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Dos and Don'ts for Visiting Patients in the Hospital

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It might surprise you to know that hospital visitors can be safety hazards who potentially introduce problems to the patients they hope to cheer or assist. The problems may be directly related to physical harm, or may even be mental or emotional.

It can be difficult to visit a patient in the hospital, but you can have a positive influence on your friend or loved one's recovery if you follow some simple visitor guidelines. Knowing the dos and don'ts may give you the confidence you need.

Ask for permission to visit

Wash your hands

Consider allergies and restrictions on decorations and gifts

Turn off cell phone

Keep visit short

Leave if doctor or provider arrive

Visit if you might be contagious

Bring young children

Bring food without checking on restrictions

Cause stress

Avoid visiting

Smoke before or during visit

Dos for Hospital Visitors

Do ask the patient's permission to visit before you arrive . Ask them to be candid with you, and if they prefer you not visit, ask them if another day would be better, or if they would prefer you visit once they get home. Many patients love visitors, but some just don't feel up to it. Do the patient the courtesy of asking permission.

Do wash or sanitize your hands . Do this before you touch the patient or hand the patient something. After touching any item in the room, wash or sanitize your hands again. Infections come from almost any source and the pathogens can survive on surfaces for days. Don't risk being responsible for making your favorite patient even sicker than they already are.

Do wear a mask . Regardless of current hospital rules, wearing a face mask can help protect both the patient and visitor from airborne viruses. If you do not have a mask, the hospital should be able to provide you with one.

Do check before bringing balloons or flowers . If your patient shares a hospital room, you won't want to take either, because you don't know if the roommate has an allergy. Most solid color balloons are latex rubber, and some people are allergic to latex . When in doubt, take mylar balloons or don't take any at all.

Do consider alternative gifts . A card, something a child has made for you to give to the patient, a book to read, a crossword puzzle book, even a new nightgown or pair of slippers are good choices. The idea isn't to spend much money; instead, it's about making the patient feel cared for without creating problems that might trigger an allergic reaction.

Do turn off or silence your cell phone . Different hospitals have different rules about where and when cell phones can be used. In some cases, they may interfere with patient-care devices, so your patient can be at risk if you don't follow the rules. In other cases, it's simply a consideration for those who are trying to sleep and heal and don't want to be annoyed by ringtones.

Do stay for a short time . It's the fact that you have taken the time to visit, and not the length of time you stay, that gives your patient the boost. Staying too long may tire them out. Better to visit more frequently but for no more than a half hour or so each time.

Do leave the room if the doctor or provider arrives to examine or talk to the patient . The conversation or treatment they provide is private, and unless you are a proxy, parent, spouse, or someone else who is an official advocate for the patient, that conversation is not your business. You can return once the provider leaves.

Do follow all hospital policies and staff instructions . Most hospitals have set visiting hours, limits on the number of visitors in the room, and other rules you are expected to follow. Check the hospital's visiting hours and other policies prior to visiting.

Don'ts for Hospital Visitors

Don't enter the hospital if you have any symptoms that could be contagious . Neither the patient nor other hospital workers can afford to catch whatever you have. If you have symptoms like a cough, runny nose, rash or even diarrhea, don't visit. Make a phone call or send a card instead.

During flu season , it is not uncommon for hospitals to restrict visitors to spouses, significant others, family members over 18, and pastors, so it is worthwhile to call the hospital before your visit.

Don't take young children to visit unless it's absolutely necessary . Check with the hospital before you take a child with you. Many hospitals have restrictions on when children may visit.

Don't take food to your patient unless you know they can tolerate it . Many patients are put on special diets while in the hospital. This is especially true for those with certain diseases or even those who have recently had anesthesia for surgery. Your goodies could cause big problems.

Don't visit if your presence will cause stress or anxiety . If there is a problem in the relationship, wait until after the patient is well enough to go home before you potentially stress them by trying to mend that relationship.

Don't expect the patient to entertain you . They are there to heal, not to talk or keep you occupied. It may be better for them to sleep or just rest rather than carry on a conversation. If you ask them before you visit, gauge their tone of voice as well as the words they use. They may try to be polite, but may prefer solitude at this time instead of a visit.

Don't stay home because you assume your friend or loved one prefers you not visit . You won't know until you ask, and your friend or loved one will appreciate the fact that you are trying to help by asking the question.

Don't smoke before visiting or during a visit, even if you excuse yourself to go outdoors . The odor from smoke is nauseating to many people, and some patients have a heightened sense of smell while taking certain drugs or in the sterile hospital environment. At most, it will cause them to feel sicker, and if your friend is a smoker, you may cause them to crave a cigarette.

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By Trisha Torrey  Trisha Torrey is a patient empowerment and advocacy consultant. She has written several books about patient advocacy and how to best navigate the healthcare system. 

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When you’re hospitalized, a few important questions come up. What are my hospital visitation rights? Who is allowed to visit me in the hospital? Who can make medical decisions for me when I’m unable to? Over the years, laws have changed and been updated so we want to highlight what you can expect during a hospitalization.

What are my hospital visitation rights?

Since 2011, federal regulations requires any hospital accepting Medicare and Medicaid to allow patients to say who they want as visitors. And this includes the majority of hospitals. The patient’s wishes must be respected regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or relationship. General hospital rules regarding visiting hours will be enforced. However, the enforcement will not discriminate according to relationship.

In addition, if you’re a hospital patient, you may choose someone to act as your advocate. This person can ask questions, speak to doctors on your behalf, and generally become part of your care team.

When do hospital visitation rights get blurry?

Confusion can still come up if you are hospitalized and unable to communicate. And you do not have any signed documents on file with your physician or primary care provider. This can be especially problematic if you don’t have a trusted family member who will show up and make medical decisions on your behalf. Without you being able to make this decision, state rules vary about who can make medical decisions for you. This role may be limited to people related to you by legal marriage or blood, depending on your state’s policies.

Furthermore, under the HIPAA Privacy Rule , if you are unable to give consent, providers can use their judgment regarding who they share your information with. And they do not have to share it with any specific person.

As a patient, what legal documents do I need to protect my rights?

