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37 Fun, Unique, and Awesome Surprises For Your Boyfriend

Updated December 23, 2021 by Callisto Adams Leave a Comment

Surprise!! We all love surprises, even the ones that say they don’t. There are good and bad surprises, fortunately, in this article I will show you the good ones. One of the good things about a surprise is that it isn’t expected, and that is exciting.

A few possible reasons you’re here could be: you want to know how to be good to your boyfriend, you’re thinking of how to surprise your boyfriend during lockdown, or the usual “How to surprise my boyfriend for no reason?”…

Perhaps you ran out of things to do with your boyfriend , and now you’re trying to spice things up a little, or you just want to make him happy, or whatever reason in the world brought you here… Welcome sister!

Listen up hun, I got you!

Why Surprising Him is a Good Idea – Psychologically Explained

According to Greater Good Magazine surprises have to do with dopamine which is a very important chemical in our brains. Surprises help in releasing dopamine in our system hence it makes us more cheerful.

In this case, a good surprise for your boyfriend would not only be good for him, it would be good for you too. You’d see him smile, and it’d make you smile too. The felt type of smiles, ya know! Keep them dopamine levels rising baby!

Surprise Guide – Questions to Answer Before You Surprise Him

– How will the surprise affect him?

I know I said earlier in the article that even the ones that don’t admit to like surprises like surprises. But! But, you want to know what type of surprise to make for a certain type of person. Think of what he likes and what he doesn’t, and ask yourself (but not overthink it) “Is he going to like this?”.

– What type of person is he? (Interrelates with what surprises do boyfriends like)

Does he do business, sports, music, art, or is he an adrenaline junkie. Try to be reasonable, and not just surprise him with something he doesn’t like. Let’s say he’s an adrenaline junkie, a good surprise for him would be a surprise ride in a sports car. What are the odds that he’ll like the surprise you’re about to do?

– How long has it been since you’re together?

There are some surprises that cannot be done too early in a relationship, like changing his alarm, it would be a little too fast, since it would be considered a little bit of an invasion of personal space.

– What does he enjoy the most?

…besides food and sex? Think of that, and if you can’t seem to find an answer, ask him. So that you know what to surprise him after a long day/week of work. Ask yourself, what can you gift him to make him feel special.

– Does he plan everything?

If he does, you might want to consider your surprise once again (depending on the surprise you’re wanting to make). For example: If he likes to have everything ‘under control’ and planned, flying to him might not be a very good idea; Instead, a sweet voice message in the morning, or sending him a gift might work.

Awesome and Interesting Surprises For Him

1. vacation tickets.

If he always wanted to go to a place on vacation, get those tickets for him! He’ll be grateful, and will love you for that. You can be part of the vacation, or not, it depends on whether he wanted to go alone, or have company.

Note: Be careful in case he works a certain job, make sure that he can actually go on that planned vacation.

2. If You’re in a Long Distance – Fly to Them

Do you know what the biggest surprise for your man is? No, it’s not a stripper, Bridget! It’s you! You’re the biggest surprise, get those tickets, and hug him for realsies.

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3. Buy Gifts For Your Boyfriend Just Because You Feel Like it

Doesn’t have to be necessarily big, it can be something small and unique. For instance, I once went to an antique shop, and saw this very beautiful mini sculpture, it made me think of him, and I got it for him just because, no special occasion; He loved it!

4. Breakfast in Bed

Who wouldn’t want some tasty breakfast in bed? Well. a person that has a problem eating in the bedroom, but that’s not the point. Make something tasty within your cooking skills, you don’t want to go too far with it, and surprise that motherf*cker! If you want to make it more romantic (or make up for the food if it didn’t come out as planned), you can add a love note, it’s a good sign of appreciation, and gratefulness towards him.

5. Turn His Alarm Into Something Sweet

“How to surprise your boyfriend in the morning?” This one is for the ones in a long-term relationship, the ones where you’re comfortable enough to grab his phone and change his alarm. You can record yourself saying sweet morning words, he’ll wake up to your voice and his day will have a beautiful start.

6. Cook or Order His Favorite Dish and Don’t Let Him Know About it

Let’s say he told you he had a long day at work or simply something didn’t go as well. Cook or order his favorite dish (if you don’t know what his favorite dish is, ask him) and once he gets into the house, he feels the smell and sees his favorite food served on the table. It’ll make his day, and he’ll be thankful to have such a thoughtful person in his life.

7. Indoor Tent

We’re all children on the inside, well, most of us. Build one of those tents out of blankets, pillows, get some fairy lights, light up some candles, you can even get flowers, some delicious food and drinks. The key to this surprise is not letting them know what you’re up to: They open the door, they see it. The rest of the night is up to both of you, enjoy!

8. Plane Ticket

If he’s been wanting to visit a place, but for some reason he’s been postponing plans to visit it, it is time for you to buy the ticket for him, so he has a good reason to finally visit the place. Yes, he will love you for that and all, but the most important thing is that you’ll make him happy, that’s the reason you’re looking for surprises for him, to make him happy.

9. Ball Game Ticket

Most men love games, this is accurate in whichever angle you look at it: The games in relationships, the video games, the ball games, you name it! However, right now I’m talking about the ball games. Get him a ticket so he can see the live game. You’ll have him out of the house for a few hours, and he’ll be joyful to have witnessed the game in person.

10. Concert Ticket

Surprise him, with concert ticket/s, you can go with him, or if it is something he loves and you don’t get a ticket for him only, a selfless move if you will.

11. A Romantic Way to Tell Him You Love Him if You Never Told Him Before

If you love him, but haven’t told him yet, and feel like it’s time to tell him. You can let him know by playing a love song for him, and after it’s done let him know by telling him with your words. You can also plan a nice evening and write it on paper so he can read it. Or write him a poem. Or simply tell him, stop holding it in!

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12. Surprise Trip With Car (you’re driving)

Pick him up from work, or just tell him “Get in the car baby, I’m driving!”, and drive him somewhere nice, drive him mad (in the good meaning) with your surprise.

13. After a Long Week: a Bubble Bath, Wine, and Candles

It’s like a little SPA, but at home. Get those bubbles ready, get the wine if you’re both into it, light those candles up, and “SURPRISE!!”…

14. A Romantic Candlelit Dinner

Order, or cook, get some wine, light them candles up, and light that mood up baby! This one is pretty easy and doesn’t need much explanation, you know the deal already.

15. Organise a boys’ night for him

This one is if you’ve been seeing each other for a long time and know his friends enough to call them, and let them know you’re organising a surprise boys’ night at his place. He’ll love you, he’ll adore you, you’re his god now.

16. Romantic Classical Date Night

Tell him to dress nicely, you dress nicely, go to a restaurant, and have that good ol’ fashioned dinner. Just like in the movies! … the good ones, the good, romantic movies.

17. Surprise-Visit a City

Just tell him that you’re going somewhere. Tell him you’re visiting a city. Make him joyful and have fun.

18. Fuel His Car

This doesn’t need much to say about. He. Wil. Go. Nuts. … In a good way.

19. Fill His Fridge With Beer

If he’s a beer lover, do this, please do this. You will thank me, you will thank yourself for doing it. He’ll lose his sh*t thinking of what did he do to deserve you.

Quick and Easy, Fun Surprises For Him

20. Buy Him Snacks For No Reason

A tasty chocolate, a bag of potato chips, anything he likes really. Though small, it is actually a good, sweet, and definitely easy surprise.

21. Wear Lingerie

It is easy because all you have to do is wear the lingerie. Despite the ease of the surprise, this will knock him out in a good way. Note: You might want to make sure that he’s into lingerie, otherwise he might have a good laugh about it.

22. Send Him Flowers/Chocolates

Men are a little bit of grown up babies, they too love flowers and chocolates, send them to him and you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. You won’t regret it hun.

23. Get Him a Book

If he’s into reading books, get him a book. Surprise him with a good, good book.

24. Buy Him Clothes/Shoes/Accessories

Let this one be our little secret: If you don’t like the way he dresses, buy him the clothes you’d like to see on him, he can’t say no. If you DO like the way he dresses, buy something of that style for him. A watch, a belt, a shirt, whatever you think he’d like to put on.

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25. write him a “things i love about you”.

All you need for this one, is some paper(it can even be sticky notes) and a pen; aand things you love about him. If you feel like making it more creative and interesting, put them all in a jar and make it look nice and interesting.

26. Put a Love Note in Their Pocket

Write something sweet, something lovely, and put it in their pocket, or bag pocket so that he sees it when you’re not around. Surprise! You’ll make him feel appreciated, which is an awesome thing to do!

27. Have an Indoor Picnic

I’ll tell you how to do it: Lay a blanket on the floor, have some snacks/food and drinks, a few pillows around, candles would be a bonus, and that’s it. A surprise indoor picnic for some quality time with your boyfriend. Enjoy!

28. Movie Night At Your Place

If you have a laptop and internet, you’re good to go. Once you see him, tell him you have a little surprise for him. Turn off the lights, put some blankets and pillows close to the laptop and surprise him indeed!

29. Massage Him

He could be watching something on the TV, or on his phone, the point is to catch him by surprise, and relax those tense boyfriend muscles. Have him beg for more!

30. Send Him a Sweet Voice Message in the Morning

What a better way to wake up than hearing the voice of the one you love. Tell him something lovely to start his day properly. If you can sing, record yourself singing, and send it to him.

31. Plan a SPA day

Surprise him, and have a SPA day together. You don’t even have to thank me. Just do it. You can do this at home too, have a nice warm shower, or fill the bathtub, massage one another, spend your day in robes doing nothing but relaxing.

32. Call Him Just to Tell Him You Love Him

He’s doing something, he sees the phone ringing, it’s you, a lot of things go through his head, he says “hello”, and you say “I love you”… The rest of the conversation can go in various ways, however you get the point. It is a nice surprise!

33. Sign Him Up For an Activity He Always Wanted to Learn

Whatever it is, do it for him, sign him up. If you feel like it, you can also join him; it would be awesome to learn and grow together, it would make the bond between you stronger and healthier.

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34. A Bag/Box With Snacks He Loves/Likes

A little box of snacks he likes is a lovely surprise which will surely make his day better however it’s been going for him.

35. Do Charity Work Together

You can pick a retirement house, homeless shelters, any place you feel like you can contribute something to. Pick him up and tell him where you’re driving. It will strengthen the connection you have, and it will make you feel more grateful for things in your life. Plus, you’re helping, and you’re giving, there’s nothing that can top that.

Surprises For Your Boyfriend… Only if You Feel Like it

36. make his sexual fantasy come true.

If you had the sex talk, then you most probably know what his fantasy is. Make it come true, but only if you feel like it!

37. Learn a New Sex Trick/Move

It is an interesting way to surprise him, give it a try. It can help spicing things up a little.

Most Importantly…

Understand that surprising him is not just about the material things you buy/do for him, it is more about showing that you’re caring for your boyfriend.

Keep in mind to do these things only if you feel like doing them, not just because you feel like you have to. No no no, sweetie, you want to feel it, otherwise there’s no point to a surprise.

Appreciate, understand, and accept one another.

… surprise that motherf*cker!

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About Callisto Adams

Dr. Callisto Adams, Ph.D., is a relationship counselor with over seven years of experience. She founded Hetexted.com and authored "Texting Beyond Basics: Electrified." Her educational background includes a BSc in Psychology and certifications from the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) and Harvard's 'Treating Couples' course. Dr. Adams is known for blending personal experience with professional expertise in relationship advising.

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Everybody loves surprises and romantic gestures. Some ideas to surprise your boyfriend or husband may be instrumental in adding spice and spark to your relationship. Whether you are a new couple or dating each other for years, thoughtful surprises are sweet gestures that help your beloved understand what they mean to you. It rekindles the love that may have taken a backseat due to the stress and responsibilities of life. Read this post as we bring you a list of wonderful and romantic surprise ideas to please him. You may use any of them and see your boyfriend swoon away by your charm.

27 Cute And Romantic Ways To Surprise Your Boyfriend/Husband

1. write little notes on the mirror.

Leave a sexy love note on the bathroom mirror with your red lipstick. This can be one of the cutest ways to surprise your partner. You can also scribble the love message with your fingers on a steamy mirror or put up sticky notes. Simple words like “thank you” or “I love you” can have a profound impact on a relationship . Your man needs to know that he is appreciated.

Alternatively, you can also write a romantic message for him with syrup on your breakfast pancake. Whichever method you choose, your man’s heart is sure to melt.

2. Buy him tickets to his favorite event

Buy him tickets to his favorite band’s concert, an entry into a stand-up comedy act, or his favorite sporting event. Concerts are hard to forget, and they are a great way to leave good memories. Watching the band’s live performance can be an unforgettable experience, and buying a concert ticket can be an incredibly thoughtful way to amaze your man.

3. Gift him a professional massage

Even men love to be pampered. Sign him up for a little oil massage or a day at a spa, where he can be pampered. Or you can do it yourself. Giving him a massage can rejuvenate him and your relationship. A good spa or massage reduces stress, helps him to unwind, and relax . He will appreciate your thoughtfulness and will begin his new week rejuvenated.

4. Plan a surprise date night

You don’t have to wait for a birthday or an anniversary to astonish him. Different couples have different ideas for the perfect date . Date nights can be planned in advance or even be spontaneous. Book a hotel room for the two of you to spend quality time together. You can order room service and cuddle and talk. You can also whirl him away to a party or disco and dance the night away.

5. Sign him up for a class he always wanted

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Enroll your boyfriend/husband in a music or art class that he always wanted to pursue but could not. Such a lovely surprise will take your partner’s breath away, fill him with delight, and make him fall in love with you all over again. This is the best way to reinvent your partner’s love for music, art, or any other special interest. This surprise gift will give him the thrill of his life and will be etched in his memory forever.

6. Fill his car with fuel

Another way to astound him is to fill up his car’s fuel tank. When he gets in the car and notices someone filling up the tank, he will be taken by pleasant surprise. If you want to do something extra, you can always take it to a car wash and return a sparkling vehicle. You can also go ahead and plan a day trip or a long drive with your loved one.

7. Set up a movie night with projectors and speakers

Take the concept of “Netflix and Chill” to another level! This is a perfect low budget date idea , where you can cuddle in your pajamas. You could pick their favorite movie or maybe watch sports with them on a low-key weekend to bedazzle him. You can rent or buy a projector, set it up in your living room, and make some quick snacks.

8. Gift him a pet

If your beloved is an animal lover, this surprise is going to melt his heart away. If you are a natural animal lover, this should be easy to achieve. Visit your local animal shelter and adopt a dog or cat. If he loves birds, you could fascinate him with a flock of pet birds. This surprise is one of the fastest ways to impress a boyfriend/husband who has a soft corner for animals .

9. Make art together

Making art is a great way to spend quality time together. It is also useful to you. You can focus on DIY projects to repair the house or showpieces. You could also create each other’s portraits. It is a great way to create souvenirs to commemorate an important day. When you both look back later, you will always return to that beautiful and peaceful moment of your lives.

10. Create a grand entrance

Although it does require careful planning, it is a thoughtful surprise. There are many ways to create a grand entrance for the man of your dreams. You can decorate the foyer with balloons and ribbons, or you can leave the classic rose petal trail. This may lead him to the second surprise, while you can prepare for a sexy candlelight dinner in the kitchen or even in the bedroom.

11. Go for a drive-in movie date

Drive-in movie dates are much more romantic than movie theatre dates . You can cuddle together under the stars, watching a film on a huge projector. You can bring your blankets and favorite snacks while you relax without ever leaving your car. It’s so much more private and intimate!

12. Indulge his adrenaline junkie side

Is your boyfriend/husband an adrenaline addict and digs adventure and travel? Chances are it is a side he doesn’t often indulge in. Surprise him with an outdoor adventure that has been on his bucket list. You can show him your fun side, and you can join in the experience as well. If he is passionate about high altitude, then you can plan an outing with paragliding or bungee jumping. If he likes mountain bike riding, then you can take a look at the accessories he needs.

13. Take him for a blindfolded surprise date

A blindfold dazzle date is usually seen a lot in sitcoms and fluffy rom-coms. It adds mystery and appeal to the date, especially when he does not know the destination. You can try to give him clues that lead him to a prize. Bonus tip, you can use the new tie you bought him as the blindfold rag!

14. Do his favorite activity with him

Doing a fun activity together is a great idea to bring romantic partners closer. This might include cooking a special meal together or hosting a game night with cheese and a bottle of wine. Just ensure you are doing something he loves. Let him know you care about his hobbies and want to participate in his interests.

15. Take him on a picnic

Planning an outing is one of the best surprises. You can rent a canoe and slowly paddle the river or lake. Be sure to click some selfies or breathtaking pictures of the sunset. You can even go to the beach. There are a lot of fun activities you can do at the beach, such as snorkeling. It is a romantic way to spend an evening together. You can carry some food and a portable speaker to play some of his favorite songs.

