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Adventure, culture, leisure or luxury, HE Travel is the leader in gay travel tours and gay adventure travel today and for the last 40 years. Our Founder Hanns Ebensten ran the first exclusively gay adventure tour down the Grand Canyon in 1973 and we most recently acquired OutQuest Global Adventures, bringing even more gay travel tours to gay men, lesbians & their friends. Our gay vacation group tours are ideal both for single gay men and lesbians to meet new friends, and also for couples to enjoy the camaraderie of exploring new places with other gay and lesbian travelers. Enjoy a small LGBT group tour without the confines of a typical resort vacation.

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Culinary Tours

HE Travel is known for offering the finest gay cultural tours on Earth. These tours range from “relaxing” to “soft adventure.”

Adventure Tours

Since 1973 HE Travel has set the standards of Gay Adventure Tours. Theses tours range from “soft-adventure to high-adrenaline.”

Custom Tours

Want something a little more customized for you? Maybe you want a romantic holiday, an extension on a tour, or a holiday with friends?

Adrenaline Club

Gay guys and lesbians can be pretty tough. From canyoning to bungee jumping, the adrenaline club is for the most adventurous gay travelers.

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We’re entering the third month of our season in Salt Lake City.

We’re still here for a couple of months more. I was worried that I would be forced to go back to Florida early, to deal with a hurricane flood, caused when Hurricane Debby descended on the Big Bend region this last week. The storm brought us a large tidal surge, but luckily the water came up shy about 3 inches below

It has been a while since I’ve written my travel notes…

I’ve been extremely busy. Other than a few trips to Southeast Asia, I’ve stayed at home this winter in Cedar Key, Florida.

Trisha and I are still rebuilding parts of our house from Hurricane Idalia flood damage, and I’ve tried to keep myself as local as possible, while we fast-track repairs. Even working at speed, I

Experiences that Bring Us Together

Along with our mostly gay travel group tours, HE Travel works with a wide variety of private groups to create meaningful travel experiences. My most recent trip was a concert week in Hiroshima, Japan.

Shukkei-En Garden in Hiroshima

In this time with so many headlines about divisions around the world, travel has the unique role of

I spent New Year’s Eve in Cedar Key, FL with my wife Trisha.

We enjoyed a potluck dinner at the local community garden. We met loads of hippies, snowbirds and locals. It was unseasonably cold. I read my previous New Year’s resolutions, and I had specifically set the goal of spending more time in warm weather during this winter. Yet there I was one year later, in Florida,

Most news items keep us informed about our world but are not part of our daily experience. However, sometimes an event happens that feels very personal and close to home. That was my experience when I heard about Japan’s Noto Peninsula earthquake on New Year’s Day 2024.  

In March 2023 I spent an amazing day near the towns of Suzu and Wajima at the tip of the Noto Peninsula.

Greetings Fellow He Travelers,

My Uncle Alvin died a few weeks ago.

He was my dad’s eldest brother and was married to my mom’s sister Doris. I was thousands of miles away, but I realized I needed to be there for my aunt. I also knew that several people from both sides of my extended family would be at the funeral.  People I haven’t seen in over 20 years.

I found myself

Plant a Tree Program

HE Travel has become increasingly aware of the environmental impact traveling causes. Since travel is part of our name, we believe it is important to help offset the damage…

Testimonials

“Our Iceland trip was great. What a unique and fascinating place to visit—from the glaciers and the tectonic plates, to the waterfalls, geysers, and lava tubes. Great guides and a great group of guys.”

“Our trip to Machu Picchu was the best adventure that we have experienced. The knowledge of the staff and accommodations were A-1. They made our 20th anniversary trip a memorable one.”

“This trip was incredible. I put my fear aside and allowed myself to play and be a kid jumping, running, diving, and exploring with such enthusiasm. I feel renewed.”

“The location was amazing. It’s hard to choose what I loved most about this destination, the food, the locals, the diving, hotel was amazing and friendly staff. Our hosts were most accommodating and every F&B place that we attended served an amazing dinner, the trip should be called Dine and Dive. If you’re looking for amazing views, diving and want to feel like a local, Saba is your place! I cant wait to return.”

“Seeing the Taj Mahal and the Mt Everest flight were on my ‘bucket’ list. It was my 16th (I think…) trip with HE travel and my 6th with Andrew as guide. Y’all must be doing something right… :=) Now if my bank account could have some time to catch up! The Kathmandu pre-trip was very good and the Everest flight was a dream come true.”

“The tour was a wonderful mixture of upscale lodgings and views of authentic life in each country.”

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Hey there! We're Two Bad Tourists. Welcome to our blog.

We're David and Auston, but you can call us Two Bad Tourists. We started this blog as a resource for LGBT+ travelers featuring international gay-friendly destinations, festivals and events. We aim to inspire LGBT+ people to explore the world wherever they might want to go while offering travel advice we've picked up after 10 years on the road. You can find travel tips as well as insider guides featuring recommendations on dining, gay nightlife, hotels, tours, sightseeing and more. We also offer our own gay group trips that we host ourselves and you're invited to join! Want to travel with us and visit one of these awesome destinations?

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• 07 Aug, 2024

The Top 20 Gay Tours to Join in 2024 & 2025

As you start dreaming of that next big trip, we thought we’d highlight some of the best gay tours around the world you should consider joining.

10 Reasons to Join Our Gay Group Trip on Virgin Voyages

Join our gay group trip on Virgin Voyages from Barcelona or Athens and visit Europe's most stunning seaside destinations in 2024.

• 28 Jun, 2024

5 Reasons Why You Should Join Our Gay Group Trip to Barcelona

We're hosting another gay group trip in Spain to Barcelona and Sitges in May 2023. Check out these top 5 reasons why you just might want to join us.

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Inspiration

Get Inspired to Explore the World!

• 06 Aug, 2024

No Trouble in Paradise – The Top 6 Gay Friendly Caribbean Islands

Enjoy our pick of six gay-friendly Caribbean islands that are heads and shoulders above their neighbors when it comes to embracing diversity.

18 Reasons Why You Should Travel Alone as a Gay Guy

Have you ever traveled alone? Consider making your next trip drama-free and all about you with these 18 compelling reasons to give solo travel a try.

9 Reasons Why You Should Take a Gay Cruise

Taking a cruise is a great option for a vacation or holiday. If you’ve never considered taking a gay cruise, here are 9 reasons that just might convince you.

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The Top 20 Gay Circuit Parties Around the World

The ultimate guide to the best gay circuit parties on the planet. With international DJ’s and over-the-top performances, these epic events are the best in the world.

• 24 Jul, 2024

Bitch Better Have My Honey – The 12 Best Bear Weeks in the World

Bear weeks are where bears and their admirers can socialize, party, and celebrate men of the bigger, hairier variety. We look at 12 of the best around the world

• 01 Jul, 2024

10 Awesome Gay Ski Weeks You Don't Want to Miss

Winter is upon us and the ski season is just getting started. Have you considered attending one of these 10 events?

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Travel Tips & Advice

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• 09 Aug, 2024

Beating Your Own Track – 6 Alternatives to Popular LGBTQ+ Tourist Destinations

Looking to avoid the tourist hordes in Europe this summer? Check out are our top six alternatives to Europe's most popular LGBTQ+ travel destinations.

As Nature Intended – The Best Gay Nude Vacation Spots

Many nude vacations have emerged for gay/bi men including men-only resorts, cruises, sailing and camping trips. From yoga and sports to parties and cultural excursions, here are just a few of the possibilities.

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Being a Good “Bad” Tourist – Ten Ethical Tourism Tips for LGBTQ+ Travelers

Being a bad tourist doesn't mean being a BAD tourist. We look at ways to leave a positive impact on the world as we travel.

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Gay Tours and Travel

Detours is a laid-back approach to gay group travel with flexible and fun-filled itineraries in diverse destinations around the world. Our less-structured, small-group trips ensure social opportunities, unique experiences, and unforgettable adventures across each of our 8 to 13-day trips.

Why Detours

Smaller group sizes, most groups have a maximum of 16 people - keeps things intimate and low impact, guaranteed departures, over 60 trips each year - and they're all guaranteed departures with no minimum travelers required, structured spontaneity, flexible, less-structured itineraries leave plenty of room for unique experiences.

12 Days in Peru

Starting at $4,060 usd.

8 Days in Peru

Starting at $3,690 usd.

12 Days in Spain

Starting at $3,860 usd.

10 Days in Europe

Starting at $3,670 usd.

11 Days in New Zealand

Starting at $3,830 usd.

11 Days in Scandinavia

Starting at $4,380 usd.

10 Days in Egypt

Starting at $4,470 usd.

11 Days in Costa Rica

Starting at $3,870 usd.

10 Days in Croatia

Starting at $4,170 usd.

11 days in South Africa

11 Days in Greece

Starting at $3,840 usd.

11 Days in Portugal & Morocco

Starting at $4,370 usd.

8 Days in Italy

Starting at $3,620 usd.

10 Days in Japan

Starting at $4,460 usd.

10 Days in Australia

Starting at $4,340 usd.

13 Days in Thailand & Cambodia

Starting at $3,890 usd, patrick n. - usa, february 15, 2024.

Tim and I had an amazing time on our Detours trip to Costa Rica. This was our first time on an all-male trip, so we did not know what to expect. We have already registered for our second trip with Detours, so you know where this review is going. Everything leading up to the trip was handled with professionalism and ease by Detours. That same vibe continued once the trip started. Brandon, our trip leader, was high-energy, fun, kind, inclusive, organized, connected, and on top of his game. He did not miss a beat, all details were attended to, and he made the trip enjoyable for all. Clay was equally kind and fun, and we look forward to one of his guided trips in the future. Costa Rica is a beautiful country. We loved the variety of our locations (the beach, the mountains, the hot springs / Volcano). A little bit of everything was perfect. We participated in so many unforgettable activities (ziplining, Tarzan swing, ATV, white-water rafting, canyoneering, sunset cruises, beaches, waterfalls, pool parties, park tours, . . . ) that filled our days and brought us even closer to the group of guys we traveled with. The beauty is you get to choose your own adventure. Do it all, or do nothing, no pressure. If that is not enough, you get to experience it all with a diverse group of men from across the globe. The friendships and connections we made were easy even for introverts and heightened our positive experiences. We hope to continue these friendships in our future travels. If you are on the fence, get off. A Detours experience is worth it. Enjoy your trip!

Brian K. - USA

June 27, 2023.

We are so grateful that we found Detours online when looking for travel options. We recently took a tour through Italy and it felt like first class all the way but for a very reasonable price. Everyone from the initial communication with Maurice in the office who handled our bookings and questions to our interactions with our tour leaders Scott and Miles was top notch. They even helped arrange a last minute cooking class for us which was above and beyond. We look forward to a future trip with Detours as it was not only the best service ever but felt like it was with family the whole time.

T.J. M. - USA

January 29, 2023.

It’s hard to find almost any business that “gets you” these days. Travel has changed so much in the past few years so it’s a big investment of time, money and expectation when you book a trip. I’ve just completed my 5th tour with Detours and I can’t say enough great things about them. This is a business built from the ground up with a passion for fun, adventure, comfort and value foremost in mind. All the tour leaders with Detours are reflections of the qualities the owner envisions. They’re all about YOU! They know what they’re doing and have never let me down or fallen short of providing an unforgettable experience. If you haven’t yet, book a tour with them and be ready to be amazed at what they do.

Rick W. - USA

June 2, 2023.

Choosing Detours Travel was the best decision I have very made seriously, without a doubt the best vacation I have ever had!!!!! I have never traveled with a group of 16 Gay Men of various backgrounds, interests; to be very honest this was an "out of the box" moment for me which caused much anxiety going in. From the moment I arrived in Athens a day early I reached out via What's App to see who was in town, hooked up with 3 guys in a few hours and the adventure began. Our Leader Brandon who was in contact with us as soon as we began the adventure and continued to check on all the group several times either in person or on line, everyday this man is on top of everything! He instantly wins everyone over with his amazing energetic, positive, humorous, welcoming, kind, warm, personality he knows his business inside and out nothing stumps him he always comes thru even after hours. What a beyond excellent representative for Detours Travel Bravo Brandon!!!!! The trip every detail looked after amazing transfers, hotels, restaurants, scheduled and extra tours offered ( no hard sell just suggestions you may want to pursue or not ) Any of my friends knows I am a tough demanding customer with high standards. I can honestly say all were met no complaints whatsoever ever I would go on another Detours adventure for sure maybe only travel this way from now on Two more things I will share: 1/ I had a little incident with an ATV vehicle no injury to me whatsoever Brandon managed me and was the go between with vendor keeping me informed with calming grace and figuring all out. 2/ before reaching our last destination Brandon shared there was problem with my room but assured me it would be handled as it was; when we reached hotel the management was amazing laid out the options which I agreed to - Amazing Property & Service. That is it...... having a tough time..... without Detours & Brandon getting thru may days without their guidance Cheers to you all,

Paul B. - USA

September 26, 2023.

