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16 Tips for Flying With Toddlers and Young Kids

Traveling with toddlers can be hard, at least if you're not properly prepared. Here, experienced flight attendants share their secrets for flying with young kids.

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With long security lines, cramped airplane seating, and busy waiting areas, flying isn't the most pleasant experience—and all of the frustration increases exponentially when you add a toddler into the mix. Some young children simply don't have the patience for airport security. They might despise sitting quietly for hours on end, and they might be uneasy during turbulence or get upset with the ear-popping changes in air pressure.

Thankfully, though, you can have a worry-free travel day with proper preparation and planning. Whether you're jetting off to your relative's house or Disney World, check out these stress-reducing strategies for flying (and traveling) with toddlers—some of which came straight from flight attendants.

Book an Early Morning Departure

If you're traveling with toddlers or young children, you should book an early morning departure. These give you the best chance of avoiding delays at takeoff and landing, a flight attendant named Patrick explains. "They are usually less crowded, too," he says. "Plus, everyone is tired and just wants to nap—kids especially."

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Traveling in first class with kids can be more stressful than it's worth. Mom Joanna recounts the story of traveling with her loud, lively toddler and incurring the vocal wrath of her first-class seatmates for the entirety of the flight. "It's not fair, but you're just going to get more empathy and support with kids in economy," says a flight attendant.

Talk to Your Kids About What to Expect

"My experience is kids do so much better when they know what to expect," says Shireen, a mom of three from Australia who's traveled to the U.S. several times with her kids. She recommends watching a Let's Go Play video on YouTube , which goes over the entire flight experience, from baggage check-in and ticketing to onboard etiquette and safety.

Dress in Layers and Skip Shoes With Laces

Whether you are changing climates or simply dealing with in-flight heat and/or air conditioning, you can and should be ready for drastically changing temperatures when traveling with a toddler. Wendy, a flight attendant and mom, suggests you dress your kids in comfortable layers—preferably without buttons, zippers, or anything that could prevent them from getting to the bathroom in time.

The same principle applies to shoes: Avoid laces and opt for slip-ons. "There's the added benefit of getting through airport screening that much faster," she says.

Bring Surprises

When flying with a toddler, a wrapped new plaything has two advantages: Kids love to unwrap stuff, and a new toy has more attention-grabbing pull.

Consider Using a Smaller Stroller

Getting through an airport without a stroller is unthinkable for some parents, so consider switching out your regular-size stroller for a small, compact umbrella stroller or travel stroller. Also, check your stroller at the gate before boarding; the crew will have it waiting for you when you get off the plane.

If you've got more than one little traveler with you, consider a kid harness (aka leash), Wendy suggests. "I was so against them until I saw a woman with three young boys using them in baggage claim. It made so much sense," she says, "with the exit doors to outside right there. Look, flying is stressful enough. Do what you need to do to protect your kids and your sanity."

Pack Just Enough

Flight attendants urge parents to pack enough essentials for the flight. "Unfortunately, you can expect there to be zero food on a plane that would interest a kid," says Lynn. "And we are so limited in what we can offer in terms of comfort items as well."

On the flip side, parents will struggle if they zealously overpack. "Usually, when it's one parent traveling with one or more kids, they'll bring way too much stuff in an attempt to keep their kids happy," Wendy says. "They forget they have to carry all that stuff off the plane with them, along with their kids."

Plan Your Packing List

To guard against over-packing while ensuring you don't forget anything critical, consider writing out a full packing list. Star or highlight those items that will need to be packed last minute (like the lovey your kiddo sleeps with or the tablet that's currently charging) so you have a checklist to consult one last time before heading out the door.

Sample Airplane Packing List for Toddlers

When packing your carry-on for the plane ride, use this list as a starting point:

• Comfort item: Consider packing one of your toddler's favorite comfort items in your carry-on for mid-flight snuggles. If the comfort item is a pacifier, be sure to pack more than one, lest it gets flung down the aisle or on the floor.
• Sanitizer, wipes, pull-ups, and diapers: You'll want these critical items within reach at all times during your travels. Not sure how many diapers to throw in the carry-on? One diaper per hour of travel is recommended.
• Electronic devices: If there is any time to let up on strict screen time rules, it's when you're traveling. Make sure that whatever device you're bringing is fully charged and ready to go—and don't forget the chargers for the flight back. Consider pre-loading the tablet or phone with your kids' favorite movies or shows for offline viewing.
• Kid-size headphones: Be sure to follow the basic rules of travel etiquette and pack comfy headphones your little one can wear while enjoying their favorite games or shows. Have more than one kid in tow? Consider investing in a splitter so both can enjoy the show with their own set of headphones.
• Art supplies: A small box of crayons and blank paper can go a long way when it comes to entertaining your toddler on a plane. Mix things up and pack some fun stickers or even plain sticky notes to add to the excitement.
• Plastic bags: You never know when you'll need an extra bag for wet clothes, a dirty diaper, or even just for trash, so pack a few extras.
• Water bottle: Toss an empty clean water bottle into your bag to fill after you get through security. Just make sure that it's leakproof!
• Healthy and fun mess-free snacks: While you don't necessarily want to load your kid up with sugar just before take-off, consider packing a mix of healthy and fun snacks that are relatively mess-free to keep their bellies full and happy. Cheerios, pretzels, crackers, string cheese, and granola bars are good options.

Be Prepared for Security

When you pack, make sure items that need to be removed during security are easily reached. Keep in mind that traveling with snacks may mean extra scrutiny during the screening process.

Prepare for Air Pressure Changes

If your child has recently had an ear infection or a cold, get your doctor's approval before flying. The change in cabin air pressure may cause pain for your toddler. After passing through security, stock up on enough water for everyone to get through a possible delay and have enough left for the descent, which is often the most bothersome time for ear pressure discomfort. Have your kids drink some right after takeoff and during the last 30 to 45 minutes of the descent. The swallowing helps with the pressure changes and gives an added hydrating benefit.

By All Means, Use Pull-Ups

Your little one may have moved beyond Pull-Ups into big kid underwear, but pull-up diapers are a great resource when flying with a recently potty-trained toddler or young child. "I even use them on my 6-year-old," says Wendy, who adds that it's much less stressful than having to race to the bathroom or deal with an in-seat accident.

Show Some Appreciation

Flight attendants love to receive a certain gratuity for dealing with toddlers. "Any kind of chocolate found in an airport, handed over at boarding, does wonders," says Patrick. Of course, it will have zero effect on the random bad-tempered, unprofessional cabin crew member. But it's a nice gesture nonetheless, particularly when flying during the holidays when most flight attendants will be working and away from their families.

"It will be so appreciated," he says. "And we will remember you and look out for you. And not only that, you'll probably score a free drink out of it."

Seat Kids Away From the Aisle

Aisle seats can be dangerous for toddlers and potentially give them a little too much freedom of movement. For example, little hands and feet can be bumped as people walk by and hot coffee and water may be just within reach as the food and beverage cart passes by. If you can, consider the window seat, which offers the benefit of a view and puts you between your toddler and any other passengers in your row.

Beware of Germs

Toddlers tend to get sit a lot, but you can try to avoid any travel-related illness by keeping your little one's hands clean. When flying with a toddler, wipe everything from hands to tray tables down with sanitizing wipes when you're getting settled in your seats—and above all else, do not send your kids to the bathroom without shoes. "The floor is a Petri dish," a flight attendant confides. "You're in the air, things jostle. That's not just water on the bathroom floor."

Keep Your Composure

There's not much you can do to assuage that passenger who complains the moment your child sneezes or giggles. Here's what you need to remember: As long as you're trying (and what parent isn't?), you've got almost everyone on your side. "An adult having an issue with a screaming child is acting like a child as well," offers a flight attendant and mother named Patience. "Don't engage. Just worry about your own child."

Choose an Airline With Kid-Friendly Perks

There's nothing a family-friendly airline wants more than happy, occupied kiddos. As such, many leading carriers have all kinds of kid perks to offer their littlest travelers from a wide array of their favorite TV shows and movies to kid-approved headphones and snacks.

Before boarding, be sure to check in with the gate agent about whether the airline offers priority boarding for families with young children. Often airlines call special boarding for families so they can board a little early so you'll have time to settle in. Other great perks to look for are family lounges or airports with areas for kids to burn off some steam during layovers or before boarding.

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Traveling with my toddlers has been one of the biggest sources of joy (and frustration) in my life. As much as I love traveling on my own, there's something special about experiencing destinations, attractions, food and more through their eyes.

To encourage more families to travel with their children, we created this guide on how to fly with toddlers. The goal is to make travel easier so you'll go on more trips and create more lifelong memories.

1. Get passports for everyone

If you're traveling internationally, remember that everyone needs a passport — even toddlers and babies. Getting a passport can take a while , so be sure to apply for your child's passport right away. Currently, posted passport processing times are as follows:

Routine processing: Six to eight weeks.

Expedited processing: Two to three weeks.

In extreme situations, you may be able to receive a same-day passport within three to five days of travel.

The U.S. Department of State has a handy tool that shows where you can apply in person for a passport based on your ZIP code. Both parents or guardians must be present when applying for a passport for children under 16 years.

Because kids grow and change quickly, children's passports are good for only five years and can't be renewed. This time frame is much shorter than the 10 years that adults enjoy with their passports.

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2. Consider TSA PreCheck or Global Entry

TSA PreCheck and Global Entry are two examples of Trusted Traveler programs that allow flyers to move through airport security more quickly.

Children 12 and under can use the TSA PreCheck lanes when traveling with an eligible parent or guardian. Children 13-17 can as well but must have the TSA PreCheck icon on their boarding pass.

Global Entry, however, requires that every traveler be signed up, even young children. This nuance tripped us up when we were traveling home from Mexico when our daughter was 6 months old. Although it was an innocent mistake, the customs agent wasn't too forgiving.

TSA PreCheck is $78 and Global Entry is $100, and both memberships are good for five years. Global Entry includes TSA PreCheck and is highly recommended if it's possible that you'll travel internationally in the next five years. The time savings at customs is well worth the $22 price difference. Numerous travel credit cards reimburse cardholders for TSA PreCheck or Global Entry application fees. If you have multiple cards with this benefit, you can use a different card to pay for each of your family member's application fees.

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3. Have a notarized letter for solo-parent travel

If one parent is traveling with your toddler while the other is staying home, it's important to get a notarized letter that confirms the non-traveling parent's permission. I travel frequently with my kids while my wife is at her 9-to-5 job, and this document has come up frequently on international trips.

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4. Download apps and shows, charge devices

Before your trip, charge all of your electronic devices, including tablets, portable chargers and cameras. Many streaming services, like Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+, allow you to download movies and TV shows to watch when you're away from Wi-Fi.

Having a charged-up device and multiple hours of entertainment is a sure way to keep your toddler happy while flying.

Many airlines offer hundreds of movies, TV shows and songs free of charge. However, some airlines have removed seatback devices and rely on personal devices instead to provide this entertainment. Be aware that you may need to download the airline's app ahead of time to use these features.

If onboard entertainment is a key differentiator when flying with toddlers, consider booking tickets with JetBlue Airways, Delta Air Lines or Southwest Airlines — our top three picks in our analysis of the best airlines for in-flight entertainment .

» Learn more: The NerdWallet guide to in-flight entertainment, broken down by airline

5. Pack smart

Packing for adults and children can be complicated. Toddlers often need multiple changes of clothes every day due to spills, accidents and changes in weather. Packing cubes help to compress clothing to save space, and it may help to have a dedicated suitcase for each child.

When choosing where to stay, consider options that have on-site laundry facilities. This way, you can reduce how much you need to pack, as you can wash clothes midway through the trip.

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6. Bring a car seat — or rent one

Many parents have car seats that they know and love, so they're inclined to bring them along. Car seats offer a safer in-flight seat for the child and one that they're familiar with, which can help reduce the stress of flying. However, car seats are bulky, so it may not be worth the effort of bringing them on board.

If you want to check your car seat instead, get a car-seat bag. It will protect your car seat from dirt, moisture and damage. Plus, you can often fit additional diapers, clothing or toys in the space where your child sits.

For parents who are renting a car at their destination, consider renting a car seat from the rental car company. If you're a AAA member, you get one free car seat or booster from Hertz, Dollar or Thrifty with each rental. Once your child graduates to a booster seat, compact, adjustable car seats from companies like Mifold can also be a good option.

7. Consider shipping items to your destination

While it can be an added expense, shipping some items makes life easier while traveling — especially if you're going to be away for a few weeks. Items that are disposable and bulky but lightweight make the most sense to ship, but any effort to lighten your airport load can be useful. Ideas include diapers, wipes and snacks, or heavy coats and shoes.

Before shipping, contact your hotel, vacation rental or other accommodation to make sure it can hold items until your arrival.

8. Seek out playgrounds inside the airport terminal

As parents, we know that our toddlers have tons of energy, which can spell trouble when they're sitting in a metal tube at 30,000 feet for hours at a time. Many airports have kids' play areas so your toddlers can burn some energy and be ready for a nice nap during the flight.

If there aren't any playgrounds at your airport, take your toddler for a long walk. My kids loved the moving sidewalks when they were younger (and sometimes even now). Just be respectful of others who are using the area to get to their flight or leave the airport.

9. Head to airport lounges for snacks

Airport lounges are a great way to spend time before your flight when flying with toddlers. There are several credit cards with complimentary or discounted lounge access . And many include complimentary admission for up to two or more guests or family members.

Inside the lounge, there are usually free drinks, snacks, Wi-Fi and other perks. Some lounges even have dedicated kids' areas. Keep in mind that many travelers are there on business or just want to relax, so make sure your children are on their best behavior.

10. Hit the bathroom before boarding

It seems like Murphy's law that as soon as the plane starts to taxi, one of my kids announces (often, loudly) that they need to use the potty. This creates the uncomfortable choice between a glaring flight attendant and a possible accident on the seat.

To avoid this scenario, find out what time your flight starts boarding and use the restroom 15 minutes before then.

11. Keep their favorites handy in a small carry-on

Even when we check luggage, we bring backpacks for each of our kids that are stuffed with their favorite toys, games, books and snacks. It's a good way to keep them occupied — and their bellies full.

Having a strategically packed, lightweight carry-on also helps us avoid paying sky-high prices (literally and figuratively) on snacks when flying with toddlers.

12. Have a plan for ear pressure

Often, babies and toddlers have problems with ear pressure on takeoff and landing. This is partly because they don't realize the need to swallow to relieve this pressure. Breastfeeding, drinking from a bottle or sucking on a pacifier can help them with this process. I've also found EarPlanes to be an effective tool for regulating ear pressure for our family.

13. Indulge them

While parents often have rules about "TV time" and food for their children, when in the air, it's OK to bend those rules. The last thing you — or your fellow passengers — want is a screaming or crying toddler who isn't getting to watch yet another episode of "Team Umizoomi" or "Bubble Guppies."

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14. be prepared to carry them off the plane.

Traveling takes a lot out of everyone. Some toddlers are energized and ready to go the moment they reach the terminal, but most are tired from the process. As such, there's a strong possibility that your kid will need to be carried off the plane.

To keep your hands free(r) when traveling with a toddler, consider checking all bags beyond any strategically packed, small carry-ons. That way, you'll have one less thing to carry — or forget — when deplaning.

Many airline credit cards waive checked bag fees for the first bag of each passenger.

15. Involve them in the planning

Although most toddlers can't read, they can still be involved in planning your family's daily activities. Give them some options and let them select what your family does. Or plan some free time in your schedule and let them take the lead.

They'll love "being in charge" — and you never know where they'll take you. How's that for adventure?

How to travel with a toddler, recapped

Flying with a 2-year-old or other toddler-aged kiddos can be challenging, but also highly rewarding. It takes extra time to pack and plan your trip, but you'll get to experience both new destinations and some of your old favorites through the eyes of a child.

Don't wait to travel until they get old enough to remember the trip. While your toddler may not remember anything, they'll still enjoy being in the moment. You'll have memories that last a lifetime, and you can always take pictures and videos to share as they get older.

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How to Travel With a Toddler on a Plane

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Preparing to Travel

Storing drinks and snacks, pros and cons of pre-boarding, should you bring a car seat, keeping your toddler entertained.

Traveling with a toddler can be exciting and daunting. The thrill of showing your little one a new part of the world, or visiting friends and family, can easily be overshadowed by the stress of taking them around the airport and sitting through a flight.

Most parents find themselves racking their brains about what they should bring to keep their toddlers safe and entertained during the flight. While this will vary depending on the length of your journey, there are certain regulations and recommendations parents should be made aware of to make their flight a success.

Let's take a look at some tips and tricks for traveling with a toddler that will take the stress out of flying, so you can enjoy your trip from start to finish!

Orchestrating a plan before arriving at the airport will make for a far less turbulent experience. Like any vacation, you'll benefit immensely from getting organized in advance. Of course, sometimes travel is more spontaneous, but if possible, you should absolutely take advantage of getting your ducks in a row.

Booking a Flight

Either a direct flight or an indirect flight with a longer layover is in your best interest when traveling with a toddler . As you've seen on most outings with your little one, toddlers can be slow movers who require a lot of baggage. So trying to make a connecting flight with a toddler in tow can be challenging—particularly when you have a short layover.

If you're booking a flight with a layover, a couple of hours is ideal. This will give you time to change your toddler if needed, have a real meal, and let your little one burn off some energy before getting settled again.

While you may want to consider your toddler's naptime when booking your flight, don't fret if you can't find one that perfectly aligns. Revolving your flight around your toddler's regular schedule can be beneficial if you're looking to maintain their routine, but remember, flight times do get changed rather frequently. Also, there's no guarantee your toddler will fall asleep on the plane given the new environment and its excitement.

What to Check

Be sure you know which bags you're checking (and whether they meet the airline's weight requirements) before you arrive. Trying to reconfigure your luggage with a toddler in tow will add undue stress to your trip!

The maximum weight limit for most checked bags is 50 pounds. Carry-on items must meet Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) guidelines. They may not exceed 22" x 14" x 19" and must be able to be stored in an overhead compartment or under a seat.

"Always check your suitcases," says Sarah Mann Hall, a mother of two from Denver, Colorado. "It's so much easier to wrangle a toddler if you aren't also dealing with luggage."

You may also want to invest in a travel wallet to organize all passengers' identifications and boarding passes. This will help with getting through security. Remember, the goal is to make the process as smooth and fast as possible. If you're using electronic boarding passes, don't forget to charge your phone before getting to the airport.

What to Bring Onboard

Consider your carry-on to be a more intricately packed diaper bag. Of course, you'll want to be sure you're armed with all the essentials. But, unlike with a road trip or afternoon outing, there won't be the option to stop along the way for items you forgot. That's right: no convenience stores in the sky!

Here are the items you should make sure you have at your disposal before takeoff.

• Diapers: The general rule of thumb is one diaper per hour of travel time.
• Snacks: Your child's favorites, plus formula or breastmilk, if applicable.
• Blankets or loveys: Comfort items are helpful for calming anxious toddlers.
• Pacifiers: If your toddler uses a pacifier, pack a few. The sucking can also help relieve the pressure in their ears during takeoff and landing.
• Changes of clothes: You can never be too prepared—one for you, one for your toddler.
• Toys: Books, stuffed animals, or simple puzzles are safe bets.
• Sippy cups: Bringing an empty sippy cup is beneficial if your toddler uses one, as the flight attendant can fill it during drink rounds. This way, you can avoid the hassle at security.

Can You Bring a Stroller on a Plane?

You can bring a stroller through the TSA checkpoint, and almost all airlines allow you to bring a stroller on board. You may need to check it at the gate, but each airline has their own rules. Be sure to check the airline's website before departing!

The last thing you want on a flight is a hungry, fussy toddler. Packing snacks and beverages to bring on board will certainly remedy that issue, but you may be wondering what you're allowed to bring and what's off-limits.

TSA guidelines state liquids must be under 3.4 ounces or 100 millimeters to be allowed on board, but the nourishment you pack for your toddler is an exception to the rule. Milk, juice, and formula (if applicable) for your toddler can exceed this amount and do not need to fit in a quart-sized bag.

