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14 Most Romantic Getaways in New Jersey

From Atlantic beaches to lakeside lodges, find an idyllic Garden State couples retreat.

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Stroll hand in hand along Cape May for breathtakingly romantic views.

Mountains, lakes and a scenic shoreline along the ocean – you could be talking about California, but all of these dreamy vistas are available to enjoy in New Jersey alongside someone you love. Many know the state for its Jersey Shore beaches , but you can also explore the countryside, the cities situated just a stone's throw from Manhattan and even a stretch of the Appalachian Mountains. The Garden State, as New Jersey is romantically nicknamed, contains multitudes – many of which make ideal intimate retreats for couples seeking a sanctuary outside of the usual routine.

Pairing the obvious with the unexpected, New Jersey boasts the casinos and resorts of Atlantic City as much as a bed-and-breakfast in a town with few residents but lots of lavender. Nature is in abundance, with verdant trails to discover – fingers intertwined. History-loving couples will be dazzled by restored castle-like mansions surrounded by lush gardens. There are inns and boutique hotels aplenty, but also more modern offerings in the multicultural Jersey City.

Despite being a small state, New Jersey is an inviting place for all couples. Read on to find the most romantic getaways in New Jersey.

Romantic Getaways in New Jersey

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Love is music to the ears in the small coastal city of Asbury Park, known for a thriving live music scene that survives today at venues like the historic Stone Pony or New Orleans-inspired R Bar. Couples of all ages and orientations are welcome, and diversions can be found to satisfy any whim in Asbury Park and surrounding resort towns such as charming Ocean Grove. Spend a quiet beach day down the boardwalk, or make your way through an iconic retro arcade. You can always end the night cozied up with an elaborate cocktail under the romantic lighting of the speakeasy-style Laylow. Pascal & Sabine, meanwhile, serves rich French cuisine sure to make your mouth water – don't miss the milk chocolate pot de creme.

Where to stay: For lodging, Asbury Ocean Club Hotel towers over Ocean Avenue and offers couples a resort-style retreat. Also consider the tucked-away St. Laurent (formerly the Tides Hotel), a boutique and historic property that has served local LGBTQ communities for more than a decade.

The seaside Victoriana of Cape May oozes romance, but this historic resort town – ideal for a weekend getaway from New York City – is far from sleepy. Cape May maintains a busy events schedule year-round that welcomes artists like trumpeter Wynton Marsalis to its annual Exit Zero Jazz Festival or the band Dire Straits Legacy to its oceanfront Convention Hall.

Book an idyllic farm-to-table dining experience at Beach Plum Farm and follow it up with a toast at Willow Creek Winery & Farm, whose Fire Pit Fridays feature live entertainment. You can also pass the time hiking to the Cape May Lighthouse, laying by the pool or watching the sun set at the beach. Cape May excels at date nights, from the moodily lit piano bar of The Ebbitt Room at the historic Virginia Hotel to the shops and treats along Washington Street Mall, where you can walk hand in hand – leaving one hand free for a Peace Pie gourmet ice cream sandwich.

Where to stay: There are accommodations aplenty in Cape May , but the Southern Mansion, originally built in 1860, is a lavish bed-and-breakfast surrounded by lush gardens – perfect for spoiling yourselves. Recent visitors say the small hotel's Victorian charm creates a warm atmosphere, though some advise you may not find modern amenities like elevators or minifridges. Meanwhile, enjoy beach and seasonal pool access alongside complimentary tours and activities with a stay at Congress Hall , considered the first seaside resort in the nation. Couples can start the day with delectable brunch at the on-site Blue Pig Tavern and end it soaking in one of the hotel's claw-foot tubs. And, of course, no visit to Cape May is complete without a nightcap at Congress Hall's iconic Brown Room.

Come to Princeton – one of the best places to visit in New Jersey – when its ivy-draped schools are in session. This college town is romantic year-round, but you'll want to stick even closer to your significant other with a slight chill in the air. Autumn is the ideal time to paddle along the Delaware & Raritan Canal, gliding under the colorful fall foliage , after your stroll through the Princeton University campus at the heart of the city. Just 10 miles away in Hamilton sits Grounds for Sculpture, a wistful sculpture park with hundreds of installations set on more than 40 acres. In the spring, peacocks roam under the cherry blossoms. Make reservations at the on-site Rat's Restaurant, named for a children's book character, or preorder a picnic to enjoy on the grounds.

Where to stay: You'll find more mentions of peacocks back in Princeton at The Peacock Inn, a luxury boutique hotel with 16 rooms and a lovely afternoon tea service. If you want to be in the center of it all, you can't be more central than the Nassau Inn in the heart of Palmer Square. Host to the annual holiday tree lighting, this square is burgeoning with shops and artisanal ice cream; impressive eateries such as Mediterra Restaurant & Taverna, which offers a tapas menu for happy hour, also sit close. Check out Agricola Eatery for a top-notch meal – recent diners applaud the restaurant's use of fresh, seasonal ingredients from local farms.

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You don't have to leave the Garden State to live the lake life. Vernon, a town in Sussex County, welcomes couples looking for a lakeside getaway to ski lodges like Mountain Creek. Open in all four seasons, this resort offers wintertime skiing and snow tubing, while summer ushers in a chance to splash by the pool or water park, as well as a zip line course for bird's-eye views.

If you don't want to share your space with families at the resort, consider a cozy cottage or cabin Airbnb rental in the Vernon Valley or along the Highland Lakes. You can also book a stay at the Crystal Springs Resort's Minerals Hotel , nestled in the alpine Appalachian Valley and outfitted with a sports club, spa and nine-hole golf course. If you're looking to bond with your significant other over a new shared experience, Crystal Springs Resort offers guests a range of activity options from ax throwing and painting to goat yoga and archery.

Challenge your partner to a hike on the Stairway to Heaven trail, which rewards some climbing with divine views over New Jersey. Or choose a more sedate stroll at the Pochuck Boardwalk, a section of the Appalachian Trail. Afterward, tame your appetite at The George Inn, a 19th-century establishment with an extensive menu and a tap room.

Antiquing aficionados will want to book a long weekend in Lambertville. Myriad purveyors of old and interesting items have set up shop in this small Hunterdon County town, alongside inviting coffee shops and quaint residential streets. Don't miss Owowcow Creamery, tucked on Union Street, with scoops made from scratch using local and seasonal ingredients. If you want to make a quick trip over the state line, New Hope, Pennsylvania, is just a half-mile across the pedestrian-friendly bridge over the Delaware River. One of the most romantic escapes in Pennsylvania , this small town – equally overflowing with vintage clothiers, eclectic shops and eateries – will complement your Lambertville getaway perfectly.

Where to stay: The Lambertville Station Restaurant and Inn is routinely referenced as a romantic destination, given the fine dining it offers on the Delaware River, complete with a wine cellar and herb garden. You can sample some cabernet and wind down at one of the 46 rooms here, which visiting couples say makes for a wonderful weekend getaway – or book a stay at one of the suites at the Bridge Street Guest House.

Start your romantic getaway in Jersey City with a spa day at the trendy SoJo Spa Club in Edgewater (about 10 miles north). This Korean-inspired spa is open in all weather for treatments; its facilities include a pool and therapeutic baths with stunning views of the New York City skyline. In good weather, book a cruise that grants access to Ellis Island and Liberty Island, where you'll find the Statue of Liberty. Once back on land, take a sunset stroll from the Harborside plaza to the Colgate Clock. Head to dinner in the waterfront Paulus Hook neighborhood, rife with intimate restaurants: The rustic-chic Satis Bistro, for example, will elevate your date night with modern European fare such as charcuterie.

For an even better nighttime view of the city lights, check out the rooftop bar and lounge at Hyatt House Jersey City – or the Vu Restaurant and Lounge at Hyatt Regency Jersey City on the Hudson , which affords a glimpse of Lady Liberty.

Where to stay: Many hotel chains have a presence in Jersey City, but Hyatt's river vistas are difficult to surpass. Vacationers staying at the Hyatt Regency praise its convenient location, with a PATH train into New York directly in front of the hotel, and the views that make some guests opt never to shut their curtains at night.

You don't have to choose between staying in a state park or a castle – and you don't have to leave New Jersey to do it. Skylands Manor was designed and built in the 1920s by American architect John Russell Pope, whose credits also include the National Archives and National Gallery of Art in Washington, D.C . Though now a century old, the castle-style manor was intentionally built to look weathered and ancient, and all of the stone used was quarried on the estate. Today Skylands Manor sits on the grounds of the New Jersey State Botanical Garden in Ringwood, providing 100 acres of beauty you can explore on a self-guided tour.

A stay at The Castle at Skylands Manor hotel will make you and your loved one feel like royalty. Unsurprisingly, this site is a top wedding venue, able to host up to 600 guests in its formal gardens. The Castle at Skylands Manor offers 21 suites, but be sure to book a stay far in advance if you want to beat out lovebirds looking to tie the knot. Couples who have recently stayed here checked a castle stay off their list, but they caution that the property is privately maintained and occasionally experiences maintenance issues. Guests with mobility issues should know they will need to navigate stairs to stay at the manor.

Address: 5 Morris Road, Ringwood, NJ 07456

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The drive out to Long Beach Island – more commonly called LBI – will bring the peace of mind that accompanies leaving behind the bustle of the mainland and crossing the Manahawkin Bay. The 18-mile stretch of barrier island offers seasonal amusements and bayfront hotels in six tiny shore towns with fitting names like Ship Bottom, Surf City and Beach Haven. LBI's white sand beaches aren't free – each municipality requires its own beach badge – but they are pristine.

You can easily spend your day sunbathing or cycling together to either of the wilderness areas that bookend the island. In the north you have the Barnegat Lighthouse State Park, while at the southern tip you'll find part of the Edwin B. Forsythe National Wildlife Refuge, with views of Atlantic City. Be sure to also check LBI's local schedule to see if any annual festivals (ranging from celebrations of wine to chowder) coincide with your visit.

While you're in LBI, The Chicken or the Egg merits a visit to Beach Haven for a Buffalo chicken omelet or other fowl-related fare.

Where to stay: Consider booking a dinner – or a stay – at The Gables. This property looks like a seaside cottage set amid a garden teeming with flowers. Candlelit three-course dining, five gorgeously appointed rooms and honeymoon packages make The Gables an epicenter of romance on the island.

Amid the casino lights you might associate with Atlantic City , you'll also find this city to be a waterfront escape near top-rated restaurants and attractions. Even if you have no interest in gambling, couples come to AC to enjoy celebrity-headlining comedy shows and concerts alongside dining that ranges from the kitchen of an Iron Chef (Angeline by Michael Symon) to a landmark restaurant first opened as a private club in 1912 (the Knife & Fork Inn).

Of course if you do fancy the slots, there are more casino options than you'll be able to sample in one visit. And, as an iconic boardwalk destination above all, Atlantic City claims one of the oldest and longest boardwalks in the world with nearly 4 miles of boards, the first section of which originally dates from 1870. After spending an afternoon on the free beaches of AC, go win your sweetie a stuffed animal at one of the arcades.

Where to stay: A hotel within a hotel, The Water Club at Borgata is a couple-friendly oasis with 43 stories, five heated pools and a two-story spa, all conveniently connected to the amenities of the Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa next door. Recent visitors rave that the property is clean and quiet despite being centrally located, though it does lack the ocean access typical of many other Atlantic City accommodation options.

Offering a wooded refuge along the Delaware River, Frenchtown is a darling destination for couples looking to commune with nature and the arts. The Delaware & Raritan Canal State Park starts here, and walkers or cyclists can pedal along the river all the way to the state's capital in Trenton. The Lovin' Oven will serve you a satisfying brunch that can either give you the energy to hit the D&R trail or reward you for your journey; the towpath sits adjacent to the restaurant. Fans of the Lovin' Oven appreciate its funky atmosphere and flavorful food. Just down the road from the eatery is ArtYard, a contemporary art center and exhibition space.

To really soak up the flavor of Frenchtown, plan a visit around one of the town's unique festivals, such as the celebrations for Bastille Day (July 14) or the Riverfest street fair held in September.

Where to stay: The place to book in town is the historic National Hotel, originally a stagecoach stop and now a restaurant, hotel and tavern with frequent live entertainment.

Within Warren County's Knowlton Township – right on the border with Pennsylvania in North Jersey – you'll find the community of Columbia. Since its population is less than 200 people, you will be guaranteed privacy on a weekend getaway to the East Coast countryside.

Where to stay: At The RoseMary Inn, a bed-and-breakfast situated on 17 acres, the first meal of the day is considered an event, with a multicourse breakfast menu that uses fresh and local ingredients. Many recent guests agree that the inn – especially with its breakfast offerings – is a hidden gem. Sip your coffee on the porch overlooking the pond and plan a slow-paced day. Maybe you'll opt to visit the Orchard View Lavender Farm in Port Murray, about 20 miles south, whose weekend events may include dinner in the lavender fields or soothing evening yoga sessions.

Less than 10 miles from Columbia in the nearby town of Hope, The Inn at Millrace Pond is another well-reviewed lodging option. With 17 rooms – some pet-friendly and with whirlpool tubs – this fully remodeled inn was originally built as a stone gristmill in 1769.

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Situated about 20 miles from Manhattan is the eclectic New Jersey suburb of Montclair, which boasts plenty of things for couples to do. Browse the Montclair Art Museum, which has a focus on Native American and American art, then stop by the Van Vleck House & Gardens to enjoy a green oasis amid this urban suburb. Kip's Castle Park, a 9,000-square-foot mansion that resembles a Norman castle, features a scenic overlook and great bird-watching. Downtown Montclair is alive with shops and restaurants, which span cuisine from Brazil to Israel. If your sweetheart has a sweet tooth, Montclair is an excellent place to find French macarons, with a variety of bakeries peddling such fine confections among other baked goods.

Where to stay: Book a stay at the hip and modern MC Hotel, described as "part gallery, part gathering space," or splurge on a king-size suite at The George , a boutique hotel with individually designed rooms styled in part by celebrity creative director Bobbi Brown. Guests at The George revel in its ambiance, enjoying details such as the wine hour or fluffy robes – and the hotel is dog-friendly, in case your furry friend plans to tag along on your romantic escape.

Back on the Jersey Shore, enjoy a table for two set along the Atlantic Ocean. Date night doesn't just hit one note in Long Branch, a Monmouth County beach destination that's been growing over the past decade. Pier Village is a shopping and dining mecca along the boardwalk, where you'll find eateries such as the oceanfront Sirena Ristorante or Avenue, both with crackling fireplaces and cocktail menus. Perhaps you'll opt for a glass of red wine paired with a delicious cut of meat at The Butcher's Block, or you can be served a plate of poutine and craft beer brewed on-site at The Whitechapel Projects. This gathering space brings together food, drinks, art and community with occasional live music and collaborations with local vendors.

Where to stay: Book a stay at Bungalow Hotel, a small art-focused boutique accommodation at the entrance to Pier Village with in-room fireplaces and a cocktail bar. Bungalow guests can use the amenities of its sister property, Wave Resort, an oceanfront hotel and spa that is another great lodging choice.

In the Somerset County borough of Peapack-Gladstone, an elegant estate welcomes you. Its name, Natirar, is an anagram for Raritan – this Tudor-style, Gilded Age mansion sits about 10 miles from the Raritan River. Natirar was formerly owned by King Hassan II of Morocco, though he only visited it a few times. In 2023, the 400-acre property and working farm joined the Pendry hotel chain to become the Pendry Natirar , a full-service resort with a spa, tennis courts, pool, horseback riding trails and more.

Visit Pendry Natirar for its lauded culinary odyssey called Ninety Acres, which includes farm-to-table fare and signature cocktails unlike anything you've had before. Diners say the experience begins when you head up the winding driveway, and that it might be pricey but it's worth the splurge. If you're looking to re-create this special dining experience after your romantic getaway, consider signing up for a culinary arts class for you and your better half at the Ninety Acres Cooking School.

Address: 2 Main St., Peapack and Gladstone, NJ 07977

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18 Romantic Getaways in New Jersey – That You’ll LOVE!

• Posted by by Elle-Rose
• Updated: September 15, 2023
• 8 minute read

Have you been searching for next-level romantic getaways in New Jersey?

Join us as we run through our absolute favorites that’ll have you falling in love all over again.

If you’ve been looking for the perfect romantic getaways in New Jersey, then we’ve got you.

We’ve rounded up the definitive list of amazing romantic getaways in New Jersey that you’re bound to love.

New Jersey is such a versatile state, from amazing cities, to small towns and seaside locations. There’s something for everyone here, and I know you’re going to love the variety of suggestions on this list.

From enormous mansions to fun-filled seaside escapes, this list of romantic getaways in New Jersey is a real people-pleaser!

I’ve included towns and cities on this list (as more broad ideas) but I’ve also included some of my favorite hotels and resorts too.

So let’s get into it!

My favorite romantic getaways in New Jersey!

Atlantis inn.

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To kick off our list of romantic getaways in New Jersey, we have Atlantis Inn !

This spot is tucked away in Ocean City and it’s an absolutely gargantuan Victorian mansion.

It’s over 120 years old (which adds to the historic charm!) but boasts every modern amenity you could ever ask for.

Like whirlpool tubs, spa showers, fireplaces, and private patios, obvs.

To make things even sweeter, this is one of the romantic getaways in New Jersey that’s just 13 minutes from the beach.

So, you can be out of your towel and snuggled into bed in record time!

Spring Lake Inn

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Next on our list of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey – we have the gorgeous Spring Lake Inn !

This place is even older than Atlantis Inn as it was built in 1888 as the area’s Grand Central Stables.

You’re just a block from the ocean here (dreamy!) and just steps from the amazing boardwalk.

Did someone say date night restaurants on demand?

Although you’re welcome to book a room, we suggest trying one of their many pre-bookable packages .

The in-room indulgences include chocolates and champagne and mixed floral bouquets. And they’ll all get you serious brownie points on Valentine’s Day!

Another reason to pick this for your romantic getaways in New Jersey!

Read more New Jersey inspiration: 11 of the nicest towns in New Jersey

Atlantic City

Atlantic City is pretty fun-loving and free-wheeling, and it might not be an obvious choice for romantic getaways in New Jersey.

But we wanted to include it, because it’s super fun, and there are some fantastic romantic hotels here, and some great restaurants too.

Not only can you stay in the luxurious Borgata Hotel, but the boardwalk is just so FUN.

From shops and outlets to arcade games and gambling spots, this is one of the romantic getaways in New Jersey for kids at heart.

If you’re looking for more outwardly romantic activities – we’ve got you.

Why not spend your time exploring the Renault Winery or heading up the Absecon Lighthouse?

If all else fails, there are tons of cocktail bars dotted around the city!

Read more romantic ideas: 20 romantic getaways in Colorado!

Romantic getaways in New Jersey: The Gables

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Next on our list of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey is The Gables on Long Beach Island.