You will need to draw up a Medical Power of Attorney or Health Care Proxy. This allows you to designate an advocate (or two) to make medical decisions on your behalf when you’re unable to. You can also revoke this document at any time, and it only applies in instances where you are incapacitated. It’s also helpful to create an Advance Directive. This includes your personal health care wishes that you want that person to base their decisions on. Rules for these documents differ between states, and you can look up your state’s forms here .

The rules surrounding medical care are complex and shifting but many of today’s laws work on behalf of supporting the patient’s wishes. Our Consumer Advocates are always available to help you understand your rights regarding healthcare coverage as well as general health policies.

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My significant other’s wishes were adhered to in the hospice as long as she was alert and conscious. When she became un-alert and semi-conscious her family banned me from visiting her. She died in the hospice a week later and I was told I would be arrested if I attended her funeral. The family was angry that she started dating (me) after her husband died and did not want to provide child care for her family’s grandchildren, as she and her husband had done for several years. This occurred in a large Catholic hospital with chaplains and social workers on hospice staff. Before she entered the hospice I and visiting nurses cared for her at home. Beware of vindictive and malicious family members. Hospital staffs do whatever they request, you are just a nuisance as the long time friend.

My son-in-law, who is still vindictive and malicious had hospitals ban me from visiting my daughter even when she could talk and communicate herself. He threatened her that he would stop seeing and caring for her if she said I could visit. The hospital carried out all of his wishes. If it had not been for my insistence on visiting anyway, she would have died alone.

I am having similar issues. My sister suffered an Aneurysm and her memory has been foggy since, going to be a long recovery and her husband is being a complete a**. He is, “the husband”, far from the sharpest tool in the shed. He’s always been a little to insecure and involved in all aspects of her life, she can’t even have a conversation on the phone without him inserting himself. He’s not liked by most that meet him, one neighbor told me, “he thinks he’s the king of the block.” Even his own family has had issues, son went as far as changing last name to disassociate himself from him but here we are with him making all her decisions. I truly think my sister has stayed because she feels sorry for him, she definitely can and did do better in the past. But this fool is also trying to control everything and me and my mom are jumping through hoops to prevent from getting banned. I pray my sister recovers 100% because all his actions might be the straw that broke her back. 🤞🏽 He’s gone as far as preventing us from maintaining my sister’s bills because he can handle it, then turns around and creates a go fund me page 😡 using my sisters name and image. Praying that he doesn’t ever gain the power to have us banned, I worry about her care under his authority.

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Dose anyone no a lawyer cuz lawyer I call at malpractice n need something bad to happen. Frist like an injery they not letting me or my mom visit do to his condition now he told them they can talk to me n my mom about what’s rong he’s is a drug addict but he’s there for amonna we were seeing him for 4 days now no one aloud to come they thretin to have me arested for trust passing but u still can walk into his room so I do so there not keeping him safe the drug dealer still going to walk in it’s just my mom wwho respect there rules when I go up they not giving him his meds for he’s sugger a few times already we came n he has not eat because they didn’t bring it or never gave him his inclin so he won’t eat I need help finding a lawyer in new York City for visit in hospital not family Court

my fried has a son , who is in the hospital (NJ) he is 28 has no children of his own and NO spouse… he isher only child .. no they wont let his mother come visit because she not his spouse … discrimination?????

That’s crazy.

My wife is in the hospital and its gonna be a few days before she gets out .she has pancreatitis and is in need of plasma .as her husband they say I cant be with her..she is terrified to be alone throught this due to the covid there is a no visitor rule…is this legal?

Sorry to hear about your wife! There are extenuating circumstances right now, so many hospitals have temporarily removed visitation rights. It is legal.

why couldnt they wheel th patient down to th lobby in a wheel chair? my wife had a touchup surgery from a bk amputation, shes fine, sitting up arguing w th nurses lol, nothing stopping her from moving around, theyr waiting for test results of infections. told us maybe 1 overnight, turns out definitely, thn 2, now 3 more. no answers being answered directly, neither surgeon or infection specialists know wtf to do. shes scared sh*tless n panicking. theyr worried her bp is going up higher n higher- they clueless n thinking of more meds… i mentioned bring her to me in th lobby for 5minutes n see th instant changes… we are a cpl days away from green phase, they wont budge! im ready to drive my truck through th building!

That sounds really tough! It sounds like these restrictions will be cleared soon in your state.

No, it is not legal. Those are policies. There are laws that protect patients and loved ones from those cruel, unfair policies.

you need to sue them for that. NO Doctor has a right to bar you from your wife, NO DOCTOR AT ALL! If that were my wife i’d be dragging them to federal court. It doesn’t matter WHAT your wife is giong through, You have EVERY RIGHT To see her in the medical system. REGARDLESS!

Wondering if the hospital is allowed to deny my mother being with me in the hospital during the delivery of my first child since she is blood. This shouldn’t be a concern however lately it has been! And what can I do to ensure my patient rights are respected?

A lot of hospitals are not allowing visitors because of the risks of COVID-19. You’ll have to talk to the hospital about this.

Trust and believe me I will and if they don’t my family will be forcing our way in you can not refuse me service or I’ll sue their whole organization for slander and for grievance pay

In general covid put aside can a spouse decide who can visit the other spouse at the hospital?

It’s up to the patient to determine who can visit them at the hospital. But a patient may choose someone to act as their advocate. This person can ask questions, speak to doctors on your behalf, and generally become part of your care team.

So my husbands father was murdered when he was 14 the only parent he has left is his mother she only has a week to live drive from Canada to California and the tell him they already made the exception for his half sister so he can’t go in and say his good bye know tell me if this is some bull…. I his wife am a nurse I understand the COVID stuff but this is immediate family same blood and you can’t let one and not the other unless you want siblings fighting when they should be their for each other tell me if this isn’t WRONG

The hospital rules right now are really tough for a lot of people. Many hospitals are only allowing one visitor total. I’m sorry for your situation, and I recommend you speak to the hospital about this.