16. Write him a letter or poem

Giving him a handwritten note or poem on a romantic night is a sweet gesture that will strengthen your bond. You need not be too opulent with your words; focus on pouring out your feelings with sentences that best capture your emotions. Leave the note on his study table or on his side of the bed, and be prepared to see his elation. If he is away, you can also flabbergast him by sending a thoughtful message to him on Whatsapp, making his day memorable.

17. Make him a video, slideshow, or framed photo

A video or slideshow usually makes for a great anniversary or birthday gift. This personalized gift can enthrall him. You could have a montage of your relationship with the right song playing in the background. You can capture the funny and silly moments along with the romantic ones. If this feels like too much or just isn’t your style, you could also consider gifting him a framed photo of the two of you.

18. Deliver his favorite chocolate or treats

Who doesn’t like a box of luxurious chocolates or sweets? Treat your man to his favorite candy and make his day special. Fill the box with confetti to celebrate him, or leave a sexy message inside, which makes him blush in the middle of a workday.

19. Host a fun fondue date

There’s nothing like getting your hands a little gooey. A fondue date night is a fun idea, and you can have it with an assortment of vegetables and meats on a charcuterie board and the perfect bottle of wine. You could also make him a “cheesy” card to go with the meal.

20. Send him signature cologne or perfume

Send him a care package with all the essentials, and include your own signature cologne or perfume that he can wear, or maybe just whiff when he misses being close to you.

21. Arrange a special virtual date

For long-distance relationship boyfriends/husbands, you can always video call each other during breakfast or when you have time. You can convey romance and affection over the phone. Both of you can draw a bubble bath and fill it up with flowers. You can play music in the background, soak and relax in each other’s company. A romantic night like no other!

22. Surprise him with a visit

If you don’t meet frequently, it is difficult to manage a relationship. So take some time, and fly to where he is, even if it is just for the weekend. Make sure you coordinate with his roommate so you know your partner’s exact schedule. The expression on his face will be priceless!

23. Indulge his five senses

As the name suggests, these gift ideas require some planning. You can make him a basket of things that will bring all his feelings to life. You can get posters of his favorite bands for his eyes to feast on, chocolates for his taste buds, CDs with his favorite music for his ears, a sweater to touch, and cologne to smell to excite him. You could also enclose a small jar of potpourri.

24. Secretly plan the visit of his long-distance BFF or sibling

There could be friends and relatives in your boyfriend’s/husband’s life whom he misses a lot. Plan their surprise visit to cheer up your beloved. You could book tickets for your partner’s siblings or arrange a surprise boys’ trip for him and his best friends. You could also organize a birthday celebration for him with all his favorite people to leave him in a stagger.

25. Learn a few words or phrases in his second language

Do you and your love have different roots and traditions? Try to learn some sweet love phrases in their language. It is a small gesture that will overwhelm him with emotions.

26. Act out his fantasy

You are already a fabulous partner, and he is totally in love with you. Why not take it one step further and make all his dreams come true? Ask him about his fantasies, wild ideas, or thoughts hidden deep within the vaults of his heart. See if you can accomplish them or at least set the foundation for you to fulfill it together. When it comes to fantasies, remember, the sky’s the limit!

27. Give him a voucher

No, this is not a gift voucher. It is a voucher of your time and undivided attention. Lives have become busier, and couples often find less time for one another. Mesmerize him with a “time voucher,” which he can use anytime he wants to spend time with you; no conditions applied.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How can surprising my boyfriend make my relationship stronger?

Surprising your boyfriend can help bring back the excitement in the relationship, show that you care, create happy memories, and show the thoughtfulness of the act. These factors are essential in strengthening the relationship and making it more fulfilling.

2. How often should I surprise my boyfriend?

You can stun your boyfriend as often as you want to. However, ensure you do not overdo it, as it can lead to unrealistic expectations.

3. What are some tips for planning a successful surprise for my boyfriend?

While planning a surprise for your boyfriend, you must consider his interests, likes, and dislikes and choose the right time to surprise him to ensure the whole process is a success.

4. How can I make sure my surprise is meaningful?

Thinking the process of the surprise through, making it personal, timing it right, and creating anticipation can help ensure the surprise is successful.

You do not have to go over the board and do something extravagant to surprise your boyfriend. Even a simple little arrangement or a plan out of the blue could be enough to surprise and gratify him. So this season, shower such surprises onto your handsome hunk and make his day better than he had expected. With such beautiful episodes of love in the air, he will come an inch closer to you.

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Writing a love note on the bathroom mirror with lipstick is a romantic way to swoon your boyfriend or husband with surprise.
Buying tickets to his favorite event or gifting him a professional massage are sweet gestures to let him know you care.
Surprise him more and bring him an inch closer to you by trying some more cute and romantic ideas below.

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Show that special man in your life how much he means to you with these romantic surprises for him , helping you create some intimate, meaningful, and exhilarating moments together.

Romantic Surprises for Him

1. Picnic in a Lovely Park

Prepare a picnic of his favorite foods, snacks, treats, and drinks, take a big blanket (and some sunscreen if it’s sunny), and find a lovely secluded spot to enjoy a cute picnic together.

You can bring a deck of cards or fun outdoorsy games to play together, or a couple of beers and just chill out.

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2. Go to a Concert Together

If you know his favorite band, artist, or DJ will be in town, surprise him with concert tickets. You could even make a weekend of it and get a nice hotel if the concert is in a different city.

Get hyped up together on the drive over or when you’re getting ready by listening to the latest album.

3. Weekend Trip to Another Town or City

It’s always nice to get out of your usual city for a mini-break, so why not book an Airbnb in a nearby town or city, and visit a new place to do some fun things together? It’s always nice to explore somewhere new together and try new things.

4. Take a Road Trip Together

Explore the great outdoors from the comfort of your own car, or a rental car, and plan a road trip somewhere fun and exciting.

Put on a road trip playlist together, get some snacks and enjoy the sights as you go on your own mini-adventure together. You could even book a hotel room for the night and take the romance factor up a notch.

5. Get a Babysitter for the Night

This is a really great way for you both to take the evening off parent duties if you have kids.

Surprise him with a babysitter, so you both can do whatever you’d like for your evening off.

You could go for a nice walk, have a drink at your local bar or pub, or just enjoy the peace and quiet at home, knowing the kids are taken care of.

6. Do Yoga Together

Yoga is a really fun way to relax. It’s good for flexibility as well as for the soul.

Surprise your man by doing one of the many easy-to-intermediate yoga classes that are available on Youtube from the comfort of your own home.

This is a fun bonding activity that can set you up for a lovely and mindful start to the day or for a relaxing end to the day.

Unique Ideas

7. treat him to a massage.

You could either book a professional massage at a nearby spa for a relaxing day together or get creative at home by giving him a massage yourself.

Set the mood with some scented candles and relieve that tension in his muscles with coconut oil and caring hands.

8. Gift Him Something Thoughtful for the House

Whether it’s an awesome TV stand or a stylish set of beer glasses, a gift is a pleasant surprise that you can tailor to his likes and preferences.

9. Take a Dance Class Together

If you’ve ever wanted to take a salsa class, put your right foot forward and dance the night away with your partner.

From the tango to the waltz, you can enjoy being in each other’s arms and maybe even pick up a new hobby to do together. Dancing with the Stars – here you come!

10. Get Him a Subscription for Something He Enjoys

There are so many excellent subscriptions you can get today, from wine or beer subscriptions to DIY craft packages.

This can make for a sweet surprise as he might feel like they’re too frivolous for himself, but as a gift, it shows you really care about his likes or interests.

11. Make Him a Care Package

Slightly different from a treat box, a care package is a thoughtful DIY way to give him something both sentimental and valuable.

Nice ideas for things to include in the care package are beard oils, moisturizers, shower gels, or grooming kits, among many others. Think of items he wouldn’t get for himself but would appreciate having.

12. Book an Activity He Would Love to Do

Has he ever wanted to skydive, or try indoor skiing? Maybe he’d love an afternoon of paintballing? Booking a surprise activity for yourselves, or even him and his best mate is a really thoughtful surprise.

Simple Ideas

13. pick up a treat from the bakery or supermarket.

Surprise your boyfriend or husband when you get home from work with a little something from the bakery, such as chocolate pastries, or a little treat from the supermarket, such as some quality craft beer or a bottle of wine.

14. Make Him Breakfast in Bed

Tell him to relax on a Saturday or Sunday morning and make him a fry-up or whatever he likes for breakfast. Bring it to him in bed with some fresh orange juice and snuggle up to him while you both enjoy a lazy morning in bed.

15. Go on a Fancy Date to a Swanky Restaurant

Plan a romantic night by booking a dinner date at one of his favorite bars or restaurants.

Enjoy your favorite meal together and have some quality time over drinks. Order dessert to make it an extra special evening!

16. Make a Bucket List of Things to Do Together

This is a really cute thing for you both to do together – get a pen and paper and write down all the things you’d like to do with each other.

Ideas could include traveling to another city or country, completing a project together (such as gardening or redecorating), or even something a little sexier, such as some naughty games in the bedroom.

Get inspired with our numerous bucket lists such as this couple’s bucket list or this date ideas bucket list and use our free or premium bucket list printables to create your own personalized list.

17. Bake Him Some Delicious Treats

From cupcakes to a wholesome fruit cake, baking him a delightful little treat or two can be a wonderful way to show him how much you care.

Creative Ideas

18. make him a card or write a poem.

If you want to do something low-key and romantic, put your creative hat on.

Make him a cute card with some beautiful typography and vibrant colors, or channel your inner Eavan Boland and write some romantic poetry.

19. Take a Trip to the Beach

If the weather is good, grab a beach bag and your summer essentials and enjoy a romantic escape to the coast.

Build sandcastles, take a barefoot walk along the sand, and enjoy some much-needed sunshine.

20. Have an Arts and Crafts Day Together

Get crafty with origami, jewelry making, or any other creative activity you can do together.

Order a kit online, and enjoy a fun afternoon making fun and thoughtful things for each other.

21. Create a Video or Scrapbook of Your Time Together

Depending on your level of creativity or videography skills, you could make a cute slideshow-type video of your time together, or buy an empty scrapbook, print out some pictures, and get creative!

A scrapbook idea is nice because you can leave some pages empty and then fill them up as you share more memories over time.

22. Book a Meal at his Favorite Restaurant

Treat him to his favorite steak house, burger joint, or sushi place. You could also call a taxi so that the two of you can enjoy a quiet romantic drink together at a rooftop bar afterward.

23. Tickets to his Favorite Event

Whether it’s tickets to a football game or an evening of Dungeons and Dragons, get two tickets to a fun event you can go to together.

You can make it extra special by wearing the team’s colors or drawing their emblem on your partner’s cheek and taking cute pics together.

24. Plan a Fun Date Night

It’s empowering to take the initiative to plan a fun date night once in a while and it helps take the pressure off him too!

You could go mini-golfing (or actual golfing), ax-throwing, go-karting, cinema, or any other activity that he likes.

Read more: 210+ Date Ideas (The Only Date Night List You Need)

25. Gift Him an Experience He’s Always Wanted to Do

Has he always wanted to drive a Lamborghini? Or what about an adrenaline-fuelled outdoor experience, like kayaking or mountain biking?

Give him an experience he’s unlikely to forget, and better yet, join in with him if you can – or at least take pics of him while he’s trying out a fun new experience.

26. Book a Trip Somewhere

Be it an exotic location or a nearby spa retreat, surprise him with a whirlwind getaway for the two of you to enjoy some much-needed downtime and spend quality time together.

Budget-Friendly Ideas

27. go for a sunset walk with drinks.

Go for a walk in the evening with a plan to stop at a cute spot to watch the sunset.

Bring a nice bottle of wine or beer (or champagne, if you’re feeling fancy), and enjoy a drink as you watch the sun go down.

Bring a blanket in case it gets cold so you can cuddle under it!

28. Get Him a ‘Treat Box’

This is a very cute surprise to give him. Fill an empty box with some of his favorite things.

Ideas could include chocolate, a new book, a premium beer, or his favorite magazine – you can make it as personal as you like.

29. Make Pancakes Together

Prepare all the ingredients and surprise him by making pancakes together.

It might be a bit messy but making pancakes is not only great fun but also a hilarious way to see how well you work together!

30. Organize a Surprise Visit from a Loved One

Has he not seen his brother or a close friend for a while? Why not get in touch and organize for them to come to visit for a weekend when you both don’t have much planned.

31. Go for a Scenic Hike

Hiking is not only great exercise but also an easy and free way to spend quality time together.

Find a nearby trail or scenic viewpoint and put those hiking boots to good use. Bring sunscreen and take some pictures from the very top too.

32. Make Him a Home-made ‘Vouchers’ Pack

This is an excellent way to make your surprise for him a little more personal. Prepare a set of handmade gift cards he can redeem at a later date.

From extra cuddles in bed to watching a movie of his choice, there are plenty of ideas you can put on the cards.

33. Go Stargazing

This does involve staying up a bit late, but it is so worth it to drive to the countryside and see the stars once you’re away from the light pollution of towns and cities and towns. Don’t forget a blanket for snuggles!

34. Write Him a List of All the Reasons You Love Him

Write your reasons on different colored paper in beautiful lettering, fold each up and put them in a jar, and tell him that whenever he needs a pick-me-up to dip in and feel loved even if you’re not there.

Need some inspiration? Our reasons why I love you list is full of 100+ ideas to help you put your feelings into words.

At-Home Ideas

35. build a fort to watch movies in.

Use all your blankets, throws, pillows, and cushions, put up some fairy lights, and build yourselves a blanket fort in the living room. Then cozy up and watch some movies together.

36. Create an Obstacle Course Around the House for Him to Complete

This is a really fun way of testing your communication skills whilst also having great fun. Set up an obstacle course throughout the house, using chairs, ironing boards, ottomans, and whatever else you can find around the house.

Either compete against each other or blindfold your partner and guide him around the course. Plenty of laughs are guaranteed with this surprise!

37. Cook a New Recipe Together

Put on some of your favorite music, choose a recipe from a cuisine you both love, and enjoy an evening of cooking and bonding together.

38. Take a Relaxing Bath Together

Draw a bath and fill it with bubbles. Set the mood with some scented candles, low lighting, and relaxing music, and enjoy a glass of wine or champagne together in the tub.

When you’re looking for a little inspiration to let the special man in your life know how much you care, use our list of creative and fun romantic ideas to give him a surprise he’ll love.

Together, you can enjoy some intimate moments, share unique experiences, and make some memories the two of you will remember for a long time.

Surprise Ideas For Boyfriend (66 Ways To Surprise Your Boyfriend)

A good and healthy relationship is built and sustained on the foundations of “love, trust, and good communication.” Furthermore, a lot of energy and effort is required to ensure these intrinsic elements are administered properly.

Couples need to put a lot of thought into gift ideas and think of different ways to surprise each other.

However, we are living in times where we feel we have seen it all, various gifts for the boyfriend, date nights, and one or more weird surprises either as a birthday gift or an anniversary present . So what can you do differently ? Well, I can’t promise you no one has ever done any of the things listed below, but they are things your partner would appreciate.

Just as a ‘’surprise arrangement’’ has been identified as a key element to making a woman fall deeper in love with their men, there is no doubt that this can also work vice versa. I will, therefore, be listing 66 different surprise ideas for your boyfriend.

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66 Ways To Surprise Your Boyfriend

1. gift him tickets to his favorite movie premier.

There is literally no guy who would not be excited to be given a ticket to go watch his favorite team play.

2. Write little notes on the mirror

These little notes can include but are not limited to ‘’I love you’’ ‘’I miss you’’, etc. Writing little notes on the mirror would surely put a warm smile on his face.

3. Waking him up to breakfast in bed

Everyone is a sucker for this very act. Women love to wake up to breakfast in bed; men love it more.

4. Planning a unique date night

Ditch the regular fancy restaurants and plan an intimate date night either at home or in a secluded area. Get away from the noise, maybe rent a cabin, decorate it, and have an intimate weekend together.

5. Plan a scavenger hunt

Things always get exciting with a fun scavenger hunt. And the best part is, it doesn’t have to be outdoors. You could start by placing a note in his coat pocket so he knows what he’s in for when he gets home.

6. Cooking his favorite meal

There is literally no guy on this planet that would love his favorite meal prepared by his significant other. If you can’t cook, make sure you order it close to the time he gets off from work so it’s still fresh and warm.

7. Have a bubble bath

This may sound basic, but it’s something you can do in less than ten minutes. Just get some fancy bath salts, nice scented candles, and maybe some rose petals and you’re good to go.

8. Light up the room with candles and roses

If you’re not getting your body wet, you can use the same decorations to spice up the bedroom. That would create the perfect atmosphere for romance when he gets back.