If you're planning on a shorter flight, remember breastmilk can be stored at room temperature for up to 4 hours. However, once breast milk is cooled, it must remain cool until it is consumed to prevent it from perishing.

Accessories that are used to keep beverages cool, such as ice and gel packs, are allowed in your carry-on. They will be subjected to screening, but are not prohibited on the airplane. You may also bring on jars or pouches of baby food for your toddler.

"Aim for snacks with protein to keep your child full longer," says Kristen Gonzalez, a nutritionist and health and wellness coach at BBK Fitness in Billerica, MA. "Homemade granola, veggies with Greek dressing, and nut butter sandwiches are great options. Kids find snacks especially appealing if you cut them into fun shapes."

Of course, if it's a shorter flight and your airline offers an in-air snack, you may find it easier to simply ask for food and drink for your toddler from the flight attendant. That said, bear in mind this takes the control out of your hands, as the refreshments won't necessarily be delivered on your ideal schedule.

Many major airlines have family pre-boarding policies that allow families with young children to board the plane early. This gives parents an opportunity to get their children settled before the rush and also offers the chance for little ones to get acclimated with the environment. Each airline's policy varies in terms of how soon families can board and the maximum age of children who are considered for preboarding.

Pre-boarding means you won't have to make your way through a huge crowd of people, nor will you have to worry about getting your toddler buckled in a hurry while also organizing snacks and toys. However, some parents caution against pre-boarding, as little ones can get antsy if they're seated too long.

"Doing early boarding is not always a good thing," says Julie Zupan, a traveling mother of three from Medford, Oregon. "Sometimes, it is worth waiting until toward the end of the line so they can get as much energy out as possible."

Whether you decide to take advantage of pre-boarding depends on the airline's policies, your toddler's temperament, and who else will be traveling with you. Double-check with your airline before your flight to see what options are available.

Whether you bring a car seat on the flight is entirely your decision, as there are no regulations in place that require you to do so. Some parents feel more comfortable knowing their toddler is fastened into a car seat on the plane, while others prefer to get their child their own seat or keep them on their lap.

Your child may feel more comfortable (and nap) during the flight.

Securing your child in a car seat is the safest way to fly, per the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA).

Carrying a car seat through the airport can be cumbersome.

Installing the car seat on the plane is sometimes difficult given the tight quarters. You will need to familiarize with seat sizes to ensure your car seat will fit.

Car seat safety experts universally agree flying with a car seat is the safest option for toddlers since runway emergencies do occur, which are similar to car crashes but at five times the speed. Toddlers may ride on your lap at no added cost but will need their own ticket if you are installing the car seat on the plane.

If you plan to bring your car seat on board, bring a copy of the FAA regulations along with you, as some flight attendants may not be fully informed about car seat rules.

In short, nearly all convertible and infant seats are approved by the FAA. American airline carriers must abide by these regulations, but international carriers do not. Check your airline's policy before you travel to be sure you're clear on their rules.

Once you're settled on the plane, you'll want to be sure your little one is kept busy. After all, no parent wants to be the one whose toddler is squirming and squealing throughout the flight.

Safe bets for entertaining your toddler include:

• Mess-free coloring books
• Board books

Even if you don't typically allow electronics at home, you may consider making an exception during the flight. Movies or apps for toddlers can be a great distraction, which will translate into a much smoother flight.

A Word From Verywell

The best way to approach a flight with your little one is to show up calm yet prepared. Your toddler will pick up on any tension, which you can eliminate by ensuring you understand all guidelines ahead of your journey. Having a plan in place for your arrival at the airport, security, and boarding will help things run much more smoothly.

Be sure to bring items on board that will comfort and entertain your toddler, as well as plenty of diapers and food. Remember, you won't be the only one on board trying to keep their little one entertained, and you'll be at your destination before you know it!

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Fact-checking standards, latest update:, time your flight plans wisely, book a nonstop flight when you can, read this next, choose your seats carefully, get to the airport early, plan for the security line, think twice before boarding early, consider the flight attendants your allies, pack plenty of toys and snacks to keep your toddler occupied, pack extra supplies in your carry-on, ease ear pain, childproof your bags.

Keep in mind that traveling to and from your destination is a small portion of your trip. Soon enough, you’ll be spending time together as a family making memories, and it’ll all be worth it. 

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15 Airplane Hacks That’ll Make Flying With Toddler Easier

Flying with a toddler is no stroll in the park. You’ve already gone through the madness of check-in, security, and a gozilion other queues. Now, you’re asking your toddler to sit still in a giant piece of metal that will make loud noises and their ears will pop?

I would be lying if I said, there is a way to make it stress-free, but the hacks I’ve gathered from my and others’ experience will definitely make it much easier.

15 hacks for easier travelling with toddler

• Book your flight according to your toddler’s sleep regime
• Prep your toddler for the journey
• Make edible jewellery
• Dress in layers
• At check-in, ask if they have a spare seat for your toddler
• Request a front or back row seat
• Eat before you board
• Have your partner board the plane firs t
• Have something ready to relieve your toddler from ear ache
• Research aeroplane restraint devices
• Prep activities 
• Prep for bedtime
• Offer your toddler lots of water 
• Stick to the routine as much as possible
• Indulge them

Let’s dive in.

PREPARATIONS

Prepare for the flight. The longer it’ll be, the more activities and animations you’ll need to pass the time quicker.

You also need to be smart about your seating, whether your toddler will want to walk down the aisle or if they are kept busy with games and drawing, so they can sit by the window and be amazed by all the clouds. 

You’ll have to spend the next two to whatever hours with everything that you’ve brought, so make sure you’ve prepared well. And to do so well, here are some hacks and advice from own experience:

1. Book your flight according to your toddler’s sleep regime

If possible, book flights around the time your toddler gets sleepy. I know it sounds trivial but a sleeping toddler is 10 times better than an active one on a cramped plane.

Also, before a morning (or to be honest any) flight, ensure your child gets a good night’s sleep. You don’t want to be stuck with a grumpy toddler. 

2. Prep your toddler for the journey

Talk to your toddler and introduce them to the plane and what will happen before they board the unfamiliar transportation.

The sounds, the look, and the whole experience of the plane are new to the toddler and that might make them feel terrified. Prepping them and making it an educational, kid-friendly game will turn the experience into an adventure. 

Tip: sit your toddler on your lap in front of the TV, put on a simulation video of take off and show them the G-force and turbulence by moving together as if you’re flying on an aeroplane. 

3. Make edible jewellery

You can combine hack No.2 and No.3 by educating your toddler about their next adventure while making edible necklaces.

It’s a fun craft and it gives them some responsibility in the preparation process. Some great options are cheerios, pretzels, fruit loops, and some gummies.

Just remember HEALTHY SNACKS only, avoid sugary treats not to rev them up.

4. Dress in layers

Make sure your toddler is dressed in layers that are easy to put on and take off.

The temperature on the plane drastically changes and I’ve caught a cold myself many times while flying. Eventually, I learned the lesson which I strictly apply to my kids. 

5. At check-in, ask if they have a spare seat for your toddler

If your toddler is under 2, they aren’t required to have a seat of their own, however, it won’t hurt to ask if the plane has a spare seat that you could be allocated next to.

Your toddler will have their own seat so it’ll be easier for them to sleep and more space for you. If it’s a long haul flight and you can afford it, I would even recommend purchasing a separate toddler’s seat. 

6. Request a front or back row seat

Another thing you could politely ask at check-in desk is if there are free front or back row seats available. The front row seats will usually have extra legroom, while both the back and front rows are close to the exit which leads to easier boarding and getting off the plane.

7. Eat before you board

Whether you’ve packed some sandwiches or have found a restaurant serving free food for kids, I advise you to eat before you board – you’ll have one less thing to worry about onboard.

Reaching food and making sure everyone’s happy with the options might become difficult while stuck on the plane. 

Tip: Avoid greasy meals as they contribute to indigestion, however, filling protein-rich foods is a great option if you have a choice. 

Contradictory Hack: You could actually eat during the flight instead, as that would kill time and there’s lots of that on the plane. However, that’s only recommended if your toddler is able to stay still while eating. I don’t even want to picture the mess a fussy toddler makes on the plane. The look on your neighbour’s face when they see a carrot landing on their shirt is one you don’t want to witness. 

8. Have your partner board the plane first

If you’re not travelling alone, have your travel companion board the plane first and secure the overhead bins while you have your toddlers burn the most energy possible ie making them race around the gate area. 

This way you won’t have to force your toddlers to stay still while everyone’s boarding but you’ll have overhead bins ready for you and your drained-to-the-last-bit toddlers. 

TAKE OFF/LANDING

Now comes the take off. It can be scary even for adults so it’s important you talk to your toddler about what will happen on the giant plane.

If you’ve found the time to educate them about flying and specifically take off, you’ve got one less thing to worry as your toddler is at least aware of what’s going to happen. 

9. Have something ready to relieve your toddler from ear ache

With take off and landing, besides the possible fear and crying along with it, unfamiliar issues occur like ear popping that leads to ache. This often uncomfortable sensation is related to pressure changes. Normally, the Eustachian tube equalises the air pressure but in kids it might not do this as well.

The act of chewing and swallowing can shift the ear enough to help the Eustachian tube do its job. To avoid unnecessary suffering for your toddler, clear up their congestion and have one or more of these ready:

• Lollipops/pacifiers or food pouch
• Breastfeeding
• Plenty of water

It’s important you keep your toddler awake and you can even make them practice yawning in a fun playful way, pretending to be lions.

Though crying isn’t pleasant, it also helps prevent aching ears, which is why take off and landing is the time to let your toddler cry it out. 

10. Research aeroplane restraint devices

Each airline has different regulations for how the toddler must be harnessed. They might provide some type of restraint depending on the airline like a belly belt – infant lap belt or a child restraint seat.

However, there are some alternatives that you can bring to make it more comfortable for your toddler, though I cannot stress enough that you double checked with the airline what is acceptable and on which seat (because that also matters). The alternatives are:

• FAA approved car seat. If your car seat is approved by the airline it must have a 5-point harness and fit into the seat measurements of the particular aircraft you’re flying. This should be particularly useful if you’re flying with a smaller toddler. The car seat they’re used to will be a comforting element on an unfamiliar mode of transportation. 
• CARES harness (approved for toddlers who weigh 10 – 20 kg). If the toddler has their own seat on the plane but doesn’t want to sit in the boring old car seat, this harness can be used if the toddler meets the measurement regulations. Again, I emphasise the need to double-check that the airline you’re flying with accepts this type of harness and the particular seat your toddler will be sitting in. 

Okay, so you’ve survived take off. The plane is levelled and your toddler starts to slowly familiarise with their surroundings.

They might start to move around and jump to the aisle wishing to explore the plane and everyone in it. Of course, it’s not an ideal way of passing time on a crammed plane and flight attendants walking back and forth. 

Time starts to move slower and slower as your toddler begins to be more reluctant to sit down.

It’s time you pull out all the surprises that you’ve prepared and use your imagination for spending this flight bonding with your toddler and giving them attention that they’ve always begged for. It’s not like you’ve got somewhere else to go.

Your toddler will be secretly grateful for all these hacks and surprises that you’ll have prepared.

11. Prep activities 

This hack you’re obviously supposed to do before leaving home for the trip. No matter if it’s two, four or six hours, it’ll be a long time on the flight and without all of their toys, your toddler will get bored within the first half hour.

Besides bringing their favourite toys and the iPad, there are other creative things that you can take to make the long flight go faster:

• Multipurpose Backpack or Travel Activity Tray . These two are smart inventions for organising and creating easy access to your toddler’s favourite things to play with. Crayons, notepads, snacks, the iPad, water bottle, and their toys will all be beautifully packed in one backpack or set to play with on the activity tray. Pack these right and your toddler will have everything in reach from their seat. 
• Gel clings . You can make this one even more fun by buying themed gel clings according to your holiday. Your toddler can stick snowflakes and snowmans or beach umbrellas and colourful fishes to their window and watch them swim in the sky. 
• Buy new toys and wrap them up in foil. This takes some extra effort but it’ll be like second Christmas for your toddler. Buy cheap, tiny toys, wrap them all in foil and leave them in the backpack without telling your toddler. The little one will be so excited to discover your gifts.

12. Prep for bedtime

If it’s time to sleep on the aeroplane, there are alternatives that you can bring on board to improve your toddler’s sleep quality. If they get a seat of their own, you can come prepared with things like:

• Inflatable foot rest . This particular item comes in a pack of two, which means either you and your toddler, or if you’ve got more than one kiddo, they can enjoy a more comfortable position during the flight. The foot rest is easy to inflate and provides the length needed for the toddler to lay on the seat like on a bed. It is compact and lightweight, and can be used on any other transportation. Just bring a small pillow and a blanket to cover the little one. 
• Suitcase bed. BedBox by JetKids (20L) suitcase has a mattress incorporated inside. Once you’re on the plane and allowed to do so, unfold the mattress from the ride-on suitcase and your toddler can enjoy a comfy bed of their own. The rest of the space in the suitcase can be used for their little pillow and blankie. 

13. Offer your toddler lots of water 

Airplane cabins have low humidity, thus your toddler (and you) can easily get dehydrated. Bring along sippy cups and remember that you’re allowed to bring a full bottle of water when travelling with a baby/toddler.

To be fully prepared and save money, after security fill an empty sports bottle that you’ve brought with yourself. 

Tip: bring an anti-spill cup. No-brainer but easy to forget. Invest in one that your toddler will like to hold and look at, it will be easier to convince them to drink water out of it. 

14. Stick to the routine as much as possible

Try to stick to your toddler’s routine, especially on long-haul flights. They will behave better if they detect something familiar while experiencing this unknown adventure.

If they’re used to hearing a bedtime story before bed then read them one. Even if it’s googled and read from your phone. 

15. Indulge them

Lastly, indulge them. Let them do the thing they’re only allowed to do on special occasions. Technically, flying is a special occasion for your toddler. I know how hard you work on disciplining your kiddo but they only get to fly once in a while, if any.

Travelling with a toddler is a big challenge for any parent. Letting them use the iPad during the flight will only give you some time to breathe and regroup. Don’t worry, you won’t lose the “good enough” parent badge for doing so. 

This flight too shall pass…

Prepare yourself. The hacks will help ease your trip and reduce the level of stress you’ll have, however, preparing yourself for the inevitable is the smart way to go.

And while your toddler is kicking the seat in front of them, crying from the ear ache or is poking you 20 times non stop, remember the impermanence of this hardship and that this too shall pass. 

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11 Essential Tips For Flying With A Toddler

Everything a parent needs to know to make that flight a whole lot less hellish.

Flying with a toddler presents an entirely different set of challenges than flying with a baby . And it’s due mostly to mobility. Toddlers don’t like to sit still. They’re also more headstrong, prone to meltdowns, and have fleeting attention spans. But the stress of traveling with a toddler doesn’t have to end with your forsaking air travel until they’re teenagers. It just takes some proper planning, smart packing , and a little mental preparation.

For the latest guidance on traveling with babies and young children during COVID, please visit the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website .

To help, Fatherly compiled top tips for flying with a toddler. Here’s what we recommend:

1. Get To The Airport Early

When it comes to flying with kids, some argue against arriving at the airport too early because it means entertaining them for a longer stretch of time outside the comforts of home. The simple fact remains, though: airport stress is dictated by your departure time. And the less time you give yourself to go from the parking garage to the gate ⏤ especially with a toddler in tow ⏤ the more stress you will create. Traveling with a toddler, especially when they’re walking, takes significantly more time than traveling on your own. Arriving 90 minutes to two hours before your flight ensures no matter how long the check-in or TSA lines are, or how slowly they’re moving, you’ll never have to sweat missing your flight. Even better, it gives you a chance to regroup ⏤ order lunch, feed the kid, buy a book you won’t be able to read ⏤ when you get inside the terminal.

2. Split Up When You Board

While all airlines allow parents with children to board first, it’s not always the smartest move. Remember, it usually takes a half-hour for everybody else to board and the plane to start moving ⏤ that’s a lot of time stuck in your seat with a restless 3-year-old. The better strategy is to have one parent board the flight early to stow the carry-ons, gate-check the stroller/car seat, and, if you’re concerned about germs, disinfect the armrests and tray tables. Meanwhile, the other parent walks/entertains the kid in the terminal until everybody is on board, and then boards last.

3. If They’re Still Under 2, Consider Buying Them A Seat

Obviously, this decision depends on one’s finances, but if you’ve got the money to buy an extra seat ⏤ book it. Being able to give a toddler their own space, rather than bouncing them on your lap for three hours, is a game-changer. There’s a reason some parents oppose the idea of “Lap Toddlers” so much ⏤ sure it’s cheaper, but man can it be a nightmare if they won’t sit still.

Two other things: First, if you do purchase a separate seat but don’t elect to bring the car seat on board, consider a CARES harness if you’re concerned about safety. Designed for kids one and up who weigh between 22 and 44 pounds, the FAA-approved harness is both easy to set up and throw in your carry-on bag. And second, if the child is approaching that 2-year-old cutoff but still flying as an infant in arms, don’t forget to bring a copy of their birth certificate or other proof of age. You never know when you might run into a gate agent who’s convinced your giant kid is really 3-years-old, and you’re trying to steal a free flight.

4. Book A Window And An Aisle Seat

If you do go with the lap option, book the aisle and window seats and leave the middle one open. As middle seats are the last to be filled, this increases your odds of scoring your toddler a seat without paying. Worst case scenario, if somebody is sitting there, you can simply offer to trade them the more desirable window seat. Whatever you do, though, don’t give up that aisle seat. You’re going to want easy access to the bathroom and the ability to walk around with your kid.

5. Don’t Fly Too Late In The Day

Ever hung out with a 2-year-old at 5 p.m. on an afternoon when they didn’t get a nap? It’s not a pleasant experience. It may not always work, and your kid may be too distracted to sleep regardless of what time you take off, but booking flights that coincide with their nap schedule at least give you better odds for a smoother trip. Or, if you can’t fly when they usually sleep, try to plan the trip during periods of the day when you know they’re happiest ⏤ for a lot of kids, that’s in the morning. If you do choose a late-day flight, do your best to make sure they get a nap before heading to the airport.

6. Gift Wrap Cheap Toys

Obviously, you don’t want to bring an entire toy box but your main objective while flying with a toddler is to keep them occupied. And the more games, toys, or books you bring along, the easier your job will be. We’ve had great luck with the Water Wow! coloring books , Melissa & Dave’s Reusable Sticker Books, and wax Wikki Sticks, but every kid has their favorites. In addition to toys they already know and love, take a trip to the dollar store before your flight and stock up on cheap stuff you don’t mind losing or accidentally leaving on the plane. And then wrap them individually in wrapping paper like it was Christmas Eve. Whenever your child gets restless during the flight, break out a new toy and help them unwrap it. Let them play with the paper, then the actual toy, and when the child tires of both, well, there’s always Cheerios.

7. Kiss Screen-Time Restrictions (Temporarily) Goodbye

No matter how opposed you are to screen time under normal circumstances, flying is not the time to stick to your principles. It’s not. I’ve tried, and it was awful. That doesn’t mean you have to hand your 18-month-old an iPad loaded with every season of Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood as soon as the flight takes off, but some screen time can come in handy when attention spans start to wane. A few hours staring at a phone or tablet isn’t going to permanently damage your kid’s brain. Depending on how long the flight, be sure to download a movie or two, episodes of their favorite television shows, and some digital kid’s books before you leave the house ⏤ just in case you don’t have access to the internet on the flight. And, more importantly, for everybody’s sake: Buy a trusted pair of child headphones and test them out before you go.

8. Download Audio Books

Even better than apps, movies, or TV shows, download their favorite books in audio form. That way their minds stay engaged but they aren’t mesmerized by a screen the entire time. You can get everything from Fancy Nancy and Curious George to Pinkalicious & Peterrific and Cat in the Hat on Amazon’s Audible or from the local library using the OverDrive or Libby App.

9. Use Food As An Activity

For toddlers, eating food on a plane can be an all-consuming activity on par with watching Paw Patrol . If your kid is tired of listening to books or playing games, break out the crackers and let them concentrate on eating for a bit. Will Gold Fish get everywhere? Maybe. But it beats a bored toddler melting down and a section full of angry passengers. Bagels are one of the best in-flight foods for toddlers because it takes them forever to finish one. We often bring an entire bag.