This place is gorgeous and feels very old-timey as it’s technically a restored Victorian-era home.

So, you can expect to find beautiful furniture, large marble bathrooms, and an impressive restaurant.

If we’re being honest, the restaurant is what makes this one of our favorite romantic getaways in New Jersey.

It specializes in farm-to-table fare made with fresh ingredients. But you can also grab fresh pasta, prime beef, and veggie dishes galore!

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Ocean Grove

If you’ve been on the hunt for romantic getaways in New Jersey, don’t miss Ocean Grove.

There are so many coupley things to do here, including exploring the Long Beach Boardwalk and Asbury Park!

And that’s not all you can do at this peaceful hideaway in New Jersey!

You can also head to the ocean (for sunbathing and canoodling!) or head to the local restaurants for a bite to eat.

Just be warned that it’s a traditionally “dry” town, which means you won’t be able to down booze.

For that reason, it’s one of the romantic getaways in New Jersey that might suit a slightly older crowd.

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The Bentley Inn

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Next on my list of romantic getaways in New Jersey, it’s the whimsical and beautiful Bentley Inn .

The Bentley Inn is a perfect coastal hideaway for anyone looking for romantic getaways in New Jersey by the ocean.

Alongside that wonderful ocean breeze, you’ll also find beautiful decorated rooms, and a welcoming team of staff too.

This place is cute, cozy, and just stunning all year round.

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Long Beach Island

When it comes to romantic getaways in New Jersey that are near the beachside, Long Beach Island is IT.

While you’re away from your hotel room, you can head to Barnegat Lighthouse State Park for a stroll.

But you don’t want to miss parasailing or heading to Fantasy Island Amusement Park.

And what’s more romantic than embracing your inner child together?

If you want to push the boat out (and have cash to splash!), Hotel LBI is where you want to be.

It’s right by the boardwalk and the amenities are ridiculously luxurious.

In our book, this hotel alone makes Long Beach Island one of the top romantic getaways in New Jersey!

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The Mason Cottage, Cape May

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When it comes to romantic getaways in New Jersey, The Mason Cottage is up there with the best.

You’ll find this charming hideaway in Cape May which is known for its balmy beaches.

But it’s also home to some of the most romantic getaways in New Jersey!

Like many of the other glorious inns in New Jersey, this place is an old-school Victorian building.

Plus, it’s just 2 blocks from the beach and boasts a glorious garden and terrace for guests.

Perfect for those late-night strolls!

And honestly, you can’t beat the beautiful lofty ceilings, ornate bathrooms, and complimentary beach chairs.

It’s an ideal pick for romantic getaways in New Jersey!

The Madison Hotel, Morristown

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Next on our list of romantic getaways in New Jersey is The Madison Hotel in Morristown.

This is the place to visit if you want a bespoke and personalized hotel experience.

We’re talking butlers, room service – the works.

If you’d like to push the boat out, why not book the Romance Package that delivers champagne and chocolate to your room?

And you get a dinner for two!

Before you leave, don’t forget to hit the indoor pool and glorious hot tub.

It’s an amazing choice for romantic getaways in New Jersey if you’re looking for luxury living.

Read more travel inspiration : Top 20 Weekend Getaways from NYC

Somers Point

Another one of our favorite romantic getaways in New Jersey is Somers Point !

This is something of a hidden gem as it serves some of the best food in New Jersey (but isn’t typically that busy!).

It’s loaded with great hotels and you can easily spend an afternoon schmoozing around Great Egg Harbor Bay.

Hey, it makes a great change from the Ocean City Boardwalk which is considerably busier! And it’s another reason why this is a great choice for romantic getaways in New Jersey.

While you’re here, you can also catch a show at the Gateway Playhouse or even charter a boat!

Oh, and don’t leave without trying a glorious (and freshly-caught!) meal at The Crab Trap.

It’s honestly what makes Somers Point one of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey!

Morris County

If you’re on the hunt for quaint romantic getaways in New Jersey, you can’t beat Morris County.

This small township is charming (it’s home to under 60,000 people!) and boasts old-school mansions and natural beauty.

Now that’s what you call one of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey!

But you can also spend your time visiting the iconic Morris Museum or strolling through Hacklebarney State Park.

Oh, and nothing is more romantic than the beautiful Frelinghuysen Arboretum which spans an impressive 124 acres.

It’s a glorious place to walk amongst the flowers, have a picnic, or enjoy the area’s nature trails.

Total bliss! This is an amazing pick for romantic getaways in New Jersey!

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Sussex County

Next up on our list of romantic getaways in New Jersey, we have Sussex County!

Not only is this place home to the uber-beautiful Wooden Duck Inn, but there’s so much to do here.

After you’ve grabbed a three-course breakfast and enjoyed views of the rolling hills from your hotel, the party really gets started.

From the beautiful High Point State Park to the Space Farms Zoo and Museum , you’ll be spoiled for choice.

And if you’re history buffs, why not explore the Sterling Hill Mining Museum ?

After all, this place is known for its exciting mining history (so it’d be rude not to!).

Talk about enriching romantic getaways in New Jersey that do it all!

Lambertville

Next on our list of amazing romantic getaways in New Jersey, we have Lambertville!

This is up there with the best romantic getaways in New Jersey if you love antiquing as there are tons of stores here.

We suggest checking out A Touch of the Past Antiques and The People’s Store , but they’re all great!

And if you need a bite to eat at any point, the Lambertville Station Restaurant and Inn is gorgeous.

Not only can you stay in one of the 46 available rooms, but the food is all seasonal and freshly made.

And really, what could be better than that if you’re searching for romantic getaways in New Jersey?

Romantic getaways in New Jersey: Princeton

Okay, so you might associate Princeton with the fancy Ivy League University.

But it’s also one of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey if you adore green spaces and quaint college vibes.

You can trawl through the hallowed halls of Princeton University itself or visit during autumn for the fall foliage.

And if you’re looking for more, why not head to the Grounds for Sculpture in nearby Hamilton?

It’s a mere 10 miles away and is home to so much artwork, beautiful flower gardens, and towering trees.

In short, it’s what puts Princeton up there with the best romantic getaways in New Jersey!

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The Mansion at Natirar

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If you’re looking for romantic getaways in New Jersey that are 100% wedding-worthy, check out Natirar .

This impressive 1912 mansion spans an immense square footage and offers huge lawns, a grand ballroom, and beautiful guest rooms.

It’s not strictly reserved for weddings, but you can easily see why people book it for the rolling hills alone!

Although it’s tricky to book a room here, we suggest visiting the amazing cooking school.

It’s a custom-designed facility that runs regular classes, and it’s a great way to bond with your significant other.

And hey, it’s always nice to find romantic getaways in New Jersey that offer something different!

Read more travel inspiration: 15 perfect winter weekend getaways from NYC

The Chateau Grande Hotel

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Next on my list of romantic getaways in New Jersey, it’s the beautiful The Chateau Grande Hotel.

The Chateau Grande Hotel is a captivating destination in New Jersey that beckons travelers with its timeless charm and unmatched hospitality.

This luxurious retreat offers a unique blend of modern comfort and old-world elegance. It’s like being whisked back in time, in the best way!

You’ll be greeted by the grandeur of their architecture, and perfect romantic vibes, ideal for romantic getaways in New Jersey.

Grand Cascades Lodge

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The Grand Cascades Lodge is our next suggestion for beautiful and romantic getaways in New Jersey.

Located in the scenic Sussex County, this is a big traditional-style resort, that will blow you both away.

With a beautiful indoor and outdoor pool, and spacious grounds to explore, this is one of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey, hands down.

This places oozes all the romance – and I know you’re gonna love it.

Sea Scape Manor

To round off our list of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey, we have the majestic Sea Scape Manor !

This amazing Bed and Breakfast is tucked away on a huge bluff surrounded by oak trees.

So, it’s a stunning setting for Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, and everything in between!

The views of the Atlantic are part of what makes this one of the best romantic getaways in New Jersey.

But you also get a gourmet breakfast and access to the beautiful gardens. Plus, you can even book special packages to dial things up a notch!

And realistically, who wouldn’t want a special occasion cake or a wonderful massage to boost their vacation?

It’s a classic pick for romantic getaways in New Jersey!

I hope this list of romantic getaways in New Jersey has given you loads of inspiration!

Elle-Rose is the owner and editor of The World and Then Some! She has been a professional travel writer for over 12 years, writing for many different publications, including this one. Elle-Rose is a city break expert, and she specializes in popular locations such as NYC, London, Las Vegas and Dubai, regularly visiting to stay on top of new attractions, restaurants and hotels. Elle-Rose is super active on TikTok (@theworldandthensome), and loves filming video content in the cities she visits - so go and say hello!

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The 10 best romantic getaways in NJ

With these romantic getaways in NJ, taking a trip to the Garden State might be the best decision you ever made

When you think of the best places for date ideas, New Jersey doesn’t typically come to mind. And spending a whole weekend there? Fugheddaboudit. Well, we hate to burst your bubble, but the Garden State is actually home to some of the most beautiful, historic, relaxing and unique escapes. Sure, there are plenty of fun activities and awesome things to in NJ, but did you know that the state is also a great place to, er, set the mood? From the best beaches  to wine tastings and restaurants in New Jersey , here are the ten best romantic getaways in NJ.

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Best romantic getaways in NJ

1.  Gamble in Atlantic City

Okay—Atlantic City might not be the most beautiful city in the world, but some of the hotels there certainly are. Stay at the Borgata or Harrah's where you can indulge in some pampering services from world-renowned spas like Elizabeth Arden Red Door and Spa Toccare, dining from top chefs like Bobby Flay, and maybe even walk away with some cash after a few rounds at the roulette. The only reason you’ll have to step outside is if you want to walk along the historic boardwalk to evoke some romance from the good ol’ days.

2.  Take a trip to the beach

There are no Snookies or Situations in sight at some of these stunning beaches in New Jersey. Spend the night at one of the historic B&Bs of Cape May like The Queen Victoria or the candlelit Gables Inn on Long Beach Island. Both are perched near quieter beaches, feature luxurious accommodations, and are within walking distance to some of the area’s top attractions.

3.  Go for a bike ride

You won’t have to dodge taxicabs and pedestrians during this relaxing bike ride. Head to Frenchtown where a beautiful rails-to-trails path awaits. Pick up a bike at Cycle Corner in town before hitting the trail that runs along the Delaware River. After a day of pedaling in nature, you can retire to The National Hotel or Widow McCrea B&B, which were both built in the 1800s. There's also an adorable shop in town called Two Buttons owned by Elizabeth Gilbert of “Eat, Pray, Love” fame with knick-knacks from all over the world.

4.  Stay in a castle

Castles aren’t just for Europe. There’s one right in the middle of Ringwood. Called Skyland’s Manor, the grand fifty-four-room granite Tudor Revival mansion is situated on one hundred acres of formal and naturalized gardens located in the New Jersey Botanical Gardens. Stay in one of the 24 newly restored guest rooms that boast views of the lush gardens and expansive grounds. You’ll truly feel like a king or queen for the night.

5.  Watch a drive-in movie

Take the night to step back to a simpler time. You can cozy up to the one you love in the states last remaining drive-in theater Delsea Drive-In, located in Vineland. There you’ll get two movies for the price of one in a regular theater and the sound comes through your car speakers. You can also embrace the old school date night by order snack like floats and chocolate covered pretzels from the concessions menu.

6.  Go wine tasting

Who knew Napa quality wines were right in our backyard?Home to more than 40 wineries, New Jersey offers plenty of options for wine tasting. Alba Vineyard & Winery is home to stunning vineyards in the central part of the state while Willow Creek Winery in Cape make is perfectly situated near the shore. Both do tastings and tours perfect for a romantic getaway.

7.  Go horseback riding

Whether you’re in the northern or southern part his state, there are a number of equestrian centers ready to get you back on a horse (or just on a horse period). Top View Riding Ranch offers guided rides along the scenic Paulinskill Valley trails and river. And Atlantic County’s D & D Stables provides trail rides on their picturesque 120-acre farm.

8.  Eat a romantic meal

It may not be a big state, but Jersey is packed full of top-notch restaurants that ooze romance. You’ll feel transported for the evening as you drive up the long road to Ninety Acres in Far Hills before indulging in a decadent meal. Also, Scarborough Fair in Sea Grit is all about privacy as each of the tables have their own dining alcove. Andrea’s Ristorante in Waldwick, Cafe Matisse in Rutherford, and Ivy Inn in Hasbrouck Heights are all great mood-setting options as well.

9.  Visit an art gallery

Hamilton—the city not the Broadway show—is home to a stunning outdoor sculpture garden. You can spend hours roaming the grounds checking out some interesting and head-scratching pieces. Then top off your romantic date with lunch or dinner at the onsite restaurant Rats. Reserve a seat outdoors and you’ll overlook the lake while being served delicious French cuisine.

10.  Hit the spa

Less than two hours from Manhattan lays Crystal Springs Resort, which is home to two of the most indulgent spas. Along with relaxing treatments like an invigorating agave salt glow or a decadent trifecta, you’ll get complimentary bonuses like a foot soak, homemade granola to much on, specialty chocolates, organic teas and pink champagne.

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50+ New Jersey Date Ideas: Romantic Things to do for Couples

By: Author coupletraveltheworld

Posted on Last updated: January 14, 2022

Categories Date Ideas , Romantic Things to Do

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We have you covered! No more boring indoor date nights with these unique date night ideas in NJ.   

If you are looking for the most romantic places and spots in New Jersey, we have hunted down 50+ of the best, whether you are looking for things to do at night or romantic things to do for couples in Jersey during the day – we got you!    

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Although New Jersey is a relatively small space in terms of size, it is jam-packed with so many different activities. If you’re wondering what to do for date night, check out these dates, perfect for the weekend.

Shore town Dates: Fun date night ideas

Boardwalk: Rent bicycles and cruise down Ocean City’s Boardwalk. With dozens of restaurants and shops to look through, Ocean City’s Boardwalk is fun for a day of activities. There is even a full mall to explore and do some shopping for a relaxing day trip. There are endless things to do as you stroll along the boards and enjoy the ocean air.

Ocean City Parasail: Gain a bird’s eye view of the Atlantic Ocean as you parasail up to 300 feet in the air! Strapped to your partner and attached to a parachute, parasailing is a great way to get a new perspective and appreciate the beauty Ocean City has to offer. Make sure its not too windy!

Jilly’s Arcade: With a combination of old favorites and brand-new games, Jilly’s Arcade is the best of both worlds for gamers. It is located on the boardwalk and is the perfect place to break out your competitive side with your partner. Bring on the nostalgia as you compete for high score on pinball and other classic games.

Manco & Manco Pizza: This pizza shop is an essential stop anytime you are in Ocean City. Grab your partner and experience the deliciousness of their famous cheese pizza. Although it’s no longer Mack & Manco, this reliable pizza shop is still as wonderful as ever. The pizza is perfect to enjoy after a long day at the beach or grab a box and enjoy it right by the water! They also have a larger eat-in restaurant on the boardwalk that was formerly a movie theater.

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Boardwalk: Spend your night walking through shops and eating treats along the 38 blocks of the Wildwood Boardwalk. With over two miles of activities, you can never be bored walking the boards. There are multiple rides, games, and attractions, making Wildwood the perfect place for a fun day or night with your significant other. Check out all three piers at night to make the most of any summer evening.

Boathouse Restaurant: If you love seafood, Boathouse Restaurant is the perfect place to grab a bite down the shore. Indulge in lobster and scallops with your partner for a meal that is sure to satisfy. Even if seafood is not your thing, their steak is a must try. Boathouse Restaurant provides beautiful views of the harbor and has the best drinks for a romantic evening.

Sunset Cinema’s Movies on the Beach: If you want to take the classic dinner and a movie date night to the next level, try watching the newest movies out on the beach! It’s similar to a drive-in movie, but movie-goers can relax on the beach and watch the premiere of a film on a 60-foot screen. Make sure you bring a blanket to stay warm and cuddle-up in the ocean breeze. Sunset Cinema has showings on favorable weather nights.  

Sea Isle City

Pirate Island Miniature Golf: Grab a ball and a putter to get your mini golf on at Pirate Island! For all pirate enthusiast, this is the perfect place to bring your partner. Show off your skills and try for a hole-in-one on your next date night.

Wakeside Watersports: If you and your partner are feeling adventurous, head down to Wakeside Watersports. Embrace your wild side by choosing from several fun activities including wakeboarding, parasailing, jet skiing, and tubing to make memories that last in Sea Isle City. Wakeside Watersports makes for a great gift or special occasion date!

Sea Isle Historical Museum: Calling all history buffs! Find out why Sea Isle City is called the “Venice of America” as you stroll the halls of this museum located conveniently in the same building as the library. With a super relaxing atmosphere and amazing views of the bay, this takes your typical museum trip to the next level.

Brigantine Seawall: Are you into long walks on the beach? Take a long walk along the Brigantine Seawall at night time. Take in the best views of the water for an intimate night with your partner. Watch the sunset and listen to the waves crashing along the shore for a romantic night you won’t soon forget.

Beach day: There’s no beach day like a day in Brigantine. Seek out a desolate spot and lay your towel down for a calm, cool, and collected day by the ocean. Whereas some other shore towns are about the hustle and bustle, Brigantine is the perfect place to relax. Take in the views of the beautiful beachfront homes and catch some sun in Brigantine.

Atlantic City

Casinos: Atlantic city is a gambler’s paradise. Test your luck – or put your strategies to the test with your partner in Atlantic City. Some of the most popular casinos in Atlantic City include Hard Rock Casino, Resorts Casino, Golden Nugget Casino, Tropicano Casino, Bally’s Casino, The Borgata, and Caesars Casino. There are so many to choose from, but your options are unlimited when it comes to a night of fun in Atlantic City. Whether you’re a gambler or not, Atlantic City’s casinos always provide a night of excitement.

Immersion Spa: If you want a date night to pamper you and your partner, book a day at the spa for some serious relaxation. Choose from a number of luxury treatments and enjoy an infinity pool to wind down after a long week. There is also a sauna and steam room available to spa-goers. You will never want to leave!

Steel Pier: Take a ride on the Ferris wheel and around the carousel at Steel Pier. There are several rides and games along the pier right over the water. At the end of the day, you can grab a bite to eat at one of the many pubs located right on the water.

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Cape May Brewing Company: If you have never tried one of the many drinks to come out of Cape May Brewing Company, you’re sure to find your new favorite after a guided tour of the brewery. Bring your significant other and try a vast assortment of beverages for your next date. Be sure to try the Cape May Cranberry Bog if you want something sweet!

East Lynne Theater Company: Instead of going to see a movie in theaters, head to another kind of theater for a play or a musical. East Lynne Theater Company is a beautiful building that has had dozens and dozens of amazing shows. Check out both traditional and original performances from a number of skilled performers.

The Pier House: Book a reservation at this aesthetically pleasing restaurant. With a large selection of meals and drinks, there is something for everyone at this upscale restaurant. Get dressed to impress and enjoy a romantic dinner for two at The Pier House.

