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The Curly Girl Method for Wavy and Curly Hair Beginners

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Wondering what the curly girl method is or how to follow it to bring back your natural curls? You’ve probably heard about the curly girl method somewhere online and seen the amazing curly hair transformations some have experienced.

The curly girl method is a set of rules to follow, such as process, ingredients, and techniques, that will enhance your curls over time and improve the health of your hair. You ditch damaging products and habits like sulfates and brushes, for a healthy hair care regimen that includes lots of moisture and specific styling techniques.

I used to have mostly wavy hair, and over time following the curly girl method, it has become curlier so that it’s mostly curly now with some wavy parts. You can see the change in my hair in the photo below, and more of my curly girl method before and after in this post .

In this post, I explain the basics of the curly hair method for wavy and curly hair and give you a step-by-step guide to follow so you can start the curly girl method.

What is the Curly Girl Method?

The curly girl method all started with Lorraine Massey’s The Curly Girl Handbook . Definitely read the book before starting, or at the same time as starting at least. It gives great insight and will help you troubleshoot along the way.

The goal is to have healthy curls by treating them the right way. You avoid certain things that are considered damaging to curls and waves. And you embrace ingredients and techniques that make your curls healthier and more manageable.

Not only is this method a special way to care for wavy and curly hair to bring out its natural curl with less frizz, but it’s also a lifestyle and mindset change.

It’s a journey and takes lots of patience and perseverance to stick with it through the bad wash days and products that flop.

To follow the curly girl method, there are certain things you need to avoid and certain things you need to do. Let’s go over them in more detail.

Dos and Don’ts

Avoid the following:.

• non-water soluble silicones
• drying alcohols
• heat styling
• regular towels

What you can do:

• use sulfate free shampoo or cowash
• use silicone and alcohol free conditioners and styling products
• use emollients like oils and butters
• use moisturizing ingredients like aloe and flax seed
• use humectants like glycerin and honey
• finger detangle or use wide-tooth comb
• style on wet hair
• scrunch in styling products to enhance curl pattern
• plop and/or diffuse to dry
• protect your curls at night
• deep condition often
• get a curly haircut for better shape, manageability, and less frizz

You can use CurlsBot to look for curly girl method approved products. I also have a post affordable and clean curly girl method approved products and another on my favorite curly girl approved products for fine curly hair .

Some people place great importance on curl types to choose products. I honestly think porosity and density are more important, but I’ll go over all the curl types here.

Type 2 Wavy Hair

• 2A: has a slight wave, usually fine and thin, tousled look
• 2B: straight at the roots with an s shape, frizz at the crown
• 2C: more defined waves that start at the roots, more frizz

Type 3 Curls

• 3A: big, loose curls and spirals, well defined s shape, the circumference of sidewalk chalk
• 3B: tighter curls, the circumference of a sharpie, has more volume
• 3C: tightly packed corkscrews, the circumference of a straw

Type 4 Coils

• 4A: dense and springy coils, wiry or fine
• 4B: more z like shape than curls or coils, strands range from fine to coarse
• 4C: less definition and more shrinkage than 4B, very delicate

So what’s my curl type ? I have 2b, 2c, and 3a waves and curls. I used to be all 2b but it got curlier over time.

That is not always the case but it does often change throughout life, which is one reason I think curl type is not as important as people make it out to be.

Not sure what your curl type is? It doesn’t matter! Figure out your texture, porosity, and density for best results.

Hair Porosity

More important than curl type is porosity.

You should be choosing your products depending on how your hair behaves as this will tell you what it needs.

Porosity has to do with how your hair absorbs and retains moisture. If it easily absorbs water, it’s likely high porosity. If it takes long to absorb water, it’s likely low porosity.

I have a full guide on hair porosity which I recommend you read and find out what yours is.

Hair Density

Another thing to consider is density, or how much hair you have.

If you have low-density hair as I do, you do not want to weigh your hair down. High density will have the opposite problem.

My scalp shows very easily so I sacrifice definition on top and avoid any product, even conditioner near my scalp. I want it to be fluffier there to hide my scalp.

Along with my hair being high porosity, it’s very important for me to choose very lightweight products so I can have volume and definition.

Curly Hair Type Quiz

Need help figuring out what your hair type is? Take the quiz below.

How to follow the Curly Girl Method

There are 5 basic curly girl method steps, and they’re pretty easy to follow once you understand their purpose.

To get started, you’ll first need to:

• Determine your hair stats
• Take the curly hair type quiz
• or grab the Curly Product Handbook
• Choose your products
• How to choose products when starting the curly girl method
• Curly Girl Approved Drugstore Products
• 10 Best Curly Girl Approved Shampoos
• 10 Best Curly Girl Approved Conditioners
• 10 Best Curly Girl Approved Gels

Once you have these 2 figured out, you’re ready to start your new curly girl method routine. Below are the basic steps to a curly girl routine.

Depending on what your hair and scalp need, you can wash with a co-wash, low-poo, or clarifying shampoo that is free of sulfates and non-water soluble silicones.

When you first start, you will need to do what is called a final wash. This is the last wash you will do with sulfates to remove all the buildup and silicones in the hair to start fresh.

Read more: 10 Best Curly Girl Method Approved Shampoos | Drugstore Curly Girl Approved Products | How To Clarify Curly Hair

2. Condition

Again, depending on how much moisture your hair needs is the type of conditioner you will use. If your hair is really dry you’ll need a thicker, heavier conditioner than others.

There is also leave-in conditioner , which most will need. Leave-in provides the lasting moisture in waves and curls to prevent frizzing and encourage the curl.

Deep conditioning is very important as well. You’ll need to deep condition on a regular basis, and more often if your hair is damaged from coloring and heat styling.

Read more: 10 Best Curly Girl Method Approved Conditioners | How To Squish To Condish For Your Best Curls | Drugstore Curly Girl Approved Products

This is the trickiest part. There are so many styling methods and products.

• Apply styling products to wet hair before drying. There are different ways to apply like scrunching it in, raking it in, smoothing it over, etc. Try different methods.
• You can use curl creams, custards, mousse , and/or gel. Make sure to not touch your hair at all while it is drying. You want it to dry hard and crunchy, then you can scrunch out the crunchy hard cast to get soft curls. Read affordable and clean curly girl method approved products and curly girl approved products for thin curly hair to see my top picks for curly girl approved products.

Read more: Curly Hair Routine | Volumizing Routine For Thin Curly Hair | 50+ Affordable Curly Girl Products

• Use a cotton t-shirt, hair towel , or flour sack towel to plop dry your hair.
• If you need to dry faster, use a diffuser on low heat. I really like the Xtava Black Orchid diffuser .

Read more: How To Dry Curly Hair | How To Plop Curls For More Definition

5. Maintain

• Try out a silk pillowcase or hair buff to help your style last longer and prevent tangles and frizz.
• Refresh the next day with a little water and product to reactivate your style.
• Keep a schedule to ensure a balanced routine. Clarify and deep condition regularly!

Read more: How To Sleep With Curly Hair | How To Refresh Curls The Next Day | How To Repair Damaged Curly Hair | Clarifying Curly Hair Guide

If you want help with embracing your naturally wavy or curly hair, you can join my FREE email course and download my FREE pdf guide,  THE QUICK START GUIDE TO MASTERING YOUR CURLS ,  full of everything you need to know to get started and bring out your beautiful waves and curls.

I recommend you find a blogger with similar hair to yours, not the hair you want but the hair you actually have, and try out their methods and products to see what works for your hair. It will take lots of experimenting so be patient.

The Curly Girl Method for Wavy Hair

When applying the CG Method for wavy hair you just need to make a few tweaks.

• You will need to use a low-poo and clarifying shampoo more often than curly types. Some wavies don’t ever co-wash (myself included).
• Deep condition less often.
• Use more water during the styling process to get good clumps.
• Use lighter products and sometimes even less product. Check out my post on products for fine curly and wavy hair .
• Use a diffuser to help with volume and for tighter curl pattern.
• Understand that your hair may never be curly and might stay wavy and learn to embrace how beautiful your waves are.

You can follow some amazing wavy haired ladies who follow the curly girl method like Real Life + Curly Girl , GoodGravyItsWavy , and TheJoyfulWavy for more tips and tricks.

Dealing with the Transition phase

Transition is the time it takes for your hair to adapt to the new routine and methods and transform into healthier, easy to manage curls.

This can take anywhere from a few weeks to a year, as it depends on the health of your hair and how well you stick to the plan.

Here are a few concerns you may experience during transition:

• Oily hair – Your scalp may be oilier at first if you were used to using harsher shampoos. It should take a few weeks for the sebum on your scalp to balance. Make sure you spend enough time massaging the cleanser in your scalp when you wash. Also, don’t apply conditioer to your scalp to help with this.
• Frizz – Frizz is a part of having textured hair – it will never fully go away. But frizz tends to be more prominent during the transition phase for some as they struggle to figure out the right methods and products. Remember to style on wet hair, spend time on the conditionig step, and use a gel for minimal frizz. Also read: Tips For Frizz
• Limp hair – Your hair probably won’t hold its style for very long and fall flat quickly for the first few months. This is normal as your hair is still adapting. Make sure you arent’ overdoing it with the conditioners (hair shouldn’t feel mushy) and used hard hold stylers. Also read: Fixes For Limp Curls
• Inconsistent results – It’s normal to have very unpredictable curls int he bginning. It can be frusdtrating to do the same routin with the same products but have different results, but don’t despair. This gets better with time.

Curly Girl Method Tips

I want to offer some advice:

Keep it simple and focus on what matters. Don’t let yourself be overwhelmed.      Confucius

I see women get so overwhelmed and frustrated with this method. The whole point of going to your natural hair is simplicity . Back to basics. No more being a slave to the flat iron.

This process takes a long time. You have likely been mistreating your hair for many years so you have to be realistic about how long it will take to bring back your waves and curls.

Yes, in the beginning, you will need to experiment with products and methods, and that will take time. But you don’t need to spend hours on your hair for this to work. You don’t need to apply 8 different products for this to work.

You don’t need to try everything you see others doing!

Stick to the basics. Get a good cleanser, conditioner, and styler and go from there. If you still have a lot of frizz, then troubleshoot with more or less product, different ingredients, and different styling techniques. I have a post all about frizz which can help as well.

The most crucial part of success with this method is to master the application process, not the actual products. Once you figure out how to best apply the products to your hair, you can have success with almost any product line.

But know that frizz is a part of having curly hair . It will never completely go away. So embrace what you have and work with it.

Whether it’s wavy or curly, voluminous, or flat, just enhance it. You can’t change what you have and force it to be something else.

Overall, don’t let others overwhelm you!

FAQs About The Curly Girl Method

How long does it take for the curly girl method to work.

Results really vary for everyone and depend on so many variables like how damaged your hair is and how long you’ve been working against your natural texture. Most people will see some progress within a few weeks or months. Give yourself about three months on the curly girl method to see how it works for. Don’t forget to track your journey so you can really see the progress.

Does the curly girl method work for everyone?

No, it doesn’t. The curly girl method is a way to bring back the health of your hair so that your natural curl is enhanced. Therefore, it will work on any textured hair, wavy or curly. But that doesn’t mean it will take your 2A waves to 3A curls. Everyone’s curl pattern is different and your hair may always be 2A, but with the curly girl method, it will be healthier, more defined, and easier to manage.

Can you brush your hair with curly girl method?

Technically no, you can’t brush your hair. But many people following the curly girl method do brush with a detangling brush like the Denman or Wet Brush . This is only done during the conditioning and styling steps, when your hair is wet and full of products that make detangling easier and cause less damage to your hair.

How do you sleep with curly hair?

Many with curly hair will put their hair up into a curly girl pineapple style and use a silk pillowcase or hair buff to prevent tangles and frizz. Check out this post all about sleeping with curly hair.

How often do you wash your hair with curly girl method?

According to the Curly Girl Handbook , Massey says you should only wash your hair about once a week. But many will wash more often, and as long as you’re using curly girl approved cleansers which are very mild, you can wash as often as you need to.

Can you use shampoo with the curly girl method?

Yes, you can. Although the original Curly Girl Handbook talks about cowashing, this was back when sulfate free shampoo wasn’t easy to find. Now you can find many sulfate free shampoos, which are considered low poo and are curly girl approved.

Please do me a favor and share this post to social media, as it helps me grow my audience and spread the word about the curly girl movement! And remember to subscribe to my YouTube Channel and Instagram for more curly hair tips and product recommendations. Thanks!

Learn More About The Curly Girl Method:

• How To Choose Products When Starting The Curly Girl Method
• How To Sleep With Curly Hair
• How To Dry Curly Hair
• 50+ Affordable Curly Girl Approved Products
• 5 Things Curly Girl Method Beginners Should Know
• How To Diagnose and Fix Frizzy Curly Hair
• Curly Girl Method Routine
• Curly Girl Method Glossary
• How To Layer Products on Curly Hair

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Delilah Orpi is the founder of The Holistic Enchilada, a blog about curly hair and conscious beauty. She followed the Curly Girl Method to bring back her curls and is passionate about using more ethical products. Delilah is a trained Curly Hair Consultant and has been featured in Curl magazine, GLAMOUR, and Yahoo. She writes to create awareness about the clean beauty movement and simple curly hair care.

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14 comments.

Hi Delilah!

Thanks so much for creating great content on the CGM! I am thinking about starting the method myself, but I’m really particular about ingredients in products… even some of the ‘clean’ ones you’ve listed I won’t use based on their higher reading on the Environmental Working Group’s (www.ewg.org) analysis. That said, are you familiar with Carina Organics? I’m currently using their shampoo, conditioner, hair gel, and hair spray. I’d love to know your thoughts on those products and if they are CGM approved. From what I can tell, they are but I may need to add in a product with protein in it. I also use a homemade hair curling cream from a local, MN-based company (www.modernroots.org), which I believe contains silk aminos and could get me the protein I may need. Thanks so much for your help, I really appreciate it!

Hi Danielle! Thanks 🙂 I have heard of this brand but haven’t tried them yet. I just had a quick look and it looks like they are CGM approved. That curl cream does have protein so you should be good with that.

You’re awesome, thanks so much for your reply and insight! I’m sure I’ll be back here often with more questions. 🙂 I know you have so many wonderful resources, including your guides, but would you also recommend reading the CGM book by the founder? Thanks again!

Hi Danielle! I always think it’s a good idea to get information straight from the source but I don’t think it’s necessary if you have consumed most of my content. I recommend you check it out from the library or snag it when it’s free on Kindle.

Thanks so much, I’ll do that! Thank you again for all of your content and your speedy replies — it’s SO appreciated! 🙂

Day 3 of CGM today… lots of frizz, but I also worked out yesterday , and I sweat easily. Hoping to only wash 2-3 days per week. Any really clean brands you’d recommend starting out with? I’m staring to run low on what I currently have used (that I told you about above) I was looking at Inahsi, RAW Curls, The Innate Life, and Innersense per your recommendations and them being pretty dang clean. I am in need of a deep conditioner, leave-in, and then a styling cream, custard, and / or gel.

I’m currently using Carina Organics Citrus Shampoo and Conditioner… wondering if citrus essential oils could be too drying to my hair, contributing to frizz. Any experience with that? I still have A LOT to go through, but will switch it up if you think that’s a no-go.

Thanks again!

Hi Danielle. Have you checked if glycerin is in the tops 5 ingredients of your styling products? That can cause frizz in certain conditions. If they have glycerin I would try a product without it in the top 5 ingredients and see if it makes a difference. I don’t think the essential oils would be causing frizz. As far as new products, any of those would be great. I LOVE MopTop and it seems to be really popular. It does have glycerin as the second ingredient of their custard but my hair loves glycerin. Raw Curls and Innersense have a bit of a learning curve to them but they are great.

I have curly hair (Caucasian 2C/3A), not that thick because it’s layered short. I would like to start the cgm because my hair is way less curly than it used to be. I currently wash my hair everyday with shampoo and conditioner. How often should I be cleansing my hair with shampoo and how often should I be washing it with conditioner? I read somewhere else that I should shampoo once every 10 days and I should condition one a week. Do I just wash with water on the other days or do I avoid getting my hair wet all together on non-wash days? Also, for the t-shirt plopping. Do I just use the t-shirt to scrunch it dry and that’s it or do I wrap my hair up in the t-shirt too?

Hi Emily. People seem to have all these rules about how often to wash but if you’re using gentle products it doesn’t matter if you wash every day or once every week. I would not worry about this at all. Wash with a low poo shampoo as often as you’d like. If you want to can alternate with a cowash on some wash days instead of low poo. Cowash is much more moisturizing and a lot less cleansing. To plop you can do either of the methods you mentioned. I prefer to just scrunch but my hair dries quickly.

Hello! I feel like I have 2A hair. I didn’t see a lot of content on this hair type specifically and which products would be best. I have wavy hair that’s also fine and thin and curls up well with a diffuser, but I’ve been wearing it straight for so long and coloring it that it’s very damaged and the ends are frizzy. I also have a shoulder length bob hairstyle so I feel like when I wear it curly the ends just look all frizzed up from the damage. Any tips on the type of products I should use for 2A hair and how to combat damaged ends while transitioning to wearing it curly? Thanks!

Hi Courntey. Thanks for reading. The products you use don’t depend on your curl pattern but the characteristics of your hair, like if it’s dry, damaged, high density, porosity, etc. Have a look at this post to help you with product choice: https://holisticenchilada.com/how-to-start-curly-girl-method/ For your ends you should use a light leave in conditioner that has some protein. I like the Briogeo Curl Charisma for this.

I am returning to the Curly Girl Method after nine years of wearing my wavy hair in a pixie cut; Covid prompted me to grow my hair and since I am now about 40% gray, I am excited to see how it will look. I first read Lorraine Massey’s book in 2003, so you can imagine how much has changed and how overwhelmed I am coming back to it! This is a great post, but before I run off to check out all the links, I wanted to suggest that you define some of the jargon here so it can truly be a beginner’s guide. For example, co-wash, buff and plop. Co-wash is in Massey’s original book but “buff” and “plop” are new to us old timers, and of course to true newbies as well.

Thanks for the great content; looking forward to following!

Thanks for the feedback Barb. I do have a post that’s essentially a glossary but maybe I need to explain these words in this post as well.

What curly girl method curl definer is best for course wavy hair that will DECREASE volume? My hair looks so good wet but as it dries it poofs like Crazy!!! I live in humid climate. It gets frizzy and stringy on the bottem as soon as I touch it. Thank you in advance! Madison

To decrease volume you want to use thick and moisturizing products, then layer a gel over it.

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When talking about hair that isn't straight, people and brands tend to lump curly hair into its own big category, assuming that all coils, kinks, curls, and waves can have a one-size-fits-all approach. But anyone with a curl type knows this is far from true—it's a lot of work to identify your curls and develop a routine that actually works .

So, how do you identify your curl type? Hairstylist Andre Walker started a curl typing system, which is still used today and provides a way to label hair types based on texture. It utilizes numbers 1 to 4, with one being straight hair and four being kinky texture, along with subcategories from A to C. A has the widest diameter or pattern size, and C has the smallest. For example, 1A is flat as a pin and define by a very thin texture that can only hold a curl by using styling tools like a curling iron .

It's a lot to think about and remember when you're shopping for products , looking for new ingredients, and trying to style them, so we asked professional hairstylists to break down the different types of curls, so you can easily ID your curls, shop better, and style smarter .

Curl Pattern Types

Curly hair is a term used generically to describe textured hair—from loose waves to Z-shaped coils. But to truly determine your curl type, you have to start with your scalp and look at how the hair follicles grow. "Curly hair follicles are oval-shaped or asymmetrical, so they create an elliptical shape responsible for the curl. In straight hair, all the cells in the follicle act together, so the hair grows evenly from the straight follicle in a round shape," says Gaia Tonanzi, senior brand manager at Curlsmith .

The best time to examine your follicles is when the hair is wet since water weighs down the hair, altering how it looks compared to dry strands. Tonanzi notes that it's important to remember that most people don't fall into a single curl category and actually have multiple patterns on their hair. "The hair on our head grows differently depending on where it is—hair on the back of the neck will have a looser pattern compared to the hair on the front and sides," she says.

Now that we've reviewed the curly hair basics, it's time to dive into specifics. Reference the curl type chart below, then keep reading for a detailed description of each curl type and what type of products to look for.

Type 2 hair ranges from fine to coarse, and includes anything from tousled texture to subtle curls. The curls hold their shape but can still easily deflate or be straightened .

2A hair is fine, has a tousled texture, is easy to smooth out using a hair straightener , and lacks volume at the root while slightly curling toward the ends. People with this hair type should use "a light mousse or serums to help plump and give volume to this hair type, instead of creams or oils, which weigh hair down," says Andrew DiMeo, a hairstylist at Nunzio Saviano Salon. This type of hair can also benefit from using products containing rice water to help thicken hair and prevent breakage.

2B hair has a flatter crown with more defined S-shape waves starting from the midlength and thicker strands than 2A. According to DiMeo, try a "sea salt texture spray for enhancing the natural texture."

2C hair has a texture that is getting thick, it's more likely to experience frizzing, and the S-bend starts right from the root and is very well-defined. It's important to keep this hair moisturized, so DiMeo recommends using a sulfate-free shampoo, which helps not strip natural oils and moisture away. A great drugstore option is L’Oreal Paris EverPure Sulfate-Free Shampoo. "This hair can finish with styling creams layered over mousse to enhance the natural wave pattern, as well as moisturize," he explains.

Type 3 hair ranges from loopy S-pattern curls to tight ringlets.

3A hair tends to have large loose curls. However, the hair is fragile, so make sure to limit touching your hair, which will disturb the curls and create frizz. "When the hair is damp, apply a curl cream with defrizzing and moisture properties to help maintain moisture and reduce frizz when diffusing or air drying," DiMeo says. A top drugstore conditioner to try for curly hair is Not Your Mother’s Tahitian Gardenia Flower and Mango Butter Conditioner.

3B hair types have springy, coarse ringlets that can be more prone to dryness . "Products containing humectants work well with this hair type because humectants attract moisture to hair strands," DiMeo shares. Opt for a styling gel containing humectants to give definition and reduce frizz. It's best to use a hair brush like the Denman D3 Original Styler, which is considered the holy grail for curly hair.