Two other things to remember: Toddler’s ears can pop just as much as a baby’s, so snacks during takeoff and landing are helpful. And second, don’t forget that liquids and pouches still have to comply with TSA’s three-ounce regulations. We’ve thrown away many a good container of yogurt after forgetting it was too big to get through security.

10. Play Games, Lots of Games

A lot of parents are so quick to plug their kids in that they neglect to take advantage of their surroundings for entertainment. From flight attendants and carry-on luggage to cartoon safety cards and tiny plastic airline wings, airplanes are packed with stimuli around which to create games and keep kids occupied. A couple of fun games include “I Spy When I Fly” and “No Vacancy,” in which older toddlers keep their eyes on the bathrooms and try to guess which will be vacant first. Here are a few more airplane games, as well as fun airport games to keep kids entertained in the terminal before you ever even board the plane.

11. Have A Plan Of Attack: Food, Books, Toys, iPad…

No matter what you pack for entertainment, have a plan coming in ⏤ and expect to vary activities pretty quickly. Maybe start with a snack at takeoff before moving on to some games, a little reading, and unwrapping a new toy. Keep your powder dry though when it comes to the tablet or phone. Because you know it will almost instantly quiet any ornery toddler, you’d be well advised to resist breaking it out until mid-flight, after exhausting as many other activities as can hold their attention.

This article was originally published on Aug. 30, 2018

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From activity books to wipes galore, everything you need for your next flight with kids.

Alesandra Dubin is an LA-based lifestyle writer and editor. As a veteran digital journalist, she's covered travel, food, parenting, and more for over 15 years. Her work has appeared in Travel + Leisure, TripSavvy, and countless other online and print outlets. An avid traveler, she often trots the globe with her husband and their twins. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter at @alicedubin. Alesandra holds a master's degree in journalism with an emphasis on cultural reporting and criticism from NYU, and a bachelor's degree from UC Berkeley.

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The trick to flying with young kids? Careful preparation. Our writer has traveled the world with twins, and she knows that flying with children can be miserable if you don't bring the right items on board with you. But with the right tools, a flight with your youngsters is not just feasible but can even be fun. We've rounded up all the supplies you’ll need for feeding, cleaning, soothing, and entertaining little ones — plus transporting all that cargo. So use this guide to prepare properly for your next family flight .

Packing Checklist for Flying With Kids

We've broken down all categories of things you’ll need to pack when flying with children and included the exact items we’d recommend.

Read more about our specific recommendations below and start your own checklist, too.

Entertainment 

• Best Tablet: Amazon Fire HD 10 Kids Tablet
• Best Headphones: Puro Sound Labs BT2200s Kids’ Bluetooth Headphones
• Best Tech Stand: Airglo Cell Phone and Tablet Holder
• Best Coloring Book: Unicorn Imagine Ink Magic Ink Book
• Best Book: "Where’s Waldo? The Fantastic Journey"
• Best Activity Book: On the Plane Activity Book
• Best Craft: Purple Ladybug Wax Craft Sticks
• Best Game: Magnetic Travel Games
• Best Set: Mini Voyager 4-7 Jetsetter Travel Kit
• Best Sound Machine: Frida Baby Portable 2-in-1 Sound Machine
• Best Pillow and Blanket: Roamwild Kids Travel Pillow and Travel Blanket Set
• Best Portable Bed: Flyaway Kids Bed

Food and Drink

• Best Reusable Water Bottle: Yeti 12-ounce Kids Water Bottle
• Best Lollipops: Ring Pops (20 Count)
• Best Snacks: Healthy Snacks Variety Pack
• Best Snack Activity: Fred Match Up Memory Snack Tray
• Best Changing Pad: SkipHop Portable Baby Changing Pad
• Best Multi-purpose Wipes: Hello Bello Unscented Baby Wipes
• Best Face Wipes: Baby Wipes by Boogie Wipes
• Best Surface Wipes: Lysol Disinfecting Surface Wipes
• Best Hand Sanitizer: Kinia 8-pack Hand Sanitizer Holders
• Best Diaper Bag: Dagne Dover Indi Diaper Backpack
• Best Crossbody Bag: Kibou Vegan Leather Fanny Pack Diaper Bag
• Best Kids Backpack: Herschel Backpack Kids 9L
• Best Wheeled Backpack: Jansport Driver 8 Backpack
• Best Carry-on Suitcase: Rockland London Hardside 20-inch Spinner
• Best Ride-on Suitcase: Jetkids by Stokke Bedbox 19-inch Ride-on Carry-on

Accessories

• Best Luggage Trackers: Apple AirTags
• Best First Aid Kit: PreparaKit Take Along First-aid Kit
• Best Storage Bags: Hefty Slider Storage Bags

T+L's Top Picks and Tips

Entertaining kids is absolutely critical to keeping the peace on any flight. For babies and younger kids, one rule of thumb is to think of entertainment in 15-minute increments; bring enough options to rotate activities often. For older or generally tech-minded kids? Well, the magic power of screens sure comes in handy.

Best Tablet

Amazon fire hd 10 kids edition.

Why We Love It: This tablet has plenty of storage space and comes in a virtually indestructible case.

What to Consider: This isn’t as full-featured as, say, an iPad, so kids will outgrow it eventually.

Tablets are great for long-stretch occupation — just be sure to download your child's favorite shows and movies ahead of time rather than relying on airplane wifi to stream. Amazon’s Fire for kids simpler and less expensive than standard adult versions, and it comes with an indestructible, kid-friendly case with a stand. The Fire HD 10 also includes a two-year guarantee and a yearlong subscription to Amazon Kids+. We find this to be a great investment to keep children from ages 3 to 5 occupied.

Best Headphones

Puro sound labs bt2200s volume limited kids headphones.

Why We Love It: These Bluetooth headphones have a safe maximum volume for kids.

What to Consider: They are pricier than some alternative kids' headphones.

In the same way that you’ll likely lean hard on that tablet to keep kids occupied, you'll depend on quality kids' headphones to go with it. This compact but powerful pair is made to protect early hearing damage by following the World Health Organization’s recommendation of an 85dB-limited volume range. The Bluetooth capability has a 30-foot range of movement so the child can feel free to move about the cabin, too.The lightweight, durable headphones come in nine fun colors.

Best Tech Stand

Airglo airplane travel essentials.

Why We Love It: This universal tech holder is a great hands-free solution for use in planes, cars, and more.

What to Consider: It might not be the most secure stand for larger phones or tablets.

This nifty gadget is the brainchild of a flight attendant who saw a need for a phone stand that would allow passengers to watch movies and TV shows on long flights. Now kids can also watch on your devices hands-free with this tool that fits any brand’s gadgets. It folds fairly flat when not in use, and this lightweight stand could also be repurposed to hang a bag on a chair or tray table.

Best Coloring Book

Bendon unicorn imagine ink magic ink book.

Why We Love It: This compact book is small, self-contained, and mess-free.

What to Consider: The cover is slightly misleading: This book isn’t actually full of unicorn themes.

These invisible ink activity books are self-contained — no crayon collection to roll under plane seats — and guaranteed mess-free. Kids just use the Imagine Ink marker to stay busy with 16 pages of games, all in a portable-size book just right for tossing in a travel bag. We've found invisible ink books particularly effective for children aged 3 to 6.

Where's Waldo? The Fantastic Journey Paperback

Why We Love It: This book is challenging for kids of all ages (including pre-readers) and delivers on a healthy dose of nostalgia for parents as well.

What to Consider: A book will never be as tempting as a tablet for tech-addled kids.

Books that challenge little ones keep them entertained. And Where’s Waldo does just that — even for kids who aren’t reading yet. The paperback book is not only small and lightweight for travel, but its journey motif fits in nicely with vacation adventures, too.

Best Activity Book

On the plane activity book.

Why We Love It: This lightweight book gets kids excited about their flight, with plane-themed games and activities.

What to Consider: You’ll need to bring and keep track of your own coloring implements.

Engage kids in the excitement of travel with this activity book that has an airplane journey theme. Think: spot the identical pilots on their way through the airport, true-or-false airplane and flying facts, and more. Just pack a pencil (or probably two).

Purple Ladybug Wax Craft Sticks for Kids

Why We Love It: This generously stocked wax stick kit has plenty of sticks to share between or among siblings.

What to Consider: You'll probably leave some sticks on the floor and in the seats.

This set of wax craft sticks will be a novelty for most kids, and waxy sticks won’t roll away as easily as crayons or markers. This kit comes with 300 sticks in 15 colors and two different lengths, plenty for multiple siblings to have a go. Kids can endlessly shape and reshape them with no noise and no mess.

The Purple Cow Magnetic Animal Homes Matching Puzzle

Why We Love It: Magnetic pieces keep this tin game set together for play on the go.

What to Consider: Pieces are only magnetic on one side.

Nothing’s more frustrating than trying to travel with a game that’s rendered immediately useless after some essential piece slides irretrievably under an airplane or car seat. This compact game set provides a frustration-free alternative with magnets that keep everything together. We recommend it for children over 2.

Mini Voyager 4-7y Jetsetter Travel Kit

Mini Voyage

Why We Love It: This kit combines a customized array of kids entertainment items into one grab-and-go bundle.

What to Consider: You may save money by finding and buying all of these items separately (if you have the time and inclination).

If creating a DIY bag of entertainment ideas for every flight seems like a lot of work, buy this kit, which compiles it all for you in one convenient bundle. Choose from multiple items to build your own customized pack based on your kid’s interests and ages, including stickers, books, toys, and games.

When kids don’t get adequate rest, the whole thing goes off the rails in a hurry — for everyone. In addition to comfy clothes and layers, these packable items help keep children warm, soothed, and rested on the plane.

Best Sound Machine

Fridababy 2-in-1 portable sound machine.

Why We Love It: This portable sound machine also has a nightlight, and it hooks onto a tray table hinge or arm rest.

What to Consider: It can be hard to differentiate the buttons in the dark.

This little machine produces five soothing sounds for kids, including shushing and a heartbeat. It has an adjustable strap, so you can hook it onto an arm rest or or tray table hinge, or a car seat or stroller once off the plane. During your flight, just but be mindful of using anything beyond pink noise in flight out of respect to your fellow passengers. Conveniently, it also has a nightlight with three glow levels which could help you locate items in a dimmed cabin, too.

Best Pillow and Blanket

Roamwild kids travel pillow.

Why We Love It: This cute and cuddly set is a pillow, blanket, and toy all in one.

What to Consider: While the sleeve-style cover adds comfort to an armrest, it’s still an armrest — so it may be too firm for some kids’ tastes.

A travel pillow and blanket are always useful tools in keeping children cozy for long flights. This one has a niche feature: After you remove the blanket, the sleeve-style toy slides over any armrest to transform it into a kids’ pillow. So, it’s a penguin toy, a comfy pillow, and a warm blanket, all in one cute and compact package.

Best Portable Bed

Flyaway kids bed.

Why We Love It: Not just a place to sleep, this comfy surface also keeps toys and accessories from rolling onto the floor.

What to Consider: You’ll be happy to have it on the plane, but then you’ll be committed to traveling with it for the duration of your trip.

When kids are overtired, everyone loses. And a tool like this can be just the ticket for helping them sleep on long flights. The bed for babies, toddlers, and little kids inflates in 90 seconds and deflates quickly, too. It comes in a carry bag with a pump included, and it can be wiped clean.

When it comes to traveling with kids, you’ll always need more snacks than you think. Think you’ve packed enough? Great, now double it. And don’t forget a refillable water bottle to kep your kiddo hydrated.

Best Reusable Water Bottle

Yeti rambler jr. kids bottle.

Why We Love It: This water bottle is impressively leakproof and made to withstand a beating.

What to Consider: The bottle itself is heavy, especially compared to its relatively small 12-ounce payload.

Staying hydrated with kids while traveling is a must, and this water bottle means business. The Yeti is durable, spill proof, and double-wall insulated to keep drinks cold (or warm) for hours. Plus, a straw cap makes it easy for kids to sip on the go.

Best Lollipops

Ring pop individually wrapped bulk lollipop variety party pack.

Why We Love It: It acts as both a snack and a bribe — er, reward , that is — and can help reduce ear discomfort on planes.

What to Consider: Nope, there’s no nutritional value here!

Lollipops and their ilk are a multifunction tool for traveling with kids: It’s a snack! It’s a reward! It keeps them busy! And the act of swallowing while sucking on them can also ease ear pressure on takeoff and landing. Even better, Ring Pops are a smart, toy-like alternative to stick lollies for hands-free holding.

Best Snacks

Stuff your sack healthy snacks variety pack organic care package.

Why We Love It: This variety pack includes 18 different flavors to keep kids interested.

What to Consider: The packaged snacks may be organic, but they are still processed food.

Having kids means having snacks handy at all times; traveling makes it all the more necessary to keep kids fed and comfortable to combat whining. This variety pack includes 25 organic packaged snacks from 19 different brands; 18 different flavors keep them intrigued as little surprises unfold throughout a long journey.

Best Snack Activity

Fred match up memory snack tray.

Why We Love It: Dispensing snacks this way keeps the experience fun for kids — and prolongs the process to keep them busy, too.

What to Consider: Make sure your child is able to push buttons.

Snacks serve two important functions: nutrition and amusement. For that reason, try to prolong these food breaks as a way to keep kids busy and amused. Try putting different snacks into this fun tray with compartments; it’s fun for littles to discover treats behind each door, and it adds time to the whole process. For slightly older toddlers and children, you can make a memory game out of it.

Keeping kids clean — and cleaning up after them — has long been a top concern among traveling parents. A global pandemic only underscored the importance of traveling with wipes and sanitizer.

Best Changing Pad

Skip hop pronto changing station.

Why We Love It: When you travel with your own changing pad, you’re guaranteed a non-public surface no matter where you are.

What to Consider: A separate changing pad may not be necessary if you have a diaper bag that comes with one.

Change a diaper on the go without fear of exposing baby to gross, public surfaces. This changing pad takes the form of a clutch, with a large mesh pocket that holds four diapers and accessories, plus a translucent wipes case. A front zipper pocket holds essentials like keys and cash. Drop it in any bag, or clip it on a travel stroller or luggage handle instead.

Best Multi-purpose Wipes

Hello bello unscented baby wipes.

Why We Love It: You can use these extra-soft baby wipes on just about everything.

What to Consider: These full-size packs aren’t tiny.

Is there nothing a baby wipe can't do? From diaper changes to on-the-go hand cleaning to wiping up half-eaten miscellany, traveling with baby wipes is a must. These are super soft with aloe and chamomile extract — and no alcohol, synthetic fragrances, phthalates, or parabens.

Best Face Wipes

Boogie wipes.

Why We Love It: These hypoallergenic, ultra-soft saline wipes are great for cleaning snotty faces and even clearing airways.

What to Consider: If you don’t want to pack a bag full of different wipe options, this specialty product might be the first to go.

With kids, runny noses are just about guaranteed for chunks of the year, and they're even more likely when you add in the fatigue and exposure from traveling. These hypoallergenic and alcohol-free cloths are designed expressly for nose-wiping, with gentle saline, vitamin E, aloe, and chamomile to soothe sensitive skin.

Best Surface Wipes

Lysol disinfecting wipes to-go pack.

Why We Love It: You’ll find tons of uses for this travel-sized package of wipes when traveling through public spaces with (or without) kids.

What to Consider: These are ideal for surfaces, but they are not for use on kids’ faces.

These germ-busting wipes are ideal for cleaning nonporous surfaces like a tray tables or seatback entertainment screens, and they're a must for both safety and peace of mind when traveling with littles known to touch everything.

Best Hand Sanitizer

Kinia 8 pack empty mixed kids hand sanitizer.

Why We Love It: These cute and colorful hand sanitizer holders keep gel easy to access for frequent cleanups.

What to Consider: Be advised these containers come empty, so you’ll need to fill with your favorite brand.

In addition to wipes, hand sanitizer is a must for quick cleaning on the go. Keep your gel handy by filling these colorful jelly wrap silicone carriers. The 1-ounce, flip-top-cap bottles attach with adjustable silicone cords to backpacks, diaper bags, and just about anywhere else.

Depending on kids’ ages and sizes, they may be candidates to tote their own cargo. Backpacks, rolling bags, and even ride-on options help keep the process moving smoothly. Adults, on the other hand, can benefit from bags that keep hands free in case they need to carry tired children or hold little hands along the way.

Best Diaper Bag

Dagne dover indi diaper backpack.

Why We Love It: This bag is sleek, chic, and unisex, and it delivers on functionality with tons of specialized compartments.

What to Consider: It's spacious and deep, so smaller items can be hard to spot in a hurry (and when are you not in a hurry when traveling with kids?).

Traveling with kids means prioritizing performance in a diaper bag ; we're huge fans of Dagne Dover because the brand fuses functionality with style so well. Done in chic, 100-percent vegan neoprene, this backpack-style diaper bag also clips to a stroller upon arrival. It includes a mini changing mat and extra pouches, with an extra zipper opening for easy access to wipes.

Best Crossbody Bag

Kibou diaper bag.

Why We Love It: This crossbody doubles as a compact diaper bag for hands-free convenience.

What to Consider: A diaper bag this small obviously isn’t a feasible option for longer outings or multiple babies, so consider your usage.

This vegan-leather waist pack, which extends into a crossbody, is a great choice for traveling through airports and wearing on the plane. The ultra-compact diaper bag has tons of features so you can travel hands free: A built-in waterproof pocket holds 20 wipes wet for up to a week, a detachable changing pad unfolds from the back flap, a hook holds a pacifier or key, slots secure credit cards or cash, and the nylon lining is wipeable and stain resistant. It's even possible to use this as a regular bag once your little ones are out of diapers, too.

Best Kids Backpack

Herschel heritage backpack | kids.

Why We Love It: Encouraging kids to carry their own backpack builds independence while keeping the family’s cargo moving.

What to Consider: This kid-size version is best for ages 3 to 7; move up to youth size for older kids.

Herschel has just the right size backpack for children preschool age and up to carry their own gear — both to help out the family and to develop a bit of self reliance. This kid-proportioned version is just 13 inches high and has a removable sternum support strap. The next size up is right for youths ages 8 to 12 and, at 15 inches high, it also features a 13-inch laptop or tablet sleeve.

Best Wheeled Backpack

Jansport driver 8 core series wheeled backpack.

Why We Love It: A rolling backpack keeps the weight off kids’ backs and holds a solid amount of cargo.

What to Consider: This well-equipped pack is substantially sized and a better bet for grade school ages and up.

This 21-inch rolling backpack is packed with features for bigger kids. It has two spacious main compartments plus skate wheels and a telescoping handle for a smooth ride. An exterior mesh bottle pocket stretches to fit large bottles, and a 15-inch laptop sleeve has a buckle to keep technology extra secure. It comes in an array of solid colors and appealing prints, and you can easily tuck away the shoulder straps when not in use.

Best Kids' Carry-on Suitcase

Rockland london hardside spinner wheel luggage carry-on.

Why We Love It: Kids can grow with this 20-inch spinner, small enough to manage but large enough to hold proper cargo.

What to Consider: A 20-inch spinner will be too large for preschoolers to easily maneuver.

When it comes to kids’ roller bags, we advocate for choosing a piece small enough for them to manage but large enough to hold a meaningful amount of cargo. To be worthwhile, it must be an efficient use of hands and bin space, not just a character-shaped gimmick that holds very little. Our writer's twins have these durable hardside cases, which they’ve carried independently since age 6 (going on three years and many miles and still going!).

Best Ride-on Suitcase

​​stokke jetkids bedbox.

Why We Love It: This wheeled ride-on suitcase transforms into a leg rest or bed in flight.

What to Consider: Not all carriers permit the use of items like these as leg rests while in the air.

This ride-on rolling suitcase has hidden talents beyond scooting through the airport: It transforms into a leg rest, or an in-plane bed, to help keep kids comfy and rested during the flight, too. Bonus: It even includes two sheets of stickers for kids to personalize their own luggage.