9. Give him a surprise birthday

Once it’s a month to his birthday, you should start planning on a gift idea. When you're giving gifts to a boyfriend you really love, you want it to be special. You can go ahead and plan something else and make sure he doesn’t know about it. Get his friends and family if possible, search for a suitable theme so he’ll be absolutely startled when he walks in.

10. Give him a professional massage

This would be a great way to relieve him from the stress of the day. If you want to spice things up, set up space at home then put on sexy lingerie and wear your bathrobe over it. Once he comes back, offer to give him the best massage he’s ever gotten.

11. Buy him a pet

Maybe he has always wanted to buy himself a pet, this would be the right time to get him his one.

12. Plan a weekend getaway for him

A surprise weekend getaway to a romantic city of your choice might not be a bad idea.

13. Do his laundry and prepare his clothes for work

Every guy would be thrilled when he realizes that you’ve done all his laundry, and prepared his clothes for work.

14. Opt to run the errand he has been avoiding

Assisting your significant other to run a few errands is also a nice idea.

15. Set up a game night and have his friends come over as well

You don’t necessarily have to be a part of this game night. This is where he has fun with his friends as a courtesy from you.

16. Play naughty games when you both are alone

There is no guy that would ignore you when you start doing naughty things .

17. Buy him a surprise gift on a random day

Women love to be gifted randomly, so do men. It would not be out of place if you gifted him randomly; it doesn’t have to be his birthday.

18. Take him out and pay all the bills on the night out

I am certain that this act of benevolence would surely put a smile on his face.

19. Arrange a double date

Sometimes, it is nice to allow other friends to join you out on a date. A double date would be a nice way to surprise him.

20. Take him out to a beach party

Your man might be the busy type and does not have the luxury of time to go out often, take him to a beach party and give him a fun experience.

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21. Get him tickets to a football game

Getting him tickets to go watch his favorite team play would be great.

22. Take him on a shopping spree with all expenses paid for

Considering how much women love this, especially when it is coming from the man, men too deserve something like this.

23. Take him wine tasting

Doing wine tasting together isn’t such a bad idea if he’s a wine lover.

24. Drive-in movie date

Have you both ever tried a drive-in movie date? I am sure he would be thrilled if you brought up the idea.

25. Plan a trip to somewhere nice in the summer

Planning a summer trip with your partner to a nice sunny location would be an amazing idea.

26. Sign up for a class together

You could also make him sign up for a class with you.

27. Write him a love letter

Leave it on the bed before he wakes up.

28. Deliver him lunch at work

This would make a really cute, and romantic gesture .

29. Pay him a visit

Sometimes, it would make a pleasant surprise if you visited him unannounced.

30. Have his name customized on a necklace for him

Get him a necklace with his name imprinted on it; I am certain every guy would love to wear that.

31. Buy him a special fragrance

You probably know the type of scents he likes, get one and have them deliver it to his office or his home.

32. Do not forget to send him a gift card

Getting a loved one a gift card might seem simple , but it’s actually very thoughtful.

33. Stock up his refrigerator with beer

There is literally no guy who wouldn’t love the idea of coming home to meet his fridge all stocked up with his favorite beer.

34. Arrange a stakeout

Arranging a barbecue party with his friends would be a great idea.

35. Play dress up during sex

This is another way of surprising your man in bed. If you know he’s sexual fantasies, dress up like that nurse, stripper, or whatever he desires. He’ll definitely thank you for it.

36. Put a romantically written short note in his backpack

Think about it, he’ll get to work, only to open his bag and find a romantic short note from you. How thoughtful right?

37. Book a hotel room where you both can spend some quality time together

This is another way of having a romantic weekend getaway. Your man will surely be surprised when he gets this package.

38. Throw him a party to mark your relationship anniversary

Throwing him a surprise party to mark the anniversary of your relationship is a good idea too.

39. Buy him a cute valentine’s gift

Maybe he’s used to the chocolates or fancy dinners, switch things up and buy him something he’s been talking about.

40. Gift him on Christmas and Easter celebrations

Give your man more gifts. Just as women are suckers for gifts, men get thrilled by gift items, especially if that’s their love language .

41. Sign him up for a class he has been wishing to sign up for

It will be fun doing something with him, especially learning something he’s really passionate about.

42. Recreate your first date scenario

Sometimes we forget how magical and beautiful it was when we started dating our significant others. Remind him by recreating the moment either at home or where the first date actually happened.

43. Call up a radio station that your significant other might be listening to and request a song dedicated to him.

This would be so nice, especially if the radio played his favorite song.

44. Take him to your favorite spot and watch the sunset together

You don’t have to break the bank to put a smile on his face. If your earnings aren’t that high at the moment, he’ll surely understand. So when you ask him to follow you to a quiet, yet beautiful pot to watch the sunset, he’ll definitely appreciate the thought.

45. Gift him a fancy jewelry item that has your name or any romantic right up on it

We love keepsakes that remind us of our partners when they are away. Getting him engraved cufflinks, or a necklace would be a lovely reminder that you love him, regardless of where he is.

46. Tell him you want this relationship to last till eternity.

If his love language is words of affirmation , hearing you profess your feelings to him would be all the joy he needs to get through his day.

More Surprise Ideas

Find out which football team is his favorite and get him a fan jersey with his name customized on it.
Your partner may likely have a bucket list of things he would like to do, find out what they are, and do one of them for him.
His favorite hobby might be playing football, basketball, or any other activity that makes up a hobby, show interest in this, and he will be surprised in a good way.
Do you ever consider how amazed your partner will be when you show up at his workplace to pick him up? That’s right! He will be surprised.
Do well to compliment him from time to time, even when he is not expecting it. Women love compliments, likewise men.
Make plans for a spa day together.
You could also get him to go swimming with you.
Go over to his family’s house and help his parents out.
Make a recording of a sweet and romantic message and send it to him while he is at work. This message can be about how much you love and miss him.
Help him out with a household chore that is typically his responsibility. I am certain this would warm his heart.
It is also another ‘romantic wake-up surprise’ if you changed his alarm to something more personal.
Take him out for a candle-lit dinner.
Go mountain climbing together.
It would also be a pleasant yet naughty surprise if you ‘intentionally’ forgot your underwear in his house.
Sending him some money would also pass for a romantic surprise treat. Even though he might be earning more than you, you could still do this as a way of surprising him.
You can go with him to watch a football game.
You can also go running with him. It’s likely that he goes to the gym alone or with his guys, opt to go with him on this occasion.
Buy him a luxurious item such as a car, bike, or a boat if you can afford it.
Change the interior decoration of his apartment.
Get him new clothes, shoes, and accessories.

What can I surprise my boyfriend with?

There are several ways and things that you can use to surprise your boyfriend , most of them include; delivering lunch to him at his office, gifting him tickets to his favorite movie premier, cooking his favorite meal, giving him a professional massage once he gets back from a long day, setting up a game night and have his friends come over as well, calling up a radio station that your significant other might be listening to and request a song dedicated to him.

How can I surprise my boyfriend with little things?

There are several ways you can choose to surprise and spoil your boyfriend . However, to effectively do this at an affordable and frugal rate, you can choose to cook for him, write him a love letter, deliver him lunch at work, go over to his place and tidy up the apartment, assist him with a household chore that is usually his responsibility, serve him breakfast or brunch in bed, go on a run with him, make a recording of a sweet and romantic message and send it to him while he is at work. These gestures cost very little to nothing and would still warm his heart.

How do I plan something special for my boyfriend?

An outdoor adventure, a surprise party with friends, a surprise date , or even a trip out of town will make your partner feel special. You can also give him a professional massage or even treat him to a spa.

How can I surprise my boyfriend with just because?

Planning a game night or party with his friends are great just-because surprise ideas. You can also redecorate his apartment, or give him a love box with a love note by the side, just because you care.

What surprise do guys like?

There are a good number of surprises that guys love and they include sex out of nowhere, coming back home to his favorite meal well prepared and set on the table, tickets to go watch his favorite team play, breakfast in bed, more adventurous sexual experiences , sex chatting him while he is at work, buying him gifts for no reason, supporting him on the project he’s been working on and many more. Sometimes, simply getting him something he’s been talking about will do the trick.

In Conclusion

I have taken out time to mention several surprise ideas for your boyfriend. However, you know your boyfriend best and know some of the things he’d appreciate more than others. If he prefers experiences, there are several you can choose from on the list. If he is someone who likes gifts better, then getting him a thoughtful gift will definitely make his day.

If you found this article helpful, please feel free to share it with family and friends. Plus, if you have some gift ideas to share with me, I’d love to hear them.

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21 Ways To Surprise Your Boyfriend

Subtle or grand, one way to keep your relationship rolling is to load him with surprises.

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Surprises are fun and exciting, and the right surprise ideas for a boyfriend can be a fun way to spice up your relationship. You don’t want your relationship to lose its magic too soon and want to keep your romance alive. While it may seem like a challenge, it is easy to liven up your relationship now and then. You only need to put forth the effort, care, and thought to keep seeking new and creative ways to express your love for your partner. You can do this by arranging little surprises now and then for your boyfriend. They do not have to be grand gestures. Just showing him that you are concerned about his happiness and care about him will make him feel special.

If you wonder how to surprise your special someone, do not worry. You have come to the right place. You can find everything you need for him here – from practical gifts to simple gestures that require no effort or money. Here are 21 ways to surprise your boyfriend and to let him know just how much you care about him. Scroll down to take notes and start planning!

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21 Nice Things To Do For Your Boyfriend

1. arrange a treasure hunt for him.

Surprises don’t always have to cost a lot of money. It is the thought and effort that counts. Doing something exclusively for him will make him super happy. Set up a paper treasure hunt for your boyfriend with clues for him to follow. What he finds as the prize could be anything. His favorite chocolate, a new cologne he has been wanting, or you! Use your imagination and creativity to sweep him off his feet.

2. Change Their Alarm To Something Personal

This is a super cute idea. Change their alarm from the harsh tringggg to a specially recorded message from you. It can be super romantic or naughty. You can also just change it to something funny and cheeky. If you don’t have the option of recording a personal message, simply set a funny song that never fails to crack him up as his alarm tone. He will have a smile on his face for the rest of the day! You could also set your picture as his background wallpaper – in which you are making funny faces.

3. Write Little Notes On The Mirror

Sneak into the washroom while he is showering and write, ‘ I love you’ or ‘You are hot’ on the steamy mirror. You can also do this on his car windows. This is a quick and cute way to tell him how much you adore him. Alternatively, you can write stuff on his food using ketchup, but it may be difficult to pull this off if you are not artistic.

4. Tidy Up His Apartment

If you are not living together, and he is a little messy, surprise him by tidying up his apartment. Some guys like to be messy and get annoyed if someone touches their stuff, but if you think your guy would appreciate a helping hand, this surprise could be a great way to melt his heart. You could do his laundry, clean his kitchen, arrange his bookshelves, or change his bedsheets.

5. Buy Him Tickets To His Favorite Event

Is he a fan of a music band? Is there a sporting event that he has been obsessed about? Or he just can’t get enough of stand-up comedy? Find out what his thing is and surprise him by buying him tickets to that ‘something’ he is a fan of. Even Coachella, girls. If he wants to go, buy his tickets and see him off. Even better, go with him and have a gala time!

6. Put A Note In His Lunch Box

Has he packed his lunch to take to the office? Get sneaky and slip in a love note in his lunch box. He will find that during his lunch hour and fall in love with you all over again! You could write a love poem, a dorky message, a naughty joke, or simply ‘I love you.’ Whatever you do, it is going to give him that warm gooey feeling one gets when they feel super loved and happy.

7. Give Him A Professional Massage

Set up a surprise massage for him . A romantic massage with flowers and candles is sure to de-stress him and help him unwind after a hard day at work. Turn the lights low, light the aromatic candles, get some essential oils, luxurious towels, and stuff, and give him the treatment he deserves! You could watch YouTube videos to educate yourself on how to give effective massages that will soothe his muscles and help him relax.

8. Plan A Surprise Date Night

You don’t have to wait for a birthday or anniversary to go out on a romantic night out with your babe! Plan something on a random day and surprise him. Even better – pick him up from work, make him change in the car, and go to your favorite pub or disco and dance the night away. If you both are the quiet kind, go to the beach with a bottle of wine and sandwiches. Just spend some quality time together and talk to each other.

9. Book A Hotel Room

It is not what you are thinking! Book a room for the two of you so that you can spend some quality time together. You can cuddle, watch movies, take a dip in the hotel pool – aah, bliss! Don’t forget to use the luxury of room service. Feel pampered and spoiled to the core – you both deserve it.

10. Cook His Favorite Meal

This is awesome because the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Call his mom or sibling, find out what his favorite dish is, and cook it. You could also go online to look for recipes. If nothing, you can bake him a cake from scratch – it is the easiest thing to do! Set it up in nice ceramic dinnerware and have a romantic dinner together. He is going to adore you when he sees how much effort you have put into it.

11. Throw Him A Six-Months-To-Go Birthday Party

He will never see this coming! Invite his friends, do the entire balloon and cake thing, and sing the birthday song. Give speeches, toast him, do birthday bumps. Fuss over him and make him feel adored. He is going to pretend to be all embarrassed – but he will be swept off his feet. Everyone wants that extra special attention sometimes. And yes, don’t forget the birthday gift!

You can also prepare a special post-birthday gift. If you’re okay with going a little overboard, you can also look at what Brooke did. Brooke Monk, a YouTube influencer, surprised her boyfriend with his dream car for his birthday. She said, “he doesn’t want me to buy him anything expensive but, he loves this car so much ( i ).” Now, this is a grand and really sweet gesture.

12. Sign Him Up For A Class He Was Always Aiming To Take

Has he always wanted to learn how to paint, play the guitar, join a biker’s club, go to a cooking class, or take up carpentry, but just didn’t have the inclination or energy to sign up? Take the initiative and sign him up for something you know he will love but is too lazy or shy to do it on his own. You could even do it with him! You will not only learn a new skill but also spend some quality time with your boyfriend doing something he is fond of.

13. Run An Errand He Has Been Avoiding

Does he hate to do his grocery shopping? Does he ignore his electricity bill? Forgets about getting the AC repaired? Avoids setting up an appointment with the dentist? People sometimes develop major anxiety even for doing regular things and avoid them at all costs. Do it for him – he will love you for it. It’s the little things that take up the most space in our hearts. He will feel appreciated and loved and presently surprised by this beautiful gesture.

14. Fill His Car With Fuel

Your man is going to fall head over heels in love with you! This little act of love is going to save him a lot of time and headache. He will be wowed because generally girls don’t think of these things, and they are real practical ways of showing your partner how much you care about him. Here is a bonus idea – if you have time, you can get it washed as well, maybe even waxed. You will not regret it, and the expression on his face when he sees the car will be priceless!

15. Set Up A Movie Night With Projectors And Speakers

Did you guys miss a movie you both really wanted to see? Set the projector and speakers up, right at home, get all cozy with cushions and stuff, and get popcorn. And get the movie experience right at home. Dim the lights and cuddle. Extra benefits!

16. Plan A Surprise Outing For Him

Does he like to go on hikes? Is cycling across town his thing? Is he a fan of going to the museum? Surprise him by planning a day out and accompany him in doing things that he likes. He would be delighted at the unexpected opportunity to enjoy his favorite things with his favorite person. You will not only get to know him better but also spend quality time together.

17. Get A Gift For His Pet

This is a cute surprise! As you already know, that is not his pet, that is his baby. If you get that little munchkin something, you are going to win his daddy’s heart as well. Who knows, maybe you will get to be its momma soon? Just buy something cute for his pet and watch both the pet and owner go gaga over you.

18. Set Up A Game Night For Him And His Friends

Invite his friends over, get pizza and beer, and set up the TV. Let him have his boys’ night while you go spend a night at your girlfriend’s place. He is going to be pleasantly surprised at your thoughtfulness and lack of clinginess. Trust me, smothering someone with your love is not the way to go about it. Show him how well you understand his needs.

19. Iron His Work Clothes And Keep Them Ready

He is going to be bowled over by this one! When he finds out that he doesn’t have to iron his clothes as well when running late for office – which he mostly is – he is going to love you a little more.

20. Play Naughty Games

There are card games available online that are definitely not for children – if you know what I mean! Get a pack and set up a game night where you would be playing a lot more than charades. Let him see this wild side of you – and get some benefits in the process.

21. Put His Coins In A Pouch

If your guy is like most guys out there, the chances are there will be a whole lot of coins just strewn all over at his place. Collect all the coins and put them in a pouch for him. Or just get them changed for notes and put that in his wallet with a note. You could write something like ‘ This is for the Mc D burger you love so much’ or ‘Buy those bike gloves you have been wanting for a while.’ This is a cute gesture that is going to win his heart and help him a lot as well.

These little surprises will not only make his day but also show him how much you care about his requirements. The good news is that keeping the passion burning is as easy as they say – it is all about the little things.