Hair type 3C is defined by its tight corkscrew curls that are densely packed together with natural volume. This hair is also impacted by humidity and frizzes quickly. To keep curls from drying out, "use a sulfate-free shampoo and layer mousse and styling creams into wet hair to help curls clump together for a softer, stronger, and more natural curl pattern," DiMeo explains. One of the best shampoos to use for this type of hair is Virtue Curl Shampoo.

Type 4 hair has tight, small, kinky curls that are naturally dry, and the texture can range from fine to coarse.

4A hair types have a visible curl pattern with springy S-shaped coils that are densely packed and require more frequent maintenance to keep coils manageable. "Use a curl cream and a leave-in conditioner with moisturizing ingredients to give the hair proper daily hydration and to make styling easier," shares DiMeo. When choosing a scalp massager to detox the scalp and reduce buildup, look for one designed for type 4 curls.

People with 4B hair have densely packed strands with sharp Z-shaped angles instead of coils. Since this hair is highly prone to dryness, DiMeo tells clients to use gentle cleansing conditioners and to rely on moisture sprays and leave-in conditioners to keep hair hydrated between washes.

4C hair is even more fragile than 4B hair because of its tight zigzag pattern prone to shrinkage. With this hair type, it's essential to stay away from sulfates that strip and dull the hair. Instead, "look for natural oils like argan, shea butter, and coconut oil, and heavier creams to keep this hair type moisturized," says DiMeo. SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Strengthen & Restore is a great hair-thickening shampoo for this type of curl.

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When I first started the Curly Girl Method , I lived for other people’s curly hair journeys.

The Curly Girl Method takes a little bit of commitment and patience in the beginning, but I found other people’s curly hair journeys to be really helpful and inspirational.

With that in mind, today I’m sharing my curly hair journey!

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Curly hair runs in my family and my hair has been very curly my entire life!

When I was younger, my curls weren’t brushed or styled all that much.

But as I got older, my parents started brushing my hair, which in turn, taught me to brush my hair. I’m pretty sure both of my parents have curly or wavy hair, but they both keep it short.

Because of that, they’ve never really cared for curls, so none of us knew better.

This left my hair frizzy, with weird waves and looking generally unkempt.

Middle School and High School

Around seventh or eighth grade, hair straighteners became a thing and I was pretty freaking excited about it!

I no longer had to live with frizzy hair that always seemed to be out of control. I straightened my hair all through high school.

At one point, it had occurred to me there was probably a way to manage curly hair. But I was also pretty sure it would mean getting up at 5:30 AM to take a shower before school and that was not happening

So instead, I’d shower as soon as I got home, wait for my hair to dry (I’ve never been one to blow-dry), then spend forty-five minutes to an hour straightening my hair. Every. Single. Night!

My hair was so fried!

College and Beyond

When I started college, I started to feel like straightening my hair every day was becoming a burden.

Since my classes started later, I had more motivation to get a shower in the morning and put some effort into making my curls happen.

I did a little research. This is when a learned I needed to stop brushing my curls when they were dry.

I also learned about some basic products that might help–a leave in conditioner, curl cream, and spray gel–but I didn’t pay too much attention to the ingredients.

The results were mostly positive! I finally had curls that looked good on a semi-regular basis.

Sure, the slightest hint of humidity or moisture in the air caused serious frizz, and I had no expectations that my hair would look as good at the end of the day as it did in the morning.

But that was okay. My hair took me so much less time to manage this way, and I’d accepted that these problems were part of what it meant to have curly hair.

Discovering the Curly Girl Method

Okay, obviously everything so far has been before I started the Curly Girl Method, but I want to start my Curly Girl journey with where I was at right before I began the process.

At this point, I thought I had my hair in a good and manageable condition. This was largely thanks to an expensive hair product. (The name of which I can’t remember at this point. I think I might have been French.)

One year, I treated myself to a Birchbox subscription and this hair product was one of my samples.

If you’ve never heard of Birchbox, it’s a subscription service that sends you five samples of more expensive beauty products for ten dollars a month. It’s a great deal if you’re some who can use what you’re sent and move on.

But if you get attached to a product (which is, of course, what they’re hoping for) then you’re consistently shelling out a decent chunk of change to repurchase.

As you can guess, I got attached to this expensive hair cream and ended up regularly putting out the money.

Even on a good hair day, there’s still some frizz, very little curl clumping, and uneven definition throughout.

One day, in March of 2018 I decided I was tired of spending a small fortune on hair cream. I felt like there had to be a better way to manage my curls for less money.

I went looking for a more inexpensive product and found the Curly Girl Method instead.

I spent a couple of weeks doing some research, then I decided to give the Curly Girl Method a shot.

I saw results almost instantly, but I suspect this was largely because I’d given up regularly heating and frying my hair years before.

This meant that while my hair likely had some damage from using sulfates and silicones, it wasn’t as dry and fried as it would have been if I’d been one to blow-dry or if I was still straightening.

I was able to get some serious curls in under a week by applying a lot of conditioner and squishing the products into my hair to help my curl pattern the way the Curly Girl Method recommends .

My first week of the Curly Girl Method left my hair with good definition, but a fair amount of frizz. That’s because I later realized the leave in conditioner I was using wasn’t curly girl approved and I had some silicone build up.

But even with a bad product, the conditioning and application steps did wonders for my curls.

Once I got to the bottom of the frizz and buildup, I did another wash with a sulfate shampoo to get rid of the silicone and I started again.

I also got a hair cut, which ended up shorter than I was really going for, but the plus side was it got rid of a lot of my older, more damaged hair.

My early routine involved co-washing with Suave Essentials , Tresemme Botanique as my rinse out, and styling with Shea Moisture’s Curl Enhancing Smoothie and Eco Styler Olive Oil Gel .

These products got me through the first few months, but as my hair got healthier, I found I needed lighter products. I still co-wash with Suave Essentials and rinse out with Tresseme, but I chanced out my stylers.

After some trial and error, I landed on Not Your Mother’s Curl Talk Curl Cream and Biotera Styling Defining Gel (and sometimes I’ll do a light coat of Tresseme Mega Hold gel over top for some added hold).

These days, I can pretty much rely on my hair to look good every day (unless I try something new that doesn’t work out).

Overall, I LOVE how my hair looks and feels every single day. This Method definitely required some trial and error, and a little bit of patience at first, but now my hair is so much easier to manage.

I feel like better understanding my hair helps me get to know myself better, which has actually made this process a lot of fun!

If you want to know more about my curly hair routine, you can find that here!

Looking for more guidance on your curly hair journey?

For beginners.

If you’re new to curly hair care and looking for some help, you should check out the No-Stress Guide to Curly Hair Care !

After spending two years learning and caring for my curly hair, I wanted to create my own, in-depth guide to help fellow curlies create incredible curls in the easiest way possible. 

It took me a while, but I eventually found an approach that helped me create a curly hair routine that fits into my life in the simplest way possible. And now I want to help you do the same!

For more intermediate/advanced guidance

If you’ve been on your curly hair journey for a while but still have some struggles, check out Curly Hair Problems !

After spending hours scouring the internet looking for solutions to my own curly hair problems, I found myself wishing for an easier, more comprehensive guide to the most common problems.

So that’s what I created!

Curly Hair Problems offers you 78 total solutions to the five most common curly hair care problems, including frizz, curl clumps, limp curls, product issues, and scalp issues.

Sound off: Where are you at in your curly hair journey? Have you tried the Curly Girl Method, or are you considering giving it a shot? Tell us about it in the comments!

10 Comments on My Curly Girl Method Curly Hair Journey

Thank you for the info. You look great !

Thanks so much! ❤️

Meghan, Love your hair. I have a quick question. After wash day how do you style in the am on day 2 or 3? I’m having problems in the am and if I use more product I end up with greasy hair. Thanks for any advice 🙂

Hey Cass, thanks so much! I honestly haven’t found a true refresh routine that works well for me yet. As of now, I have the most success jumping in the shower and wetting and reconditioning my hair. I’m still trying refresh routines though, so if I find something that works, I’ll definitely do a post about it. 🙂

I use a water spray bottle that mists the hair instead of shooting a stream of water at it. It’s at Sally’s. I put a dime size amount each of SM Curl Enhancing Smoothie and LA Looks blue gel. I do that for the 6 different sections of my hair with praying hands. Works great for me!

Yes a spray bottle mixture with a teaspoon of leaving conditioner works for me to refresh my curly hair in the mornings. It all depends where you are living, for example here in Alabama the humidity is very high in the summer so I use a cream curl that controls the humidity after washing or refreshing my hair. Also curly hair does better when is really wet and I mean soaking wet and squeeze all the excess water with your hands, I do not use a regular towel because the cotton in the towel makes the hair frizzy but you can use a microfiber one. After squeezing all the water out I apply my living condition and my cream and make sure I scrunch very well all over my hair. Some times I use a diffuser and some times just let it air dry.

Hi! I’m getting inspired to start the Curly Girl method, but I love pulling up my hair. Any suggestions for how/when to do this in my routine? I currently pull it back when wet and let it air dry for the day. At night I tend to do a loose mom bun for sleeping, then in the morning wash/condition and start over.

You’re probably better off letting your hair air dry completely first before you pull it up. That way your style won’t mess with your curl pattern. But once it’s dry, you have a lot of options! If you’re looking to keep your curls intact, a ponytail at the top of your head (or as high as your hair will allow) is great for this. A low ponytail is also a good choice. Buns work too and are absolutely a good night time options! Just make sure at night you put is on top of your head as high as you can.

Really, you can pull your hair up in any way that works for you, but the key is going to be to do it loosely as you can, so you don’t stretch out your curls. You also want to use either scrunchies or coil ties to hold your hair. Thinner ties tend to cause breakage. (I talk about this more in the “Care” section of this Quick Start post).

I hope this helps! 🙂

The Curly Girl Method: An In-Depth Guide to Revitalizing Natural Curls and Waves

Embracing and enhancing natural curls and waves can be a challenging yet fulfilling journey for many. At Smooth & Charming, we celebrate the beauty of all hair types and textures, and we understand the importance of finding reliable, effective methods to care for and style curly and wavy hair. One revolutionary approach that has earned rave reviews from both hair care professionals and those with textured tresses is the Curly Girl Method, a technique that focuses on nurturing, hydrating, and defining natural curls and waves. Our in-depth exploration of this transformative method will equip you with the knowledge and confidence to unleash the full potential of your lustrous curls and sultry waves.

Developed by Lorraine Massey in her bestselling book, "Curly Girl: The Handbook", the Curly Girl Method is an innovative, holistic approach to hair care that emphasizes gentle treatment, moisture retention, and the use of specific hair care products. Built on a foundation of simple yet powerful principles, the Curly Girl Method has gained a devoted following, helping countless individuals with curly and wavy hair achieve breathtakingly beautiful, healthy, and manageable locks.

In our comprehensive guide, we'll introduce you to the fundamental principles of the Curly Girl Method, delve into the essential techniques for washing, conditioning, and styling curls, and offer recommendations for Curly Girl-friendly products available at Smooth & Charming. As you embark on this exciting path, you’ll discover how the Curly Girl Method can rejuvenate your natural curls and waves, enhance your hair's overall health and appearance, and provide you with the toolkit and inspiration to express your unique, captivating style.

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The Fundamentals of the Curly Girl Method: Principles and Products

To successfully follow the Curly Girl Method and unleash your curls' potential, it's essential to understand the underlying principles and the types of hair care products required. The method primarily focuses on these core concepts:

A) Gentle Cleansing: The Curly Girl Method advocates for using a sulphate-free cleanser or co-washing (using conditioner to wash your hair) to prevent the loss of natural oils and moisture essential for healthy curls.

B) Moisture Retention: Hydrated, well-moisturized curls are the foundation of the Curly Girl Method. Choose silicone-free conditioners and moisturizing hair stylers to maintain your locks' health.

C) Heat- and Frizz-Soothing: Minimize heat styling and friction to reduce frizz and maintain curl definition. Use microfiber towels or an old t-shirt to dry your hair, and opt for air-drying or diffusing on low heat.

D) Choosing Curly Girl-Approved Products: Select hair care products that align with the Curly Girl Method guidelines, such as those free of sulphates, silicones, parabens, and drying alcohols.

Washing and Conditioning the Curly Girl Way: A Recipe for Rejuvenation

The Curly Girl Method uses a unique approach to washing and conditioning that provides your hair with ample hydration, preparing it for easy and dazzling styling:

A) Co-Washing: Replace your traditional shampoo with a sulphate-free, silicone-free conditioner for gentle cleansing. Massage the conditioner into your scalp and leave it on for a few minutes before rinsing thoroughly.

B) Conditioner Application: Apply a generous amount of your silicone-free conditioner to the mid-lengths and ends of your hair, then detangle gently with your fingers or a wide-tooth comb. Leave the conditioner on for several minutes before rinsing fully or using the "squish-to-condish" technique to retain some hydration.

C) Squish-to-Condish: "Squish-to-condish" is a popular Curly Girl Method conditioning technique that involves scrunching conditioner-soaked hair from the ends towards the roots to encourage curl formation while lightly rinsing some, but not all, of the conditioner.

Styling Techniques for the Curly Girl Method: Embrace and Define Your Curls

Efficient styling is key to maximizing your curls' definition and beauty. Master these styling techniques for sensational results:

A) Praying Hands: To distribute styling products evenly, rub them between your palms and gently "sandwich" sections of your hair between your hands, from roots to tips, in a "praying hands" motion.

B) Rake-and-Shake: "Rake-and-shake" technique works best for those with wavy hair. Comb your fingers (raking) through the product-saturated hair to evenly distribute product, and then gently shake your hair to encourage waves to form.

C) Scrunching: Scrunching is a universally loved technique. While your hair is damp and coated with styling products, cup and scrunch upwards from the ends to encourage curl formation and lift at the roots.

D) Plopping: After applying styling products, plop your hair using a microfiber towel or an old t-shirt. Lay the fabric on a flat surface, flip your head forward, and let your curls pile onto the fabric. Then simply gather the edges and tie the fabric around your head, allowing your curls to set gently while drying.

Perfect Exciting Additions to the Curly Girl Method: Tips, Tricks, and Tools

To enhance and customize your Curly Girl Method experience, incorporate these additional tips, tricks, and tools:

A) Silk or Satin Pillowcases: Swap your cotton pillowcase for a silk or satin one to minimize frizz and protect your curls while you sleep.

B) Refreshing Sprays: On non-wash days, refresh your curls with a hydrating mist or spray to revitalize their bounce and shine.

C) Diffuser Attachment: To dry your curls without causing frizz, attach a diffuser to your hairdryer and use it on the lowest heat setting.

D) Clarifying Shampoo: Though most shampoos are not recommended for the Curly Girl Method, occasionally using a clarifying shampoo can help remove product buildup and revitalize your hair.

Conclusion:

The Curly Girl Method offers a refreshing, transformative approach to nurturing and defining natural curls and waves. Armed with this in-depth guide's essential techniques, tips, and product recommendations, you can embark on a captivating journey towards revitalized, luscious, and well-defined curls that reflect your unique personal style. While mastering the Curly Girl Method may require some experimentation and patience, the stunning, healthy, and manageable curls you'll achieve are well worth the effort.

Revolutionize your curly hair care journey by embracing the Curly Girl Method with Smooth & Charming's comprehensive guide, brimming with expert advice, essential techniques, and tailored product recommendations to unleash the captivating power of your natural curls and waves. Discover a world of beauty and confidence as you transform your hair care routine and unlock the dazzling potential of your curls with Smooth & Charming today.

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How to Do the Curly Girl Method

Your step-by-step guide to these cult-favorite curls.

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The Curly Girl Method is practically a way of life for curly gals to achieve their best spirals ever. (And I say way of life because it is quite literally something you have to commit to in order to see results — more on that below). It sounds simple, but if I'm being honest, it was everything but simple in the beginning — but I've never looked back. Keep reading to learn more about the Curly Girl Method, what it is, how to follow it (even for beginners!) and why it's good for all curly hair types .

What is the Curly Girl Method?

The method was founded by Lorraine Massey , author of Curly Girl: The Handbook , and the crux of the method is saying yes to specific products and kicking others to the curb in order to achieve curls that are #HairGoals. “ The Curly Girl Method is a process of caring for curly hair to minimize damage , promote moisture and reduce interference of the natural curl pattern of the hair,” explains Kari Williams, Ph.D. , a celebrity hairstylist and trichologist in Los Angeles. The goal is to enhance and showcase your natural curl pattern and to have a head full of curls that are defined, bouncy, shiny and healthy, too.

What are the steps of the Curly Girl Method?

There are five steps to The Curly Girl Method that take commitment, dedication and hard work, but the payoff is priceless:

“This step involves the use of a clarifying shampoo to remove buildup from the hair strands and give your hair (and scalp) a deep clean ,” Williams says. “In this case, sulfates are okay to use because they are formulated to remove and cut through heavy oils and products that may leave build up on the hair.” And if you’re a product junkie, this step is especially important for you: It’s basically stripping your hair of any impurities and gunk that your previous styling method may have created. You won't do this step every time — just the first time you start.

At this point, you can kiss sulfates goodbye: They are no longer welcome in this method. “It’s recommended to follow up with a cleaning conditioner or sulfate-free shampoo , ” Williams says. Just be sure to massage your scalp, with your finger tips not your nails, for at least a minute before rinsing.

3. Condition

After two sessions of cleansing, this step surely feels good. Grab your favorite hair conditioner and load it up. You want your hair to feel completely saturated during this step. Personally, I like my hair to feel slippery. Then I know I’ve applied enough conditioner to not only nourish my curls, but to help with detangling, too.

Once the conditioner is applied thoroughly, it’s time to get rid of knots and tangles, a curly girl’s second arch nemesis after humidity, of course. The original Curly Girl Method says steer clear of combs and brushes and after my experience, I’d advise that, too. But many iterations online have updated the method to be more user-friendly and say wide-tooth combs are allowed. But if you want to go with the OG Curly Girl Method, use your fingers. Once your curls are tangle-free, rinse 90% of the conditioner out of your hair. The tiny bit of conditioner left in acts as a primer to your styling products . Trust me, it’s a pro secret that I do every single time.

While the hair is still wet, apply your curl enhancing product , Williams says. ”Manipulate the products through your hair from root to ends.” Massey’s product of choice is a curly hair gel and you want to apply more than you think. This will not only help with definition, but it will keep your curls frizz-free , too. It creates a gel cast that may seem hard and stiff at first, but will be "broken" later, so don’t fret. Rake the product through and scrunch the ends of your hair up towards the roots. This movement will become your new norm for applying styling products. It really gets the curl definition to a new level.

No, don’t grab your bath towel to get rid of excess water in the hair, that is officially a no-go when it comes to the Curly Girl Method. “Instead, use a microfiber towel or t-shirt to gently squeeze excess water and product from the hair , then allow it to air dry,” Williams says. Once the hair is completely dry, gently scrunch your hair again to break the gel cast. And say hello to gorgeous, picture-perfect curls.

Now, the lifestyle part comes into play. To commit to this method, you will repeat steps 2 to 5 every time you wash and style your hair. And in most cases, you shouldn’t have to do a reset again, unless you break the method and use a product that is prohibited (more on that below).

What products are not part of the Curly Girl Method?

The Curly Girl Method is known for the purging of many curly hair products with commonly-found ingredients that the method says are ultimately bad for curls. Warning: Some of these may be shocking, but I think it's really worth it in the end.

• Shampoo: Yes, I know avoiding shampoo sounds downright scary, but the harsh sulfates in traditional shampoos wreak havoc on our delicate curls. So kick traditional, sulfate-ridden shampoos to the curb. Instead, reach for cleansing conditioners and sulfate-free formulas.
• Sulfates: Since we’re talking about them, they’re not just banned in shampoos, they’re banned in all other hair products, too. The main culprits are sodium-lauryl sulfate and ammonium laureth sulfate. These Curly Girl Method claims these strip the hair of necessary oils and make it feel stiff, like hay, and nobody wants that.
• Silicones: Like sulfates, silicones are a no-go here, too. And don’t be surprised that silicones are in a ton of products, but they build-up on the hair and, since most of them can only be removed from the hair by sulfates, skip the silicones (and sulfates) altogether.
• Alcohols: In many cases, alcohol is drying to the hair. And while not all alcohols are bad, it’s best to avoid them altogether. Thankfully, there’s formulas that are alcohol-free, so it’s easy to swap products to one that’s curly girl-friendly.
• Traditional bath towels: Gone are the days when you use the same towel for your hair and your body. The Curl Girl Method says towel-drying the hair can not only cause breakage and snapping of the strands, but it also creates frizz. If you don’t prefer air drying, reach for an old t-shirt or a microfiber towel that will sop up water without roughing the hair cuticle.
• Hot tools : While this may be a heartbreaker, straightening your hair is not a part of the Curly Girl Method. And sadly, neither is curling your hair or using any hot tool for that matter. If you occasionally use a diffuser to quickly dry the hair, it’s best to do it on low and cool heat. But don’t rely on a diffuser for your every day or every week drying method.

So what products do you need for the Curly Girl Method?

Once you've gutted your curly arsenal of sulfates, silicones and alcohols (more on what's banned below), you've likely found yourself with little left. Here's where it gets fun, but it does take some time. You'll want to experiment with a variety of product combinations until your get your ideal mix. Here are the products you'll want to have on hand for most success with the Curly Girl Method:

• Sulfate-free shampoo: These hair cleansers still get rid of dirt, debris and product buildup, but are formulated with much gentler cleansing ingredients. Remember, you only want to reach for a sulfate or clarifying shampoo if you've incorporated products that aren't CG-friendly. Otherwise, sulfate-free formulations are your new go-to.
• Co-washes: Sometimes referred to as cleansing conditioners, these 2-in-1 shampoo and conditioner formulas with higher ratios of conditioning ingredients are great for refreshing curls when your hair doesn't really feel dirty. They're hydrating and add great slip for detangling. Plus, they're easy when you're short on time.
• Styling products: From styling creams to gels to mousses , the choice is really yours. As long as the ingredient list fits the bill, we say give it a shot. If you like it keep it and if not, try again. Trust us, this process is full of trial-and-error.