It may seem overwhelming to keep track of all the things you need to bring, especially after you've left home. GPS trackers can be lifesavers for locating your items during the journey, and a small first aid kit and plastic slider bags prepare for just-in-case moments and help clean up mid-flight messes, too.

Best Luggage Tracker

Apple airtag 4-pack.

Why We Love It: Track your kids’ stuff — or even your kids themselves — amid hectic environments like airports.

What to Consider: These tiny trackers are made to interface with Apple devices only.

In crowded, chaotic environments — especially when the dependability of baggage handling could use improvement — a small GPS tracking device tucked into a bag can make all the difference in reuniting with it after, say, a kid blithely walks away from their belongings after being distracted by a candy display. You can also use these tags on children themselves, with an array of specialty wristbands, keychains, and necklaces designed to incorporate the tags for wearability.

Best First Aid Kit

Preparakit small compact first aid kit for kids.

Why We Love It: This well-stocked first aid kit covers the basics in a compact, highly portable package.

What to Consider: You can save money if you choose to compile your own kit with customized supplies.

This TSA-approved mini first aid kit contains all the essentials for babies and toddlers in a package just about the size of a wallet. The curated array of 50 items includes bandages, gauze, tape, scissors, thermometer strips, and more. There’s also additional room to add your own prescription or over-the-counter medication.

Best Storage Bags

Hefty slider storage bags.

Why We Love It: They have a stand-up bottom for convenience.

What to Consider: They're less durable than sturdier bags made for freezer storage,

There are so many uses for slider storage bags while flying with kids: Use them within backpacks to organize cables, toys, and snacks. Or, use them to separate wet or soiled items, and to collect trash tidily. Plus, they’re super lightweight and waterproof.

Prioritize new or special items

When it comes to keeping kids entertained during a long flight, they’re most likely to stay engaged when playing with something that is new to them. Now’s the time to choose new or rarely used games, books, toys, and technology to pack in your kit for maximum novelty value.

Consider portability

You may be accustomed to your full arsenal of supplies at home, but carefully consider how portable and necessary each of these items is before committing to travel with it. Luggage fees add up, arms and hands quickly fill, and only the truly portable items are usually worthwhile to bring along on travels with kids.

Children over the age of two must have their own ticket, and therefore are entitled to the same baggage privileges of other ticketed passengers in the category. Check your airline and ticket class for the specific baggage allowances.

Formula, breast milk, toddler drinks, and baby or toddler food (including purée pouches) in quantities greater than 3.4 ounces are allowed in carry-on baggage, according to the TSA regulations ; these are considered medically necessary liquids. Just make sure to take these items out of your carry-on bag to be screened separately.

The same permission applies to breast milk and formula cooling accessories, like ice packs and freezer packs.

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10 Tips for Traveling on a Plane With a Toddler

By: Devon Kuntzman, PCC     Published: October 31, 2023    Updated: November 18, 2023

Traveling can be stressful, especially with toddlers! And if you’re a parent of a toddler, then you know just how the idea of traveling on a plane with a toddler can feel daunting. Yes, travel in general can be so worthwhile, filled with memories and unforgettable experiences. But the logistics of traveling with toddlers on a plane can be filled with lots of big emotions – for both parents and toddlers! Today I’m sharing all of my best advised effective and practical tips for flying with toddlers to make your experience through the airport and airplane as smooth as possible!

10 tips for traveling on a plane with a toddler

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From the never-ending packing lists to boarding a big plane with lots of new people and different sounds, just about everything in regard to traveling with toddlers can feel overwhelming. But with a little extra prep work and planning ahead, traveling with toddlers on a plane can be simplified so you feel more prepared and your toddler feels more at ease.

Follow these 10 essential tips for traveling on an airplane with your toddler.

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Book direct flights if possible

Even without toddlers, traveling on a direct flight is simply better. So if you’re flying with young children, and have the option, choose to book direct flights to shorten the travel time and minimize the risk of travel disruption.  

Take advantage of pre-boarding wisely

Some airlines will offer pre-boarding for families with children ages two and under, while other airlines are more vague with pre-boarding options for small children. If you are traveling with another adult…divide and conquer! While you stay behind and let your little kids burn off some preflight energy, have the other adult board the plane and find your seats, wipe down the tray tables and seats with sanitizing wipes , secure overhead storage for carry-ons, and install the car seat. 

Avoid the aisle seat 

Make sure to have your toddler sit in the window seat. In general, this is a safer option as it will give them a bit more freedom to move without risking running down the aisle or interfering with a service cart or flight attendants. Yes, it can feel awkward to ask a stranger to get up if you and your toddler need to get to the bathroom, but people are generally understanding. 

Book a seat for your toddler 

If your toddler is less than two years old and it’s in your budget, book an extra seat for your toddler. You won’t regret it. Having the extra space will be appreciated by both you and your child. While flying is overall very safe, severe turbulence is becoming more common due to climate change. For this reason, especially, it is safest for your toddler to be in a toddler car seat in their own seat. Check your car seat to see if it is FAA-approved and if it will fit in an airplane seat. For older kids, this airplane harness is a great way to offer added seat belt safety! 

Pack your diaper bag efficiently using zippered bags for easy access

I absolutely love using these clear bags for toys so that toddlers can see their options easily. I also love using these zippered bags for other items like granola bars and snack pouches.

Pack an extra change of clothes 

For parents and kids – we know that spills happen. Luggage gets lost. Having extra clothes easily accessible can be a lifesaver and save you a lot of stress. Focus on packing comfortable clothes and dressing in layers. Never hesitate to bring your kids to the airport in their pajamas during early morning or late night flights.  

Bring all the snacks!

Toddlers are constantly growing (and eating)! And there’s no better way to keep a toddler happy and occupied with a snack. So pack all of their favorites. You can never pack enough options, which is why I love these snack spinners that will keep their bellies full and their minds busy.

Set realistic and reasonable expectations

Travel days are tough for adults and toddlers. Especially because traveling usually involves upside-down schedules and routines being thrown off which results in a lack of sleep. Your toddler may become more easily dysregulated due to overstimulation, a missed nap, and simply not being at home. This can mean more whining and tantrums. Don’t worry about onlookers – stay present and focus on yourself and your child.  

Be flexible with schedules

Keep the routine but don’t hold yourself to a strict schedule. For example, bring your chid’s special lovey and sound machine for naps but don’t expect your child to nap at the same time they would at home. Routines can be soothing for toddlers because they create a sense of safety through predictability. Anticipate that your toddler might have more screen time than usual, and that’s just fine.  

Keep in mind that flying on an airplane with your toddler is temporary. If you find yourself struggling, visualize arriving on your vacation or back in the comfort of your own home. Think about how good it will feel to get there. Hold onto these visualizations and keep bringing them to the forefront of your mind if things get tough. Remember, you and your toddler are human. So give yourself and your toddler some grace on travel days! 

Whether you’re traveling with toddlers in the car on a road trip or flying on an airplane, getting to your destination can be made easier and smoother with all of my favorite toddler travel essentials ! 

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Potty Seat Reducer

This potty seat reducer folds up and comes with its own travel bag that you can toss right inside of your diaper bag. Potty seat reducers make the toilet seat smaller and safer for your toddler, which is why they are essential for setting your toddler up for success in public (or airplane) restrooms.

Spill-Proof Snack Cup

Avoid losing those precious snacks all over the airplane with this one-piece silicone spill-proof snack cup.

Spill-Proof Sippy Cup 

No need to worry about your child’s water or milk getting spilled with these no-spill sippy cups.

Food Catching Bibs

Keep your toddler’s clothes clean from baby food with these silicone food-catching bibs that catch all the snack crumbs. They are easy to wipe off and roll up for travel so you can toss them right into your diaper bag.

Travel Baby Carrier

We love a good baby carrier! Having a supportive carrier that travels easily is essential to freeing up your hands and making your trip through the airport more comfortable for you and your toddler. 

Keep your toddler busy and having fun with this reusable mess-free painting activity that is perfect to do right on the airplane tray tables.

Reusable Sticker Books

Stickers are a toddler’s best friend! These reusable sticker activity books are a great way for your child to practice fine motor skills while traveling.

Travel Busy Board

Busy boards are a wonderful way to keep your toddler busy with endless options to practice many different types of fine motor development. This busy board zips right up for travel, giving your toddler lots of ways to explore and play on the go.

Travel stroller

Having a great travel stroller is essential to keeping your toddler comfortable and contained plus your hands-free. My personal favorite is the BABYZEN YOYO2 Stroller because it fits easily in most overhead compartments. 

Suction Cup Spinners

This fun (and affordable) little suction cup spinner travel toys stick to the window or tray table! My personal favorite suction cup spinners are made of high-quality silicone, which makes them great for teething too! 

If you’re looking for more travel must-haves, check out my favorite Plane Travel Toys & Essentials for toddlers to help make flying more tolerable for you and your toddler.

Whether you have a toddler or not, traveling can be stressful and overwhelming. But with a little prep work and a lot of patience, you can do this!

Regardless of whether you’re gearing up for your first flight with your toddler or looking to fine-tune your travel experience based on your last flight with your kids, I am here for you! If you’re looking for more guidance and support as you navigate all things toddlerhood, don’t miss out on any of the Transforming Toddlerhood Parenting Classes to help you out along the way!

There are many things that make traveling with a toddler on a plane challenging. Changes in routine, sleep schedules, and the overstimulation of new places, faces, and sounds all contribute to the challenges of traveling with a toddler on an airplane.

Doing some prep work to feel prepared for flying with a toddler is so important! One of the best ways to stay organized when traveling on a plane is to pack your travel essentials in clear, zippered bags so you can see your items and belongings for quick and easy access.

Snacks, toys, and extra clothes are all basic essentials to pack for travel on a plane. Oh, and more snacks!

You can bring your diaper bag, baby food, snacks, a travel stroller, and carseat through airport security.

You can travel with a car seat by simply either checking it at the counter or gate, but make sure it’s in a travel bag for protection. If your child has their own seat assignment, you can fasten them right into their toddler car seat during the flight (which is the most preferred and safest option for flying), as long as it is FAA-approved and fits in an airplane seat.

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Devon Kuntzman, PCC

As a toddler expert and mama, Devon is on a mission to transform the myth that toddlerhood is terrible. She empowers toddler parents to overcome the challenges of toddlerhood, nurture development and create confidence in their skills by being the Confident Leader & Guide through using positive, respectful, and developmentally appropriate parenting tools.

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What I Learned After Flying for 18 Hours With My Toddler

By Jessica Rach

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Riding one of the longest flights in the world is already an undertaking—then I had to do it with my talkative son in tow. Even though flying with a toddler can be tough, I was determined to introduce him to the paternal side of my family who I hadn’t seen for over 20 years. So we embarked on an 18-hour journey from London to Bali . Here is what I learned about flying with a toddler after the trip—and what I wish I had known before.

Consider the duration of each leg of your flight if you have a stopover

Rather than take the usual connecting route through Dubai , I opted for a stopover in Singapore . I reasoned that it would be kinder to all involved to get the bulk of the trip out of the way in a 13-hour marathon and then completing the remaining three hours from Singapore to Bali. This worked out really well: We began our journey from London with a night flight and didn’t have to interrupt my son's sleep , which would have happened if we had stopped in Dubai after just seven hours.

Think about the timing and length of your stopover

Will you want to nap your child and use the opportunity for a day-trip in the city , or do you want to get the journey over with as quickly as possible? I opted for the latter, keen to get to my destination. We had a perfect two-hour window to stretch our legs and burn some energy before getting on the last leg of the journey, which I wanted him to stay awake for (so we could adjust to the local time in Bali as soon as possible).

Plan a night flight around your arrival times

To minimize jet lag , consider any sleeping schedules and the local time difference, and take advantage of a night flight if you can. I booked an outbound night flight, but realized the local time on arrival would be midnight, and we would be expected to sleep again—a recipe for jet lag disaster. Luckily, we stayed awake for the last leg of the journey; we were all so tired once the plane landed that we got to sleep pretty quickly on arrival.

Ask how your airline can help with kids

I flew with Singapore Airlines , which I soon discovered to be very family-friendly. I was offered baby, infant, vegetarian, western, and Asian options for my three-year-old son’s inflight meals on booking, an impressive selection from which I was able to pre-order. They also gave us an inflight entertainment pack, which included a puzzle and coloring book. The team made a real fuss over their smaller passengers. For those with babies, most airlines will warm up expressed milk on a flight and you can request a blanket for breastfeeding privacy.

Choose the best seats in advance

Luckily, I was able to select my seats upon booking, so there would be no last-minute kerfuffle trying to get the best window seats within a civilized distance of the toilets. Though I didn’t need baby changing facilities, I made a mental note to pack a slimline foldable toddler toilet seat. We managed to get a seat with no one behind us, so I only had to worry about potentially annoying one row of passengers. The window seat kept my son entertained during take-off and landing when entertainment had to be put away.

Ensure a checked stroller is included and permitted on board

My Bugaboo Butterfly was permitted on Singapore Airlines, but I was also flying a leg of the flight with their sister airline, Scoot, which only allows strollers onboard subject to space. Unfortunately, the buggy had to be checked in without a buggy bag, which I was slightly nervous about, but thankfully, it came back without any damage. For other suitable stroller recommendations, see our guide to the best travel strollers .

Invest in a plane bed

I decided to bring a seat extender to turn my son’s seat into a bed. Many airlines have varying rules on which convertible beds or seat extenders are permitted, and they are only allowed in the window or middle seat, so it's always a good idea to check before traveling. Decide whether you want to use a kid's suitcase that converts into a bed box like the Stokke ride-on or invest in an inflatable mattress. I opted for the Bubba board as it provided the perfect balance of comfort, low weight, and easy set-up. It was a total game changer, and my toddler slept solidly for over 10 hours. It took me two minutes to lay the board on the seat and clip the extension to the tray table, and my three-year-old immediately curled up and fell asleep. This will be accompanying us everywhere from now on.

Take a backpack as your carry-on

Put as much as you can in your checked luggage and keep the essentials in a travel backpack to carry onboard. You'll want your hands free when running to and from flights and going through security. I took the Longchamp Le Pliage backpack , which was great; although it doesn’t have many compartments, it’s really spacious, light, and easy to clean with wipes. I kept my phone and documents in a handy-to-reach sling bag , which, at the risk of looking like a packhorse, saved me from rifling around for everyone’s passports during the endless checks.

Check out the airport facilities

I asked about booking the airport lounge as we would have to arrive at least three hours before the flight departure time, but it proved too costly. Instead, I read up on the airport’s children’s soft play and playground areas, which my son was thrilled with.

Pack an entertainment goodie bag

Though the airline offered great inflight entertainment and an activity pack, I decided to wrap up an array of travel toys including Play-Doh, paper and pens, snacks, headphones, books, and the famous iPad for him to open and alternate at varying intervals. I also packed an inflatable cushion and blanket in the hopes that a “bedtime” routine would help give everyone a restful night. However, a pillow and blanket were included with our seat, so I could have saved the luggage space.

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Your guide to flying with kids of every age

Your passport to an enjoyable flight with your kids is a little advance planning and packing a bag of travel treats to manage in-flight restlessness. Between cramped seats , questionable food and fees for checked bags , flying can be stressful for families whether taking the first flight with a baby , dealing with cranky toddlers or moody teens. Here's how to survive a flight.

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General tips for flying with kids

Regardless of your child's age, here are some tips to make your family travel adventure a lot less stressful:

Bring the right documentation

Remember to carry identification for your child(ren). You may not always be asked for it when flying domestically ( except when flying with a lap infant ), but with international destinations, you'll need a passport for each family member, regardless of age. If you think you may travel internationally after your baby is born and you have a birth certificate, it's time to get your child a passport . Having a passport is much easier than using other forms of documentation. Children's passports are good for five years.

Related : Getting ready for your child's first flight: A survival guide

Even if your kids don't need identity documentation at your final destination, it's good to have at least a copy of the birth certificate at the ready. TPG reader Anna Flowers shared her experience when Delta refused to issue her a boarding pass without proof that her son was hers. She hadn't brought identification for her son, but luckily, her husband was able to send a scanned copy of her son's birth certificate to show to the Delta agent.

Choose the right airline

The airline you choose can have a significant impact on the quality of your trip, especially when it comes to traveling with kids. For example, some airlines charge more for lap infant tickets , others offer more spacious seating and better schedules and routes out of your home airport. Certain airlines are more family-friendly, so it pays to consider these factors when booking a trip for your crew.

Pack extra necessities but don't go overboard

Don't get stuck without the necessities if your luggage is lost or delayed. Pack a carry-on with a few belongings for the kids and yourself to get you through around 24 hours. Don't overpack because the extra weight will end up being more of a hassle than it's worth, but you do want to make sure you have the basics covered. It's likely you'll be able to find (almost) anything you'd need at your destination.

Get Global Entry

When parents have Global Entry, the whole family also has access to the TSA PreCheck program, since children under 12 can use the PreCheck line when accompanied by an eligible adult. This makes a huge difference when clearing security with your kids. Drop all your gear on the belt of the x-ray machine, walk through the metal detector, grab your kids and go.

Related: Top cards for Global Entry and TSA PreCheck

If you travel internationally at least once a year, it makes sense to sign your kids up as well , because every person must have Global Entry when using the expedited immigration lines.

You could also sign up for CLEAR that offers expedited security checks at airports and public venues like stadiums. The bonus there is that children under 18 can use it with you for free.

Flying with a baby

Babies spend most of their days eating and sleeping, and even when awake, they're not mobile like toddlers. So you have a few things working to your advantage.

But there's a lot you need to know, like how to fly with breast milk in the U.S. and these tips for award travel with a lap child . If you're planning travel with your baby, check out TPG 's guide to flying with a lap infant .

Flying with toddlers

Unlike infants, who want to be held all the time, toddlers want to move. That creates another set of issues for parents. A survey by Emirates found that 70% of travelers say kids under the age of two get antsy during the first two hours of the flight. Here are ways to channel that extra energy and avoid tantrums:

Strategically plan your toys

Don't show the kiddos everything you brought for them all at once. Make sure you have toys planned to keep them busy for the duration of the flight and bring them out one at a time as needed. In addition to tech solutions, it's smart to pack activities such as travel games/cards or a good coloring book to keep them entertained.

Pack snacks galore

Toys are a great distraction but food can be even better. Have different snacks set aside for different points of the flight to ensure your kids stay busy and full. Also, don't be afraid to ask the cabin crew to help warm up food or a bottle, though it may not always be possible.

Go for walks

You don't like sitting in an airplane seat for hours, so why would your rambunctious toddler? A brief stroll down the aisle will help break up the time doing activities in their seats and may ward off a meltdown if your toddler gets restless.

Embrace technology

The same study mentioned above by Emirates found that electronic devices are the most effective way to keep kids occupied during a long flight. For children under 5 years old, 57% of parents said that movies, TV shows or videos are the most helpful in keeping children occupied, followed by devices to play games. Don't forget your charger (and adapter, if needed). But if that isn't for you, take a look at this advice from a mom who keeps her kids busy on long-haul flights without tablets .

Flying with school-aged kids

Luckily, children who are in kindergarten through elementary school have longer attention spans and fewer tantrums. But, it can still be a challenge to keep a young child happy during a flight. Here's what can help:

Make it a special occasion

Whether it's going to a birthday party or getting ice cream after school, kids love when they get to do something out of the ordinary. Use that same approach for a flight by making it a fun event and packing a special bag. Items like crayons, small toys and a few pieces of their favorite candy work wonders. (Think: the blind bag trend all over YouTube.) Extend the idea of a special occasion by letting them choose a movie or TV show they wouldn't usually get to watch or having a snack not allowed at home.

Introduce seat-back games

It can be a lot to pack games that will keep a child entertained for hours, so don't depend solely on what you brought. Let your child explore the seatback-entertainment system if there is one. Many offer games that are meant to keep people distracted for hours. They can even play against other people on the plane, just show them how to start and they'll be set for hours.

Bring a book about the destination

Children in elementary school are all about learning. Use that to your advantage. If you're headed someplace new, bring a book about that destination. Letting them help plan the activities you'll do, once you arrive, will keep them entertained during the flight and get them excited for the vacation.