I rarely write reviews but I simply had to write one for Detours after returning from their Italy trip. Honestly, the way I found Detours is that I searched for “Gay tour Italy”. And while there were a number of tour groups offering trips to Italy, Detours had a trip that was closest to the dates I wanted to travel. So I booked the trip and hoped for the best! But I didn’t need to worry, and you won’t need to worry either if you book with them. My trip leaders ended up being Miles & Ollie and they were both knowledgeable, professional, helpful, friendly, entertaining, and adorable. They thought of every detail and even included some surprises along the way. I met some great people and made memories that will last a lifetime. I was genuinely sad when it was over. This trip actually meant a lot to me and thanks to Detours, it was everything I had hoped for and more. I can’t imagine booking with anyone else in the future. Now I just need to decide where to go next!

John D - Australia

August 7, 2023.

As a solo traveller I was a little worried about going on a group trip.  I saw all the other positive reviews and booked. Well there is a reason why the reviews are all 5 stars, I had the most amazing trip to Greece. I felt so relaxed right from the start after meeting all the other guys and our tour guide Oliver. The next 12 days was like having a holiday with all your friends and as a group we got to see and do so many fabulous things together. Oliver was our guide and how lucky were we to have him. He just did everything for us from booking taxis, restaurants, tours and putting information into our group chat so we always new exactly what was happening. He would even put a link in there to find our way back to our hotel after a couple to many drinks which was needed a few times. Detours is 5 star from the moment you make contact with them and continue even after your tour is finished. I just recommend them so much if you are looking to have that trip of a lifetime that you will never forget. I can’t wait for my next adventure with them.

Daniel W. - USA

Wonderfully run tours for gay men. I took their 12 day tour of Spain which included Barcelona, Granada, Sevilla and Madrid. I enjoyed their helpful yet flexible format so much I'm planning my next tour with them. Unlike other group tours, you're not stuck on a bus and forced into their schedule. You can go with the group to popular locations or you can spend time on your own, or both! It's really the best of both worlds, having a reliable tour leader to take you to see the sites--as well as having all the free time you want to explore on your own. There's a walking tour of each city, and a list of the most popular sites. You choose what you want to do, and the tour leader creates a schedule so your interests don't conflict. You go to big attractions, like Gaudi's Sagrada Familia, as a group because they've arranged for tickets in advance (without which you can't get in). Our group leader, Dan, was always helpful, organized, kind, cheerful, always calm, and funny. He made sure we got to see what we wanted to see, either as a group or individually. The 14 gay guys on the trip were all good-natured and easy to get along with. As well as having a great format, Detours is also an excellent value as travel gets more expensive. You stay at lovely, centrally located hotels, with a buffet breakfast included to keep you going all day. The group meets for dinner which you can attend or not, as always, it's your choice. Transportation between cities on the tour are also included. It's a low stress, great fun way to discover the world with like-minded people.

Sonny C. - USA

March 21, 2024.

The 12-day tour of New Zealand was an absolute adventure from start to finish! Exploring Auckland, Rotorua, Wellington, and Queenstown provided a diverse and captivating experience that left us in awe of this beautiful country. Highlights included ascending the Sky Tower in Auckland, where the panoramic views took our breath away. The wine tour on Waiheke Island introduced us to some of the finest local wines in a picturesque setting. Hobbiton was a dream come true for any Lord of the Rings fan, with its charming hobbit holes and lush landscapes. The thrill of Zorbing in Rotorua was unlike anything we've ever experienced, adding an exciting twist to our journey. And who could forget the majestic beauty of Milford Sound? Flying back from Milford Sound to Queenstown on a Cessna plane was an unforgettable highlight, offering unparalleled views of the stunning fjords and rugged landscapes below. Throughout the trip, our tour leader, Chase, went above and beyond to ensure everything ran smoothly. From organizing activities to providing insightful suggestions, Chase's expertise and enthusiasm enhanced our experience tremendously. In conclusion, the journey through New Zealand was nothing short of extraordinary. From its vibrant cities to its breathtaking natural wonders, this tour showcased the best that this remarkable country has to offer. We returned home with memories that will last a lifetime and a deep appreciation for the beauty of New Zealand. Highly recommended for any adventure seeker!

Brooks B. - USA

March 28, 2024.

Just finished up my 9th trip with Detours Travel and it was yet again another incredible trip! My first trip was in Costa Rica in 2015. Since then I have traveled with Detours to Peru, Thailand, South Africa, Croatia, Israel/Jordan, Italy, Scandinavia and New Zealand. If you are looking for a memorable trip with amazing adventures, I highly recommend you book with Detours! I am less than a week from returning from New Zealand and already thinking about my next trip.

Victor C. - USA

October 24, 2023.

My husband & I recently returned from the October 2023 Spain trip. We really loved our Detour Tours travel experience. Our trip was made up of 16 fellow travelers - 4 couples & 8 singles who were all personable and easy going. We had a wonderful Tour Leader, Scott, who was very knowledgeable, experienced, approachable and looked out for all of us.  He went out of his way to be inclusive and was a great source of information on the local sites and activities.  Detours arranged the hotel accommodations, the airport transfers, and the travel between the 4 amazing cities of Barcelona, Granada, Seville, and Madrid. The tour included walking tours and a major attraction at the start of each destination city, but the rest of the time we were free to explore, join a group activity, or just chill in our hotel room or a nearby cafe. Our favorite experiences were the walking tours because the local gay tour guides were so knowledgeable, informative and personable. We learned a lot about the rich local history and culture of the Spanish cities we visited.  Our second favorite experiences were the fun group dinners and pre-and post dinner drinks that Scott organized and which most of us joined in. Although there was no pressure to join in other optional activities, we ended up signing up for a number of them such as cooking class, watching a flamenco show, and seeing the Prado Museum. They were all memorable and fun. Thank you Scott & Detours. If you are looking for a well run LGBT group travel experience, we strongly recommend Detours Travel. Victor and Jim from Palm Springs CA.

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Miles Mitchinson

My job isn't done until my group members are having the time of their lives and return home raving...

Shane Bingham

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I love to be the one to guide you, encourage you, push you out of your comfort zone...

• Brandon Folkes

Brand & Marketing Manager, Leader Development & Trip Leader

I want to ensure you get that same feeling of thrill and excitement that I get when I travel.

Maurice Van Veen Vazquez

Guest Experience Manager

My outlook on life changed tremendously through immersing myself into cultures and vast scenery...

Pete Westergaard

Operations Manager

Whether exploring a new destination or tackling a challenging project, I thrive on new experiences and opportunities to grow.

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Casey Miller

When not traveling and leading tours, I managed to (barely) graduate from Harvard with two masters degrees...

Darren Frances

I’m passionate about learning the stories and histories that make up the identity of every new destination I visit...

Oliver Armstrong

My ultimate goal is to inspire others to explore the world with an open mind, curiosity, and making a positive impact.

Thaddeus Eng

I hope whatever Cliff's Notes I accrue on my way will help you on yours!

Chase Bovet

I can't wait to see you out there and look forward to sharing the trip of a lifetime with you.

Clayton Inglis

To be able to share the world I've come to know and love with my fellow LGBTQ+ community members is a dream come true.

Christmas in Paradise: How Sunny Destinations Celebrate the Holidays

• Aug 22, 2024

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Embracing the Aussie Summer: An LGBT Traveler’s Guide to Visiting Australia

• Jul 22, 2024

If thoughts of a sun-soaked Southern Hemishphere summer adventure fill your mind while the cold of our Northern Hemisphere winter knocks at your door, then Australia might be just the escape you'…

Is Japan the next big gay destination?

• Jun 6, 2024

Japan. Known for its mesmerizing blend of ancient traditions and cutting-edge modernity, it is also a growing and enticing ‘bucket list’ destination for those in our community. With its warm hospit…

How Gay Travel is Making a Positive Impact on the World

• May 22, 2024

In recent years, the visibility and acceptance of our community has grown significantly around the globe. This is not only reflected in social policies and cultural norms but also in our ever gr…

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Thanksgiving Caribbean Escape

Discover our newest way to play.

Sail away this Thanksgiving with Atlantis on Virgin Voyages spectacular new Resilient Lady! Enjoy five magical days and nights of all-star entertainment, fun parties, Virgin’s premium sailing, and 2800 great friends from all over the world. With plenty of time to play, relax, and refresh onboard, it’s the easiest, sunniest getaway and the best all-gay cruise value we’ve ever created, with great deals starting at $799! Sailing from Miami to Nassau and Puerto Plata, November 25 – 30, 2024.

Exotic Southern Caribbean Cruise

Six Islands. Seven Nights. Exciting New Itinerary.

We’ve crafted an incredible winter adventure on Virgin Voyages! Sail from San Juan to five stunning and exotic Southern Caribbean islands from February 22 to March 1, 2025. Enjoy seven magical nights of jaw-dropping entertainment, unique dining, and sensational fun with 2800 guys from around the world. Experience the Resilient Lady’s gorgeous design and spectacular service. Reserve your cabin and join the fun!

A Private Oasis Designed Just for Us

The Ultimate Gay Resort Week!

The ultimate gay resort week keeps getting better with new entertainment, exciting new parties, and wide-open places to play and relax. At Club Atlantis Cancun you’ll find it all, from massive private beaches to incredible sports activities to delicious dining. Come play with us on some of the world’s most beautiful beaches! Great deals from just $1549 with virtually everything included. Don’t miss out on the fun that never stops!

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Halloween San Diego to Mexico Cruise

Oct 26 - Nov 2, 2024 Holland America Line MS Koningsdam

SOLD OUT! Halloween sizzles in 2024 when Atlantis returns to San Diego to sail the gorgeous Koningsdam to Mexico’s best beaches including Puerto Vallarta, Cabo San Lucas, and Mazatlan. An epic week of outrageous parties, sizzling entertainment, and nonstop fun awaits our 2500 guys from around the world. It’s our easiest and friendliest cruise of the year, with amazing low fares from just $849!

November 25 - 30, 2024 Virgin Voyages Resilient Lady

Sail away this Thanksgiving with Atlantis on the all-new Virgin Resilient Lady! We’ve created the ultimate getaway with five magical days and nights filled with Atlantis all-star entertainment, a bunch of ridiculously fun parties, Virgin’s premium sailing experience, and great friends from everywhere! It’s the easiest getaway we’ve ever created, filled with sunny days as we sail from Miami to Nassau and Puerto Plata, plus plenty of time onboard to relax, play, and refresh. Our family of great friends is ready to welcome you with amazing low fares from just $799.

35th Anniversary Caribbean Cruise

February 3 - 10, 2025 Royal Caribbean Allure of the Seas

SOLD OUT! The big one is bigger and better than ever in 2025! Get onboard the world's largest gay cruise when we sail the spectacular Allure of the Seas from Miami to the best of the Caribbean. Join 5500 guys from around the world for an insanely fun week of incredible parties, sensational entertainment, massive outdoor concerts, great friends, and so much more. Seven fabulous nights from just $1299!

Virgin Exotic Southern Caribbean 2025

Feb 22 - Mar 1, 2025 Virgin Voyages Resilient Lady

Atlantis sails deep into the heart of the Caribbean for our relaxing February cruise with an all-new experience on the dazzling Resilient Lady. Set sail for five magnificent islands as we journey from San Juan to Tortola, Barbados, St Lucia, St John’s Antigua and St. Maarten. It’s an exotic voyage designed for exploration and great friends onboard Virgin Voyages newest and most welcoming ship. Featuring eye-popping design, incredible fully-included dining, superior service and so much more. All from just $1299!

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Club Atlantis Cancun 2025

Apr 26 - May 3, 2025 Club Med Cancun

Atlantis returns to Club Med Cancun for the ultimate all-gay beach resort. Join 750 friends on our most active vacation, featuring everything from private white sand beaches to thrilling sports (try the Flying Trapeze or BootCamp) to endless entertainment. All in a completely comfortable, welcoming environment. Best of all, our all-inclusive fares include absolutely everything (even drinks!) for one low price. It’s the best value in gay vacations.

Fun in unexpected ways with friends old and new. Always smiling, sometimes silly. It's the way we play.

The best parties on land or sea, with outrageous themes and world-class productions for every musical taste.

Stellar entertainment from our community and beyond. From superstars to soon-to-be-stars.

Awesome experiences in the world's most exciting destinations.

For over 30 years, Atlantis Events has hosted iconic all-gay vacations in some of the most stunning and exotic places on the planet. What started as a “gay week on the beach with friends” has since turned into the largest gay-owned company in the world dedicated to creating unique vacations for LGBTQ travelers. Today, we host more than 20,000 guests a year, but we’re still dedicated to creating a welcoming community of passionate, like-minded people, where travelers can relax, be themselves, have fun, meet new friends, and learn new things.

Each Atlantis cruise or resort offers a carefree experience based around friendship, camaraderie, relaxation, indulgence, adventure, and pure uninhibited fun. Beautiful locations, fantastic entertainment and legendary parties set the the stage for the magic that happens when a diverse group comes together and everyone is free to be themselves.