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DevaCurl Styling Cream Touchable Moisturizing Definer

Hask Curl Care 5-in-1 Leave In Spray

Aquis Lisse Luxe Hair Turban

How long does it take for the curly girl method to work.

Since the chances of perfecting The Curly Girl Method on your first try are slim-to-none, you should remember that this method takes time. Consider it a learning process. Not only do you have to clean up your go-to products, you may have to find new ones that actually work for your hair. So in most cases, it may take you anywhere between one and four months to commit to the method and find your curly cocktail that works. I’ve said it before, but I’ll say it again, patience is key.

Is the Curly Girl Method good for hair?

According to Williams, this method is good for curly hair. “There is a combination of keeping the hair free from buildup, which can interfere with how well your curling products work and infusing products that improve moisture and the overall health of your curls," she explains. And even though it is quite a commitment, a quick search on Google will prove that this method produces beautiful, defined curls over time.

Does the Curly Girl Method work on wavy hair?

Yes, if you have wavy hair , you can use The Curly Girl Method. But it’s important to remember that adopting this method will not transform your wavy hair and make it coily. It may make your waves more defined and even more wavy, but it won’t change your hair type to a totally new one.

What are the pros and cons of the Curly Girl Method?

With all things, there are positives and negatives for this method. If you’re considering making the commitment, here are a few pros and cons I've found that you need know:

• Better hair health
• Enhanced curl definition
• Hydrated curls
• Best on non-chemically treated hair
• Commitment is necessary
• Pricey and time-intensive

The bottom line: Is the Curly Girl Method worth it?

If you’re looking for your best curls yet, look no further. But just note, this takes some major diligence. Gone are the days when you can run to the drugstore, grab any ol’ product and slather it on your locks. I committed to The Curly Girl Method when I was in college and the hardest part was that I didn’t have a ton of money to try many new products, so the pickings were slim (not to mention, this was at a time when natural hair product options weren’t exactly filling up beauty aisle shelves. But once I found my curly cocktail ( leave-in conditioner , curl cream and gel), I was set. Now, it’s been eight years and my curls have never looked better. This method takes time, preparation and planning, but the results are worth it.

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For those with curly hair, it’s no secret that caring for your strands can be difficult. Textures that vary from Z-pattern coils to S-pattern ringlets require a deep amount of attention, as they’re often delicate and prone to tangles. As someone who has a blend of type 3C and 4A curls, I’ve been on a long hair care journey to find the best methods—and the perfect combination of products—with enough power to nourish and define my curls. It’s been a twisty path, to say the least—pun fully intended.

One effective method I’ve found is the curly girl method (CGM), recognized widely across the community of folks with textured spirals as a true haircare game-changer. And because we're not in the business of gatekeeping at ELLE.com, we’ve provided a thorough guide to the curly girl method and the most effective products to make your curly dreams come true.

We’ve also consulted celebrity hairdresser, educator, and founder of Vernon Francois Haircare, Vernon François , and artistic director of Balmain Hair Couture, Ilham Mestour . Below, both experts share their thoughts on the curly girl method, while bestowing tips and tricks to lead you through your quest for flawless curls.

What is the curly girl method?

In 2011, the founder of DevaChan Hair Salon and DevaCurl products , Lorriane Massey , published Curly Girl: The Handbook . This manifesto inspired those with curls to embrace their natural texture by implementing the “curly girl method” or CGM—a five-step process that helps you achieve your best curls over time. “The method is focused on avoiding ingredients that can be harsh on curly hair, such as sulfates and silicones, and instead using gentle, nourishing products that can help enhance curls,” says Mestour. “CGM also encourages people to avoid damaging styling practices like heat styling and brushing,” Mestour adds.

What are the five steps of the curly girl method?

The first step of the curly girl method calls for a complete reset, or in other words, a deep cleanse using a clarifying shampoo of your choice. Clarifying shampoos help to break down residue from products like leave-in conditioners and gels that often wedge their way into the nooks and crannies of your scalp. However, this step comes with a caveat. “Clarifying shampoos often contain strong surfactants that can strip the hair of natural oils and cause dryness, so they are typically not recommended for frequent use,” says Mestour. “They are best used occasionally, perhaps once a month, to remove build-up and refresh the hair.” That said, it’s unnecessary to reset each time you wash your hair, only when there is a substantial amount of build-up.

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As for the second step, sulfates are now completely off-limits. Sulfates—mineral salts that strip impurities from hair and are often found in clarifying shampoos—can cause hair strands to become dry and brittle. So to replenish your hair with hydration, it’s essential to use a sulfate-free shampoo or a co-wash formulated specifically for gentle cleansing. “A co-wash or cleansing conditioner is a gentle, non-foaming formula designed to cleanse the hair without stripping it of its natural oils,” says Mestour. “Co-washes typically contain mild surfactants or cleansing agents, along with conditioning ingredients that help detangle and soften the hair.”

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Conditioner is a curly girl’s best friend, and I say this from experience. Now, with this step of the process, you must make sure to distribute the conditioner evenly. “You’ll know you’ve applied enough conditioner when all the hair is lightly coated with product,” says François. Another integral aspect of this step is detangling your hair while it’s slathered in conditioner.

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In her book, Lorriane Massey recommends applying gel to soaking wet curls. The application process entails raking the gel through your curls using your fingers and scrunching the ends, as this technique helps to define curls. “When you scrunch your hair, you are using your hands to gather small sections of hair and squeeze them upwards towards your scalp,” says Mestour. “This helps to encourage your curls to form into their natural shape and definition.” Scrunching also helps to squeeze out excess water, which can lead to frizzy strands.

The final step is drying your hair. Although the easiest thing to do might be to wrap a bath towel around your head, every curl specialist will tell you to avoid this at all costs. Instead, use a t-shirt to gently scrunch your hair, removing moisture, then let it air dry. If you truly can’t resist using a towel, opt for a microfiber towel , which is a non-abrasive alternative that prevents frizziness and damage.

Does the curly girl method actually work?

Although the curly girl method has been highly praised by the curly hair community, we need to acknowledge that every head of hair has its unique needs and might react differently to CGM. If you do some digging, you’ll find a mix of testimonies across the internet, featuring some who say that CGM saved their hair, while others claim that it either didn’t help at all or ruined their curls (causing less definition, scalp irritation, and even hair loss). However, it’s important to consider that these negative testimonies could be because of the products used during the process, not the process itself. So, when trying out CGM, invest in safe and effective products that have been thoroughly tested and reviewed.

What should you avoid while using the curly girl method?

If your goal is to see results, it’s time to kiss your hot tools goodbye. This means taking a break from flat irons, curling wands, blow dryers, and any other kind of tool that emits heat, as exposure to high temperatures can ultimately cause dryness, breakage, and curl manipulation. The only exception here is using a diffuser on low heat to dry your hair.

As for ingredients to avoid, the curly girl method claims that you should stay away from sulfates, silicones, and alcohol. Sulfates are mineral salts that help to strip oil and dirt from hair, but they’re seen as the enemy of curly hair due to their capacity to cause excessive dryness. Silicones are meant to coat hair strands with their rubber-like substance, but the issue here is that they can contribute to product build-up over time. Alcohol are often the source of scalp irritation and hair dryness, i.e. a curly girl’s worst nightmare.

However, François points out that there is some room for debate here. “Labeling ingredients as good or bad simplifies a complex area, when there are different kinds of alcohols, different kinds of silicones, and the overall blend of ingredients in any given formula is key.”

What is the most effective way to use conditioner while doing the curly girl method?

The biggest mistake that someone with curly hair can make is instantly rinsing out conditioner after applying it. Conditioner is a moisturizing agent that replenishes your hair with hydration and provides an ingredient-rich protective coating, so you should take time to let it soak into your hair strands. And most importantly, you should use conditioner during the detangling process. “When your hair is wet and saturated with conditioner, it becomes more pliable and easier to comb through, which can help to reduce the risk of hair breakage and damage,” says Mestour. “Be sure to pay extra attention to the ends of your hair, which tend to be more prone to dryness and damage,” she adds.

It’s also important to note that your hair strands are at their most fragile state while wet. François has a trick for detangling: “My go-to is gently detangling hair by hand when it’s dry, before shampooing and conditioning—great care should always be taken when detangling hair to avoid excessive pulling and breakage.” François also shares that the best way to detangle your hair while it’s slathered in conditioner is “by sectioning it first to reach all areas of your head more easily,” says François. “Start from the ends and work your way up towards the scalp, using downward strokes.”

So, how do you know if you’ve applied enough conditioner?

Well, the short answer is that the amount of conditioner varies per person, but Mestour recommends a general principle to follow: “Work the conditioner through your hair until you feel that each curl is well-coated, and with practice, you will develop a sense of how much conditioner your hair needs to look and feel its best.”

If you go a bit overboard while applying conditioner, it’s okay, but remember that adding more than necessary isn’t helpful. “Oversaturating the hair with excess conditioner won’t add any extra benefit because hair can only absorb so much,” says François.

Why is the use of gel important when it comes to styling?

“Gels provide hold and definition to your hair, helping to keep your curls in place and prevent frizz,” says Mestour. She notes that an entire spectrum of gels exists, ranging from light to strong-hold formulas, so your gel of choice should coincide with your hair texture and styling needs. Despite what the curly girl method might endorse, it's not an absolute must. “It is your personal choice as to how important gel is for you, depending on the look you are hoping to achieve,” says François.

Can you use a leave-in conditioner as part of the curly girl method?

Absolutely! Although the official curly girl method doesn’t require the use of l eave-in conditioners , some people like to use them as a step before gels, myself included. The curly girl method is simply a guide, and it's encouraged to personalize the method to your hair care needs.

When I visited Candace Witherspoon Salon in Manhattan to receive a much-needed curly cut, my stylist showed me her version of achieving defined curls, which involved lightly coating my hair strands with a leave-in conditioner before adding gel to nourish my curls. “A quality leave-in conditioner is important because it helps to create a good foundation to work from before the styling process,” says François.

Due to their beneficial properties, leave-in conditioners are often considered a solid starting point in the styling process. “Many leave-in conditioners contain ingredients such as vitamins, antioxidants, and proteins that can help to protect your hair from damage," says Mestour. She also mentions that leave-in conditioners are essential for those with tighter textures that are prone to dryness and frizz.

What additional ways can you define your curls during the styling process aside from scrunching?

Styling is often the most intricate part of the curly girl method because it requires a certain level of technique. “I bounce curls in an upward direction using a flat palm with fingers gently curving in to encourage the natural shape of curls, coils, kinks, spirals, or waves,” says François. “It helps if the hair is finger coiled with a little lightweight serum on freshly washed and conditioned hair that’s about eighty percent dry beforehand.”

Another practice I like implementing into my haircare routine is the “rake and shake” method. This tactic is not included in CGM, but I’ve found it a worthwhile alternative to scrunching. After sectioning my hair and applying my leave-in conditioner and gel, I focus on each section and rake my fingers through from my roots to my ends. When I reach the bottom of each section, I’ll lightly hold my ends and shake my wrist back and forth to help form the natural shape of my curls.

What are the benefits of air-drying versus diffusing?

Each drying method has its benefits, so it truly depends on what outcome you are trying to achieve and how much time you have. François uses the air-drying technique on his clients to achieve bounce and minimal frizz. “Finger coil or two-strand twist it first, then gently scrunch it every now and again while it’s drying to get a curl that is unmatched,” he explains.

If you don’t have much time to spare or simply don’t have the patience for air drying, then using a diffuser on low heat can accelerate the drying process. Mestour explains that other benefits of using a diffuser include enhancing curl definition and volume. “Using a diffuser lifts your curls and encourages them to dry with more body,” she notes.

As for my routine, I like to mix air-drying and diffusing, which François also suggests as an alternative to using one method versus the other. “Try leaving hair to air dry, then finishing it off with a diffuser, or start with a diffuser until hair is eighty or ninety percent dry, then leave it be,” François adds.

How should you style your hair at night to protect your curls?

When the day is done and your head is about to hit the pillow, how should you preserve the masterpiece you created? One option is the “pineapple method,” which you can do after your hair is completely dry. “Gather your hair loosely at the top of your head—as if you were going to make a ponytail, but don't pull it all the way through—and secure it with a scrunchie or soft hair tie,” says Mestour. After perfecting the pineapple, you can wrap your hair with a silk scarf or bonnet for protection.

If you’d rather not have your hair in a pineapple, there are plenty of other ways to preserve your hair overnight. “Loosely braid or twist hair to help keep it tangle-free,“ François recommends, especially for those with longer hair. Those who aren't a fan of wearing a bonnet or silk scarf, as they’re often infamous for slipping off in the middle of the night, then try a silk pillowcase. “An alternative to wearing a silk cap is to invest in a silk pillowcase to minimize friction and pulling as you move during sleep,” says François.

If you wake up the next morning and decide that your hair needs a bit of a touch-up, Mestour suggests rejuvenating your curls with a few simple tricks: “Refresh your curls by spritzing them with water or a leave-in conditioner, then scrunch them gently to revive their shape.”

Overall, what should you keep in mind when beginning the curly girl method?

“The Curly Girl Method can be an effective approach to caring for curly hair, but it may take some experimentation and adjustment to find the right products and techniques for your hair type and texture,” says Mestour. Think of CGM as a science experiment, and continue to test different combinations of ingredients and techniques until you find the perfect fit for your curls. Discovering the best approach for your curls can be daunting, and sometimes discouraging, but it's important to have patience with yourself because, as François says, “getting to know your own head of hair can be fun.”

Meet the Experts

Vernon François is a celebrity hairdresser and founder of VERNON FRANÇOIS Haircare . He is also a global consultant, educator, and celebrity hairdresser for Redken. François' clients include Lupita Nyong'o and Serena Williams.

Ilham Mestour is the artistic director of Balmain Hair Couture.

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• Curly Girl Method

Wavy Girl Method: the routine for wavy hair

• 10 November 2020

Many people think that wavy and curly hair are the same thing, but they’re not. Don’t get us wrong; they’re both beautiful! But waves have different needs than curls, which is why a different hair routine is important.

Believe it or not, they are different things, and curly and wavy hair require unique care and different products. You need to follow a different routine to get the most out of your beautiful, natural waves.

If you have wavy hair and have started the Curly Girl Method, you may not get the best results. That’s because your hair actually needs different products and techniques!

Gladly they have discovered a new way to get amazing hair with the wavy girl method. Wondering which ones?

In this article we’ll tell you all about the Wavy Girl Method.

Also read: How to start the Curly Girl Method: steps for beginners

In this article:

What is the wavy girl method.

The Curly Girl Method is a hair routine for people with curls, and the Wavy Girl Method is one for people with waves.

It’s very similar to the Curly Girl Method but there are a few slight adjustments that are needed to make it more suitable for waves, instead of curls.

You can see the differences in this image:

Wavy hair has different needs than curly hair, so it’s important to have a different routine. These differences are mainly related to the natural oils that the scalp produces, and how easily they’re able to travel down the lengths of our strands.

This takes longer with curls than with straight hair. So for Wavies, who have less curls than Curlies, it’s easier for those oils to naturally moisturize the hair from root to tip.

That’s why as a Wavy girl you can achieve better results with the Wavy Girl Method than with the Curly Girl Method.

A lot of similarities

There are many similarities between the CG Method and the Wavy Girl Method though.

For example, both recommend the following: sulfate-free shampoos or co-washing, silicone-free conditioners, no heat styling tools (such as a flat iron or curling iron) and no chemical relaxers.

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In our webshop for curls we sell different curly girl approved products for the Curly hair method and all the different curly hair journey that fits you most.

That aside, there are also many differences! We’ll list them below.

You can brush wavy hair with the Wavy Girl Method

When starting the Curly Girl Method, it’s recommended to throw away your hairbrush. When following the Wavy Girl Method, this is different: wavy hair can be brushed without significant risk of breakage.

Certainly people with wavy hair type 2a and 2b can brush their hair using the Wavy Girl Method.

With what styling tool can I best brush my hair?

You can use a Tangle Teezer or Denman Brush. Always do this before applying the conditioner or else you’ll probably comb out your waves.

See, the Wavy Girl Method isn’t that difficult at all!

Also read: Discover which Denman Brush you need

Co-washing may not work with the Wavy Girl Method

The Curly Girl Method recommends to no longer wash your hair with shampoo, but start co-washing.

It’s a great way to preserve moisture, but for wavy hair this isn’t always the best choice.

Build up and wavy hair

You may experience build up over time, as your sebum plus the ingredients of your co-wash add up.

In general, if you have thick or coarse hair you can try co-washing, but if you have fine or thin hair it probably isn’t a good idea to use the Wavy Girl Method.

Especially in the summer months this can lead to limp, lifeless, weighed down hair. Then it’s better to opt for a sulfate-free shampoo or a low-poo.

How can I get rid of build up in my hair?

Like we said, products can build up over time. It’s important to give your hair and scalp a deep cleanse every now and then.

Either grab a sulfate shampoo or one that is specifically for clarifying, and make sure to use it at least once a month!

In our webshop we have our favorite products of clarifying shampoo you can try out.

But what if I do want to co-wash my hair

Want to try co-washing in combination with the

Wavy Girl Method? Choose a conditioner that you can also use as a ‘normal’ conditioner, just in case.

Or go for a consistent washday rotation, by doing a cowash after two low-poos.

You can then try to cowash every 3-4 washes and see whether it has a positive impact. You can brush your wavy hair.

Unlike curly hair that should be left unbrushed most of the time, you have a little more freedom with wavy hair.

Go find out and experiment

It is always an experiment. So use the Wavy Girl Method in different ways to find out which Wavy Girl Method style is the best wavy hair routine for you.

Also read: Everything you want to know about co-washing

Wavies can use sulfates (in moderation) in combination with the Wavy Girl Method

Sulfates are banned within the Curly Girl Method routine but not for the Wavy Girl Method. Sulfates are ingredients that are often added to shampoo.

They ensure that your shampoo will foam nicely after contact with water. That foaming effect not only gives you a nice clean feeling in the shower, but also helps remove dirt, oil and dead skin from your scalp and wavy hair.

But that cleansing effect is actually too intense for your scalp and hair. Sulfates cleanse your hair so good, that they strip your hair of not only dirt, oil and dead skin, but also of the natural oils on your scalp.

And these oils provide hydration to the hair. Still, some people with wavy hair and using the Wavy Girl Method do need this from time to time to remove build-up from their hair.

Be gentle with sulfates

Try to do it as little as possible, for example once a month. In this way you can still try the Wavy Girl Method and check what’s best for you.

Use a mousse instead of gel with the Wavy Girl Method

Many Curly Girls use gel to get hold and definition, but for Wavy Girls this often is way too heavy.

It probably will result in weighed down hair and build-up, which will likely make you wash your hair too often.

Mousse creates more definition for wavy hair

Therefore, preferably opt for mousse, which provides more definition, soft curls and no build-up. Don’t apply it too close to your roots, but about 4 cm from it, otherwise it will cause build-up anyway.

And especially go for lightweight products, because these provide more resilience and therefore more waves! Yay to the Wavy Girl Method!

Pay attention to how you apply hair products when using the Wavy Girl Method

In terms of styling, curls and waves really need a different technique. For example: where a lot of Curly Girls rake their hair, most Wavy Girls can say goodbye to their waves if they rake.

The raking technique

Raking is a technique that you can use when applying styling products. You detangle your curls with your fingers, while at the same time distributing the product over the wavy hair, from the roots to the ends.

Wavies will destroy the clumps (curls that curl together or form one larger curl) and their hair will stay limp.

Instead of raking, divide the product over your wet hair using the praying hands technique and start scrunching. Be careful not to smooth your hair with this technique too.

The praying hands method

It’s not just curls that need to be quenched with moisture, waves do too! Apply a generous amount of a light but moisturising conditioner using the Praying Hands method, starting from the crown of your head to the ends of your waves.

Then detangle using a wide toothed comb.

While applying styling products to wavy hair, remember to use the Praying Hands method and not the raking method so as to prevent clumps from breaking and disrupting your curl pattern.

This should be followed by flipping your hair over and scrunching it up gently so as to preserve the clumps without shrinkage.

The ‘squelch’ noise is an indication that the hair is appropriately wet for the stylers to spread evenly and work well.

Also read:  The main techniques of the Curly Girl Method

Your Wavy Girl Method routine will change throughout the year 

Every season is different for wavy hair. Each season your hair has very different needs.

In the dry winter months, cowash may work best to keep your wavy hair moisturized, defined and bouncy.

But in the warm and humid months, this can lead to weak, lifeless, weighed down waves. So pay attention to the time of year!

It can change in a few weeks. The styling process will change, so the styling techniques will as well.

Change your routine according to the seasons

But the Curly Girl Method steps will remain the same. Only maybe with different products such as deep condition, curl cream, leave in conditioner, final wash of dry shampoo.

This can be very frustrating, but once you’re through one year, you know roughly what to expect. Be sure to make notes so you can read them back next year!

Does the curly girl method work on straight hair?

It won’t work because straight and curly hair differs in texture. For instance, silicones in caring products only benefit straight hair, but, at the same time, they won’t be healthy for curls.

Can I brush my hair when I have wet hair?

We advise only brushing your hair when it is soaking wet.

This reduces the risk of causing strain on your hair strands, which results in breakages.

It is possible to brush your hair when it is air dry or blow dry. But having dry hair can be possible harmful for your hair and result in damaged hair.

So to avoid that, just blow dry after brushing your loose curls.

How can I safely air dry my hair?

When you are airdrying your hair with a hair dryer keep in mind to always keep on the cool mode. the airflow should be aimed towards the lower end of the spectrum to keep frizz somewhat under control.

But it is even better to allow your hair to air dry.

Whatever you do, remember to refrain from touching or handling your hair during the drying process as this encourages frizz.

As your hair dries, a gel cast will form on your curls, making them feel hard and crunchy. But keep in mind, this is a good thing!

What do I need to do when my hair is too dry?