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Romantic Restaurants in New Jersey: First dates in NJ

Il Villaggio: Transport yourself to Tuscany with a date night at Il Villaggio. Grab your favorite bottle of wine and enjoy tremendous food and company on the back patio at this beautiful little restaurant in Cherry Hill. Il Villaggio has an amazing staff, and you may even be serenaded by a guitar-strumming waiter! Sit under the string lights for a romantic ambiance on a warm night. The food is unforgettable; make this restaurant one of your date-night regulars.

The Frog and the Peach: With a menu as impressive as its name, The Frog and the Peach has amazing seafood and delicious wines that you must try. In a chic green house-style dining room complete with greenery and a semi-translucent ceiling, the atmosphere in The Frog and the Peach is unmatched. It is located in New Brunswick, and it is a favorite of the locals for any special occasion.

Chart House: Located in Weehawken, Chart House offers amazing views of New York City from across the Hudson River. Actually, the restaurant sits just above with water, and with floor to ceiling windows, the view is incredible. They offer delicious steak and seafood options, making this restaurant great for your next date.

Liberty House Restaurant: With views of the New York City Skyline, and meals as fresh as they come, Liberty House Restaurant is an essential place to try in New Jersey. It is located in Jersey City and has a stellar team of chefs preparing the freshest ingredients, including free-range chicken. For anyone appreciative of a good meal, Liberty House Restaurant is one that won’t be forgotten. While you are there, feel free to check out the most romantic things to do in Jersey City .

The ChopHouse: For steak that melts in your mouth, have your next date night at The ChopHouse. This restaurant overlooks Silver Lake and it absolutely beautiful at sunset. They offer delicious drink options; any night at The ChopHouse is sure to be a romantic one.

Li Beirut: In a 100-year old building in Collingswood, Li Beirut is a primarily Lebanese restaurant with a private garden that provides many of the flavors incorporated into their meals. Enjoy your meal outside on a warm summer night for an intimate date with your significant other.

Café Chameleon: Situated in Bloomindale, Café Chameleon is perfect for a date on a beautiful, sunny day. Enjoy your meal on the patio and choose from their large selection of cocktails on your next date.

Library II:  Yes, the name is exactly where you will be having your meal! Don’t worry, this night will be more fun than you would have at your average library. Library II is a steakhouse located within a large library with floor to ceiling shelves of books. This unique restaurant offers steaks cooked to perfection, as well as a number of delicious sides that you will crave.

The Capital Grille: For fine dining experience perfect for a first date, The Capital Grille is an amazing option. For savory steak and desserts prepared to perfection, you have to try The Capital Grille in Cherry Hill.

Fieni’s Ristorante: You might miss this quaint little Italian restaurant if you aren’t careful. Nestled in Voorhees, Fieni’s Ristorante provides an experience similar to a night around your family’s dinner table, with food that could be straight from an upscale restaurant in Northern Italy. Bring your own beverages and try the lobster ravioli in their famous carrot sauce!

Avenue Le Club: For an authentic French meal, head to Long Branch for a dinner at Avenue Le Club. Enjoy views of the ocean and sit by the fireplace as you indulge in their delicious French cuisine. While it’s no Paris, Avenue Le Club is definitely home to the best French meal New Jersey has to offer.

Elements: Located in Princeton, Elements is a restaurant that utilizes the finest ingredients and the most phenomenal preparation methods to provide a meal that truly can be called a work of art. The architecture is sleek and modern to complement the exquisitely plated dishes. For a night of fine dining, take your partner to Elements.

Ani Ramen: Forget about your Top Ramen and travel to one of the two Ani Ramen locations New Jersey has to offer. In both Montclair and Jersey City, Ani Ramen provides the ultimate Japanese-style cuisine with six different ramen options. They have numerous fresh ingredients to add to your dish that take plain old ramen to the next level.  

Zeppoli: Nestled in the beautiful Collingswood community, Zeppoli transports you with its Mediterranean cuisine straight to Sicily. With a small menu, and an even smaller dining area, Zeppoli makes for a quiet, intimate evening with someone you love. It’s also a BYOB.

Casual Bites in New Jersey

Central Taco and Tequila: For great margaritas and Mexican cuisine, go to Central Taco and Tequila for your next date night. They offer a variety of salsas that will be the highlight of your meal, adding flavor and authenticity to every dish. Central Taco and Tequila is located in Haddonfield.

The Rail Yard Tavern: Enjoy traditional American dishes and a drink at the bar at this bar and restaurant. The Rail Yard Tavern, in Fair Lawn, is a laid back dining experience that is perfect for a quick bite on date night.

Cinder Bar: With a selection of pizzas, small plates, sandwiches, and salads, Cinder Bar is a casual bar and restaurant with drinks that will make your night feel upscale. Try an espresso martini, or their coconut mojito, and enjoy the night with your partner. They often have live music on weekends, and they have an amazing brunch. Cinder Bar is great for any time of day!

The Village Pub: With locations in Sicklerville and Sewell, the Village Pub is of the same owner as Cinder Bar. The restaurants have a similar vibe, but you’ll notice the difference in atmosphere on their weekly trivia nights. Book your date on a Tuesday at Sicklerville, or a Wednesday in Sewell, and participate in trivia for some awesome prizes. See how much you and your partner know when you put your heads together and check out The Village Pub.

It’s Wine’o Clock

William Heritage Winery: Home of the famous Jersey Wines, William Heritage Winery is the perfect place for an afternoon date. Sit out on the farm and enjoy the occasional musical performance as you sip on a flight of wines. On a rainy day, sit inside the tasting room and enoy views of the farm, complete with farm animals. While they are the most well-known for their sweet flight, there is an extensive wine list to choose from. William Heritage Winery offers as assortment of items to snack on as you drink (and their pepperoni bread is a must-try.) William Heritage Winery is located in Mullica Hill. You may also want to check out their other tasting room, located in Haddonfield.

Blue Cork Winery and Vineyard: If a frozen wine slushy sounds good to you, grab your significant other and spend the day at Blue Cork Winery and Vineyard. Complete with a patio and fire pits, you can cozy up to your partner and taste as many wines as you can handle. Trust me, after you try, you will definitely be leaving with a bottle or two.

Valenzano Family Winery: For amazing wines with an amazing meal, check out Valenzano family winery. Put a face to the familiar name, or become acquainted with the Valenzano’s over a glass and a warm meal at Valenzano’s Family Winery in Shamong.

Tomasello Winery and Banquet Hall: Located in Hammonton, Tomasello Winery and Banquet Hall is great for dates and special events. This winery has stellar service and expertly paired foods to make your wine tasting experience as good as it can get. While Tomasello wines are prevalent in all liquor stores in New Jersey, nothing beats enjoying a class at the Winery it was made at.

Working Dog Winery: Formerly known as Silver Decoy Winery, Working Dog Winery is a quirky vineyard located in Hightstown that provides an affordable winery experience. Grab a bite to eat from one of the many food trucks and enjoy live music in the company of your significant other.

Amalthea Cellars Farm Winery: For a winery with a homey-feel, take a trip to Atco and have a glass of wine at Amalthea Cellars Farm Winery. It is the best place to take in the quiet scenery and have a calm afternoon.

Take a Hike – Great Fall New Jersey Date ideas

Mount Tammany is without a doubt the most popular hiking trail in New Jersey, and for good reason. Located within Worthington State Forest, this trail is great for those who are new to hiking but would like a bit of a challenge. Get out and get active with your partner. The view at the top is definitely worth it!

Stairway to Heaven Trail: Its namesake is exactly how the view can be described: heaven. This trail, located in Wawayanda State Park, offers amazing views of nature along the way. The view at the end is breathtaking, and you can even travel on the trail by bike! If you want to get out but would rather ride bicycles, take a bike ride with your partner up the Stairway to Heaven.

The Giant Stairs: If you’re looking for a challenge, The Giant Stairs most definitely delivers. While this hike is more of a rock climb, The Giant Stairs are a nice change of pace from your typical hiking experience. Take in views of the Hudson River as you near the end of your climb.

Buttermilk Falls: A hike at Buttermilk Falls is truly mesmerizing. At the top of the highest waterfall in New Jersey, Buttermilk Falls leads to the Appalachian Trail. This trail is perfect for nature lovers, and it is great for some bonding time with your partner.

Deep Cut Gardens: This is the perfect hike for those not looking to break a sweat. Deep Cut Gardens surrounds beautiful Koi Ponds and is complete with greenhouses that are enough to make your day feel magical. Deep Cut Gardens is every plant lover’s dream!

Columbia Trail: If you’re looking for a long trail to ride bicycles, walk, or even ride horse, Columbia Trail’s hike is perfect for you. With over 16 miles to travel, Columbia Trail is perfect for couples eager to get off the grid and in touch with nature, at least for a little while.

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Six Flags Great Adventure: Home of the tallest rollercoaster in the world, Kingda Ka, Six Flags is a nice change of pace from your normal date routine. Get your heart racing and your adrenaline going on one of the many rollercoasters Six Flags Great Adventure has to offer. There is also a drive-through Wild Safari that provides astonishing, close-up views and encounters with wild animals!

Keansburg Amusement Park: If you aren’t brave enough to handle Kingda Ka, you can still have an evening of amusement at Keansburg Amusement Park. Although it’s a more family-friendly location, Keansburg Amusement Park makes for a fun date on classic rides with your significant other.

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20 of the Most Romantic Things to Do in New Jersey

New Jersey boasts beautiful beaches, lush forests, and lively, upbeat cities. Imagine strolling along the boardwalk, hand-in-hand, with the love of your life. Maybe the two of you just grabbed ice cream cones to complete your picture-perfect evening, set before a brilliant sunset. Perhaps you’re on the way to a renowned music venue that even “The Boss” graced with his presence back in the day. You’ll find so many of the most romantic things to do in New Jersey! Whether you’re planning a birthday celebration, Valentine’s Day getaway, or need a few anniversary ideas, consider escaping to a Select Registry property in the Garden State!

1. Relieve Tension at Diggerland XL

Smashing cars can be therapeutic, right? There’s no better way to relieve the tension in your relationship than by tearing things up at Diggerland XL , a construction-themed adventure park. This adults-only amusement park allows you to operate and drive different heavy machinery with instruction from professionals. This may not be the most conventional romantic activity, but it is sure to get your adrenaline pumping!

2. Explore the Small Town of New Hope

. Perfect for a romantic day trip, New Hope boasts a small-town feel with big city attractions. Visitors may enjoy eclectic shopping, scenic riverside dining, vibrant nightlife, and plenty of fun events. Named one of “America’s Favorite Towns” by Bucks County, PA The charming town of New Hope is just over the New Jersey border in , a trip to New Hope is a must when you’re in NJ.

3. Stay at a Select Registry Property in New Hope

The inn at bowman’s hill.

Opt for an in-suite massage or soak in an oversized heated whirlpool or hot tub at the Inn at Bowman’s Hill. After exploring the arts and culture scene in New Hope, spend a relaxing evening admiring stunning panoramic views that encompass the property.

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Woolverton Inn

Travelers will find Woolverton Inn perched high above the Delaware River and surrounded by 300 acres of rolling farmland and forest. Located in Stockton, NJ, this property is just minutes away from both Lambertville and New Hope. Revel in the luxurious experience at this 1792 stone manor bed and breakfast.

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4. Visit Lambertville

The City of Lambertville, New Jersey is located on the western edge of Central New Jersey along the Delaware River. Filled with antique stores, art galleries, and cozy coffee shops, this small town is perfect for couples who are interested in art and history. The city was first settled in the 18th century and was a popular stopping point for stagecoaches on the New York to Philadelphia route. Its streets remain lined with well-preserved federal townhouses and Victorian homes to this day.

5. Hike the Longest Trail in the World

>Sometimes you just want to enjoy nature and all its wonders. There is no better way to do this than to hike along the Appalachian Trail. The trail stretches an entire 72 miles in New Jersey before creeping into the state of New York. Bring your camera, because along the way you will encounter some of the most breathtaking views of Stokes State Forest, Kittatinny Mountains, and the beautiful Sunrise Mountain. This is the perfect outdoor adventure for capturing a stunning photo of you and your significant other with one of these backdrops behind you.

6. Go Tubing Along the Delaware River

One of the greatest spots in all of New Jersey to go tubing is along the Delaware River. This river runs along the borders of New Jersey and Pennsylvania, and offers calm waters. You might even come across whitewater rapids, if you’re looking for a thrill! Check out the Delaware River Tubing company to view all of the rentals they have to offer for tubing, rafting, canoeing, and kayaking. They even offer a selection of food including hot dogs and hamburgers if you’re hungry!

7. Fulfill Your Need for Speed

The Speed Raceway is the ultimate indoor electric go-kart facility in the area. The custom-built indoor track will leave you wanting more after you race around the first turn. This is a great date idea for you and your significant other to let loose and get competitive with one another.  After you finish racing on the track, head on over to the arcade to play some of the best old-school games.

8. Stroll Along the Seaside Heights Boardwalk

Whether you’ve seen a Jersey Shore boardwalk on an episode of The Sopranos or Jersey Shore, you might enjoy promenading along one yourselves. Take a stroll down the Seaside Heights Boardwalk that is lined with different tourist shops, an arcade, an ice cream parlor, and a small amusement park. To top it off you can admire a sunset while walking down the boardwalk near dusk. It’s the perfect spot to steal a kiss from your significant other!

9. Stay at a Select Registry Property in North Jersey

Chateau inn & suites.

Spend your romantic getaway at Chateau Inn & Suites , a stunning historic inn on the Northern stirp of the Jersey Shore. Revel in the sophisticated style and beautiful decor that adorns the walls of this charming property.

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10. Enjoy a Concert at the Stone Pony

The Stone Pony is one of New Jersey’s best-known venues that people come to visit from all over the country. Local stars such as Bruce Springsteen, Southside Johnny, and Steve Van Zandt helped kick-start the success of this music venue. Today, there is a wide variety of concerts that take place here from heavy metal shows to country shindigs. There’s no doubt you’ll be able to find a show to attend here while visiting New Jersey.

11. Go Shopping at the Best Malls

Sometimes all you need is a little retail therapy. Treat yourselves to a shopping spree at some of the best malls in the region. If this is something that you want to do during your trip, New Jersey has some of the best places to spend your hard earned cash. A popular place to splurge is at The Mall at Short Hills where you can find every high-end store you could imagine. And the best part? New Jersey doesn’t have a sales tax to pay for clothes or shoes.

12. Discover Cape Ma

Known as America’s oldest seaside resort, Cape May has a rich history and elegant atmosphere that exudes romance. Each year, millions of couples travel to the Jersey Cape to enjoy its pristine beaches and admire spectacular Victorian homes. Tour lighthouses, take a trolley tour, go whale watching, or spend the afternoon at a winery. The options are endless! If you’re looking for winter date ideas, you’re in luck. Cape May has one of the best Christmas celebrations in the country. This makes it an excellent option for couples in search of a holiday getaway . Cozy up to your significant other and enjoy everything from colorful parades and parties to festive tree lighting ceremonies – all just steps from the sand.

13. Rest Your Head at a Select Registry Property in Cape May

The mainstay inn & cottage.

Admire the grand atmosphere that permeates throughout the premises of the Mainstay Inn & Cottage . Enjoy their famous afternoon tea, admire elegant furnishings, and stroll through their immaculate gardens. There’s no better place to spend quality time with the person who means the most to you.  

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The Queen Victoria Bed & Breakfast Inn

Stay one block away from the Atlantic Ocean in the Queen Victoria Bed & Breakfast Inn . Each room has its own unique charm thanks to fine antiques and handmade quilts. This stunning Victorian-inspired property boasts porches, gardens, and a rooftop sundeck studded with fifty rocking chairs for ultimate relaxation.

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14. Delight in a Romantic Horse and Carriage Ride

Live like royalty for the evening! Nothing says romance like visiting Echo Lake Stables  where you can go on a horse and carriage ride through the trail. You can even ride at night while gazing at the stars. There’s also an option available to go horseback riding if that is more your speed. This is a perfect date idea to relax and unwind after a long day of exciting activities.

15. Relax and Unwind

If you really just want to spend time with your significant other relaxing and taking a break from your everyday lives, then treat yourselves to a luxurious day spa. Bangz Salon & Wellness Center offers many different spa packages ranging from deep tissue massages to 24 kt. Gold facials. We recommend getting the “Golden Ritual for Two” package as it is an exclusive treatment for couples with Champagne throughout the whole service.

16. Try Your Hand at Winemaking

Try making your very own wine at the Grape Escape . This magical place allows you to personalize your very own bottle of wine by choosing the region, grape type, barrel type, and the amount of aging it will receive. They lead you through each of the important steps in making wine. This is an amusing date idea to enjoy with your significant other!

17. Get Out on the Water

Cruise through the waterways of New Jersey on different sightseeing tours that take you all over the Garden State and even up through New York! Opt for a smooth, scenic tour with SeaStreak ferries . If peacefully cruising through the water isn’t quite your cup of tea, check out Silver Bullet Tours for a thrilling escapade. Board the world’s largest and fastest speedboat custom-designed for a wild, 90-minute tour. Whatever your pace may be, you and your sweetheart are guaranteed the experience of a lifetime. You might even see some dolphins!

18. Sign up for a Photo Shoot

What better way to capture your love for one another than getting professional photos taken? Allow Ephemera Photographics of Long Branch, NJ to bring out your individual personalities as they are captured behind the lens of the camera. These photos will make your romantic trip to New Jersey one that you will remember for a lifetime.

19. Grab a Bite to Eat

Whether you’re in the mood for a romantic candlelit dinner or hungry for “Fat Sandwich,” you and your sweetheart will find that New Jersey is home to amazing dining experiences. If you’re staying out late, you can satisfy your 3 a.m. hunger at a local diner. Share some laughs and a greasy plate of hash browns at Chit Chat , Coach House , or Tick Tock before heading back to your home away from home!

20. Stay at a Select Registry Property in New Jersey

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Retreat to Wooden Duck Bed & Breakfast’s secluded estate in Northern New Jersey. Whether you’re looking to hide away all week, surrounded by the rollings hills of Sussex County, or hoping to spend most of your time exploring all the area has to offer, you’re guaranteed the romantic getaway you both deserve when you stay at this spectacular property.

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10 Weekend Romantic Getaways in NJ You’ll Want to Book Immediately

Are you a New Yorker looking for a romantic escape? Or a Garden State couple that wants a weekend change of scenery? You’re in luck — romantic getaways in NJ aren’t hard to find.

Romance is different for everyone. Some love a mountain retreat, while other couples find peace on the Atlantic Ocean. Still others prefer historic sites, hiking trails or a charming bed and breakfast.

No matter your love language, there’s no shortage of romantic things to do in New Jersey.