That’s the way we play, and it’s why our guests return year after year. So what are you waiting for? Experience Atlantis for yourself.

BRAVA ITALIA Naples ~ Capri ~ Amalfi Coast

May 22 - 30, 2025.

That’s us in the photo above during our last tour to the Amalfi Coast prior to the pandemic, with picturesque Positano in the background! This incredible tour includes Naples, Pompeii, Herculaneum, Vesuvius, the Isle of Capri, Sorrento, and the Amalfi Coast. It is one of our most requested tours of all time, and we are thrilled to be offering it once again over the Memorial Day weekend next year. Come with us and you will understand why it is so popular with the Toto Tours crowd! Click here for full details.

Naples and Surrounds

Our tour begins in the historic city of Naples, which boasts incredible museums and imposing buildings. Towering over the horizon is Mount Vesuvius which created the frozen-in-time museums of Pompeii and Herculaneum, which we visit in a full-day excursion from the city. You’ll want to arrive early to soak up more of the atmosphere of this city!

The Isle of Capri

A hydrofoil whisks us across the Gulf of Naples to the Isle of Capri. During the day it is full of short-term visitors, but we are staying for two nights so we experience an entirely different side of Capri. In the evening, after the last day-trippers leave, a kind of exclusive peace settles over the island as those who are privileged to be staying here emerge for their evening stroll, or to sip drinks on the famous square, the Piazzetta. (Seen here: The “Mama Mia” bridge to Anacapri and the stunning colors inside the Blue Grotto)

The Amalfi Coast

Thrill to one of the world’s most scenic drives - the Amalfitana - passing between sea and mountains on a road carved out of the sheer rock. This coast was named on UNESCO’s list of World Heritage in 1997. We visit the towns of Ravello, Positano and Amalfi among others during our three-night stay among these amazing seaside towns. We return to Naples for our farewell festivities.

TIME AND TIDE WAIT FOR NO MAN . . .

Flowing gently with life.

Toto Tours is celebrating its 35th Anniversary in 2025, and it has been my privilege to bring this company into existence and to share so many life-changing experiences with all of you over these decades. This passion for travel has been my true calling in life, but now I need to heed other calls from my family and friends and from my own body and spirit. I will be hanging up my Ruby Slippers at the conclusion of our final tour next year. Toto Tours may very well continue on, with me in an advisory role for a short time after that. Details are still being ironed out and I’ll keep you posted. The upcoming tours represent our best chance to say farewell to each other in person. I hope you will travel with me at least one more time before the end of next year. This decision feels absolutely right for me, and it brings me great peace of mind. I recognize the truth of impermanence - nothing lasts forever - and I want to exit gracefully while I still have my full faculties and so much more living to do. Please join me in celebrating the beauty of the full circle of life. With love and gratitude, Dan Ware Please Note: If you have any outstanding credits with Toto Tours from pandemic-cancelled tours, you need to use those before the end of 2025.

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Last chance bhutan.

In about one month we will need to finalize our Bhutan arrangements and release unsold hotel space. Dan will be hosting this group for his third and final time. Come and see why he rates it at the top of his favorite destinations in the world. Details here.

Incredible India

Our tour to visit the glories of Rajasthan with the Jaisalmer Desert Festival is selling like hotcakes and is now a guaranteed departure. This tour will absolutely knock your socks off! Details here.

Best of South Africa

You won’t find a better opportunity to take in all the highlights of South Africa than our tour next April, with an exciting extension to see Victoria Falls! We still have a few spaces available, but our exclusive properties won’t allow us to hold them much longer. Don’t delay! Details here.

LOOKING AHEAD THROUGH 2025…

Tour details in progress.

In addition to those with final details already published on our website, these are the remaining tours in the planning stages for the remainder of Dan’s tenure. - Barging in Belgium, July 2025 - Sri Lanka, August 2025 - Greece, September 2025 - India for Diwali, October 2025 - Colombia, December 2025 Let us know if you would like advance details about any of these tours as we finalize our plans.

We look forward to traveling with you soon!

Current tours.

Sept 17-24, 2024 Paris Ext. to 27th Sold Out

FRENCH TOAST Barging The Oise Valley

November 11 – 24, 2024 Open - Guaranteed

THUNDER DRAGON Bhutan Adventure

February 3 - 17, 2025 Open - Guaranteed

INCREDIBLE INDIA Rajasthan & Desert Festival

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DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH Glittering South Africa + Vic Falls

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BRAVA ITALIA Naples, Capri & Amalfi

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BELGIAN WAFFLE Barging Belgium’s Waterways

November 23 – December 2, 2020 Jordan Ext. Dec. 2-6, 2020 - Postponed

River of the Pharaohs Luxury Egypt (plus Jordan)

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Winter Wonderland Finland Arctic Adventure

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Illyria Albania ~ macedonia ~ kosovo

May 7 – 15, 2020 Postponed

ANIMAL KINGDOM Botswana fly-in safari

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Atlantic Archipelago The azores (plus Lisbon)

June 25 – July 5, 2020 Postponed

Incredible Indonesia Singapore ~ Bali ~ Flores

July 29 – August 9, 2020 Postponed

Spice Island Flavors of Sri Lanka

August 15 - 23, 2020 Postponed

PRIDE Stockholm / Gothenburg / Copenhagen Pride

September 6 – 15, 2020 Extend to Cinque Terre Sept. 15 - 19 Postponed

Cinque Aquae Italy’s Lake District

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BENGAL BAY Kolkata, Sundarbans, Andaman Islands

December 7 - 19, 2020 Postponed

Last Continent Antarctica Cruise

Toto Tours has been serving the LGBT community since 1990. We have the distinction of being the only gay tour company in existence which has been operating with the same ownership and management for such a long span of time. We are dedicated to creating exciting travel opportunities that enable our community to explore the wonders of the world in comfort and safety while having the time of our lives. Our clients come back year after year to travel with friends they met on previous trips, meet new people, and explore different parts of the world. We constantly develop new adventures to appeal to everyone, from those venturing on their first international trip, to even the most experienced and frequent world travelers. Our name is derived from the Latin word meaning "all-inclusive." The rainbow colors of the gay flag weave through the word TOTO to symbolize our connections to each other, our communities, and the world. Welcome to Toto Tours, where gay men, lesbians, their close friends and adult family members are invited to travel together to discover all the delights this world has to offer -- "in Toto."

KEEP HOPE ALIVE

In this difficult time we have created a short video message (at the right) to offer encouragement, and to remind everyone that this pandemic will someday be a memory. We might feel helpless right now, and unable to do all the things that we love (like exploring the world), but we can use this time to take an exciting inner journey to explore more about who we are and what we believe. We could very well emerge from such an adventure as more centered humans who are better able to cope with unexpected situations, and grateful for all the good things we have. This is the Toto Spirit. We support you on this inner journey and look forward to the day when we can once again travel together! -- Dan Ware, Founder

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Words cannot describe the beauty of Africa -- seeing wildlife in their natural habitat along with the beauty and landscape of the Namibian desert. I had such a great time that I returned for my second Toto Tour (to the Balkans) one year later!

Grover Hartt & Charles Foster

The meticulous arrangements, including knowledgeable and accessible lecturers with comfortable and luxurious accommodations, impressed us a lot during our incredible trip to Antarctica.

Nick Barrett and Piero Bonino

Our Normandy tour with Toto in 2016 was fascinating, with a brilliant local guide who had an encyclopedic knowledge of French History, Customs and Culture.

I had an excellent time with the Toto Tours family for our Antarctica cruise. Dan is always making sure everyone is taken care of and included. I would encourage people to give Toto Tours a try because it is awesome!

Hima Pamoedjo

I am a retired illustrator, and I enjoy traveling all around the world with Toto Tours. I've gone with them to Costa Rica, Newfoundland, Germany, Turkey, and most recently to Tanzania where we saw incredible wildlife! I love meeting new friends on Toto Tours, and hope I will meet you on a future tour -- somewhere in this beautiful world!

Russell Andrews

It was such a great tour with an expertly thought-out itinerary visiting a mix of "can't miss" sites and small out of the way gems that a larger group might not have been able to do. I truly look forward to my next journey with Toto.

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The Gay Travel Experience: New York City

New York is one of the most LGBT-friendly cities in the world. No matter who you are, being gay in New York City is easy. I’ve been a New York local for more than nine years, so I’ll give you some of the best New York City gay travel advice you can find.

From exploring storybook-like neighborhoods to dancing until sunrise at intense circuit parties, there are limitless ways for gay travelers to explore New York. Fashion, Broadway shows, and unforgettable skyline views are just a few.

Gay, lesbian and transgender populations in New York City are huge, so it’s easy for everyone to find their community.

First-time visitors should plan their trip to New York carefully. This ubiquitously unforgiving city is exciting and inspiring, but can be a bit intimidating for some.

Below, I’ll tell you where to stay for the best gay New York experience, recommend crowd-favorite hotels, restaurants, gay nightlife venues and share useful travel tips.

New York Gay Neighborhoods & Where to Stay

The location of your hotel or apartment rental in New York will have a huge impact on your travel experience. Where you stay, with respect to both the neighborhood and quality of accommodation, can absolutely make or break a trip. 

Overall, New York has such an enormous gay population that it’s not necessary to limit yourself to gay-specific hotels, although I will say that some of New York City’s gay hotels all offer stylishly unique experiences that travelers love.

Below I’ll recommend some hotels and other places to stay by borough, in addition to covering the various gay neighborhoods of New York City.

Manhattan Hotels & Where to Stay

Gay travelers visiting New York have a ton of Manhattan neighborhood options. I recommend staying in Hell’s Kitchen , the  West Village , or Chelsea since these are New York’s best gay neighborhoods.

Alternatively, the cozy  East Village  or upscale  SoHo are great Manhattan neighborhoods for tourists. There’s plenty of entertainment and culture to explore in these areas day and night.

A  Hell’s Kitchen apartment rental is your best bet if you want to be in the heart of New York’s best gay neighborhood. You won’t find many hotels in Hell’s Kitchen given the area is largely residential. Most of the time, apartments are decently affordable, too. 

If you prefer a standard hotel but still want to be near the gay bustle of Hell’s Kitchen, browse hotels along Central Park South or hotels in Midtown West .

1 Hotel Central Park is a modern and luxurious option in this area of the city. I love the woody scent in the lobby, as well as the ground-floor coffee shop. Rooms here are super clean and have everything a traveler needs.

Arlo Midtown is one of my personal favorite hotels in New York. It’s not easy to find a hotel as stylish as this at such an affordable price. I’ve recommended Arlo Midtown to many friends and they have all loved the hotel’s gorgeous style and rooftop.

Manhattan’s  Meatpacking District  is a chic neighborhood just north of the West Village. Along the area’s historic cobblestone roads you’ll find plenty of luxury shops and trendy nightclubs that occupy buildings once used as meatpacking facilities.

The Standard High Line  is one of the most beloved New York City gay hotels . This high-rise hotel is right here on the edge of the Meatpacking District. Locals love their rooftop and bar!

I recommend gay travelers avoid hotels in Midtown East , the Financial District  and Chinatown , all for different reasons. 

Firstly, most gay locals don’t live in these areas. Midtown East is isolated from gay nightlife, the Financial District can feel lifeless in the evening, and Chinatown is both isolated and dirty.

If you want to stay in Manhattan, go with the other areas mentioned above!

Brooklyn Hotels & Where to Stay

Williamsburg is the ideal neighborhood for New York City gay travelers who want to experience that classic “Brooklyn” feel. It’s vibrant and gritty at the same time.

Also, Williamsburg is essentially Brooklyn’s gay neighborhood. However, you’ll find gay locals from here all the way eastward through the middle of Bushwick , following the route of the L subway corridor.

The Williamsburg Hotel has some of the most stylish hotel rooms in New York. The bathrooms are incredible, as are the views from the small private balconies. They have an epic rooftop pool, too!

Calmer vibes can be found in the Fort Greene and Park Slope neighborhoods, best for park lovers or families. Fort Greene & Park Slope apartment rentals have that quintessential “upscale Brooklyn” vibe.

Avoid staying in  Bed-Stuy , Crown Heights , and definitely East New York , since these Brooklyn neighborhoods are not well-suited for travelers and tend to be less safe.

Where to Stay in Queens

Astoria has the most upbeat and authentic New York feel of any neighborhood in Queens. Home of the borough’s best gay nightlife, Astoria is also the Queens gay neighborhood.

Located just north of Long Island City, Astoria has convenient subway access to Manhattan, making for a convenient yet relatively affordable area of New York for travelers.

You’re best off with an apartment rental in Astoria  since the neighborhood is mostly residential.

Hotels in Long Island City have become a fantastic in-between option as the neighborhood has sprouted dozens of skyscrapers in recent years. Here you’ll only be one stop away from Manhattan while still being close to Astoria’s gay nightlife.