It is possible that you have over-conditioned hair. Although curly hair tends to be dry and needs a lot of moisture, some products can overload it, especially if your hair is very fine.

If this happens, clean your hair with a sulfate-free shampoo and use lighter conditioners and moisturizers.

Do not use a deep conditioner too often.

We hope we can help you achieve the best method for wavy girls!

These were our tips to get the most out of the Wavy Girl Method. Feeling inspired and aren’t able to wait to start styling and wearing your hair wavy?

You can comment below and start talking with other wavy or curly hair girls.

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Hi!! So I’m new to this wavy girl thing. I’m a 2a I think, but I have done a lot of research, and tried putting gel in my hair but also put conditioner in my hair but it makes it super oily!! Is this normal? Also any other tricks and tips would be appreciated!! Thanks so much!!!

Thank you for your message.

For wavy hair I’ll recommend mousse instead of gel. Giovanni has a really nice mousse with protein (Giovanni Mousse Hair Styling Foam). Also Curls has a really nice mousse without protein ( Curls Avocado hair mousse).

A mousse is lighter than a gel and wouldn’t make your hair super oily. I would also recommend to apply the mousse on wet hair for the best result.

When you have more questions, don’t hesitate to ask!

Kind regards,

Team Kurlify

I am thinking of trying the wavy girl method but I am a little confused about the use of sulfates and silicones, do I avoid them both?

Thanks for your message. If you want to start the Wavy Girl methode you have to avoid sulfates and silicons. We do recommend to use a final wash, this wash is a shampoo with sulfates (so that’s a bit contradictory). Sulfates are a tough ingredient that cleans your hair. It will wash out al the build up of silicones in your hair, so you can start the wavy girl methode.

If you have more questions, feel free to ask.

What is the best way to sleep on wavy hair

Silk or satin. You can either opt for a pillowcase made of it or a hair bonnet. I personally use a silk hair bonnet and I like it

I have 2b/2C hair (and I have A LOT of hair), but the top ALWAYS will dry pretty straight. What do I do with it, underneath is so nice but always hidden by my top layer.

I would try cutting the top layers a tad shorter and potentially taking some of the weight out. Get a cut by someone who is trained with curly hair so that they can trim your hair to optimize your wave.

Sulfates are a cleanser, while silicones are there to smooth your hair. Some people really love silicones, but some people get too much build-up with them and end up with weighed down, dry hair. Silicones can help if your hair is prone to tangles and you have damage because of it, but you’ll need to be more aware of how often your hair needs clarifying than if you didn’t use them.

Sulfates are too harsh for most people to use daily, but some people can use them occasionally to clarify and remove buildup. Some people don’t need them at all.

When I get up in the morning what should I do to my hair to look presentable? I’m a 2b-2c

Hi Margaret,

I like to spray a bit water in my hair to make it damp. Then I’ll shake my curls awake with my hands and my head up side down. You can also try a mousse like the Giovanni Mousse Hair Styling Foam or the Curls Avocado Mousse. These products are really nice (and not heavy) to use in your hair and start the day with lovely curls or waves!

I appreciate you writing this article! Wavy hair is definitely different than curly hair. I have 2a-2b wavy hair. My question for you is can you recommend any over the counter sulfate free shampoo and silicone free conditioners that work well with wavy hair?Sorry if that’s in a different article I haven’t come across yet. I have used Jessicurl, some Bounce Curl, and Vida bars that are only sold online but they aren’t the best for wavy hair. I just want to go to my local store and buy something that will work well with my wavy hair. Any advice will be appreciated! Thank you!

Hi Michelle,

We’re a dutch company so I’m not sure what they sell in shops near you, but I can take a chance!

Yari Green is a nice brand, I really like there protein free shampoo and conditioner called: Yari Green Curls Sulfate-Free Moisturizing Shampoo Yari Green Curls Hydrating Conditioner

Also Shea Moisture has some nice products for wavy hair: Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Shine Shampoo Shea Moisture Yucca & Baobab Volumizing Conditioner

In the Netherlands we also have brands called Love, Beauty & Planted, Nature Box and Garnier Loving blends. Those brands have several CG approved products (but not everything).

I hope some of there brands/products are near by your local shop!

If you have more questions, don’t hesitate to ask

I use Palmers Sulfate free coca butter shampoo in the uk 🙂

Apologies this is late, but NYM naturals has a shampoo/ conditioner line that are CG approved. There is also a website called curl scan where you can look up products to see if they are approved

Yes! You can check it on this website: http://www.isitcg.com/ . Just type in the product name and its ingredients.

Hope this helps😊,

Team Kurlify💜

Mousse do nothing for my hair and it doesn’t hold anything. I have used a gel from innersense, I create hold, but it also did nothing and didn’t hold my waves. So I was about to by a strong hold gel, Boucleme – Super Hold Styler. But maybe I shouldn’t?

Hi! I have 2a-2b wavy hair. When I finish washing up my hair I usually apply leave-in cream (to hydrate) with gel (one of the techniques I’ve read about in multiple wavy hair blogs), and at first I am able to style some nice curls and clumps with the scrunching technique (although it can get messy and give me some frizz too), but after a couple of hours the most exterior layers of hair start to straighten up and they put a lot of weight on the deeper layers that form better curls, so I end up with a lot of volume, zero definition and a rough texture thanks to the gel (basically a birds nest on my head). I don’t get why this keeps happening because my hairs looks sooo curly when I’m styling it right after the wash up. Could it be that I have too much hair and it is too heavy for the waves (I use it really short and in a shredded haircut that I’ve been told favours waves)? I’m really frustrated because I think that I have some nice waves but I’m not coming up with a way to get the most out of them. Thanks!

I have the exact same issue! Interested in the response to your question. 🙂

Same. I have long hair midway down my back, but it is thin (hair loss due to thyroid issues). I wash at night add a curl cream and then mousse. I plop it in a microfiber turban and sleep on it. Come morning I have well formed curls. My hair is still quite damp and I usually add a bit more mousse to make up for what absorbed during the night. I use a black orchid diffuser. I get some frizz but pretty decent curl/wave pattern (2B), as well but they don’t last. I’m wondering if the length is what is pulling the wave pattern out or I need different products. I grew up with straight hair and didn’t develop waves until perimenopause so this is a new journey for me. Would love to maintain the pattern that shows up immediately after removing the turban.

I am not sure if we have exactly the same hair, but I’ll share what works for me. I have 2a/b hair that is fine and thin. When it’s really wet after the shower I used a lightweight gel and plop for about 10 minutes. Then I add a tiny bit more gel with wet hands and let it air dry, being careful not to touch it at all. I think the key for me is to let it dry undisturbed so the waves stay clumped together, otherwise it becomes a frizzy, fine, fly-away mess.

Thanks for you message.

It sounds like you are putting too much weight in your hair or the balance of protein and moisture isn’t correct. Hereby two articles that might help you: https://www.kurlify.com/en/curls/moisture-overload-curls/ https://www.kurlify.com/en/hair-products/what-protein-means-for-curls/

I’ll recommend using a foam in your hair instead of a gel. I really like the Giovanni mousse or the Curls Avocado mousse. If you prefer gel, I recommend a light gel like the Jessicurl Gelebration Spray Island Fantasy.

With waves you can sometimes overdue your hair with too much products, especially if you just started with the CG method. Your hair needs time to get used to the natural care, at a later time you can probably use more products and even get more curls. But for now my advice to you is less is more!

This advice is so useful, I have been trying CGM for 3 months, and found everything I used made my hair lank, tangled and greasy looking. I have switched to low poo x 2 washes and co wash on the third, and stopped the Shea products and switched to lighter ones. I also don’t plop any more as it was causing too many tangles. This has made a huge difference- I’ll keep checking back for more advice, thanks!

Hi Caroline!

Thank you for your comment! We’re so happy that we could help you😊.

Wishing you fantastic curls!

What advice would you give for wavy girls when they go to bed? I don’t have a lot of hair, it’s 2b with some ?3a at the back of my neck. When dry it’s a bit longer than chin length so if I put it in a pineapple a lot of it drops out. I do put a satin bonnet on as well. Also, can I use a cowash conditioner as an ‘ordinary conditioner’ after shampoo? Thanks

I would recommend medusa clipping! Medusa clipping is a protective sleeping style for short stranded curlies. Basically it’s more like a modified pineapple only for those with shorter hair that can’t be pineappled. You strategically clip sections of hair up and off your scalp using small jaw clips. It lets you avoid crushed or stretched out curls. Keeping your curl definition intact so you wake up to curls that need next to no refreshing and a ton of volume.

Tip: Continue using the satin bonnet to be extra secure!

Also, check out this video of this curly girl using the Medusa Clipping method: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nvw2oX9x_6U&t=59s

Furthermore, I wouldn’t recommend combining cowash and shampoo. As the cowash already works as a cleanser for your hair. After shampooing, your hair needs moisture back so a regular conditioner is suitable. Moreover, when you cowash you don’t need another cleansing product, just cowashing is already sufficient! I would suggest using the one or the other. You can use both but on different wash days.

Hope this helps you😊,

I am about to start the wavy girl method, I want to know if it’s ok to use a leave in conditioner but nothing else.,no gel, mouuse, cream or anything

Do I need to use a leave in and regular conditioner and mouuse or is regular conditioner and mouuse enough

It is fine to only use a leave-in, however if you want your waves to last for a longer period I would suggest using a mousse as well. Styling mousse is much more lightweight, less likely to leave buildup on the hair than a gel, and provides just enough definition for wavy hair.

Wavy hair tends to be straight, if you want your waves last longer you have to use mouse which isn’t so heavy, but I just use a cream and my waves don’t last which is fine for me.

Do you have any advice on how to care for your curls when swimming in chlorine pool 4x a week. Thank you.

This is my question too! I’ve asked it elsewhere and didn’t get any reply. 😕

Hi Sarah & Dareen,

Excuse for not responding!

Chlorine is super bad for your hair. Make sure your hair comes into contact with it as little as possible. If your hair has been in contact with chlorine I recommend you to take good care of your hair by using a hair mask. Chlorine makes your hair very dry.

Hopefully I have informed you sufficiently. If you have any questions, please let me know.

Love, Kurlify

I swim regularly (head in freestyle) and although my wavy journey has only just started (something like a 2a) I find by properly drenching my hair in freshwater before I go into the pool and wearing a swimming hat helps to prevent much chlorine getting into my hair. I used to have to use strong ‘anti-chlorine’ shampoos and now I can just co-wash when I am done with my swim.

Finally! An article that makes sense as to why my 2b waves have never handled the curly girl method! I have been doing it all wrong! I have the Curly girl handbook, and the Silver Hair handbook, but still was not getting a good result. Products easily weigh my coarse hair down. Thank you so much for all the information! New routine from today for my hair!

Hi Christine!

I recommend pineappling (with a silk scarf), medusa clipping (with a satin bonnet), plopping or sleeping with a silk pillow.

Hope this helps you!😊

I got 2b maybe 2c hair with a dry scalp and ALOT of hair. I’m also super lazy. What is the best way to start this routine?

I would recommend using As I Am Dry & Itch Leave-In Conditioner. This product combats dry itchy scalp and dandruff. In addition, the product prepares your hair for styling and improves hair manageability. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/as-i-am-dry-itch-leave-in-conditioner/?vl=355-ml

It is super easy to use!😉

Hi! What a great informative post. I’ve been trying the CGM and I’ve had limited results. I recently got my first curly hair cut and she styled it so beautifully. I’m having a hard time recreating it, but I haven’t given up! My question is this. I’ve been trying to use mousse but the next day my hair feels so gross and dried out, how do I start again the next day without rewashing and styling? I don’t know what to do the days after my wash day. Up until 9 months ago, I was washing/conditioning every single day (I’m 41!)!! So to avoid getting back to washing all the time, I’ve been able to limit it to 3 times weekly, how do I restart and refresh after wash day?

Hi Vanessa!

Thank you for your comment😊. Really, water is your best friend! All you need to do is fill your spray bottle with water and some leave-in conditioner. The combination of conditioner and water softens and refresh dry and frizzy curls. And there you have it!

Hope this helps you☺️,

Can u explain more on why raking is bad? A lot of people on YouTube think otherwise and say that raking is good and that combing it with fingertips will make it lose curls. I tried raking last time and made my curls even more curlier.

Raking will destroy that wash day/style, especially if you have 2a waves. What raking does is break up the “clumps” of waves (which you want!), and literally pulls down the waves. While curly hair can spring back up, wavy hair stays limp.

I’m a 2a/2b I’m new to this wavy hair scene and wanted to know if you could recommend some products for me such as shampoo, conditioner, hair mask and heat protectors ? I think based off my reading I have low porosity hair, that needs some moisture

I stumbled across this article because I’m searching for answers to the very same dilemma. I just began the CGM about 2 weeks ago. I have 2b/2c waves with some little ringlets here and there. I’ve been applying a leave in conditioner, curl cream, and a maximum hold gel (because that’s what all the articles told me to do!). I get amazing, beautiful waves and curls on my wash day and sometimes, if I’m lucky, on day 2 as well. But most of the time, my curls go limp, get frizzy, and tangled after that first day… and oddly enough, my ends get oily (?). I have always washed my hair at least every other day. Like you, idk how to make my hair look decent without starting from scratch. Hoping you found some answers or figured out it on your own. Hoping I do the same! Best of luck to you!!

Good day! I am a 2a hair type.

Just want to know? After brusing, co-washing and foam mousse, do I just leave my hair to dry? or can I put curlers in to dry on it’s own?

Kind Regards Melizani

Hi Melizani! Thanks for your question 🙂 I would recommend adding a light weight leave-in conditioner to your routine such as Kinky Curly Knot Today, Curl Flo or Novex Black. Air drying is definitely preferable for any curly or wavy hair type. If you use hair curlers without heat that is also totally fine!

Thank you for sharing this with us!

Thank you for your comment!

Does anyone have any recommendations for shampoos and conditioners? also, after I’ve washed my hair should I just rinse it out, put some mousse/gel in it and leave it to dry?

To name a few: Inahsi’s Shampoo is a very good choice. This shampoo is very suitable for wavy hair. Inahsi is also largely made of natural ingredients. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/inahsi-naturals-soothing-mint-gentle-cleansing-shampoo/?vl=30-ml-sample

Shea Moisture Manuka Honey & Yogurt Hydrate + Repair Conditioner. This conditioner is great for detangling and hydrating wavy hair. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/shea-moisture-manuka-honey-yogurt-conditioner/?vl=384-ml

After you’ve washed your hair you should moisturize it using a leave-in conditioner. The Direct Leave-in Weightless Moisture is creamy, has a very light scent, and works well for all curl types. It’s light but still moisturizing enough to soften hair and help with detangling. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/giovanni-direct-leave-in-weightless-moisture-conditioner/?vl=30-ml-sample

For more curl definition you can you use either a mousse or a gel. The Shea Moisture Coconut and Hibiscus Frizz Free Curl Mousse has won multiple awards for how well-suited it is as both a mousse and curl enhancer. But the best part is that this product is perfect for all hair types. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/shea-moisture-coconut-hibiscus-mousse/

The Jessicurl Spiralicious Styling Gel defines and clumps curls without making them greasy. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/jessicurl-spiralicious-gel/?vl=237-ml

Hello! So, my hair is naturally wavy however, I’m unsure of how to “bring out” my waves and have them look nice. My hair is always frizzy, puffy, half wavy, half straight, my baby hairs are like coils and I can never get my hair to look okay. Naturally, my front bits if my hair look like they’re bangs, and they go super wavy and whenever I blow-dry my hair, it is so frizzy and puffy, do you have any advice on how to sort my hair out? It would help me a lot.

Thanks, Jorja.

I can relate with what you’re experiencing, as I have multiple curl patterns as well! Please know that it is completely normal to have this, everybody’s hair is unique! I try to imitate the looser curl to my tighter curls. Try fingercoiling the looser parts and scrunch them up a littler more so that it resembles the rest of your hair. To eliminate the frizz use either a mousse or a gel. Since, your hair tends to frizz up I would suggest using a gel because that is heavier (you don’t need a lot!). Use the prayer hand method to distribute it allover your hair and scrunch afterwards.

For blow drying, firstly, prep you hair first with a heat protectant. Than use a pre-drying smoothing product. Apply this when hair is damp before your blow-dry—and you can use a tiny bit when the hair is dry too for extra shine and flyaway control. Furthermore, investing in a professional-level hair dryer will make all the difference you’re looking for, according to stylists. Dry your hair in the direction that it grows to reduce frizz. Use a bristle or ceramic brush. The type of brush you use while blow drying your hair can make all the difference when it comes to reducing frizz and accomplishing a sleek final look. If pesky flyaways and frizz are still making an unwelcome appearance, try using a light spray wax or a matte pomade to calm your hair.

Read this article for a more in depth explanation: https://hellogiggles.com/reduce-blow-dry-frizz/

Hi, I’m a 2a/b and I’m just about to start the wavy girl method but I’m having trouble figuring out exactly how it works, for example: when do I brush my hair? How often should I wash it? As a teenager, I have never used gels or mousses, are they necessary? Sorry for all the questions, thank you! 🙂

Thank you for your comment😊. You can brush your hair after you have completely washed it. Wash your hair every 3-4 days. You don’t want to do this too much as it dries out your hair and strips it from its oils. Gels are not really necessary only if you aim for curl definition. Mousses however helps with frizz.

My hair is now less exposed to chemicals for healthy hair.

Great to hear!!

– Team Kurlify💜

How do you recommend drying hair on a wash day? I know air drying is preferred, but my hair is long (bra strap length) and thick. If I wash it in the morning, it doesn’t dry on its own until the afternoon and going to work with wet hair isn’t really an option for me. (I’ve tried showering at night, but my hair is still damp when I wake up, the waves are uneven, and I have weird pieces sticking out near the scalp depending on how I slept.)

Microfiber towels are amazing at not only helping your hair to dry faster, but also in setting your waves. After you have applied your styler, flip your head over and scrunch sections from the ends up to the roots with the towel. You will need to move the towel for each new section to ensure you are working with dry fabric. Flip your head back, and continue scrunching, being careful to not disturb your wave clumps.

Also, avoid using slow-drying styling products and swap them out with lighter alternatives. Gels, in particular, take forever to form a cast. If you have a cream-based leave-in underneath your gel, the drying time will increase exponentially. Leave-in sprays, which are light and water-based dry faster than cream-based ones.

Thanks so much for this article, I’ve just started to work on getting my waves back and this is really useful!

I know you said it’s okay to brush wavy hair but when I brush my dry hair I tend to brush most of the waves out, even if I spray a leave in conditioner on first. Is this something that will get better over time as the waves improve?

Thanks, Keeva

You should be using a wide tooth brush with soft bristles so that it detangles your hair and also help to maintain the curls. When styling twist your hair with your brush for that extra curl effect 😉. Mousses also help to hold the waves!

Hope this helps 😊,

Thanks for your comment and how nice that you are working on getting your waves back.

It’s best to brush your hair when it’s wet, because when it’s dry you’ll comb out all the curls and of course you don’t want that! That’s why I recommend you to only brush your hair when it’s wet and then apply your styling routine.

The curly hairstyle is very lovely

For sure! 😍

Hiya, so glad I found this article. I think my hair is 2b but I’ve just started the CG method but finding my hair is looking straggly, the curls are separated and the underneath of my hair dries with a waxy/greasy residue. I’ve been using sulphate free shampoo, leave in conditioner and then a curl cream or a curl gel. Any tips? From reading this I think I need a mousse rather than a gel! Thanks

Indeed! Mousses are light weight and are less drying than gels. So, I think that will be the best option for you!

Hi I’m new to the WGM, but after I already read a lot about it, I think, I’m not too far away from a good handling of my waves. It uses to work really well for me, but since I’m off the pill, everything’s different… A lot of frizz and the hair feels and looks dry, my scalp is oilier than before (and it already was pretty oily before, but I could handle it with dry shampoo (mere corn starch!)). I tried using more of my mousse to help with the definition of the strands, and it did help a lot, but the rest of the problems stays. Now, I don’t know where to start changing something. I use only natural cosmetics without silicones, but the mousse and the intensive hair treatment I use (the latter like a Conditioner) have alcohol in them, of which I read isn’t good, and the shampoo has a sulfate, of which I read in turn is one that’s ok for wavy hair. Where could the source of my problems lay? What should I try doing differntly?

I’d be terribly happy about some hints!

Hi Isabelle!

To combat frizzyness you can do multiple things. Here’s a great article with 20 tips on how to reduce frizz for wavy hair https://thecuriousjalebi.com/2017/08/06/20-tips-to-reduce-frizz-in-curly-wavy-hair/

Here’s also an article from the same curly girl on how to reduce dryness! https://thecuriousjalebi.com/2017/07/11/frizzy-dry-curly-hair-tips/

I love curly hair.

Here with you 🙋‍♀️

Hi, I’m new to the WGM. I have thick, wavy hair- probably a 2a or 2b but, my hair also gets oily really quickly. Any tips on the routine or products I should use/avoid?

Thanks for your comment! For waves in type 2a and 2b, it is important to especially avoid using heavy products for your hair. This can cause your waves to sag. Avoid ingredients like coconut oil, castor oil and other heavy oils. It is best to use water-based products.

It is also helpful to keep this in mind if you suffer from oily hair. Try not to skip wash days too often and wash your hair with a nourishing shampoo that focuses on thoroughly cleaning the hair.

Hope this helps,

Hello, what do you recommend on days 2 and 3 to get nice waves? I have 2a-2b long layered hair and I put gel on wash day. Somehow the result varies from one time to the other but generally the waves are better on day 2 if I spray some water on it and scrunch but for sure on day 3 I have to tie my hair as it seems the waves cannot be ressusitated anymore and it just looks bad. Also, even if I only put gel on day 1, it ends up getting a bit sticky on days 2 and 3 without necessarily waving more. Any recommendations for me? Thanks!

