzing GaYbor district nightlife, and sultry sandy retreats, Tampa is ready to serve you sun-kissed adventures and memorable nights, making it an unmissable LGBTQ+ haven on Florida’s radiant Gulf Coast.

gay Toledo United States travel guide

Let’s jet-set to Toledo, Ohio — an underrated queer haven where fabulousness meets rich history! Nestled in the heart of the rock and roll state, Toledo dazzles not just with its vibrant gay scene but also its profound roots from ancient civilizations, iconic art havens, and the shimmer of the glass industry.

Whether you’re swaying to beats in a trendy gay club or basking in the glow of the Toledo Museum of Art, this gem promises an unforgettable blend of culture, camaraderie, and charm. Honey, pack those glittery boots; Toledo’s calling!

Gay Tucson United States Travel Guide

Honey, if you’re seeking an eclectic fusion of rich history, radiant nightlife, and dazzling desert landscapes, let’s tango in Tucson! This Arizonian gem, shimmering under the vast Southwestern skies, surprises and sizzles with its bustling gay scene, inviting you to indulge in both its vibrant City of Gastronomy delights and its queer party vibes. So pack your dancing shoes and your adventure spirit, and let Gay Tucson enchant you with its unique blend of old-world charm and contemporary zest.

Gay Tulsa United States Travel Guide

Let’s raise the curtain on Gay Tulsa, the unexpected gem of the Midwest! Beyond its jazz riffs and the allure of Route 66, Tulsa sparkles with an LGBTQ+ scene as vibrant as its art deco skyline, promising every queer traveler a delightful mix of history, culture, and electric nightlife.

Dive deep, and you’ll find that beneath its oil-rich legacy, Tulsa beats with a passionate gay heart, offering everything from sultry art galleries to thumping dance floors. So why not indulge? After all, in Gay Tulsa, every day feels like a fabulous parade, and honey, you’re always the star!

Gay Washington DC USA Travel Guide

GAY WASHINGTON DC

Dive into Gay Washington, DC and unearth a treasure trove of queer delights that rival any major metropolis! From the pulsating beats of Dupont Circle to the avant-garde thrills of Adams-Morgan, DC isn’t just about politics—it’s a vivid tapestry of diversity, acceptance, and non-stop celebrations, waiting for every queer traveler to revel in its glory. So, put on those glittery boots, and let’s strut down the corridors of DC’s unparalleled LGBTQ scene!

GAY WEST HOLLYWOOD

Let’s get one thing straight: West Hollywood is the dazzling queer jewel of California. Bursting with vibrant gay bars, iconic LGBTQ+ landmarks, and an undeniable energy, “WeHo” is where history meets hedonism, and honey, it’s fabulous!

Dive deep into its storied past—from the sacred grounds of the Tongva tribe to the glittering rise of the Sunset Strip—and then sashay through the streets, where the modern beat of gay life plays on. Whether you’re sunbathing in Santa Monica or chasing those Hollywood dreams, a trip to Gay West Hollywood promises endless enchantment with a touch of sass!

Gay West Palm Beach USA Travel Guide

GAY WEST PALM BEACH

Honey, if sun-soaked fantasies of hunky men in banana hammocks paired with pristine beaches set your heart aflutter, then West Palm Beach is calling your fabulous name! Dive into this sultry Floridian jewel where culture, nightlife, and golden sands flirtatiously dance together, ensuring that every LGBTQ+ wanderer leaves with a heart full of memories and a tan to die for.

Gay Wilton Manors United States Travel Guide

GAY WILTON MANORS

Honey, if you’re scouting for an underrated queer haven bathed in sunshine, then let Wilton Manors lure you in with its sassy charm! Dubbed the “second gayest city in America,” this Floridian gem boasts a pulsating LGBTQ+ scene, rich indigenous history, and a spirited vibrancy that dances to the tunes of the legendary Stonewall Riots. Whether you’re sipping a cocktail in a fabulous bar or hopping on a train for a coastal escapade, Wilton Manors promises a dazzling kaleidoscope of queer adventures and sun-kissed memories.