Find your romantic weekend getaway in one of these three categories:

• Jersey Shore Romantic Getaway
• Western New Jersey Romantic Getaway

Weekend Getaways Near New York City

Let’s get started with some of the best weekend retreats on the East Coast featuring romantic getaways in NJ.

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Jersey Shore Romantic Getaways

Long beach island (ocean county).

LBI isn’t a secret to anyone — but this is one popular Jersey shore town that earns its reputation. It’s a barrier island that features six towns with lovely beaches, romantic accommodations and good food.

Start your LBI romantic getaway at Barnegat Lighthouse State Park . It’s a coastal NJ state park with unique features — check out the trail through one of NJ’s last maritime forest areas. The historic lighthouse “Old Barney” is a cute place to birdwatch, fish or picnic.

Travel south from Barnegat and visit one of NJ’s most beautiful miniature golf courses. Adventure Golf in Beach Haven isn’t your typical “putt-putt course” — its 2 courses feature beautiful landscaping, caves and waterfalls. You’ll play through caves and cross a swinging bridge while you play. It’s a golf course adults can certainly enjoy on a date.

After you enjoy LBI’s 18 miles of beaches and bay attractions, you need to relax. There’s plenty of B&B, hotel and house rental options available around the island. Windward at the Beach is a boutique hotel in Beach Haven with eclectic accommodations and features.

Just down the block from Windward is Williams Cottage Inn, a highly-rated bed and breakfast. This charming sea green B&B features eight guest rooms, and your stay includes a two-course gourmet breakfast.

• Windward at the Beach : 200 S Atlantic Ave, Beach Haven, NJ
• Williams Cottage Inn , 506 S Atlantic Ave, Beach Haven, NJ

Weekend Stay in Cape May (Cape May County)

A weekend stay in Cape May is less about “doing things” and more about enjoying the view. Widely considered one of the East Coast’s best shore points, Cape May blends historic charm, deluxe hotels and enjoyable beaches.

Many couples plan their trip around the town’s seasonal events. Visit the official Cape May event calendar for a list of upcoming events. There’s plenty of shopping near the beaches — take advantage of reasonable metered parking and see Washington Street Mall and the independent shops that surround it.

The Mason Cottage is a lovely place for couples to stay on a Cape May weekend retreat. This Victorian bed and breakfast blends vintage aesthetics with modern amenities. Book a romantic hotel suite and wake up to a two-course gourmet breakfast. Then, take advantage of the Mason Cottage’s inn concierge to plan your day.

If you want a luxury hotel at the Jersey Shore , stay at Lokal Hotel . This micro beach resort features 12 ultra-private rooms with full kitchens, bar seating and private outdoor areas. Lokal offers a private outdoor cooking area and heated saltwater pool, as well as personal beach concierge service.

• The Mason Cottage : 623 Columbia Ave, Cape May, NJ
• Lokal Hotel Cape May : 5 Stockton Pl, Cape May, NJ

Ocean Grove and Asbury Park (Monmouth County)

Couples who crave a little culture with their Jersey Shore experience, take note. The adjacent towns of Ocean Grove and Asbury Park pack a combination of romance and unique date spots that are hard to find elsewhere.

Asbury Park’s revitalized downtown is a hub of great restaurants, shops and music venues. This isn’t your parents’ Asbury — gastropubs, coffee shops and upscale bars line the streets. There’s a series of great art galleries like Exhibit No. 9 and La Salle Gallery.

Music lovers take in great local shows at the legendary Stone Pony and the House of Independents. Both venues offer a combination of notable acts and up-and-coming artists.

The Asbury Ocean Club Hotel is a jaw-dropping Jersey Shore luxury hotel with a garden pool terrace, exquisite drawing room, and spacious lofts and suites.

If you desire a quieter stay, book your room in Ocean Grove. It’s a lovely escape from downtown Asbury Park, with charming houses and a lovely beach. The Ocean Plaza Hotel is popular among couples who want a cozy retreat.

• Asbury Ocean Club Hotel : 1101 Ocean Ave N, Asbury Park, NJ
• Ocean Plaza Hotel : 18 Ocean Pathway, Ocean Grove, NJ

Spring Lake Bed & Breakfast Inns (Monmouth County)

Spring Lake is one of NJ’s most picturesque towns. The streets are lined with small shops and quaint eateries, and couples can enjoy a stroll on the beach or around the fountain on Spring Lake itself.

But the true standout of this quiet shore town is the assortment of bed and breakfast inns.

Each of Spring Lake’s B&Bs offers different amenities and aesthetic features. The Ocean House sits one block from the beach and offers breakfast service, coffee bar, and a special early riser bakery.

The Chateau Inn and Suites offers 36 guest rooms and one-bedroom suites. Their Vienne lounge provides complimentary gourmet coffee and a variety of teas to guests. Couples can relax on the Johnson House’s wraparound porch just 1⁄2 block from the Spring Lake boardwalk.

• The Ocean House , 102 Sussex Ave., Spring Lake, NJ
• The Chateau Inn and Suites : 500 Warren Ave, Spring Lake, NJ
• The Johnson House : 25 Tuttle Ave, Spring Lake, NJ

Western New Jersey Weekend Getaways

Crystal springs resort (sussex county).

Crystal Springs Resort is a full vacation unto itself. Escape to this five-star luxury resort on the Appalachian Mountain Trail for 6 golf courses, spa treatments, swimming, 9 on-site dining options and day trip excursions.

Choose from two property hotels — Grand Cascades Lodge and Mineral Hotel. Experience a four-star meal at Restaurant Latour, then retreat to Crystal Springs’ world-renowned wine cellar for an after-dinner drink.

Be sure to book time at Reflections Spa, one of the top luxury spas in New Jersey . Couples can literally soak in the romance with offerings like the Crushed Cabernet Scrub. Book a Chardonnay and Nectar Couples Bliss treatment for a 100-minute side-by-side massage.

Crystal Springs Resort is located roughly an hour from New York City — a reasonable drive for a luxurious couples’ weekend.

• Crystal Springs Resort : 1 Wild Turkey Way, Hamburg, NJ

Lambertville Shop & Stay Weekend (Hunterdon County)

Lambertville sits across the Delaware River from its more famous “sister town”, New Hope. Lambertville has plenty of charm of its own — and it’s a great chance to visit two riverside towns for the price of one.

Start your romantic weekend with a short trip to the Howell Living History Farm in Hopewell. You’ll be transported back to the year 1900 and get a hands-on farm experience. You can help plant crops, shear sheep, or try your hand at maple sugaring!

Lambertville is a must-visit town for vintage and antique lovers. The “Antiques Capital of NJ” offers an assortment of intriguing shops. Check out The People’s Store , a collective of 40 dealers in a three-story building. The Golden Nugget Flea Market is open three days a week.

A quick walk over the Lambertville-New Hope Bridge reveals a ton of great shopping and culture in New Hope. Watch a show at Bucks County Playhouse, then browse the street-side shops for arts and crafts. The best restaurant in town may be Zoubi, which offers al fresco dining and an outdoor bar.

The Woolverton Inn in Stockton is an 8-minute drive from Lambertville. It’s an elegant country bed and breakfast with 14 unique cottages and guest rooms. It’s well worth the short drive out of town to stay at a bed & breakfast rated one of America’s 10 best.

• Woolverton Inn : 6 Woolverton Rd, Stockton, NJ

Princeton University and Palmer Square (Mercer County)

Princeton is more than its historic university. The town itself is an idyllic blend of colonial architecture and modern shopping and dining. The best place to discover Princeton’s charm is Palmer Square.

Palmer Square sits opposite Princeton University’s main entrance off Nassau Street. Shop at trendy clothiers like Highbar Boutique, NIC + ZOE, and Ralph Lauren. Then stop at Art on Hulfish for a photography-focused look at today’s art scene.

Dining at every quality restaurant near Palmer Square would take weeks. Mediterra Restaurant and Taverna is a local favorite — the seafood options and wine menu are highlights. The Alchemist and Barrister (A&B) offers excellent American pub fare.

After your meal, choose from several outstanding Princeton dessert spots. The Bent Spoon serves hand-crafted artisan ice cream flavors like lavender mascarpone and lemon-NJ peach. Chez Alice Patisserie is an airy cafe that serves Parisian desserts — try the macarons, beignets and the decadent raspberry Napoleon.

The best way to enjoy Palmer Square is to stay at Nassau Inn . The Inn’s stone facade is a tribute to its history, and gives way to 188 chic guest rooms and suites. Step outside the Nassau Inn and directly onto Palmer Square for weekend activities.

• Nassau Inn : 10 Palmer Square, Princeton, NJ

Jersey City Waterfront (Hudson County)

Couples don’t have to “escape the city” to find romance. The Jersey City Waterfront offers plenty of exciting options for a weekend along the NJ side of the Hudson River.

Spend an afternoon at Liberty State Park for a taste of nature near the city. Museum-loving couples should stop by Liberty Science Center for its interactive exhibits and world-class Jennifer Chalsty Planetarium.

Jersey City’s vintage shopping scene is vastly underrated. Discover hidden JC gems like Kanibal & Co. and Another Man’s Treasure. There’s also a great array of coffee shops — try Gregorys Coffee on Exchange Place or Hidden Grounds on 1st Street.

If you’re visiting the Jersey City Waterfront, you must explore the Hudson River Waterfront Walkway. NYC dwellers get a great new vantage point of their city, while NJ residents can taste city life along the water.

The Hyatt Regency Jersey City blends lovely views with excellent convenience. With rooms overlooking the Hudson River and a location close to the PATH train and NYC ferries, you’ll be quite happy with your choice of hotel.

• Hyatt Regency Jersey City on the Hudson : 2 Exchange Place, Jersey City, NJ

Morristown Green & Historic Sites (Morris County)

Morristown is a historic Morris County town with a refurbished downtown. The Morristown Green is a vibrant hub for romantic restaurants, busy bars and arts centers.

The Fig & Lily Garden is a Morristown restaurant with a beautiful courtyard dining area. Their menu combines Eastern Mediterranean cuisine with locally sourced New Jersey ingredients. The Committed Pig is an award-winning restaurant with tremendous food and service — smart couples call ahead for reservations.

If you like a little history, check out the Morristown National Historic Park and Jockey Hollow. You’ll see original buildings where George Washington’s Continental Army stayed, as well as Washington’s Headquarters. Finish your sightseeing with a trip to the Morris Museum and enjoy their rotation of current exhibits and musical performances.

Morristown’s a quick car ride from great shopping and scenery in Short Hills. Couples can spend a beautiful afternoon at Frelinghuysen Arboretum, a gorgeous assortment of trees and gardens that’s free to visit.

The Madison Hotel is a fantastic choice for lodging that reflects modern Morristown. The updated amenities retain their historic charm, and its location on Convent Road places it near everywhere you want to explore.

• The Madison Hotel : 1 Convent Rd, Morristown, NJ

Ramapo Valley Reservation and NJ Botanical Gardens (Bergen County)

The Ramapo Valley County Reservation encompasses 4,000 acres of forests, parks and camping areas. It offers kayak access to the Ramapo River, well-marked hiking trails, and catch-and-release fishing (with proper NJ license).

If you’re a couple that loves outdoor winter activities, cross-country skiing is popular during the winter months. There are several gorgeous ponds to relax near during warmer months. The Reservation is less than 30 minutes from the George Washington Bridge by car.

The nearby NJ Botanical Gardens in Ringwood is one of NJ’s most romantic destinations. Within 1,000 acres of woodlands lies 96 sprawling acres of garden space. There’s a beautiful garden for every taste — wildflowers, hostas and rhododendrons, perennials, annuals, and the stunning lilac garden. Walk through the statues and lily-adorned fountains of the Italianate gardens.

Stay at The Castle at Skylands Manor , a boutique venue located inside the NJ Botanical Gardens. It’s the perfect place to relax after a day’s hiking and exploration. Enjoy one of their 21 well-appointed suites or overnight rooms.

• The Castle at Skylands Manor , 5 Morris Rd, Ringwood, NJ

Your Romantic Getaways in NJ Are Ready to Book

There’s a beautiful weekend trip for couples everywhere you look in New Jersey. Will you enjoy a weekend by the sea, or walk some of the Garden State’s stunning forests and gardens?

Are you a couple that likes the bed and breakfast lifestyle? Do you prefer a luxury hotel that lets you choose your own adventures? Or is an urban oasis your idea of decadent romance?

The true luxury of New Jersey weekend getaways is the abundance of choices. No matter how you and your partner define “romance”, you’ll find your perfect romantic getaways in NJ. Enjoy!

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The Most Romantic Getaways in New Jersey

Looking for romantic getaways in New Jersey? You’re in luck! Check out our list of the best spots in NJ to sneak away with your partner!

The Garden State truly offers an adventure for everyone. With beautiful beach towns, dynamic city escapes, and small towns tucked away in the mountains, there are plenty of romantic getaways in New Jersey to keep your relationship poppin’. Let’s dive into some of the incredible options that NJ offers and find your next romantic weekend getaway.

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New Jersey is a playground for city lovers! Whether you want to take an engaging patriotic scavenger hunt in Trenton , a Revolutionary War hunt in Morristown , or a Hoboken Harbor hunt , Let’s Roam has an adventure for you and your partner to take on together! Our hunts feature iconic sightseeing blended with hilarious photo and video challenges, difficult trivia, and a chance to compete against other couples to top the city’s leaderboard!

Some New Jersey Tidbits

New Jersey is often looked upon as just the more budget-friendly neighborhood of NYC, but there is so much more to the Garden State than vibrant Newark. One of the best things about New Jersey is that you spend your Friday night in Manhattan and hope over the Hudson to spend your Sunday afternoon hiking a portion of the Appalachian Trail. You might even have time to spend Saturday morning on the beach!

New Jersey is one of the smallest states, covering just 8,723 square miles, which means you can get to all of its varied landscapes with just a short drive! The 2021 population of New Jersey was 9.267 million people, which is densely populated. In fact, according to Governing.com , five of the top 6 most densely populated cities in the United States are in New Jersey. While that might sound like a nightmare to some of you, it’s also worth contemplating why so many Americans have flocked to this little state. Perhaps, it’s worth checking out for yourself!

The Most Romantic Getaways in NJ

1. cape may.

Cape May tops most of the lists for romantic getaways in NJ, and for good reason. The Victorian charm of this seaside village emanates romance and has been drawing lovers to the Jersey Shores for decades. With plenty of sightseeing options, Cape May offers something for every kind of couple.

Who Will Love It

Oenophiles will love Cape May for Willow Creek Winery. Obviously, beach lovers will find solace in this historic resort town, and live music lovers will get their fill with a visit to The Ebbit Room, the annual Jazz Festival, or a major concert at the convention center.

Cape May is a wonderful spot for relaxation. Pull up an oceanfront chair and enjoy a day watching the waves. Take a hike to Cape May Lighthouse for a stunning view, or take a whale-watching tour. Peruse the glorious Victorian architecture of the Historic District. Pop in its eateries and fine boutiques. For date night, get dressed up and enjoy the piano bar at the historic Virginia Hotel. Don’t forget to uncover the hidden history of Cape May on our “ Historic Highs and Downtown ” scavenger hunt!

Where to Stay

While there are many charming places to stay in Cape May, ranging from fairly affordable vacation rentals to Victorian bed and breakfasts to high-end hotels, one of the most romantic lodgings is Congress Hall . This lovely boutique hotel has been welcoming visitors since 1816 and claims to be “America’s First Seaside Resort.” It boasts well-appointed suites, a lovely outdoor pool area, a full-service spa, and three restaurants and lounges. It also features full-service amenities like pool-side or beach-side food and drink service.

2. Lambertville

Lambertville is a small town just across the Delaware River from New Hope, Pennsylvania. If you are looking to escape the hustle and bustle of the densely packed cities, Lambertville offers one of the most charming romantic getaways in NJ and might be your perfect spot.

Antique lovers will find themselves in paradise in the little town of Lambertville, and so will foodies. Lambertville is full of fantastic coffee shops, fine dining options, and small-town cafes. Not to mention that is the antique capital of New Jersey with almost as many vintage stores as people.

Obviously, if you head for Lambertville, you are going to want to bring some spare cash for antique shopping. Lovers will enjoy the walk along the Delaware River to the pedestrian bridge crossing over into New Hope. The bridge offers spectacular views of the area, and New Hope has even more great antique shops. Lambertville Station Restaurant and Inn have a magical herb garden and wine cellar which makes for a romantic dinner option. Make sure to grab a scoop (or three) of local homemade ice cream at Owowcow Creamery!

There is no use in stressing yourself out looking for a spot in Lambertville, just tuck in upstairs after your dinner at one of the 46 guest rooms at Lambertville Station Restaurant and Inn . It’s part resort, part cabin, and has a quaint charm all its own. From the floor-to-ceiling windowed dining room to the classic guest rooms with river views, to wedding-venue quality grounds, The Stations provides everything you need for a romantic weekend.

3. Princeton

Yep! It’s that Princeton, like home to Ivy League Princeton University, Princeton. Like most major university towns, Princeton offers beautiful green spaces. Plus, it boasts plenty of recreational activities and an elegant ambiance.

If you and your boo like to swing a club then the pristine golf courses of Princeton are the optimal romantic getaway in New Jersey for you. It also draws in architecture lovers to ponder the craftsmanship of its Gothic university buildings. There is also plenty of nostalgia for history lovers and fantastic art museums for creatives.

Start your weekend with our “ Princeton Flourish ” scavenger hunt and learn some interesting trivia about the old girl. From there, take a walking tour of the city and feast your eyes on its incredible architecture. Take a paddle in the Raritan Canal. It’s especially beautiful when the fall foliage changes colors. Pop in the Princeton University Museum of Art to peruse 80,000 pieces of art and historic artifacts. Visit the atrium at 1756 Nassau Hall. Take a walk through Princeton Battlefield State Park. You could also opt to take a tour of Drumthwacket Foundation, the official home of the governor of New Jersey. If it’s cherry blossom season, make sure to drive the 10 miles out to Hamilton’s Grounds for Sculpture park and wander its 42 acres of whimsical art.

There are two popular boutique hotels for lovers in Princeton. The Peacock Inn draws attention for its 16 luxury rooms and a fashionable afternoon tea time, as well as an on-site fine dining restaurant. The hotel is located within a Colonial mansion dating back to the 1700s.

The other option is the Nassau Inn which is located on Palmer Square. This is a vibrant area at the heart of the action. Step outside your door to grab a gourmet treat from any of the artisanal ice cream shops or upscale eateries. The 3-star inn offers a mixture of accommodation options and offers a quaint charm. The original inn was opened in 1756 and hosted the likes of Paul Revere. You can still gather around the common room fireplace just as the Revolutionaries would have hundreds of years ago. Though the location has changed since then, the inn retains many historic elements and is an interesting stay.

4. Atlantic City

Welcome to “America’s Playground!” Atlantic City is a blast, boasting everything from hilarious comedy shows to glitzy casinos and one of the most famous boardwalks in the world. Whatever you and your boo do for fun, you can probably find it here!