Flying with teens

The biggest problem parents have on board is staving off restlessness and boredom, both of which lead to children (er, little adults) acting out in a variety of ways. In the case of teenagers , their "angsty" side might come out after a while. Help make it the bonding experience you dream of by trying the tactics below:

Have a meal as a family

A flight is a perfect time for family members to switch seats with each other so everyone has a chance sit next to a different family member. It's a good time to eat and chat with one another without watching TV or checking cell phones.

Start a conversation

Being stuck on a plane together can be a great opportunity to interact with your kids. Imagine their undivided (OK, partially divided) attention for hours on end. Strike up a conversation with questions like what they're most looking forward to during the trip. Don't push -- teens need space, even when sitting right next to you.

Book a flight with Wi-Fi

Of course, we know teenagers need to stay connected with their friends, even at 35,000 feet in the air, so take advantage of onboard Wi-Fi when you can. Choosing the right airline , or the right credit card can even make Wi-Fi a free treat.

Bottom line

No matter the age of your children, keeping them happy, comfortable and entertained while in flight takes some effort. But, it's worth it in order to enjoy a new and exciting experience with those you love. Your demeanor rubs off on your kids. Keeping a positive attitude can go a long way in making the trip more enjoyable for everyone. Plan for what you can but otherwise, just roll with it. It's all about making the time spent getting to and from your destination part of the fun.

What are your tips for flying with children of different ages?

Here are some other resources to help you confidently fly with your family:

• Most family-friendly international air carriers
• How to survive long-haul flights with kids
• Traveling with children who have special needs
• How old should your child be before taking an international vacation?
• 4 things to know about U.S. passports for children

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Best Airplane Activities For Toddlers

By: Author Agnes Hsu

Posted on Last updated: July 2, 2021

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We recently flew 6 hours with my 3-year-old. Here are my best tips for flying with toddlers. Although these airplane activities for toddlers will work for kids ages 3+ too! 

In flying with toddlers or any little kids, it’s best to try to keep them engaged to prevent them from getting antsy on the seat for long flights. These airplane activities for toddlers such as fun plane games and snacks will help keep them busy and occupied. These are likely to make flying a lot more comfortable for them.

Preparation before flying is essential, This will give you enough time to get the kids ready. Have a look at your flying schedule and plan an itinerary that includes nap and meal time, some screen time and plenty of active activities to keep them engaged!  Remember to factor in their meals and schedules too during flying.

You can use flying with kids as an opportunity to bond with your children. It is not easy flying with toddlers because of all the stuff you need to take along with you. In addition to fun plan activities, you can use flying as a chance to have fun and teach your kids important lessons about flying and safety at the same time, Making flying an enjoyable experience for them will make flying much easier for you too!

These airplane travel activities for toddlers helped keep my son engaged and playing for most of the plane ride! I can happily report no tantrums and minimum screen time was achieved. A win for both mom and kids! Click on the links below to get more information on each product used.

Best Airplane Activities for Toddlers (And Little Kids!)

The fun ‘n’ fly foldable travel tray.

If you get only one thing from this list, this multi-purpose play space for airplane travel is a MUST. It folds and unfolds in seconds, has pockets to hold toys, a cup holder to keep drinks safe and secure, and can fit most standard airline tray tables. Everything wipes down and is washable. What I love is that it keeps all those tiny little pieces, food, etc. from spilling over. If you’ve ever traveled with toddlers or little ones, you’ll know you’ll often feel like you need an excavator to dig through all the debris they fling around the seats! I also love this tray for our travel restaurant and hotel use! It’s been a lifesaver to unpack it easily while eating meals out and at the hotel if I need to set up a quiet activity. 

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Froot loop threading necklaces.

This fun travel snack activity came straight from my friend Susie Busy Toddler who is a genius with all things toddler activities so make sure to head to her post to get all the details.

Gobe Snack Spinner

The GoBe Kids Snack Spinner is a multipurpose container that helps you get your kids to eat their snacks and meals and is a fun game. The snack spinner is perfect for toddlers and children who are learning how to self-feed. The 5 compartments allow you to place different types of snacks or food in each section so your child can mix up his/her meals; thus eliminating boredom from eating the same thing over and over again. I find it the perfect on-the-go snack container because you can pack a variety minus all that snack packaging. 

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Play-doh party bag dough.

I think every kid thinks play dough is pretty awesome! Kids love the squishy and sensory experience. This party pack is he perfect size to take with you on the go. The dough comes in assorted colors and comes in 15 count bags. What I love is that I can easily throw a few in my bag or purse at any time to engage my kids for a quick activity, 

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Play dough tool set .

You’ll need some tools to set up to play with your play dough on the plane! The set features a flower roller, round cutting roller large clay rolling pin, small clay rolling pin, a small roller and a plastic blade for creative dough cutting. The set came with so many tools actually only packed a third to save space. Love the value and bright colors. 

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Kinetic sand play kit.

Like play dough, kinetic sand is a wonderful sensory activity. What I love about it is that it’s mess-free, this sand won’t stick and make a huge sticky sandy mess! My kids love running their fingers through the interesting sand texture and making mini sand castles. I love this kit because it comes with 3 ready to use tools and small molds – perfect for setting up on the go!

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Erasable doodle books.

The erasable drawing book includes 12 pages: 3 pages for coloring, 2 pages for tracing, and 7 blank pages for freestyle drawing. Come swith a drawing booklet to help kids get started with ideas. What I love is the built-in pocket for the 13 washable color pens and wipe cloth included. A great way to encourage mess-free art on the go!

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Magnetic car race game.

This portable magnetic game is a fun car game where you get to race each other around a track. The board game comes with 4 magnetic colored cars and a small die (make sure to supervise at all times as the die is small and could pose a choking hazard). You can play this race game at home or take it with you when traveling for some fun family entertainment. My 3 year old had a great time playing this with his 10 year old brother. If your kids aren’t into cards, choose from many other themes like animals, monsters, chess, dress up and more. 

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Magnetic learning math game.

These colorful magnetic circles click in place and make learnng math fun on the go. I love how it includes simple math like addition or subtraction and multiplication for older kids. If your kids aren’t advanced yet in math, you can simply point and learn about numbers. 

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Math cube learning activity .

Okay if your kids are into the kids hit Numberblocks (like mine is) they will love these math cubes and learning mats for developing number skills, measurements and shape identification! The colors are fun for helping with color recognition and the learning mats help engage with simple math prompts and equations. 

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Here are some other general travel tips for kids:, take away all the bulky packaging from snacks and activities and uese re-usable zipper bags. keep bags per activties or no more than 1-2 per so they are easy to reach for and find in a pinch. , dedicate one backpack for kids with all their activities .

It’s never too early to start planning for your family’s next big trip. If you’re not sure what to do with your toddler on a plane, this is the perfect list of activities and tips to make them happy on any adventure. Your little one will enjoy exploring new places without feeling restless or bored! The best part for me was minimizing screen time as much as possible. In addition, these activities are great for any on-the-go travel like long car road trips or while eating meals out or keeping kids entertained in hotel rooms.

Agnes Hsu is a mom of three and has been inspiring parents and kids to get creative with easy activities and family friendly recipes for over 10 years. She shares her love for creative play and kids food to her 2MM+ followers online. Agnes' commitment to playful learning and kindness has not only raised funds for charity but also earned features in prestigious nationwide publications.

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Flying with Toddlers: 20 Tips For a Stress-Free Flight

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20 TIPS FOR FLYING WITH A TODDLER

It can be a challenge to fly with toddlers, especially when they are not sleeping. That is why we have compiled some tips for parents who need to fly with their toddlers. Not only will these tips make flying with your toddler easier, but they’ll also help your little one fall asleep on the plane.

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After nearly 50 flights, we have some helpful suggestions on how to keep your toddler entertained while you’re in the air. Our son has been traveling since he was 8-weeks-old, so we’ve learned a few hacks along the way.

This post will give you all the information that you need so that you can make your flight as smooth as possible!

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HACKS THAT’LL MAKE FLYING WITH A TODDLER EASIER

Air travel with toddlers is no joke. If you ask me, traveling with a baby is a lot easier, they don’t move around as much and haven’t learned the word “no”.

Now that we’ve started traveling again, we’ve had the interesting task of flying with a 2-year-old. Honestly, it was a lot easier flying with a 1-year-old, before he discovered running.

Now that he’s been on upwards of ten flights during the pandemic, here are our tips on how to fly with a toddler. I know it’s easier said than done, but if you follow our trips flying with your toddler will get easier.

1. Book a Direct Flight (if possible) or Opt for a Long Layover

Having direct flights makes it easier for everyone. The less you have to get off and then back on the plane, the better it is for your toddler.

If a direct flight isn’t available, I recommend a flight with a (longer) layover. You may think it sounds crazy, but I have a reason.

I know what you may be thinking. Why would I choose a long layover if flying with a toddler ? Wouldn’t that make it more difficult? The answer is no. Having a long layover gives your little one time to release energy, eat, take a nap, play, or be a kid.

It’s less stressful having a 3-hour layover than a 1-hour layover. It is hard getting your toddler packed up, deboarding the plane, getting the stroller from gate check, then racing to the next gate.

We’ve had to do it a few times, and it was not fun, well he enjoyed the running, but I didn’t. Of course, he didn’t have to do any of the hard work. He got the chance to hang out in his stroller while I ran through the airport, like a crazy lady.

Related Post: 9 Tips for Flying Budget Airlines with Kids

2. Get Your Toddler Excited About Flying

I’ve found it helpful to talk to your little one about airplanes before the trip. Every time our son hears a plane, we look in the sky to try to find it.

The more comfortable they are with airplanes, the less likely they are to be scared or bothered by the sound. It also prepares them for what’s coming if they are not frequent flyers.

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3. Get to the Airport Early

The airport can be a confusing place, with so many lights and people everywhere. If you want to avoid any meltdown at security or on the plane, try arriving early to allow your child enough time to adjust.

Every time we go through security our son has a fit because we have to take his blanket away. You will only make yourself, and your little one more upset if you are in a hurry.

Get to the airport early, so you can take your time at security. Trust me, you will save yourself a lot of frustration and aggravation.

4. Let them Play

One of our favorite things to do before boarding a flight is to let our toddler run. He’s always full of energy, so we want him to release as much of that energy as possible.

We let him run back and forth in the terminal, take long walks through the gates, play hide & seek, and do whatever else to get him tired. He gets to release a lot of energy, and time goes faster while waiting to board the flight.

I let him walk as far as he wants and explore different terminals and gates. When we are at larger airports, he likes to get on the tram, especially in Atlanta. He has fun, and it keeps him occupied without a screen or toys.

Read More: Best Travel Beds for Toddlers

5. Bring Snacks & Drinks

One thing you do not want when flying with a toddler is for them to be angry.

Make sure you have filling foods – like macaroni and cheese bars or crackers – which are easy for little fingers but will keep their belly full. These should help keep them calm during the flight as well as reduce meltdowns because of hunger.

People ask us all the time if we can bring food, and the answer is yes. You can pack food in your carry-on or backpack and get through TSA, or any security for that matter.

Note: Make sure you pack all food together in a Ziploc bag, so if security wants to check, it’ll be easily accessible and in one place. We’ve been doing this for years, even before our son was born. We use reusable bags to pack our snacks.

Our Favorite Toddler Snacks while Traveling

6. Board the Flight Last (if you aren’t flying alone)

One of the ways we make it easier to fly with a toddler is by dividing and conquering. I know several family travel bloggers recommend boarding first when flying with a toddler, but I don’t think that is always the case. In my opinion, you should only pre-board if you are flying with a toddler by yourself.

The ultimate toddler flying tip is to divide and conquer. We want to set the tone of the flight, in the beginning, so to make it easier. One person boards the flight early, while the other continues to play with the little one.

This strategy gives the parent that is boarding time to get everything ready. My wife usually gets settled in the seats, installs the car seat, stows our bags, and gets his tablet ready.

By the time the other person gets on the airplane with the toddler, everything is ready, and he can sit down and watch PJ Masks. He is usually so tired from playing that he relaxes, eats his snacks, and watches his tablet.

7. Change their Diaper before Boarding

Changing our toddler’s diaper in the airplane lavatory is always an event. It’s too small, and our son doesn’t make it any easier by fighting us. If possible, change your little one’s diaper before boarding the plane.

Changing your toddler’s diaper with more space will keep everyone from getting frustrated and allow you and your toddler to get comfortable on the flight. Well, maybe not comfortable, but at least sitting.

Read More: 10 Reasons to Travel with Toddlers

8. Bring Headphones

Try giving children age-appropriate headphones or earphones to drown out the noise from other passengers – especially if they’re sensitive sleepers!

A good playlist is always helpful too because their minds won’t wander as much thinking about what song might come on next.

If your toddler is sensitive to noise, having toddler headphones will help drown out the noise. Even if they are not watching a screen, listening to music or a story can be helpful.

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9. Pack Toys & Activities

There are a lot of ways to keep your toddler entertained while flying . Our son is a busy body, so it can be difficult to keep his attention.

We use a lot of different things to keep him in his seat. The most convenient way of keeping him in his seat is with his tablet . Although it doesn’t always work, it usually keeps him busy for at least 45 minutes to an hour.

Another way we keep him busy with different activities for toddlers . He likes to color, paint, draw, and play with his toys.

Since we usually have the row to ourselves, we can bring different types of toys. The best travel toys for toddlers on an airplane are quiet, portable, inexpensive, and keep their attention.

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10. Bring a Blanket or Jacket (Wear Layers)

It can get cold on the airplane, so bring a small blanket to keep your child warm and cozy. Your toddler is more likely to sleep if they are comfortable.

You may want to consider dressing warmer, just for the flight. Our toddler usually wears pants on the flight, even if we are going somewhere warm.

This way, he isn’t cold on the flight and keeps an extra pair of shorts in his diaper bag to change after we get off the flight.

Toddler Games/Toys: These toys should pack easily into carry-on bags:

Although we covered this briefly above, this section will go more in-depth about how to keep your toddler entertained while flying. Here are some of the things we use to make flying with a toddler easier.

• Puzzles/busy boards
• Books with simple words and pictures that your toddler knows well, like a favorite book from home
• Small toy cars or mini dolls
• Coloring pages where they can doodle their own designs (try to find paper without lines) or
• Stickers or window clings, are usually a big hit
• Sensory toys are a great way to keep an active toddler busy

Read More: Best Crayons for Toddlers

Sensory Toys for Toddlers

Tips to help your toddler sleep on an airplane

One of the ways you can make long-haul flights with toddlers easier is by getting them to sleep. Nothing’s easier than flying with a sleeping toddler.

Here are a few tips for getting your toddler to sleep while flying on an airplane.

11. A Full Stomach

Bring milk or water to drink along with snacks that contain protein. This will curb your toddler’s hunger and help them stay hydrated and sleepy longer on the plane.

We try to avoid sugary drinks, so we usually opt for flavored water, with no added sugar. It helps keep our little guy hydrated, and he sleeps longer. We’ve started doing this at home and there was a noticeable difference in his sleeping patterns.

12. Bring Something Familiar

Pack items they are familiar with, such as their favorite toy, blanket, stuffed animal, etc., in their bag so you won’t forget them.

Our son has a blanket that he has to have to sleep on. If he doesn’t have his blanket, there is nothing but crying all night.

Having a little familiarity will make your toddler more comfortable, which will increase the likelihood of them falling asleep on the airplane.

13. Make them Comfortable

We all know sleeping upright on an airplane is uncomfortable, so giving your little one space to stretch and lay down will make it easier for them to fall asleep.

We like to put him in the middle, so we both have access to him, and he can stretch out. If you purchased a seat for your little one, a different arrangement may work for your toddler.

I don’t recommend putting them in the window seat because it is the coldest seat in the row. Our son doesn’t like to be cold, so we avoid putting him in the window seat, but your toddler may be different.

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TIPS FOR PARENTS FLYING WITH A TODDLER

The tips in this section are for parents. I know you may be stressed about an upcoming flight with a toddler, but it’s not as bad as you think it will be.

If you follow our toddler flying tips, your next flight with your toddler will be easier than your last. The more you fly, the easier it will get, I promise.

Here are tips for things parents can do before flying with a toddler.

14. Stay Calm

Parents do not realize that kids pick up on their energy, so if you are anxious, your little one will be anxious. If you are relaxed, they are more likely to be relaxed.

Be confident and give your little one the benefit of the doubt. Your toddler may surprise you.

15. Interact with them

Play with your toddler while you are flying. Most of the time they are acting out because they are bored.

Imagine being a curious toddler, and being relegated to a seat on a plane for hours at a time. At least in a car, they have more space.

If you interact and engage with your 2-year-old, they are less likely to have an outburst. Activities and toys are fun but giving them attention will make them happy.

If more than one parent is flying with a toddler, take turns and interact together. You’ll be surprised how happy your toddler will be playing with both of their parents on a flight.

Read More: Fun Travel Activities for Toddlers

16. Let them be curious

There is nothing wrong with your little one being curious. Their brains are still developing, so they want to touch everything.

As long as it isn’t bothering anyone else, why not? As a parent of a stubborn toddler, I’ve learned to pick my battles. Who is it going to hurt if he is playing with the seatbelt or reading the menu?

17. Restrict access to their favorite things before the flight

One of the hacks we do before flying with a toddler is restricting his access to some of his favorite shows and toys. Since he loves the Minions and PJ Mask, we do not allow him to watch the show for 4 – 5 days before the flight.

We do this so he is excited to watch the show or movie on the flight, so he’ll more likely to pay attention to it, although he’s seen it 2394 times.

You can use this technique with a toy. We usually pack his favorite toys a few days before the flight, so when he gets to play with them during the flight, he’s more excited and will play with them longer. Although it isn’t full proof, it’s been working when we fly with our 2-year-old.

20. Ignore Snarky Comments

I can’t tell you how many times people have rolled their eyes or made rude comments when we’ve gotten on a flight with our toddler.

We aren’t bothered by the comments at all. Like everyone else on that flight, you paid your money, so you are entitled to be there with your little one. Do not let anyone make you feel bad for traveling with a baby or a toddler.

Of the 50 or 60 flights we’ve been on with our son, he only had 2-3 not-so-good flights. Even those flights weren’t that bad. He was a baby, and the only way to communicate with us is to cry. What else do people expect from someone who can’t talk?

Don’t stress yourself out worrying about what strangers have to say. If they don’t want to be around on a flight with kids, they should make enough money to fly on a private jet. Until then, they have to deal with it.

CONCLUSION ON FLYING WITH A TODDLER

There are many tips for parents flying with toddlers in this article. Even if these tips do not work for your toddler, it’s not the end of the world. It’s just one flight, plus you’ll never see anyone on that flight again, so no worries.

The most important thing to remember is, that toddlers are toddlers. You can only do so much, so don’t stress yourself out, stay calm, and enjoy the ride. If all else fails, we turn to PJ Masks.

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How To Entertain a Toddler on a Plane [16 Activities]

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Types of Activities

What makes a great airplane activity, 1. busy books, 2. chunky lego duplo sets, 3. coloring books, 4. crayola color wonder, 5. fidget toys, 6. finger puppets, 7. flash cards, 8. i-spy books, 9. magnetic playboards, 10. picture books, 11. playdough, 12. puzzles, 13. stickers or post-its, 15. travel busy board, 16. water coloring books, final thoughts.

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Take it from me, long-haul travel with toddlers can be difficult. Luckily, the problem usually stems from a bored kid more than anything, which is something that can be helped.

When traveling by plane with toddlers, it’s important to have lots of snacks and activities to keep them entertained. The first of those must-haves is up to you and your discerning toddler’s palate.

But look no further, as we’ve gathered more than a dozen activities that little ones can enjoy during their next flight. Here are 16 ways to entertain a toddler on a plane.

Before we get into the list of toddler-friendly activities, let’s talk a little bit about the different types of options available.

Unfortunately, anything that requires your child to be out of their seat can be both a safety hazard and an annoyance to other passengers. Frequent trips to explore the plane might be out of the question, but when possible, stretching your legs is always a nice way to break up the monotony of plane travel and change the scenery. Just keep in mind the status of the fasten seatbelt sign and the mood of other passengers and flight attendants.