Hi Christelle,

Thank you for your comment! I would recommend using hair mousses as it is not as heavy as gels. This means you can use it daily without getting too much build up and revive your hair when needed.

doesn’t hold anything. I have used a gel from innersense, I create hold, but it also did nothing and didn’t hold my waves. So I was about to by a strong hold gel, Boucleme – Super Hold Styler. But maybe I shouldn’t

The Boucleme Super Hold Styler is a great option! The gel is moisturising and has a serum-like consistency making it effortless to apply. Smooth and defined curls can be yours without any flaking or tell-tale stickiness. The gel dries to create a cast around curls, holding your style and curl shape with a lasting medium hold 😁. I would definitely recommend it!!

I always thought my hair was straight and just a little frizzy when it was humid. I noticed that my wet hair has some little waves. My hair is naturally blond. Very thin, but I’ve got a lot of hair. After finding out my hair is wavey I bought some products to help my waves. I use the super fruit complex shampoo and conditioner from Shea moisture. To style my (soaking wet) hair I use a little bit of curl cream and a handful of mousse. Both are from Kruidvat (cg-approved). After plopping my hair for 10-15 minutes I am very happy with the little beachy waves. But when I air dry or diffuse (low heat and low speed) my waves only hold for a few hours…

What can I do to make my 2a waves hold?

Hi Marloes!

Try using gels! Gels have a stronger hold and will therefore make your waves last longer. I recommend the Jessicurl Spiralicious Gel for a good volume and hold. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/jessicurl-spiralicious-gel/?vl=237-ml Or the Eco Styler Argan Oil gel for more defined curls. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/ecostyler-styling-gel-argan-oil/?vl=473-ml

Hello, I’ve just started embracing my wavy (2a/b) hair after 25 years of straightening. It’s fine but there’s a lot of it. I bought the Curlsmith wavy hair starter kit and although the waves are the best I’ve ever had, it’s looking really messy. There’s loose hairs on the top (I guess frizz but it’s not all of my hair, just the ones on top) and it looks like I just woke up and didn’t bother to do my hair. I used a Curlsmith gel thing and it’s helped a bit but is there any way to make it look neater and lose that frizz on the top?

Thank you so much; this article has been so helpful

Hi Elizabeth!

Thank you for you comment! We’re so happy that could help you😁!!

Wishing you fantastic curls😉

Hi I have 2a wavy hair and I am new to the wavy hair routine. I tend to get an oily scalp two to three days after a wash. Please suggest what products would be ideal to try, particularly a lightweight leave in conditioner?

Thanks so much!

Hi Meenakshi,

I would recommend using a final wash every now and then. This remove all of the build up oils out of your hair. You can try the Neutral Shampoo: https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/neutral-shampoo/?vl=30-ml-sample

You can try the Giovanni Direct Leave In Conditioner 250ml: https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/giovanni-direct-leave-in-weightless-moisture-conditioner/?vl=250-ml . This is a light weight conditioner.

Hope this helps!

Thank you very much; this article has been extremely beneficial.

Thank you for your comment and we’re so happy to hear that!☺️

A messy hair care routine. However, if I have curly hair I will definitely follow these procedures as well. Your article is great, I appreciate it.

Thank you so much!🥰

Hello, I have 2a-2b hair and have tried the CGM in the past but it just left my hair straggly and sticky. I’ve tried curl cream (cantu avocado curl activator cream) and it just leaves my hair sticky the next day. Do you have any curl cream recommendations or should I just not use curl cream? I’ve also tried mousse which doesn’t make my hair sticky but it doesn’t define my waves very well and they tend to go a bit limp. Should I use gel? I was thinking about using mousse and a very small amount of gel, what do you think?

Hi! Just stumbled across this post and it’s super helpful and I feel seen and heard finally! I have 2b/2c waves and most of the CG method works for me, but the one thing I can’t get past and don’t know how to do, is wash my scalp without washing my hair. In the beginning of my journey, I tried washing once a week but by day 2 or 3 my scalp was SO ITCHY. My waves are 2b/2c but I have fine strands but a TON of hair and need products that are both lightweight BUT strong hold. It’s been a challenge!

Hi Hannah, thanks for your comments. We hear you on finally feeling heard =)

Finding your perfect hair routine can be a long journey for sure. Have you done a final wash? I find that with wavy hair from time to time (max once per month) a final wash helps remove buildup. Additionally, it could help with your scalp issues as long as you don’t overuse clarifying or sulphate containing shampoos.

Have you read our article on scalp problems ?

Some general tips include: -> Products containing tea tree oil and peppermint. -> Rinse scalp with cold water post washing.

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The Curly (CG) Method

Learning how to manage and love your curly hair is a journey. There are many people alongside you, as members of the curly hair community live around the globe. When you’re getting started, there’s a lot of terminology used by the community that you should understand.

Some key phrases you hear often are “The Curly Girl (or CG) Method” and “Curly Girl Approved”. But what do those terms mean?

The Curly Girl Method is a widely used hair care system among those with wavy, curly, coily, and kinky hair. It is a way to care for your tresses so your natural texture can thrive.

Curly Twirly Girl believes that you and your hair deserve to be healthy and vibrant. Regardless of your curl type , the CG Method can help heal your hair and restore the moisture curly hair craves.

Before explaining how to use the CG Method, let’s start with why it was created and how it works.

What is the Curly Girl Method?

Although similar hair care methods already existed, the Curly Girl Method was introduced by Lorraine Massey, hairstylist and founder of Devachan Salons, DevaCurl, and Curly World products. In 2001, she outlined her hair philosophy in The Curly Girl Handbook , which was met with wide acclaim. For a long time, straight hair was considered the ideal hair type. Instead of enhancing one’s natural texture, most women used flat irons and chemical relaxers to meet this standard of beauty. Since Lorraine was a woman who struggled with her own curls, she used her career to champion the acceptance of curly hair and teach women how to care for their unique hair. While men with waves, curls, and coils can also use this method, the movement is named to reflect the greater societal pressure on women to have “presentable” hair. The core of the CG Method centres on discouraging the use of shampoo, products containing silicones, heat styling, brushes/combs, and terrycloth towels. In the next sections, you’ll learn why you should avoid these things and what you can do instead.

How does the CG Method work?

Wavy, curly, and afro-textured hair has specialised needs because of its structure. The outer layer, the cuticle, is open – which leaves it vulnerable to damage and moisture loss. Therefore, it needs to be treated delicately. Much of what we’ve learned about hair care is not suited for these hair types, and can actually harm it in the long run. The main offender is shampoo. It may seem counterintuitive to stop using shampoo, but there are many reasons why conventional shampoos are damaging to your hair and scalp. Sulfates are the most common ingredient in shampoo. These harsh surfactants strip natural oils from your hair, which are meant to coat the cuticle and keep it sealed. In response to being stripped of protection, your scalp will overproduce sebum. The excess of oil and build-up then creates a vicious cycle, because your scalp becomes reliant on shampooing to stay clean. In addition, shampoo disrupts the pH balance of your hair and scalp, which contributes to dullness and damage. Silicone is another problematic ingredient. Most commercial hair products that reduce frizz or add shine contain silicones (such as Dimethicone, Cetearyl Methicone, and Cyclopentasiloxane). These chemicals form a layer over the hair shaft, which merely creates the appearance of health. However, this layer prevents the hair from absorbing moisture and nutrients which keep it healthy. Most silicone is not water soluble and will not rinse out, so you must use a clarifying shampoo to remove it. Other major culprits in damaging the cuticle are friction and heat. The friction caused by brushing, combing dry hair, and rough towels disrupt curl shape – which creates frizzy, broken, and unmanageable hair. Heat styling and UV damage have similar effects because they sap the inner layers of hydration. See how this is all coming together? The CG Method offers alternatives to these destructive habits so your hair can reach peak health and beauty.

Getting Started

Now that you know why the Curly Girl Method is helpful to maintaining your gorgeous locks, you can begin the process of bringing out your hair’s true potential. The CG Method is two-fold, consisting of a specific routine and implementing Curly Girl Approved products. “CG Approved” refers to products that don’t contain ingredients that are known to cause hair damage or build-up, such as sulfates, silicones, and drying alcohols. Most hair products you see on the shelves at drugstores and salons alike are full of these ingredients. Thankfully, products that attend to the needs of natural hair are becoming more widely available. It may be several weeks before you notice a significant change in your hair. It may actually look worse while it adjusts. Be patient, and don’t give up: it will be worth the wait. Just as it took a long time to develop the damage to your precious curls, the healing process isn’t an instant phenomenon. This is a lifestyle change, and you must take the journey to reach your destination.

How to follow the CG Method

• lightweight, or cleansing, conditioner
• thicker conditioner
• wide toothed comb , such as a wide tooth shower comb
• microfiber towel or cotton shirt
• leave-in conditioner
• styler such as a hair oil, gel, mousse, and/or curl cream

Step One: Cleansing

Your first wash with the Curly Girl Method will be your last wash with a sulfate shampoo. This will remove all of the silicones and dirt built-up on your hair so you can start from scratch. After this point, you’ll begin washing your hair with conditioner, which is known as “co-washing”. The friction from massaging it in with your fingertips is sufficient to release dead skin from the scalp and wash out sweat, oil, and residue. Now that the products you’ll be using are water-soluble, they can be easily rinsed out without the need for drying detergents. Depending on your specific needs, you can co-wash anywhere from once a week to daily. If you hesitate to stop using shampoo, some people have success with a sulfate-free variety. Look for ingredients that cleanse hair without stripping it, such as Coco Betaine or Cocamidopropyl Betaine. Sulfate-free shampoos are also recommended when hair is exposed to chlorine, since conditioner alone cannot wash it out.

Step Two: Conditioning

It goes without saying that the conditioning step is important for providing your hair with key nutrients and ensuring it is well-hydrated. This step is not very different from how you conditioned your hair before. You’ll want to distribute the product evenly through your hair, from root to tip, and leave it on for at least five minutes. Where the Curly Girl Method differs is that you won’t be rinsing it out completely, so it can continue to nourish your hair until your next wash. People with very dry hair may opt to not rinse out their conditioner at all. This is also the point where you will detangle your hair, either with a wide-tooth comb or your fingers. While you still have conditioner in your hair, start from the bottom and gradually move upwards. You will want to be extremely gentle, so you do not rip the knots and break off hair. If you have too much trouble working through tangles, you probably need a trim.

Step Three: Drying

It’s time to ditch your regular towel and use a soft fabric, such as microfiber or cotton, to soak up the extra water. Apply a thin coat of leave-in conditioner, then cup your hair and scrunch it very gently with the cloth. Use upward grasping motions or scrunch with your head upside down, to increase volume. People with wavy and curly hair will want to air dry for five minutes before styling, but very curly girls should start adding products while their hair is still wet. Alternatively, you can try “plopping”. This is a method of wrapping your hair up that encourages curl volume and does not create tension on the scalp. It works best if your hair is at least medium length.You start by laying your towel or shirt flat on a surface and tipping your head downward, so your hair is positioned in the center of the cloth. Lower your head until it touches the cloth, then drape the outer section over the back of your head. Twist the sides of the towel to secure it over your whole head (or use a long-sleeved shirt, for convenience), then clip or tie the ends at the nape of your neck. After about 15 to 30 minutes, remove the cloth.

Step Four: Styling

This is the step that varies the most from one person to another. As you learn more about your hair, you can tailor your styling ritual to the look and feel you prefer. The main effects you should look for are moisture retention, frizz prevention, UV/heat protection, and curl definition. A popular styling routine with people who use the Curly Girl Method is known as “LOC” (Leave-in conditioner, Oil, and Cream or gel). This technique adds moisture, shapes your curls, and locks the style into place. Whatever routine or products you use, application is key. Separate your hair into sections, rub the product between your hands to create an even layer, then smooth it into each section for even coverage. To define your curl shape, you can opt to scrunch your hair or twist individual pieces.Once your hair is set with a gel or curl cream, you are finally done. To preserve your style until your next wash, you should sleep with a satin bonnet or pillowcase and spritz your hair next day with a curl-refreshing spray (a 50/50 mixture of water and conditioner will suffice).

The Curly Girl Method is a complete overhaul that will transform your hair for the better.You should now have enough knowledge under your belt that you can keep up with the lingo and take care of your gorgeous curls.

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How To Do the Curly Girl Method: A Guide for Every Curl and Coil

Many curly-haired people spent the early 2000s fighting against their curls because they didn’t know how to take care of them, and pin-straight strands were “in.” Contrary to those former beliefs, curly hair isn’t difficult — it just takes a bit of moisture and TLC to revive and accentuate your beautiful natural hair .

Despite its name, the curly girl method is for people of all genders. Curly-haired people everywhere can follow Lorraine Massey’s formula to bring their curls back to life and fall in love with their hair. When you’re ready to start your hair journey, give the curly girl method a try and visit your local salon for an expert curly haircut .

What is the curly girl method?

The curly girl method is a system that outlines basic care tips for curly hair. Lorraine Massey, inventor of the Deva cut , came up with this method in her 2011 book “ Curly Girl: The Handbook .” This hair care system focuses on rebuilding hair health and addresses common concerns about curly hair, including:

• Frizz from damage and incorrect styling
• Breakage from overusing hot tools
• Lack of definition from dry hair
• Lack of volume from product buildup

By following Massey’s basic rules for hair care, you can unlock defined curls. While some people have quite extensive curl routines, you can mix and match products and strategies until you find what works for you.

Step 1: Use a gentle co-wash or shampoo

Wavy hair tip: Waves will get oily quicker. Plan a wash day once your roots go flat.

Curly hair tip: Use a curl revitalizer to manage your hair between washes.

Coily hair tip: Wait until you need a reset to wash your hair again. You can wet your hair and restyle it before it gets too oily.

Some people might have scalp irritation if their co-wash isn’t cleansing enough. You can try using a silicone scalp massager to lift dirt from your scalp and encourage gentle exfoliation with your co-wash.

When you’re dealing with frizz and a lack of definition with your curls, this might be a sign that your hair is dry. Traditional shampoos contain sulfates, which cause that lathering effect we all love. But sulfates can be too harsh. Especially on curly hair, it’s good to have a bit of your natural oil to keep your hair hydrated.

To start, double cleanse your hair in the shower. Use your normal shampoo first, then your new, sulfate-free shampoo. Going forward, you’ll only wash with the sulfate-free shampoo. Another popular choice, especially for textured hair, is co-wash. Co-wash is a hair conditioner with some cleansing properties that is very gentle on your hair.

Check your other styling products and remove ones with silicones in the ingredients, too, as silicones coat your hair and can be difficult to wash away. A common silicone found in hair care is dimethicone. Overusing dry shampoo can also cause product buildup and irritate your scalp. 

If you still feel like your hair has product buildup, you can use a clarifying shampoo once in a while and follow up with a deep conditioner to restore your curls. Some people opt to keep a favorite product in their routine even if it contains silicones. In this case, consider using a clarifying shampoo every four or so washes to remove the silicones from your hair.

Step 2: Condition and moisturize your hair

Wavy hair tip: Rinse your hair completely, then add a small amount of conditioner back to your strands right before leaving the shower to avoid greasy hair.

Curly hair tip: Rinse your hair in the shower but leave enough slip for easy detangling.

Coily hair tip: Use a deep conditioning mask each time you wash to lock in hydration continually.

Squish to condish (S2C):

Squish conditioner into soaking wet hair to help form frizz-free curls and promote better hair hydration.

When it comes to conditioning your curls, more is more. Take at least a handful of conditioner and work it down the length of your hair. Once your hair is saturated with conditioner, then you can use your fingers, a wide tooth comb, or a brush meant for wet hair to gently detangle.

Many people with curly hair like to “squish to condish.” With this strategy, you scrunch conditioner into your wet hair to help form curls. Not sure you’re doing it right? Try this:

• Bring a large bowl into the shower with you.
• Fill the bowl with water.
• Liberally apply conditioner throughout your hair.
• Flip your head over and lower your hair into the water.
• Scrunch the water out of your hair. 
• Repeat until your hair feels silky and makes a squelching noise when you scrunch it.

It’s important to note that you shouldn’t wash out all your conditioner if you have curly hair. Leaving a bit of conditioner in your hair will help keep it conditioned and shiny. 

You can also use a deep conditioning mask or treatment weekly to add extra moisture to your routine. Some curls also do well with a protein treatment every once in a while, though low-porosity types might find that protein masks make their hair feel brittle.

Step 3: Gently detangle and define your curls

Wavy hair tip: Use a brush made for wet hair with synthetic bristles.

Curly hair tip: Use a wide tooth comb to detangle without breaking up your curls.

Coily hair tip: Use your fingers for the most control when detangling your strands.

Rake and shake:

Use your fingers to gently rake detangling product or leave-in conditioner through the length of your hair, then section off hair in 1-to-2-inch segments and shake each section until your natural curl forms.

People with curly hair should always detangle their hair when it’s wet and conditioned. If you brush your curls dry, you’ll lose that definition we’re working toward! However, wet hair is very prone to breakage. 

Conditioner gives wet hair enough slip to detangle without pulling on your strands, but try to go slow. Start by detangling the last couple inches of your hair and slowly work your way to your roots to minimize breakage. 

Step 4: Apply styling products

Wavy hair tip: Use a mousse for weightless volume.

Curly hair tip: Use a gel for a soft hold and healthy shine.

Coily hair tip: Use cream for hydration and care.

Scrunch out the crunch (SOTC):

Let hair gel dry in your hair completely, then scrunch your hair and shake it until your curls become soft and bouncy.

The curly girl method highly recommends starting with gel to style your hair. Although it may bring up memories of rock-hard hairstyles from adolescence, the good news is that gel has come a long way. Now, you can get soft, bouncy hair with hold that lasts all day.

The key step you were missing as a kid? It’s called “scrunch the crunch.” Here’s how you can try it:

• Apply gel to wet hair in the shower.
• Use your fingers or a Denman brush to sculpt your hair into curls.
• Gently scrunch curls with a cotton T-shirt and let the product dry completely.
• Use your hands to scrunch your curls all over your head until your hair feels soft.

For people with coily hair, the leave-in, oil, and cream (LOC) method is a popular rule of thumb for choosing styling products. The LOC method is simple — you just apply a leave-in conditioner, hair oil, and hair cream in that order. Some people prefer LCO, where you use hair cream and then seal it with an oil. Experiment both ways to see which works best for your hair.

If you want to try the LOC or LCO method, conduct a mix test with your products ahead of time. Mix a bit of your favorite leave-in conditioner, oil, and cream in the palm of your hand. If they mix together easily, they’re more likely to work well together in your hair. If the mixture separates, you might want to try a new combination of products.

Step 5: Air dry or diffuse your hair

Wavy hair tip: Use your fingers or a Denman brush to shape wet hair into curls before you dry it.

Curly hair tip: Flip your hair upside down while drying or plop it for extra volume at the root.

Coily hair tip: Take extra care to avoid heat to preserve your fragile curls, unless your hair type doesn’t dry on its own.

Hang your hair upside down over a T-shirt or microfiber towel and lower your head to it. Secure the towel to preserve how your curls lie on its surface and leave your hair up to partially dry for 15 to 20 minutes.

According to Massey, curly hair types should avoid heat styling as much as possible because curly hair is already prone to breakage, and it’s very easy to damage your hair. That’s why it’s extra important for curly-haired people to use a heat protectant when they’re using hot tools.

However, there’s no one-size-fits-all care routine, and everyone’s ideal hair routine is slightly different. Many people with curly hair enjoy diffusing their hair dry or hitting their roots with some air to lock in extra volume.

It sounds counterintuitive, but consider turning up the temperature on your hair dryer. Many of us were warned to keep it as cool as possible, but prolonged low-heat exposure can be as damaging as shorter exposure to high heat. As long as your hair isn’t burning and you use heat protectant, you should be good to go. Finish off your styling with a shot of cool air to lock your hard work in place.

Do’s and don’ts of the curly girl method

Now that you have a basic understanding of the curly girl method, let’s talk through some common misconceptions:

• Use styling products while your hair is soaking wet.
• Use protein treatments if you color your hair .
• Sleep in a bonnet or silk scarf wrap to protect your hair.
• Use high heat and low power when blow-drying your hair.
• Use curl revitalizer or spray diluted conditioner to revive second-day curls.
• Get a haircut from a stylist who specializes in curly hair types.
• Check if new hair products are curly girl-approved .
• Brush your hair when it’s dry.
• Use hairbrushes with natural bristles.
• Touch your hair while you’re waiting for it to dry.
• Rub your hair dry or use a bath towel on it.
• Switch your shampoo if you use a medicated formula.
• Wash your hair with hot water.

Curly girl method FAQs

The curly girl method has just four stages: 1. Cleanse 2. Condition 3. Style 4. Dry There can be variations between how much effort you put into each stage. For example, you might want to have a simple wash routine but take extra time to style and dry. It’s all about what your hair responds to best and creating a routine that you can be consistent with.

The curly girl method won’t change your natural hair pattern. However, there are many cases where people with straight, frizzy hair try the curly girl method and discover that their hair care routines made their hair look straighter than it actually is. Damaged curls can look frizzy, flattened, and limp. If you think your straight hair might actually have curls that need some extra care, give the curly girl method a try for a couple of weeks and see if it works for you.

Most curly-haired people agree that you should try a curly girl routine for at least a couple of weeks. Unless you’re experiencing scalp irritation or your hair is getting drier, give your new routine some time to kick in. Some people discover that their hair looks oilier the first couple of washes on the curly girl method. This is a response to the extra moisture in your routine, but your scalp should adjust in a couple of weeks. If not, try tweaking how you apply your products or swap them out one at a time until you find what works best for you.

A basic curly hair routine uses just shampoo, conditioner, and gel. While hair gel doesn’t work for everyone, most people find success with it. If you decide to use a diffuser to dry your hair, you should also add a heat protectant to your routine. When you’d like to expand your hair care, you can integrate a detangler, leave-in conditioner, cream, or oil.

The curly girl method is a great place to start with your curly hair routine because it helps create a foundation where you can learn more about what works for your hair. Looking for more expert tips? Reach out to a hairstylist near you for recommendations to help you style your new look.

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The 51 Best Curly Girl Method-Approved Products I've Tried

It has now been more than two years since I made the life-changing decision of following The Curly Girl Method . Time surely flies! The curly girl journey has been very fulfilling, and I’m never turning back. The truth is that I have tried a lot of products over these past two years! The constant trial and error trend can take a toll in our pockets, so I decided to keep track of all the products that performed the best in the long term. Here I am sharing a comprehensive list of all the products I have found to be most beneficial and reliable for curls. From my curl diary to you: let’s dive into it!