Gay Queens United States Travel Guide

If you’ve yet to indulge in the vibrant allure of Queens, New York, then prepare for a sensory extravaganza! Bursting with Latin flair and an effervescent gay scene, Queens beckons with the raw authenticity of its neighborhoods and a culinary tapestry that’s nothing short of intoxicating. Unapologetically eclectic, this borough promises an immersive journey of discovery where every corner serenades you with tales of diversity, passion, and unbridled joie de vivre.

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These Are Going to Be the Most Popular Travel Destinations in 2024

A lready thinking about where you want to travel in 2024 ? If you’re hoping to hit the hottest travel destinations of the year, Expedia Group is here to help. The one-stop travel site—alongside Hotels.com and VRBO—just released Unpack '24 , a travel trends analysis for the coming year. In addition to detailing the projected top 10 most popular international destinations of 2024, the site also revealed 10 “dupes” for travelers looking to perhaps spend a bit less, as well as those hoping to be surrounded by fewer fellow tourists. Additionally, they revealed 10 affordable cities where the world’s biggest musical acts are set to perform, as well as where to travel if you live a sober lifestyle.

“At Expedia Group, we have extensive first-party travel data that we use to enhance and curate experiences for our travelers across Expedia, Hotels.com, and Vrbo,” Jon Gieselman, president of Expedia Brands, says in the report. “These insights shape our travel forecasts, revealed in Unpack '24, enabling our travelers to be the first to discover and book the most desired trips before they become well-beaten paths.”

Ready to ignite your travel bug? Ahead, discover the most popular travel destinations of 2024.

The Top 10 Travel Destinations of 2024

Expedia Group predicts that travelers are most likely to jet set to destinations popularized in fan-favorite TV shows and movies. According to the report, “More than half of travelers say they’ve researched or booked a trip to a destination after seeing it on a TV show or in a movie. In fact, travelers say TV shows influence their travel decisions more than Instagram, TikTok, and podcasts.” With that in mind, they reveal that the top 10 travel destinations of 2024 are as follows:

  • Thailand - Featured in White Lotus , Season 3—which has sadly been pushed to premiere in 2025
  • Romania - Featured in Wednesday , Season 2—which has not yet set a release date
  • Malta - As seen in Gladiator 2 , which is set to premiere on November 22, 2024
  • Paris - As seen in Emily in Paris
  • Scottish Highlands - Featured in Outlander
  • London, Bath, and Windsor, U.K. - As seen in Bridgerton and The Crown
  • South Korea - Featured in Squid Game —the Season 2 release date has yet to be announced
  • Florida Keys - As seen in the series Bad Monkey
  • Australia - Featured in Baz Luhrmann’s Faraway Downs series, as well as the film Furiosa , which is set to premiere on May 24, 2024
  • Greece - as seen in the films Argylle (set to release in 2024) and My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3

The Top 10 Travel Destination Dupes

Dupes have long been lauded in the beauty and fashion categories, and now the concept is making its way to travel. “1 in 3 of those polled say they’ve booked a dupe,” the report reveals. “But what do these less obvious alternatives offer besides potential savings? They’re often less crowded, tend to be a little unexpected, and can be every bit as delightful as the tried-and-true destinations.”

Intrigued by the idea of booking a stellar vacation for a fraction of the price? Check out Expedia Group’s Top 10 Travel Destination Dupes, below, which are listed as the original destination of inspiration and the dupe that mirrors it.

  • Seoul —> Taipei
  • Bangkok —> Pattaya
  • Santorini —> Paros
  • Saint Martin —> Curaçao
  • Sydney —> Perth
  • London —> Liverpool
  • Lisbon —> Palermo
  • Geneva —> Québec City
  • Zermatt —> Sapporo
  • Nashville —> Memphis

The Top 10 Tour-Inspired Travel Destinations

Music lovers, this one’s for you! As you well know, traveling to see your favorite artists live is expensive, to say the least. With this in mind, Expedia set out to find the most affordable destinations where the world’s most famous pop and rock stars are set to take the stage in 2024.