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A thoughtful gesture is a more powerful portrayal of love than mere words. It can make your boyfriend feel the love and care you hold for them. Something as simple as refueling his car, cooking his favorite meal, or buying tickets to his favorite event can be great surprise ideas for your boyfriend. You do not have to spend a bomb or go overboard with a grand gesture to express your love and appreciation for your partner. So, choose any ideas from the list above or think about something your boyfriend will enjoy and surprise them.

Frequently Asked Questions

What gift should I give to my boyfriend?

You can give your boyfriend a wide range of gifts on any special occasion. These include a personalized mug, a lamp, a grooming kit basket, a wallet, a perfume, a watch, or any useful tech-based product. You can also gift books if your boyfriend is an avid bookworm.

What can I do for my boyfriend’s birthday with no money?

There are many activities you can indulge in to make your boyfriend feel special on his birthday that do not cost any money. These include activities at home like a movie night, a special meal platter, DIY grooming session with natural ingredients, a massage session, dancing to special songs, or even a game night.

What surprises do men love?

Some surprises that men usually love are tickets to a sports event or concert, a new gadget, or an adventure or outdoor activity.

What does a boyfriend want from his girlfriend?

It can vary from person to person, but some common wants and needs may include trust, clear communication, respect, affection, and support.

What gifts do guys love?

Since everyone is different, the answer may be subjective. It is therefore important to know the likes and dislikes of your guy, and then think of a thoughtful gift based on that.

How do I choose the perfect gift for him?

To choose the perfect gift for him, have in-depth knowledge about his interests, hobbies, personality, and style. You can also try to find a gift that is personalized to show him how much you care. Also, consider whether he would appreciate a surprise or would prefer to make a decision together.

What is the most desired gift of love?

The most desired gift of love is spending quality time together, having healthy communication, focused attention and respect, and love.

Key Takeaways

Rather than relying on lavish displays of affection to spice up your relationship, surprise your boyfriend with a thoughtful gesture.
Remember that it is the thought that counts, so tell him how much you love and appreciate him.
There are many easy and affordable small surprises you can plan, from writing little notes for him on the mirror to organizing a movie night.

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Make His Birthday Unforgettable with These 20 Romantic Surprises for Your Boyfriend

Birthdays are special occasions when we express our love, admiration, and appreciation for important people. And when it comes to your boyfriend’s birthday, you want to go the extra mile to make him feel cherished and adored. While a thoughtful gift or a heartfelt message can make his day, adding a touch of romance can take the celebration to a new level.

We’ve got you covered if you want to surprise your boyfriend with something truly memorable. In this blog post, we’ll present you with “ 20 romantic surprises” that will make his heart skip a beat and create lasting memories. Whether your relationship is still blossoming or you’ve been together for years, these ideas will help you celebrate his special day in a heartfelt and unforgettable way.

Surprise Ideas at Home:

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1. Breakfast in bed with his favourite dishes:

Prepare a special breakfast for your boyfriend’s birthday. Consider making his favourite dishes and serving them to him in bed as a romantic surprise.

2. Decorate the house with balloons, candles, and photos:

Create a festive atmosphere by decorating your house with balloons, candles, and photos of memorable moments you’ve shared. This will set a romantic ambience for his birthday celebration.

3. Create a personalized scavenger hunt leading to his gifts:

Make the day exciting by organizing a personalized scavenger hunt. Leave clues around the house that lead him to different locations where his birthday gifts are hidden.

4. Prepare a romantic candlelit dinner for two:

Plan a romantic candlelit dinner for just the two of you. Cook his favourite meal or order from his preferred restaurant, and set up a beautifully decorated table with candles to create a romantic atmosphere.

5. Organize a movie night with his favourite films and snacks:

Set up a cozy movie night at home by selecting his favourite films and preparing his preferred snacks. Create a comfortable and relaxed environment to enjoy a movie marathon together.

Outdoor Surprises:

6. plan a surprise picnic in a scenic location: .

Choose a picturesque location and organize a surprise picnic for his birthday. Pack his favourite food, drinks, and a blanket to create a memorable outdoor experience.

7. Take him on a surprise weekend getaway:

Plan a surprise weekend getaway to a destination he has always wanted to visit. It could be a romantic cabin in the woods, a beachside retreat, or any other place he would enjoy.

8. Arrange a surprise adventure, such as hiking or kayaking:

If your boyfriend loves outdoor activities, plan a surprise adventure for his birthday. It could be hiking on a scenic trail or kayaking in a nearby river or lake.

9. Plan a romantic beach date with a sunset view:

If you can access a beach, organize a romantic beach date for his birthday. Set up a cozy spot with blankets, bring snacks or a picnic, and enjoy watching the sunset together.

10. Surprise him with tickets to his favourite sports event or concert:

If your boyfriend is a sports or music enthusiast, surprise him with tickets to his favourite sports event or concert. It will be a memorable and thrilling experience for him.

Thoughtful Gestures:

11. Write him a heartfelt letter expressing your love and appreciation:

Take the time to write a heartfelt letter expressing your love and appreciation for him. Tell him how much he means to you and how grateful you are to have him in your life.

12. Create a photo album showcasing your favourite memories together:

Gather your favourite photos of you and your boyfriend and create a photo album or scrapbook. It will be a beautiful keepsake of your memories and make for a thoughtful gift.

13. Arrange a surprise visit from his close friends or family:

Coordinate with his close friends or family members and plan a surprise visit for his birthday. Having loved ones around will make the day even more special for him.

14. Plan a surprise date night at his favourite restaurant:

Treat your boyfriend to a date night at his favourite restaurant. Make reservations in advance and tell him about the surprise when the day arrives.

15. Surprise him with a thoughtful gift that aligns with his interests or hobbies:

Think about them and surprise him with a thoughtful gift that aligns with them. It could be something related to his favourite sports team, a new gadget, or an item for his hobby.

Unique and Creative Surprises:

16. arrange a surprise couple’s spa day or massage session: .

Pamper your boyfriend with a surprise couple’s spa day or a relaxing massage session. It will be a rejuvenating experience for both of you.

17. Plan a surprise cooking class or wine-tasting experience:

If your boyfriend enjoys cooking or wine, arrange a surprise cooking class or wine-tasting experience. It will be a fun and interactive way to celebrate his birthday.

18. Write 20 reasons why you love him and surprise him with the list:

Write down 20 reasons why you love your boyfriend and surprise him with the list. It will show him how much you cherish and appreciate his presence.

19. Create a customized playlist of his favourite songs:

Put together a customized playlist of his favourite songs. You can create a physical playlist or curate one on a music streaming platform. It will be a thoughtful and romantic gift for his birthday.

20. Plan a surprise rooftop or garden picnic with fairy lights and music:

Set up a surprise rooftop or garden picnic with fairy lights, soft music, and his favourite food and drinks. The enchanting ambience will create a romantic and memorable atmosphere.

These are just some ideas to help you plan romantic surprises for your boyfriend’s birthday. Feel free to mix and match them or add your touch to make his birthday celebration special and unique.

What are some romantic surprises I can plan for my boyfriend’s birthday?

You can plan several romantic surprises for your boyfriend’s birthday. Consider arranging a candlelit dinner at his favourite restaurant, organizing a surprise weekend getaway, or preparing a thoughtful gift with sentimental value. Other options include creating a personalized scavenger hunt leading to his presents or surprising him with tickets to a concert or sports event he wants to attend.

How can I make my boyfriend’s birthday special with romantic gestures?

To make your boyfriend’s birthday extra special with romantic gestures, you can surprise him with breakfast in bed or a heartfelt birthday card expressing your love and admiration. Throughout the day, surprise him with small gestures like leaving sweet notes in his pockets, planning a surprise visit from his close friends or family, or arranging a romantic movie night complete with his favourite snacks. Remember to tailor the gestures to his preferences and interests.

Can I consider any inexpensive romantic surprises for my boyfriend’s birthday?

You can consider several inexpensive romantic surprises for your boyfriend’s birthday. You can prepare a homemade candlelit dinner with his favourite dishes, write him a heartfelt love letter, or create a photo collage of your special moments together. Another idea is to plan a romantic picnic in a scenic location or surprise him with a homemade coupon book filled with activities he can redeem throughout the year, such as a massage, a movie night, or a home-cooked meal. The key is to focus on the thought and effort behind the surprise rather than the cost.

Conclusion:

In conclusion, planning romantic surprises for your boyfriend’s birthday can be thoughtful and heartfelt to celebrate his special day and show him how much he means to you. Creating memorable and unique experiences can make him feel loved, appreciated, and cherished. Whether it’s a surprise party, a romantic getaway, or a carefully chosen gift, the key is to tailor the surprises to his preferences and interests. Communication and understanding are crucial when planning romantic surprises, as it allows you to consider his desires and create an experience that aligns with his personality.

Remember the little details, as they can significantly impact the overall experience. Ultimately, the goal is to create lasting memories you can remember fondly, strengthening your bond and making his birthday truly special.

Olivia Brown

Olivia Brown is a seasoned expert in relationships and dating, with over 10 years of experience in the field. She has helped countless couples and individuals navigate the complexities of love and relationships, and has a passion for helping people find meaningful and fulfilling connections.

How To Plan A Surprise Trip For Your Boyfriend

June 6, 2021 · In: 💑 Relationships

Going on a trip with your boyfriend is a ton of fun, but planning a surprise trip for you and your boyfriend takes the excitement to an entirely new level.

Whether it’s for his birthday or your anniversary, surprising him with a romantic getaway is a fantastic way to make more memories together.

But you don’t have to wait for a special occasion. Planning a trip for the two of you just because you feel like it is a surefire way to catch your boyfriend completely by surprise.

Your guy might love trips and going on vacation, but it’s likely that he doesn’t love the planning part (or the packing part)!

Your boyfriend will be super happy that you took the time to do all the planning to surprise him with a fun trip.

Let’s get planning!

1. Decide the length of the trip 📅

First things first, you need to figure out how long this trip is going to be. There are a few things to consider:

1. You’ll need to find out when it suits both of you to go on a trip. Try to plan your surprise at least one month in advance so you can figure out both of your schedules.

2. The longer the trip, the trickier it can be to pull off the surprise. If it’s your first time planning a surprise trip it might be a good idea to start with a long weekend away.

3. Deciding how many days you’ll be away will also help you choose where to go and how to get there. For example, if you’re taking a three day long weekend trip it’s not the best idea to go somewhere super far away that requires a layover or a ton of driving.

4. Usually, the longer the trip, the more money you’ll spend. Which brings us to…

2. Determine your budget 💵

When you’re planning a surprise trip for your boyfriend, it can be a bit tricky to set a budget.

You need to decide how much you are going to spend, and who is going to pay for what, without your boyfriend’s input.

If you are organizing a surprise vacation for your boyfriend’s birthday, you might decide to pay for the whole trip, or at least the accommodation and transport. If it’s for your anniversary, you might decide to book everything but then split the cost of the trip later.

You know your boyfriend better than anyone else, so trust yourself to set a budget that you’ll both be happy with.

3. Plan a cover-up story 🕵🏽‍♀️

Unless you have an “in” with his manager and can secretly request time off for him, you’re going to need to be clever to get him to take time off work.

If you have friends or family out of town, use them to your advantage. Let them in on the surprise and have them pretend that they are coming to visit you. You could say something like this to your boyfriend:

“Hey, so and so wants to come visit us for a few days and would love it if we could take some time off to show them around. What days work for you, and can you schedule that time off so I can let them know asap?”

This sneaky little trick gets you the scheduled time off, and he’ll be less likely to catch on now that he’s focused on the cover story!

3. Choose where you’re going to go 🌎

Now that you’ve got your dates planned, your budget set, and you’ve got a solid cover story, it’s time to pick a destination.

Researching where you’re going to go is one of the most exciting parts of planning a trip.

However, choosing a destination can be tricky when you have so many options. One way to make it easier is to first decide on the specific type of trip you want to go on with your boyfriend.

To help you out, here are some fun ideas for a three or four-day trip:

1. Play tourist

Tourist couple, man and woman traveling on holidays in Europe looking at landmark.

Pick a fun city you’ve never been to and just see where the weekend takes you. Enjoy being tourists and try not to over-plan things.

Highlight a few sites you’d love to check out and stop in anywhere that looks interesting along the way.

Try some delicious local foods, grab some cocktails, and stay in a popular area in the heart of the city so you can fully immerse yourself in the culture.

2. Ultimate relaxation

Young couple in love holding hands while lying on loungers on a floating platform in the sea.

Have you ever come back from a trip and felt like you needed another vacation?

Plan a more laid-back getaway if you and your boyfriend could do with a break from your busy schedules to just relax.

Renting a beach house or a cozy little cottage in the woods is romantic and will leave you both feeling totally refreshed.

Who doesn’t love lounging by the beach or cozying up next to a fire with their man?

If you really want to go all out, you can book a retreat at a spa and enjoy being pampered together.

3. Action-packed

On an action-packed trip the fun doesn’t stop until you’re back home in your own bed!

If you and your boyfriend would rather be out adventuring than relaxing by a pool, pick a destination that has lots going on.

For example, flying into a city during an event like a weekend music festival is exhilarating.

This type of trip is all about the event or activities, so give yourself a full itinerary and ride that high together.

4. Plan an itinerary 📋

Once you’ve decided what type of trip you want to have and where you’re going to go, it’s time to start putting together an itinerary.

It could be a detailed schedule of what you are going to be doing at exact times each day, or just a rough plan of the activities you’re interested in.

You and your boyfriend might enjoy doing the same things, or have really different interests. It’s good to strike a balance between planning activities your boyfriend will really enjoy and things you want to do on the trip.

Even though you are planning a surprise trip for your boyfriend, it’s important that you have a great time too!

There are literally thousands of different things you could do on a trip with your boyfriend depending on where you decide to go. Here are just some ideas of activities to look into:

– Live events like concerts, shows, and festivals

– Restaurants

– Amusement parks

– Sight seeing tours

– Outdoor sports and activities

– Museums and art galleries

– Relaxing experiences like massages or spa treatments

5. Plan how you’re going to get there ✈️

Depending on the length and destination of your trip, you’ll most likely be flying or driving.

If you do plan to drive, try to keep it a short distance or extend your trip, so you’re not spending the bulk of the time in the car.

However, an exception to that is if you both love long car rides or your surprise is a super fun road trip!

6. Start Booking 💻

The first thing you should always book are flights, if you are going to be flying. The price of flights can increase super quickly and there are usually limited options.

A close second is to book accommodation.

Booking.com is the best place to book hotels. You can read reviews, view photos, and you can often find better deals than what you’ll see on the hotels own website.

If you don’t want to stay in a hotel, Airbnb is great for finding really unique accommodation. Staying in a Airbnb will also help you get the authentic local experience while on your trip.

7. Get packing 🧳

If the surprise is going to be kept a secret right up until the last minute, you’re going to need to pack for your boyfriend.

You could ask a friend to take him out the night before your trip so you can pack while he’s away.

Another option is to offer to do the laundry and just pack his clean clothes along with whatever else you need into a suitcase instead of putting it away.

Taking care of packing for him allows you to keep the surprise for a little bit longer, making it even more exciting.

8. Plan the big reveal 🎉

How you reveal the surprise trip is entirely up to you.

If you’re driving somewhere, you can wait right up until you arrive at the destination, or you can start dropping hints leading up to your arrival.

If you’re flying, you can always choose to wait until you get to the airport, or you can surprise him the morning you leave.

Let’s say you’re surprising him with a trip to New York; you could always buy a tiny Statue of Liberty and place it next to his toothbrush with a note. Another option would be to hide the tickets in a drawer and ask him to grab something from there for you.

No matter how you choose to surprise him, he’s going to be super excited and you’re both going to have a blast.

Exploring new cities, trying new foods, seeing new things, and spending quality time together are all things that help couples connect and become closer.

Your boyfriend might love traveling, but guys aren’t always the best at organizing things. Your boyfriend will love it if you plan a surprise trip for the two of you, and all he has to do is enjoy it!

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32 Original Ways to Surprise Your Boyfriend

By Brenda Adair
August 4, 2021

Is your boyfriend’s birthday is coming up, and you want to do something nice for him? Or maybe your relationship anniversary is around the corner? Even if there is no special occasion, you can always show your boyfriend that you love him! Here are over thirty original ways to surprise your boyfriend that are guaranteed to impress him.

1. Go on a scavenger hunt

If your boyfriend is the adventurous type, then a scavenger hunt might be right up his alley. You can arrange it either in your own home or all over the town. Try to theme the hunt around all the memories of your relationship. You can look up different themes on Pinterest to give you some ideas.

Send your boyfriend text messages with little clues that will steer him to places that hold special memories for you both. Then, at the end of the scavenger hunt, you can lead your boyfriend to the place you both first met or where you made your relationship official.