My partner of 25 years suffered a stroke. He at his best REVOKED his mother of all powers of ATTORNEY had it notarized and sent by mail to the hospital banks and one to her. This was well documented to every party involed. I as his partner began making all the best medical decisions for him. The doctors were gonna let him die but I signed the papers and he had surgery is still alive today. His mother is a genuine NARCISSISTIC behavior. My partner would have lucid phases. At times wasn’t sure reality from floating tables. Anyhow his mother closed his bank accounts took possession of the home we shared. Convinced one nurse she was his agent showing a 5 year old power of attorney. And will not tell no family or friends where she put him. She will not discuss it. I fear for him. She was revoked. What can I do. It’s been 6 months and I’ve tried everything to find him. She’s the only one. And she’s 92. Help!!! I love him

My boyfriend of 8 years was admitted into hospital 23 days ago, and has some confusion and disorientation at times. I would visit him at lunch and dinner to bring him food and feed him if he was hungry and give him some company. They can’t find his glasses and can’t watch TV because his bed obstructs his view, who wouldn’t be disorientated. Yesterday the Dr came in and told me that I wasn’t allowed to visit him or receive updates anymore because I am not married to him and his brother is the next of kin and removed me from the visiting list. I was verbally attacked in the hospital parking lot by his brother confronted with lies about me. How I was responsible for his condition and then verbally and physically attacked by his mother with a cane, one hit to my side. My partner knows I am there and definately would want me to visit. What are my rights? Is he able to say that he wants me to visit? And if he does can I?

If your partner can communicate, he can let them now he wants you to visit. Since 2011, federal regulations requires any hospital accepting Medicare and Medicaid to allow patients to say who they want as visitors. And this includes the majority of hospitals. Confusion can still come up if you are hospitalized and unable to communicate. And you do not have any signed documents on file with your physician or primary care provider. This can be especially problematic if you don’t have a trusted family member who will show up and make medical decisions on your behalf. Without you being able to make this decision, state rules vary about who can make medical decisions for you. This role may be limited to people related to you by legal marriage or blood, depending on your state’s policies.

So if my partner brings me to the ER do I have the right to share only certain medical issues with her from the Doctors?

Yes, you are under no legal obligation to share your medical issues with her and your doctors are not obligated to share any medical information about you with her either.

Hello can anyone tell me if it is illegal to not allow the family of a possibly dying persons (24 hours to live) not be able to visit? Said it was my wishes and that I told my co- Ordinator I didn’t want to see anyone. Lie !!!!! thank Goodness everything turned out well, I am so mad and wondering if a violation of the law was committed. Transplant went very well but I spent most of the time by myself 🙂 made as hell. TT

So a month ago my dad passed away in the hospital from covid/pneumonia. During his whole stay no one at all was allowed to see him, even when he was in ICU contained in a room with glass. The day that he died my family was allowed to see him through the glass after he had passed. This makes no sense to me at all. Should I take legal action???

Due to COVID-19, there are legal rules like this in place to reduce spread within hospitals to those who are sick or immunocompromised. Sorry for your loss.

It is happening to us right now. At a Pittsburgh VA hospital.

My son in law is dying with ards. HVH wont allow family to come and go one at a time to visit. he could die tonight. Charge Nurses should kind and gentle. I know I was a nurse for m40 years.

I’m very sorry to hear that.

My 89 year old Father was recently taken to the ER by ambulance. We instructed them not to admit him until we got there and discussed it. They were supposed to meet up with another ambulance to do an EKG and discuss the results with us. My Mother has MPA over my Father. He suffers extreme PTSD, Anxiety, and Clastrophobia. He also has coherency issues. To further complicate things he is unable to sleep in a bed for the past 12 years and has been confined to a medical recliner and power chair.

When we arrived at the hospital we told them that Mom had an MPA and that he had PTSD, Anxiety, etc….. They said doe to Covid she couldn’t go back. We mentioned again that we needed to speak with charge nurse so that we could relay everything. After waiting 45 minutes a Dr. called to ask questions and probably new less than a 1st year nurse. The questions were ridiculous. We again relayed the PTSD etc. and specifically the MPA. We also told him he was overdue to for his anxiety meds. To no avail in speaking with someone. In the interim we find out later they were forcing him down on a bed holding him down and somewhere along the lines infected him with something to calm him down apparently. He was highly agitated and finally 10 hours later after he had been transferred to an “Observation Room” a floor nurse called to say he was super riled up and if Mom could come down. This is our first conversation with someone at the hospital since the Doctor. 9 hours prior. He at this point is over 13 hours past his needed anxiety and pain meds for his back. Once we got there he looked like he had been beat up. We convince them to let him go after a the blood work finally came back and a Dr. Cleared him. By 12:30 am he was released. Set him back multiple years on control of the PTSD barely sleeps and is agitated most of the time. Also, he never agreed to be admitted and asked several times

My question is relatively simple. At what point does the hospital have to acknowledge the MPA and ask the family for supporting information that could help in the treatment and explain excessive agitation, yelps of pain, etc.. If they had only talked to us even by phone we could have relayed this additional information on his back etc. Again, we did tell the Dr. but I think he was too busy to pay attention and listen.

We spoke tot the Patient Advocate (Hospital employee ) and they of course said their investigation said they followed all guidelines. We asked why they didn’t even come out or call to get background information and we got “Crickets” then is there anything else.

Thanks for any helpful information on what our possible courses of actions are.

Hello, My father was admitted to a local hospital on Saturday night after experiencing a week-long manic episode that escalated to him not sleeping or eating. He was transferred yesterday to an inpatient psychiatric facility in a neighboring city. He does not have his cell phone. My sister, uncle and I have tried calling the hospital to talk to him, but keep being told we have to have a pin (no one in our family has this pin, despite all three of us being given clearance to receive his medical information at the previous hospital). I was told tonight that my dad has to call someone and give them the pin. However, when I asked what happens if he isn’t cognitively healthy enough to call someone, she started repeating “I can’t confirm or deny if he’s here.” I asked if he will be prompted each day to call someone and she again said “I can’t confirm or…” My question for you is what we are supposed to do if he is unable to make the decision to call someone. I was also told there are no visiting hours. So, we have no idea what is happening to him, what state he is in (mentally or physically), how long he will be there, if he’s being treated, etc. Is there anything we can do? Thank you.