Even though it may be hard to dispel restless energy while on a plane, there are lots of ways to keep toddlers entertained, including books, LEGOs, and stickers, as well as tablets or other devices.

The topic of too much screen time has been a hot debate for a few years, especially for young kids. However, when used in moderation, tablets and phones can be a great way to keep your kids entertained (and out of your hair) during long flights. When used sparingly, you can feel better about propping your child in front of a screen in an effort to discourage boredom.

Other items that can keep your kid engaged and don’t include a screen include coloring books, water books, and even Post-its.

The list of activities below should have at least a few options that you know your toddler will enjoy.

You already know that young children don’t usually have the longest attention span. Keeping this in mind, you’ll want to have a few options on hand — and even more if you’ll be on a particularly long flight — in order to entertain a toddler on a plane.

Brand-new toys that you know your child will love are worth considering as the newness can add an extra layer of excitement — you could even wrap the toys in colorful wrapping paper.

If you have children close in age, get 2 of each toy type even if you don’t think they’ll both like it. It will be easier to carry 2 of an item than referee bickering siblings 30,000 feet in the air.

Anything that your child can do comfortably in their seat, and preferably as independently as possible, is going to be best. For example, a coloring book or sticker activity will require less of your participation than a card game.

If you do elect to allow your toddler to have screen time, keep in mind that you’ll want to also have wireless Bluetooth headphones . Some airlines will provide headphones for use with their own inflight entertainment screens, or you can simply plug their Bluetooth headphones in with an auxiliary cord. Just as most people don’t take calls on speakerphone or listen to music without headphones, you’ll want to ensure that your kids’ devices are of minimal disturbance to other passengers.

Activities To Entertain a Toddler on an Airplane

Now without further adieu, here is a list of 16 ways to entertain a toddler on a plane.

Busy books are books that come with play mats and figurines that bring a story to life. They’re great for encouraging imagination and pretend play in your toddler.

They’re also a fun activity that you can do along with your child to help pass the time.

Busy books come designed around varying topics and characters, including Nickelodeon’s Paw Patrol and popular Disney characters.

Sometimes called “quiet books,” additional activities that you might find included in a busy book are matching games, basic puzzles, and counting.

LEGOs give kids the chance to build just about anything. But little fingers have a hard time working the tiny pieces of traditional LEGO sets.

Thankfully, there are large, or chunky, LEGO DUPLO sets perfect for small hands. Their size also makes it easier to keep track of them when it’s time to pack up or move on to the next activity.

You can even find LEGO DUPLO sets with their own carrying case to make organization super easy.

Coloring books are an oldie but goodie and can be something you do together to encourage screen-free time on the plane.

Some coloring books include other activities, including mazes, tracing, fill-in-the-blank pages, and more. Of course, some of these activities may be too advanced for little hands holding crayons, however, coloring books with more to do than just coloring might be nice for older toddlers.

When it comes to what to color with , there are plenty of options. Crayons come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. Triangle-shaped crayons are great for keeping the traditionally cylindrical tool from rolling under your seat or off of the tray table . Washable markers and colored pencils are also an option.

Lastly, if you don’t have a traditional coloring book, you can always improvise and have your kids draw on blank pieces of paper, the back of receipts, etc. You could even draw them something yourself for them to color in. It’s all about getting creative and making the most of what you have.

Crayola Color Wonder uses “magic” markers that only write on the provided paper.

The paper often comes with characters or other objects to color and sometimes includes stickers as well. The beauty of it is that there’s no damage to clothing or the table when your child eventually colors outside of the lines.

I can attest to the convenience of Crayola Color Wonder. I thankfully found 2 sets at the airport in Liberia, Costa Rica, when we were delayed on our return flight home by several hours. My then 2- and 4-year-olds passed the time by coloring and placing stickers on their artwork. The set conveniently came with a case to hold the paper, pens, and stickers in one place.

Fidget spinners are probably the most common, but these sensory toys also come in the form of squishy toys and poppers in all shapes and sizes.

Fidget toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and types. In fact, a simple search on Amazon for toys that help cope with anxiety will bring back dozens of these options. Some sellers even send packs with 100 different toys, so there’s no shortage of ideas.

Another fun idea to keep your toddler entertained while on a plane could be finger puppets . You could even build excitement by making the puppets at home before you travel or getting puppets that are relevant to your destination.

Whether you play this activity with your child or not, it will be fun to see what story your little one comes up with for their puppets.

Finger puppets also don’t take up much room in a carry-on .

Flash cards can be a fun way to practice learning things like sight words, shapes, colors, the alphabet, animals, etc. And with ample time to idle away while traveling by plane, it’s an ideal time to practice new skills.

You can elect to purchase flash cards from places like Amazon , education stores, or even the dollar store, or you can make them yourself with index cards. Pinterest is a great place to get inspiration for making your own flash cards for toddlers, as well as other activities to keep them busy.

“ Where’s Waldo? ” and Highlights “Hidden Pictures ” have been generational favorites that are making a comeback with youngsters.

According to Scholastic , I-Spy books help kids develop a working memory and teach children to pay attention to details . This latter trait will help them later when they start to read and begin learning letters.

I-Spy books are also entertaining thanks to the silly scenes that can often be found in books like “Where’s Waldo?” But the beloved red and white-striped shirt-wearing character isn’t the only object you can look for nowadays. I-Spy books come in various themes such as zoo animals, transportation, letters, and more.

Perfect for both pretend play and keeping small pieces from rolling away while traveling, magnetic boards let your toddler create scenes with toys that stick to a board.

Similar to stickers mentioned later on this list, the magnets give tiny fingers a chance to lift, peel and move pieces all around the board. The provided board will have a scene where your child can place the objects, likely animals or other characters to tell a story.

Alternatively, you can also get magnetic boards like Etch A Sketch that have pens for writing or drawing.

Picture books and pop-up books are reliable and great to have on hand for entertainment purposes.

Try to find especially colorful books that tell exciting stories — perhaps of where you’re going or travel-related topics. Maybe there is a series of books with a beloved character that your toddler doesn’t have yet. A book like that would be great to gift-wrap and present as a surprise that your child will love.

Pop-up books are also age-appropriate entertainment for a toddler, as they’re usually more interactive than picture books and often ask a question that prompts your child to think.

Playdough is easy because it travels well, has close to zero clean-up time, and little hands love the tactile, sensory feel. Plus, you can make your own playdough at home and bring it with you.

Tools like cookie cutters and other shape-makers can be brought along as well. Your toddler can make shapes and use their imagination with playdough, either independently or with your help, just like they would with other toys.

Playdough also helps toddlers develop fine motor skills by strengthening their grip and dexterity. For even more of a challenge, therapy putty can also improve grip.

You may need to help your toddler complete puzzles at first, but the activity can be a fun way to play together.

With lots of images to choose from, you’re sure to find a puzzle that your child will want to put together.

Not sure about finding a puzzle small enough to pack in your carry-on? You could print a photo or image and glue it to a large index card. Cut the index card up into different-sized pieces and store the pieces in a baggy. Your child can dump the pieces onto a tray table and put the “puzzle” back together.

You might be surprised at how entertained your toddler can be by playing with stickers or Post-it notes . Kids love stickers and peeling them from the paper — it gives their tiny fingers a chance to practice their fine motor skills.

They can also place Post-its anywhere they like and it will be easy to remove them when you land.

Or, if you’re not into your child decorating the back of the seat in front of them, you can pick up sticker scenes from your local dollar store. These are compact packs of stickers and folded cardboard pictures that follow a specific theme such as trucks, dinosaurs, or even Disney movies.

A way to add an educational element to this activity would be to put a number on each Post-it and ask your child to arrange them in a certain order. Or you could play a matching game with different colored shapes drawn on Post-its and ask them to match them to colors on a book page, etc.

When all else fails, you can always have your toddler play with a tablet or similar device.

Remember that onboard Wi-Fi will probably be too spotty to stream anything from apps like YouTube Kids. In this case, you’ll want to prepare before you leave home by downloading some of their favorite shows and movies from apps such as Netflix and Disney+ .

Educational apps that your kids might enjoy include ABC Mouse and Khan Academy Kids. App stores also have numerous toddler-friendly learning games that you can download before you travel and don’t require the internet to enjoy.

When using a tablet or similar tech, remember to bring wireless Bluetooth headphones . Wireless headphones eliminate the concern that your toddler could wrap the cord around themselves. Keep an eye on your little one to ensure that they aren’t getting tangled in the cord from the airline-provided headphones when using the aircraft’s inflight entertainment system.

A busy board is a board with lots of little things to keep young minds entertained. Snaps, zippers, ties, etc. surround the board and your child can simply move from one activity to the next.

Busy boards are similar to buckle toys and also come in the form of backpacks which you can use to store the other activities your toddler might bring along.

Water coloring books are some of my favorite toys for young toddlers.

Found at the dollar store or Water WOW! from Melissa and Doug, a water book is a cardboard book that comes with a paintbrush that you fill with water. Inside, the books’ pages are empty until your child brushes the water onto the page.

Depending on the book topic, the page will come alive with letters, numbers, fairytales, etc.

The true magic of these books — besides the fact that they come to life with water — is that when they dry, the color disappears while leaving the board intact. This allows your toddler to get multiple uses and lots of fun out of just 1 water coloring book.

It’s important to plan for as many what-ifs as possible when traveling with young children. Two things that you can bet will happen on travel days are that your kids will get hungry (make sure to always bring snacks) and they will eventually get bored. Fortunately, you can prepare for the latter by bringing a few activities from the list above.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do i entertain my 2-year-old on a long flight.

Water coloring books, little figures, and lift-flap books are just the beginning of the list of things that can entertain your 2-year-old on a long flight. Stickers, Post-its, tablets, and coloring books are also great options.

How do you survive a 15-hour flight with a toddler?

Traveling 15 hours with a toddler can be difficult. Some tips to make it easier include packing the right toys and snacks for your toddler, walking the aisle when it’s safe to do so, and not boarding too early to minimize time spent on the plane.

What is the best time of day to fly with a toddler?

Although you may be tempted to book a red-eye flight with the goal of letting your toddler sleep through the flight, that doesn’t always work out as planned. Instead, fly in the morning since you can count on your toddler having had a good night’s sleep and hopefully being in the best mood at that time of day.

How can I keep my toddler calm on a plane?

There are a few ways to keep your toddler calm on a plane. You can let your child know about your travel plans in advance and have them burn off any extra energy before boarding the plane. And lastly, be sure to pack things to entertain them with for the duration of the flight.

How do I keep my toddler busy at the airport?

There are plenty of ways to keep your toddler busy at the airport before you board your flight. Find a play area designed for young children, watch planes take off, or explore the airport’s art displays.

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The thought of flying with kids can be exhausting and worrisome, but it doesn’t have to be!

This post will cover our top 16 tips for flying with kids that will lead to less stressful family air travel.

Discover the preparation needed to gear up for air travel with kids, as well as ultimate strategies that will help kids stay calm and happy when flying.

By investing time into these planning techniques your flight will go smoother and better!

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Table of Contents

Before Your Flight

1. choose flight times and seats that reduce inconveniences.

Successful air travel with kids begins before you even book the flight.

Begin by making sure that your chosen flight times somewhat align with your child’s schedule.

Scheduling a flight during nap time is a better idea than expecting them to sit quietly during a time when they are typically more energetic.

If planning a morning flight, ensure that you help set your child up for success by them getting a good night’s sleep ahead of time.

If considering a red-eye flight, contemplate how well your child can fall asleep in a new and unusual sleeping environment.

The last thing you want is hyperactive or crying children when other passengers are trying to rest.

When it comes to reserving seats, be sure that you are seated with your children.

Most airlines allow you the opportunity to choose your seats ahead of time which guarantees that grown-ups and kids can sit together as a family.

If this option is not offered, you may have to pay extra for this necessary attribute.

Additional planning tips: Sitting at the back of the plane puts you closer to the bathrooms and the flight attendants for convenience’s sake.

If possible, seat kids away from the aisle as it can actually be quite dangerous.

Toes can easily get run over or tiny hands get caught as the food and beverage cart passes by. Hot liquids are also at risk of being spilled from the cart.

Finally, remember that not all airlines are created equal when it comes to flying with kids.

It is important to review which airlines are best when flying with kids , as well as to know their individual child and infant flying policies.

2. Review airport security procedures

It is important that kids know what to expect about airport procedures and security checks before arriving at the airport.

Taking the time to review these processes beforehand will lead to less fear of the unknown, as well as make s everyone aware of the expectations required of them.

• Explain the check-in process and the importance of having patience while waiting in potentially long lines.
• Emphasize that the security checkpoint is an important step of flying. Likewise, the Transportation Security Administration (TSA) officers are there to help keep everyone safe in the air.
• Review with each child what ‘their job’ will be when going through airport security.
• Encourage children to be responsible for their own carry-on item.
• Explain the process of going through the metal detectors, taking off jackets and shoes (kids over 12), and putting their belongings onto the moving belt.
• Remind kids that their electronics and snacks need to be sent through security separately.
• Last, make sure the kids have not forgotten to ditch any bottled water or juice that they may have been sipping on.

Additional Planning tip: Find a detailed TSA travel checklist to review here .

3. Allow each child to have their own carry-on

For successful airplane travel, equip each child with their own carry-on backpack.

I suggest choosing a backpack versus a rolling suitcase because backpacks can be stowed at a child’s feet making them easily accessible during a flight.

Backpacks also allow the kids to have both hands free when maneuvering throughout the airport.

Allow kids to help choose the items, activities, and snacks that they pack in their carry-on.

This should include their blanky and a stuffed animal or another comfort toy.

Next, have your kids determine if the weight of their carry-on will allow them to comfortably walk around the airport.

If they determine it is too heavy, they must reconsider their choices and take things out as needed. (This prevents Mom or Dad from having to end up carrying it for them.)

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4. Do layers, skip laces

When it comes to our tips for flying with kids, always keep in mind that temperatures change frequently when flying.

For this reason, dress your kids in comfortable layers, preferably without buttons, zippers, or anything that could prevent them from getting to the bathroom in time.

The same principle applies to shoes. Avoid laces if possible as it eases the amount of time and hassle of taking shoes on and off during security checks and rest time.

In fact, when it comes to how to vacation with young children , dressing in layers and avoiding the hassle of shoelaces is always a good idea!

At the Airport

5. arrive early.

One of the best tips for flying with kids is to get off to a good start by arriving at the airport early.

Crowds, lines, and wait times fluctuate constantly so this is one of those instances where I suggest to always play it safe by being early, versus on time.

Check your flight status before leaving for the airport and follow the recommended airport arrival times.

In most instances it is recommended to arrive at the airport 2 hours prior to domestic flights, and 3 hours prior to international flights.

Remember, you’re on kid time, so don’t forget to allow for unexpected bathroom trips and other detours.

6. Remember where you park

If you are driving to the airport via your personal vehicle, decide if you are going to park onsite or offsite at a shuttle lot.

Another option is spending the night before departure at a hotel with a park-n-fly option.

Make this decision by comparing costs and convenience.

Personally, we choose to utilize an offsite shuttle in the same lot every time that we fly. We have come to trust the frequent shuttle times, friendly staff, and good security.

Once you become comfortable with a particular parking option, make that your go-to option every time for convenience and stress-free travel.

Finally, write down the level and space that you parked in and become familiar with the steps that you need to take to arrange for airport pick-up when returning home.

7. Have travel documentation organized and accessible

Another tip for flying with kids is to pick a designated adult (Mom or Dad) to be in charge of the entire family’s travel identification and reservations.

Have your entire family’s travel documentation easily accessible and organized by keeping them stored together in a passport holder .

For example: As I am providing the airline agent with our 5 passports, my husband is responsible for getting the checked luggage onto the scale and making sure that it is tagged appropriately. We follow this routine every single time at the airport.

Explain to the kids ahead of time that this is a time to simply wait quietly until the end of the check-in process.

8. Discuss who’s sitting where before getting on the airplane

Who’s sitting by who? Who gets the window seat?

There is nothing like getting onto an airplane and having the kids begin debating these questions in the middle of the airplane aisle.

It sounds obvious, but discuss which seat each person will sit in ahead of time to avoid squabbles and to help everyone remain calm.

Further, it is important that everyone quickly take their seats and keep the flow of boarding passengers moving. (The same goes for the return flight home.)

9. Beware of germs

Wipe down ‘your area’ and your ‘kids’ area’ once you get to your seats. This can be done by bringing along a travel-size package of Clorox disinfecting wipes in your carry-on that you keep easily accessible.

Have each person in your family wipe down the armrests, headrest, tray table, and seat belt buckle.

Though we can’t travel in a sterile bubble, I’m up for taking any precaution against contracting illness es while traveling.

10. Prepare for air pressure

Yet another tip for flying with kids is to discuss with them how the changes in air pressure may make their ears feel “like they’re plugged or popping”.

As soon as you get through security, purchase bottled water to have the kids sip on during both the ascent and descent of the airplane. These are the most bothersome times for ear discomfort.

Chewing gum, sucking on candy, or yawning are also ways to encourage swallowing that will ease the pain or discomfort of ear pressure.

Additional planning tip: If you know ahead of time that your child is prone to ear pain when flying, give them acetaminophen or ibuprofen 30 minutes before takeoffs and landings.

The same goes for motion sickness medicine.

11. Use good flying etiquette

Though it is not your job to please everyone in the cabin, we do have certain responsibilities as parents when flying with little ones.

Common courtesies of not letting children kick the seats in front of them, pulling hair, playing in the aisles, or purposely displaying bad manners are very important.

Likewise, as parents, we are ultimately responsible for supervising young ones, making sure they’re not intruding on someone else’s private space or causing inconvenience.

By staying alert to their needs, not only will children stay happy and calm mid-flight, but fellow passengers will too.

12. Pack ‘just enough’

I urge you to pack ‘just enough’ for onboard the flight, making sure that you include basic essentials.

Packing too much creates stress in keeping everything together and organized, as well as creates additional hassle in having to transport and store a bulky carry-on.

Suggested onboard packing list:

• 1 Comfort item for each child. If it’s a pacifier, be sure to bring more than one in the case that the original gets dirty or lost.
• Sanitizer, wipes, Pull-ups, and diapers. If your child is potty-training or not fully potty-trained, consider having them wear Pull-Ups on the flight, as well as bring a change of clothes just in case of an accident. One diaper per hour of travel is recommended.
• Smartphones and tablets  loaded with your kids’ favorite games, movies, and shows.
• Kid-size headphones
• Art supplies:  Crayons and blank paper.
• Water : purchased once through security.
• Low-sugar, mess-free snacks: Pretzels, crackers, string cheese, apple slices, carrots, and granola bars are good options.
• Medications: Prescriptions, motion sickness medicine, antacids, pain reliever, fever reducers.
• Plastic bag, napkins, and a change of clothes if your children are prone to motion sickness.

13. Bring your own snacks

This tip for flying with kids is so important that I had to repeat it again!

In my opinion, snacks are the No. 1 way to keep kids happy and calm during a flight.

Bringing snacks from home is also a great way to help cut costs associated with buying food in the airport or onboard.

Additional planning tip: Don’t forget to pack a selection of snacks for the return trip home! I like to pack two different Ziplock baggies of snacks; one for the trip ‘there’, and one for the trip ‘home’.

14. Never fly without an Ipad or tablet

Most parents have good intentions when it comes to their kids and limiting their screen time. Let flying with your kids be an exception to this rule, however.

Load up your child’s I pad or tablet with games, songs, TV shows, and movies to help keep them entertained for as long as possible.

This is a great in-flight activity as it holds kids’ attention for long spans of time.

Be sure to pack them kid-size headphones so other passengers aren’t disturbed.

15. Bring s urprises

Despite all of your best intentions, the kids will eventually get restless.

The perfect solution to keep boredom at bay when flying with your kids is to give them a few surprises along the way (that you have carefully thought about ahead of time).

Gift dollar-store toys, special treats, a new game, or special trinkets in well-executed intervals when the “Are we there yet?” questions are looming.

Don’t shower them with every surprise at once, however, and be sure to save some extras for the return trip home.

Additional planning tip: Read my entire post on making activity bags to help keep kids excited and entertained during your next flight.