My natural curls, cleansed, conditioned & styled with CurlyWorld products.

When it comes to cleansing scalp and hair, I like to use two types of products: a conditioning cleanser (no-poo”> or a conditioner suitable for cleansing (co-washing”>. A good conditioning cleanser is a non-greasy conditioner that contains a mild surfactant in a small amount. A conditioner suitable for co-washing is always botanically-derived and should be enough to leave a clean feeling on the scalp, without any buildup.

My favorite conditioning cleansers:

1. curlyworld sham-free hair and scalp cleanser, 2.  boucleme curl cleanser (green color”>, 3.  nyc curls the curl cleanser.

CurlyWorld Sham-Free cleanses the scalp very well, adding a “cooling” sensation to the skin. I did a thorough review of the entire CurlyWorld line here . It continues to be a favorite of mine. The NYC Curls Cleanser has a similar effect and cleanses the scalp very well. The Boucleme Curl Cleanser is also a favorite of mine. Each of these cleansers are perfect for all kinds of curl.

The best conditioners for co-washing in my opinion, so far:

4. briogeo be gentle, be kind avocado + quinoa co-wash, 5. long hair don’t care conditioner, 6. everescents organic fresh mint conditioner, 7. giovanni tea tree invigorating conditioner.

The Briogeo Co-wash is very easy to use because it comes in a large pump bottle. Long Hair Don’t Care is a minty conditioner that cools your scalp. I did a thorough review of Long Hair Don’t Care here . The Everescents Organic Fresh Mint Conditioner adds the same cleansing and cooling effect while moisturizing very well. Everescents is a local Australian and organic salon brand that designs high quality products, including products suitable for curly hair. For those who prefer to use budget friendly products, the Giovanni Tea Tree is an affordable conditioner that leaves a clean feel on the scalp and hair.

Results using Giovanni & AG products.

Conditioners for hydration.

A good conditioner, in my opinion, is easily dissolved in water, botanically derived and does not leave an oily feeling on the scalp and hair when left in. I always prefer lightweight conditioners for hydration and shine. I also like to leave some conditioner in the hair, by performing a “trickle” rinse on the scalp.

The best conditioners that I have come across so far:

8. curlyworld terms and conditions, 9. boucleme curl conditioner, 10. nyc curls the curl conditioner, 11. all everescents conditioners, 12. ag boost apple cider vinegar conditioner, 13. giovanni smooth as silk deeper moisture conditioner, 14. giovanni 50:50 balanced hydrating-calming conditioner, leave-in conditioners.

Leave-in conditioners are “lighter” versions of regular conditioners. They can also be used for hydration. They are designed to be left in the hair. Personally in my routine, I either use a regular conditioner or a Leave-in conditioner. I don’t usually use both at once.

My favorite leave-in conditioners are:

15. kinky-curly knot today, 16. innersense sweet spirit leave in conditioner, 17. slick kids natural plant based hair detangler, 18. curl keeper leave-in conditioner, 19. ash:ba botanics leave-in conditioner, 20. giovanni direct leave-in weightless moisture conditioner.

Kinky-Curly Knot Today is a great leave-in conditioner for dry climates. Innersense Sweet Spirit and the Slick Kids Hair Detangler come in spray form. They work for anyone, including children and adults with the finest of curls. My coarse curly hair loves then both! The Giovanni Weightless Leave-in Conditioner is also very popular among fine haired curlies. Curl Keeper and Ash:ba leave-in conditioners are easy to distribute and add a lot of shine to waves and curls of all kinds.

Curls styled with Ash:ba Botanics Leave-in conditioner and gel.

Styling creams and lotions.

I like using styling creams and lotions whenever I have a special occasion on, or when I want my wash days to last longer. Styling creams and lotions are really good for enhancing natural curls and providing mild, touchable hold without the crunch. They work perfectly under a gel. A good styling cream or lotion for me is one that doesn’t feel tacky, crispy, oily and one that doesn’t weigh any type of hair down.

Some top quality styling creams and lotions:

21. devacurl styling cream, 22. everescents universal styling cream, 23. ag hair re:coil curl activator, 24. innersense i create volume (lotion”>, 25. curl keeper original (lotion”>.

Devacurl Styling Cream provides definition without any residues. Everescents Universal Styling Cream does the very same. AG: Hair Re:coil is an amazing curl definer because it contains Amino Acids and Magnesium. Innersense I Create Volume adds amazing shine with impeccable volume and frizz control. Curl Keeper Original is extremely effective with frizz control in humid weather.

A simple routine using Long Hair Don’t Care conditioner and Ecoslay Orange Marmalade Gel.

Gels are incredible for curly hair because they have the ability of providing long lasting hold. They add a protective layer to curly hair styles. A good gel for me is one that doesn’t stay crunchy once the gel cast is scrunched out , yet offers long lasting hold and definition.

The best gels that I have come across:

26. curlyworld leave in lover, 27. innersense i create hold, 28. slick kids natural plant based hair gel, 29. nyc curls the curl gel, 30. kinky-curly curling custard, 31. trepadora acai berry fix defining gel, 32. ecoslay orange marmalade, 33. ash:ba botanics curl defining gel, 34. beyond the zone bada bing extreme hold gel, 35. giovanni la hold styling gel, 36. bumble and bumble curl anti-humidity gel oil, curl keeper gel.

Curls styled with Kinky-Curly Knot Today & Curling Custard.

In my opinion, a good foam has the ability to enhance natural curls and impart mild hold with volume. Foams are good multitaskers. You can use them under a gel or in place of a gel. I prefer to use them under a gel, as a replacement for a styling cream. The best thing about foams is that they dry faster than creams.

My favorite foams are:

37. ag hair cloud, 38. innersense i create lift.

My curls in a gentle bun, using the Slick Kids hair spray.

Finding a hairspray suitable for the Curly Girl Method is hard, because the vast majority of hairsprays are full of drying alcohols. I was lucky enough to find budget friendly hair sprays in larger bottles that are fully Curly Girl friendly, and they work wonderfully! I love using hairspray on days that I don’t feel like dealing with my hair. My go-to style is a gentle bun using a large donut, bobby pins and a Curly Girl friendly hairspray that doesn’t harm my curls, to keep the style in place all day long.

My favorite hairsprays are:

39. honeybee gardens alcohol free hair spray, 40. slick kids natural alcohol free hair spray, deep conditioners.

Deep conditioning is an important part of restoring curl health. Good deep conditioners have the ability to penetrate deeper into the hair shaft, adding a boost of moisture for the days to come. I like deep conditioners that don’t weigh my hair down.

My favorite deep conditioners:

41. everescents organic remedy treatment, 42. everescents organic cinnamon & patchouli deep treatment, 43. everescents organic berry blonde treatment, 44. kinky-curly stellar strands, 45. matrix biolage hydrasource balm, 46. devacurl heaven in hair, 47. boucleme intensive moisture treatment.

Very shiny curls after deep conditioning with Kinky-Curly Stellar Strands.

Products for refreshing.

These days I am not very big on refreshing. This is because re-wetting my curls on non-wash days can cause a lot of frizz, to the point where I need to wash my curls again. I have found that the best way to make a light refresh work for me involves applying a small amount of product on dry hair with either dry or wet hands, depending on the weather. The products below have worked wonders for me in the past two years.

My best refreshers:

48. curlyworld leave in lover, 49. innersense i create volume, 50. kinky-curly spiral spritz, 51. curl keeper tweek.

Day 3 curls, lightly refreshed with some CurlyWorld Leave in Lover gel.

Keeping a record of the best performing products in your journey will save you money in the long term. Having a curl diary will help you enormously with this. I have found these products to be extremely beneficial for my curly girl journey. Do you have your own list of holy grail products? If you do, feel free to share with us in the comments section below!

50 Things Every Beginner Should Know about their Wavy or Curly Hair Journey

Hi guys! I’m Pallavi, the blogger behind The Curious Jalebi. If you’re new here, welcome to my corner of the internet where I discuss and motivate young women in India to love their natural hair.

In this post I’m going to talk to you about the most common problems, questions and issues that arises when you start your natural hair journey.

Get yourself a big cup of tea and take your time with this – don’t freak out at the length. Feel free to bookmark this and read in parts because each point is important and you will face them at some point in your journey.

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Wavy or curly hair is naturally dry

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The oil from our scalp does not reach the ends of our hair because of it’s shape. Hence, additional products are needed to ensure they get hydrated, moisturised and defined! Expecting great curly hair with just  a shampoo is a mistake!

Read these 10 things you should Learn about Natural Hair

It will seem overwhelming, at FIRST

You will have to read, watch and do your researching my sweetlings. No one can spoon feed you what’s the best for your hair. During your research, try to start with the basics and try them out first before reading more to not feel confused and overwhelmed! Start with baby steps! I’m always an email, comment or DM away if you want more clarification!

Read: Curly Hair Tips For Beginners

Find out your hair type

This is essential in avoiding confusion and finding a similar hair routine to start with! Many of you will think your hair is curly when in fact it is wavy (from my experience). So find out- is your hair light wavy, very wavy, curly or kinky ? Click the below link!

Why Your Hair Won’t Look Like Mine – Natural Hair Types

One size does not fit all

You may have 2-3 different hair types on your head. The weather or water where you live could be different from someone else. What results you like might not be loved by someone else! Key is to experiment and learn what your hair loves because one routine will not suit everyone.

Difference in wavy and curly hair routines

If you have wavy hair but try curly hair routines you are bound to get disappointed with the results! Instead, choose from the two to begin your natural hair journey.

How to Start CG Method on Wavy Hair How to Start CG Method on Curly Hair

(CGM or Curly Girl Method is a philosophy followed by curly girls across the world)

Conditioners or CG Method doesn’t CAUSE hair fall

This is SO important for you to learn! One of the most common complaints is I started CG but I have hair fall .

This is what usually happens- we shed 50-100 hair strands normally everyday that come out when you comb everyday. But in CGM or curly techniques, you only comb twice or thrice a week after applying a conditioner inside the shower and after a leave in conditioner or curl cream outside it. The un-shed hair that is trapped suddenly comes out while combing in the shower and suddenly you feel like that’s a LOT when it’s not true.

Want to test this theory out? Start washing and combing your hair every 3 days, then 2 days then everyday to see how the amount that falls reduces!

You should also be using your fingers to detangle your hair gently with some oil before your shampoo and ensure your conditioner is slippery enough to ensure less breakage.

See a dermatologist for hair fall

If you’re still having excessive hair fall, instead of panicking, go to the doctor. Rule out stress, water quality, iron deficiency, hormonal imbalances (pcod, thyroid) and vitamin deficiency (B12, D).

Desi nuske (DIY Hacks) won’t help solve medical issues, remember that!

You don’t need expensive products to get healthy natural hair

So many of my readers have found affordable products and achieved beautiful healthy hair so don’t stress if you can’t afford many international products. You can also learn to multipurpose a conditioner by using it as a leave in conditioner as well . I’ve included some links for pocket-friendly routines.

Pocket-Friendly Routine With Vilvah Shampoo, Reequil Conditioners & Ashba Botanics Affordable Conditioners in India DIY Flaxseed Gel List of Curly Hair Products in India for Different Budgets

There is no BEST shampoo, conditioner only your FAVOURITE (and in your budget)

I love different products for different reasons – some give more length, some for shrinkage, some for it’s price and effectiveness, some for it’s scent. Then there is the matter of your hair type. As a result, I don’t answer to this common question- ‘Suggest best products for curly hair’

Time, patience and consistency

It took me a few years of trying different products in different amounts to learn what works and what is best for my hair. Even after realizing and practicing, being consistent and patient in my routine got me to where I am now! Remember to not give up too easily!

Heat damaged or chemically damaged hair will HAVE to be chopped off

Keratin, smoothening, brazillian blowouts all chemically alter the structure of your hair. They won’t go back to how they are even after following these techniques.

How to Get Your Curls Back After Chemical Straightening

Be patient while transitioning

Don’t give up. Look back at how far YOU have come instead of looking at other curly peeps and keep trying, even after you fail!

Deep conditioning is your best friend

An easy way to fasten your transitioning process is to be regular with deep conditioning your hair. You do this once a week to begin with a moisturising hair mask. This is one of my top tips for beginners!

Learn about Deep Conditioning Here

Techniques over products

I can’t stress this enough. Learn techniques like combing after conditioner/leave in conditioner, Raking , Praying Hands , Squish to Condish and practice them with the products you already HAVE before getting more!

You don’t NEED only CG Friendly products

Silicones is not always the bad guy. For many years, I applied the techniques with Non-CG products and still achieved bouncy, healthy curls. So do many women across the world. Granted, CGM has its advantages but don’t feel discouraged if you can’t find cg products near you in the beginning.

Simply use a mild sulphate shampoo and a creamy silicone conditioner that is very moisturising- even with them you will see a difference!

#MadeinIndia #CGFriendly products

Thankfully there are many companies in India now that have products for us! Try Arata Zero Chemicals (Discount code- CURIOUSARATA ), Ashba Botanics , Fix my Curls (Discount code- THECURIOUSJALEBI), True Frog (Discount code- CURIOUSJALEBI10)

You don’t NEED the Denman Brush or Flexi brush

Learn about the difference between those two brushes in this IGTV video but no, you don’t HAVE to get them. You can also detangle your hair with a wide-tooth comb and style with a narrow comb !

Don’t have to GIVE UP on straightening your hair once in a while

Don’t and don’t listen to anyone who shames you for switching things once in a while. As long as its rare and you use a heat protectant cream and also understand the damage heat has, your hair is your own. No policing on my page!

High, long duration of heat is BAD for you

If you overdo straightening or blow outs with heat or use an iron or use high heat while diffusing your hair, you will see more split ends and get hair that doesn’t curl as much anymore.

Treat dandruff with Curly Girl Friendly routine.

You can absolutely manage your dandruff even after following CG method!

Learn more in this post

Frizz is normal

Even after following a routine, there will be some frizz, it is natural, especially in a tropical and humid environment like ours. The key is to reduce it as much as possible (if you want to, that is) but understand little will always be there.

Natural hair will get increasingly drier

The longer you go without washing your hair, it will get drier and frizzier. That’s just how it is. You can however protect your curls at night like this and Refresh them in the morning with this method to decrease frizz.

Parabens is not written in Curly Girl Method

Avoiding parabens is a personal preference – Lorraine Massey, the founder of CGM has not written about this ingredient in her book.

Air dry Versus Diffusing

I love to use a diffuser ( learn more here ) because it speeds up my drying time and it gives me tighter curls as compared to when I air dry. I encourage you to try both and see what you like better.

Don’t compare your natural hair journey to someone else’s

Another tip I can’t stress enough. This is also something I have to remind myself too, from time to time. I can also get envious of other women’s length or much curlier texture.

It is human to compare but essential that you pull yourself back as well and shut the door on that thinking. Try to compare your journey only to yourself and follow more people with similar hair type like yours.

Keep a record/diary

To avoid the confusion, keep a virtual diary with a picture of the results , how you feel it’s texture is and what products you use. It will help you navigate and learn what results you want again.

Change one thing in your routine at a time

If you have many different new products, for eg, a new shampoo, a new conditioner and new stylers, don’t try all of them in the same routine. Change one thing at a time so you can tell the difference, be it good or bad.

Your parents or peers might not understand or appreciate your hair

Indians are not used to a different method of taking care of curly hair. Oil and plait has always been what we have grown up listening and keeping our hair open counts as unruly or ‘jungli’ for many older people.

They also won’t get that we don’t need to comb our curls everyday. I understand that it is not possible in many families to practice this routine or while attending school so I encourage you to show this testimonial section to the people who doubt you to win them over.

Only some DIY hair masks work as well as a store bought deep conditioner/ hair mask

Pinterest may be full of magical grow-your-hair-twice-as-long-overnight masks but please, don’t believe such claims. Yes there are a few great, natural DIY masks but store bought masks have rich oils and conditioning ingredients in them and I firmly believe you should invest in one. It doesn’t need to be expensive!

Another alternative is to take your favourite conditioner, add a spoon of oil and a spoon of honey and apply to post-shampoo hair for 30-40 mins! You can read more about deep conditioning here .

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Understand Protein-Moisture Balance Without Getting Obsessed

The natural hair community can get really confusing and sometimes in my personal opinion, a tad bit obsessed over certain trends (looking at you, rice water rinses!). Here’s what protein-moisture balance means – if you use a shampoo, conditioner, leave in conditioner and gel in your routine, keep two products without proteins as an ingredient and two with protein.

You balance out the protein in one product with pure moisturising ingredients in another. This, many people believe helps in achieving more defined curls without extra frizz or weighed down curls.

It can happen that by using only moisturising products, your hair can get over-moisturised, leading to weighed down curls that have lost their bounce. Alternatively, too much protein can make hair prone to breakage and frizz. Balancing your products ensures this does not happen.

I personally have not seen any difference with all the products I have tried out, protein or not protein, plus I honestly can’t be bothered to this level of mathematics!

You don’t have to be so scared of protein

Many of you are scared of protein, sorry let me correct that, many of you are terrified of using products with protein in them without even trying. Don’t forget hair is made up of proteins and needs some of it (at least one product in your routine with protein is a good bet) to get extra definition.

Also, if you have over moisturised your hair (also called as hydral fatigue), doing a protein treatment is a great way to get back the bounce in your curls. I think doing a protein treatment once a month is also a great way to incorporate this result in your hair and no you don’t need a fancy product to do this. Try the DIY Gelatin mask to see the difference!

Wet hair is weak and needs to be handled gently

While the Curly Girl Method states that you should comb after applying conditioner or leave in conditioner when your hair is still wet, don’t forget it is the weakest when it’s wet.

Hence, take care to gently detangle once with oil before you shampoo and then use a very slippery conditioner inside the shower to ease the detangling process. Put your hair up in a bun if you’re in a hurry instead of washing it too quicky and yanking it while combing.

Basics first, product junkie later

There is no shame in becoming a product junkie but avoid it in the beginning. When you first start out, you tend to buy too many products and forget to learn about techniques!

I’d rather you follow the techniques with the products you have currently and learn your basics first!

Once you have learned the techniques and found what works, buy as many as your heart desires!

Learn to read ingredient labels

Sending me ingredient labels on DM does get annoying, if I’m being honest. I don’t like spoon feeding.

I would recommend for your own benefit that you learn the basic ingredients of what to avoid in the CG Method from this post.

This also helps you to learn what your hair reacts well to or doesn’t and will inform all your future buying decisions. Be an informed consumer.

Sheabutter is not the enemy but be careful

Sheabutter or other raw butters have a love-hate reputation in the CG community. Some find that since this oils are heavy and rich, they can sit on top your hair (especially low porosity hair types ) and leave them weighed down. Since hair swings in front of the face while styling and drying, they can also cause acne.

Here’s my take on it – don’t mirror someone else’s experience as your own, especially the negative ones without trying. Is your skin prone to acne with face oils and face creams? Then I suggest you be cautious with any curl cream or curl butter that has such oils.

You can do that by simply keeping your hair out of your face’s way by a head band while it dries. Also, wash your face with your cleanser AFTER you’re done styling.

A famous victim is the Cantu curl activator cream . I know too many people who have loved using the cream but those who haven’t are scared of other people complaining about the acne it caused. Then there are some for whom it didn’t even after being prone to it. I don’t think the verdict is out on this so please try and experiment.

I would however recommend you choose lighter products without these butters if your hair is loose wavy or loose curly since butters do weigh down fine hair!

Neither is oiling

Same with oils. Some people in the CG community are against oiling, stating they block moisture, just like silicones. Being an Indian, I cannot discount the advantages of oiling.

I would suggest though that while styling, use an oil last, to ‘seal’ your curls. This step also leaves your curls shiny!

To oil your hair before shampoo, do it lightly (pre-poo) so that you don’t need a lot of shampoo to wash the oil out. Oiling your hair before washing also prevents protein loss!

Low porosity/High porosity

Finding out whether your hair is low or high porosity is not easy. You can’t fully trust the tests that are simple enough to carry at home.

Also as long you genuinely experiment with products and find out what suits you, you don’t need to get stressed about it. I have low porosity hair but my hair loves butters. It loves layered products . That’s not what a low po curl type is supposed to benefit from!

Post pregnancy hair loss is natural

To all of you new moms, congratulations and good luck! In between navigating mommyhood, many of you will find yourself worried about the accelerated hair loss. This is normal and expected.

Your hair will grow back so allow yourself to be swept away by your many other responsibilities and recheck in a few months with your dermatologist if you find it has not reduced.

Don’t blindly follow any influencer or blogger (yes, even me)

This is something I have specifically noticed with the Indian CG community on Instagram. They’re very easily influenced. By chance a brand is being bashed by someone, there will be hysteria and an absolute refusal to try something themselves.

I ask you dear reader to not fall in the same trap. Take every blogger/influencers review with a grain of salt, even mine. What did not suit me, could be the product that gives you stunning hair.

Don’t shame

Have someone looking or posting for affordable products? Don’t shame them.

Are they always buying new products to try and experiment with? Don’t shame them!

Everyone’s hair is their own priority – simply concern yourself with finding yours and encouraging those around you to do so within their means!

Glycerine products

Using products with glycerine in either hot or humid areas can be tricky since it’s something that draws moisture into itself from the environment (it is a humectant) leading to more frizz (when it doesn’t find any water in the environment) but the key again is to experiment.

Usually using a hard hold gel or an oil to seal in the product helps in spades! If it doesn’t try to find glycerine free products (post on this coming soon) instead!

Eggs and mayyonaise are NOT protein treatments

The protein molecules in eggs or mayo are too big to penetrate the hair strand so it CANNOT act as a protein treatment. The results you see from both are actually due to the fat content in both!

If you want to do a protein treatment, use a hair mask that has a protein in the first 5-10 ingredients or try the Gelatin mask!

Ingredients potency decreases as you go down the label

This is the principle of formulation – the first 5 ingredients are in the highest concentration of the product and make up to 97-98% of the whole. The remaining ingredients compound the last 2% so for some ingredient to be highly effective, look for it in the first 5 ingredients in the label!