I am in the same boat as all who posted. I didn’t ask to get sick, my taxes help support these hospitals etc, but to be scared,lying in a bed knocking at heavens door and to be told sorry sir you are denied any contact with the people who actually love you. You think they could double designate a hospital to COVID patients and give a designated family member the same protection as the medical stafff have. It’s quite obvious this COVID pandemic isn’t as bad as they say it is as I know from personal experience That these icu nurses are allowed to go home with no restrictions and go about mingling with the general public etc. mean while a 1 family number is a risk but not the 1,000’s of medical staff in and out. So why not put patients and staff with COVID in 1 hospital or 2 and have dyeing/ sick people the last few days etc with their loved one designated etc. may god forgive the people who neglect to see that patients are imprisoned from their life as their only crime was getting sick and these medical decision makers play god with no regard to a human need of love from their family

My father is in a care facility after an aneurysm. His wife has banned all FaceTime and visiting from my sister and myself. She allows FT and visiting my other siblings. She also said before Christmas she would take him Off life support. She did not she uses my father to control. The care facility said we can only do FT with a password. However she calls the facility to know who has called. We always had a good and caring relationship with my father. I live in another country and FT was the only way to visit him— also with Covid situation. Is there any transparent Legal Help for helpless situations? Apparently we need to see a judge.

My boyfriend is in the process of getting a divorced unfortunately he is in CCU on a ventilator, and she made a restriction list for visitors and won’t let me see him. Is there a way that I can fight this?

My brother has a wife of 30 years and a girlfriend of 30 years. He’s hospitalized and conscious and very aware of what’s going on. He doesn’t want his wife to stop his girlfriend from visiting him in the event the wife gets angry and tries to keep the girlfriend out. The wife has definitely threatened to tell the hospital about the situation. She even said she going to tell them to ban the girlfriend. We’re from Georgia. Can the wife ban the girlfriend?

hi i need some advice my boyfriend of 4 years is in roseville point and wellness center and i am the only one he has and e had a brain stem bleed so the place where he is at is doing things to him when he dont want it to be done so i speek up for him and they did not like that so they put a no trustpassing order on me and i have not seen my boyfrend for almost 2 months they wont even let me call him i am the only one he has please if anyone can give me some advice on what to do to be able to see my boyfriend again i would really apprate it

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When a friend, family member or loved one is in the hospital, your first instinct is to visit them and show your respects, whether it be due to an illness, injury or accident. Stepping into the hospital environment can be intimidating and scary. Here are some things you should remember when visiting a hospital patient.

What are the most common things that hospital visitors do that they shouldn't?

It's very important to not overstay your welcome when visiting a hospitalized patient. Patients need rest during their stay, and hosting visitors for an extended period can be draining--both physically and emotionally. The length of the visit should be proportional to how well you know the patient, but I’d recommend limiting the visit to one hour or less. If a physician enters during your visit, it's polite to step outside of the room until the conversation is over.

When is the best time to visit someone in the hospital?

The best time to visit a hospitalized patient is in the early evening. The hospital is typically humming with activity throughout the day, when patients are often scheduled for tests, procedures and staff are frequently entering and exiting the room. Toward late afternoon, the hospital tends to slow down a bit. By visiting later in the day, you'll have a better chance of having an uninterrupted visit. Weekends are another great opportunity to visit, as the hospital is usually quieter.

What are a few important things visitors should do before/after visiting the hospital?

Before traveling to the hospital, call to check the visitation policy. Certain units have strict visiting hours and some have policies that restrict the number of visitors. It’s common for young children to be restricted from visiting. If you have any signs of illness, such as fever, runny nose, nasal congestion or cough, it’s recommended that you postpone your visit until you’re well. After arriving at the hospital, check in with the nurse before entering the room to see if any personal protective equipment is required to prevent communicable disease. Washing your hands or using hand sanitizer when you enter or exit a hospital room is one of the most important things you can do to prevent the spread of germs.

Is it OK to bring gifts?

Bringing gifts is a fantastic idea, but isn’t necessary. The presence of a familiar face is often the best present a patient can receive in the hospital. If you do choose to bring a gift, bear in mind that hospital rooms are often small and storage space is limited. A large bouquet of flowers or balloons may seem like a nice gesture, but it may end up making the room feel crowded. Before visiting, I recommend checking in with the patient or a family member to see if they have any gift requests. Maybe there’s a book they’ve been wanting to read, a new issue of a favorite magazine or newspaper, or a small item that reminds them of home that you can bring in. Coloring books, puzzle books and card games also make nice gifts. If you’re thinking about bringing in outside food, check with the nurse or physician first. Patients are often on specialized medical diets and may have certain dietary restrictions. Sean Ankrom is a hospitalist at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center.

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If you're planning on visiting someone in the hospital, you may be feeling anxious, confused, or helpless about that individual's condition. You may even be fearful of seeing that person in a state of illness or incapacity. All of these feelings are normal and can be managed with proper planning. Learning how to manage your emotions and figure out the logistics of a hospital visit can help you be as prepared as possible for this potentially upsetting situation.

Figuring Out the Logistics

• Call ahead with the name of the patient you wish to visit to confirm the location of the patient and the visiting hours for that ward.

• Some patients may not be physically or mentally capable of having visitors. This could be for a variety of reasons, and it's important to be respectful of those reasons.
• The person may be on isolation precautions, meaning you will have to take special steps before entering the room. Speak to a nurse to find out if you need to wear a mask, protective gown, gloves, or other protective equipment. The nurse will be able to provide you with these items and instruct you on proper use. It's important you follow directions exactly, to protect both the patient and yourself.
• Call the hospital and ask to speak with a nurse working on your patient's floor. Ask the nurse whether it would be okay to visit, and provide a rough time frame you'd like to visit.

• Check in with the patient or her family to see if she wants visitors while staying in the hospital.
• If the patient does not want visitors, be respectful of her wishes. You can always send a card or get-well package through the mail or ask the patient's family to deliver it for you.

• If you're ill, you are better off staying out of the hospital for both yourself and the patient. Consider a phone call or video chat instead.
• Even if you're healthy, you should wash your hands before and after visiting the hospital, in particular when you enter and exit the patient’s room. You could accidentally introduce bacteria or viruses to patients inside the hospital, or you could inadvertently carry a serious pathogen home with you when you leave the hospital.
• When you wash your hands, use soap and clean, running water for a total of 20 seconds. [4] X Trustworthy Source Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Main public health institute for the US, run by the Dept. of Health and Human Services Go to source You may also wish to use an alcohol-based hand sanitizer instead of washing your hands.