Though these were originally designed for a road trip, they can be easily adapted if flying with kids instead: 18 Amazing “Are We There Yet? Road Trip Activity Bags.

16. Keep your composure

Set realistic expectations for air travel with kids. In addition, get into the habit of celebrating simple successes along the way.

Though they may be on your very last nerve, always keep your composure when flying with kids.

Consider befriending other parents around you to ease the struggles that you may be experiencing.

This will also help make light of any sticky situations.

Want to encourage your child to sleep on the plane?

• Tire them out before getting on the plane.
• Pick evening flights.
• Sit in the middle seat so that your child doesn’t have to sit by a stranger.
• Create a dark space by forming a canopy with blankets.
• Purchase an inflatable foot pillow so that they are able to lay down flat.
• Likewise, here’s a list of the coziest and best kids travel pillows – something that you should never fly without!

When traveling internationally or across different time zones, be sure to plan ahead in order to reduce the symptoms and learn how to deal with toddler jet lag .

Now, on to planning the next family adventure!

What is your best tip for flying with kids? Is there anything you recommend NOT doing when flying with kids? Jen

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I agree with their own carry-on. But, after my son put the things he wanted to bring in his carry-on, I put a few items that I know he usually likes to play with in my own carry-on. Come on, son! A pencil is not enough. You will need crayons or colored pencils. lol.

Yes! The kids definitely need to help choose their carry-on itmes…with a few fun surprises 🙂

I feel like we are very similar – ipads, headphones, snacks and a surprise. My son also gets air sick, so a change of clothes for him, napkins and plastic bags!

Yes! Great point! I’m going to add in a little info regarindg the need for napkins, bag, etc for those prone to air sickness. Thanks!

Not gonna lie — the second time after my kids vomited on me mid-flight, I vowed to fly with them as little as possible in the future until they got that under control… hopefully that day comes soon! Until then, I certainly always carry barf bags!

Major bummer! Hopefully he doesn’t get car sick too 🙁 I’m going to add in advice about this! Thanks!

I love how organized your family is. I always keep my keys in one pocket and my iPhone/passport in the other. I’l take your suggestion of the mom doing one thing and the dad doing the other.

Thanks for the compliment! Yours is a great idea too! When traveling with kids, it’s whatever works! 🙂

Love these tips! For long haul flights we bought an inflatable plane pal pillow for my 4-year-old. We put it in front of her seat so she can stretch out and sleep more comfortably. I also just never expect either kid to sleep. Then when they get 15 minutes it feels like vacation

GREAT idea for long haul flights! We have never taken one, but I will keep this in mind! Thanks 🙂

Great tips! Flying with little ones can be nerve-wracking, so these tips are great for anxious parents! 🙂

Yes, I once was an anxious parent too until we solidified these flying techniques 🙂

These are really great tips for flying with kids!! And before you know it, they become professional little flyers! Great info!

I think it is so valuable when kids can learn to adapt to various and new situations and ‘go with the flow’ when traveling!

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The Ultimate List of Toddler Travel Essentials (+Toddler Packing List!)

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Traveling with a toddler is not the easiest of feats, but it can be made a lot easier by bringing a few toddler travel essentials. These are items that make traveling with a toddler go much more smoothly for everyone in your travel group.

On our many trips with our toddlers, we’ve come to learn that there are some items that we just can’t do without when traveling with young kids. And others that we can ditch to save the luggage space…

In this article, we’ve included detailed descriptions of the toddler travel essentials that you won’t want to forget on your trip. We’ve also provided a toddler travel packing list to make packing for your child that much easier! Read on for everything you need to bring for a successful trip with a toddler.

If you’re planning on visiting the beach, check out our article on the beach essential for toddlers .

Toddler Travel Essentials

Getting around

These are a few essential items that make getting around with your toddler a lot easier during travel.

• Toddler carrier

When traveling with a toddler, a carrier is at the top of my list of toddler travel essentials. 

Toddler carriers can make life so much easier when traveling. They allow you to easily take your child places that are less stroller friendly and provide a perfect place for nursing (if your child is breastfeeding) and napping on the go. They’re also great for containing toddlers in places that might not be safe for them to roam free (say at the top of a bell tower or the edge of the grand canyon).

We’ve carried our toddlers in carriers all over the world and find it to be one of the easiest ways to travel with a toddler.

To find the best carrier for your child, see this article on the best toddler carriers for travel .

A stroller may or may not be a necessity for your trip, depending on what kind of trip you’re taking. We’ve taken trips with just a toddler carrier and others with both a carrier and a stroller (I always bring a carrier, even if I’m bringing a stroller). 

Strollers can be very useful for navigating the airport with a toddler and for trips where you’ll be visiting stroller-accessible locations. They’re nice to have along to give you a break from having to carry your child all the time (or chase them down constantly).

We love our gb Pockit for travel. It’s the most compact strollers out there and folds down small enough to fit into the overhead bit or under your seat on the airplane. Be sure to see our full gb Pockit stroller review .

Travel car seat

A car seat is typically going to be one of your toddler travel essentials, barring a few locations where you can get by just using public transportation. But if you’re planning on getting around by car, you’ll want a car seat to keep your little one safe. Strapped in their car seat is also the safest way for toddlers to fly on a plane. 

Younger toddlers might still fit within the safety requirements for an infant car seat, which are great for travel. Infant car seats are lightweight and easy to transport. 

If your child has outgrown their infant seat, it’s worth it to invest in a lightweight travel car seat. Trust me, after you’ve spent your whole trip hauling that thing around you’ll be glad to have left your heavy, bulky regular seat at home. Our favorite travel car seat for toddlers is the Cosco Scenera next.

Car seat bag

If you’re bringing a car seat, you’ll want to bring a car seat travel bag. These bags make transporting your car seat much easier and more manageable. 

There are a lot of different options out there so check out our review of the best car seat travel bags to find the best one for your trip.

Food/Snacks

These food relate toddler travel essentials will make mealtimes and snacks with your toddler go a lot more smoothly while on your trip. 

A bib is a helpful way to keep your child cleaner while eating. As an added bonus, it keeps their clothes clean as well, which makes it more likely that you can pack light and reuse outfits. 

These waterproof bibs are lightweight and pack down to practically nothing. We also love these silicone bibs which take a bit more space but are easier to clean and dry more quickly.

Snack catcher 

Snacks are a great way to entertain a toddler while traveling. And a snack catcher allows them to feed themselves independently without making a huge mess. This can be a helpful tool for distracting and redirecting a child who is getting bored or on the verge of a meltdown.

Our favorite snack catcher for travel folds down compactly, making it easy to store when not in use. The material it’s made out of does tend to collect lint and crumbs, so I recommend bringing a baggie to store it in when you’re not using it.

• Travel high chair

A travel high chair can be a useful item for traveling with a toddler. It ensures that your child always has their own seat at the table and helps keep them contained so that they’re not climbing all over you or running around. This can make for a much more relaxing meal for yourself and your toddler. 

Travel high chairs are not always necessary if you’re going someplace where you know high chairs will be available. However if there aren’t high chairs, or if you’re not sure if there will be, bringing your own can be a nice way to ensure that mealtimes go smoothly.

• Water bottle

You’ll want to make sure your child is drinking a lot while traveling, so be sure to bring a water bottle and offer it to them frequently throughout the day.

We prefer the straw kind because they are easier for our toddler to use and less likely to spill.

• Disposable place mats

Feeding a toddler when you’re eating out can be tricky. The places you eat might not have toddler-safe dishes andd it can be a pain to have to feed your toddler bite by bite (plus in my experience toddlers often insist on feeding themselves!). 

That’s where these disposable place mats come in so handy. They have adhesive on all four sides to secure it to the table, providing a clean and stable surface for your toddler to eat on. Once they’re done eating, you can easily pull the place mat off of the table and throw it away. This helps to minimize mess and allows your child to have an independent eating experience without you having to stress about them breaking the dishes. 

Sleep Items

Some of the most important toddler travel essentials are those related to sleep. Whether or not your toddler sleeps well can make a huge difference to the success of your trip. A tired and grumpy toddler makes for a very long day while traveling. 

These sleep items are ones that can be hugely helpful in getting your toddler the sleep that they need. For everyone’s sake!

• White noise

We always bring white noise for our children while traveling. It helps block any ambient sounds that they might not be used to and also means that we don’t have to be quite so quiet as we’re moving around our hotel room or Airbnb. 

Oftentimes we’ll just use a white noise app on our phone, but if you want to be able to use your phone for other things, you can bring a travel white noise machine . 

While you’re away from home, you’ll want to make sure your toddler has a cozy and comfortable place to sleep. There are a couple of different ways you can do this. 

First, if your child sleeps in a crib you can see if your accommodations have a crib or pack ‘n play available for you to use while you’re there.

If you have a bed for your toddler, consider getting portable bed rails to keep your child from rolling off the bed in the night. These bed rails are placed underneath the bottom sheet to form a barrier at the edge of the bed. They provide a lot of peace of mind for when your toddler is sleeping in a full-sized bed. We’ve compiled a list of the best portable bed rails for travel with a toddlers to help you out. 

You can also choose to bring a portable toddler bed for your child so you can set up a cozy spot for them to sleep wherever you are. These can come in several different forms, from toddler cots to inflatable beds to pop-up tents. You can see our reviews of the best options for portable toddler beds if you need help picking a good one.

Whichever option you pick, make sure that your child knows what to expect and do your best to make sure it feels as safe and familiar as possible. 

Favorite stuffed animal

If your child has a special stuffed animal or blanket, make sure to bring it along to help them feel comfortable and safe during their sleep time. 

You could also bring along a favorite story or two as part of their bedtime routine. The key is to help it feel as much like the environment they’re used to as possible. 

A monitor may or may not be necessary, depending on your accommodations. If you’re all sleeping in the same room this may not be helpful as you’ll be able to easily hear if your child needs you. 

However, if you have a suite, an apartment, or a balcony, a monitor can give you a lot of peace of mind knowing that you can keep a close eye on your baby while in an unfamiliar place. 

You can see our recommendations for the best portable baby monitors to help your decision.

Blackout options

For many young children, keeping a dark sleep environment is necessary for a good night’s sleep. This can be especially true if you’re changing time zones and trying to adjust their sleep schedule. 

Many hotels will have blackout curtains in their rooms, however rentals or Airbnb’s often do not. We had a couple of really bad experiences with our children waking up extremely early in a new place due to light and since then I always bring a black out option for our toddlers. 

One way to create a dark environment is to bring travel blackout curtains . These curtains have suction cups that you can use to attach them to the window, darkening the whole room for sleep. 

Another great sleep aid is a SlumberPod (see our full SlumberPod review ) or SlumberPod alternative to create a dark sleep environment for your child. These products go around your child’s bed to block out light to help them sleep better and longer. The nice thing about this option is that it creates a private sleep area for you child, meaning you don’t have to be quite so quiet and careful about light if you’re sharing a room with your child. 

• Toddler airplane bed

If you’re flying with your toddler, another helpful sleep tool is a toddler airplane bed. These are products that can be used to extend the length of the seat and provide a comfortable place for your toddler to sleep on the plane. These can make a huge difference for international or long-haul flights where you’re traveling through your child’s normal bedtime.

There are few different kinds of airplane beds, and you can learn about the best options in our article on the best airplane beds for toddlers .

When you’re traveling with a toddler, there are a few health items that you want to make sure to always have on hand. 

Medications

If your child has any medications, be sure to bring enough for your trip plus a bit extra to account for unexpected delays. 

Also remember to pack your child’s medication in your carryon luggage so that you aren’t caught without it in case anything happens to your checked luggage.

• Thermometer

Traveling with a thermometer ensures that you can monitor a fever if your child happens to get sick. I never travel without one and have actually had to use it a surprising number of times while on trips. It provides a little extra peace of mind knowing that you have a way to assess the severity of a sickness.

You never know when a child might get sick and bringing along some pain medication can make any unexpected sickness a lot less miserable for your child. This is another one I’ve had to use several times when traveling and I’m always so glad that I have it on hand. 

Hand sanitizer/sanitizing wipes

Traveling with kids means exposing them to lots of germs, which can often lead to them getting sick. And toddlers are the worst at this, as they tend to touch everything and then stick their hands in their mouths. Bring along hand sanitizer so that you can sanitize their hands frequently, especially before they eat. 

Sanitizing wipes are also very helpful for wiping down surfaces such as the tray tables and arm rests on the airplane and tables at restaurants. 

No one wants a sick kid, especially when you’re far from home. While you can’t always prevent sickness, sanitizing often definitely increases your chances of keeping everyone healthy.

Toddler travel essential basics

Having awesome travel activities is an absolute necessity when traveling with a toddler. That doesn’t mean that you need a lot of activities, but you do want a few great options that can capture your child’s attention and that they will return to over and over. 

Over our years of traveling with toddlers we’ve found some great activities that our toddlers always love. You can get some ideas from our list of our favorite toddler activities for planes and our favorite toddler activities for road trips . 

Consider not only activities for the flight or drive, but also for your hotel room and when you’re out and about. 

When you’re traveling with a toddler, you’ll want a great diaper bag to carry all of your essential items. I highly recommend a backpack diaper bag for travel. They are typically much more comfortable, secure against theft, and easier to carry over long periods of time. 

Diapers and wipes

If your toddler isn’t potty trained, don’t forget to bring along diapers and wipes. You can choose to bring along enough for your whole trip or, if you want to pack lighter, you can pack enough for the first few days and plan on picking some up at your destination (make sure it’s a place where they’re easy to find).

When possible, I try to just bring along all the diapers and wipes I will need for my trip to save myself the hassle of needing to pick some up during the trip. However, I know people who would prefer to pack less up front, so do what makes the most sense to you. 

Be sure to bring more diapers than you think you will need in your diaper bag if you’re traveling by plane. The middle of a long flight is not the place where you want to realize that your child is going through more diapers than you anticipated. 

• Travel potty

For toddlers who are potty trained or in the process of potty training, a portable potty can be a lifesaver when traveling. 

There are a few different kinds, but one of the most useful for travel is a foldable seat that can be placed over a larger toilet to make a secure and smaller seat for your toddler. This allows toddlers to feel safer on a toilet and helps to prevent any potty training regressions while traveling. They’re also compact and can easily be folded up and carried in your diaper bag.

See our list of the best travel potties for toddlers for the best options out there. 

Clothes are obviously going to be a travel essential. We’ll highlight a few items in this section and you can find a more detailed list of clothes down in the packing list.

If you’re trying to pack light, bring outfits that can be mixed and matched.

Make sure that you’re packing weather appropriate clothes for your toddler (eg. sun hat, swimsuit, sunglasses vs winter coat, gloves, warm hat). 

Plan on bringing an extra pair of pajamas or two in case of nighttime accidents. It’s also a good idea to bring an extra pair of shoes in case you lose one or they get wet. 

Toddler travel packing list

This is our tried and tested toddler packing list that I use for every trip. I love being able to pack for a trip and know I’m not missing anything important as long as I double check my trusty list!

Packing tip: Spend a few minutes thinking about your toddler to determine if there are any toddler travel essentials that you should include that are specific to your child. For example, our oldest went through a phase where he couldn’t handle the smell of the toilet, so there was a period where we always carried a travel sized Poo-Pourri around with us. Our other two never had the same issue, so that wasn’t included in their packing lists. There might be items that your child needs that other people wouldn’t think to include.

• Car seat travel bag

Food/snacks

• Snack catcher

Sleep items

• Stuffed animal
• Monitor 
• Blackout option
• Hand sanitizer/wipes
• Travel activities
• Diapers/wipes or undies
• Toothbrush/paste
• Pants/shorts
• Jacket/Coat

Warm weather gear

• Swim diapers
• Floatie/life jacket

Cold weather gear

Final Thoughts

With a little preparation, traveling with a toddler can actually be a lot of fun. We’ve had great experiences traveling with our toddlers over the years (along with the occasional meltdown of course).

These toddler travel essentials will help your trip go a lot more smoothly. And you can rest assured knowing that you’ve done everything you can to set yourself up for success!

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How to Fly Your Kid Solo, Free of Stress

By Alexander Nazaryan

For many parents and guardians, putting a child on a flight alone may seem terrifying. Belligerent passengers, delays, turbulence: All loom large in a caregiver’s imagination.

Life sometimes leaves no other option. Hudson Crites , 17, of Marshall, Va., was 10 when he started flying unaccompanied to visit his father in Kansas and later Georgia, said his mother, Chelsea Tippett. But the extra attention from airline staff made Hudson “feel special,” Ms. Tippett recalls. Other than a single tarmac delay, he has had no problems.

On rare occasions, children have had troubling experiences. In December, Spirit Airlines accidentally flew a 6-year-old to Orlando, Fla., instead of the intended destination of Fort Myers. Spirit apologized, fired the gate agent responsible and offered reimbursement to the boy’s grandmother for her travel to Orlando. But while the boy was unharmed, his grandmother expressed worry that he had been kidnapped .

If you decide to fly your child unaccompanied, you’ll discover that each airline has its own procedures, fees and routes open to children. While some may find the process complicated, flying alone may be exciting for your child, instilling some independence. Here’s what you need to know.

Before you book, know the process

Regardless of the airline or route, flying an unaccompanied minor differs from an adult or a family catching a flight. Airlines require a trusted pre-authorized adult to be at the departure and arrival gates, and will ask you at booking to provide contact information for those adults. They will also need to present identification at the terminals.

The journey begins at the originating airport’s airline ticket counter. There, airline staff will check your identification and check in the child, perhaps handing them a lanyard or wristband to wear. The agents will provide you with a pass to get through security with your child. You will accompany them to the gate, where you will hand them off to a gate agent. You must stay at the gate until the plane takes off.

In the air, the flight crew will keep watch — but will not babysit, or sit with, your child. If the flight has a connection, a crew member will walk your child off the plane and a gate agent will take him or her to the next gate.

At the arrival airport, the child will be handed off by staff to the authorized guardian or parent who should have already checked in at the ticket counter with proper identification, gone through security with their gate pass and be waiting at the gate.

To learn more about this process, read the Department of Transportation’s online guide, “When Kids Fly Alone,” followed by the website of your selected carrier.

Choosing an airline and paying an extra fee

Before purchasing a ticket, experts advise you to consider an airline’s on-time performance. “Solid on-time performance is hard-earned, and signals a carrier that has tight control of its operation,” said the Ask the Pilot author, Patrick Smith. The Bureau of Transportation Statistics has those numbers.

Booking procedures vary. Delta Air Lines and American Airlines require you to call. United Airlines allows bookings online. JetBlue Airways does online bookings, too, but asks for three printed copies of its forms upon arrival at the airport.

International flights may call for a notarized consent letter describing where the child is traveling, with whom they’ll stay and how long they’ll be there.

On top of the ticket fare, flying an unaccompanied minor can be pricey.

Southwest Airlines charges $100 one way for each child, regardless of distance. Alaska Airlines charges $50 per child if the flight is nonstop; a connection adds $25. On Delta, one $150 fee will cover up to four children, and American’s $150 covers all siblings, with no cap on number. United charges $150 for one child, or two children flying together.

Restrictions: There are plenty

U.S. carriers allow children to fly as unaccompanied minors once they turn 5 and before they turn 18. But regardless of your child’s age, make sure he or she is ready by discussing the trip details and your expectations of their behavior. No policy can replace your judgment.

The low-cost carriers Frontier Airlines and Allegiant Air don’t allow unaccompanied minors, Other airlines have restrictions that, in the broadest terms, differentiate between young children and teenagers. American and Delta restrict children under 8 from routes requiring connections. Both airlines allow children between 8 and 14 to take some connecting flights.

On American, no unaccompanied minor is allowed to take an overnight flight requiring a connection, or a flight that includes a connection on its final leg that also happens to be the last such flight that day (“unless it’s the only flight,” the company adds). Minors are not allowed on code-share flights.

United and Delta have similar rules. Southwest, JetBlue and Spirit don’t allow unaccompanied minors on connecting flights.

JetBlue prohibits minors from flying to Europe, and limits the number of unaccompanied minors in one party to three. Spirit does not allow children on flights to Central or South America. Southwest doesn’t allow children on any international flights. American, United and Delta let minors fly abroad, but restrictions on connections, code-shares and overnights limit options.