Same with a bad ingredient like IPA (drying alcohol and not allowed in cg method), they are there in some products in the last few ingredients to speed up the drying. I don’t think you need to get scared with such products.

DIY Flaxseed gel is amazing

Can’t afford a gel or you want a no fuss routine- try the natural DIY Flaxseed gel. Great for wavy, curly and kinky, this moisturises hair and gives it a light hold! If you’re scared of trying out stylers, this is also a great option!

It is normal to get crunchy curls after using a gel

After using a gel and even a good curl cream, it is natural that your waves and curls form a hard cast. In fact, this is recommended.

To remove it and get softer, bouncier hair, simply SOTC or Scrunch Out The Crunch by scrunching upwards with your fingers and shaking the hair at your crown loose with the tips of your fingers!

Spread the love – share your tips with people around you

If you find these tips and techniques helping you, don’t forget to share it with more people you think will benefit! You never know who’s struggling with their hair!

Your hair type won’t drastically change

If your hair is not straightened chemically or heat damaged, don’t expect your wavy hair to change to really curly even with time. The key is to not let your expectation lead your to disappointment- remember that this journey is to get to see the healthiest version of your natural hair. Aim for that and be realistic about it as well!

Resist combing daily (Especially in the beginning)

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The habit of combing or brushing your hair everyday will be difficult to resist, but it’s essential in the beginning. When you comb your curls dry daily, the clumps WILL break and you will be left with frizzier hair. In case you need to comb it into a hairstyle for work or school, then simply style your curls with your leave in or curl cream and/or gel and comb. Plait it right after before it dries up. That way your hair will still retain moisture.

It won’t look perfect all the time

There will be many times where you won’t get perfect curls – yes, even after using products that gave great results before. Curly hair is often full of surprises and sometimes these methods of taming fail!

It’s important that on such days you don’t feel disheartened and realise next wash day could be better!

Protective Styles While Transitioning

If like me, you also got Keratin or smoothening done and want to cut off your damaged hair slowly, your hair will be a mix of new curly hair (from the crown) and straightened (at the end). Yes it does look strange sometimes so if that bothers you too much and you can’t cut the straight part yet, tie it into a bun or a plait!

I know these are a LOT (I can come up with more lol) but these are things I find myself gettig queries about readers often. In your journey, your will find yourself thinking about them so bookmark this post and simply come back when you find yourself getting confused or demotivated!

Don’t forget to watch my video tutorials on my Youtube Channel and Instagram to learn more. You can also join my Facebook Group Ask Jalebi where I answer your doubts and queries.

Jalebi out!

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Hi! This blog is beautiful. I’ve finally decided to try and do right by my hair. I have naturally wavy, dry, frizzy hair. I love it on the days I’ve washed it, but I hate it on all the rest. I’ve yet to give these methods a shot, but I have one major question: So I’m a student and most days I need my hair to just be out of my face so that I can focus; so thus far I’ve been plaiting into one or two plaits. What is the safest way to keep my hair out of my face but still healthy and with the texture retained? Also, how often should I be washing it? I was thinking I can wash with shampoo and conditioner once a week and then another time with only conditioner. Also, if I was to cut my hair, are steps or layers a good idea. It’s currently in steps and reaches about 5 cm past my shoulder.

Pallavi Juneja

Hey Divya! I think don’t skip a leave in. Get one or make a DIY one with conditioner. But basically, after you rinse out conditioner, apply leave on on wet hair and comb. Then you can plait it if you’d like or bun it up. You won’t get defined curls if you don’t keep hair open but at least they’ll b hydrated. If you want to keep them open, just use a big clutch to pin it back/

OMG LEAVE IN IS MAGIC. I got conditioner and leave in from this brand called POSA because my imported cosmetics guy had it on sale and it is soooo good. My curls are so defined I want to cry ugh. TYSM 🙂

Hi Pallavi, I am a 40yr old mom of a very active toddler who has finally decided to go the CG way. I have a couple of doubts which addressed will be of great help to me. 1. When using the clarifying shampoo, can we use the conditioner and leave in or not? 2. I am a migraine patient and combing daily give my scalp some stimulation which helps me with maintaining my migraine in control; This is what I have noticed. So, can I: a) use Livon hair serum for curly hair (purple one) on a daily baisis for detangling, before combing through or b) use a watered down version of the conditioner sprayed on my hair before combing through it. 3. You have mentioned in your blog post that curly hair must be left open. But I hate my hair falling on my face and it’s a super distraction when I am working. So can I tie my hair at the back using a regular hair tie. Will it harm my hair?

1. Yes absolutely, follow the shampoo with conditioner and leave in, each time you wash your hair. Other times, the shampoo changes to a CG Friendly one followed with conditioner and leave in. 2. No livon wont help for detangling, instead get a water based spray leave in, that helps to detangle. Ive linked some here- https://www.amazon.in/shop/thecuriousjalebi?listId=1OXNE1IT2CBT0 3. It doesn’t absolutely need to be left open- Ive edited that in the post. I meant to say that by plating it, the curls will go so in he beginning its helpful to leave hair be, curl naturally and get used to it. But for people with jobs where you can’t keep it open, I tell them that they style as normal and then plait it. At least hair will keep hydrated. I also don’t like keeping it open so I usually tie it into a loose bun!

Hi Pallavi, thank you for this post. This was very helpfull especially the point on getting influenced by bloggers.

Thanks Mini 🙂

Such a teriffic write up this is.kudos to your for putting everything together. This is holy grail for beginners and those with a longer learning curve like me

Thank you kruthika! So glad you liked it!

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The Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide in the UK

Curly Girl is a combination of techniques to follow when looking after curly hair. Have you ever wanted to have soft, healthy hair and maybe even embrace your natural curl pattern or waves? Then this is the guide for you, the Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide with where to start and tips for beginners. In this step-by-step guide to looking after curly hair, we will at the techniques, curly hair types and which hair products you should use as a starting point. 

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I started on my  curly girl journey four years ago, before I had dry hair  that was breaking and frizzy. After researching curly girl, wash techniques, drying techniques and approved products, I haven’t looked back and developed a hair care routine. These are the secrets to the  Curly Girl method,  a process and method of nurturing and protecting your hair to achieve its best potential.

Looking after your curls and learning how to style them can in turn enhance your hair’s natural curl. If you have curly or wavy hair, or even if you think you have curly hair, you can try these curl styling tips to boost your curls and remove your frizz. Here we will discover everything you need to know about styling and treating curly hair as well as building a curly hair routine that banishes frizzy hair.

It can be mind-boggling to start with, so here is my  beginner’s guide and Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide in the UK  from a professional hairdresser and curly girl herself.

Learn How to do the Curly Girl Method by trying this Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide in the UK.

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What is the curly girl method?

The Curly girl method is a technique and structuring ideas on how to get your hair in the best condition possible and then learn how to maintain and manage your curls. The Curly Girl method started out with expert  Lorraine Masseys  book  The Curly Girl Handbook , a guide to Curly hair. The hairstylist Lorraine Massey having had curly hair her whole life wanted to embrace her curls and teach others how to manage them. Read on for advice on top tips for starting your curl journey right now. The whole idea behind the curly girl method is to remove harsh products and other elements that damage your hair. Your hair in good condition with a mixture of protein and moisture will curl better.

I have always looked after my hair and clarified my hair often to remove the silicones, but the improvement in condition, since I started the CG method has been amazing. In just a few weeks I have achieved bouncy curls. Curls that last days and my hair feels in the best condition it ever has.

See my Curly girl method my before and after pictures here

What is the curly girl method? Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide in the UK

You can start to follow the Curly Girl method by doing these things;

• cutting out all harsh chemicals such as Sulphates and drying alcohols .
• Stopping the use of products that contain Silicones and waxes . These coat your hair, weigh it down and prevent moisture from entering your hair.
• Washing your hair by means of co-washing , which means washing with only conditioner, or use a Lo-poo ( sulphate and silicone-free shampoo )
• No heat , or styling that will dry or damage your hair
• Avoid brushes
• Have curls cut dry by a curl-by-curl cut
• Use specific products for naturally curly hair

When following the Curly Girl Method, it’s important to identify your hair type to understand better its unique needs and how to care for it properly. Here are some steps to help you determine your hair type:

• Wash your hair: Start by washing your hair with a gentle, sulfate-free cleanser to remove any product buildup or residue.
• Allow your hair to air dry: Avoid using any styling products or heat tools after washing and let your hair air dry naturally. This will give you a true representation of your hair’s natural texture.
• Observe your hair’s natural pattern: Once your hair is dry, observe how your hair naturally falls and the shape it takes. Look closely at the curls or waves that form.
• Type 2: Wavy hair that forms loose, beach-like waves (2A, 2B, 2C).
• Type 3: Curly hair with well-defined curls that range from loose to tight (3A, 3B, 3C).
• Type 4: Coily or kinky hair that forms tight curls or coils (4A, 4B, 4C).
• Thickness: Determine if your hair is fine, medium, or thick. Fine hair strands are usually delicate, while thick strands are more robust.
• Porosity: Assess how easily your hair absorbs and retains moisture. Low-porosity hair tends to repel moisture, while high-porosity hair absorbs it quickly but loses it fast.
• Density: Evaluate how closely your hair strands are packed together. If you can see a lot of scalp, you may have low density, while a fuller appearance indicates higher density.
• Seek professional advice if needed: If you’re still unsure about your hair type or need further guidance, consider consulting a hair care professional specialising in curly hair. They can provide personalized recommendations based on your hair’s specific characteristics.

Remember that hair can have multiple characteristics and may vary in different sections of your head. Understanding your hair type will help you choose the right products, techniques, and styling methods to embrace your natural curls and achieve healthy, beautiful hair with the Curly Girl Method.

Steps and methods to  promoting curls and easy UK products to find

Curls need moisture to retain their curl. The better condition your hair is the better your hair will curl. The way to keep your curls bouncy is to get your hair into the best condition you can and then lock the moisture into your hair by various methods.

Read these 10 steps to the curly girl method here!

Here we will look at these steps to the curly girl method;

• Final Washing
• Deep conditioning masks
• Building a wash routine
• Clarifying your hair and removing build-up
• Conditioning
• Clumping curls together
• Plopping Hair before drying
• Choosing styling products
• Styling techniques
• Drying and diffusing your hair
• Creating a cast
• Learn about transition time when doing the curly girl method

What is the final wash?

Do one last wash with a final wash shampoo such as baby shampoo. You need a silicone-free shampoo but a shampoo that contains sulphate to cleanse any silicone left on the hair. Once you have done your final wash, you will start with a routine of Co-washing ( washing with conditioner) and Lo poo ( sulphate and silicone-free shampoo) washing instead.

The final wash is not stated in the Curly Girl Handbook If you want to religiously follow Lorraine Massey’s book you can leave this out. In my opinion, it will ensure hair is completely on a clean slate by removing any access built on the surface just like a clarifying shampoo would do. For instance, if you have build up you will need to try removing this. For more advanced information on build-up removal read my post on Clarifying here.

Johnson’s new packaged baby shampoo is now CG-friendly and is considered a LO-poo Shampoo now .

Take a look at my 25 curly girl hair hacks here!

Deep Condition and repairing hair

After your final wash, you should restore your hair with a silicone-free deep conditioner. This should be done once a week on damp hair. Wrap your hair in a plastic bag or cap and then cover it with a towel to keep in the warmth. leave for 10 to 30 minutes or even an hour before rinsing. After this, you can apply a normal silicone-free conditioner as well and comb through to remove to detangle.

Build a routine with your hair by Co-washing it with conditioner, Lo poo and Clarifying.

Your Curly Girl routine will be made up of a mixture of washing with conditioner (co-washing) using a Lo poo shampoo ( chemical free ) and an occasional clarifying shampoo.

When you are in the shower, wash your hair with conditioner as you would a shampoo. Massaging the conditioner into your hair and scalp to remove residue. Do this a few times to remove any dirt particles and cleanse your hair. This is the time to comb through your curls while they are wet and slippery and coated in conditioner.

You may not want to co-wash every time as this does not suit everyone. Too much conditioner can also weigh the hair down and certain ingredients can still build up. Instead, use a Lo poo shampoo in between and be guided by how your hair feels.

lo poo is a shampoo or “low poo” which means a sulfate-free shampoo that still contains cleansing ingredients (called “surfactants”). This is not strictly CG either, but over time I have made some changes to my curly girl routine that have worked !

Do I wash, lo poo or co-wash each time using the curly girl method?

How do you know when to lo poo, co-wash or even just refresh? If your hair is;

• Thick and greasy weighed down? clarify it
• Needs regular routine was Co wash with conditioner.
• Not feeling fresh try a general wash with Lo poo.
• Needs moisture feels dry? Deep condition

How to clarify your hair and remove buildup

Clarifying your hair with a non-silicone shampoo in-between washes can help make your hair feel light again. If you may find that your hair starts to feel heavy with conditioner or in fact dry you must clarify it. I am using a chelating shampoo which removes hard water build-up and build-up from natural oils. If you want a curly girl approved Clarifying shampoo, you need one with these ingredients;

• sodium lauroyl methyl isethionate or
• sodium lauroyl sarcosinate

Products with these ingredients are not a lo-poo shampoo but more of a gentle cleanser. These are not a sulphate and are used to help remove impurities and build-up. Do this maybe every 3 to 4 weeks or when you feel it needs it. Noughty does a detox shampoo which does just this.

I am using one from the US right now Kinky Curly Come Clean chelating shampoo or you could try this one from savers such as the KHC banana shampoo.

For clarification if you wish you can use a shampoo with no silicone but one that still has sodium laurel sulphate; this is not a strict curly girl rule and bear in mind it can dry your hair. This can however work for many wavy hair people making it feel light again. Remember to do a deep condition after though!

You could also try Cantu Cleansing shampoo which is a great shampoo and is available in the UK. Or the Noughty clarifying shampoo Detox Dynamo

For the full Lo down on Co -washing see this post here!

Do I use Conditioner and or leave-in conditioner when doing the curly girl method?

After washing your hair, you need to leave some moisture in your hair by using a leave-in conditioner. This is a very important step and the best way to make your curls spring into life. Alternatively at this step, you could opt for a curl cream . For lighter thinner hair choose products that are not heavy. These normally contain ingredients such as shea butter.

Gently squeeze out access water but not too much; you want your hair to be wet to lock the moisture in. With your head upside down, apply a generous amount of a suitable leave-in conditioner so that you can see it and gently brush through. Again brushing is not to be done in the strict main curly girl method. Use fingers to detangle or a comb instead.

How to Brush hair to clump curls together

The idea of brushing through when really wet is to get all of your hair to stick together and then slowly separate into larger clumps. Many curly girls now use this method. This achieves a larger curl rather than lots of separate stringy curls. You need to use a brush with close-together bristles such as a Wet brush or a Denman brush.

Once you have done this with your head still upside down, gently scrunch the leave-in conditioner in. You will notice your curls start to clump together again. Then plop in a towel for 10 minutes.

See some of my recommended leave in conditioners here.

What is plopping your hair?

Plopping is a method used to promote a natural curl pattern and remove some dampness.

Using a micro fibre towel or a t-shirt, position your hair wet upside down and gently wrap. Let your curls sit in the towel gently and wrap the towel around before putting your head upright again. Let this sit on top of your head for about 5 minutes before drying.  Do not use a harsh fluffy towel that will disturb your curl or cause frizz.

Plopping your hair for 5 to 10 minutes in generally enough. Plopping for 30 minutes is ok but apply the gel after plopping on this occasion. Alternatively, Plopping may not work for you so you can also gently scrunch out access water with an old t-shirt or microfibre towel.

How to plop curls with a T-shirt

When doing the curly girl method, you can plop your hair with a cotton T-shirt. Fold the t-shirt down to make it a bit shorter and lower your head into the shirt. Wrap the straight end around your head then bring up the sleeves to tie it up. You can see how to plop with a t-shirt in this video below.

What styling products do I need for the curly girl method?

You can start with either a mousse or a gel to keep it simple. There are lots of products you can use such as;

• Curl custard

Each product will be different and work in different ways. A gel, custard, hairspray or a mousse will create hold. Curl creams act like conditioners and smoothers.

Styling products

There are two ways of adding styling products to your hair before you plop your hair or after. I would not advise leaving your hair wrapped up for too long if putting the product on first. Try both ways to see which way works best for you.

After plopping remove your hair from the towel and get ready to add styling product still with your head upside down. You can use Mousse, gel, or curling custard to add definition to your hair. There are even cg hair sprays on the market now which are curly girl friendly. You can even make your own curly girl hairspray too !

Apply the gel with either your head upside down or upright to arrange where your parting is first. I have found applying my gel upright leaves the top section and parting with a better curl formation; again this is trial and error and everyone will be different.

Styling techniques for the curly girl method

Squish to condish.

Squish to condish is using the scrunching method of squeezing in conditioner and promoting a curl.

Praying hands

Use these techniques when styling your hair and doing the curly girl method. Remove the towel and gently swipe gel or curling custard over your hair using praying hands. Praying hands means keeping your palms flat and gently going over the hair’s surface to distribute product. Scrunch this in and get ready to diffuse. You can layer different gels or use one or two products together.

You need to apply a generous amount of gel or mousse you will want your hair to be sticky and wet. 

Drying your hair and how to diffuse.

One of the best ways to dry your curls is to let them dry naturally; this is healthy and non-drying. This is however not practical for everyone and for some with hair that is not as curly it may not work as well.

Try both leaving your hair to dry and diffusing and see what works for you. For wavy girls diffusing can help create a bigger curl with more volume.

Diffusing works better for me. Also, I use a diffuser to dry my hair promoting its natural wave and lift it from the root. Thick wavy hair can need some support whilst drying and diffusing on a low speed and low heat can help.

Keep the diffuser close to your head and do not touch the hair. Let your hair sit in the diffuser cup and slowly dry. This can be a long process and my hair and can take up to an hour to dry. In fact, I am typing this while I am in the drying process. It is worth taking the time to dry slowly as my hair can stay perfectly curled for days. This process is called pixie drying.

For extra root lift, you can clip up your roots with small metal hair clips while it dries.

You can dry your curly hair until at least 80% dry then leave it to air dry.

How to create a cast when doing the CGM method

Crunchy is good! After your hair is 100% dry, it should appear crunchy. This means you have held your curl and locked in some moisture. This is called a cast, and I have found this is the most important component of creating a frizz-free curl.

When your hair is 100% dry, you can scrunch out this crunch with your hands by gently squeezing the hair and scrunching out the crunch. You can also use a t-shirt to scrunch with to stop any fries. Gently take your hands through the roots of your hair and shake to soften the look. You will be left with soft curls or waves.

If you feel your hair never gets a cast, there may be reason for it. Read my post on How to get a curl cast to find out the reasons why you can’t get a gel cast.

If you are not keen on a cast ( crunchy hair ), alternatively you could try a cream such as the Noughty Wave Hello taming cream.

Trial and error with maintaining your routine and transitioning.

Everybody’s hair is different and it will be trial and error a lot of the time. Wavy hair with get greasier quicker and may find product heavy. Very curly hair will need more moisture to tame it. If your hair has a low porosity (shiny, greasy, smooth ) with closed cuticles, it may need less conditioner. Therefore high porosity hair ( coloured, damaged or dry) may need more conditioner to absorb into the cuticle.

It can take a long time for your hair to adjust and transition. Your hair overtime has become used to silicone and sulphates drying the hair. So in turn your scalp had been producing more sebum to make up for this. Now you are not drying your hair out with harsh products your scalp will need time to adjust. Hence why you may find your hair slightly greasy when you first start; combat this by using a lo-poo shampoo more than a co-wash conditioner whilst it transitions.

Take a look at my hair now and how it has changed. You can also read about some of the curly girl rules I have since changed here too

Trying a rice water rinse

Curly hair needs protein and moisture to maintain a good structure. Rice water is known to strengthen hair from within flatten the cubicle and promote hair growth. With regular rice water treatments, you can enhance the condition of your hair. Check out my post on how to do a rice water rinse when you have curly or wavy hair.

Take a look at the most frequently asked questions here and some tips on porosity here.

Where to buy products curly girl method products in the UK?

Check out my ultimate curly girl product guide for UK drugstores and supermarkets!

Where can I buy curly girl products in the UK? As part of my Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide in the UK, I have listed in the above photos products that can be found in UK supermarkets and drugstores like Boots and  Superdrug. There are also some websites and new brands that are cropping up in the UK. I am always excited to try new products as I go along. Take a look at these products and websites for more help.

Here is some of my favourite products that I purchase from Amazon; always check as prices can fluctuate. You can sometimes buy some of these in Superdrug or Boots.

For more Curly Girl-approved leave-in conditioners see here.

More Curly Girl reading

How to follow the wavy girl method

Bentonite Clay wash Do’s and dont’s

Easy guide to the Rice water rinse

Curly girl product reviews for further reading

Naturalistic Products  stock a wide range of Curly girl approved methods not available in the UK.

Curly Girl method products in Savers

Christophe Robin Curl Cream

Noughty range of curly girl products which are 97% natural.

Cantu Review here these products are all available in the UK.

Only Curls  a London-based company whose mission is to ditch the chemicals and help people have healthy hair and embrace their curls.

The Curl company here

Kiyo Beauty is another website which are  in the Uk ( funny enough just down the road from me ) they ship in the Uk. Many of the harder-to-find products can also be found on Look Fantastic.

An easy way to check your curl product ingredients!

Always check your ingredients are chemical-free first! you can check by popping your ingredients into this handy tool on the  Curlsbot website.

Take a look at what my friend Sarahs favourite Curly Girl products are in the UK here .

Your hair will love you even if you are curly or not! 

I hope this Curly Girl Method Quick Start Guide in the UK has helped you. Stick with it and take pictures as your hair will change over time and improve.

Please note these may not be all strictly the original curly girl methods (i.e. I use a hairdryer) but they work for my thick wavy hair.  Remember the CGM Method is trial and error and what works for some people does not work for all. Experiment with different  applications, products and ideas.