Feeling Emotionally Prepared

• Start out by only reading credible medical articles. You can find a wealth of information on websites run by hospitals, medical schools, and medical care centers, such as the Mayo Clinic or Medline Plus .
• You can also find endless information in print form. Check your local library for medical textbooks and journals, then research the condition or illness for which your friend or relative is being treated.
• Once you've read some credible medical information, it may be comforting to read some personal accounts that talk about that condition/illness. Look for memoirs or even personal online blogs that discuss that condition or illness. Online forums specific to the illness often have good discussions and information.

• Remember that everyone deals with crisis situations differently. You may be able to maintain your composure and handle the situation, or you may grow anxious, frightened, or even angry.
• These feelings may change as the patient's health improves, declines, or alternates between improvement and decline.

• You can speak with family and friends about any concerns you have, especially if those friends or relatives are also close with the patient you're going to visit.
• If you have deeper-seated emotional concerns, you may want to consider speaking with a therapist or a clergy member (if you are religious).

• You can write anything you want in your journal. You don't have to show it to anyone, and you can even destroy the page when you're finished.
• Try to be consistent in your journaling. Since your feelings may change as the days or weeks go on, it can be helpful to make a daily habit of reflecting and writing.
• You can buy any type of journal you want, from a simple spiral-bound notebook to an elegant leather-bound book of blank pages; however, you may want to consider portability and ease of access when you're deciding on a notebook.
• It may be easier for you to journal on your phone or tablet. There are many apps that allow you to keep a journal on your devices.

• Exercise regularly. This can help you burn off some energy or stress and stay healthy. Even walking around the hospital can help.
• Make sure you're eating a healthy diet. While vending machines are convenient, they mostly contain junk food and you'll need proper nutrition, including a balanced diet with fresh fruits and vegetables.
• Get adequate rest. Remember that most adults need at least seven to nine hours of sleep each night, while some adults may need even more sleep. [7] X Research source
• Do things to help you relax and deal with your stress. Even if you can't leave the hospital, bring books, magazines, crafts, and other things to keep yourself busy and take your mind off of things.

Making a Successful Visit

• Try to base your gift on the individual's tastes.
• Choose a gift that will cheer up the individual. For example, if you know the person is an avid hiker and camper who is eager to get back on the trail, you may want to bring something that will make her think of hiking or camping.
• Consider bringing something that will help the person pass the time, such as a book of crossword puzzles, magazines, a book, or some other activity.
• If you know an image or object might upset the patient, you should avoid bringing anything that might be a reminder of that image or object. For example, if the individual will never be able to walk or ride a bike again, bringing reminders of these activities could be upsetting.

• Anticipate that the patient may be feeling a range of emotions. She may be feeling hopeful, fearful, angry, or she may even be in denial.
• Never tell the individual how she should feel. Simply accept the way she's feeling without criticism or interrogation.
• Ask the individual if she wants to talk about what she is going through. Don't unload your grief or fear on the patient, as she has enough to deal with on her own.
• Let the patient know that you're available to talk anytime. Even if she doesn't want to discuss what she's going through now, that may change with time. Make sure she has your contact information so she can reach you in case she wants to talk later.
• If the patient has a chronic illness/condition or will be going through a prolonged recovery period, be sure that you continue to offer support over the long-term. Many people will be there at first, but your friend or relative will need support down the line.

• Talk to other friends or family members of the patient to coordinate schedules. Let each other know when you're available and what shifts would work best.
• Once you've worked out a schedule, let the patient know who will be staying in the hospital and when. Having a schedule in mind may help give the patient some sense of normalcy.

• Going for a walk, getting yourself some food or coffee, or simply stepping outside to talk on the phone can help give you a mental break from the stress of being in the hospital.
• Let the individual know that you'll be back, and try to provide a rough time estimate. This can help put an anxious hospital patient a bit more at ease.

• Don't point out that the patient looks ill, injured, or otherwise unwell. Likewise, avoid talking about the procedure/surgery unless the patient wants to talk about it.
• Focus on the patient's treatment and recovery. Try to remain positive so that the patient can keep a healthy, positive attitude.
• If the patient is feeling sad or hopeless, try to lift her spirits. Talk about fun or humorous memories and try to get her to think about the fun times you'll have in the future once she is feeling better.

Expert Q&A

• Be aware of what you say to the patient. Never say something like, "Gosh, you gave us all a fright!" This can create feelings of guilt in the patient at a time when they should be focusing on recovery. Thanks Helpful 1 Not Helpful 0
• Try to see the positive things about a hospital stay. Many patients are having babies, getting long awaited life-changing surgery or having treatments that will make them better in the long term. Thanks Helpful 1 Not Helpful 0

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• ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/servicesandsupport/visitors-in-hospital#lp-h-1
• ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/servicesandsupport/visitors-in-hospital#lp-h-2
• ↑ http://www.cdc.gov/features/handwashing/
• ↑ http://med.stanford.edu/cfcenter/services/SupportingLovedOnes.html
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Preventing infections when visiting someone in the hospital

Infections are illnesses that are caused by germs such as bacteria, fungi, parasites, and viruses. Patients in the hospital are already ill. Exposing them to these germs may make it harder for them to recover and go home.

If you are visiting a friend or loved one in the hospital, you need to take steps to prevent spreading germs.

The best way to stop the spread of germs is to:

• Wash your hands often
• Stay home if you are sick
• Use a face mask when directed or when infections may be transmitted through the air
• Keep your vaccines up to date

Hand Washing and Alcohol-based Hand Cleaners

Clean your hands:

• When you enter and leave a patient's room
• After using the bathroom
• After touching a patient
• Before and after using gloves

Remind family, friends, and health care providers to wash their hands when they enter a patient's room.

To wash your hands:

• Wet your hands and wrists, then apply soap.
• Rub your hands together for at least 20 seconds so the soap gets bubbly.
• Remove rings or scrub under them.
• If your fingernails are dirty, use a scrub brush.
• Rinse your hands clean with running water.
• Dry your hands with a clean paper towel.
• Do not touch the sink and faucets after you wash your hands. Use the paper towel to turn off the faucet and open the door.

You may also use alcohol-based hand cleaners (sanitizers) if your hands are not visibly soiled.

• Dispensers can be found in a patient's room and throughout a hospital or other health care facility.
• Apply a dime-sized amount of sanitizer in the palm of one hand.
• Rub your hands together, making sure all surfaces on both sides of your hands and between your fingers are covered.
• Rub until your hands are dry.