2. Have a picnic at a secret spot

Do you like the idea of having a picnic with your boyfriend? Why not elevate this surprise by taking him to a secret spot nobody knows! Instead of going to the park full of other people, go to a more remote nature spot where you can have some privacy away from prying eyes.

3. Give him a massage

A woman isn’t the only one who needs a pamper session every now and then. You can surprise your man by scheduling a relaxing night for him. Prepare a bubble bath, give him a massage, and maybe end it with a romantic, intimate night.

Of course, it doesn’t have to be as elaborate as that. If your boyfriend’s idea of the ultimate relaxation is to lounge on the couch while watching his favorite Netflix series, you can give him a tension-relieving shoulder massage. Consider what your partner loves to do to unwind and incorporate that into his pampering session.

4. Take him to a sports game

Most guys love to watch sports, so a great way to surprise your boyfriend is to get tickets to see his favorite sports team. Of course, it’ll be best to catch a home game, but if you got tickets for an away game, you could plan a road trip around it. If you can splurge a little bit, get courtside seats or VIP tickets to make the experience more memorable.

Get dressed in the team’s jerseys, make a supportive team sign, have a little tailgate pre-game, and enjoy the match. Afterward, you can celebrate the win (or soothe the pain of the loss) at your boyfriend’s favorite bar. This will show him that you’re willing to learn about all his interests even if sports are not your greatest passion.

5. Get tickets to see his favorite band

If your man is not the biggest sports fan, you can surprise him with tickets to see his favorite band or attend a music festival. It’ll be even a more pleasant surprise if you have songs or artists that mean something to your relationship. For example, if you first kissed with a song by Bruno Mars playing in the background, try to get tickets to his concert.

Make it a special date by going out for dinner and drinks first before heading to the concert. Then, after you’ve both enjoyed the show, you can finish the night with a couple of drinks or dancing at a club.

6. Plan a romantic getaway

One of my favorite things to do with my partner is to go on a romantic getaway. The options are limitless, from a glamping weekend in the woods to a weekend getaway to the wine region.

If you feel fancy and want to celebrate a special occasion, book a cruise or a trip to an exotic island. It will allow you to discover new cultures, delicious food, explore beaches, and more. As a result, you will strengthen your bond while having fun.

7. Arrange a staycation

Even if the idea of going away to an exotic island sounds exciting, you can also have fun without ever leaving the city. So why not arrange a weekend staycation and relax together?

Search for a stylish AirBnB or splurge on a room in a 5-star hotel. Have a candle-lit room service dinner or book a table at a fine dining restaurant nearby. Chill by the hotel pool, use their spa facilities and have breakfast in bed after sleeping in. That’s what a great staycation is all about!

8. Take a baking class together

If your boyfriend’s love language is quality time, try to surprise him with a couple’s activity you can do together. One idea is to take a baking class and bake your own anniversary or birthday cake. Even if you two have no idea how to make anything in the kitchen, it’s still a fun thing to do that will keep your relationship exciting.

Engaging in activities that require problem-solving will strengthen the bond between you two. Plus, you both will be learning new skills that you can use in the future.

9. Create a romantic video

Creating a video is a great way to surprise your boyfriend if you’re in a long-distance relationship. Put extra effort to wish him a happy birthday, happy anniversary, or just to tell your partner you love him by recording a cute video.

You could compile the footage of you throughout your relationship and edit it to make a short movie. You can also write a poem, sing a song, create a painting, or write a love letter to let your boyfriend know how much you love him. Then, present your creation in person so you can see his reaction.

10. Make an affirmation jar

Sometimes, you don’t need a big gesture to surprise your boyfriend. This idea needs minimal effort, but it is guaranteed to impress him. Surprise your partner by making an affirmation jar filled with sweet messages that he can read every day. The notes in this jar will reflect your feelings and make him smile every day.

11. Deliver flowers to his office

Us girls aren’t the only ones who can appreciate flowers, so arrange a flower delivery straight to your boyfriend’s office. It’s a sweet gesture that says you’re thinking of him, even if both of you are busy with your schedules.

You could also be creative with the bouquet you deliver to him. It doesn’t have to be a flower bouquet; you can order a bouquet made of candy, chocolates, or even donuts these days. Don’t forget to add a touch of romance by writing a note saying how much you love him.

12. Cook him a fancy dinner

Dinner might seem like the typical date night activity. Step up the game and make it more special by cooking something more exotic. Turn on those cooking tutorial videos on Youtube and get grinding in the kitchen. You can surprise your boyfriend by making his favorite restaurant dish or whipping up g a fancy dessert.

When the food is ready, make sure to create a fitting ambiance. Dim the lights, turn on your go-to romantic playlist, open a bottle of wine, and get dressed to the nines to make the evening even more special.

13. Help him tick off his bucket list

There’s nothing more satisfying than ticking off the things on your bucket list. If your boyfriend happens to have one, help him tick a few things off. Choose the things that are easily achieved and are something that is within reach.

Let’s say he’s always wanted to do a parachute jump. All it takes is to book the date and surprise your boyfriend by taking him to the skydiving center. Or if he always wanted to try surfing, gift him some surfing classes during your upcoming holiday. Whatever his bucket list items might be, help him achieve his dreams as a gesture of your love for him.

14. Pack him a lunch box

If your boyfriend works long hours, pack him a homemade lunch box filled with his favorite food. We often get caught up with the business of adulthood, so it would be nice to make your partner a thoughtful, personalized lunch box.

Remember to slip in a cute little love note into it. No matter how busy or challenging his day might have been, his mood will improve once he’s read your note and eaten the delicious lunch!

15. Rent his favorite sports car for a day

One of the most jaw-dropping ways to surprise your boyfriend is to rent his favorite sports car for a day and let him drive it. If your boyfriend is a car enthusiast, this surprise will seriously impress him.

Look up available services in your city that lets you rent a Ferrari or a Lamborghini and let your partner fulfill his Fast and Furious fantasies. He will surely have a blast racing (safely) on the highway and will be talking about it with his friends for weeks to come.

16. Make a personalized Spotify playlist

Sometimes, surprising your partner doesn’t require a lot of money or big gestures. You can impress your boyfriend by creating a personalized Spotify playlist made of meaningful songs.

Pick the songs that will help you express your feelings for him. Add his favorite musicians and bands that you both enjoy listening to together. Customize the Spotify playlist cover with a sweet picture of the two of you to make it even more special.

17. Recreate your first date

One romantic way to surprise your partner is to take him back to the very beginning of your relationship and relive your first date together. This would be a nostalgic experience filled with wholesome memories that could remind him how it all started and how far the two of you have come.

Visit the venue of your first date night, whether it was at a restaurant, a bar, or a coffee shop. Try doing all the activities that you did back in the day, and if possible, wear the same outfit you both wore during the date. Your boyfriend will appreciate the time you spent together even more after this date.

18. Go on a road trip

Are you an adventurous couple who loves road tripping? Then, have quality time together by renting an RV motorhome and drive across the country! Look for a comfortable vehicle for you to sleep in, take a shower, and prepare food.

Imagine how fun it would be to stay in a caravan park instead of your usual motels and cook all your meals in the mini kitchen. It’s like camping, but you get to explore different cities and see different sights at your own pace. You can also plan a route based on all the scenic spots you haven’t visited before.

19. Have a thrill at an amusement park

Is your boyfriend an adrenaline junkie? Consider taking him to an amusement park! I’m not talking about going on the kiddie rides; try the adrenaline-pumping rollercoasters that will get you and your boyfriend screaming with excitement at the top of your lungs.

Academic studies have shown that adrenaline helps developing attraction between people. So try all the different rollercoasters out there and create a closer bond with your partner.

20. Get him a furry friend

Getting a pet is one of the sweetest and thoughtful surprises you can do for your man. Adopt a cute puppy or a kitten that you two can take care of together. This can also be a test before you get more serious and start planning children.

Even if your boyfriend already has a pet, he may enjoy having company for it to play with. So let him come up with a name that he likes and pick pet accessories for his new furry friend.

21. Plan a surprise party

Is your boyfriend close to his family and friends? There is no better way to surprise him than organizing a party so he can spend time with the people he loves! Invite his closest friends, siblings, and cousins to celebrate together.

This is a great idea for your loved one for his birthday, especially if he lives far from his family. If you could get all of his loved ones together in a room, I can guarantee that his reaction will be priceless.

22. Serve him breakfast in bed

What can be better than a nice breakfast served in bed in the morning? You don’t have to book a room at a fancy resort to give your boyfriend the fancy holiday experience. All that you need to do is go grocery shopping a day before and then get up a bit earlier to prepare a tray with your boyfriend’s favorite breakfast food.

23. Send him a care package

Are you in a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend? Then, sending him a care package is a great idea! Get a few things that he likes and might not find in his city or country.

Your care package can include snacks, little souvenirs, t-shirts, and anything else that will help him remember you. Personalize the parcel with descriptions of each item. You can also video call him when he receives it to see his reactions while unwrapping the goodies.

24. Get off the grid

Sometimes, we can get too fixated on my phone, social media, and other digital distractions instead of focusing on our relationships. If you find yourself in this situation, you may want to surprise your boyfriend by planning a cabin getaway over the weekend where you can be off the grid.

While on this vacation, avoid using your phones unless it’s an emergency. Learn how to enjoy each other’s company without distractions. This is an excellent activity to spend quality time with each other, especially if you’ve been in a long-term relationship with your man.

25. Tidy his house

Surprising your partner doesn’t always have to be extravagant. It can be as simple as cleaning his house for him when he’s out. If your boyfriend is a busy person who doesn’t have the time to do deep cleaning, he will surely appreciate such a kind gesture.

26. Create a makeshift theater

Make the movie-watching experience more memorable by creating a makeshift cinema at home. Aside from being budget-friendly, it’s also a more intimate activity because you don’t have to share the room with other people.

Pop some popcorn, chill a couple of drinks, dim the lights, and get cozy. Project your boyfriend’s favorite movie onto a wall and enjoy your evening snuggling on the couch.

27. Write a love letter

We get so caught up with our phones and gadgets that we sometimes forget one of the most important factors of a relationship: romance. So bring it back into your relationship by writing an old-fashioned love letter for your man. Instead of texting him, use pen and paper to express how much you love him and how grateful you are to have him in your life.

If you want to make it look extra special, decorate the envelope with a wax seal. It will make the letter look like something out of a romantic movie taking place in the 1800s. Not only will it be a cute surprise, but your man will also be impressed by all the effort you took to create this letter.

28. Gift an all-day pass to do whatever he wants

If you really don’t have any ideas on how to surprise your significant other, give him an all-day pass where he can do whatever he pleases for a day. Your boyfriend can tell you what he wants to do, and you can help him make that happen.

Does he want to play games all day with his friends? Or has he always wanted to go to a batting cage and hit some baseballs? Whatever he wants to treat himself with, let him do it.

29. Spend a romantic evening on a yacht

Sailing a yacht sound rather fancy, but having dinner while cruising down the river can leave your boyfriend more surprised than ever. So treat him to a romantic sunset cruise while enjoying each other’s company.

This might be a date night that will only happen on special occasions, so dress up in your best clothes to make it truly memorable.

30. Do his chores for him

One of the best ideas to impress your significant other, which also requires little to no effort, is to do his chores. This can be taking his car to get fixed, taking his suits to dry cleaners or any other chores that you know he’s not a fan of doing. It’s a sign that you’re willing to sacrifice your time to help him out.

Whether he didn’t have the time to complete those errands or he’s been simply postponing them, he will surely appreciate you going out of your way to do help him out. Especially if your partner’s love language is an act of service, this is an idea that you should definitely consider.

31. Pay him a surprise visit

If you and your boyfriend live apart , one of the biggest surprises you can make is a trip to wherever he is. Don’t let him figure out that you’re going to show up at his door. Instead, act like you’re going on a holiday elsewhere to throw him off his tracks.

Make sure that when you’re planning this surprise, your partner’s schedule is free enough to accommodate your visit. Then, you both can plan date nights, activities, and vacations to spend quality time with each other once you’re physically together.

32. Get down on one knee

This is perhaps the most grand yet out of all the surprises you can make. It is not typical for a woman to propose to her significant other, but if you really love him and you’re ready to spend the rest of your life with this guy, then go for it.

If you’ve been in a long-term relationship with your partner and already had the marriage talk, plan a proposal based on his interests. For example, it can be his favorite place in the city, his preferred restaurant, or the place where you first met.

I hope this list of ideas on how to surprise your boyfriend will give you some inspiration, and you’ll blow his mind away. Remember that surprising your loved one does not have to be fancy and extravagant. It’s the thought and effort that counts!

Brenda is relationships and lifestyle writer, coffee enthusiast, and a lover of new experiences. You’ll usually find her in a coffee shop with her laptop and a flat white scribbling down an article or searching for the next travel destination.

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8 Ways to Impress Your Boyfriend and Show Him Your Love in a Long Distance Relationship

Last Updated: November 2, 2023 References

This article was co-authored by Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden . Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF). There are 8 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been viewed 22,549 times.

When you’re in a long distance relationship, impressing your significant other can be a little tough. Fortunately, with a little creativity and a lot of communication, you can keep your relationship on track and maintain the same spark. Keep reading for some fun ways you two can connect with each other on a daily basis.

Plan a virtual date night.

Tell him to dress up and cook a fancy dinner.

If you aren’t the savviest cook in the kitchen, try getting some takeout to enjoy instead.

Send him a gift via snail mail.

Surprise him with a fun care package he wasn’t expecting.

If shipping a package is too much, just send him a letter instead. It costs less, and your words will be super meaningful.

Download a couple’s app.

You can play games and make travel plans together.

Other couple apps include Rabb.it, Lovedays, and LokLok.

Start a book club with him.

Pick out a book to read and try to do a chapter a week.

Take turns picking the book so both of you feel included.
If you don’t want to go out and buy brand new books, hit up your local library instead.

Play video games together.

Buy the same game and start it at the same time.

If video games aren’t your thing, try playing virtual board games or card games instead.

Look at the stars together.

Call your boyfriend and talk about what you’re both seeing.

See if you can find any constellations!

Try sexting.

You can still be intimate, even with a long distance relationship.

If texting or video chatting isn’t your thing, try having phone sex instead. You don’t have to see each other, and you can simply describe what you’d do if your boyfriend was in the room with you.

Plan a surprise visit.

Let him know a few days ahead of time that you’re coming.

If he’s planning to come and see you, surprise him by buying his tickets instead.

Expert Q&A

Long distance relationships work best when there’s an end goal in mind. Make sure you and your boyfriend talk about the future and when you’re going to live near each other. [12] X Research source Thanks Helpful 1 Not Helpful 0

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Thanks for reading our article! If you’d like to learn more about long-distance relationships, check out our in-depth interview with Lisa Shield .

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36 Best Gifts To Surprise Long Distance Boyfriends

So you want to surprise your boyfriend who is hundreds or maybe even thousands of miles away? Let’s choose some amazing gifts for long distance boyfriends that could make them happier.

We know that maintaining long-distance relationships can be hard, but small gifts can do wonders and will show him you are still thinking of him.

The best gifts for long-distance boyfriends are either original or personalized items that remind you of your relationship or useful and funny items that will enable him to “survive” without your guidance.

As always, The Gift Hacker has your back and found the most original and heartwarming gifts for long-distance boyfriends

In this article you will find:

36 best gifts for long-distance boyfriends

What are original long-distance relationship Valentine’s day ideas?

What are great long-distance birthday ideas, how to make the perfect care package for your long-distance boyfriend, should i spend big on long-distance relationship gifts for guys, 36. personalized story card.

We kick off this list of best gifts for long distance boyfriends with probably the most original greeting card you’ve ever seen.

An artist will create a unique and personalized greeting card just for you.

Remind him of “your story” in a beautiful and original way. He’ll love it!

35. LDR Couple Pillow Cases

For most people in a long-distance relationship, the hardest part is having to sleep alone.

But with these ultra-cute pillowcases, you’ll both go to bed with a smile.

No matter where he is, he’ll know that he’s the first and last thing on your mind every day. This is one of the best gifts for long distance boyfriends.

34. LDR Smart Photo Frame

Okay, so sending a framed picture of both of you is like the most stereotypical gift for a boyfriend ever, right?

But what if you could change that picture at any time from a distance? This way you can surprise him any time you want.

That is exactly what you can do with this smart digital photo frame!

33. Your Girlfriend Personalized Socks

We continue this list of gifts for long distance boyfriends with a classic item when it comes to personalized gifts.

Put your adorable face on a pair of socks and you’ll be with him wherever he goes. Literally!

Complete the whole by adding a touching or funny personalized message.

32. Naughty Birthday Card

For those of you that are feeling a bit more naughty, this next birthday gift might just make both of you blush.

Your man will probably have the largest grin on his face ever after receiving this greeting card.

Tip: tell him he can only open his card during a video call. You’ll want to see his reaction.

31. Freshly-Baked Cookies

I don’t like homemade cookies, said no one ever!