Well, those who have an affinity for slot machines will certainly find their home in the casinos of Atlantic City. However, those with a fondness for nostalgia will also enjoy the arcades and traditional games along the boardwalk.

Start your weekend with our “ Roll the Dice in America’s Playground ” scavenger hunt. Impress your partner with your gaming expertise along Steel Pier. Stroll the 4 miles of boards on the boardwalk. Ride the Ferris Wheel. Dine in any one of the incredible seaside restaurants. Spend the evening testing your luck at the slots. Also, take a climb up one of the weirdest roadside attractions in the United States , the giant elephant, Lucy.

We step away from the romantic bungalow hotel for this one into the luxury, 43-story, Waterclub at Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa. If you and your love want to get pampered, this baby has two full floors of spa facility, multiple heated swimming pools, and urban loft suites that feature king beds, floor-to-ceiling windows, spa bathrooms with two-person soaking tubs, and much more!

For a little more inspiration, take a look at “ The Best Things to Do in Atlantic City, New Jersey. ”

5. Ocean Grove and Asbury Park

Like Atlantic City, Asbury Park is another lively boardwalk destination on the Atlantic Ocean, but it has a reputation for petty crime, especially at night. Within walking distance, is the small Methodist resort community of Ocean Grove which is its antithesis in pretty much every way. Asbury features all the great live entertainment you expect from the Jersey Shore, with nightlife staples like the Stone Pony, famous for helping launch the careers of Bruce Springsteen and Bon Jovi. Ocean Grove is lined with Victorian mansions and a quiet place to spend the night.

If you love ocean views, fantastic food, and live music, then Asbury park is the ideal romantic getaway in NJ for you and your boo!

You could spend all weekend in the extravagant Silverball Retro Arcade challenging each other to vintage pinball tournaments. If there is a concert at Stone Pony, you must do that. Otherwise, spend your days waltzing the long boardwalk and enjoying the waves. Oh, and enjoy a nice dinner and a great beer from Asbury Festhalle and Biergarten, or splurge on French cuisine at Pascal & Sabine. These two little coastal towns also offer great proximity to more popular Jersey Shore beach towns like Longbranch to the north and Belmar just to the south.

While you could certainly pop a squat at the lovely Asbury Ocean Club Hotel for a resort stay, if you are looking for something more laid-back, check out St. Laurent Social Club . It offers 20 rooms with modern decor within a historic inn. The service model here is more like a typical vacation rental, where there is no on-site staff, and check-in and check-out are done through your phone. If you are an introvert that may sound like heaven to you, for the socialites, it probably sounds awful. To each his own.

If you want to stay in quiet Ocean Grove, there are many small guesthouses, but The Ocean Grove Plaza Hotel has been an award-winning accommodation for over a century. It boasts the TripAdvisor certificate of excellence for the last 11 years running. With three stories, featuring full wrap-around porches, the Victorian beauty offers panoramic ocean views, stellar breakfast, and slightly dated, but clean and comfortable guest rooms.

6. The Wildwoods

The Wildwoods are a collection of four towns, all with the name “wildwood” in them, that occupy an island just a few miles from Cape May. It’s a popular weekend resort area due to its stunning beaches, waterparks, and plethora of seaside restaurants.

If you have a soft spot for 1950s kitsch, then Wildwood is the best romantic getaway in NJ for you. The area is known for what locals call “Doo-Wop” architecture, and the whole place feels like taking a step back to a simpler time.

Explore the vintage boutiques for some excellent shopping. Take a sunset dinner cruise or a dolphin sightseeing tour. Spend the day with artisanal ice cream in hand, riding the rollercoasters or the Ferris wheel on the boardwalk. Visit the Doo Wop Experience Museum or peruse the giant farmer’s market. If you are feeling a little young at heart, then spend an afternoon at one of the waterparks.

While there are several kitschy resort hotels, like Starlux, located near Morey’s Pier, we wouldn’t say any of them are particularly romantic. However, there are some cute condos and stand-alone cottages on Airbnb that you could check.

7. Hammonton

Off the beaten path, Hammonton is officially known as the blueberry capital of the world. If you are looking for a romantic getaway in NJ that is free of crowds, then Hammonton is a good bet.

Oenophiles will love Hammonton. In the middle of New Jersey Wine Country, Hammonton features several lovely farms and vineyards that you can make a weekend out of.

Take a wine-tasting tour hopping from Dimatteo Vineyards to White Horse Winery, onto Plagido’s Winery, and then finally to Tomasello Winery & Banquet Hall. When you are sick of wine, pop in for a golden refresher at Three 3’s Brewing Company. Visit the historic Batsto Village which features wooden homes from the 1800s and the glorious Batsto Mansion. Take a hike through Wharton State Forest, or pick your own blueberries at Lindsay’s Farm.

While temporarily closed for rezoning, the most romantic spot to stay near Hammonton is The Farmhouse at White Horse Winery . Located among the vines, the charming white farmhouse offers six comfortable guest rooms, a fantastic complementary breakfast, and stunning views from the big front porch!

8. Frenchtown

Frenchtown is another spot to get away from the hustle in Western New Jersey, right on the Pennsylvania border.

Frenchtown is an idyllic romantic getaway for adventurous couples with kayaking in The Delaware & Raritan Canal State Park and a biking track that runs riverside all the way to the capital city of Trenton.

Visit the Downtown Historic District which is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Take in live music or a poetry reading at the ArtYard. Peruse the boutique shops and small art galleries for hidden gems, and check out the retro toy collection and gourmet eats at the Sunbeam General Store. If you are feeling adventurous, take a kayak tour on the canal, or rent a bike and ride the 35 miles to Trenton for the day. It’s a beautiful, forested bike path that skirts right along the Delaware River to the city. If you want to visit in July, Frenchtown has a truly French festival celebration Bastille Day annually on the 14th.

National Hotel has been hosting guests since 1850 when the recreational boom of the day was pleasure boating on the canal. It stands on the site of an older inn that was a stagecoach stop and brothel built in 1833. The current hotel features an open bar with karaoke, jazz, and open mic nights. It also boasts its own steakhouse and newly revamped guest rooms.

9. Long Beach Island

LBI is famed for its gorgeous swaths of white sand beaches! Unlike the busy boardwalk beachfront we have discussed thus far, Long Beach Island is much more laid back.

LBI is famous for its watersports. If you are a pair that loves paddleboarding or parasailing, then LBI is the perfect spot for you!

The white sand beaches of LBI are flanked by two wilderness areas, ripe for exploring. Check out Barnegat Lighthouse State Park in the north and work your way down the coastline to Edwin B. Forsythe National Wildlife Refuge in the South. In between, there are six small coastal towns to choose from or hop between. The town of Beach Haven does have a small boardwalk if you want that atmosphere, but the further south you go on the island, the more commercialized and family-friendly it gets.

If you want to stay in the more luxe northern part of the island, then book a suite at The Sand Castle Bed & Breakfast. It boasts beachfront rooms with views of Barnegat Lighthouse, an outdoor jacuzzi and pool area, a large complimentary breakfast, and 6 charming guest rooms. There are also two luxe suites with whirlpool tubs, in-room fireplaces, and private balconies with ocean views.

10. Spring Lake

Spring Lake is an upscale beach town devoid of all amusement parks and casinos. It’s a pristine residential area boasting some seriously gorgeous seaside mansions.

If you and your loved one are looking for a luxurious getaway on the Jersey Shore, then Spring Lake offers perfectly coifed beaches and beautiful downtown.

Spring Lake is truly about relaxation. Rent an electric bike and cruise along the shore. Visit Seagirt Lighthouse for a quick tour, and enjoy the rest of your days on the stunning beaches.

Just up the road in Avon-by-the Sea, the Cashelmara Bed & Breakfast is one of the most romantic getaways in the area. The historic home boasts both ocean views and rooms that overlook Sylvan Lake. Pull up a rocking chair on the giant veranda for even more view-soaking. Aside from the views, the Victorian-era rooms feature antique furniture juxtaposed with modern amenities. Though each room does feature flat-screen TVs and Wifi, you won’t need them because Cashelmara has its very own Grand Victorian Cinema!

11. Ocean City

Ocean City is the quieter neighbor of Atlantic City. It doesn’t boast the nightlife options of its big brother, but it still has a lively waterfront and plenty of recreation options.

If you want the classic Jersey Shore vibe with a little quieter ambiance than Atlantic City, Ocean City is the best romantic getaway in NJ for you. It’s also the capital of White Marlin fishing, so if you and your partner enjoy deep-sea fishing, you will love this area.

Take a tour of Assateague Island to see the wild ponies. Spend your days on some of the most beautiful beaches in New Jersey. Take a sunset paddleboard tour with 48th Street Watersports, or set to the skies with your love on an evening parasailing tour! Bring your fishing pole, as Ocean City has several beautiful fishing piers.

A stay at Northwood Inn is always a pleasure. A gorgeous Victorian home, it boasts a billiards room, a large dining room, and seven guest rooms. You can enjoy stargazing from the rooftop deck year-round and it’s within walking distance of the beach and boardwalk. It has a gorgeous wrap-around porch and a continental breakfast.

12. Mays Landing

While not a popular tourist attraction, the small town of Mays Landing is a popular weekend getaway for locals looking to escape busyness. The little town has only 2,000 permanent residents which provides a welcoming environment to rest.

If you are looking for a peaceful getaway where you can sip wine in a beautiful vineyard or spend a weekend doing absolutely nothing, here it is!

Balic Winery has been in operation since the early 19th century and features a peaceful outdoor arbor for wine tasting. There are also several beautiful lakeside parks in the little town ideal for picnicking or stargazing together. If you are an animal lover, then spend a morning at Funny Farm Rescue and Sanctuary.

For a comfortable stay on the water, check in to The Inn at Sugar Hill . Abbott House Bed & Breakfast is also a lovely option. These are really the only two options for staying in the town itself, but they are both quite nice for a laid-back stay.

13. Red Bank

Red Bank has been voted one of the best towns in New Jersey, mostly because of its attention to art and theater.

If you and your significant other are culture vultures, then you will love “The Greenwich Village of the Garden State.” In Red Bank, you will find wonderful art galleries, theaters, and live music venues, as well as wonderful dining and shopping options.

If you visit during spring or summer, stroll along the boardwalk for excellent shopping and dining options. Enjoy a rousing stage performance at Two Rivers Theater, a small and intimate venue boasting high-quality shows. You can also catch a larger show at the Count Basie Center for the Arts which features live music acts, folk dancing exhibitions from all over the world, and comedy acts. You can also explore Downtown Red Bank on the adorable trolley and when evening comes around, turn up a pint of Guinness at the Dublin House.

Molly Pitcher Inn is the most romantic place to stay in Red Bank. The inn features a gigantic, indoor/outdoor waterfront dining room with live piano music. The rooms are spacious and feature a soothing color palette with private bathrooms and lush bedding. It also features a beautiful outdoor pool area.

Vernon is located in Sussex County, Northwest of New York City on the NY State border. The area is one of the more romantic getaways in NJ year-round!

If you love to hit the slopes together or live that lake life, then Vernon is the best spot for you!

If you visit in winter, spend your days on the slopes of Mountain Creek Ski Resort. If coming in the summer, hit up the zip line course. Enjoy watersports on the lake Take your partner on a hike on the Stairway of Heaven Trail which provides incredible views of Wawayanda State Park. You can also join part of the Appalachian Trail here at the Pochuck Valley boardwalk. For a relaxing spa day or a round of golf, stop in the Crystal Springs Resort’s Minerals Hotel. The resort also has a great sports club and fun activities like ax throwing and goat yoga. After a long day on the slopes or at the lake, soothe your muscles with a few brews from the tap room at the historic George Inn.

If you don’t say at one of the aforementioned resorts, your options are to rent a secluded cabin near Highland Lake or head a little farther north to the elegant 1831 Colonial Mansion now known as Fox & Bear Lodge. Just an hour from New York City and in the heart of the mountains, the lodge is outfitted with 8 guest rooms which have been restored to the highest quality. This 3-story home is a stunner with warm and welcoming owners. Each room has a private en-suite, and they serve a gourmet breakfast sourced from local farms. If you are looking for a special stay in New Jersey, Fox & Bear does not disappoint.

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There you have it love birds, all the best romantic getaways in NJ. It’s time to pick your poison! Let us know in the comments which incredible location you will be visiting next!

If you choose to venture across the Hudson River for a day in America’s great city, check out our list of “ 35+ Free Things to Do in NYC. ”

For more romantic trip options in the nearby area, take a look at “ The Most Romantic Getaways in Pennsylvania. ”

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From beach resorts to urban oases, NJ boasts several romantic trip options . Explore the ski resorts of Vernon , the white beaches of Long Beach Island of the impressive mansions of Spring Lake .

Celebrate your anniversary with an escape to the artsy small town of Red Bank , or enjoy a weekend of outdoor adventures in Frenchtown .

For a romantic getaway in NJ start with a sightseeing scavenger hunt , rest on the sandy beaches of the Jersey shore, and enjoy the nightlife in Ocean City or Atlantic City !

While Longbranch and Ocean City are popular if you are looking for a more secluded getaway, head for the beautiful beaches and Victorian architecture of quiet Ocean Grove .

The Garden State boasts romantic beach towns and mountain villages . Stay in a Victorian guesthouse in quiet Ocean Grove or party the night away in the famous nightlife of Atlantic City.

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Ten Ideas for a Romantic Getaway in New Jersey Login or Register to save this to your Favorites.

Whether you’re looking for romantic ideas for an anniversary, birthday, Valentine’s Day or just want some fun things to do in New Jersey with your sweetheart, start with our roundup of romantic activities.

1. Spend a weekend relaxing at Crystal Springs Resort. For the ultimate romantic getaway, Crystal Springs Resort is a luxury destination offering an array of exciting options for couples. Dine in one of the seasonally inspired restaurants. Get pampered in one of the day spas, or soak in one of the heated tropical pools. Explore more than 160 acres of skiable terrain. During warmer months, there’s golfing, mountain biking, hiking, tennis and more.

2. Go wine tasting at one of the many vineyards in New Jersey. Home to more than 40 wineries, New Jersey offers plenty of options for wine tasting. For a convenient way to experience multiple wineries, try a trip with New Jersey Wine Tours , which will pick up you and your paramour in a limousine and drive you to three wineries while you relax and enjoy sipping and sampling local wines.

3. Take a ferry ride to enjoy scenic views of coastal landscapes. See a bit of the coastline with a ferry ride. The Cape May – Lewes Ferry offers sweeping vistas of historic lighthouses, idyllic harbors, oceangoing ships and even marine wildlife.

4. Make a reservation at an upscale restaurant. Whether you want a farm-to-table eatery, a high-end steakhouse or a trendy restaurant, there are plenty of places to eat in New Jersey for a romantic meal. Try Frog and the Peach , which has been voted “Most Romantic,” or go with the award-winning Rod’s Steak & Seafood Grille .

5. Spot whales and dolphins during a whale-watching excursion. Experience something surprising and out-of-the-ordinary with a whale watching tour. A number of tour companies offer this seasonal activity, including Starlight Fleet or Cape May Whale Watcher .

6. Enjoy the countryside while horseback riding. Enjoy the fresh air with a guided trail ride through wooded pathways at Echo Lake Stable , or start at the very beginning with a riding lesson at Watchung Stable .

7. Catch a renowned show at one of New Jersey’s theaters. From big name Broadway productions and classical ballet to thought-provoking independent shows and contemporary dance, New Jersey has a performing arts show to suit your style. Browse the many show and theater options here .

8. Trek through powdery passes with a day of snowshoeing or cross-country skiing. For a peaceful escape from the city, head up to High Point Cross Country Ski Center in northern New Jersey, where snowy hillsides and scenic trails offer an ideal place for adventure and romance. Get even more ideas for skiing in New Jersey here .

9. Go back in time to a bygone era on an authentic steam train ride. Enjoy a themed or seasonal train ride on New Jersey’s only operating steam locomotive with Delaware River Railroad Excursions .

10. Visit an art museum or gallery. Take your pick from one of the many art museums in New Jersey . Iconic paintings, contemporary mixed media pieces, groundbreaking sculptures, dramatic installations—they are all here.

15 Romantic Date Ideas In NJ For The Two Of You

Getting a day or night out just the two of you is a treat, but coming up with the date idea is always a toughie—do you do the usual dinner out or try something new? If you’re thinking the latter, we’ve got you covered with a bunch of out-of-the-box ideas for a day or night date, from hitting the sky in a hot air balloon to going on a sunset cruise around the bay. And while these days may having you going out less, we’ve got ideas for staying in nights for the two of you, too. Scroll down for these date ideas in NJ—and you can start booking that sitter now.

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Romance is in the air at Renault Winery in Egg Harbor City. Photo Credit: Renault Winery

Visit a vineyard or a brewery

Take a tour of the vines or experience a beer flight together. Whether you are team hops or team grapes, visiting a vineyard or brewery in lush scenery is the stuff of romantic dreams. Sip a chardonnay or pinot noir, sample an IPA or even have a cheese plate or snacks to go with it. Some places even have special tasting events, and you can find more about local breweries and wineries here .

Take a spa daycation

Unwind that 2020 and 2021 stress away by taking a breather at a day spa. Lounge in the Korean baths a Deux at Island Spa & Sauna in Edison or head to Montclair to experience Bangz Golden Ritual For Two —it includes a gold sugar scrub, scalp and foot massage, and Swedish massage. At SOJO Spa Club in Edgewater , spend time in the outdoor pool with city views, and for places near you, check out these relaxing  NJ spas .

Create art together

Get inspired with a creative class that goes a step above the usual paint-and-sip date. Create a glass mosaic at The Gomez Studio in Hammonton or Glassworks in Morristown; try your hands at pottery at Mud Clay Studio in Madison or Madison; take a Wine and Wheel class at The Clay Pot in Spotswood; or turn wood into works of art at any of the Board & Brush studio locations throughout NJ. Whatever creative way you go, you’ll have a special something to take home as a reminder of the fun day or night you had.

Take date night to new heights with an exhilarating hot air balloon ride.

Go up and away with a hot air balloon ride

Close your eyes and imagine that you can hear the roar of a fire and feel the breeze in your hair as you toast with champagne and take to the skies. If this sounds like a dream, make it a reality by reserving a private hot air balloon ride above the clouds. A romantic flight in a wicker basket is a beautiful way to take in the skies, and if you are lucky, you might even view a colorful sunset up close. Here are places to take a hot air balloon ride where you can fly away .

Sneak away to an adult-only resort trip

If you’re lucky enough to find someone to watch your kids and can get away for a night or two, pack up the car and head for the highway. There are fantastic hotels a short drive away where you can relax by a pool, fill your day full of activities, or hang in with room service. Find the perfect adults-only weekend vacay in our luxe hotel guide .