Stay Home If You are Sick

Staff and visitors should stay home if they feel sick or have a fever. This helps protect everyone in the hospital.

If you think you were exposed to COVID-19 , chickenpox, the flu, or any other infections, stay home.

Remember, what may seem like just a little cold to you can be a big problem for someone who is sick and in the hospital. If you are not sure if it is safe to visit, call your provider and ask them about your symptoms before you visit the hospital.

Anybody who visits a hospital patient who has an isolation sign outside their door should stop at the nurses' station before entering the patient's room.

Isolation precautions create barriers that help prevent the spread of germs in the hospital. They are needed to protect you and the patient you are visiting. The precautions are also needed to protect other patients in the hospital.

When a patient is in isolation, visitors may:

• Need to wear gloves, a gown, a mask, or some other covering
• Need to avoid touching the patient
• Not be allowed into a patient's room at all

Other Things You Can Do to Prevent Infections

Hospital patients who are very old, very young, or very ill are at the greatest risk for harm from infections such as colds and the flu. To prevent getting the flu and passing it to others, get a flu vaccine each year. To prevent getting COVID-19 and passing it to others, get COVID-19 vaccines according to current recommendations from the Centers for Disease Control. Ask your provider what other vaccines you need.

When you visit a patient in the hospital, keep your hands away from your face. Cough or sneeze into a tissue or into the crease of your elbow, not into the air.

Calfee DP. Prevention and control of health care-associated infections. In: Goldman L, Cooney KA, eds. Goldman-Cecil Medicine . 27th ed. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier; 2024:chap 261.

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website. Infection control. www.cdc.gov/infectioncontrol/index.html . Updated November 18, 2022. Accessed October 20, 2023.

Review Date 10/13/2023

Updated by: Linda J. Vorvick, MD, Clinical Professor, Department of Family Medicine, UW Medicine, School of Medicine, University of Washington, Seattle, WA. Also reviewed by David C. Dugdale, MD, Medical Director, Brenda Conaway, Editorial Director, and the A.D.A.M. Editorial team.

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5 Questions to Ask When an Elderly Family Member Is in the Hospital

What treatment options are available, and what's next after hospitalization?

When an Elderly Family Member Is Hospitalized

Your 80-year-old father is in the intensive care unit with pneumonia and needs dialysis, likely on a permanent basis. Your 76-year-old mother with severe dementia is admitted to the hospital with sudden abdominal pain and faces emergency surgery. With more than 30 million adults in the U.S. over age 70 – a number that's only increasing as Baby Boomers age – many of us are now or soon will be dealing with an elderly family member being hospitalized for an illness.

The most important thing to ask now is: Am I ready?

Families are often surprised about how illness and injury impact a loved one . Physicians frequently hear about how functional elderly patients were before they entered the hospital, that they were driving or mowing their lawns just the day before and were able to live independently. Although patients' activity level and health status before they enter the hospital matters, illness in an 80- or 76-year-old is not the same as illness in a 50-year-old. Overwhelmingly, older patients require longer recoveries after serious illness or injury and are less likely than their younger counterparts to return to their prior quality of life.

As our parents and loved ones age, many of us will likely have to confront a hospitalization after an illness. These are the five most important questions you need to be prepared to answer.

1. Do you know what they want? First things first. The most important part of having these types of conversations is to understand what your loved one wants – and needs. Often in critical illness, older patients aren't able to speak for themselves, and the true role of family members is to serve as interpreters. What would your family member tell us if he or she were able to? What kind of medical care would they want to pursue in this type of situation? Having these types of conversations before people get sick, although seemingly difficult, are imperative to ensuring your loved one receives the care they want to receive.

[See: 14 Ways to Protect Seniors From Falls .]

2. What treatments is your loved one currently receiving? Just as importantly, are these treatments or interventions uncomfortable or painful for the patient? It's important to ask about expected benefits as well as the potential for any significant side effects or risks that could have long-term consequences on your loved one's quality of life.

3. What treatment options are available? Modern medicine has afforded physicians and surgeons with a number of treatment options for patients, depending on what they want. As a family member making (or helping make) medical decisions, it's important to know that there are options – even if that option may be to not pursue further interventions or to decline the current treatment plan. Asking for best-case and worst-case scenarios for treatments and interventions is often helpful in the decision-making process.

[See: 14 Ways Caregivers Can Care for Themselves .]

4. What's next after hospitalization? What kind of help do you think they might need after they leave the hospital, and where will they receive this care? Recovery doesn't end after a patient is discharged; on the contrary, it's only the beginning. Even if a patient has been living independently at home, your loved one may not be able to return home or live independently after a significant illness or injury. Understanding what type of help or living situation would likely be needed, such as a nursing home or rehabilitation facility, and for how long, will guide discussions about treatments during the hospital stay.

5. What kind of quality of life can you expect after a hospitalization? Is my loved one at an increased risk of further complications or hospitalizations ? "Recovery" can mean different things to different people, and it's important to understand what life will potentially look like after your loved one leaves the hospital. Asking the physicians if your mom or dad will be able to participate in his or her favorite activities is a great place to start. In addition, asking about further risk is important, as a hospital stay now may mean an increased chance of a hospital stay in the future. For example, only a little over half of all elderly patients who sustain a hip fracture are able to return to a level of function similar to that before the fracture. In addition, even though the mortality immediately around a hip fracture surgery is relatively low, many people are surprised to find that approximately one-fourth of these patients will die within one year of surgery because of issues surrounding immobility. Knowing not only what's happening in the hospital, but also what is likely to happen after the hospital, is key to making the decisions that are right for your loved one.

[See: The Best Ways for Nursing Home Residents to Stay Active .]

Navigating the health care of an elderly family member can seem intimidating, and especially so when that family member is critically ill . Asking these questions can help ensure you are truly providing the care that your loved one needs – and wants.

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Past Tense of Visit: Mastering English Grammar

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Posted on Last updated: September 27, 2023

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In this article, we will explore how to form the past tense of visit, common mistakes to avoid, and provide you with practice exercises to help you master the past tense of visit. By the end of this article, you will have a solid understanding of the past tense form of ‘visit’ and be able to use it confidently in your writing and speaking.

Key Takeaways

• The past tense of ‘visit’ is ‘visited’.
• To form the past tense of ‘visit’, add ‘-ed’ to the base form of the verb.
• Practice exercises can help you master the past tense of ‘visit’.