The love of a man goes through his stomach. So send him a freshly baked batch of delicious chocolate chip cookies and he’ll love it.

And while you’re at it, you might as well make an extra batch for yourself…

30. Why I Miss You Book

Tell him in detail about all the little things that make you miss him so much.

The book is pre-filled with funny and touching topics that will guide you as you write.

This lovely book deserves its spot on our list of best gifts for long distance boyfriends.

29. Secret Message Puzzle

This next gift is one of our absolute bestsellers and for good reasons!

You can put a little note or small item inside this puzzle.

So your boyfriend will need to enter the right word cipher. This can be the name of your favorite restaurant, the street where you first kissed, etc.

28. I Love The Sh*t Out Of You

Oh come on, this gift is just too hilarious not to buy!

Perfect as an extra birthday gift on top of a more serious one. This roll of TP is sure to crack him up.

Shut up and take my money already!

27. Personalized Couples Painting

Looking for a more serious gift for a long-distance boyfriend?

Then what about a personalized painting of the two of you?

Just provide the artist with a photo and he’ll create a lovely painting that deserves a premium spot in your boyfriend’s place.

26. Long Distance Relationship Vouchers

One of the fun things about being in a relationship is showering your boyfriend with small gifts and treats.

While these are not possible when in a long-distance relationship, you can make up for them thanks to these original vouchers.

From a relaxing massage to some more naughty fun, he’ll love receiving each one of these vouchers.

25. 100 Dates Bucket List

Looking for fun date ideas for when you finally get to see your long-distance boyfriend again?

Then gift him this original dates bucket list!

With this bad boy, you’ll have 100 fun-filled dates guaranteed.

24. Boyfriend Beer Care Package

Want to send him a little something just to let him know you are thinking of him?

This cute six-pack beer holder is the way to go!

Fill it with his favorite beer and he’ll be a happy camper. Indeed, boys are not that complicated.

23. Miles Apart Matching Undies

OMG… matching undies!

Forget about what he wants, this is one for you!

This website has a ton of cute prints to choose from, and you can also pick the type of underwear for both him and her.

22. Personalized Wooden Postcard

This beautiful postcard is made of high-quality wood and engraved with the greatest care.

You can personalize the message to create a truly unique gift for your long-distance boyfriend.

Beats a normal postcard any day of the week!

21. Where We Met Puzzle

As far as personalized gifts go, you probably can’t find a more original one than this puzzle.

Upload a map indicating the place where you first met and this company will create a unique puzzle out of it.

A truly great gift that will keep your long-distance boyfriend busy while thinking of you.

20. Prankster Greeting Card

Looking for a gag gift to send your long-distance boyfriend?

Well, look no further!

This hilarious greeting card starts ominous but holds a more tender secret message on the inside.

19. Funny Boyfriend Tumbler

Another great gag gift idea for boyfriends is this hilarious tumbler.

His drink will be gushing through his nose as he can’t stop but laugh with the hysterical print.

The tumbler is available in different colors.

18. Chill Pill

A groundbreaking, drug-free device designed to alleviate stress and promote quicker, deeper sleep.

Being in a long-distance relationship can be emotionally taxing, often leading to stress and sleepless nights due to time differences, missing one another, or the challenges of communication.

Gifting the Chill Pill signifies a deep level of care and understanding. It’s like sending a personal, comforting touch to help him relax and sleep better, even when you can’t be there physically.

Every time he holds the Chill Pill, he’ll be reminded of your love and thoughtfulness, making the distance feel a little bit shorter.

17. Pizza Socks Delivery

Meet one of our all-time favorite gifts for people in a long-distance relationship.

These pizza-print socks come presented in a pizza box to complete a fantastic gift idea.

Special delivery, a large pie with extra love!

16. Personalized Couple Art

Early in this list of great gifts for long-distance relationships, we already talked about a personalized couples painting.

But if you think a full-sized painting is a bit too much, perhaps a smaller piece of art might be more your thing.

The artist has a lot of flexibility and can draw virtually anything you’d like.

15. Long Distance Giftbox

Entering our top 15 of best gifts for long-distance relationships we have to talk about the “LDR box”.

This creative gift box unfolds to hold a collage of all your favorite pictures, and keepsakes, as well as a romantic gift in the middle.

It’s a classic, and although not for every boyfriend it does deserve a place on this list.

14. Comical Boyfriend Shirt

How can you make sure other girls stay far away from your man when you’re not around to protect him?

With this shirt, that’s how!

A great gag gift. Now you just need to figure out how you can get him to actually wear it.

13. Grooming Care Package

As we mentioned before, care packages are a big hit with long-distance boyfriends.

With this exclusive grooming kit, he’ll be able to look his best whenever you visit him.

It’s filled with a variety of lotions and brushes and comes presented in a lovely gift box.

12. Long Distance Messages

Instead of sending him one love letter, send him one every day!

This beautiful jar can be filled with a whole bunch of small notes.

Make some of the heartwarming, others funny, and maybe even some a bit more naughty. It’s all up to you! Your man will love reading something from you every day.

11. Engraved Wallet Card

With this engraved wallet card you’ll be with him wherever he goes.

Personalized it with some loving words or a touching message.

The card itself is a high-quality metal plate that is laser engraved.

10. For When We Meet Again

Want to send your man a little something just to make sure he’ll still be thinking of you?

This token will probably do the trick…

Also a fun little extra to add to a more serious birthday or Valentine’s day present.

9. Any 2 States Wall Art

Most American couples that are in a long-distance relationship are living in a different states.

But thanks to this lovely gift you’ll seem slightly less far away.

You can combine any two states and personalize the frame with both of your names.

8. Miles Apart Mugs

We started this list of best gifts for long-distance boyfriends with a set of pillowcases.

These mugs are a different execution of the same idea!

While you’re enjoying your morning coffee you’ll both be thinking of each other thanks to this cute matching mug gift set.

7. Long Distance Relationship Frame

He’ll have a daily reminder that distance is no match for the love between you, thanks to this original picture frame.

Add your favorite photo of the two of you together, wrap the frame up in some nice paper and you’re good to go.

A classic LDR gift that never fails!

6. Personalized “Property Of” Boxers

In case there was still any doubt to whom that cute but belongs, here is a gift idea to set the record straight once and for all.

The boxers are made of high-quality fabric and available in different colors.

A hilarious personalized gift that will crack any boyfriend up.

5. Our Adventure Scrapbook

If you’ve ever watched the movie ‘Up’, you won’t need any more explanations why this is the best gift for a long-distance relationship ever!

Fill this beautiful scrapbook with photos and keepsakes of your adventures together.

But make sure you leave plenty of room at the end for all those memories still to come.

4. Monthly Snack Box

Just want to send your boyfriend some snacks?

Then check out this delicious boyfriend care package by Cratejoy.

This box was voted one of the best care packages of the year.

3. LDR Book Of Letters

When you’re in a long-distance relationship, letters mean everything.

With this lovely book, he won’t have to wait for your next letter to arrive in the mail.

You can prefill it with a bunch of letters. Prepare one for his birthday, Valentine’s, or just for every Friday of the month. You choose!

2. Thinking Of You Lamp

Are you ready for one of the all-time cutest gifts for a couple in a long-distance relationship?

These lamps are connected, even when they are miles apart.

When one person touches the lamp, both will light up. This way, the other person will know that you are thinking of him! How cute is that!

1. Name A Star

Go big or go home! That’s what they always say, right?

That is why at the very top of our list of best gifts for long-distance boyfriends we find the gift of naming a star.

Go for your name, his, or a combination of the two. Either way, when both of you look up at night you’ll be thinking of each other!

Right off the bat, the best long-distance relationship gift idea will always be to surprise him and be with him in person.

That being said, you can still make your gift more original by adding one of the LDR gifts mentioned above, or by planning a romantic and unique experience together.

There are basically three routes to follow when deciding on the perfect gift for your long-distance boyfriend:

Go Cute : The most common birthday gift for a boyfriend when in a long-distance relationship is a thoughtful or heartwarming item to hold meaning to you both as a couple. In the above list, we talked about the long-distance lamp, the “Up” scrapbook, and our #1, naming a star.
Go Funny: Give him a birthday gift that will make him laugh and he’ll love you, even more, it’s as simple as that. A gag gift also makes for a great warming-up present for a more serious birthday gift.
Go Naughty : Well, it’s his birthday after all. So for the more daring ladies among you, a more naughty gift like the token and greeting card mentioned above might be a great gift idea.

The secret to getting a care package for your long-distance boyfriend right is to fill it with items tailored to his passions and needs. Besides giving him stuff he’ll actually want and use, you’ll show him you really know him.

So the first step in creating the perfect care package for a long-distance boyfriend is to think about what his passions and hobbies are:

Sports : Is he a gym fanatic?
Fishing & Outdoors : Does he like to spend his free time in the outdoors?
Studying : Is he in the midst of his finals?
Food & Drinks : Is he really into beers or certain foods?
General Care : Boys will be boys. Could he use some help with clothing or grooming choices?

When in doubt, ask his close friends or family members. They’ll be able to help you out.

The second step is to fill up your care package with different goodies related to your boyfriend’s passion, hobby, or need.

If he’s into working out, send him a care package with protein-filled snacks.
If he’s studying for his final, send him a box with the “brain food” and other goodies.

Are you not the creative type? Or perhaps you don’t have time to run to different stores to find all the different items you need to create a package? No worries, the Cratejoy platform offers a ton of popular subscription boxes and care packages. Just type in your category and choose the right care package for your long-distance boyfriend.

Finally, don’t forget to add a little note with a heartfelt message. It completes the gift and he’ll love it!

For a guy, it doesn’t really matter how much you spend on a gift for him. What matters most is that you show him that you know him and give him something related to his passions (you being one of them of course).

That being said, research has shown that women do tend to spend significantly more on gifts than men. So if you feel like splurging on a present for your man, go for it. You are not the only one who does.

Looking For More Gift Ideas For Long Distance Boyfriends?

We hope you find this list of best gifts for long-distance boyfriends useful, and you are now set to surprise your sweetheart with the perfect present! If you have comments or questions, feel free to post them below. Didn’t find what you were looking for? Have a look at our lists of best gadgets and personalized gifts for him.

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44 Gifts for Long-Distance Couples That Go the Extra Mile

By Nykia Spradley and Malia Griggs

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Whether you’re five months or five years into a relationship, living away from your partner is hard. But the best gifts for long-distance couples can fill the gap in space and time until you’re together again.

There are so many directions you can go when choosing a unique gift for a significant other who’s miles away. What it comes down to is choosing the best present for your SO’s set of interests and hobbies, and also factoring in what helps you work as a couple. (Oh, and if budget is a concern—i.e., you’d rather spend money on a ticket to visit them than splurge on a gift—these thoughtful under-$100 presents are a great place to start.)

Our top picks:

Best Overall : UrbanStems Subscription , $55 and up
Best LDR Gift on Amazon : Knock Knock “Why I Miss You” Fill-in-the-Blank Gift Journal , $12
Best for Long-Term Relationships : Lelo Ida Wave Vibrator , ( $189 ) $123
Best for New Couples : Esther Perel “Where Should We Begin?” A Game of Stories , $40
Best for Couples on a Budget : “You Are My Favorite Notification” Candle , $12
Best Personalized Gift : Memory Film Keychain , ( $30 ) $23
Best Practical Gift : Anker Magnetic Portable Charger , ( $60 ) $40
Best Photo Gift : Aura Carver Digital Picture Frame , ( $179 ) $149

As far as ideas go, sentimental gifts and personalized presents are always a win. Think an illuminated plaque that plays your relationship’s inaugural song, or matching photo puzzles that you can put together over FaceTime. If you’re still in the get-to-know-each-other phase of your long distance relationship, consider a card game to help you build a deeper connection, or a touch bracelet set that’ll simulate the sensation of your presence.

Since there’s already so much to keep in mind with an LDR, we wanted to make gifting easier for you by asking real-life long-distance loves for the no-fail gifts for men and stellar presents for women they’ve given and received—and loved, of course! Keep scrolling to find the best long-distance relationship gift ideas for Christmas, Valentine’s Day, birthdays, anniversaries, and just because.

All products featured on Glamour are independently selected by our editors. However, when you buy something through our retail links, we may earn an affiliate commission.

Moncioni Fragrance Lab “You Are My Favorite Notification” Scented Soy Candle

Chances are, the person you text when you wake up and before you sleep is your honey. Let them know how special that constant contact is with this scented candle, which walks the line between silly and sweet. Choose from a bunch of yummy fragrances, including fireplace, library, and lavender sage. “It smells so good and my long distance partner loved it,” one Etsy shopper says.

Save when you shop the best gifts for long-distance couples with these Etsy promo codes .

Anker Magnetic Portable Charger

One pillar of long-distance-relationship success is keeping cell phones charged at all times. A low-profile wireless charger that sticks to your phone should make the task easy breezy—especially one that turns into a stand, so they can hands-free FaceTime you while it’s juicing up.

Save when you shop the best gifts for long-distance couples with these Amazon promo codes .

Chronicle Books “Letters to Open When…” Book

Tap into the nostalgia of letter writing with an inexpensive but still romantic gift like this booklet that lets you write little keepsake notes based on unique prompts. Seal each note in its respective envelope so they can open them (ideally one at a time, like an Advent calendar ) whenever they feel blue—or just because.

LuvLink Touch Lamps (Set of 2)

Friendship lamps are an easy way to feel connected to your long-distance lover. Each of you gets a lamp that lights up in the same color when its partner is touched to let them know you’re thinking of them. It’s the perfect gift.

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Custom art is an easy way to make your respective locations feel like one. Choose between framed and unframed options, and customize the print with both of your names and the year you met.

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Knock Knock “Why I Miss You” Fill-in-the-Blank Gift Journal

You may already tell them every day, but this cute fill-in-the-blank book will remind them what it is about them that you miss most—and say “I love you” in a uniquely personal way.

Keith Haring Lovebox

The Lovebox is one of the most thoughtful gifts for long-distance couples. Put together a sweet message or create a drawing or animation via the Lovebox app, then send it over; the spinning heart-shaped button on the front will turn once your note arrives. When they remove the lid, whatever personal message you sent will appear on the screen—cute!

Lelo Ida Wave Vibrator

Absence makes the heart grow hornier, right? Intimacy with your partner may come in spurts when you’re long-distance , but the best vibrator can help fill the void virtually. This toy has 10 settings, is waterproof, and can be controlled by an app if you prefer to go hands-free and video call (or phone call) your SO while you use it.

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Bond Touch Pair of Bracelets for Couples

Bond Touch Vibrating Touch Bracelets (Set of 2)

If touch is their love language, these long-distance touch bracelets will be a solid stand-in until your next meetup. With a few taps on your bracelet, your partner’s will buzz and light up, letting them know they’re on your mind. Through the device’s app, you can also send private, long-distance messages to each other.

Aura Carver 10.1 WiFi Digital Picture Frame

Aura Carver WiFi Digital Picture Frame (10.1")

While some digital photo frames need to be set up before the handover, this one lets you upload pics and videos via an app so you can surprise your boo with all the snaps as soon as they turn it on. It’s a great gift for the holidays like Christmas, their birthday, or Valentine’s Day, making it one of best long-distance relationship gifts overall.

NodPod Sleep Mask

The partner who can’t fall asleep without a cuddle sesh will appreciate this eye mask, which is like a weighted blanket for the temples and offers a similar calming sensation with beads that gently rest on their eyes.

Neon Thief Co. Custom Embroidered Sweatshirt

Lounging around doesn’t get any more sentimental than this. Customize a set of two crewneck sweatshirts with your anniversary day and initials. The half-heart on the sleeve completes each other’s half.

Capsule Message Pills in Bottle

Text messages are quick and easy, but there’s something about a handwritten note that ensures your sentiments don’t get lost in translation. The capsules in this bottle have blank pieces of paper for you to write sweet nothings to your loved one.

New York Times Custom Anniversary Edition Book

Spending milestones apart is hard, but even if you do get to mark the day together, this anniversary gift will give your best friend reading material while you’re apart. This keepsake book includes every New York Times front page from the day you got married to your most recent anniversary.

Super Cool Creations Bespoke Two-Time-Zone Clock

Coordinating calls in different time zones can be tricky, but a dual-time-zone clock will help you both keep track of the hour so that neither of you interrupts the other’s workday or bedtime.

Witifox Custom Spotify Plaque

Maybe it commemorates the song that was playing the first time you kissed, or the tune you danced to at your wedding—either way, this personalized music plaque will tug at your partner’s heartstrings. They just use the Spotify app to scan the plaque’s song code. Add a picture of the two of you, and they can listen whenever they want to reminisce.

Tell Me More: A Conversation Starter Game of Questions to Deepen Connection

Whether your relationship is just starting or is years in, there’s always something new to learn about your partner. Use these conversation starter cards to share some next-level knowledge about each other, with each other.