More Ideas → My Full List of Popular Gay Hotels in New York

New York City Gay-Popular Restaurants

New York City has an astronomical number of restaurants . Every type of cuisine is within arm’s reach, too. Here are my select favorites and recommendations.

Elmo – One of the most iconic New York City gay restaurants. They’ve been around since 2001, serving American comfort cuisine in Chelsea. Elmo is always packed with gay men, who enjoy the company of the restaurant’s gay servers and bartenders.

La Pulpería – Popular for energetic drag brunches with unlimited cocktails in a rustic-feeling Latin-style restaurant.

Totto Ramen  – Cozy and inexpensive ramen shop with multiple locations in Hell’s Kitchen and East Midtown. Cash only.

Agave  – Wildly popular Mexican brunch in the West Village. There are typically long waiting lists for reservations, so make them early.

GITANO Garden of Love  – Showing off some beautiful Tulum vibes, GITANO is one of the best summertime restaurants in New York popular with gay locals. It’s a delicious Mexican spot in SoHo with a ton of cozy couches, large tables, and a wraparound bar.

Cheeseboat Hell’s Kitchen – Unique traditional Georgian restaurant serving hilariously-named cocktails like “Putin’s Tears” with some of the friendliest service I’ve ever experienced in New York City.

Amy’s Bread  – Quaint coffee shop with breakfast treats located in Hell’s Kitchen. Popular with gay locals.

Turkuaz Restaurant – Delicious and authentic Turkish cuisine with some of the best service I’ve ever received in New York. Their rear outdoor seating area makes you feel like you’re in the Mediterranean!

As-Is NYC – Chic, dimly-lit imported beer bar in Hell’s Kitchen with a rotating selection and mouth-watering bar food. Great for couples. Attracts a crowd during happy hour, but is quieter later in the evening.

Pardon My French  – French restaurant in the East Village with a fantastic bottomless brunch.

Cafeteria  – Brunch popular with gay locals in warmer weather. Mouth-watering custom drinks in West Midtown. Can get busy in summer, so it’s best to call for a reservation.

Holey Cream – My absolute favorite take-out dessert spot in New York. In the middle of the Hell’s Kitchen neighborhood, Holey Cream serves creamy ice cream sandwiches using warm donuts. They sound delicious, but taste even better than they sound!

Norma  – Authentic Sicilian restaurant in Hell’s Kitchen with super friendly staff, traditional cocktails, and outdoor seating. One of my favorites!

La Pecora Bianca  – Fantastic gay-friendly New York Italian restaurant in NoMad. I’ve enjoyed a few group dinners here and always loved the wine selection and service.

Pastis  – The five-star service and unbeatable food at Pastis is something you definitely won’t forget. The ambiance is incredible with the feel of a Paris Bistro. Making a reservation is best since this popular restaurant fills quickly.

ilili Restaurant – Authentic upscale Lebanese restaurant on Fifth Avenue. Here you’ll find a host of rich, traditional dishes from Lebanon . Definitely try some Arak to drink and Knefeh for dessert!

The Big Gay Ice Cream Shop – Perfect place to cool down in summer with locations in both the Seaport District and Upper West Side in Manhattan.

New York City Gay Travel Experiences

There are tons of things for gay travelers to do in New York, no matter whether it’s day, night, a weekday or weekend. Below are some of my favorite things to do in New York, even as a local.

Explore World-Class Museums

New York has endless options for well-known museums and several are among the top 10 art museums worldwide.

The Metropolitan Museum of Art is a must for first-timers. It’s also super budget-friendly, with only a $5 suggested donation. The Met has so many exhibits spanning so many periods, it honestly could take days to see everything inside.

The Museum of Modern Art is another top museum in New York. I always enjoy visiting—it’s a wonderful way to spend an afternoon.

Other popular options I’d recommend include The Whitney Museum of American Art and the world’s first gay art museum, the Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art .

Christopher Street Pier

Relax at the Christopher Street Pier with all the gay locals during warm sunny days in New York. Bring some food and a packable lawn blanket to spread out while enjoying views of the World Trade Center.

Little Island

Little Island is one of the city’s newest attractions. A small public park built on pedestals above the Hudson River, there’s plenty of open space to sit in the grass, grab a snack or wander the pathway to the park’s lookout point.

Explore the West Village & Stonewall

A historic New York City gay neighborhood with all sorts of boutique shops, spend an afternoon wandering Manhattan’s quaint West Village . You’ll see rainbow flags everywhere!

An LGBTQ+ historical walking tour is one of the easiest ways to get to know the area. Plus, it’s a great way to meet new people. There are even Greenwich and West Village LGBTQ+ history and food tours available.

Stroll by the Stonewall National Monument in the West Village, the famous place of the 1969 riots in that contributed to the Gay Liberation Movement. Stop in the tavern for a drink and pay some gratitude to the LGBT rights we do have!

New York's Newest Observation Decks

Glitzy new observation decks have recently opened atop some of New York City’s shiny new skyscrapers. Now, the Empire State Building Observatory , 30 Rockefeller Plaza, and the World Trace Center aren’t the only places you can get epic skyline views.

Grab tickets for The Edge NYC , the highest outdoor observation deck in the Western Hemisphere! Experience the glass floor panel along with breathtaking views of the New York skyline and the Hudson River.

Sunset is the most popular time and tickets around this part of the day sell out fast, so book early.

SUMMIT One Vanderbilt is New York’s newest observatory and it’s truly jaw-dropping. With two expansive all-glass levels and glass-floor ledges that levitate over 1000 feet above street level, the experience here is unforgettable. I had a ton of fun playing in the room filled with silver balloons!

Additional private experiences are available as well, including the Ascent glass-floor elevator ride up to an even higher and more private observatory area.

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Sail The New York Harbor

Why pay for something you can get for free? Take a free ride on the IKEA Water Taxi or the Staten Island Ferry   Both ferries shuttle back and forth from downtown Manhattan. You may not want to go to Staten Island or IKEA, but the ride is beautiful.

Relax in Sheep Meadow

Sheep Meadow is a local gay hangout spot in Central Park where the LGBT community convenes on the second Sunday of each month in the summer. New York gay locals usually refer to it as “Sheeps Meadow.” Here’s the exact location in Central Park .

Gay locals flaunt their sexy swimwear here in Sheep Meadow all summer, even though there’s nowhere to swim! Bring plenty of snacks, cold water, and a compact packable picnic blanket .

Fuel Up on Street Food

Grab some lunch to go at a Halal food truck. Food from these trucks is delicious, cheap, and loved by locals. One of the most famous vendors is The Halal Guys . But in all my experience, any street cart that sells Halal food is usually great.

Walk The Brooklyn Bridge

Along the Brooklyn Bridge pedestrian path, you’ll find a ton of tourists, but this is still an experience that first-timers always want to do at least once! Walking across is fantastic in the early morning or late afternoon for sunset.

Brooklyn Bridge Park is along the waterfront in the area between the Brooklyn and Manhattan Bridges. One of the best outdoor places to visit in New York, there’s a ton to do here. 

Walk along the waterfront promenade, grab food or drinks at the Time Out Market or explore some of the area’s upscale shops.

Related → Romantic Things to Do in New York City

Visit Local New York Gay Beaches

The New York City area has a couple of noteworthy gay beaches worth a day trip during summertime. The most popular is Gunnison Beach . While it’s technically in New Jersey, you’ll find New York gay locals here every weekend.

Gunnison is also one of the most popular nude beaches in the metro area. You can catch the Seastreak Ferry that will take you there directly from Manhattan 

Jacob Riis Beach is the official New York City gay beach and has been a popular summertime LGBTQ hangout since the 1940s. It’s located in southern Queens on the Rockaway Peninsula, which is easily reachable via public transit. 

Make sure to pack snacks and a day bag full of all your gay beach essentials because there’s not too many places for refreshments near Riis Beach.

Explore Manhatan's Seaport District

Downtown Manhattan’s Seaport District is a great evening adventure, popular for evening cocktails outdoors. The Seaport is a rapidly developing area of Manhattan with scenic views of the Brooklyn Bridge, summer movie screenings, and the wonderful Pier 17 .

Drinks on Stone Street

Local New Yorkers are obsessed with Stone Street , a haven for after-work drinks in the Financial District. Charming outdoor picnic tables on a cobblestone street lined with high-end pubs will warm your soul.

Get more ideas for things to do in NYC at night from my guest post on GetYourGuide!

New York Gay Bars

There are so many gay bars in New York. In terms of strictly gay bars, my personal favorites are REBAR Chelsea , Rise Bar in Hell’s Kitchen, and Eagle NYC gay leather bar.

With endless bar options full of handsome locals to explore, single gay travelers will have an especially epic time in New York!

I cover all the best local gay bars here in wolfyy’s  NYC Gay Bar Ultimate Guide , where you can find out which types of guys are at each gay bar, which days each bar is busiest, and their overall vibe. 

Check out wolfyy’s custom Google Maps layer of all 40+ New York City gay bars, which is continually updated and contains essential notes for each bar.

Below, you’ll find recommendations for gay parties and events!

New York Gay Parties

New York City has all different types of gay parties, from massive circuit events to upscale rooftop gatherings. The list below covers them all!

Larger gay parties in New York are hosted monthly or a few times per year, but there’s almost always at least one major gay party happening every weekend. A few of them change location, so double check the party’s social media before heading out.

Horse Meat Disco

Horse Meat Disco is one of New York’s biggest and most popular gay parties. These massive dance parties are usually held at the Knockdown Center , an industrial venue with both indoor and outdoor spaces on multiple levels. 

Expect more lyrical music than traditional circuit parties , but a similar type of gay crowd.

WRECKED is also held in the Knockdown Center—in the underground space called Basement New York .

This is an event where you won’t find anyone talking or looking at their phone while dancing. On the dance floor at WRECKED parties, talking and phone use are not allowed on the dance floor.

This focus on enjoying dancing as well as respect for personal space helps the party live up to being “a staple of tripping, psychedelic dance in the queer underground.”

UltraMaroon

UltraMaroon is one of my new favorite gay parties in New York. This party is a monthly event, centrally located in a large midtown Manhattan club space called Blue Midtown . 

Expect upbeat electronic music and tons of shirtless men. The vibe is something between a circuit party and a chic urban disco. People wear everything from button-down shirts to ostentatious club-kid outfits.

Battle Hymn

Battle Hymn is a semi-monthly NYC gay party hugely popular with locals. LadyFag produces and hosts this huge party in elaborate venues, typically in Manhattan. Visitors come all the way from neighboring cities to experience these LadyFag mega parties.

Spilled Milk & Chim3ra

Spilled Milk and Chim3ra are two relatively new gay parties also hosted by LadyFag. They both have a mix of circuit and queer crowds. Spilled Milk is held at the new Música Club in Manhattan, which used to be the old Space Ibiza nightclub. Chim3ra is at Nebula Club .

Expect several mega-rooms/levels with dark, electronic beats at each of these parties. Make sure to wear your most eccentric and flashy gay circuit gear .

MEAT NEW YORK

MEAT NYC  parties are definitely the most popular semi-regular gay circuit parties in New York. Expect a sweaty, shirtless and mainly 30+ crowd. MEAT is a leather & fur-fetish-themed party with dark rooms (one of the few New York City gay parties that has them). 

Wearing mostly jockstraps and sexy underwear , gay men go back and forth from the dance floor to the cruising area, which is in a sectioned-off area of the club.

There is always a clothes check available, too. Make sure to bring cash for this!

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Alegria is consistently one of the most extravagant gay dance parties in New York.

Hosted by Ric Sena , these massive circuit parties tend to only be held surrounding holiday weekends or other popular events. But when they do happen, you can bet all the circuit gays in NYC will be there.

Alegria Sunrise is the daytime after-hours version of the Alegria party. These parties typically start at 12 PM and continue all day at a glorious rooftop venue with skyline views.

Many Alegria Sunrise parties are at The Roof at 74 Wythe , a chic event space with views of Manhattan. It’s adjacent to the gorgeous Wythe Hotel , which is the perfect place to stay if you’ll be attending Alegria Sunrise! 

Parties at 3 Dollar Bill

3 Dollar Bill is a hugely popular gay event space in East Williamsburg, branded as New York’s premier queer bar and performance venue.

They’re well-known for hosting large circuit parties (like MEAT NYC mentioned above), and a bunch of other popular gay parties like Ty Tea, Love Prism, and DILF XL.

Renting a van for your group of friends can be super fun and practical if you’re traveling to clubs in Brooklyn from Manhattan or somewhere not very close. I’ve done this a couple of times and had such a blast!

Le Bain  is a chic, well-known gay party that every visitor should try. There’s lots of space to lounge as well as a fun area for dancing. Le Bain is hosted on the rooftop terrace of the Standard Hotel at the High Line. The views are absolutely stunning.

The party is usually held on Tuesday or Sunday evenings depending on the season. But always confirm ahead of time since there are some weeks when the Le Bain rooftop space is reserved for private parties.