Red Bank is full of restaurants and shops that check off all boxes for date ideas in NJ. Photo Credit: Nicole Todd

Go on a day trip in a downtown

Take a trip and explore an NJ town where you’ve never been. Tour the sites in historic Morristown, get an urban vibe in Hoboken, take in a performance in Red Bank, or walk among beautiful architecture in Princeton. With each town rich in culture, history, restaurants, and vibrant spaces, there’s plenty to do for a day that goes into an evening date.

Pack a picnic for two

A romantic picnic in a park can be just the thing for those afternoon dates. Pack a picnic basket with dinner, utensils, plates, wine, and blanket, and then find your space, whether it’s biking, hiking, or just pulling up the car to the beach. Cozy up and nibble on food while you take in the Garden State scenery and people watch throughout the park .

What’s better than a little friendly competition at Starlux Mini Golf in Wildwood for date ideas in NJ? Photo Credit: Kip Dawkins

Play a nighttime round of mini-golf

Who says mini-golf is just for the kids? Make it a romantic competition by playing it under the lights at one of the many mini-golf spots throughout NJ. If you’re near the shore, take a walk on the boards and end with a round by the ocean and sultry sea air.

Cruise into the sunset

Set sail on a boat down the shore or on the Hudson, and watch the sun go down. If you’re near the shore, hop on board to listen to live music on the three-hour sunset cruise on the Queen Mary . Or see a dolphin or whale on the Royal Miss Belmar . If you’re up North, take a Statue of Liberty sunset cruise aboard the Hudson Cat departing from Jersey City. No matter which cruise you take, this is for sure—they will all have amazing views.

Did somebody say s’mores? Photo credit: Istock/alexeys

Revel in bonfire bliss

Finally, use the fire pit you said you were saving for just the right night. Grab a blanket, roast s’ mores, and cuddle by the fire in the comfort of your backyard or if you are heading out, check out the bonfires on the beach in Asbury from May to September.

Put in the pieces

Find that 1,000 piece puzzle that you have been avoiding and get to work. The challenge of working on a puzzle together will show one another how well you work together. Plus, the result is a reward worth framing. Looking for a puzzle all about the Garden State? Check out Just Jersey for Jersey-themed jigsaw puzzles . 

Enjoy dinner and a movie

Coordinate your dinner with your movie. If you are watching Mystic Pizza , make it a pizza night or cook some Italian food and try out the iconic spaghetti scene from Lady and The Tramp . Or keep it sweet and chow down on some chocolate treats while watching Charlie and the Chocolate Factory . Or bring your own goodies and chow down at a drive-in movie in New Jersey .

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Pitch a tent

If your kids are old enough to leave by themselves inside, spend the night “camping” out in your backyard. Or hang out in the tent until it’s time to go to bed inside. Either way, cozying up in a tent while listening to the crickets outside can be a romantic and simple way to spend a date night. Or, if you want to travel to a campground in NJ , there are plenty of choices in the Garden State.

Have a DIY Spa day

Light the candles and turn your bathroom into a zen-like retreat. Whip up DIY treatments, like an exfoliating sugar scrub made with 1/4 cup of sugar and 1/4 cup of coconut oil. Or fill the tub and put on chill music to relax together without ever having to leave the house. Depasquale even has some take-home DIY options or try a customized virtual facial with Exhale . 

Search for the stars

Grab that telescope, a picnic dessert, and sit together in an open field, a park , on a roof, or in the backyard to explore the night sky. See if you can locate different constellations and stars. No telescope, no problem—on a clear night, the stars can be seen with the naked eye.

Which date ideas in NJ are you planning to do?

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Melanie Bodner has always had a love for writing, but now she has a new love…being a mom. Before having her kids, Melanie was no stranger to writing or working with children. She wrote for a local newspaper as a reporter and taught English and Dance in a public school. Now Melanie enjoys spending time with her kids, doing yoga, writing and decorating her home. Check out her Instagram @burlapbythebeach.

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Romantic Getaways in New Jersey: 8 Hideaways for Couples in the Garden State

A peaceful garden hidden from public view, tucked behind old chestnut trees and rolling lawns, the Greenwood Gardens in Short Hills offers a romantic respite from the bustle of everyday life – a secret getaway in plain view.

New Jersey is a lot like this hidden suburban treasure. Intimate and memorable escapes for couples are set in gorgeous surroundings, but largely slide under-the-radar in a state not always associated with romance. That’s about to change.

Below, you’ll find inspiration for weekend getaways for two, romantic treasures, and pampering stays where you can reconnect, unwind, and relax together throughout the state to make every day feel like a special couple’s holiday.

Gourmet dining and high design for two on the Jersey Shore

The year-round Jersey Shore destination of Long Branch doesn’t just offer up fun in the sunny summer months. Thanks to 30 sophisticated dining and shopping spots that comprise beachfront Pier Village, there’s a four-season draw for sand-loving duos here. One such draw? A winter wonderland of  Ice at the Pier  with an outdoor ice skating rink, festive cocktails and delectable holiday treats.

Year round,  Avenue  is a date night highlight, offering French flair and Parisian bistro favorites with an Atlantic Ocean view. The menu even offers several dishes created to be shared for two, including iced seafood towers filled with crustacean delights; a  cote de boeuf  dry aged, bone-in rib eye; and a  paella royale  topped with fresh-from-the-sea clams, mussels, and lobster. In the summer months, Avenue offers a romantic beach option with private cabanas where you can tuck away on luxurious loungers and order everything from champagne to cocktail bites to enjoy a deux.

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Where to stay.

Design-centric  Bungalow Hotel  is a chic and modern boutique hideaway a block from the pier. It’s close enough to walk to all the delicious dining options, but on a quieter stretch for maintained privacy. Rooms feel like quirky city lofts with all white bedding and furnishings and bright pops of contemporary art. Suites add lipstick red couches and fireplaces to the mix, perfect for a cozy, cold weather beach getaway. Stay in to experience Bungalounge, the hotel’s guest lounge and rotating art gallery with live music and craft cocktails.

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Arts for culture-loving couples near nyc.

The walkable exurb of Montclair is a magnet for arts lovers, located just 14 miles west of Manhattan. Curating couples should start a town tour at  The Montclair Art Museum , a century-old Beaux Arts building with a 12,000 item permanent collection and exciting visiting exhibits, plus a lovely lawn to for relaxing.

Then walk down Bloomfield Avenue to catch a live music concert at the  Wellmont Theater , where diverse artists from David Byrne to Fetty Wap perform. On the way you’ll pass  Montclair Film , which hosts art-house movies and sponsors a star-studded film festival every year, as well as a buffet’s-worth of international dining options. Try cozy Uncle Momo for Lebanese cuisine, tucked-away Samba for Brazilian specialties, and Mesob for an authentic taste of Ethiopia.

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The art-filled  The MC, Autograph Collection  is set right in the middle of the action and feels like an extension of the museum, featuring show-stopping canvases from local painters such as Siona Benjamin-Kruge and Ryan Chin, among others. The hotel is stocked with artisanal products made nearby, including beer from Montclair Brewery, fresh elixirs from Juice Basin, and handmade bath products from Montclair favorite Dolly Moo.

After a busy day in town, retreat to Allegory (the hotel’s restaurant) for globally-inspired New American cuisine and a shared bites menu that changes along with the in-season ingredients. Brunch is especially memorable, with weekend delights cut as homemade blueberry acai bowls, rich brioche french toast, and a hold-no-stops smoked pork belly fried egg sandwich. Ascend to the ninth-floor rooftop where you can gaze at sweeping views of the sparkling Manhattan skyline to the east while cozied up around a fire pit sipping craft cocktails at Alto.

The MC, Autograph Collection

Beachside elegance made for two in south jersey.

Far from the wild Jersey Shore seaside antics you may have seen on television, the secluded beach town of Stone Harbor is the polar opposite on the same stretch of sand. Nestled on the posh Seven Mile Beach barrier island at the southern end of the state, it seems more like you’re on Martha’s Vineyard than the Jersey Shore.

Stroll down 96 th  Street and you’ll find fine art galleries, tasteful clothing boutiques, and upscale dining options. Try the lovely outdoor patio at  Jay’s on Third , where the bougainvillea draped dining area creates a secret garden dining experience. Nearby is Ocean Galleries, for works by both local and nationally known artists.

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Just across the street is  The Reeds at Shelter Haven ,  an upscale waterfront retreat nestled on the bay. Rooms are reminiscent of an elegant beach home with white oak floors, a coastal sea palette, and expansive picture windows facing towards the town, over the ocean, or directly out at the calm bay. All have balconies, so you can sip your morning coffee while the sun comes up or share a toast while the sun sets into a cotton candy sky in front of you.

Spend some time together enjoying the two-story, luxury Salt Spa with couples’ massages, a Himalayan salt and light lounge, flotation therapy, or, most uniquely, a private session just for the two of you in the steam-filled marble Turkish bath.

After you’ve detoxed, retreat to the roof deck of the hotel’s Water Star Grille for a prime cocktail sun downer setting. Then head inside to cuddle by the fireplace at the Sax at the Reeds restaurant.

The Reeds At Shelter Haven

Step back in time at a victorian resort hideaway.

Walking through the cobblestone streets of Cape May feels like you’ve been transported back in time to a genteel age of exquisite homes. Painted Ladies (gloriously gem-hued Victorian houses) offer intricate wood work and wide porches perfect for people watching. The whole town is a National Historic Landmark, and the twisting lanes leading down to golden sand feel made for romance – especially if you explore the town in a horse-drawn carriage.

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To immerse yourself in turn-of-the-century elegance, spend the night at the circa 1860s  The Southern Mansion .  The luxurious B&B offers every comfort for couples, including fireplaces, four-poster beds, and claw-footed tubs in addition to opulently carved woodwork and lush fabrics.

The decadent breakfast menu is included in your stay, so the two of you can start your day with fluffy pancakes filled with Jersey fresh blueberries or poached eggs with a homemade sun-dried tomato sauce, gratis, plus fresh baked pastries, juice, and coffee.

You may need to head back to the comfy beds after that; better yet, go lay on the golden Cape May beach – the Mansion will give you chairs and towels.

Not a beach day? Southern Mansion even has its own  Willow Creek  winery nearby, with tastings, 50 acres of vines, and a villa tasting room for sipping varietals such as pinot noir, cabernet franc, and sauvignon blanc.

The Southern Mansion

A transporting romantic journey to a magical sculpture park.

The magical  Grounds for Sculpture  outdoor sculpture park in Hamilton is a fairytale setting for couples. The immersive art park, conceived by founder Seward Johnson, mixes whimsy into the tree-filled setting.

One highlight is a life-size version of George Seurat’s  Sunday in the Park  picnic painting lolling in the grass, complete with a wrought iron table tucked by a lake, a fully-imagined sculpted picnic and even a sail boat in direct sightline. There are more traditional sculptures here, too, along with plenty of spots to hold hands and steal kisses as you explore the creative nooks and crannies around the grounds.

Make a reservation for the oddly named  Rats Restaurant  (after the character in the children’s classic  The Wind in the Willows ). The entire dining space is designed to look like a Monet lily-pond. It’s been named the most romantic restaurant in the state for several years and creates the illusion of dining in the French countryside of Giverny, right down to dishes such as charcuterie, steak frites, and crème brulee.

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On the grounds of the sculpture park, you’ll also spot gentle peacocks strolling and posing for photos. Their namesake inn is where to spend the night after your art experience.

The luxe 19th-century  Peacock Inn  offers 16 posh modern rooms in a 19 th -century mansion. High end touches include heated marble bathroom floors, rain head showers, and decadently thick down comforters. Suites also have whirlpool tubs for two and king size beds.

There’s no need to leave the serene property for dinner; the Perch at Peacock serves seasonal local produce and fish in elegant surroundings, with dishes such as Cape May Salt Oysters and New Jersey Line Caught Black Bass alongside pickled heirloom spring onions and charred fairy tale eggplant. Not full yet? There’s also a decadent high tea and brunch on offer in the charming inn.

Hotel The Peacock Inn

Glorious hidden gardens made for romance.

Once a private estate,  Greenwood Gardens  is like a slice of Europe transported to suburban Union County. The terraced gardens, tucked-away grottoes, and splashing fountains are all perfect for strolling hand-in-hand, and the secret tea house and secluded stone “folly” buildings might just be the perfect spot to pop  the  question. Even if you’re already betrothed, the 18th-century grounds make for a memorable setting to celebrate your romance any day.

For an even more special outing, sign up in advance for one of Greenwood’s special evening events to watch the twilight descend on the 28 acres of serene outdoor space accompanied by wine and cheese, or try your hand at a painting or photography excursion offered  “en plein air” .

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After the sun sets, head to the nearby  Hilton Short Hills  where you can watch the twinkling lights of Manhattan from the rooftop bar while you sip some bubbly. Then head indoors to the sybaritic spa where you take a dip in the indoor or outdoor (summer only) pools.

In warm weather, volley on the hotel’s tennis courts, too. Then relax in the crisply decorated rooms that combine plush beds with sleek furnishings for a modern stay.

Hotel Hilton Short Hills

A rustically elegant romantic retreat in a bucolic mountain town.

Nestled in the rolling farmland of Sussex County in mountainous northwest New Jersey, Hardyston is where to head for a full resort R&R getaway. There are four golf courses within a few miles surrounded by fabulous country scenery, including the award-winning  Ballyowen Golf Course . There’s also skiing in the winter at Mountain Creek Resort, just a mile away in Vernon, NJ.

In fall and spring, there are farm stands and fields full of sunflowers to pick, too. Fall is an especially gorgeous season to plan a visit, when the towering trees that fill the fields glow with autumnal colors and you can jump into piles of burgundy, gold, and copper leaves… or just enjoy the peace and quiet of the forest.

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Grand Cascades Lodge ,  a contemporary resort property, excels at using natural materials to create luxurious indoor spaces that give you a continued sense of the natural world, even when you’re safely tucked inside.

Many rooms sport indoor fireplaces, too, plus gourmet kitchens, so you’ll truly never want to leave your private space. Suites even have gas fireplaces on outdoor decks for a private glamping experience with all the comforts of a well-appointed hotel.

It’s easy to stay in your room, but make a plan to pull yourself out of your nest for two to experience Latour Restaurant, considered by many to be the best restaurant in the entire state. Prix fix dinners include local produce and artisan makers, plus indulgent ingredients from wagyu beef to Ossetra caviar. The 1-acre wine cellar is truly a treat for oenophiles, with 6,000 labels of the world’s finest vintages and the Wine Spectator Grand Award for every year it’s been open (yup, one of the best wine cellars in the country is right in rural New Jersey).

Grand Cascades Lodge

A romantic riverside getaway in western new jersey.

For couples who love to immerse themselves in the great outdoors, Stockton is a New Jersey nature highlight. The scenic spot along the Delaware River in Hunterdon County offers easy access to nature areas, hikes, and water activities for adventurous couples in every season.

The  Delaware and Raritan Canal State Park  is where to launch for the tiny forested and pedestrian only Bull’s Island, an ideal spot for a romantic picnic. Canoe or kayak to the secluded island, or walk the pedestrian bridge. Bring a blanket and lay in the grass to watch the rapids (or you can ride them with  rafting or water tubing ). Not content to see the area on the ground? Lift up, up, and away for a sunrise or sunset  hot air balloon ride  for the two you.

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Another Delaware River Town with great appeal for couples is quaint Lambertville, the setting for a relaxing stay at historic  Lambertville House . The 26 rooms are all uniquely decorated and include pampering amenities such as four-poster beds, gas fireplaces, and jetted tubs for two where you can enjoy a bubble bath with glasses of bubbly.

The inn is well-known for its exceptional on-site restaurant, ideal for a romantic dinner “in” after outdoor explorations. Extend your weekend stay to a Monday, and you can try the “Locals Love” prix fix menu that offers three courses of delights for a very affordable price. Of course, any day is a good day to trythe Mediterranean-inspired dishes including grilled artichokes, braised octopus, and burrata-filled ravioli.

The Lambertville House

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The Spring Lake Inn

104 Salem Ave., Spring Lake , NJ 07762, 732-449-2010

The RoseMary Inn

88 Hainesburg River Road, Columbia, NJ 07832, 908-496-8855

Carroll Villa Hotel

19 Jackson Street, Cape May, NJ 08204, 609-884-9619

Chateau Inn & Suites

500 Warren Ave, Spring Lake, New Jersey 07762; Phone 877-974-2000

Inn at Glencairn

3301 Lawrenceville Road, Princeton, NJ 08540, 609-497-1737 ( website )

The Whistling Swan Inn Bed & Breakfast

110 Main Street, Stanhope, NJ 07874, 973-347-6369

The Summit DeBary Inn

265 Springfield Ave., Summit, NJ 07901, 908-277-0005 ( website )

The Tower Cottage

203 Forman Avenue, Point Pleasant Beach, New Jersey 08742; Phone: 877-766-2693

Hewitt Wellington

200 Monmouth Avenue, Spring Lake, New Jersey 07762; Phone: 732-974-1212

The Scarborough Inn

720 Ocean Avenue, Ocean City, NJ 08226, 609-399-1558

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• Beth Ann writes articles for The Knot Worldwide, including venues, honeymoons and planning advice.
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New Jersey's proximity to New York City doesn't do it any favors. The foodie haven known to house the best restaurants in the world casts a large shadow over its neighbors to the south. But the most romantic restaurants in NJ are worth a date night, lest you find yourself with a heaping helping of FOMO. (Why do you think Garden State legend Bruce Springsteen made the boss move to return to the place he frequently sang about running from? And why does another of the state's favorite sons, Jon Bon Jovi, croon, "Who says you can't go home?")

The easy access to the Atlantic and the views may have something to do with it, but the food likely played a role too. The Garden State offers seafood by the shore and some of the best Italian food on this side of the pond. To be clear, some of New Jersey's best date-night eateries certainly play into the state's surroundings. For instance, there's no shortage of romantic restaurants in NJ with a view of the city skyline. But the food and ambiance will make couples happy they're on the Jersey side of the river. Ready to dig in? These 24 spots make for some of the most romantic restaurants in NJ.

The Knot's Top Picks for Romantic Restaurants in New Jersey

New Jersey is a small—but densely populated—state with many settings and cuisines. You'll find expansive fine-dining restaurants and cozy spots for standing date nights. The bountiful number of romantic restaurants in NJ by the water? They reel in out-of-staters and keep them coming back for more.

The Most Romantic Restaurant in NJ: The Highlawn

Favorite Date Night Restaurant in NJ: The Frog and The Peach

Best Romantic Restaurant by the Water in NJ: Rooney's Oceanfront Restaurant

Romantic NJ Restaurant with the Best View: The Chart House

Cozy Valentine's Day Restaurant in NJ: Grain House Restaurant

Read on for our complete list of the 24 most romantic restaurants in NJ by region.