Create Your Own Gift Personalized Photo Puzzle

Here’s something they can use to pass the time between weekend visits. Or order two puzzles—a photo of yourselves or maybe a pic of your beloved pet—and turn it into a virtual date night: Sign on to FaceTime, and challenge your SO to see who can finish theirs first.

The Grayfolk Custom Love-Letter Blanket

Sure, they can tuck away your letters to re-read when they’re feeling sentimental. Or you can have their favorite one printed onto cozy throw (you can even get it on a giant blanket that they can curl up with every night).

Papier Victorian Love Heart Notecard Set (20-Pack)

A sweet stationery set will make receiving and sending your love notes even more special. The heavyweight paper and lined envelopes add an elevated touch—and you can order sets as large as 250 and splurge on colored lining for the envelopes.

Wish and Design Couple Name Morse Code Bracelets (Set of 2)

Choose a hidden message with your partner and then have it set in Morse code on these bracelets. They come in pairs, and you can each get a different word or stick to the same.

Homesick Love Letters Scented Candle

If the sentiments you pour out to your partner could be encapsulated into scent, they would be this blend of rose petals, jasmine, sandalwood, peony, lemon, and red plum.

Fnur Jewelry Design Long-Distance Necklace

Wear your heart around your neck with jewelry that reps both of your locations.

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Charles-Hubert Paris 3549 Stainless-Steel Dual-Time Watch

Similar to the wall clock, a dual-time watch will help them keep track of your hours when you’re in different time zones.

Nintendo Switch V2 Game Console

A little friendly competition between lovers never hurt anyone. You can play your favorite video games online together even if you’re in different parts of the world.

Lego Icons Flower Bouquet

For a gift for a crafter , here’s an everlasting bouquet Lego kit that has 756 pieces and adjustable stem heights so that they can truly make their own floral masterpiece.

Image3D Create Your Own Reel Viewer

Throwing some nostalgia into your ship mix with a custom Viewmaster Reel. The steps are easy: You upload five pics, which will then be turned into a mini film reel that your partner can click through.

Cuiline Pasta Making Kit + Free Video Master Class

Table the debate about who’s the better chef (at least for the night) by buying two of these pasta-making kits that you can tackle together over video chat.

Thoughtfully Cocktails Natural Cocktail Mixer Gift Set in Mini Glass Bottles

Thoughtfully Cocktails Natural Cocktail Mixers Gift Set (Set of 15)

Happy hours without you might not be the same, but they can come close with this set of DIY cocktail mixers to whip up delicious blends like a blood orange margarita or a mango mimosa.

Brain Delight “Distance Can Suck It” Long-Distance Relationship Coloring Book

Brighten up gloomy days without each other with some vibrant coloring that also acknowledges the difficulty of distance on the cover. Inside are designs mixed with funny and lovable quotes.

TMY Projector Set

Turn the cinephile’s bedroom or living room into a theater with this portable projector that also comes with a massive screen.

Ugg Winston Fleece Pullover Hoodie Robe

An easy fix for the long-distance blues is a cozy fleece hoodie robe that has a front pocket for the remote so they don’t lose it in the couch cushions. There’s a women’s version as well.

Ana Luisa Celeste Crescent Moon Huggie Hoops

The stars were aligned the night we met… or No matter how far apart, we share the same stars and moon … Just some examples of the cheesy card caption you could write and pair with these beautiful huggie earrings.

Patagonia Black Hole Duffel Bag 40L

Ahead of any trip to visit you in person, give them this excellent Patagonia weekender bag, which is water-repellent, has multiple handy zippered pockets, and can transition into a backpack with removable padded shoulder straps. It’ll fit just what they need for a few days with you—and to really kill it with your gift, pair it with plane tickets. “When my husband and I were long distance, a good weekender was key, and the fact that this can be worn as a backpack made all those subways-train-bus rides to visit each other much easier,” says Glamour commerce director Brie Schwartz .

Engraved Watch Band

Scrawl a message of love just for them, and this company will print it inside of a custom watch band—in your handwriting, no less. It’s an intimate way for your giftee to keep your affection close.

MasterClass Duo Subscription

Masterclass

With a MasterClass Duo subscription gift card , the two of you can stream a class together, such as mixology with world-class bartenders Lynnette and Ryan, songwriting with Alicia Keys, or dive deep with a sex and communication class with Emily Morse, PhD . It’s a really fun activity for a virtual date night.

UrbanStems Flower Subscription

If you can’t be there IRL to present them with a bouquet, ensure they’re never without fresh blooms—week after week, or month after month, depending on the subscription you sign up for.

CraftsByAleja Memory Film Keychain

Inside this clever film canister keychain is a scroll of up to 10 custom photos of your choosing (and a short message from you). Your last trip, engagement, and goofy selfies are all ideas for what to include.

Mejuri Engravable Bar Bracelet

Engrave your anniversary or nickname for your boo onto this delicate bar bracelet for a meaningful, memorable gift.

Esther Perel “Where Should We Begin?” A Game of Stories

Esther Perel

This card game from relationship expert Esther Perel will help you deepen your connection from afar with questions you might not think (or dare) to ask each other otherwise. Vintage furniture curator Amberjade Taylor says she loves playing this game with her partner: “The questions in the deck have an edge and are thoughtful and clear, while still being really open-ended. It’s reminded me that there’s always more to discover about each other.”

PharMeDoc Full-Body Pregnancy Pillow

This extra-large, plush body pillow is technically a pregnancy pillow, but the U-shape is ideal for the partner who misses cuddling with you.

Intelex Warmies Sloth Plushie

When your warm body isn’t available for snuggling, this microwavable plushie will do the job for you (and is just so cute).

MiniDecorShop Custom Two Map Night Light for Couples

The last thing they’ll see before they close their eyes in bed is this cool night light, which is engraved with your two states and a little reminder that you love and miss them.

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Samantha Schoech is a writer focusing on gifts. She spends her time finding things that combine quality, beauty, usefulness, and delight.

Whether you’re shopping for a new beau, a long-distance lover, or a live-in partner, it can be challenging to find a gift with the right level of intimacy at an appropriate price. As experienced boyfriend wranglers and gift-giving experts, we’ve gathered the very best stuff from Wirecutter testing and our staff’s favorite things—the tasty, the practical, and the silly—to make sure there’s something here to delight your most special someone.

A unique portrait

A cartoon image of a couple sitting on a couch from TurnCartoon.

TurnCartoon Personalized Cartoon Portraits

This Etsy illustrator offers fast, accurate, and printable digital caricatures in the style of five shows, such as Family Guy and Bob’s Burgers.

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If your man tunes into Fox’s animation lineup on Sunday nights or still guffaws at South Park , he might delight in seeing himself (and you) inside his favorite cartoon. For a custom illustration, first go to the TurnCartoon shop page and choose from one of five popular shows. The process is streamlined: Select a background, people, pets, and words from drop-downs, and then submit photos and desired details (particular clothing, tattoos, and so forth) to the illustrator via Etsy messaging. About three days later you’ll get a mock-up; we requested minor changes, which were made quickly. In about a week, you’ll receive a printable, 12-by-16-inch digital illustration. Then you can either print it out yourself or send it to an online framer , like our pick Framebridge , to get it professionally done.

Seriously solid sneaker

A Nike Air Force 1 Planter by Original Rose with green plants in it.

Original Rose Nike Air Force 1 Planter

This 8-inch concrete planter can hold succulents, small cacti, or pens, and it showcases neat detailing with stitches and ridged soles.

You wouldn’t dare buy actual shoes for a sneakerhead. But this Air Force 1 Planter (about the size of a long tissue box) scratches the same hypebeast itch without threatening any precious closet space. The molded concrete sneaker, which sports fine details like stitches and a textured collar lining, is made by New York City artist Olivia Rose . (Rose also collaborates with brands on fanciful projects, including this 6-foot Timberland boot made of greenery .) This desk-friendly planter doesn’t have a drainage hole, so it’s best suited to succulents and small cacti, and it should be watered only when the soil is completely dry. It would also work nicely as an ashtray, bookend, or holder for pens and incense.

An exotic tree

Reddish-pink finger limes from a Red Finger Lime Tree.

Fast Growing Trees Red Finger Lime

This fragrant, low-maintenance tree produces finger limes—a favorite of professional chefs—which contain sweet-sour pulp beads that pop like caviar.

Fast Growing Trees Koroneiki Greek Olive Tree

This elegant, easy-to-care-for olive tree features long, silvery-green leaves and looks like a set piece for a design magazine.

Plant enthusiasts can easily pick up a Fiddle Leaf Fig or Monstera Deliciosa at their local nursery or hardware store. But they likely won’t come across a Red Finger Lime Tree . The low-maintenance citrus tree produces 2- to 3-inch, oblong limes—known as the “caviar of fruit”—containing pearl-like juice vesicles that are a favorite of high-end chefs . With a pleasing pop of tart juice, they are a stunning topper for seafood, cocktails, sorbets, or any other citrus-loving dish. This is also a gift that can grow with your relationship. The plant, which thrives in full sunlight, arrives 1 to 2 feet tall, and it can reach 6 to 20 feet, depending on whether it’s planted in a container or the ground. Due to agricultural restrictions on shipping citrus, the tree is not available for shipment to all states, and it may only ship during temperate weather to colder regions. Another great option for a harder-to-find fruit tree is the elegant Koroneiki Greek Olive Tree , which ships to 49 states.

Cool classic

A person wears the Champion Reverse Weave Crewneck Sweatshirt with a hoodie in pink.

Champion Men's Reverse Weave Sweatshirt

This enduring, well-structured American classic is soft, thick, and flattering.

Champion Men's Reverse Weave Pullover Hoodie Sweatshirt

This enduring, well-structured American classic is soft, thick, and flattering, and it comes hooded.

The 100-year-old Champion brand has had a resurgence in the past decade, thanks to its collaborations with streetwear brands and its popularity among hot musicians . But its semi-recent return to cool is no flash in the pan: The company actually invented the hoodie as collegiate athletic apparel in the 1930s. We also love the fit of the crewneck, which comes in a wide range of sweet colors, including a minty green and pinky red. The soft, cozy Reverse Weave Sweatshirt has a structured, flattering fit. And its patented “reverse weave” (a horizontal knitting technique with the grain running sideways rather than vertically) and side panels are purported to reduce shrinkage and lengthen durability.

Stylish gloves

Hestra Fredrik Rib-Cuff Leather Gloves

Lined with soft fleece with handsome cinched stitching, these touch-screen-friendly lamb-leather gloves are made by a fourth-generation Swedish manufacturer favored by pro skiers and lift operators.

The Fredrik Leather Gloves are made by Hestra, a family-owned Swedish manufacturer that outfits both the Swedish and Norwegian ski teams with high-performance gloves. Yet your guy doesn’t need to be a slalom racer to appreciate a pair. These gloves, which are renowned for their flexible construction, warmth, and durability, are great for anyone in a region that experiences cold snaps. The chestnut-hued, touch screen–compatible gloves are made with soft lamb leather and lined with fleece and Primaloft, a down-like synthetic insulation. And the black-wool knitted cuffs are not only good-looking—they also fit smoothly around wrists and neatly under jacket sleeves to keep chilly air out.

A sturdy gym bag

A person holding a black Herschel duffle bag.

Herschel Supply Co. Sutton Duffle Mid-Volume

This midsize bag is for anyone who needs a simple duffle. It’s terrific for toting things, whether your guy is commuting, heading to the gym, or going on a beach excursion.

The canister-shaped Herschel Supply Co. Sutton Duffle Mid-Volume is the perfect size for toting gym clothes to and fro on the daily. And with its 29-liter capacity, it could just as easily double as an overnight bag. Our pick for best duffle doesn’t have a lot of bells and whistles, but it does have long handles, a removable shoulder or cross-body strap, and a single slip pocket (perfect for stowing a phone). Like all Herschel Supply Co. bags, this one is backed by a generous limited lifetime warranty .

Rub him the right way

A Lush massage oil bar on a black plate amongst candles and small bottles of massage oil.

Lush Massage Oil Bars

Richly scented and creamy to the touch, these solid massage bars melt to an oil when warmed on the skin.

Lush’s vegan Massage Oil Bars are made from cocoa and shea butters that dissolve to oil upon contact. He can use these bars to moisturize himself, or you can suggest a DIY couples massage. Choose from dozens of scents (peppermint, citrus) shapes (pyramids, pineapples), and exfoliants (aduki beans, ridged honeycomb). For a sleeker presentation, add in a lidded storage tin .

A Crocs revolution

Crocs Dylan Clog

A more sophisticated version of the comfortable classic Crocs, the Dylan has a solid toe box and a leather-like finish.

To some, Crocs are divisive. To many of us at Wirecutter, they’re a staple , with a few asterisks (namely that they aren’t waterproof or dressy). Enter the Crocs Dylan Clog , which has a clean profile and notably unperforated toe box. Compared with the style-be-damned silhouette of their clunkier predecessors, these Crocs are positively sleek. Textured to look like leather, they’re molded from a single piece of the company’s proprietary resin, and they’re just as squishy, comfy, and washable as the OGs. Editor Hannah Morrill’s partner enjoys wearing his pair to putz around the garden on rainy days and then out to dinner the same evening.

A forever sweater

A person wearing a Connall Crew Neck Aran Sweater in the colorway, Natural.

Blarney Woollen Mills Connall Crew Neck Aran Sweater

This classic Irish fisherman’s sweater is handsome and made to last, as long as the owner follows the somewhat-persnickety care instructions.

The Blarney Connall Crew Neck Aran Wool Sweater is about as archetypal as you can get. Made in Ireland, this 100% Merino wool jumper protects the wearer from sea dampness (and it will make your guy look really darn handsome). Wool naturally repels dirt, so this soft, cozy sweater shouldn’t need a lot of washing, and it will never go out of style. But when it does need to be laundered, it must either be dry-cleaned or hand-washed and air-dried flat to maintain its shape.

Get higher, baby

Our pick for best portable vaporizer overall, the Pax Plus, shown in silver in front of a pink background.

Pax Plus Portable Vaporizer

A great choice for new and experienced cannabis users alike, this vaporizer heats quickly, has a long-lasting battery, tucks neatly into a purse or pocket, and is relatively simple to clean. We don’t love its mouthpiece or charger, though.

If your BF enjoys an occasional toke but doesn’t like the bother or harshness of a joint, the rechargeable Pax Plus Vaporizer is our favorite . Simply insert the bud (ground or whole) into the chamber, reattach the battery, press a button, and you’re good to puff. The Pax has different modes, such as Stealth, Efficiency, Flavor, and Boost to control the strength. And because it heats rather than burns the weed, it’s a mellower, less-cough-inducing smoke.

A good spin

A Victrola record player on a wooden stand.

Angels Horn H019

The Angels Horn H019 combines a well-built turntable with decent built-in speakers that sound clean, whether they’re playing a record or a track off the phone via Bluetooth.

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If your flame is an audio guy, he’s probably got his preferred system locked up. But for the music lover who is just starting out and might like to spin some of his favorite albums on vinyl, you can’t beat the Angels Horn H019 , our favorite record-player setup for beginners . It has two-way stereo speakers with separate woofers and tweeters, and our listeners have enthusiastically endorsed this model’s full sound over that of pricier ones.

A sleek backpack

Everlane The ReNew Transit Backpack

This budget-friendly, wear-anywhere bag’s streamlined design and welcome features—including a magnetic top closure and a plethora of pockets—make it look and feel pricier than it is.

The sleek, minimalist Everlane The ReNew Transit Backpack is one of our favorites from testing , thanks to its flat-to-the-body shape and clever storage options. The zip pouch on the top is ideal for the phone-keys-wallet trifecta, and the interior has two slip pockets. This bag has a recycled-polyester exterior (which resists water and stains), and it comes in a range of muted shades, from army green to ocean blue. It’s a great backpack for a commuter, a dad, or any guy who totes a lot of stuff.

In a pickle

Venux Portable Pickleball Net Set

This set includes everything a pickleball newbie needs to get up and running when there’s no court available.

Pickleball is still having a moment. And it’s such a moment that one of our editors noted the impossibility of court time and decided to start playing at home . If your boyfriend has a great driveway or lives near outdoor courts for other sports, he might appreciate the VENUX Portable Pickleball Net Set , which has everything you need to get a game going, including a regulation net, durable maple paddles, and plenty of balls. Pricier versions of all of these items do exist. But we can vouch that this is a better-than-good-quality set, and, most importantly, it’s a ton of fun to use.

Dapper dopp kit

A blue, green and yellow color block State Bags Bensen Dopp Kit.

State Bags Bensen Toiletry Kit

This bag opens flat, like a book. And it has organizational options (including a detachable pouch, which is handy for quick trips) that should work for light and heavy packers alike.