PHD at the Dream Hotel Downtown

PHD at the Dream Hotel Downtown  is another gay party with gorgeous panoramic views of New York’s skyline. This party is the place to be on Sunday afternoon. 

There’s plenty of seating along PHD’s indoor-outdoor rooftop terrace space. Inside there is always plenty of dancing along with wildly dressed performers on a small stage. The vibe is upscale, yet rowdy as the afternoon progresses. Dress your best!

FLY Sundays at Monarch

FLY Sundays is a summertime rooftop gay party at the Monarch Rooftop with sweet gummy-bear fruit punch cocktails, upbeat music and a beautiful view of the Empire State Building.

Locals tend to dress their summer-casual best, with tank tops certainly welcome. Arrive earlier in the afternoon to avoid a long entry line—waiting on the hot city street is no fun! See photos on the FLY Sundays Instagram .

More LGBT Parties & Events

Thotyssey is a great resource to check for a daily compiled list of local New York queer events.

Looking to meet other gay travelers to explore New York City with? Join wolfyy’s Gay Travel Facebook Chat and introduce yourself to some new friends!

Gay Cruising in New York

Are you a tourist looking for New York City gay cruising spots or saunas? New York is a little different when it comes to the sauna scene.

You can also find more about sex parties in New York as well as some history about why there are only a few traditional gay bathhouses in NYC .

Attending a sex party in New York is always a fun alternative to cruising at typical bathhouses. Check out my full downloadable list of gay sex parties in New York City .

Travel Tips for New York City

New york is not a hostel city.

For budget travelers, I advise against staying in hostels. New York is definitely not a hostel city. Many times, the hostels that exist in New York can be even more expensive than an apartment rental or hotel!

VRBO is a good bet for cheaper accommodations. Make sure you dive deep into the reviews as things can be a little deceptive if you’re not thorough.

Long Lines Usually Aren't Worth It

Don’t wait in any crazy lines for restaurants. Places like Katz’s Deli and Pick-a-Bagel are not worth it and locals avoid them. Don’t eat at any standard restaurants in Times Square, either. Most of them are low quality and overpriced.

If visiting One World Trade Center is on your list, purchase tickets online to save yourself at least an hour of waiting in line.

Stay Through a Weekend if Possible

You will need a lot of time to thoroughly explore the Big Apple. Seven days is an ideal length, although four to five is doable. Staying through a weekend is preferable to get a taste of larger gay nightlife activities.

Tips For Bars & Nightlife

Going to a party with a large group of friends? Renting a party van or small party bus is super fun! Check out Carmel , a trustworthy van and limo rental service that operates in New York City.

Don’t forget your personal identification or passport. You will need it to get into just about every bar/party. Many times international tourists forget about this! Sometimes a photo will be accepted, but not always.

Upon entering gay circuit parties and other large events, expect to be thoroughly searched. Bars in New York close at 4 AM. Large parties can go longer into the morning hours but have to stop serving alcohol at 4 AM.

NYC Luggage Storage

Lugging your bags around can be super frustrating in New York City. Before I lived here, finding a place to store my bags for just an afternoon was a sketchy experience. 

Thankfully there are now lots of trustworthy places where you can store luggage in New York . 

Navigating New York's Subway

If you plan on using the subway to get around, I recommend buying a weekly unlimited MetroCard. This can be used on all buses and subways. Keep in mind that you cannot buy one card for multiple people as it cannot be used consecutively in a short period of time.

Many NYC subway stations are separated into an “uptown” and a “downtown” side. Often, there is no connection between them once you enter one of the sides. Be sure you know what direction you’re headed before paying!

For bus, subway, and local train times, download the  MTA TrainTime application . This all-in-one app allows you to see when scheduled busses are coming and is where you can buy tickets for trains like the LIRR and Metro North.

All New York City subway stations now have contactless systems installed . The same goes for buses. Easily swipe your phone or tap your card to purchase your single-ride ticket. It works really well!

New York’s subway system runs 24 hours a day, but that doesn’t mean certain lines stop running. Do your research before relying on the train late at night. Also, keep in mind that construction often takes place on weekends, so some subway routes may be much slower.

Traveling through a NYC airport? They can be very stressful, not to mention a little run down. (Hey, at this point we’re known for it). Check out these tips for reducing airport stress .

Tips to Save Money in New York

New York is expensive, so here is a list of even more quick tips to save you cash as you explore.

First of all, corner deli food is delicious. You definitely get the most volume for your dollar. Fill up with a hero! Breakfast sandwiches in these places are around 5 dollars. Don’t pay any more than that!

Halal food trucks are the cheapest and certainly most delicious food around. $8 will get you a big tray of meat and rice.

Keep rush hours and inclement weather in mind when you plan to travel by car. Costs of Uber and Lyft can skyrocket to unbelievable levels at peak times. I’ve seen rides cost $50 for a short ride within midtown during a thunderstorm! Planning ahead will help you save.

Make sure you see my top recommendations for New York gay hotels !

Don’t pass up a visit to Fire Island if you’re visiting NYC between June and September. Read more in wolfyy’s Fire Island Pines gay guide .

For more inspiration, explore wolfyy’s full collection of gay travel guides .

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Gay San Diego Travel Guide

The BEST Gay-Friendly Hotels, Resorts, Bars/Clubs & Events in San Diego

Gay San Diego

America's finest city. If San Diego is known for anything, it's got to be its perfect weather. Temperatures average 70 degrees (F) nearly every day, and as such, California's second-largest city enjoys gorgeous weather year-round. 

"The birthplace of California," Gay San Diego is the first location European explorers landed when visiting the West Coast for the first time. The Spanish subsequently built the first of the Alta California Missions here and a Presidio to protect the growing region from attack. Both the San Diego Mission (or Mission Basilica San Diego de Alcala) and the San Diego Presidio can still be visited today.  The Spanish influence can still be seen throughout the city although the Mexican influence - especially in Old Town -- probably outweighs the former contemporarily. You're not likely to find better, authentic Mexican food anywhere else in America, and many citizens speak Spanish as well as English.

Also, did you know that San Diego’s Balboa and Civic Theaters (both within a 5-minute walk from the Westin San Diego Gaslamp Quarter ) have an amazing lineup of shows  BroadwaySD plays in both of those theaters?

Make it a true theater experience:   DINNER + SHOW + STAY ?  Check out Westin San Diego Gaslamp Quarter's special offer of 20% food at Bronze Bird when you show your same-day performance ticket.  Then spend the night!

Other things to explore?  Check out Kylie Condon's travel journal exploring the lesbian culture in San Diego! Lez Explore: San Diego

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California's second-largest city by population is also home to thriving science and defense industries. There are large firms in technology, aviation, biotechnology, military, and education, which translates to over 40% of the population holding at least a bachelor's degree. Being home to the world's largest naval fleet means there are sailors everywhere. Marine base Camp Pendleton is only about an hour's drive away too, so there is a large and celebrated military presence in the city.

If you're gay and happen to be in Gay San Diego, you'll want to head to Hillcrest. The gayborhood is North and West of Balboa Park and home to some of San Diego's best food options. Here you'll find dozens of bars and clubs along the main strip of University Avenue, including perennial favorites like Urban Mo's and Rich's. Pride events also occur in the area, with the parade route running from University down 6th Avenue and ending in the park. San Diego has one of the largest nude beaches in the nation. Black's Beach stretches for several miles under beautiful cliffs west of Torrey Pines State Park and is the perfect place to spend the lazy Sunday after Pride suntanning.

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Being the second-largest city in California means Gay San Diego is no stranger to diversity, and gays here are welcomed with open arms. They tend to concentrate in the gayborhood of Hillcrest, where there are prominent bars and restaurants that gays frequently attend. There's also a newly-installed, large Rainbow flag flying proudly a short walk away from the recently re-named Harvey Milk Street. There are several gay bars outside of Hillcrest even, with The Hole in Point Loma and Bourbon Street Pub and Grill being notable. The neighborhoods around Hillcrest also serve as bastions of the gay community. Mission Hills, University Heights, and North Park have significant gay populations. You're likely to find a handful of leather bars and specialty shops in North Park, as it's a bit rougher around the edges than Hillcrest, and Mission Hills is more residential. University Heights is very gay-friendly but much quieter than Hillcrest.

Black's Beach, just west of UCSD and accessible from paths near the Torrey Pines Gliderport, is several miles of uninterrupted coastline beneath gorgeous cliffs and blanketed in sunshine. Don't forget the sunscreen! There's also a prominent gay beach in Gay San Diego, or at least the gays have claimed the nude beach as their own.

Gay San Diego boasts some of the most spectacular weather in the country. There's always some event in the city, whether it's a high-heel race through Hillcrest or Comic-Con downtown, and why wouldn't you participate when it's beautiful outside nearly every day!  One of the best times to visit San Diego is between the months of March through May and September through November, when the weather will always be perfect. These are also considered the slower months, so that traffic will be down, and room rates should be down.  

Gay-Friendly Dining

San Diego is known for having some of the best Mexican food you can find, and the locals rave about the quality and authenticity. So while visiting, try some!

Old Town San Diego offers many different Mexican restaurants that serve hand-made tortillas and traditional serving plates.  The atmosphere is festive and you'll be surrounded by traditional decor. If you prefer to stay away from the tourist locations and explore other areas where the local restaurants serve authentic Mexican dishes, you'll still get delicious food...just without all the decor. 

No matter what, if you love food as much as we do, you'll be very happy with all the gay-friendly restaurants in San Diego.  Here are just a few recommendations:

Café 21 is a full-service eatery with Azerbaijan roots, where you'll encounter a unique approach to a gourmet breakfast, lunch and dinner. They provide neighbors with an exotic and flavorful experience with signature homemade bread sandwiches, fresh organic salads, hearty breakfasts, and a wide selection of organic coffees, teas, and more.

Babycakes will have you asking for dessert first, and for a good reason. They're best known for their cocktails and cupcakes - a fun combination to leisurely break your Sunday afternoon.

Costa Brava

Costa Brava is a Spanish restaurant located in Pacific Beach, a gorgeous area known for its beach culture! This restaurant is unique in San Diego; it is one of the few restaurants that import "jamon iberico" from Spain.

MUST VISIT: San Diego Gay-Friendly Bars & Nightlife

San Diego has some of the best gay bars and clubs around. For a night of dancing and fun drinks for all, look no further than San Diego's nightlife!

Urban Mo's

Urban Mo's is part restaurant, part bar, and part nightclub. Located in the heart of Hillcrest, on 308 University Avenue, this perfect concoction of food, drink, and dance will have you asking for seconds (maybe thirds?).

Gossip Grill

Gossip Grill is the best lesbian bar in town! People are friendly, and the bartenders are always fabulous. The location is fantastic because you can even stumble to the first gay-owned and operated brewery in the U.S. right nearby!

True North is a cool straight gay-friendly sports bar located in the heart of North Park. They have 2/3 pool tables, a great bar sitting area with TVs all over, and the best part is that the staff members are lovely! This bar is also within walking distance of restaurants, coffee shops, North Park Theater, and many other entertainment places.

San Diego is considered a safe place to visit. The weather is perfect, and the people are friendly, so you're guaranteed to have a great time. Feel free to be your most authentic self here, especially in Hillcrest.

While visiting, always practice common sense travel safety. Remember where you parked, plan how to get back to your room by familiarizing yourself with a map ahead of time, and lock up all your valuables in the hotel safe. That way, you can lounge by the ocean, have some great tacos, and dance the night away without worrying about the world. 

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22 gorgeous gay men from around the world to celebrate Elska's 9-year anniversary

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It's hard to believe, but for the past nine years now, Elska Magazine has been blessing the world with some of our favorite — and gay — travel portraits of men from all over the world!

Thanks to Elska , we've had the privilege of meeting a diverse, large group of men from all corners of the globe and in many underrated cities in some of the most traveled-to countries. We've met men from Mumbai , heartthrobs from Yokohama , hunks from Munich , and studs from San Francisco , and everywhere else in between!

" Elska is a bi-monthly photography and storytelling publication dedicated to sharing the bodies and voices of men from LGBTQ + communities all over the world," the publication's about page reads about who they are. "Each issue is made in a different city where readers get to know to a cross-section of everyday local guys through honest photography and personal stories."

"I love to travel, I love photography, and I love men!" Elska 's editor and chief photographer Liam Campbell said in a statement about what the point of the project is. " Elska started as a way to combine these loves into a publication that I hoped would enable me to do these three things. Essentially Elska is a record of my travels, one city at a time, with the focus on the men I meet there.

"Beyond this, Elska is a reaction to my rejection of an early dream to be a fashion photographer. When I saw first-hand how disgustingly models are treated and how nasty the industry is in general, I wanted to create something that would treat people with respect and dignity, and that would reflect the way I perceive beauty, which is something connected to love. By getting to know the men I photograph, both through the intimate process of a photoshoot and through the stories they share, a connection develops, a sort of act of love, which reveals their beauty. And I hope that through sharing my honest style of photography and these men's stories, readers will also discover their beauty and fall in love."