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North Jersey Romantic Restaurants

Much of the traffic in North Jersey heads into the city and back—the region is dotted with commuter towns inhabited by folks with Manhattan offices. But when the dinner bell rings, locals stay put to dine at restaurants with city vistas and the Hudson River in the foreground. Plus, bucolic garden settings offer a respite from the hustle and bustle of NYC.

The Highlawn, West Orange

This high-end West Orange restaurant in a restored-from-ruin 1900s building sits atop a cliff in Eagle Rock Reservation. The Highlawn 's lofty vantage point gives diners the opportunity to take in dazzling New York City skyline views while they devour equally stunning New American cuisine. The Grill Room's praised steaks and raw bar with oysters are a surf 'n turf dream. An outdoor bar is perfect for al fresco aperitifs or extending the night when the weather is right.

1 Crest Dr, West Orange, NJ 07052

Fleming's Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar, Edgewater

Situated smack-dab between the Lincoln Tunnel and the George Washington Bridge, Fleming's Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar serves otherworldly seafood and steaks in a sleek white-tablecloth dining room. It's considered one of the most romantic restaurants in Edgewater, NJ, and a worthy choice for a proposal or anniversary dinner. Dim lighting and posh cushioned booths provide the fixings for a luxurious night out. One glance at the ample wine list and a bite of the juicy steaks will have pairs justifying the gridlock traffic it took to get there.

90 The Promenade, Edgewater, NJ 07020

Amanda's, Hoboken

Set in a circa-1895 brownstone in the hip and happening Hoboken neighborhood, Amanda's has the warmth of being a decades-old family-owned establishment—a nice change for couples who primarily dine out on the other side of the Hudson. But it has an elegance you'd expect from a dining destination, courtesy of soft hues, tasteful art and a white-tablecloth dining room. The expansive eatery recently introduced a wine bar menu with suggested dish pairings, adding the experiential dining touch people crave these days. Brunch and early-bird dinner are served for couples who prefer to turn in early.

908 Washington St A, Hoboken, NJ 07030

The Chart House, Weehawken

The Jersey Shore is noted for its waterfront restaurants. But The Chart House offers water vistas a stone's throw away from the city. The seafood spot's large wall-to-wall windows give way to next-to-none views of Lincoln Harbor and the city skyline, including the iconic Empire State Building. Picture yourself popping the question or saying, "Cheers after all these years" on an anniversary date with a backdrop like that. The fish is fresh, the steaks are juicy and the hot lava cake is worth saving room for.

1700 Harbor Blvd, Weehawken, NJ 07086

Cafe Matisse

Cafe Matisse 's BYOB menu allows couples to bring a special sipper—ideal for uncorking a vino you promised to open on a specific anniversary, something that's aged as finely as your romance. A back patio garden room with Victorian-inspired decor like candle-lit chandeliers offers a charming serenity that feels miles away from the nearby city and MetLife Stadium. A four-course tasting menu changes with the seasons, allowing for new date-night culinary adventures throughout the year. During cooler months, savory-yet-spicy meatballs and vanilla-scented cheesecake topped with apples just sound cozy.

167 Park Ave, Rutherford, NJ 07070

Battello, Jersey City

Industrial-chic exposed beams combined with white linens make Battello a unique backdrop for a date night. Speaking of scenic touches, the Hudson River and Manhattan views sure do provide another one from the outside. Battello leans into its nautical surroundings, pairing marina decor (like a rowboat above the entrance) with a seafood-focused menu with Italian influences. Think a bright Mediterranean branzino or a hearty ravioli made with Maine lobster. Brunch dates on Saturdays and Sundays are also options.

502 Washington Blvd, Jersey City, NJ 07310

Bernards Inn, Bernardsville

Though the main bar is undergoing a facelift, lunch and dinner are still available at Bernards Inn Restaurant . Unlike other options on this list, Bernards Inn provides a more idyllic setting that plays into its Bernardsville surroundings and location within a quaint inn. Elegant drapes, hanging greenery and chandeliers with understated glamor add to the charm. An award-winning wine list includes celebratory options like Champagne and prosecco, ideal for couples toasting to an engagement or a big anniversary.

27 Minebrook Rd, Bernardsville, NJ 07924

Central Jersey Romantic Restaurants

Joke about the non-existence of Central Jersey all you want. It's a real place with food to write home about. And, in some cases, restaurants that serve ample portions, meaning you'll have food to take home with you. We'd call that a win-win.

The Frog and The Peach, New Brunswick

Set in the emerging New Brunswick area, the garden room at The Frog and The Peach has lush greenery and white tablecloths at every turn, and is a coveted spot for couples on Friday and Saturday nights. The Frog and The Peach was farm-to-table before it was cool, and it remains an industry standard bearer. The menu highlights local purveyors. A truffle tasting elevates any date night, and wine dinners offer a chance to sip, savor and learn about different regions and pairings.

29 Dennis St, New Brunswick, NJ 08901

Grain House Restaurant, Basking Ridge

Located in the charming boutique hotel Olde Mill Inn, Grain House Restaurant 's fireplace, area rugs and warm lighting give it a cozy ambiance. The original ceiling beams from the 18th century offer up a throwback elegance, while the linen-free tablecloths invite couples to make themselves feel right at home. Creative twists on comfort classics are often the order of the day—think ribeye spring rolls and turkey burgers with cranberry relish. Happy hour is a happening affair in the pub—ditto for weekend brunches.

225 Morristown Rd, Basking Ridge, NJ 07920

Osteria Cucina Rustica, Marlboro

This lively spot many pass on their way to the Jersey Shore is worth a stop. Osteria Cucina Rustica is a destination all its own for next-level Italian—and those words aren't said about just any old restaurant in a state that takes pride in knowing all about good Italian food. Wooden tables and a brick patio lend a rustic appeal, while the straightforward menu leans into flavor and familiarity. Think paccheri in a slow-braised Bolognese ragu and a no-fuss, all-flavor spaghetti with fresh tomato and basil.

91 S Main St, Marlboro, NJ 07746

La Cipollina, Freehold

Another celebrated Italian eatery in "the 732," La Cipollina 's brick walls, tall interior columns, white tablecloths and tuxedo-clad staff give it an old world ambiance. BYOB gives couples more control over what they pair with La Cipollina's menu of traditional Italian offerings, which are known for getting proverbial standing ovations from taste buds. Berkshire pork osso buco with whipped potatoes and a flourless chocolate torte are among the menu items that consistently knock it out of the park.

16 W Main St A, Freehold, NJ 07728

Whispers, Spring Lake

A Victorian-inspired, white-linen spot with a BYOB policy, Whispers Restaurant is tucked away in the Hewitt Wellington Hotel, making it a perfect option for staycation couples. The intimate space is quiet (true to its name), allowing couples to chit chat as they head down memory lane or look ahead. Meats like steak and pork chops are said to be cooked to perfection. But save room for dessert. There's a triple chocolate treat that involves dipping chocolate ice cream in dark chocolate—need we say more?

200 Monmouth Ave, Spring Lake, NJ 07762

Undici, Rumson

This Italian-focused hideaway set in Tuscan farmhouse-style digs has an award-winning wine program with the largest selection of bottles from Italy in the state. Undici hosts wine tastings with food pairings throughout the year, allowing couples to savor the chance to sip new vinos and learn together. It's not all about the vino, though. The housemade pastas taste fresh and flavorful, and the gnocchi begs to be tried. Indoor and outdoor seating are available.

11 W River Rd, Rumson, NJ 07760

Jersey Shore Romantic Restaurants

Down the shore, the ambiance and food at local restaurants are more than alright. The area by the Atlantic is, not surprisingly, home to some of the most romantic restaurants in NJ by the water. Many of the eateries lean into the nautical surroundings with some of the freshest fish in the state. From down-to-earth spots with elevated views to upscale options in renowned shore towns like Cape May and Atlantic, these Jersey Shore restaurants turn date night into a splash.

Rooney's Oceanfront Restaurant, Long Branch

Appropriately located on Ocean Avenue, Rooney's Oceanfront Restaurant features a bi-level deck. On a quintessential Jersey summer evening, consider opting for a table on the top level for a gorgeous view of the Atlantic below. Bonus points if you catch the sunset. The picturesque spot goes heavy on seafood and has a "fish board" option that's similar to a "build your own burger" menu. Choose a fish, preparation style and sides for a meal that's truly you.

100 Ocean Ave N, Long Branch, NJ 07740

Dock's Oyster House, Atlantic City

This Atlantic City seafood house has left oyster fanatics feeling like they hit the jackpot since it opened its doors at the turn of last century. Dock's Oyster House naturally offers a raw bar. But there are other ways to get your oyster fix, too. The appetizer menu alone offers them broiled or fried, Rockefeller or wasabi-crusted. There's even an oyster stew. Landlocked folks rave about the meat offerings like filet mignon, saying it's cooked to perfection. Soft piano music that plays nightly in the background adds a peaceful touch to date night.

2405 Atlantic Ave, Atlantic City, NJ 08401

Peter Shields Inn and Restaurant, Cape May

Romantic elegance is the order of the day at Peter Shields Inn and Restaurant , a true Cape May institution located steps from the beach. The 1907 Georgian mansion setting is a breath of fresh air in a state full of both modern fine-dining restaurants and rustic Italian joints. The dramatic tall columns outside the front exterior and black-and-white awning over the covered deck immediately set the stage. Inside, the bright space with white tablecloths feels like a countryside escape. Appearances aside, the steak and seafood specials are known for hitting the spot. Bonus: Turn the date night into a romantic weekend by staying in one of the nine guest rooms.

1301 Beach Ave, Cape May, NJ 08204

Knife and Fork Inn, Atlantic City

Another AC landmark, Knife and Fork opened in 1912 and long ago proved it had the chops to survive the oft-fickle Jersey Shore dining scene. The old world exterior immediately pops. The throwback appeal continues when couples step inside the white-tablecloth dining room with arched windows. The mahogany bar is ideal for a pre-dinner cocktail or extending the evening with a digestif (or both). In between, the upscale menu boasts everything from bone-in cowboy steak and filet mignon to a bright halibut.

3600 Atlantic Ave, Atlantic City, NJ 08401

Ebbitt Room, Cape May

This restaurant at the lauded Virginia Hotel offers a refined yet glamorous interior— Ebbitt Room has red booths, dazzling chandeliers and candlelight tables that truly brighten the space. The farm-to-table menu is ripe for long, multi-course affairs with your favorite human. Dishes are made using ingredients like free-range eggs, herbs and vegetables from Cape May's Beach Plum Farm. Vegetarians and gluten-free folks will feel at home here—options for both are available.

25 Jackson St, Cape May, NJ 08204

Crabby Jack's, Somers Point

Like a good long-term partner, Crabby Jack's accepts you as you are. The casual seafood joint is known for its relaxing vibes, gorgeous waterfront vistas and lively atmosphere. The straightforward menu has comforting classics like lobster rolls, chicken fingers and hot dogs. A raw bar with oysters, clams and grilled shrimp cocktail is also available. It's a great choice for couples looking for a fuss-free afternoon or sunset dinner in which flip-flops won't be frowned upon.

2 Broadway, Somers Point, NJ 08244

South Jersey Romantic Restaurants

South Jersey is loved for its proximity to the shore and the greater Philadelphia area . It's also full of some of the most romantic restaurants NJ offers. These spots are known for serving delicious Italian food and meats, noteworthy wines and all the cozy feels.

Caffe Aldo Lamberti, Cherry Hill

Fresh seafood, housemade pastas and an ample wine list (the cellar is home to more than 15,000 bottles) are three features that have made Caffe Aldo Lamberti one of the best romantic restaurants in NJ over the last three-plus decades. The upscale, white-linen dining room is tasteful and refined with understated artwork. A small outdoor area is also available when the weather is right. The prices are reasonable, with entrees coming in at under $40, making Caffe Aldo Lamberti a candidate for regular dinners together.

2011 Marlton Pike W, Cherry Hill, NJ 08002

Rat's Restaurant, Hamilton

Located within the sprawling, much-visited 42-acre sculpture park that is Grounds for Sculpture, Rat's Restaurant 's views are truly one-of-a-kind. The interior is a sight, too, making it one of the most romantic restaurants in the U.S. The chateau-style setting includes dark wooden chairs, glistening chandeliers, and dim lighting, leaving guests feeling like French royalty. Either location is the perfect spot to pop the question. The menu is a Francophile's dream—think duck a l'orange , steak frites, plenty of cheese appetizers and, of course, French onion soup.

16 Fairgrounds Rd, Hamilton Township, NJ 08619

Sofia Restaurant, Margate City

Dig into Mediterranean fare in romantic and elegant surroundings at Sofia Restaurant . The old world-inspired decor includes iron chandeliers, plenty of candlelight and arched doorways. The wine list features mostly Greek and Italian varietals, though domestic options like reds from Napa also make the menu. Greek-focused favorites like hummus, tzatziki and lightly seasoned seafood dishes all make the menu.

9314 Amherst Ave, Margate City, NJ 08402

Annata Wine Bar, Hammonton

Tapas made for sharing, an affordable menu and live jazz music make Annata Wine Bar excellent for impromptu dates or couples in the getting-to-know-you phase. Small plates like pulled pork potstickers and stuffed peppers provide natural conversation starters. Learning something new together can add to a date-night memory, and Annata Wine Bar offers those opportunities in spades. The pages-long wine list has more than 150 options, and the staff welcomes the chance to discuss notes and recommend food pairings.

216 Bellevue Ave, Hammonton, NJ 08037

The ChopHouse, Gibbsboro

A high-end steakhouse in South Jersey, The ChopHouse is a no-brainer choice for a spare-no-expense special night out. Set beside the lake, the dining room's arched windows add an elegant touch without trying too hard. The menu has the chops, steaks and seafood you'd expect from a restaurant of The ChopHouse's caliber. But the spot offers something special that's perfect for pairs: A chance to sample any two of the restaurant's signature steaks family-style with all the fixings (sauces).

4 Lakeview Dr S, Gibbsboro, NJ 08026

10 Things Honeymooners Can Enjoy On A Trip To New Jersey

• Couples can enjoy a romantic day trip to Grounds for Sculpture, a sculpture park featuring over 270 contemporary sculptures. Timed ticket reservations required.
• Hiking the New Jersey portion of the Appalachian Trail is a must for outdoor-loving honeymooners. Best time to hike is during spring, summer, and autumn.
• Book a romantic stay at Mason Cottage in Cape May, named "New Jersey's Most Charming Small-Town Bed and Breakfast." Only a six-minute walk from Cape May Public Beach.

Honeymooners can enjoy the beautiful scenery of various lakes, mountains, and ocean shorelines on a trip to New Jersey, America’s crowned most romantic state . From tourist spots in the countryside and cities stretching to the famous Appalachian Mountains, New Jersey features various ways for newlywed couples to enjoy each other's company.

Despite being a small state, New Jersey features unique resorts, casinos, and bed-and-breakfast for every honeymooner. Couples can go on a walk on the world’s first seaside resort and longest boardwalk. First-timers in New Jersey can learn about the Garden State’s history and culture through historical spots and world-class museums.

Whether honeymooners stay in New Jersey for a few days to a month, these activities should be a priority on a newlywed couple’s to-do list. Here are some of the best things to do in New Jersey for couples on a romantic honeymoon.

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A Day Trip To Grounds For Sculpture

Hamilton, one of the most beautiful towns in New Jersey , boasts various tourist spots perfect for a day trip for honeymooners. This includes Grounds for Sculpture, a nonprofit sculpture park midway between New York and Philadelphia. Seward Johnson founded this sculpture park with over 270 contemporary sculptures by emerging artists.

A day trip to Grounds for Sculpture typically takes two to three hours, where couples can explore six indoor galleries with rotating exhibitions. The park is open all year, and visitors can also get complimentary dining and shopping experiences.

• Visitors can avail of membership plans to get admission to the park year-round.
• Timed ticket reservations are required for non-members to guarantee entry to the park.

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Hike The World’s Longest Trail

One of the best hikes in New Jersey, honeymooners who love exploring the great outdoors will enjoy hiking the New Jersey portion of the Appalachian Trail , which stretches almost 72 miles before reaching New York.

Couples should remember to bring cameras for taking pictures of the Kittatinny Mountains, Stokes State Forest, and Sunrise Mountain. And for those up for a challenge, the entire trail takes seven days to complete!

• Hiking the Appalachian Trail requires no entrance fee or any permit, except in a few national parks where the trail passes through.
• The best time to hike the Appalachian Trail is during spring, summer, and autumn.

Summer can get extra hot, so honeymooners should remember to bring an extra bottle of water and perhaps a fresh change of clothes.

Book A Romantic Couple Suite At The Mason Cottage

Newlywed couples visiting New Jersey for some R&R should book a romantic stay at the Mason Cottage in Cape May. This charming accommodation was named "New Jersey’s Most Charming Small-Town Bed and Breakfast" by Reader’s Digest .

The Mason Cottage is located in The Garden State’s downtown historic area and is near a few beautiful New Jersey beaches , including Cape May’s Public Beach, Sunset Beach, and Higbee Beach.

• The Mason Cottage features four room types, all with private baths, cozy beds, charging ports, and free Wi-Fi.
• The Cape May Public Beach is only a six-minute walk from this bed-and-breakfast.

Enjoy A Sandy Getaway To The Beach Shack

The best beaches in New Jersey are those in Cape May, especially at The Beach Shack. This resort is located near Cove Beach on Beach Avenue and is the perfect getaway for honeymooners in New Jersey who want to hang out with surfers, lifeguards, and other beachgoers.

The Beach Shack also features a pool service where guests can lounge at the resort’s swimming pool and order alcoholic beverages from The Rusty Nail’s menu. Rooms start at $256 per night , and each guest is given one free parking space.

• The Beach Shack is also dog-friendly for newly-wed couples who are also furparents.
• It’s easily accessible from Cape May-Lewes Ferry and the Golden State Parkway.

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Take A Walk Down The Seaside Heights Boardwalk

Honeymooners can also visit the Seaside Heights Boardwalk and enjoy a sunset stroll with various activities and attractions nearby, including the ice cream parlor, an arcade, and an amusement park. There’s also the Breakwater Beach and Casino Pier.

The Seaside Heights Boardwalk is also the perfect place for couples to enjoy a taste of different cuisine and local New Jersey food favorites from its wide range of restaurants . Tourists should try out Three Brothers Pizza, Hooks Bar and Grill, Cheesesteak Louie’s, Dentatos Clam Bar, and more.

• The Seaside Heights Boardwalk is easily accessible by car or any public transportation. It’s also near Atlantic City International and Newark City International.
• The boardwalk also features several accommodations, including hotels, motels, vacation rentals, and campgrounds.

The beach has a daily fee of $10 for ocean beaches and $5 for bay beaches.

Shop Till You Drop In New Jersey Malls

First-time honeymooners will usually want to buy memorable gifts to bring home after the trip. Thankfully, New Jersey has a wide selection of huge shopping centers, boutiques, and malls, with The Mall at Short Hills being the most popular.