Through their research, in which they analyzed the average daily rates of tour locations, they found the top 10 most affordable cities (less than $150/night on average) where travelers can witness the likes of Taylor Swift, Olivia Rodrigo, Coldplay, Metallica, Madonna, and more. They are as follows:

  • Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia - $91
  • Edmonton, Canada - $108
  • Mexico City, Mexico - $119
  • Warsaw, Poland - $119
  • Birmingham, U.K. - $127
  • Houston, Texas - $130
  • Antwerp, Belgium - $140
  • Tokyo, Japan - $147
  • Perth, Australia - $148
  • Detroit, Michigan - $149

For more research-backed travel trends, be sure to check out Expedia’s full Unpack ‘24 Trend Report .

Discover destinations all over the world inspired by TV and movie sets, music tours, lifestyle trends, and more.

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Therapists say it's normal to have pangs of loneliness while traveling alone.

Even the most enthusiastic solo travelers know that loneliness can sneak up on you while traveling the world. While your initial reaction may be to avoid those feelings, therapists say it helps to embrace the emotion.

“Just like you’re choosing to travel to experience new things, give yourself permission to feel different things throughout your journey,” says Samantha Bender , LCSW-S, a therapist at Octave based in Texas. “So often, the most exploring you do when you travel is within yourself.”

Her first suggestion is to ask yourself what you want to get out of your travel experience. Are you traveling solo because you want peace and quiet, and a feeling of independence? Or are you traveling solo so that you have the freedom to meet a lot of different people? Perhaps it’s a bit of both.

While you could tailor a trip to spend most of your solo travel adventure alone, there’s also group trips led by tour companies like Kensington Tours and Abercrombie & Kent that give you an opportunity to meet other travelers with similar interests.

Why Do You Feel Lonely When Traveling Solo?

When we experience amazing moments in our lives, like travel, we want to share it with others, explains Colleen Marshall, MA, LMFT, and Vice President of Clinical Care at Two Chairs .

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“There is even research from the positive psychology world that when we do share something we are savoring or enjoying with others it increases our experience of happiness and sense of joy,” Marshall says. “When we are traveling, solo sharing is harder to do because those we care about are not readily available to share with or talk with.”

Solo travelers can come up with a plan before their trip for how they'll handle loneliness.

Her advice?

Think about how you will share your travel or experiences with others ahead of time.

“Maybe set up a video call with a loved one during a meal or end your day with sharing what you enjoyed,” Marshall says.

7 Ways To Avoid Feeling Lonely When Traveling Solo

While it’s normal to feel pangs of loneliness while solo traveling, you don’t want the feeling to overshadow your trip entirely. With that in mind, therapists and seasoned solo travelers share their top tips to avoid feeling lonely while traveling.

1. Before Your Trip, Come Up With A Plan To Handle Your Loneliness

Some tactics, Bender says, that can be part of your plan include:

  • Bring some journaling prompts
  • Download your favorite podcasts or songs for a mood lift
  • Start a travel journal where you can collect mementos and photos

As part of your plan for preparation, create a plan for when you return home. Schedule an appointment with your therapist where you can share new revelations or insights that you gathered while on your trip.

2. Write Postcards While On Your Trip

Writing can be very therapeutic especially if you’re feeling lonely or dissociated, Bender says.

“When we write, it helps us feel present in our reality,” she says. “Try writing a letter or sending a postcard to a loved one while you’re on your trip. You can even send a note of gratitude to yourself so that you have something waiting for you in the mail to remind you of your experience.”

3. Consider Low-Energy And High-Energy Options To Address Feelings Of Loneliness

If you find yourself lonely on a trip, consider your energy level, and go over different high-energy and low-energy options you have, Bender recommends. This practice is applicable for daily life, but even more important when you’re traveling because it can be so tiring.

A high-energy option would be signing up for a group activity, such as a guided tour or a cooking class, she says. That is a structured way to introduce yourself to others while learning a new skill, and both can be healthy distractions or preventions for loneliness.

Taking a cooking class is a great way to meet people when you are traveling alone.

People-watching is a low-energy thing you can do to feel less lonely while you travel, she says. Embrace that time to people-watch as a way to connect to the world and the people around you.

4. Look For Opportunities To Connect With Others

While traveling, look for activities where you can connect with other travelers or locals, Marshall suggests. For example, rather than going through the museum alone, join a tour guided experience.

“Connection is all around us, we just need to join in,” she says.