To celebrate Elska' s nearly decade-long reign of swoon-worthy, sexy travel content, we thought it'd fun to re-meet some of the gorgeous gays of the zine from over the years and from all over!

Scroll through to see more portraits from Elska 's nine-year celebration! And for more information on Elska and to order previous issues, visit their official website here .

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Unveiling the Best Gay Cruises for Singles: Transformative Travels and Inclusive Environments

Are you ready to set sail on an unforgettable adventure tailored just for you? Picture this: you’re a single traveler looking to connect with like-minded individuals in a vibrant and inclusive setting. That’s where the best gay cruises for singles come in.

Ever felt the urge to explore exotic destinations without worrying about being judged or feeling out of place? These cruises offer a safe and welcoming environment where you can be your authentic self while mingling with other solo travelers who share similar interests.

In this article, we’ll guide you through the top gay cruises designed specifically for singles, ensuring you have the time of your life while making meaningful connections along the way. Get ready to embark on a journey filled with fun, relaxation, and the chance to create lasting memories with new friends.

Key Takeaways

• Choose gay cruises for singles to enjoy a safe and inclusive environment tailored for LGBTQ+ travelers.
• Prioritize cruises with diverse activities and entertainment options designed for solo travelers.
• Look for accommodation options that cater to single passengers, such as solo cabins or room-sharing arrangements.
• Consider all-inclusive luxury cruises, adventure-based cruises, or budget-friendly options based on your preferences and budget.
• Book your gay cruise well in advance to secure your spot and benefit from early bird discounts.
• Ensure safety and etiquette onboard by attending safety drills, following hygiene practices, respecting privacy, and understanding tipping policies.

Exploring the Best Gay Cruises for Singles

Why choose a gay cruise.

When considering a gay cruise for singles, you’re selecting a unique experience designed to cater specifically to the LGBTQ+ community. These cruises provide a safe and inclusive environment where you can feel free to express yourself without judgment. Unlike traditional cruises, gay cruises offer a chance to be surrounded by like-minded individuals who share similar interests and embrace diversity. It’s an opportunity to build connections, make new friends, and create lasting memories with fellow solo travelers who understand and respect your identity.

What to Look for in a Single-Friendly Cruise

When looking for the best gay cruise as a single traveler, there are key factors to consider to ensure a memorable and enjoyable experience. One essential aspect is the cruise’s itinerary, which should include exciting destinations and ports that offer a mix of relaxation and exploration. Opt for cruises that feature diverse activities and entertainment options tailored to solo travelers, such as social mixers, group excursions, and themed events.

Another important consideration is the onboard atmosphere. Choose a cruise line known for its welcoming and inclusive environment, where solo travelers can easily connect with others and feel comfortable being themselves. Look for cruises that offer designated events or meetups for singles to interact and socialize, fostering a sense of community and camaraderie among like-minded individuals.

Additionally, assess the accommodation options available on the cruise. Some cruises offer special packages or room-sharing options for solo travelers to help reduce costs and enhance the experience of traveling alone. Prioritize cruise lines that understand the needs of single passengers and provide amenities and services that cater to individual travelers, ensuring a fulfilling and enjoyable journey.

By selecting a gay cruise tailored for singles that aligns with your preferences and interests, you’re embarking on a transformative adventure filled with new connections, diverse experiences, and the chance to embrace your authentic self in a supportive and inclusive community.

Top Picks for Gay Singles Cruises

All-inclusive luxury cruises.

When looking for the best gay cruises for singles, you’ll want to consider all-inclusive luxury cruises. These cruises offer a top-tier experience with lavish amenities and services included in the fare. Imagine yourself enjoying gourmet dining, exclusive shore excursions, and premium entertainment, all while surrounded by a welcoming community of like-minded individuals. Opting for an all-inclusive luxury cruise ensures that you can relax and indulge in a luxurious setting without worrying about additional costs for premium offerings.

Adventure and Activity-Based Cruises

For the adventurous souls seeking a more dynamic experience, adventure and activity-based cruises are excellent options for gay singles. These cruises focus on providing exciting and engaging activities such as water sports, themed parties, and group excursions to exotic locations. Picture yourself zip-lining through a lush jungle, dancing the night away at a themed party, or snorkeling in crystal-clear waters with new friends by your side. Choosing an adventure and activity-based cruise ensures that you’ll have a thrilling and action-packed journey that caters to your love for exploration and new experiences.

Budget-Friendly Cruises

If you’re looking for an incredible gay cruise experience without breaking the bank, budget-friendly cruises are the way to go. These cruises offer excellent value for money, providing a range of amenities and entertainment options at affordable prices. You can enjoy comfortable accommodations, delicious meals, and onboard activities while socializing with fellow single travelers. Opting for a budget-friendly cruise allows you to embark on a memorable adventure while being mindful of your travel budget, making it an ideal choice for cost-conscious solo travelers seeking a fantastic gay cruise experience.

Onboard Experience for Singles

Social events and activities.

Engage in a myriad of social events and activities tailored for solo travelers on gay cruises. Enjoy themed parties, mixers, and speed dating sessions to meet like-minded individuals. Participate in group excursions at ports of call, fostering connections with fellow travelers who share your interests. Take part in onboard workshops, dance classes, and games to interact with others in a relaxed and fun environment.

Accommodation and Privacy Options

Select from a range of accommodation choices that cater to your preferences for privacy and socialization. Opt for a solo cabin designed for single travelers, offering personal space and tranquility. Explore shared stateroom options to connect with new friends while enjoying the camaraderie of group living. Utilize amenities such as keycard access and dedicated social areas to balance social interactions with moments of solitude.

Destinations and Itineraries

Popular routes for gay cruises.

When considering gay cruises for singles, you’ll find a variety of popular routes that cater to diverse preferences. Whether you seek vibrant nightlife, cultural immersion, or serene relaxation, there’s a cruise itinerary designed to suit your tastes. Destinations like the Caribbean, Mediterranean, and Alaska offer an array of experiences, from tropical beaches to historic landmarks, ensuring a dynamic and enriching journey.

Exclusive Shore Excursions

On top gay singles cruises, exclusive shore excursions are a highlight for enriching your travel experience. These curated excursions allow you to explore destinations in a uniquely tailored way, often with a LGBTQ+ perspective. Imagine immersing yourself in local culture through guided tours, personalized activities, or off-the-beaten-path adventures. These excursions provide a deeper connection to the places you visit, creating unforgettable memories along the way.

Cruise Lines That Cater to Gay Singles

Mainstream cruise lines with inclusive policies.

When looking for the best gay cruises for singles, you’ll find that some mainstream cruise lines have inclusive policies that cater to LGBTQ+ travelers perfectly. These cruise lines offer a welcoming environment where you can feel comfortable and be yourself. They often host special events or parties specifically designed for the LGBTQ+ community, ensuring a fun and inclusive experience for gay singles like yourself.

Specialty Gay Cruise Companies

For a more tailored experience, consider booking a gay singles cruise with specialty gay cruise companies. These companies focus solely on providing exceptional experiences for LGBTQ+ travelers, ensuring that you’ll be surrounded by like-minded individuals who share similar interests. From themed parties to exclusive shore excursions with a queer perspective, these specialty gay cruise companies offer a unique and unforgettable journey for gay singles.

Booking Tips and Considerations

Best time to book a gay cruise.

When considering the best time to book a gay cruise, it’s recommended to plan well in advance. Most gay cruises for singles, especially popular ones, tend to sell out quickly. Booking early not only ensures you secure your spot but also often comes with early bird discounts and a wider selection of cabin choices. To increase your chances of getting the itinerary and accommodations you desire, aim to book your gay cruise at least 6 to 12 months ahead of the departure date.

Understanding the Fine Print

Understanding the fine print of your gay cruise booking is crucial to avoid any surprises or misunderstandings later on. Take the time to carefully review the terms and conditions, cancellation policies, payment schedules, and any additional fees that may apply. Pay close attention to the requirements regarding documentation, such as passports and visas, especially if the cruise includes international ports of call. If you have any concerns or questions about the fine print, don’t hesitate to reach out to the cruise line or your booking agent for clarification. It’s essential to be well-informed to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience on your gay singles cruise.

Cruise Safety and Etiquette

Staying safe and healthy on board.

Ensuring your safety and well-being during a gay singles cruise is paramount. Here are essential tips to stay safe and maintain good health while onboard:

• Attend Safety Drills : Familiarize yourself with emergency procedures by participating in safety drills conducted at the beginning of the cruise.
• Medical Facilities : Locate the ship’s medical facilities and know how to access medical assistance if needed. Travel with necessary medications and inform the crew of any health concerns.
• Hygiene Practices : Follow good hygiene practices, such as regular handwashing, to prevent the spread of germs and illnesses.
• Stay Informed : Stay informed about onboard announcements and safety protocols. In case of any concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out to the ship’s crew members.
• Stay Hydrated : Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated, especially in warm climates or during active shore excursions.

Remember, your safety is a top priority, so be proactive in taking care of yourself while enjoying your cruise experience.

Understanding and Respecting Cruise Etiquette

Adhering to proper cruise etiquette enhances the experience for everyone onboard. Here’s a guide to understanding and respecting cruise etiquette:

• Respect Privacy : Respect the privacy of other guests and avoid entering restricted areas onboard the cruise ship.
• Dress Code : Adhere to the ship’s dress code guidelines for different venues onboard. Pack appropriate attire for formal dinners or themed parties.
• Tipping Policies : Familiarize yourself with the cruise line’s tipping policies and customs. Acknowledge exceptional service by tipping accordingly.
• Social Interactions : Engage in social interactions respectfully. Be open to meeting new people, but also be mindful of personal boundaries.
• Environmental Conservation : Help maintain a clean environment onboard by disposing of waste properly and participating in eco-friendly practices.

By understanding and following cruise etiquette, you contribute to a positive and harmonious atmosphere on the ship for yourself and your fellow travelers.

You’ve explored a world of possibilities on gay singles cruises, where inclusivity and safety are paramount. From luxurious to budget-friendly options, these cruises offer transformative experiences and the chance to forge new connections. With engaging itineraries and a variety of onboard activities, you can tailor your experience to suit your preferences. Whether you prefer socializing at themed parties or enjoying solitude in your cabin, there’s something for everyone. Remember to prioritize safety, attend drills, maintain hygiene, and follow cruise etiquette for a smooth sailing. Embark on a journey of self-discovery and camaraderie on the best gay singles cruises, where every moment promises adventure and connection.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are gay singles cruises.

Gay singles cruises are cruises specifically designed for LGBTQ+ individuals who are single and looking to travel in a safe and inclusive environment. These cruises offer opportunities to meet new people, make connections, and explore different destinations.

How do I select the right gay singles cruise?

Choose a cruise that caters to single travelers with engaging activities and amenities. Look for cruises that offer social events, workshops, and accommodations suitable for solo travelers. Consider your budget, preferred itinerary, and desired level of luxury.

What can I expect onboard a gay singles cruise?

Onboard, you can enjoy social events, themed parties, and workshops tailored to LGBTQ+ singles. Accommodation options cater to those seeking solitude or social interactions. The atmosphere is inclusive and welcoming, encouraging you to forge new connections.

Which are the recommended gay singles cruise options?

Top recommendations include luxurious all-inclusive cruises, adventure-themed experiences, and affordable options. Choose from mainstream cruise lines with LGBTQ+ inclusive policies or specialty gay cruise companies offering tailored experiences.

What cruise routes are popular for gay singles cruises?

Popular cruise destinations include the Caribbean, Mediterranean, and Alaska, each offering unique experiences. Select a route that aligns with your preferences, whether you seek tropical relaxation or rugged adventures.

How can I ensure safety and etiquette on a gay singles cruise?

Stay safe onboard by attending safety drills, following hygiene practices, and adhering to cruise etiquette guidelines. Respect your fellow travelers, participate in safety protocols, and contribute to a positive and harmonious cruise experience.

Hi, I'm Richard, a passionate traveler and cruise enthusiast. With over a decade of experience exploring the world's oceans, I've developed a deep love for all things related to cruising. Whether it's luxury liners or intimate river cruises, I enjoy sharing my insights and tips to help others plan their perfect getaway. When I'm not sailing the seas, you can find me writing about my adventures or planning my next voyage

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This Gay-owned Adults-only Boutique Hotel in Downtown Las Vegas Is a Safe Haven for Queer Travelers — Here's What It's Like to Stay

Bent Inn is the only gay-owned LGBTQ+ boutique hotel in Las Vegas.

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Several months after its launch, the Bent Inn , the only gay-owned LGBTQ+ boutique hotel in Las Vegas, is hitting its stride at the peak of pool season. It’s been a long road for its owners — four years, to be exact — just to get the place up and running.