American and Delta allow children to opt out of flying as unaccompanied minors once they turn 15 — that is, the child can fly without the assistance of airline personnel. JetBlue ends unaccompanied minor service at 14, while Alaska has an opt-out option at 13. Southwest boasts the lowest opt-out age: 12.

However, you should be able to accompany your child to the gate even if they’re not flying unaccompanied. American requires that you do so for teens between the ages of 15 and 17, even if they’ve opted out.

What to pack

Have a plan to head off your child’s hunger, boredom and thirst. If they are older, make sure they have emergency money and a charged phone.

When her two daughters, then 9 and 11, flew to Denver, Joey Conover of Charlottesville, Va., had a long list for their carry-ons.

“Pack a backpack with iPad, headphones, lightweight book to read, a pad of paper and colored pencils (markers might smear), a small travel game, water bottle (bring empty and fill in airport), snacks, some kind of surprise fidget or animals to play with, hoodie, and a lovey,” she wrote in an email.

“Write your name and phone number on the inside of their arm in Sharpie and put a parent’s business card in a luggage tag on both suitcase and backpack,” Ms. Conover said. (A sheet of paper with all their identification, and their guardian’s contact information, also works. Simply stick in an easy-to-access pocket.)

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A MUM has revealed the perfect trick for flying with young kids and how to get them to sleep on a plane.

Whether you have a long-haul international flight or just a short journey, getting in that much-needed rest can be a real challenge when travelling with young one's.

But one parent believes she's sussed out the best method to ensure the whole family can peacefully sleep without any disturbances.

Travel expert Jessica Rach recently embarked on an 18 hour flight from London to Bali alongside her toddler and had one trick up her sleeve to make it as smooth-sailing as possible.

She said she that investing in a plane bed was the ultimate way to get her son to sleep.

"I decided to bring a seat extender to turn my son’s seat into a bed," she told Condé Nast Traveler .

"It was a total game changer, and my toddler slept solidly for over 10 hours.

"This will be accompanying us everywhere from now on."

The travel guru added how parents can either use a kid's suitcase that converts into a bed box or invest in an inflatable mattress.

"I opted for the Bubba board as it provided the perfect balance of comfort, low weight, and easy set-up," she said.

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The process is completely hassle free, too, with parents just needing to lay the board on the seat and clip the extension to the tray table.

However, it's important to note that many airlines have varying rules on which convertible beds or seat extenders are permitted.

Furthermore, they are only allowed in the window or middle seat, so parents are advised to check before travelling.

There are plenty of other ways to ensure you and your children can have a stress-free flight ahead of your next longhaul trip.

Jessica suggests choosing the best seats in advance and packing an entertainment goodie bag.

Sitting by the window and having things to occupy them can be the perfect distraction for toddlers - and save you the hassle of keeping them entertained.

Planning a night flight around your arrival times is also useful as it ensures your kids are less likely to have their sleep schedule disrupted.

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Do Kids Need ID to Fly? Travel Identification Info for Every Age

A couple of times a year, I get a panicked message from a friend or reader who is about to take an airplane flight with their kids. Suddenly they’ve realized that they have no idea what kind of identification they need for their children to fly, if any. After a decade and a half of flying on hundreds of flights and dozens of airlines with my kids to destinations all around the world, I know this question can certainly be confusing!

In the United States, there are multiple entities that set the official legal rules and regulations governing air travel identification and documentation. Those can include Customs and Border Protection, the Department of State, the Department of Homeland Security, the Federal Aviation Administration, the Transportation Security Administration, and each specific airline.

So exactly what documentation is required to board an airplane with kids? As you might imagine, it depends! Here is all the information you need to make sure you have the right identification to travel aboard both domestic and international flights with kids.

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Children under the age of 18 typically do not need ID to fly on domestic flights within the United States when accompanied by an adult. Airlines may require identification, however, in more unusual circumstances such as with very young infants, lap children, unaccompanied minors, or older teens flying solo. Identification – specifically a passport book but sometimes more – is always required for kids of any age to travel on international flights.

Identification Required for Kids for International Travel

Most travelers usually expect strict identification rules when it comes to international travel. If you are traveling internationally by air the answer to the question of whether kids need ID to fly is pretty simple. Yes! They do!

Not just any ID will suffice. Just as with adults, a passport book is required to fly with kids internationally no matter how young. If you have kids who are United States citizens, getting an official passport can be time-consuming and expensive. In addition, it requires some logistical steps that parents can mess up.

How to Get Passports in the US for Kids

Specifically, the consent of both parents is required for kids under age 16. That usually means both parents need to appear in person at a passport acceptance facility (like many post offices, local government offices, etc.). Alternatively, one parent can appear in person with a notarized statement of consent from the other parent. I got a notarized letter from my husband the last time we applied for our kids because his work schedule made it difficult for him to be available during the limited business hours passport acceptance facilities in our area were open.

Note also that you can’t just easily renew children’s passports by mail like you can for adults. The same in-person application process with both parents present is required. Plus kids under age 16 must renew passports every 5 years, instead of every 10 years for adults.

For that reason, I highly recommend starting the process of obtaining passports for your kids many months in advance of any international travel. After the paperwork is submitted, the process can take 2-3 months for a passport to arrive. Plus, it can often take many weeks before you can get an appointment to even submit the paperwork.

This obviously makes international travel with very young infants especially challenging, as it takes time to first get a birth certificate for the child and then apply for a passport.

Hopefully you are landing on this article in plenty of time to get your paperwork in order for your specific situation. But if not, there may be ways you can get what you need more urgently. You can pay a $60 extra fee to expedite a passport, which can cut several weeks off of standard processing times. And in more urgent situations, there is an even more expedited option available by applying at a passport agency (which can be done if a trip is within 14 days or less).

Special Note about International Land Crossings and Cruises

One reason some travelers misunderstand the air travel rules for kid identification is because the rules for kids crossing land borders and on some cruises can be different. For example, minors who are US citizens can cross into Canada by land with only a birth certificate.

On some closed loop cruises starting and ending in the United States going to destinations like Mexico, Canada, or many Caribbean countries, there are times when both kids and adults can technically travel without a passport using a birth certificate or passport card.

But none of these exceptions apply to international air travel. Don’t mix these rules up!

Child Travel Consent Form

Although a passport book is necessary to travel with kids on international flights, it isn’t necessarily fully sufficient. There are some times that other travel documents may be required – such as a visa for certain countries.

What is even more likely to trip up international travelers is the situation in which a child is traveling with only one parent or is traveling with another adult who isn’t a parent. In many of these circumstances, proof that both parents consent to the specific trip can be required. In these cases, the best practice is to carry a notarized letter of consent for the child to travel.

Some countries have very specific forms or formats that you need to follow. Mexico is one such example and historically has tended to be quite strict. My husband will likely be traveling solo with one of our kids to Mexico for a family wedding in a few months, and we are already planning to get the a letter of consent completed as an extra precaution.

Many countries don’t have clear cut rules that are easy to research. For example, I flew last summer to Italy (first entering the Schengen Area in Frankfurt, Germany) with both of my kids without my husband. I wasn’t able to get completely definitive information as to whether consent was required. As a result, we went ahead and had my husband complete a notarized letter of consent that I kept with me along with a copy of his passport. We weren’t asked to show it, but I breathed easier knowing I had it!

Unfortunately, profiling can and does occur depending on where you are traveling. So parents who don’t share the same last name as their children or who may appear to be another race or ethnicity may find they face extra scrutiny. The best way to avoid any surprises – just or not – is to err on the side of having this document even when it’s not necessarily required.

Identification Required for Kids for Domestic Travel

If you are traveling domestically, the answer to the ID question is a little more complicated but thankfully usually much easier. In most standard circumstances, identification is not required for minors for domestic travel within the USA. There are specific unique situations, however, where it can be.

What Identification is Needed at TSA Checkpoints?

For domestic travel, the Transportation Security Administration (TSA) will not require you to have an ID for children under age 18 at the security checkpoint.

That said, TSA agents may well talk to your child to confirm their identity and to screen for cases of child abduction. Agents have asked my kids over the years for their names. In some circumstances, they’ve pointed to my husband or me and asked our children who we are. If you have kids who are shy or who take warnings of stranger danger to heart, let them know in advance of your trip that it’s ok for them to speak to these agents and to answer truthfully.

Related: Strategies for Speeding Through TSA Checkpoints with Kids

Special Situations Where Kids May Need ID for Domestic Travel

While the TSA won’t require identification for kids under age 18, many airlines have policies in specific circumstances where some form of ID will be required. It’s vital to know about these outlier circumstances so you don’t come to the airport unprepared.

Young Infants

A number of airlines have rules that prohibit or limit newborns from flying. Airline rules differ, with some airlines like Delta prohibiting newborns under 7 days old from flying on any flights. Others set limits only on international travel, including Southwest which limits infants 14 days old or younger from flying on international flights. Most airlines allow young infants under their age limits, however, to fly with a letter of permission from a physician.

Related: Essential Tips for Your Baby’s First Flight

If you are traveling with a newborn, it’s highly advised to bring a document like a birth certificate for proof of age. And if you are looking for an exception to an age minimum of any sort, a physician’s letter is essential.

Lap Children

When you are flying with a child who will be sitting in your lap (permitted for kids under age 2), having identification to prove age may be required. Some airlines will allow younger infants to board with no ID, as it’s normally obvious that very small babies are not yet near the maximum age cutoff. Families with older babies toddling and speaking always should carry proof of age no matter what the airline. Airline employees can ask at any time for proof to make sure the child is young enough to travel as a lap child.

Related: What to Consider before Flying with a Lap Child

If you are flying Southwest Airlines, however, do not leave ID at home no matter what the age of your lap child. Southwest is the only US carrier that absolutely requires identification of any and every lap child regardless of how old they appear. You’ll need to show it at the ticket counter to obtain a boarding verification document (that works like a boarding pass) for the lap child.

Are there some instances where passengers haven’t had to show documentation for their children on Southwest? For sure. But I’ve flown with a lap child on Southwest more than a dozen times, and I can assure you that every time I had to show proof of age, even with a kiddo as young as 4 months! You don’t want to chance this.

Related: Complete Guide to Flying Southwest with Kids

What kind of identification works for lap children? A simple copy of a birth certificate will usually suffice. No need to rush to the DMV to get your tot a state-issued ID card.

Birth certificates can, however, can take awhile to obtain after a child is born. If you need to fly with a young infant domestically, most airlines will also accept hospital discharge documentation or vaccination records from a pediatrician’s office. The key is that the document have the child’s date of birth on it. When in doubt, if you cannot obtain a birth certificate, call the airline you are flying beforehand to confirm alternatives.

Unaccompanied Minors & Minors Traveling Solo

Another circumstance in which identification may be required for a child is in the case of children flying alone. Again, each airline’s policy is different.

In this situation, age really matters. All US airlines permit older teens (usually ages 15+ but sometimes younger) to fly solo just like adults. And most of them also allow younger kids (often ages 5-14) to fly as unaccompanied minors by paying a fee for limited supervision by airline employees. Depending on the child’s age and circumstances, different documentation can be required.

For older teens under age 18 flying truly solo and not with an unaccompanied minor program, ID is almost always required. Since many kids in this age range won’t have a driver’s license or official government photo ID yet, some airlines (like United) will accept other forms of identification like a birth certificates or student IDs. Other airlines (like Delta), however, require that 15-17 year olds flying solo have the same kind of photo ID that is required of adults. So if your child doesn’t have a driver’s permit or license yet, you’ll likely need to pack a passport.

Younger kids flying as an unaccompanied minor may need some identification as well. This also varies based on the airline and the circumstance. For example, when my son flew earlier this year as an unaccompanied minor on Southwest, I had to show ID as his parent, but I was not asked to show identification for him. Officially, however, Southwest’s policy is that parents may need to show proof of age for the minor. We probably weren’t asked because I booked under my son’s Rapid Rewards account that includes his date of birth (and he clearly appears to be within the age range of the program).

Most other US airlines won’t ask for ID for unaccompanied minors in straightforward situations, but the important thing to note is that they can . So the safest course of action is to at least carry a birth certificate. I put a birth certificate in my son’s backpack anyway, so we were prepared!

Here are links to the relevant age and ID policies that may apply to minors flying solo or as unaccompanied minors on each major US airline:

• Alaska Airlines
• American Airlines
• Delta Airlines
• Frontier Airlines
• Hawaiian Airlines
• JetBlue Airways
• Southwest Airlines
• Spirit Airlines
• United Airlines

Additional Identification Air Travel Tips

• When in doubt, bring it : I know from lots of digging around fine print on the internet that it’s sometimes impossible to get a definitive answer about identification. When in doubt, I highly recommend you err on the side of packing more than you need rather than less. A passport book is the gold standard. For domestic travel an original birth certificate (with the raised seal) can be helpful in many circumstances too.
• Keep extra copies on the cloud : Back in the pre-internet old days of travel, most of us traveled with extra passport copies in a separate bag in case we lost the original. In the digital age, having backups is easier than ever. I keep a copy on the cloud of passports and birth certificates for everyone in the family. That way, I can easily access everything on my phone in cases of emergency.
• Take extra precautions in case of child custody disputes and divorce : It’s crucial in situations of divorce or shared custody that parents have all of their legal ducks in a row before boarding a plane with their child, even for a simple hop across state lines. As a former attorney myself, I strongly suggest you consult your own legal counsel. Always make sure travel is permitted and that you know what additional documentation you need to bring to avoid any potential issues.

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Southwest Airlines hosts first mock travel day for families with Autism Moms of Kona

From toddlers to teens, about 10 keiki and their parents walked through Ellison Onizuka Kona International Airport Thursday afternoon to catch their Southwest flight to Kona.

Those families boarding Flight 143 were members of the Facebook group Autism Moms of Kona . And this mock travel day was meant as a fun activity to help children with autism get more comfortable with the process of going through the airport — starting from the ticket counter, to going through security, and agriculture to boarding a plane and ending at baggage claim.

“Just in general it’s anxiety-ridden, let alone having to go through all these other hoops and having a child that struggles with things that are different or unusual,” said Tia Banks, customer service agent with Southwest Airlines. “So we’re doing anything that makes it easier for our families.”

Autism spectrum disorder is a developmental disability caused by differences in the brain, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention . Those on the spectrum often have problems with social communication and interaction, and restricted or repetitive behaviors or interests.

While these mock flights happen often on the mainland, this was the first time Southwest held an event in Kona. And just like a real trip to the airport, all families got their boarding passes and went through security, placing bags, phones and keys in bins to be scanned.

They were reminded to remove their shoes as well before walking through the metal detector.

Once through security, families continued their journey to gate 4 for Flight 143.

Trudy Palik and her partner Brendonn Vaiula were among the parents who brought their children along for the afternoon “plane ride.”

Palik travels with her 3-year-old son BJ, who has autism, regularly as he has doctor appointments once a month in Honolulu. She explained traveling with her son is hard as he gets scared with all the people.

“I think it’s too many faces,” she said.

Normally Palik travels with BJ alone, but on Thursday, Vaiula was there to experience flying with their son. Normally in a stroller, Vaiula tailed BJ around the airport gate as he wandered about.

When it was time to board, the 3-year-old was nervous, but he walked out to the plane calmly with his parents.

“He is more comfortable because his dad is here,” Palik said.

Jessica McCullum, founder of the Facebook group Autism Moms of Kona, was also there with her children. She carried Josephine, 2, who is on the autism spectrum.

While she is not new to taking her kids on planes, it’s never easy as the process of getting through the airport can be challenging with children who are sensitive to crowds, lights and noises.

“Waiting in long lines can cause a meltdown,” McCullum said.

McCullum was looking forward to this experience so she could communicate with the airline about the needs she and other parents with children on the spectrum have when they travel.

“A lot of these kids are picky eaters,” McCullum said, adding a lot of times parents are told to throw their snacks away.

This leaves them, McCullum said, hungry with no calm space to retreat to.

Once the plane was ready, the Southwest crew welcomed families through the gate and walked them to the 737-800 aircraft. Three flight attendants and a pilot volunteered their time to give families the authentic experience of flying on an airplane.

Once seated, volunteer flight attendants went through the safety briefing going over instructions on how to buckle the seatbelt, how to use the oxygen mask if there is a loss in cabin pressure and how to inflate the life jacket, stowed beneath the seat, in the event of a water landing.

Served drinks and snacks, keiki also got a peek inside the cockpit where the pilot allowed them to push buttons and where the captain’s hat.

As the plane prepared for “landing,” one of the children got on the intercom saying: “We’ll be on the ground in 10 minutes. Thank you for flying Southwest Airlines.”

Before deplaning, staff with Southwest informed families of the program TSA Cares , which ensures families traveling with children with needs, have an escort through the traveling process, from check-in to boarding.

After “returning” to Kona, the families deplaned and collected their draw-string Southwest Airlines backpacks from the baggage claim carousel.

McCullum said the experience was awesome. “No meltdowns!”

A newer member of the Autism Moms of Kona group, Tisha Delima participated in the flight with her 3-year-old daughter Melia.

Delima said Melia has been identified as on the spectrum and they have an upcoming doctor’s appointment in Honolulu. Melia hasn’t been diagnosed.

“I thought this would be a good opportunity to get tips and have a fun outing,” Delima said.

Delima said the mock flight was good practice in not getting overwhelmed by the process.

Banks hopes the program grows so the airline can offer these experiences once or twice a year.

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Airlines must cough up cancellation cash and can no longer hide fees under new federal rule

A federal rule announced Wednesday will require airlines to quickly give cash refunds — without lengthy arguments — to passengers whose flights have been canceled or seriously delayed, the Biden administration said.

“Passengers deserve to get their money back when an airline owes them — without headaches or haggling,” Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg said in a statement.

The rule from the Transportation Department says passengers who decline other reimbursement like travel credits are to get cash refunds.

It applies when a flight is canceled or has a “significant change,” the administration said.A “significant change” includes when departure or arrival times are three or more hours different from the scheduled times for domestic flights or six hours for international flights, and when the airport is changed or connections are added, it said.

Passengers are also to get refunds when their baggage is 12 hours late in delivery for domestic flights.

The new rule comes after promises to hold airlines accountable after major disruptions that made travel hell for passengers, including the 2022 Southwest Airlines meltdown , which resulted in almost 17,000 significantly delayed or canceled flights and a missing baggage nightmare.

The Transportation Department said that the new rule means refunds are automatic and that "airlines must automatically issue refunds without passengers having to explicitly request them or jump through hoops."

Also announced Wednesday was a rule requiring airlines to more clearly disclose so-called junk fees upfront, such as surprise baggage or other fees, the department said.

It said that rule is expected to save fliers around $500 million a year.

The surprise fees are used so tickets look cheaper than they really are, and then fliers get the unwelcome surprise of fees on checked bags, carry-on bags or reservation changes — or even discounts that are advertised but apply to only part of the ticket price, officials said.

Airlines will also have to tell fliers clearly that their seats are guaranteed and that they don't have to pay extra to ensure they have seats for flights, according to the Transportation Department.

Airlines for America, an industry trade group, said that its member airlines “offer transparency and vast choice to consumers from first search to touchdown” and that they do offer cash refunds.

The 11 largest U.S. airlines returned $10.9 billion in cash refunds last year, an increase over $7.5 billion in 2019 but slightly down from $11.2 billion in 2022, the group said.

“U.S. airlines are providing more options and better services while ticket prices, including ancillary revenues, are at historic lows,” Airlines for America said.

Left out of the federal changes announced Wednesday are those involving "family seating fees," but the Transportation Department said in a statement that "DOT is planning to propose a separate rule that bans airlines from charging these junk fees."

Travelers have complained to the Transportation Department that children weren’t seated next to accompanying adults, including in some cases young children, department officials said last year.

Fees on bags specifically have made up an increasing amount of airline revenues, the Transportation Department said Wednesday in announcing the new rules.

A Transportation Department analysis found that airline revenue from baggage fees increased 30% from 2018 to 2022, while operating revenue — which is from the flights themselves — increased by only half that amount, the department said.

Jay Blackman is an NBC News producer covering such areas as transportation, space, medical and consumer issues.

Phil Helsel is a reporter for NBC News.