If your guy is still traveling with his contact solution, toothbrush, and deodorant loosely stashed in whatever bag he’s rustled up, it may be time to give him the State Bags Bensen Toiletry Kit , the most versatile toiletry bag we tested . For longer trips, the bag folds flat to stash larger items, and when he arrives, he can hang it smoothly from a towel bar, for easy access. Carry-on devotees will appreciate the removable translucent plastic pouch, which holds up to four 2.7-ounce travel bottles—ideal for security checks. Available in more than a dozen prints and patterns, the bag still looks cool, even if it does dip a toe into the waters of responsible adulthood.

A supple sweater

A man stands in a navy blue Naadam Essential $75 Cashmere sweater.

Naadam The Original Cashmere Sweater Men’s

With a classic crew neck, soft feel, and form-fitting yet comfortable fit, this well-priced sweater is the perfect entry point into the world of cashmere. Plus, it’s available in a wide variety of colors and sizes.

For a sweater you’ll love to see your sweetheart wearing (and one you’ll love to borrow), we recommend Naadam’s The Original Cashmere Sweater . During our testing , it stood out for its luxurious, smooth-yet-supple feel, as well as for its very reasonable price. This sweater has just enough room in the body and arms to be comfortable, but it’s form-fitting enough to not look boxy. There are 14 colors and a wide range of sizes to choose from, so you’re likely to find just the right sweater for your loved one.

Japanese treats

The contents of the Bokksu Snack Box, each in illustrated wrappers, shown in and around the bright orange box they came in.

Bokksu Seasons of Japan Snack Box

Curated by the online Japanese market Bokksu, this snack box is chock-full of tangy, crunchy, and sweet shelf-stable delights. Although there’s an option to subscribe, we specifically recommend the one-month option, which gets you the Seasons of Japan box.

If your sweetheart appreciates Japanese culture or food, consider giving him the Bokksu Seasons of Japan Snack Box . If you go for a subscription, each month’s box features a generous and ever-changing assortment of teas, traditional Japanese sweets, and salty treats, along with a multi-page culture guide explaining each one. One of our favorite gift-basket picks , Bokksu sources all of its treats from small family businesses. Many of the snacks, like Edamame Senbei and Funwari Meijin Mochi Puffs, wowed our testers. The flavors of the crackers, puffs, and candies inside were alternately zingy, tart, sweet, and salty.

A minimalist wallet

Leatherology Thin Bifold Wallet

This beautifully simple leather bifold is a straightforward and (more importantly) functional wallet that’s not as expensive as it looks and feels.

Everyone needs a dependable, sturdy, and stylish wallet—even those who think stuffing stray cards and rumpled bills into their back pockets is a “vibe.” We rounded up many great picks in our guide to slim wallets . But for a classic, inoffensive look that matches most tastes, consider the Leatherology Thin Bifold Wallet . Cards slide smoothly into and out of the pliable leather, and for another $10, you can monogram the wallet with your love’s initials.

Fancy beer glasses

Rastal Teku Stemmed Beer Glass

Beloved by enthusiasts, this stemmed beer glass has an angular bowl and a delicately flared lip, to improve the drinking experience. And this glass is voluminous enough to hold an entire 12-ounce can or bottle of beer.

For the brewski-loving boyfriend, give a glass that will elevate each sip. The Rastal Teku Stemmed Beer Glass is a favorite among our staffers , thanks to its angular bowl and delicately flared lip (both of which enhance the subtle notes of any IPA or stout). For those who know and care about these sorts of things, the sloped shape also helps form an aroma-releasing foamy head. The glass is voluminous enough to hold an entire 12-ounce can or bottle of beer (which we’re sure your loved one can pour without a hint of extra fizz).

Fishwife Fly By Jing Smoked Salmon with Sichuan Chili Crisp

This tinned fish is a brilliant marriage between two of our favorite food makers. The resulting salmon is firm, toothsome, smoky, spicy, and wholly delicious right out of the can.

If your beloved is a food snob, then he’s well aware that tinned fish is so hot right now. Wow him with your gustatory expertise by presenting a three-pack of the spicy smoked salmon from Fish Wife, a woman-owned, traceable-seafood enterprise that we’re wild about. This particular batch is crafted with Fly By Jing ’s trademark Sichuan Chili Crisp; the hunks of salmon inside each tin are smoky and firm, excellent over crackers or atop a bed of rice. (We’ve also gobbled up a can entirely on its own.) The seafood snack also checks important boxes: The fair-trade, Arctic-raised salmon is packed by hand at a family owned cannery in Washington.

Flower party

Dazi Floral Neck Ties

This soft floral cotton tie comes in varying widths and dozens of botanical prints.

For anyone who’s in the market for a tie (and if he’s not, let’s change that), non-fusty floral versions aren’t exactly easy to come by. Dazi offers the widest range of botanical ties we’ve found, in dozens of colors and prints that are dainty, modern, and bold. Each tie can be purchased skinny (2.5 inches) or wide (3 inches), depending on his preference; there’s also a bountiful selection of bow ties . Most of the neckwear offerings are made of casual cotton, though there are a few excellent silk numbers , too. The company caters to a wedding demographic, but we think a floral tie is also just right for everyday natty dressing.

Mejuri Curb Chain Necklace

This chunky curb chain comes in three lengths and titanium, black titanium, or sterling silver.

If your boyfriend is wading into the waters of accessorizing, give him a loving push to the deep end with Mejuri’s Curb Chain Necklace . Available in sterling silver, titanium, and black titanium, the piece is classically simple with a curb chain design (meaning the links have been flattened and twisted into an interlocking formation). The result is a subtle statement piece that lies flat over or under a T-shirt. The 22-inch chain is also that perfect length, dipping below a collar without dangling too low.

Caffeine conveyance

Atlas Coffee Club

Through monthly or bimonthly subscriptions, this coffee-delivery service offers beans from around the world, and it works with regional farms to fine-tune the brews.

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You can find plenty of coffee subscriptions out there, but for the java lover with a curious palate, you can’t beat a subscription to Atlas Coffee Club . Each month’s delivery comes from a different country, including less-expected sources such as India, Nicaragua, and Peru. Because Atlas works directly with local farmers, it can also experiment with how the beans are produced. One recent project, lauded by editor Ben Keough, involved using anaerobic fermentation to draw out more-unusual flavors from a rare Indian coffee. Each monthly (or twice monthly, your choice) 12-ounce delivery includes a postcard with fun facts about that country’s coffee industry, and your gift recipient can choose their roast and grind preferences.

Faces for their feet

Three pairs of DivvyUp socks in different colors with different photos printed on them, displayed on a wooden surface.

DivvyUp Custom Face Socks

Have a loved one’s mug digitally printed on these polyester, spandex, and nylon socks. And remember to size up: Snug socks can lead to distorted faces.

A person can never have too many whimsical socks featuring the face of someone they love (or love to step on). With DivvyUp , the process is easy: Upload an image of your favorite visage, select the background color or print, and the company handles the rest. Depending on the recipient, it could be fun to feature your faces or to show a beloved pet. The socks are made from a durable polyester-nylon-spandex blend. So even though they’re not the softest ones we’ve ever worn, they do hold up well. And the strangely photorealistic faces don’t pull or snag.

South African jerky

A pile of sliced beef jerky from Biltong Depot Original, a great gift for boyfriends.

Biltong Depot Original Sliced Biltong

Less processed than some jerky, this one offers a sturdy bite and rich flavor.

Every culture has its meat-curing methods. Perhaps less widely known is South African biltong , a simple and delicious beef jerky: In this preparation, thick-cut beef steaks are cured with salt and spices, such as pepper, coriander, and cloves, and then air-dried for about 10 days. And no one does it better, at least stateside, than Biltong Depot. The resulting meaty treat has a satisfying heft, and it’s a healthful alternative for the Slim Jim lover in your life. Biltong Depot offers biltong precut or in whole steaks, with or without the fat trimmed away. We prefer the sliced original flavor without fat, but your meat-loving man may disagree.

A classic white tee

A person wearing a white J.Crew Broken-In Short-Sleeve T-Shirtstands, one of our favorite gifts.

J.Crew Broken-In White T-shirt

This shirt is well made, comes in three different cuts—classic, slim, and tall—and feels airy and comfortable. But its thin fabric, while still opaque, may be too lightweight for some tastes.

The right white T-shirt is a sartorial Swiss army knife—dress it up with a blazer or dress it down with joggers and sneakers. Wirecutter’s style team researched and tested dozens of white T-shirts , and the J.Crew Broken-In Short-Sleeve was a favorite. It’s well constructed, light, and comfortable, falling smartly on the shoulders with no bunching and minimal shrinkage. If the price seems like a lot to spend on a white tee, fair enough, but your loved one will appreciate the tight, sturdy weave and the reassuring opacity. The shirt also comes in long-sleeve, V-neck, and pocket versions, so you can pick based on your dude’s preference.

A perfect-fit apron

Hedley & Bennett Crossback Apron

A staff favorite, this apron is comfortable, soft (yet sturdy), gender-neutral, and adjustable (to fit a wide range of sizes).

If your boyfriend is a budding cook (or just a foodie who likes to dress the part), a sturdy and well-made apron can save him from ruining his clothes while he’s working in the kitchen. Or it could just keep him looking cute while he’s noshing on takeout. Of the 24 aprons we tested , none performed better than the Hedley & Bennett Crossback Apron —it’s soft yet durable, unisex, and adjusts to fit a wide range of sizes. The canvas is moisture-resistant, so a bubble of Bolognese can easily be wiped off, and a splatter of chili oil won’t burn. (And it’s a lot more fun to kiss the cook without either of those messes in the way.)

Hang a while

ENO SingleNest Hammock

Available in 26 colors, this breathable, quick-drying nylon hammock is small enough to take anywhere yet durable enough to last for years.

For the person you most love to hang out with, why not hang out together quite literally—in a tree? The breathable, durable ENO SingleNest Hammock weighs just a pound and folds out to a reassuring cocoon (measuring 9 feet 4 inches long by 4 feet 7 inches wide). Our favorite hammock during testing, it accommodates up to 400 pounds and comes in seven fun colors, so it’s perfect for outdoorsmen and backyard lovers alike. Best of all, the SingleNest sets up in a flash—even if your sweetheart prefers to eschew directions.

Great cinema on demand

The Criterion Channel

True film aficionados will appreciate this streaming site’s ever-changing assembly of the world’s top docs, foreign films, arthouse faves, and other hard-to-stream flicks.

Your beloved cinephile will be thrilled to receive a subscription to The Criterion Channel , which streams hundreds of carefully curated classic and contemporary titles from around the globe. Rather than Netflix and chill, you two can witness the complexities of a lifelong marriage in Andrew Haigh’s 45 Years or get creeped out watching the thriller The American Friend . Another option: Take the night off and let your loved one revel solo in the impressive selection of classic samurai flicks, such as Seven Samurai and Throne of Blood. The Criterion Channel’s expert commentary is unparalleled, as are the categories, including movies directed by women and films focused on Black characters.

A handsome candle

Apotheke Charcoal Candle

This candle offers a sophisticated scent, an upscale aesthetic, and a burn time of 39 hours.

A tastefully scented candle can enhance a room’s ambiance with a single flicker. And it’s perfect for the boyfriend who takes pride in his space—or the one who could use some pointers. If your loved one’s power routinely gets knocked out, a candle also serves a functional purpose. During our panel testing, the Apotheke Charcoal Candle stood out in our “warm and woodsy” category, smelling like charred sandalwood and cedar after a heavy rain. The black wax matches handsomely with a matte-black vessel, which conveniently hides soot streaks and fingerprints. And in our tests, it burned for 39 hours, one of the longest times we saw from candles of its size.

A cozy robe

The Company Store Company Cotton Men’s Robe

This soft, luxurious cotton robe is comfy for lounging, easy to move around in, and absorbent enough to dry you off after a shower. But the thick terry is a tad too warm for year-round wear.

If your beloved lives to lounge, what better gift than a luxurious robe to facilitate a lifetime of lazy mornings? We’ve tested dozens of robes , and one of our favorites is The Company Store Company Cotton Men’s Robe . It’s indulgently soft, is available in a wide range of men’s sizes (from S to 2X), and comes in four solid-color options. With its relaxed shawl collar, generous patch pockets, and tie belt, this robe looks and feels like a fancy hotel robe. All the better for accepting DoorDash.

Warm slippers

L.L.Bean Men’s Wicked Good Moccasins

These super-soft, warm, and durable moccasins are fluffier and more breathable than other sheepskin shearling slippers. Although they’re on the expensive side, we think they’re worth the investment.

At Wirecutter, we’ve been wearing and recommending L.L.Bean’s Wicked Good Moccasins for many years, and though we constantly search for new slippers , none of them have been able to dethrone the original. The suede shearling is extremely warm and comfy, and the impeccable construction makes these slippers extra-durable. (And if, against all odds, the wearer does encounter any issues, L.L.Bean backs these slippers with a one-year guarantee.) Thanks to this pair’s rubber bottoms, your loved one can run into the driveway to grab the paper without ruining his slippers. There are six color options, so you’re sure to find a pair that complements your sweetheart’s favorite sweatpants.

Ice cream dream

Cuisinart ICE-21

This frozen-bowl-style ice cream maker churns out dense, creamy ice cream quickly (and at a fraction of the price of many competitors).

If your boyfriend is a fan of frozen treats, and he also enjoys experimenting in the kitchen, he’ll love having his very own ice cream maker. In our testing , the Cuisinart ICE-21 made stand-out ice cream, and the process was simple and straightforward. Just attach the frozen insert into the base, pour in the ingredients, and press the “on” button. In about 20 minutes, a cold and delicious treat will be ready for sampling. Yes, the frozen insert requires a little extra planning—as in, remembering to freeze the canister ahead of time. But you’re dating someone capable of that, right?

We love finding gifts that are unusual, thoughtful, and well vetted. See even more gift ideas we recommend .

This article was edited by Hannah Morrill and Jennifer Hunter. Dorie Chevlen contributed reporting.

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Love has no limits. It can travel as far as you let it go. That’s what long-distance relationships are all about. Long-distance relationships demand love, understanding and creativity in abundance. With the spread of the pandemic, the not-so-long distance relationships have also become moderately long distance. Couples are unable to meet and spend quality time like before. It’s Boyfriend’s Day today and we know you cannot hop out of your home to surprise the love of your life. But your efforts can make this day special. Let’s read how.

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Say YES to Virtual Date Night!

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It’s good to express love in a mushy way, especially, when your boyfriend lives far away. Send some heartwarming personalised gifts to your boyfriend that reminds him of you. Some of the best picks are Personalised Explosion Box with playful pictures and 100 Reasons I Love You Box with cute cards.

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Movie nights with your boyfriend should not seem like relics of the past. Binge-watch shows and movies together using Netflix Party. Discuss the plot and crazy-fight over things like you used to before. You can send over some popcorn for a special touch.

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A boyfriend ’s reaction to a suprise visit from his long-distance girlfriend has gone viral with many viewers labeling it a “red flag ”.

In a recent video shared to TikTok, Lauryn, @laurynmapusua , could be seen walking into an apartment before seeing her partner, as Sam Smith’s Like I Can played in the background.

“I travelled from America to Sweden to surprise my long-distance boyfriend,” she wrote in the text over the video.

When her boyfriend saw her, he was lying on the couch and had a smile on his face. Lauryn leaned on top of him and started to playfully touch his arm.

As Lauryn got up, they both smiled and laughed at each other. She then pulled her boyfriend’s arm, in what appeared to be an attempt to get him to stand up.

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She laid back down on him and gave him a hug, as he continued looking at her and smiled. The camera zoomed in on the boyfriend’s face.

Lauryn emphasised how her partner wasn’t expecting her arrival, as the caption reads: “Surprising him early.”

As of 23 May, the clip has more than 261,500 views, with TikTok users in the comments claiming that the boyfriend didn’t seem too excited to see Lauryn.

“Sis his energy did not pass the vibe check,” one wrote.

“Imagine getting on a plane and [travelling] to another continent for him and he doesn’t even move from his couch,” another said.

A third user added: “At that point you should’ve given him a high five, made yourself something to eat and went right back home.”

Other viewers said that they hoped their partner’s would have reacted differently if they came to see them, one of which said: “Man if my girl crossed the ocean for me ima be jumping like I won a car. His reaction was giving me, ‘Why didn’t you tell me you was coming.’”

Multiple TikTok users compared Lauryn’s boyfriend to Robert McCoy, also known as “ couch guy ,” who went viral on TikTok last September for his reaction to his girlfriend surprising him. In his girlfriend’s video, McCoy was sitting on the couch next to four women and took a moment to react to his partner walking into the room.

“Well TikTok, season 2 of couch boy has started,” one claimed. “Where is the team that takes apart the room to figure out what’s going on?”

“From the same creator or ‘couch guy,’ this summer: soffa guy, swedish edition,” another viewer jokingly wrote.

The Independent has contacted Lauryn for comment.

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