Understanding Past Tense

As an English learner, understanding the concept of past tense is crucial in communicating effectively in English. The past tense is used to describe actions or events that have already happened. In this section, we will explore the different forms of past tense and how to use them correctly.

Regular Past Tense Verbs

Most regular verbs in English form the past tense by adding -ed to the base form of the verb. For example, the past tense of “visit” is “visited”. Here are some more examples:

• Walk – walked
• Talk – talked
• Play – played

Irregular Past Tense Verbs

Irregular verbs in English have a different form in the past tense. These verbs do not follow the standard -ed rule. Here are some common irregular verbs and their past tense forms:

Using the Past Tense in Sentences

To use the past tense in a sentence, we need to know the subject, verb, and object. For example, “I visited my grandparents last weekend.” In this sentence, “I” is the subject, “visited” is the verb in the past tense, and “my grandparents” is the object.

Practice Exercises

Here are some exercises to help you practice using the past tense:

• Fill in the blanks with the correct form of the verb in parentheses:
• Yesterday, I (eat) a delicious pizza for dinner.
• She (buy) a new car last week.
• Rewrite the following sentences in the past tense:
• I am going to the store. (I went to the store.)
• He plays soccer every weekend. (He played soccer every weekend.)

The Verb Visit

If you’re learning English, you’ll need to know how to use the verb “visit” in the past tense. In this section, we’ll cover the basics of how to use “visited” in English grammar.

Past Tense of Visit

The past tense of “visit” is “visited.” This means that if you want to talk about a visit that happened in the past, you would use “visited” in your sentence. For example:

• I visited my grandparents last weekend.
• She visited the museum yesterday.

Using “Visited” in Sentences

To use “visited” in a sentence, you’ll need to know how to conjugate the verb correctly. Here are some examples:

• I visited my friend’s house yesterday.
• He visited his parents over the weekend.
• We visited the beach last summer.

Here are some exercises to help you practice using “visited” in sentences:

• Fill in the blank: I __________ my sister last night. (visited)
• Rewrite the sentence in the past tense: She visits her grandparents every Sunday. (She visited her grandparents every Sunday.)
• Make a sentence using “visited” and “museum.” (She visited the museum last week.)

If you’re learning English grammar, it’s important to understand how to form the past tense of verbs. In this section, we’ll explore how to form the past tense of the verb ‘visit’.

The past tense form of ‘visit’ is ‘visited’. To form the past tense, simply add ‘-ed’ to the base form of the verb because it’s a regular verb. Here are some examples:

• Present tense: I visit my grandmother every week.
• Past tense: I visited my grandmother last week.

It’s important to note that ‘visited’ is also the past participle form of ‘visit’. The past participle is used in the present perfect and past perfect tenses. Here are some examples:

• Present perfect: I have visited my grandmother many times.
• Past perfect: I had visited my grandmother before she passed away.

Here are some more examples of regular verbs in past tense:

It’s important to practice using the past tense of ‘visit’ in context. Here are some example sentences:

• I visited my friend in the hospital yesterday.
• She visited her grandparents over the weekend.
• We visited the museum last month.
• They had visited the city before, so they knew their way around.

By understanding how to form the past tense of ‘visit’, you’ll be able to communicate more effectively in English. Keep practicing and you’ll get the hang of it in no time!

Examples of ‘Visited’ in Sentences

When learning the past tense of the verb ‘visit’, it is important to understand how it is used in sentences. Here are some examples of the past tense of ‘visit’, which is ‘visited’:

• “I visited my grandparents last weekend.”
• “She visited the museum yesterday.”
• “They visited the park every day during their vacation.”
• “He visited the doctor twice last month.”

As you can see, the past tense of ‘visit’ is used to describe a completed action in the past. It is often used with a time reference to indicate when the visit occurred.

In addition to using ‘visited’ to describe a single action in the past, it can also be used to describe a repeated action in the past. Here are some examples:

• “I visited my grandparents every summer when I was a child.”
• “She visited the museum regularly when she lived in the city.”
• “They visited the park every weekend during the summer.”

When using ‘visited’ to describe a repeated action in the past, it is often used with an adverb of frequency, such as ‘every’, ‘regularly’, or ‘often’.

It is also important to note that ‘visited’ can be used in various tenses, such as the present perfect and past perfect. Here are some examples:

• “I have visited Paris twice.”
• “She had visited the museum before, so she knew what to expect.”
• “They will have visited all the major tourist attractions by the end of their trip.”

In conclusion, understanding the past tense of ‘visit’ is essential for effective communication in English. By using ‘visited’ in various tenses and contexts, you can accurately describe past actions and experiences.

Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

Learning the past tense of the verb “visit” is important for anyone who wants to speak English fluently. However, it can be tricky to use it correctly, especially for non-native speakers. Here are some common mistakes and tips to avoid them:

Mistake 1: Using the wrong form of the verb

Incorrect: I visitted my grandparents last weekend. Correct: I visited my grandparents last weekend.

The past tense of “visit” is “visited”, not “visitted”. Remember to remove the extra “t” at the end.

Mistake 2: Using the present tense instead of the past tense

Incorrect: I visit my friend yesterday. Correct: I visited my friend yesterday.

Using the present tense instead of the past tense is a common mistake. Remember to use the past tense when talking about an action that happened in the past.

Tips to Avoid Mistakes

• Practice, practice, practice! The more you use the past tense of “visit”, the easier it will become.
• Pay attention to the context of the sentence. Is it talking about something that happened in the past? If so, use the past tense.
• Use grammar checkers and dictionaries to help you avoid mistakes.
• Try to memorize irregular verbs and their past tense forms, including “visit” (“visited”).

By avoiding these common mistakes and practicing using the past tense of “visit”, you will become more confident and accurate in your English language skills.

Past Tense of Visit: Practice Exercises

Learning the past tense of verbs is essential for effective communication in English. In this section, we will provide some practice exercises to help you master the past tense of the verb ‘visit.’

Affirmative Sentences

Fill in the blank with the correct past tense form of ‘visit’:

• I _______ my grandparents last weekend. (visited)
• She _______ her friend in the hospital yesterday. (visited)
• They _______ the museum last month. (visited)

Questions and Negatives

To form questions and negatives in the past tense, we use the auxiliary verb ‘did’ and the base form of the main verb. Here are some practice exercises to help you form questions and negatives in the past tense of ‘visit’:

Rewrite the following sentences into questions and negatives:

She visited her sister yesterday.