The Mall at Short Hills features luxury items, with 150 famous stores and restaurants. And because of its massive size, this famous New Jersey mall also holds various events, including the annual Santa Claus visit.

• New Jersey has no sales tax for most clothes and shoes.
• The Mall at Short Hills has Bloomingdale’s, Neiman Marcus, Macy’s, and Nordstrom.

Visit Point Pleasant Beach

New Jersey is also famous for its enchanting shore towns, and honeymooners should not miss out on visiting Point Pleasant Beach . This tourist attraction is one of New Jersey’s best beaches with white sand, a busy boardwalk with bars and rides, and beautiful shorelines.

Honeymooners can also visit Jenkinson’s Boardwalk, packed with outdoor activities, amusement parks, and games. There’s also the Jenkinson’s Aquarium and the Jenks Club that transforms into a vibrant nightclub with live entertainment.

• Point Pleasant Beach has a daily beach badge fee of $13 on weekdays and $14 on weekends for ages 6 to 59
• Jenkinson’s Boardwalk gets the most crowded during summer.

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Enjoy Local Cuisine At Pendry Natirar

Visiting Pendry Natirar is one of the awesome things to do in New Jersey because honeymooners can experience an authentic dining experience at Ninety Acres. This culinary odyssey features signature cocktails and farm-to-table dishes.

Ninety Acres may be pricey, but tasting local New Jersey cuisine is definitely worth the splurge. The restaurant also offers culinary arts classes at the Ninety Acres Cooking School for couples who want to try something new while on a honeymoon.

• Pendry Natirar also offers luxurious hotel accommodations for a country estate experience.
• Ninety Acres only opens from 5 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. daily.

Indulge In A Luxury Spa Experience At Cedars And Beeches

One of the best things for couples to do in New Jersey during a honeymoon is to take a break, unwind, and rejuvenate. Honeymooners deserve a relaxing spa after experiencing all the stress from wedding preps!

For that precise experience, Cedars and Beeches in Long Branch is easily one of the best spas in New Jersey for couples; it features overnight accommodations with luxury spa services. This bed and breakfast is near Long Branch Beach, Monmouth Raceway, and Pier Village. Spa treatments at Cedars and Beeches also come with a complimentary wine bottle and start at $500 per couple .

• Honeymooners on a budget can book a stay at Bungalow Hotel to check out different tourist spots in Long Branch, New Jersey.
• The Pier Village is perfect for couples who want to check out local products and souvenir items.

Catch A Concert At Stone Pony

Newlywed couples who enjoy listening to local bands should remember the Stone Pony when visiting New Jersey. This famous music venue in the Garden State is the central location for various local concerts, including Bruce Springsteen, Steve Van Zandt, and Southside Johnny — the founders of this music venue.

The Stone Pony has a wide variety of upcoming shows and concerts, and visitors should book tickets online because seats run out fast!

• The Stone Pony is open from Thursday to Monday, noon to 5 p.m.
• Music lovers planning a trip to New Jersey to celebrate birthdays or other events can rent the concert ground at The Stone Pony.

These 15 places are the best to visit in New Jersey, according to Travel and Leisure

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TravelandLeisure.com released report on 15 of the best places to visit in New Jersey with the help of local tourism experts: Jeffrey Vasser, executive director, New Jersey Division of Travel & Tourism and Diane Wieland, director at Cape May County Department of Tourism.

Between the 130 miles of Atlantic Ocean aligned with beautiful beaches and boardwalks with amusements to more than 50 wineries, these gems of the Garden State are worth a visit.

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Here are the 15 best places to visit in New Jersey:

Ocean city boardwalk.

Known for amusement rides and arcade games that accommodate all ages, Ocean City boardwalk is a fun-filled destination for the the whole family. “The Ocean City Boardwalk is a famous promenade that’s been a source of entertainment for more than 100 years," Wieland said.

This charming Jersey Shore town set on peninsula is a year-round destination with family-friendly and various oceanside dining.

Morey's Piers & Beachfront Water Parks

“Families can spend the entire day on more than 100 rides, splashing around the two water parks right on the beach, and lounging in private cabanas,” Vasser said.

Wildwoods Boardwalk

Composed of more than 70,000 wooden planks, the 38-block oceanfront stretch draws crowds with everything from amusement rides, games, water parks and more.

Wildwood’s Doo Wop Motel District

The largest concentration of mid-century motels in the country has over 50 vintage motels still stand today within this unique district. “It’s really neat to see all the neon signs and retro details. Walking around Wildwood’s Doo Wop Motel District is like being transported to the 1950s,” said Vasser.

American Dream

American Dream is the second-largest shopping mall in the United States, and includes restaurants and themed parks that provide endless fun for the whole family. “American Dream is, quite literally, an indoor vacation one-stop shop that’s open year-round,” said Vasser.

Lambertville

Full of rich history, Lambertville has well-preserved federal townhouses, Victorian homes and antique shops that brings history to life. “The charming town also supplies family-owned wineries and photogenic vantage points such as Goat Hill Overlook,” added Vasser.

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Beneduce Vineyards

This 77-acre farm with 25 acres of vines are hand pruned, hand harvested and dry farmed in the rolling hills of Hunterdon County. “One of my favorites, Beneduce Vineyards, has great wine and fun year-round events such as live music and food trucks on Saturdays,” said Vasser.

Grounds for Sculpture

Grounds for Sculpture is a 42-acre landscaped park with 300 contemporary sculptures, an arboretum, and a museum with an indoor exhibitions that features six galleries.

Atlantic City

Known as the East Coast's version of Las Vegas offers travelers casinos, live entertainment, big-name restaurants with more fun attractions at the Steel Pier and the only helicopter ride at the Jersey Shore.

Frenchtown is a vibrant community full of Victorian architecture, art, and culture nestled along the banks of the Delaware River. Vasser recommends visiting during Frenchtown Riverfest. “There are all kinds of street fair activities along the river,” he said.

Cape May County Park & Zoo

The Cape May County Park & Zoo houses over 500 different animals that includes African lions, American black bears, snow leopards and ring-tailed lemurs. The zoo features playgrounds for kids of all ages and both places are free to the public. "It's truly one of the best-kept secrets in the area," said Wieland.

Asbury Park

Asbury Park has become a creative hub and music mecca within the last decade with iconic landmarks like The Stone Pony, Asbury Lanes and Silverball Retro Arcade. Asbury Park combines gaming, bowling, dining, live entertainment and of course swimming and surfing on the shore.

Adventure Aquarium

Adventure Aquarium features the largest collection of sharks on the East Coast and protects over 8,000 aquatic species, including penguins and stingrays. Visitors can interact with hundreds of sea creatures at the touch tanks. “It’s a favorite for kids of all ages, especially if you’re looking for an indoor activity,” said Wieland.

Long Beach Island

The shores of Long Beach Island are particularly lovely. Besides its scenic Atlantic Ocean coastline, vacationers go for the water sports, charming towns like Barnegat Light, and the laid-back lifestyle.

• 8 of the Most Charming Small Towns to Visit in New Jersey

Admitted to the Union in 1787, the “Garden State” of New Jersey is indeed one of America’s most historically fascinating places. Add in stunning natural beauty, and the state will truly become one of the best places to discover in the northeastern part of the country. While such major cities like Newark and Trenton remain the best known, New Jersey also has a number of smaller but equally captivating towns that are perfect ways to get to know the State better. From American Revolution towns to coastal communities, these charming and welcoming small New Jersey towns are always ready to welcome guests. So wait no longer and come see the “Garden State” through an exploration of these great towns!

Formally established in the 1860s, the community of Frenchtown is beautifully located along the banks of the Delaware River and was so named by its early French-speaking Swiss settlers. Now home to a modest population of just under 1,400 residents, Frenchtown was initially founded as a ferry center that eventually grew into an important rail town. Today, this charming place remains a great destination for discovering 19th-century American history and enjoying the quaint beauty of nature. Spend time at the Frenchtown Historic District, where an eclectic range of buildings and 19th-century architectural styles can be admired. These include the Oddfellows Building (1879) and the Frenchtown Inn (1832), amongst others listed on the National Register of Historic Places. And, of course, serene views of the Delaware River are always on hand, while a visit to the nearby Delaware Canal State Park is a nice way to keep active. Here, stunning hiking, jogging, and biking trails combine with unique views of local wildlife for a memorable outing for the entire family.

Lambertville

Also located along the Delaware River, Lambertville was formally founded in the 1840s, although European settlers had been in the area since the 1730s. Today, with a population of just over 4,000 inhabitants, Lambertville remains a charming snapshot of colonial America and a typical small town in the USA. Known locally for its nice assortment of antique stores and other boutiques, the town has been called the “Antiquing Capital” of New Jersey, and it is indeed the perfect place for arts and crafts lovers to discover. Visit stores like the Golden Nugget Antique Flea Market, which includes collectible items from the Revolutionary War, the Civil War, and the early 20th century amongst its collectibles. From there, why not head over to some of Lambertville’s fine art galleries, where a mix of local artists and renowned international creators are on display. And, of course, even just casually strolling through town is a most charming delight, where in addition to historic buildings (many of which are listed on the National Register of Historic Places), a welcoming smile, inviting hospitality, and stunning River views make visiting Lambertville a true pleasure all ages can enjoy.

Located along the famed Jersey Shore, the town of Allenhurst was established in the 1890s, and today, a population of just under 500 people resides there. Bordered by the Atlantic Ocean and Deal Lake, this quiet community with stunning water views is conveniently located just some 57 miles from New York City. Though it has some of the most expensive real estate properties in the entire United States, the beautiful neighborhoods of Allenhurst certainly make it a nice attraction, even for those just deciding to visit. Full of several historic homes and buildings, guests to town can admire a number of different architectural styles from the late 19th to mid-20th centuries, several of which have been added to the National Register of Historic Places. And with its small-town residential coziness, Allenhurst is definitely a most welcoming and charming place, where cute local businesses and scenic views make it a nice stopover for anyone driving the “Garden State.”

Allentown is situated in the Central Jersey region and is approximately halfway between Philadelphia and New York City. Formally established in the 1880s and with a modern population of just over 1,700 inhabitants, Allentown is a most charming place to discover some American history and relax all in the unique ambiance of small town USA. Explore the Allentown Historic District (listed entirely on the National Register of Historic Places), where one can appreciate up to 219 landmarks that transport visitors back to the days of the 1800s. These include the Allentown Presbyterian Church (1837), the Allentown Mill (1855), and the John Imlay House that dates to the 1790s! In addition the area surrounding Allentown has plenty of charming barns, farmland, and even wineries, and visitors can shop for some locally made agricultural products at any number of vendors. Add in peaceful residential streets and plenty of local businesses, shops, and restaurants, and being in Allentown is undoubtedly a nice excursion and a nice change of pace from the major urban centers.

With a modern history dating to the mid-18th century, the beautiful college town of Princeton is indeed a delightful place to visit, work, and study. Home to the famed Princeton University (1746) and with a population of just over 30,000 residents, guests will find the most culturally diverse and welcoming ambiance in town, which is also a short drive from both New York City and Philadelphia. Admire the beautiful campus and its special stone façade buildings while in the town proper; a great array of galleries, museums, shopping centers, and restaurants fill the landscape, ensuring there is never a dull moment. Amongst the businesses and other points of interest include the Bent Spoon Ice Cream Shop, the Blue Point Grill, and the Princeton University Art Museum (set to re-open in 2025). With a number of fascinating historical sites to explore, including the Albert Einstein House and several Historic Districts, Princeton is never short on things to discover in a most pleasing mid-sized town environment.

Though it has a population of just under 900 permanent residents, 80% of Deal ’s populace identify as Sephardi Jews, making it one of the most ethnically unique places in America. Located along the Jersey Shore, the beautiful beachfront of Deal has made it a popular destination for vacationers for decades, while its cultural identity has framed its special character. With its hot summers and mild winters, Deal is a great place to enjoy the outdoors, while its Jewish-American heritage can be appreciated in everything from restaurants, stores, and art galleries. Enjoy an authentic kosher meal, discover special clothing and items at a specialty store, or marvel at any of the town’s six beautifully designed synagogues. In addition, several Victorian-style homes can be admired in the residential neighborhoods that are truly postcard-perfect. Indeed, as a quiet beach location, Deal is a most welcoming destination, and its strong ethnic character makes it stand out as one of the best examples of the wide cultural diaspora in America.

Spring Lake

Another beautiful Jersey Shore locale, the town of Spring Lake, has been attracting vacationers to its beaches for over 120 years. Established in the 1890s and home to a modest population of just over 2,700, thousands more descend on town annually for comfortable weather and scenic beach areas that are perfect for the whole family. Equally beautiful but less crowded than similar places like Atlantic City (some 75 miles south), Spring Lake also features a number of pleasing historic structures from the late 19th and early 20th centuries, which make for nice photo opportunities. These include the Martin Maloney Cottage and the Sea Girt Lighthouse (1896). Meanwhile, the always inviting and panoramic boardwalk never ceases to charm all who visit. And, of course, as a beach town, tourists can expect to find plenty of fun opportunities to go swimming, sailing, and naturally sunbathing in a laid-back atmosphere. Add in welcoming local businesses and other restaurants, and it is not difficult to see why Spring Lake is such an inviting place to be in.

Chester Township

Chester Township was officially established in 1799, and today, this most inviting and historically beautiful place of nearly 8,000 inhabitants continues to charm all who visit. Conveniently located just some 39 miles from New York City, tourists will find an alluring array of Victorian-era homes and buildings here, many of which are also included on the National Register of Historic Places. Beyond its historical attraction is also Chester’s scenic farmland, and the town is known for specializing in “agritourism,” where locally grown foods and green spaces are promoted as key components of the local economy. Meanwhile, outdoor lovers will not want to miss out on such beautiful park areas as Chubb Park and the 890-acre Hacklebarney State Park. At the latter awesome opportunities for hiking, cycling, fishing, and ice skating can be enjoyed in a serene and stunning natural setting. Indeed, whether it's taking in the sights of America’s past or enjoying the calming natural splendor all around, Chester Township is one New Jersey community that is definitely worth a weekend stopover.

Historically rich, naturally beautiful, and culturally alluring, New Jersey, or the “Garden State,” is undoubtedly one of the Northeastern United States’ most special places. Though, like any locale, majors continue to dominate discussion and attention, New Jersey also has plenty of smaller towns that are equally fun and fascinating. From the college ambience of Princeton, the beach splendor of Spring Lake, and the historic streets of Frenchtown, these wonderful smaller New Jersey communities are great ways to experience the State outside of cities like Newark or Trenton. Come and visit New Jersey and choose to spend some time in these awesome and inviting towns, where great memories will surely follow the young, old, and those looking for genuine American charm.

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The 7 Most Romantic Coastal Escapes For Couples

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The South is an inherently romantic place for its natural beauty, incredible architecture, award-winning food, and luxurious hotels and resorts. If you’re planning (or just daydreaming about) a special getaway with your significant other, the choices can almost be overwhelming—especially if spending time at the beach is a must. For many people, a trip for two requires unlimited sunshine and sand .

If that’s the case for you, we’ve rounded up some of our favorite coastal destinations for romance. Options include tropical hot spots, quaint fishing villages, resort towns, and remote islands. Some places offer stays with all the amenities you could ask for. Others are more tied to nature, and will appeal to active folks who love to be outdoors. And some are just sweet little towns ideal for reconnecting. 

Whatever destination you choose, you and your partner will want to return again and again.

This charming Gulf Coast town offers laid-back leisure and plenty of luxury—the best of both worlds for a romantic getaway. Fairhope’s waterfront sunsets, ancient oak trees draped in live moss, and charming town square will put you two in a vacation state of mind as soon as you arrive. Spend some time browsing downtown shops, enjoy some lemony beignets in the courtyard at Panini Pete’s , then check in at the nearby Grand Hotel Golf Resort & Spa for pampering, pool time, and all the amenities you could ask for.

With its manicured courtyards, turquoise waters, and stark white buildings inspired by Bermudian architecture, Alys Beach offers Florida sunshine and shorelines, but looks like some place else entirely. Located off of Highway 30A , Alys Beach has a more secluded and slower-paced vibe than nearby towns like Rosemary Beach and Seaside. Part of this is due to the lack of hotels and high-rises. If you stay here, it will be in a beautifully appointed house or condo. Not only will you have more privacy, you’ll feel a bit like a local as you stroll the quaint boutiques and dine at the charming George’s At Alys Beach .

Bungalows Key Largo

A popular spot for snorkeling and scuba diving, Key Largo is also home to Bungalows , an adults-only, all-inclusive resort that is as romantic as a beach vacation can possibly be. Choose a private bungalow with an ocean or garden view, and enjoy private outdoor soaking tubs, a full-service spa, two pools with jacuzzis, beachside dining, plus yoga classes and access to bicycles, kayaks, snorkel gear, and more. It’s the ideal place for sun and fun, or to do absolutely nothing at all. 

Anna Maria Island

If staying at a sprawling beach resort isn’t your style, and you prefer an easy-going beach town where you can spend the weekend in flip flops, try this lovely little island off Florida’s west coast. Anna Maria Island is big on old Florida charm, with its mom-and-pop shops, spotless public beaches, and waterfront bars and restaurants. Stay the night in a retro cottage , enjoy some oysters at the pier, and book a boat tour to go dolphin watching. A free trolley provides transportation throughout the island, making your vacation even more stress-free. 

Cumberland Island

If you’re looking for a place to completely disconnect from everyday life and reconnect with your significant other, this island off the coast of Georgia is designed for just that. To get there, you’ll need to take a ferry from Fernandina Beach, and book a stay (well in advance) at the Greyfield Inn , the only hotel and commercial business on the island . The all-inclusive property, originally built by the Carnegie family in 1890, has 15 rooms and two cottages, and feels like staying in a grand old home—complete with a cocktail hour and communal meals. Surrounding the inn are more than 200 acres of incredible scenery including beaches, wild horses, historical ruins, forests, and wetlands, to name a few. You’ll want to stay here forever.

This quaint fishing town is beloved by its residents and Southern Living readers for its walkability, lovely historic district, good food, and friendly atmosphere. For a low-key trip where you can spend plenty of time outside and on the water, Beaufort is a wonderful option. Rent a kayak, go birdwatching, catch the sunrise from the boardwalk, have an alfresco meal at Beaufort Grocery Co., and stay at the comfortable, locally-owned Inn On Turner .

Isle of Palms

Charleston is a year-round destination for couples, and for good reason—the luxurious hotels, chef-driven restaurants, and breathtaking architecture can put anyone in a romantic mood. But the tourist-heavy city can also be busy and crowded. Instead, enjoy some peace and quiet and beach time at nearby Isle of Palms . Located a short drive away from downtown Charleston, this barrier island has seven miles of gorgeous shoreline where you might even spot a dolphin or two. Wild Dunes Resort and the Palms Oceanfront Hotel offer lodging options on or close to the water. And if you still want to take a day trip to Charleston, we don't blame you.