All reviews and opinions are my own. This page does contain some Amazon affiliate links. These are at no extra cost to yourself unless of course you can find them cheaper elsewhere.

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96 comments.

Its taken me so long to get my head around it all, this post is fab I could have done with it a month ago. I am not as far as you with the curls but am getting there and so pleased with the results x

I know I read up for ages and I’m finally seeing results. The best thing is my is not in that great condition so it can only get better.

Where do you go for colour and haircut in the uk? Is it curl by curl technique you have used or is it colour at any good hairdressers where they apply colour using usual methods for all hair types i.e. using foil and applying colour on wet hair.

I am a hairdresser so my friend and I do it. Any colour can damage your hair. For the best possible moisture and less porosity you would aim to not colour your hair. If you want to then less is more. Semi permanent would be best then permanent. Bleach or high peroxide would be the most damaging and should be avoided. I colour just my roots at little as possible. Foil is fine it is a technique of application. I have layers cut in when wet as I am more wavy than curly. I do sometimes cut curls individually for shape and defininition. I hope this helps x

This is amazing!! I’ve recently been trying to embrace my curly hair so all be taking on all your tips!!

Brilliant! It’s so exciting once you get started, each time I wash it I try something different and can’t wait to see the results. Can’t wait to see how you get on x

LOVE this! I have naturally wavy hair and have been plopping and using body shop ginger shampoo and conditioner, so no silicone. My curls have never looked better. I may need to get some styling products now though 🙂 sodium laurel sulphate

I know I get so excited when I wash my hair now!

I have always wanted curly hair – both my parents are curly but mine is dead straight 🙁

I thought the same, but started this method to improve the condition of my hair. Lo and behold! I have curly hair.

I know it is amazing isn’t it x

I used to have my hair perked in the 80’s and 90’s! It wasn’t until Frizz-ease came out that I realised that I’d been curly all along

Hi, thank you so much for all the info that you’ve provided. I’ve lots of questions about UK products. Where do you suggest I visit for info. I’ve tried searching on curlsbot.com but I just can’t get any replies from it.Even my more tech savvy husband is at a loss!

Do you mean which ingredients? I spend ages on the internet researching I’ve just done a list of leave in conditioners and I’m going to do a post on other products too as I find them. https://likelovedo.com/2019/02/curly-girl-method-approved-leave-in-conditioners-in-the-uk/

I wish I had curly hair, I have kinky afro hair which spends more time in knots that curly otherwise. Love the products you’re using, I love Cantu products.

Ohh wow your hair is AMAZING! Mine is polka straight, Im so jealous!

Ahh even so no silicone products are much better for the hair x

My hair has a natural curl that tends to fall out within an hour of drying. Will definitely try this technique!

Yes def , lots of product to hold then scrunch out the crunchiness

Please help, my hair seems very matt, and I can’t get it to look shiny

Please help I can’t get my hair to look shiny although it is curly

My curl is amazing now but my hair is dull, how can I improve the shine?

Hi, the main thing is moisture, regular deep treatments, I love shea moisture for this. If your roots get greasy then just do mid lengths and ends. Also check your ingredients if there is silicone in the products it will coat your hair and stop the ,moisture and shine. Some products that say they are silicone free are not.x

Also try a serum oil like righteous roots oil for added shine. Also rice washes are brilliant way to seal the cuticle and promote shine x

I have naturally very VERY (sometimes out of control hair) curly hair and have spent years straightening my hair. In July I turned 40 and decided I was going to go natural. After reading some reviews online I brought a range of Cantu products and couldn’t believe how amazing it looked and felt after only one wash! It looks so healthy and I get so many compliments. I can’t say I never straighten it now, I do but to have the choice of beautiful curls or straight is amazing.

That sounds like me! Although I’m not quite as curly. I can not believe it took me this long! I love cantu and I love the fact they do a cleansing shampoo too so my hair never feel weighed down. Thanks for the comment x

Hey I am super excited to try this but have a fringe I want to keep striaght! How would I stop this from going greasy? Can i use dry shampoo on it and can I straighten just my fringe?

I wash my fringe with shampoo , I like my fringe straight not curly so shouldn’t be a problem x

Hi i have always had wavy curly hair but it looks pretty frizzy. At 50, I have just started looking st the curly girl method, and I will as overwhelmed by the amount if information. Your blog post has really helped me!! I am in the UK too and your post let’s ut all out simply with lots of easy, reasons priced options to start with – thank you!!

You are welcome. I am going to keep it updated as I try more products too x

No problem thank you . I’ll be posting a few more easy options soon too x

This is amazing! I’ve recently come across this method and want to try it out on my wavy hair but I’m confused about the routine. So I would start off with the baby shampoo as a deep clean and then deep condition after with the Garnier mask? Then I am looking to get the kind natured shampoo as a co wash, what would I need to do after this co wash? Would I condition with the same conditioner? And what will my routine be after this?

The kind shampoo is a lo poo. Then condition. Over the next few weeks you can either wash with conditioner or lo poo. Be guided by your hair. Some wavies can not use too much conditioner and still need to shampoo every now and then to keep it light and not greasy. Il be doing another post very soon withmore info x

Your blog is amazing, so happy I found you. Currently doing my research to start my curly hair journey. Your products list of use and where to buy is going to be a massive help…. You have pointed me in the right direction. Thank you x

Ahh thank you so much! I will be updated this post regularly and adding more. Good luck on your curl journey x

Hi, have you tried the Tropic Hair care products? I’ve only just found the curly girl method; but, out send like I’ve been doing it for months with these products, without realising it!

No I haven’t yet , I did wonder if they were cgm. Thanks I look in to them x

I co wash & use silicone free conditioners but want curly girl friendly styling products to eliminate frizz & define curls ….. available on the high street preferably……any recommendations

Try the noughty range the curl taming cream , the vo5 gel, Pantene mousse. Cantu custard are my go to at the moment. I just hope more manufacturers get the point that we want more natural products x

I am waiting for my cantu bits to be delivered and have been and got the garnier mask and VO5 gel. I have been straightening my hair for 18 years!!! I have VERY curly hair and have never liked it curly it goes out not down and always frizzes but I’ve decided after turning 40 last year I’m going to try embrace the curl! I had a baby last year and do not have time to sit straightening my hair so I’m hoping I can get on with curly hair 🤞🏻. What I wanted to ask was how often do you co wash? Thanks! Your post has really helped me get my head round what I need to do I can’t wait to get started!!

Hi Sarah, glad I could help. I co wast every other wash at the moment. You will gradually be able to go longer or always co wash. Your hair will adjust. I still find I need to lo poo in between. Some people do a apple cider vinegar rinse instead of lo poo. I tablespoon to a cup of warm Water to rinse the hair of any build up. X

I’m just about to start my curly journey. I swim 3 times a week and wash my hair with shampoo after this. I try not to wash it any other time. Do you think that a lo poo would be able to remove the chlorine from my hair? Have you any other suggestions? Thanks

You should have no problem with chlorine if you rinse it straight away after swimming. Many curlys just do a lo poo or a co wash after swimming. Your problem is not so much getting it out but more the drying effect it will have on the hair. So a lo Poo and a deep conditioner or a co wash to add moisture should suffice x

Thank you so much

I’m thinking that if I saturate my hair in the shower just prior to swimming it won’t take up as much pool water too

If you are going swimming and know you will be in contact with chlorine. make sure you rinse your hair until it s super soaking and then the cortex will soak up less chlorine. think of it as a sponge. if its wet it cant soak any more liquid up.

Thanks yes that’s a great point to make. Saturating your hair first x

I have a similar issue. What seems to have worked for me is saturating the hair while I shower before getting in the pool, then applying a leave-in conditioner before donning my swim cap. I thought the cap might slip off, but I have a chillswim cap that hugs the head nicely and doesn’t budge. Then, when I leave the pool, I rinse, co-wash or lo-poo, condition and style. The concept of wetting the hair prior to going into the pool, also applies to the skin. If you wet and saturate your skin everyone before going into the pool, you will suffer less skin drying effects from the chlorine 🙂

Thanks for this article. It’s very clearly explained using the minimal products. I am using cg method from past 2 months but it’s not showing any results. I had my hairs chemically straightned so I am in a transition stage. The problem is some of my new growth is curly and the other is straight. I am not sure whether I should continue with cg method or shall I quit.

You are welcome, I would really try and carry on. Your hair will start to feel better soon. Keep trimming the ends and condition regularly. Once it grows out you will probably find it really curly x

Hi. What lo poo would be suitable for my daughter, shes 6. I was going to use Cantu or kind natured as I thought they were lo poo but reading your review it seems they are clarifying shampoo

Sorry for the late reply Johnson’s top to toe wash is a lo poo as it has curly girl Approved cleansers. try alternating it with a co wash x

Hi, thanks for the article. You mention that there are CGM friendly hair sprays on the market and I wondered if you could say which ones?

I believe that bounce curl in the US do one. I think it’s quite expensive. I am yet to find another buy update this page when I do x

Thank you so much! You have done all of the hard work for us! Am so grateful for your recommendations and I found I could get everything I need in Superdrug!

Fantastic! I am in the process of doing a drugstore post too so hopefully that will help X

Thanks so much for this brilliant post- really helpful. I wondered if you had any tips on finding a hairdresser who specialises in cutting curly hair? I’m in London. I did find an amazing hairdresser who trained with devacurl, but she only visits London occasionally and it’s really hard to get an appointment with her. Thanks

I haven’t actually been but I was thinking of starting a directory I’ll let you know if I can find the one I heard of in London there are a few x

I’ve been using Fourth Floor, between Holborn and Clerkenwell for about fifteen years – I occasionally try another salon if I’m working away and hard to get there, but never with much success, always go back!

Thanks for this. I’ve noticed a (2a) wave commming back into my fine, poker straight hair over the last 3-4 years, and have been trying to cultivate this. My mum says I born with curly hair until she cut off th over tangled ends so as not to hurt me detangling them when I was 1yrs old, anI’ve had straight hair since. The wave is comng along and I stumbled across your blog a few days a go, and have started researching and buying products to give this method a try, but I have a couple of spare bottles and I’m reluctant to throw them out, so will be using them first.

I wanted to ask, if you no longer comb/brush throught your curls when dry (like on the second/third day), how do you protect them frizz (through rubbing on the pillowcase) when sleeping? Also, do yo refresh your curls on a non wash/cowash day? Would really appreciate yur take on this.

I wear my hair in a high pineapple on top of my head. A lot of people use a silk pillowcase. I refresh by wetting my hands ( sometimes with a bit of gel or whatever I used to style it) and gently use praying hands to de frizz the top. I don’t tend to wet it too much. But as your hair gets used to it it gets easier. I’ll add these questions to my next post which will be available soon.

I always make sure it’s properly brushed through with conditioner when I’m washing though. Glad I can help good luck xx

So I have naturally curly hair but I definitely don’t pay that much attention to it other than wash/condition, put a mousse on and diffuse depending on however long I have. I’ve been researching more about what I can do to maintain my curls for longer and have more defined curls so your blog was super helpful, especially as you’re UK too!

I’m just curious, at the beginning of your blog where you do your final wash and then you say to do a deep condition once a week, how long do you do that for and is that in addition to beginning your co-washing routine?

Sorry if this is a silly question or if I haven’t read it properly!

Hi no problem at all glad to help. I deep condition once a week. I either co wash then deep condition or shampoo then deep condition. Basically keep deep conditioning to add moisture to your hair. I deep condition by applying treatment then a plastic bag and towel. I leave it on for about 30 minutes. Let me know if you have any more questions x

Really useful guide. I’ve been using Cantu products for the last three years or so – couldn’t live without the co-wash and curl revitaliser! Luckily there’s quite a lot of shops in London catering for black hair – generally a lot cheaper than Boots/Superdrug or online – as my hair gets whiter, it’s also become increasingly dry and frizzy. Any reccomendations on microfibre towels, or are they all much of a muchness?

Hi, to be honest I use a large T-shirt most of the time now, any microfibre Towel would be good just check the size if you have a lot of hair. Which shops do you go to in London? Would love to know more x

Hi, what do you do at night time with your hair?

Hi Gemma , my hair is not too long so I put it in a satin scrunchy high on top of my head. That way only the underneath is on the pillow. Lots of people use buffs which are like a huge tube on your head but I haven’t tried this. Could be useful if your hair is long x

Thanks! The other thing I was wondering is when I use the Pantene mousse I find my curls go crunchy which i don’t like…I read about the lube but I felt a bit weird with that! Haha! Do you use anything else to stop curls going crunchy? Xx

Every photo I have seen regarding the CHM shoes people with thick hair. I have fine curly hair (3a) and also Frontal Fibrosing Alopecia. Will this method work for me?

I would say yes, a lot of people with fine hair achieve really good results with lots volume because the hair is lighter. Also any products with less chemicals are good for your hair and skin. Look for lighter products not heavy like ones with coconut in. Do you have prescribed products for you alopecia? I am Currently looking in to more natural products at the moment with less preservatives x

I’ve recently had a patch test for allergies in regards my Alopecia and I’m allergic to perfume, fragrance and Linalool! I have seen a couple of American brands used for the CHM but they either don’t deliver to UK or they’re extortionate prices!

Check out my other post for uk products. Always check ingredients especially if you may be allergic. What USA ones have you seen x https://likelovedo.com/2019/04/curly-girl-method-uk-products-from-drugstores-and-supermarkets/

It’s the Devocurl range! I have looked at the products you have put on the site but most have the ingredients in I’m allergic to 🙁 but will have another look just in case I’ve missed any! I’m currently using a gentle fragrance and Linalool free shampoo/conditioner but my curls seem to have disappeared! What a dilemma it is having curly hair 😱

Ahh it must be so hard with allergies, have a look at faith in nature they do a fragrance free cgm conditioner. However the shampoo contains sulfates. I’ll keep an eye out for any more and put a section in a post x https://www.faithinnature.co.uk/products/fragrance-free-conditioner-400ml/finconff400.aspx?productid=finconff400

You have been so helpful! 🙋🏻 I will take a look at the Faith in Nature range and double check your list you have given me for the website.

No problem at all good luck 😊

Hi, I own a small salon and would love some info on how you bring this into the salon I.e products used and if you are allowing this to be rolled out into salons. (Don’t want to poach your ideas😊)

Hi Charlotte, I hope I can help, These are not all my ideas its a method that has been around a while. Lorraine Massey divised it in her book the Curly girl method handbook.But it is also a lot about looking after your hair almost opposite to how we were taught as hairdressers. The main problem being silicone build up which stops any natural moisture being absorbed and good ingredients penetrating the hair. To enable this to be rolled out in the salon you would need cg approved products. There are a few salons now offering Deva cuts ( curly girl ) and you can have training by Devacurl. Devacurl may be a good professional brand for you to introduce. If I had a salon this is something i would look at as there is a high demand at the moment. I hope that helps you? any more questions please fire away xx

Hey there. I wondered if you could recommend hair dryers/diffusers. My current one is not great! Thanks 🙂

Hi sorry for late reply I’m in sunny spain. I use a parlux which really good quality. I have a babyliss universal diffuser. I also like babyliss hairdryers or wahl. I am just about to do a round up on here of best hair diffusers and dryers should be up soon x

Thanks for your blog it’s so helpful, I’m just about to dive into the method. I have a few questions tho, how many times a week are you washing your hair? I have hair very similar to your before photo but very long, it touches the bottom arch of my back maybe longer. Also as I am beginning what is the best way to style help less frizz and rectangle on day 2+ hair? Thanks 😁

Hi, I wash mine about once a week but you may need to do more to start. I use a tiny bit of gel in my palms and wet my hands I lightly add some water and scrunch i then diffuse a bit . I am writing a post on this at the moment. X

I have naturally wavy/frizzy hair and really want to try this! But I wondered, down the line if I did want a change and wanted to straighten my hair as a one off, would I have to start all over again?

Hi, not necessarily. Your hair will Start to develop a curl pattern so it may not go as curly straight away after straightening. Any thing you do to your hair will help the condition. Using straighteners though may damage the hair which can be irreparable. You may find you don’t want to straighten once you have started x

What a great post! Thank you for clarity of it. I’ve started CGM about 2 months ago and felt overwhelmed with the amount of information out there! I will definitely try the rice water rinse as my hair has started to misbehave a bit and not wanting to curl as much. 😁

Yes definitely try it and don’t be frightened to use the odd shampoo to clarify x

Thank you. I do clarify about once a month. Think my problem is that I haven’t quite figured the right moisture/protein ratio. Also-and this is probably a silly questio- how do I keep my clumps after plopping when I put my hair from upside down to the right way down? Especially the back of my head gets all messy? X

I start to dry mine upside down and create a cast before turning back the other way

Thank you so much for that post, such a clarity. I’ve started the CGM about 2 months ago and been overwhelmed by the sea of information out there… will definitely try the rice water rinse as my hair has started to misbehave a bit and not wanting to curl as much as before. Also, can you recommend any curly hairdressers? 😊

Hi! I’ve loved the blog and used it over the last few months on my wavy/curly hair. Initially I had amazing results, but in the last few weeks it’s been really dry and frizzy! I had been using the Shea leave in conditioner (which is now out of stock everywhere!), but switched to another of your recommendations. I’m only ‘washing’ once a week and this is because of the frizz not grease! Any tips? I’ve a feeling I need to up the conditioner, but should I be washing more often to do so?! TIA xxx

Hi, Oh no Its out of stock! I love that conditioner! Your hair does transition over a few months and it look like your hair likes the heavier rich conditioners.These types of conditioners are cantu, Asiam and shea. Are you using another Shea one? It could be that your hair lacks a bit of protein or moisture. It can make it feel crunchy and dry for either. I try to do a healthy balance of both protein and hydrating conditioner. For when it feels dry I try to use an Aloe Vera conditioner such as garnier hair food which hydrates more.

No matter how many places I post this question, I have never had any answer to the following question; why when I use hair gel on my just below the shoulder length curly hair do I end up sticky all over my neck, back of my neck and chest? It doesn’t matter how much product I use or cut down on it’s the same every time I wash my hair and I try to be careful not to get my hair near my body, It’s driving me mad. I used As I Am Curling Jelly this time and although it’s not as bad I am still sticky!! Is it me or is this a common problem? If others don’t get this, what do you do to avoid it?

I always apply gel with my head hung over to one side or upside down so it doesn’t stick to me ? perhaps this is why?

That’s what I do, but after diffusing the top of my hair while I hang my head upside down, I stand up to diffuse the rest and the gel on the rest of my hair transfers to my skin. I even tried putting my spare fine microfibre towel around my shoulders to cover me up but still managed to get some on my neck and chest!!

after reading loooads of stuff and watching loooads of videos this is like the best all-in-one-place guide I have found! I love how important things are highlighted and the link opens up in a new page , so that the main page is not overloaded with information. bumped into the blog when looking for clear instructions for the rice water rinse which I will be doing shortly for the first time ever! and I am thrilled to have found a curly pal who has got a straight fringe! I feel so weird at times! LOL how do you style that?

Thank you I hope you find all you need!

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Welcome to this tiny corner of the world where we geek about curly hair!

Curls were meant to be loved, cared for, and boldly worn with pride……

That’s what I believe and why I started my curly blog.

My name is Colleen and I’m a believer, wife, and mom of three little cuties.

Sadly, the picture below was an all-time low for my hair. I had suffered postpartum hair loss and had lost my curls. It was sad.

ColleenCharney.com  was built after spending years disliking and not knowing how to care for my curls. 

Until I finally decided to accept and learn about my curls. So I created a space online that I could share my curly journey and offer helpful resources to curly girls around the world. 

My hope is that through this blog you will find inspiration and connection that will help you wear your curls with confidence.  

If you have ever…..

• Wished you had straight hair
• Felt overwhelmed by all the curly hair information on the internet
• Are ready to bring your curls back to life
• Felt alone on your curly journey
• Are tired of not knowing how to care for your curls

Then, curly friend, you are in the right place!

….and I have a special gift for you! I created this simple cheat sheet that will give you everything you need to know to get started on your curly hair journey.

This curly hair guide breaks down the basic steps needed to bring dead curls back to life.

About My Curly journey

I’ve gone from loving, hating, over-processing, and just throwing my curls in a messy bun because I didn’t know what else to do with them. 

Curls have a mind of their own and you never know what you’re gonna get.

After four back to back pregnancies (1 miscarriage & 3 births) my hair was in the worst condition it has ever been.

I cut and lightened it to platinum which made it go from bad to worse. I was pulling out handfuls in the shower and there was little to no body left in it. 

I felt like straw. It was so terrible! I never thought I would have curls again.

I had my hands full with three small kids and just didn’t have the time to put into researching home treatments and I didn’t have time to go to the salon often. 

At that point, for fear of my hair falling out, I decided to start trying to take better care of my hair. 

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I had a few salon deep conditioning treatments that were helping bring back my curls. The curl was slowly but surely coming back.

But I certainly wasn’t committed to establishing consistent healthy habits in my daily routine.

As my kids grew and became more independent, I finally decided to start getting serious about taking care of my curls.

But the internet seemed crowded with so much information, some of which was very conflicting or unrealistic.

It was overwhelming on knowing how to get started.

I began to peel back the layers of all the information I found around curly hair, and hone in on simple steps that were key to reviving curls.

So after combining what I already knew about curly hair (I’ve had curly hair my whole life) plus months of research, experimenting, and testing, I discovered a simple step by step system that actually works.

And through this process, I was able to bring my curls back to life. But this time my curls were even more curlier than before.

Maybe you, like me, are in a place of feeling defeated, hopeless, or even desperate about your curls. 

Maybe you feel lost on how to get started and what actually works. 

Well, curly friend, it comes down to a few simple steps. And it’s not nearly as complicated as people make it out to be. 

When you get down to the nitty-gritty of having great curls it comes to just a few simples things…..

• You must learn to love your curls. Until you have accepted that your curls were uniquely and wonderfully made, you will never be able to wear them with confidence.
• Learn about your curls. You can’t care for something you don’t understand
• The right products. Choose the products that are right for your specific hair type 
• Implement healthy consistent habits into your daily routine. No matter how many fancy products you use, they are only as good as the person using them. 
• Style your curls. Find the right styling technique that works for your specific curls

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