On the day I arrived, a lively crowd gathered and settled around the circular bar, which also serves as the reception desk at this small 33-room hotel. When my partner and I checked in, we were each offered a welcome cocktail to take at our leisure during our stay. Why not right now? So we settled in at the bar, ordered tequila sodas, and chatted with the owner and bartender to get acquainted with the property and find out their favorite downtown spots. (We already had ours.)

For us, our evening plans were to make the short walk to see the fire-breathing mantis at Downtown Container Park, then head over to Atomic Liquors , which was the first free-standing bar in Las Vegas, for some people-watching, a local brew and the phenomenal pan pizza.

When we returned to the Bent bar later that Saturday evening, it was packed. The lights were low and the energy level was sky-high. Instead of sports, the televisions were playing music videos that bounced between Britney Spears, Lady Gaga, Madonna, and Troye Sivan. It created a more clubby vibe that led to some dancing, mingling, and perhaps a bit of flirting among the guests, who were a smattering of out-of-towners and locals looking for a casual, accepting place to grab a drink and meet like-minded people. And at a bar that’s open 24 hours, it’s become a popular gay hangout.

• The Bent Inn blends mid-century Palm Springs with industrial Las Vegas making it a true fit for its downtown location.
• The rooms are cozy and comfortable with the best ones overlooking all the action at the pool.
• A community — a Bent brotherhood of welcoming regulars — has developed. They gather for pool parties and beer busts at the bar.
• The retro resort is close to the downtown bar and restaurant scene.

Bent Inn is the brainchild of Palm Springs hoteliers Greg Kafka and Mark Hunter. The couple owned two hotels in Palm Springs before they brought their vision to Las Vegas. Their timing,  however, was unfortunate. They purchased the complex, then an apartment building, in January 2020. Six weeks later Covid hit and froze the world and all of their plans. “Everything came to a screeching halt,” Hunter recalled to Travel + Leisure .

It would be 18 months before they would even be allowed to touch the property, nevertheless start the extensive renovations, and just short of four years before the Bent Inn opened its doors. “It was definitely a challenge to get it wrapped up and done,” Hunter said.

The couple sold their two Palm Springs properties, Escape Resort and Desert Paradise, to move to Sin City, with a vision to create a culture and gay gathering spot in downtown Las Vegas. When I popped in, it was exactly that. The guests and staff were friendly, giving the hotel a clear welcoming vibe that’s led a crowd of regulars there to frequent it often.

The postage stamp property isn’t meant to be a luxe resort. Instead, it’s a safe haven. An inclusive “straight friendly” escape where locals and visitors interact over stiff margaritas while on inflatable pool floats. After all, the Bent Inn is about the people and the atmosphere. That’s what makes this hotel special. You’re here to make friends and go out and explore downtown Las Vegas and the Arts District.

With just 33 rooms, the property footprint is not all that large and the rooms reflect this. I found our room with its Juliet balcony overlooking the pool to be cozy and comfortable with just enough space to relax before mingling at the bar or lounging poolside. After all, the Bent Inn is all about its social scene and not hibernating in the room.

The hotel has four room types. The top category is the poolside patio rooms, each with a sliding glass door that leads to a small, private patio and sitting area adjacent to the pool. Other room categories include the balcony rooms, an atrium king (without a view), and the bunkhouse–individual hostel-style rooms with twin-size beds and shared amenities for solo travelers.

The amenities are basic. There was no refrigerator in my room, but it did have a 65-inch television and Bluetooth-enabled radio, charger, and speaker. In a nod to kitsch, custom pulp fiction artwork of imaginary book covers decorated the walls. These risque, tongue-in-cheek romance novel wannabees show shirtless men in compromising positions with titles such as “Locker-Room Lovers,” “Gay Safari” and “Moonlight Motel.”

Hunter described the artwork as being a fun diversion and conversation starter. “We found a lot of humor in old 1950s pulp fiction book covers so we paid homage to them, recreating them in the same style but we tweaked them just enough to fit our environment,” he told T+L.

The Bent Inn sits on a pocket of land surrounded by vacant, undeveloped lots. It’s not a sexy neighborhood by any means. But while the location may be gritty, most visitors make it their primary stop, utilizing the free parking. It’s also a short walk to the Container Park. From there, you’re in the middle of a string of bars in East Fremont.

I’m a big fan of downtown Las Vegas. Over the past several years, a culture and vibe has developed. Walkable neighborhoods, like the Arts District, about a mile and a half away from the hotel, have a number of boutiques, galleries, restaurants, bars, and brewpubs. Guests staying at the hotel are just a quick Uber ride away from it all.

The bar is lively and there are nearly always two-for-one well drinks or certain draft beers on special. Only the primetime hours from 7 pm to 2 am seem to have regular pricing. And Sunday mornings feature bottomless mimosas or Bloody Marys for a tidy $20.

On the dining side, it’s pub food. Fat, juicy burgers, buffalo-style grilled chicken sandwiches, tacos, and flatbreads like a Texas BBQ-style naan with grilled chicken, bacon, and red peppers.

I found the brunch to be fun and inviting and the dishes echoed that. A ham and cheese quiche croissant and carne asada toast are unique takes on normal brunch classics as are the three crispy chicken and waffle sliders that come served with a homemade bitter blackberry bourbon jam.

The heated pool, oversized hot tub and bar is where everyone goes. The Bent has become downtown’s gathering spot for the gay community and weekly events keep the locals coming back. From the pool parties and beer busts to karaoke, comedy and trivia nights, there is always something to do.

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No place like home: A gay comedian's club odyssey

JERSEY CITY, New Jersey -- Comedian Rich Kiamco is proud, grateful and relieved that the successful comedy road show he created and has produced for more than decade has finally found a permanent home.

Kiamco, an out gay comic who's appeared on the "Howard Stern Show" and is featured in ABC Owned Television's "Our America: Who I'm Meant To Be" series, launched The Laugh Tour in Jersey City, New Jersey, in September 2010.

"Originally it was a pop-up show that would tour around Jersey City, the Catskills region, eastern Pennsylvania," he explained.

It was a way for the comedian to get stage time in front of audiences and help boost fellow comics at the same time.

Christine Goodman, director of the Jersey City Office of Cultural Affairs, co-produced many of those early shows with Kiamco in a former role with Art House Productions, a performing-arts venue in the city.

"From the beginning, Rich had a real commitment to seeing The Laugh Tour through to the point of having a permanent home and a steady audience," she said.

The show toured for about a decade before the COVID-19 pandemic shut down venues everywhere. Kiamco launched an online version, hosting shows out of his apartment on Zoom for small groups of fans.

And then his partner and longtime manager, Sandy Gunar, died from COVID. His death and Kiamco's deep grief, friends say, ultimately became the impetus for him to find a permanent home for his shows.

"I was just trying to find something to do other than endless Zoom grief groups," Kiamco said. "And Dorrian's Red Hand, which has been here for over 20 years in Jersey City, had a room."

He approached the owners of the restaurant on Washington Boulevard and asked if they'd let him try hosting shows in the private dining room adjacent to the main bar and dining area.

They agreed, and he started with a handful of people and one show a week. Word began to spread, and eventually the room started filling up with people starting to venture out after months of pandemic lockdown.

Now, just over two years later, the club has become an established success.

"Last night was our 64th sold-out show," Kiamco said one day last spring. "We've expanded to five shows a week. You know, pinch me. It's been a dream come true."

Its all been a labor of labor for the comedian. The club's success is a testament to his tireless work and constant innovation, but he's quick to share the credit.

"This comedy club is just part of a bigger conversation of supporting all these other comedians that are coming through here to tell their stories and entertain," he said. "I'm just so grateful to be part of it."

Learn more about The Laugh Tour Comedy Club here.

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The fall film festival season just got a little more… Queer , thanks to the arrival of the latest feature from Call Me By Your Name and Challengers filmmaker Luca Guadagnino.

Based on a novel of the same name from acclaimed writer William S. Burroughs, the drama finds Daniel Craig playing Lee, a lonely American drug addict living in Mexico City in the ’50s who becomes infatuated with a young student ( Outer Banks ‘ Drew Starkey).

We’ve been following the project pretty closely (especially after Guadagnino teased the film’s sex scenes would be “numerous and quite scandalous”), devouring every morsel of information we could find since it was announced in late 2022. And, now that Queer has finally debuted at the Venice Film Festival, we are being fed .

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Omar Apollo makes his full-frontal acting debut in Queer

Ahead of the film’s world premiere, co-stars Drew Starkey and Omar Apollo—the pop star whose role was widely speculated before being confirmed earlier this summer —linked up for a conversation in Interview magazine that certainly raised some eyebrows.

In the piece, the pair sing each one another’s praises and clearly became fast friends on set, bonding over things like being outsiders in the industry and—oh yeah—filming intimate scenes with Craig.

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That’s right: Apollo’s going to be getting in on that action, too! When rumors began to swirl that the singer-songwriter had been spotted on the set of Queer , it was unclear whether he would just be making a cameo or his proper acting debut. But now we have confirmation that he’s leaving it all on screen.

While asking Starkey about his preparation for the role, Apollo shares that he, too, went on a strict “soup diet”:

“Luca did not tell me to lose weight,” he reveals, “but when you’re about to have a sex scene with Daniel Craig, you’re like, ‘Oh, dude, I can’t be looking off.'”

Related* Omar Apollo’s sultry tour outfits have a mission of their own: “We want to gag the girls” Omar Apollo is flaunting some fierce body-barring looks on his God Said No World Tour.

Sure, one can understand being nervous about sharing scenes with the man who can rock tiny blue swim trunks like no other , though Apollo maintains it was mostly about being loyal to Burroughs’ original words, making sure he matched his character’s description:

“I lost 20 pounds because I read in the script that my character had a flat brown stomach,” he tells Starkey. “I was like, ‘Damn, I’m actually not flat right now.’ I had to get it together, and I was on tour with SZA. Luckily, I didn’t have that many lines.”

Not only is there minimal dialogue for Apollo, but apparently minimal wardrobe, too. During the Venice press conference for Queer , New York Times reporter Kyle Buchanan snapped a pic of the star, adding he’s “nude for most of his screen time” in the film. Now this is journalism!

Singer Omar Apollo, who’s nude for most of his screen time in QUEER, is also at the press conference pic.twitter.com/jTLLuOmzwT — Kyle Buchanan (@kylebuchanan) September 3, 2024

Luca Guadagnino dismisses question about “gay James Bond”

At the same conference, Craig was of course asked about the film’s many, many intimate moments, offering up a perfectly professional response:

“You know as well as I do, there’s nothing intimate about filming a sex scene on a movie set. There’s a room full of people watching you,” Craig said, per Variety . “We just wanted to make it as touching and as real and as natural as we possibly could. Drew is a wonderful, fantastic, beautiful actor to work with and we kind of had a laugh. We tried to make it fun.”

Speaking of fun, Guadagnino’s response to another prying question from press is already garnering quite a bit of attention…

A "gay James Bond?"? Daniel Craig rolled his eyes and "Queer" director Luca Guadagnino had a wry reply to a question about the super spy's sexuality at the Venice Film Festival. pic.twitter.com/N9dz0wBAek — AP Entertainment (@APEntertainment) September 3, 2024

When asked if there could ever be a “gay James Bond”—referring to the actor’s famous former role—Craig seems a bit flustered and rolls his eyes, but his director steps in to shut down the silly speculation:

“Guys, let’s be adult[s] in the room for a second,” Guadagnino says to some laughter and light applause. “There is no way around the fact that nobody would ever know James Bond’s desires, period. The important thing is that he does his missions properly.”

We’re sure that won’t stop people from wondering about 007’s sexuality, but maybe they’ll stop asking Daniel Craig about it. Besides, the man’s busy playing another sleuth, Knives Out ‘s Benoit Blanc, these days—and if early reactions to Queer are any indication, he’s got a brand new role for audiences to obsess over…

Related* That time Javier Bardem felt up Daniel Craig during homoerotic James Bond moment in ‘Skyfall’ Studio executives wanted to cut part of the scene as it made the implication that Bond could be bisexual.

Early reactions to “erotic & sorrowful” Queer are here

On Tuesday, September 3, the review embargo lifted on Guadagnino’s latest, and reactions have come rolling in, with top critics—like Variety ‘s Owen Gleiberman —hailing it as a “bold and trippy odyssey.”

Vanity Fair ‘s Richard Lawson warns that Queer may alienate certain audiences, but praises the drama as both “erotic and sorrowful,” exploring “ruinous” sexual and romantic obsession.

He adds that the dynamic between Craig and Starkey’s character “is exactingly realized in the film, familiar to anyone who has contradictorily sought both affection and rejection from a person whose whims and attractions are mercurial.” Oof, sounds painful (in a good way).

Watch a new clip from Luca Guadagnino’s Queer starring Daniel Craig and Drew Starkey ? pic.twitter.com/MrBUJTr5Xx — Letterboxd (@letterboxd) September 3, 2024

Meanwhile, Indiewire ‘s Ryan Lattanzio calls attention to Guadagnino’s “feverishly charged, sensually filmed encounters,” which he claims are “the most explicit gay sex scenes I can remember in any mainstream movie.”