Some other ways to meet people organically while traveling solo is to go to local cafes, markets, community events and learn about their culture, says Reen B. Patel , a Licensed Educational Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Participate in group excursions like day trips and tours, she suggests.

5. Co-Work in A New Place

Try checking out a co-working space in a new city.

Ahead of your travels, check out your LinkedIn to see if you have any connections in the destination that you’re traveling to, suggests Katya Varbanova , says CEO of Viral Marketing Stars. If you’re a digital nomad or traveling for bleisure (business plus leisure), rent a desk at a coworking space and meet some fellow travelers or locals. Another option is being a part of a member’s club like Soho House, she points out. The “Every House” membership unlocks access to the houses all around the world, including their amenities, like spas, screening rooms and events.

6. Book an Airbnb Experience

Musician Alissa Musto has taken dozens of solo trips over the past few years and recommends booking an Airbnb experience, which are hosted by locals and are popular among solo travelers who you can connect with over shared interests. These types of experience range from city tours to the ins and outs of beekeeping to learning the art of origami.

7. Volunteer With Other Travelers

Volunteering while traveling is a great way to meet like-minded people.

Another idea? Give back to the place you’re visiting. The Hawaiian islands, for example, started the Mālama Hawai'i program to better connect tourists with Hawaiian land and culture.

“I’ve also found that volunteering is a great way to be part of a community for a day, and do something good with your time and talent,” Musto says. “I’ve met several interesting people from all over the world as a volunteer and they’re always happy to have additional help and meet new friends.”

Good Destinations For Solo But Social Travel

Surprisingly, I’ve found that some of the best places for solo travelers to socialize are not big cities at all, but less popular tourist destinations and national parks, Musto says.

“Big tourist destinations and cities often attract groups of friends traveling together, couples or families that are more into doing their own thing,” she says.

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On the flipside, quieter, outdoors-centric destinations attract many solo travelers trying to enjoy nature, but open to socializing with other-like minded individuals and people tend to be welcoming, inviting and happy to strike up a conversation or share a meal.

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A Palestinian Islamic Jihad terrorist admitted to raping an Israeli girl in her home during Hamas’ Oct. 7, 2023 surprise attack, according to chilling footage of his interrogation released Thursday by the Israel Defense Forces.

Manar Mahmoud Muhammad Kasem, 28, confessed to the sick act after he was captured, along with hundreds of other PIJ and Hamas terrorists, by the IDF at Shifa Hospital in Gaza, i24News reported.

Armed with two grenades and a handgun in last year’s attack on Israel, Kasem told interrogators he entered the nearest home and found the girl in her room, who he said was “scared.”

“She told me to help her,” he said. “I took her and threw her on the couch.”

He remembered the girl as being thin with short hair and was wearing a blue skirt and white shirt before he ripped off her clothes and sexually assaulted her.

“The devil took over me. I laid her down, started undressing her, and did what I did. I slept with her.”

Manar Mahmoud Muhammad Kasem being interrogated.

The interrogator rejected that, telling Kasem: “You did not sleep with her, sleep is to sleep, so what did you do?”

Kasem replied: “I raped her.”

He said the assault didn’t “last long” because he “heard shouting outside.”

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Al-Aqsa Martyrs Brigade members.

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The release of Kasem’s interrogation comes days after former hostage, Amit Soussana, recalled being sexually assaulted by her Hamas captor.

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The 40-year-old said the abuse started just days after she was taken hostage. Her captor had unchained her from her bed and then shoved a gun in her forehead, she told The New York Times .

Soussana was forced to shower by her captor, who was only identified as Muhammad, who then took her into a children’s bedroom and assaulted her.

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“He sat me on the edge of the bath. And I closed my legs. And I resisted. And he kept punching me and put his gun in my face,” she said. “Then he dragged me to the bedroom,” she recalled to The Times.

“Then he, with the gun pointed at me, forced me to commit a sexual act on him,” she said.

Prior to the assault, Muhammad watched over her and often came and sat beside her, lifting her shirt and groping her, she told the publication. She said he would often ask her about her sex life and walked by her room in his underwear.

A United Nations report from earlier this month indicates that there is “clear and convincing information” that some Israeli hostages had suffered sexual violence.

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