He also notes two instances where, during sex scenes, the director’s camera pans to a window, away from the action, “only to cut back to the lovers to find them going at it even harder than before.”

It would appear this is Guadagnino trolling the very same audiences who criticized him for avoiding intimate moments in his previous gay romance, Call Me By Your Name , which memorably panned to an open window during a scene where Timothée Chalamet and Armie Hammer ‘s characters start to get more hot & heavy. This man is getting pretty good at silencing the haters!

Related* The explicit sex scenes that were almost in ‘Call Me By Your Name’ What might have been.

Currently, Queer sits at a “Fresh” 80% approval rating on review aggregator site RottenTomatoes , and features a wide range of ratings on the film-centric social media platform Letterboxd, likely averaging around 3.5/5 stars.

Of course, it only just premiered, so more reaction and hot takes are sure to come, including at the the New York Film Festival, where the film will make its American premiere on October 6. Last week, famed indie studio A24 picked the film up for U.S. distribution, though no theatrical release date has been announced yet.

In the meantime, there are plenty more reactions to the film on X, so check out some highlights below:

QUEER takes sex, drugs and rock ‘n’ roll to a whole new level. Full of steamy love scenes and an audacious vision, but one that'll be extremely divisive. It’s Daniel Craig like you’ve never seen him before, and a star-making moment for Drew Starkey pic.twitter.com/CIEmXf3lJJ — Ema Sasic @ Venice (@ema_sasic) September 3, 2024

It’s safe to presume that Luca Guadignino’s Queer is gonna be the most polarising film of #Venezia81 As a star vehicle, Daniel Craig delivers an astonishing performance as a self destructive gay man longing for connection. But the last act morphs into a strange, surreal and… pic.twitter.com/OfM0Wy1Dat — Luke Hearfield @ Venice ???? (@LukeHearfield) September 3, 2024

truly adored Queer! A surreal tale on the mysteries and complexities of the queer psyche. It moves and breathes such a particular energy; almost like a never ending fever dream. Luca explores this territory so well, my god. Starkey has movie star written all over him #Venezia81 pic.twitter.com/mdnsZYmgpu — gabe (@poetsonfilm) September 3, 2024

drew in queer is NOT for the weak oh my god pic.twitter.com/Vvzt5IM4mO — mar drew starkey’s president (@JDREWST4RKEY) September 2, 2024

Someone said Queer starts off like CMBYN and ends in Suspiria pic.twitter.com/nCLHlGa963 — justin (@jerstonfilm) September 3, 2024

Related* Daniel Craig is going ‘Queer’ in Luca Guadagnino’s next movie & here’s everything we know (so far) According to a new report, Craig gives “the performance of his career” in the “fantastic” three-hour long movie.

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PGA Tour veteran reveals how many times he’s seen fellow players drink during tournament rounds

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For the average golfer, one or two drinks over the course of 18 holes isn’t a big deal. That statement comes with a lot of asterisks, but as long as you’re practicing moderation, minding your manners and sobering up before you drive home, it’s nobody’s business but your own.

For PGA Tour pros, however, it’s another story.

As professional athletes, tour ambassadors and role models for thousands of kids, PGA Tour pros are prohibited from drinking alcohol on the clock. According to nine-year veteran Michael Kim, however, some have been known to bend the rules. But they're not drinking to celebrate like us desk jockeys sneaking a happy-hour beer out of the office fridge—they’re drinking to drown their golf sorrows.

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Two times in almost 10 seasons on tour is not exactly a trend, but still, it’s hard to imagine pros taking pulls mid-round with national TV cameras and armchair golf cops analyzing every blade of grass and every grain of bunker sand. Far more understandable, though, is the urge to dull the pain of a bad round with the pain of a bad hangover. Usually, it’s best to wait until the 19th hole to begin that healing process, but sometimes it’s going so bad you have to get a head start.

Many in the comments were eager to guess the pros Kim was referencing—you probably have some hunches of your own—but to Kim’s credit, he didn’t name names. We’re not condoning this behavior, but it’s probably good that Kim kept his lips sealed. Bygones are bygones and nobody likes a narc.

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Linda Sun, who worked for both Gov. Kathy Hochul and Gov. Andrew Cuomo, was accused of using her position to benefit the Chinese government.

By Hurubie Meko and William K. Rashbaum

In July 2021, six Nanjing-style salted ducks, prepared by a Chinese consulate official’s private chef, were delivered to the parents of an aide to New York’s then governor, Andrew M. Cuomo. About four months later, another six ducks arrived at their home. Another four months later, there were more salted ducks. Eight months after that: still more salted ducks.

Prosecutors say that the poultry shipments, described in a federal indictment unsealed Tuesday, were just a small part of a yearslong series of payoffs to the aide, Linda Sun , in exchange for actions that benefited the People’s Republic of China and its Communist Party. The 65-page indictment also described travel benefits, event tickets and the promotion of a close friend’s freight business with a headquarters in Queens.

Prosecutors say that Ms. Sun blocked Taiwanese officials from having access to the governor’s office, eliminated references to Taiwan from state communications and quashed meetings between Taiwanese officials and state leaders, including Gov. Kathy Hochul, who succeeded Mr. Cuomo and who promoted Ms. Sun to deputy chief of staff.

She also ensured that state officials did not publicly address the persecution of Uyghurs, a primarily Muslim ethnic group that for more than a thousand years has lived in a region of what is now China, prosecutors said.

Ms. Sun, 40, was charged on Tuesday with 10 criminal counts that included visa fraud, money laundering and other crimes. Her husband, Chris Hu, 41, a businessman, is charged in the indictment with money laundering.

Both pleaded not guilty in federal court, were released on bond and were required to surrender their passports.

Linda Sun’s lawyer, Jarrod Schaeffer, said that Ms. Sun was looking forward to addressing the indictment in court. “Our client is understandably upset that these charges have been brought,” Mr. Schaeffer said.

The accusations, if true, would represent a brazen manipulation of New York State government at the highest level, covering several years of the administrations of Ms. Hochul and Mr. Cuomo, both Democrats.

Avi Small, the press secretary for Ms. Hochul, said that Ms. Sun “was hired by the executive chamber more than a decade ago,” adding that Hochul administration officials “immediately reported her actions to law enforcement and have assisted law enforcement throughout this process.”

He said that the administration “terminated her employment in March 2023 after discovering evidence of misconduct.”

The charges are the latest in the Justice Department’s initiative — driven especially in recent years by the U.S. attorney’s office in Brooklyn — to stop efforts by the Chinese government to wield its influence secretly across the United States.

Last month, Shujun Wang, 75, a Queens man who billed himself as a democracy activist and scholar , was convicted in Brooklyn federal court of acting as a spy for the Chinese Communist Party. Last summer, prosecutors won a case in the same court against three men who stalked a family in New Jersey on behalf of the Chinese government . In another case, two men were accused of running a secret police station for China in a Lower Manhattan building.

The push by prosecutors comes as escalating tensions between the United States and China over wars, trade and technology have damaged their diplomatic relationship. China’s claims over portions of the South China Sea and the island of Taiwan have been bitterly disputed and were at the center of the allegations against Ms. Sun on Tuesday.

A spokesman for the Chinese Embassy, Liu Pengyu, said in a statement that he was not aware of the specific details of the case. He added: “But in recent years, the U.S. government and media have frequently hyped up the so-called ‘Chinese agents’ narratives, many of which have later been proven untrue. China requires its citizens overseas to comply with the laws and regulations of the host country, and we firmly oppose the groundlessly slandering and smearing targeting China.”

Ms. Sun served as a deputy chief of staff to Ms. Hochul after holding a series of state government positions. In those jobs, according to the indictment, she used her sway to steer state officials away from actions that could have implied support for Taiwan. Nationalists established their own government on the island in 1949 after a civil war, and the People’s Republic of China has laid claim to it ever since.

“No meeting please,” she wrote to an Assembly member who had invited the governor to meet with the ambassador of the Taipei Economic and Cultural Office. “Kindly decline. Do not want her to wade into this China/Taiwan sensitivity.”

Prosecutors also accused Ms. Sun of providing unauthorized invitation letters from the governor’s office to make it easier for Chinese government officials to travel to the United States and meet with state officials in New York.

She even arranged, without proper authorization, for Chinese government officials to receive official proclamations, formal framed documents that bear the state seal and the governor’s signature. While these declarations hold little real meaning, some foreign officials hold them in high esteem.

In 2019, Tsai Ing-wen, who was then president of Taiwan, stopped in New York City during a visit to the United States . The Chinese government was opposed to Ms. Tsai’s visit, even asking the United States government not to permit it.

Taiwanese officials invited Ms. Sun and Mr. Cuomo to a banquet, prosecutors said. However, Ms. Sun never forwarded the invitation and instead told the Taiwanese officials that Mr. Cuomo was hosting an activity day for staff members in the Catskills.

“I already blocked it,” Ms. Sun wrote to a Chinese government official, according to the indictment.

On the day of the banquet, Ms. Sun joined leaders of local Chinese associations in a protest in Manhattan against Ms. Tsai, according to prosecutors.

In 2021, federal prosecutors said, Ms. Sun allowed a Chinese government official to “shape the content” of public remarks by Ms. Hochul and ensured that she “did not publicly address the detention of Uyghurs in PRC state-run camps in Xinjiang Province.”

Among the benefits Ms. Sun received, according to the indictment, were the assistance with millions of dollars in transactions for China-based businesses tied to Mr. Hu; travel benefits; tickets to events such as a performance by the Chinese National Traditional Orchestra at Carnegie Hall; the promotion of the Queens freight business; and employment for Ms. Sun’s cousin in China.

Prosecutors say Ms. Sun and Mr. Hu laundered the money they received to buy, among other things, their $3.6 million, five-bedroom home on a cul-de-sac in Manhasset, on the North Shore of Long Island; a $1.9 million condominium in Honolulu; and luxury cars, including a 2024 Ferrari.

Six weeks ago, F.B.I. agents descended on the cul-de-sac in Manhasset and searched the couple’s house in an early-morning raid.

The indictment accuses Ms. Sun of failing to disclose benefits from the Chinese government or the Chinese Communist Party to the government in New York, as she was required to do under law.

Ms. Sun worked in state government for nearly 14 years, holding a variety of positions in the administrations of Mr. Cuomo and Ms. Hochul, according to her LinkedIn profile. She began in the legislative branch, working as chief of staff to an assemblywoman, Grace Meng, who is now a congresswoman.

Robert G. Ortt, the Senate Republican leader, said Tuesday that Ms. Sun’s employment had been “an alarming security failure” and asked for an investigation to establish who should be held accountable.

Richard Azzopardi, a spokesman for Mr. Cuomo, said Ms. Sun had held only minor positions when Mr. Cuomo was governor. “While Ms. Sun was promoted to deputy chief of staff in the subsequent administration, during our time she worked in a handful of agencies and was one of many community liaisons who had little to no interaction with the governor,” he said.

Ms. Sun held jobs focused on business development, Asian American affairs and diversity, equity and inclusion. She left Ms. Hochul’s executive chamber after roughly 15 months, moving on to a position at the New York Department of Labor in November 2022. Five months later, she left to serve as campaign manager for Austin Cheng, a Democrat who unsuccessfully ran for a congressional seat on Long Island.

Even after Ms. Sun was let go by the Labor Department in March 2023, she continued to attend public and professional Asian community events, falsely claiming to be the department’s deputy commissioner, according to the indictment. Ms. Sun apparently stopped doing so after receiving a cease-and-desist letter from the Labor Department that August.

Ms. Sun’s husband, Mr. Hu, operates a liquor store in Flushing, Queens, called Leivine Wine & Spirits. Over the past decade, he has incorporated several other businesses, including a company he created in 2020 during the early days of the pandemic called Medical Supplies USA. He also created two other businesses, Golden Capital Group in 2016 and LCA Holdings in 2023, the nature of which could not be determined.

Outside Brooklyn federal court on Tuesday, lawyers for Ms. Sun and Mr. Hu addressed a pool of reporters, saying that they had confidence in the strength of the defense case.

“A number of the allegations in the indictment are, frankly, inflammatory, perplexing,” said Seth DuCharme, who represents Mr. Hu.

During the hearing, prosecutors described what they said was a complex set of evidence, much of it in Mandarin. Alex Solomon, an assistant U.S. attorney, said the couple “operated a multitude of shell entities,” including “more than 80 different accounts.”

“This is no ordinary financial fraud,” Mr. Solomon said.

Benjamin Oreskes , Jay Root and Olivia Bensimon contributed reporting.

An earlier version of this article misspelled the name of Linda Sun’s lawyer. It is Jarrod Schaeffer, not Jerrod Schaeffer.

An earlier version of this article misstated who was New York governor when salted ducks were delivered to the parents of an aide to the governor. It was Andrew M. Cuomo, not Kathy Hochul; Ms. Hochul became governor the following month.

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