• Did she visit her sister yesterday?
• She did not visit her sister yesterday.

They went to visit their grandparents last weekend.

• Did they go to visit their grandparents last weekend?
• They did not go to visit their grandparents last weekend.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the past tense of visit?

The past tense of visit is visited.

How do you change visit to simple past tense?

To change visit to the simple past tense, you simply add -ed to the end of the verb. Therefore, the simple past tense of visit is visited.

What are some examples of simple past tense of the verb visit?

Here are some examples of simple past tense using the verb visit:

• She visited her friend in the hospital yesterday.
• They visited the museum on their trip.

What is the rule for forming the past tense of regular verbs?

The rule for forming the past tense of regular verbs is to add -ed to the base form of the verb. For example, the base form of visit is visit, so the past tense is visited.

Can you give me some irregular past tense verbs?

Yes, here are some irregular past tense verbs:

• go – went
• eat – ate
• see – saw
• do – did
• have – had

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• She visited her family over the weekend.
• They visited the beach last summer.

Remember to always use the correct form of the verb to match the tense of the sentence.

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Bringing Comfort to Elderly Family In the Hospital

March 18, 2020

Hospital stays are often a fact of life for seniors — but that doesn’t make them any more pleasant or easy to deal with. 

For seniors, a stay in the hospital or in an outpatient facility, such as a rehab or surgical center, can be disorienting and tiresome. For older adults, it can be frightening to feel like they’re all alone in an unfamiliar place. At the same time, going into a hospital often means undergoing surgery , changing up their medications, or starting on a new treatment regimen, which can all leave elderly adults feeling vulnerable or uncertain about the future. 

For family caregivers with a loved one in the hospital, the experience is not much easier. 

It can be intimidating and scary to think about your loved one having to spend their time in a strange facility. Meanwhile, it often falls to loving family caregivers to handle the logistical side of things — including coordinating their senior loved one’s care, communicating with doctors, gathering paperwork, and planning for all that goes into admission and discharge. 

This can be an emotional and trying time. It’s important to remember to think about what you can do to bring comfort, joy, and peace to your senior loved ones while they’re in the hospital — while also protecting your own health and peace of mind as a family caregiver. 

Looking for some inspiration? Curious about how you can make things easier and more comfortable for the senior patient in your life? 

Here are some easy, powerful ways that family caregivers can help seniors to feel supported, think positively, and enjoy the comforts of home during a stay in a hospital or rehab facility: 

Bring the Essentials

For seniors settling in for a long hospitalization, comfort and contentment start with the little things. As you get your loved one ready for their time away from home, don’t forget to pack the daily essentials they need to keep up with their routines. Depending on your loved one’s preferences and circumstances , this might include: 

• Several changes of clothes , including comfy underwear and socks
• Eye mask and earplugs , to make sleeping easier 
• Face wash, soap, and other bathing essentials 
• Eyeglasses , along with accessories like eyeglass cases and wipes
• Toothbrush and toothpaste
• Hearing aids and extra batteries
• Hair brush and comb
• Skin creams, lotions, and lip balms
• Important documents and paperwork , organized in a folder for easy access (including insurance information, advanced directives and estate planning documents , a contact list for family and friends , medication lists , and so on)

While the hospital may provide some of these items, your loved one may feel more comfortable and confident if they are able to bring some familiar products with them. Be sure to ask the hospital or treatment center about any restrictions on what your loved one can keep with them in their room. 

Provide a Personal Touch

In addition to grooming and hygiene essentials, think about what you can offer to your senior loved one to help brighten up their day, create a sense of home, or give them something fun to focus on. Think about small decor and bedding items that won’t take up too much space, such as: 

• A framed photo of the senior’s family or pets
• A comforting, light blanket , such as a fleece or flannel throw
• A comfy pillow from home , or one with an encouraging message of support
• Flowers in a pretty container
• A stuffed animal to hug and hold
• Light snacks and drinks , including some of your senior’s favorites to give them a break from hospital food

Be sure to consult with your loved one’s doctors and hospital staff before making any big changes to their space. Be respectful of any limits set by nurses or other healthcare providers. 

Offer Fun Things to Do

Staying in a hospital can alternate between being slow and dull, and incredibly stressful. When the pendulum swings in either direction, your loved one may benefit from having something to do to stay occupied. Help your loved one keep their mind sharp and their hands busy by bringing by some accessible activities, such as: 

• Crossword and sudoku puzzles
• Easy-to-transport board games , like a travel chess or checkers set 
• Adult coloring books and colored pencils
• Magazines and books
• A notepad and pencil for writing down thoughts and questions
• A tablet or phone preloaded with music, podcasts, or movies

Be Flexible and Respect the Senior’s Needs

Remember that a hospital stay can be challenging, stressful, and frightening. Your loved one may feel weak or tired as they recover from a procedure, or disoriented due to spending so much time in a bustling new environment. Try to be as flexible, patient, and accommodating as possible. 

• Be ready to sit in silence when your loved one does not want to talk. 
• Recognize when they need a break , and be ready to let them sleep 
• Be understanding if the senior is nervous, tired, or frustrated , and try not to argue or talk down to them
• Give them privacy when they need to dress, change their bandages, or consult with a nurse
• Keep family visits short, if necessary
• Give notice when you or another family member is visiting , so your loved one can prepare emotionally and physically 
• Help out where you can. If requested, offer a hand with closing the blinds, helping your loved one figure out the settings on their TV, or adjusting the thermostat.

Provide Companionship

It can get lonely in a hospital. Getting the chance to spend time with friends and loved ones can light up a senior’s day, giving them something to enjoy and look forward to. As a family caregiver, try to simply be present as often as possible to: 

• Share meals 
• Sit quietly together 
• Work on fun activities
• Offer support with moving around, dressing, grooming, and hygiene

For those times when you can’t be there, a professional senior companion can step in and help! An experienced professional caregiver or companion can provide personalized attention and support for your loved one while they rest in the hospital or an outpatient facility. In addition to helping with routine activities of daily living (ADLs) — such as bathing, dressing, and moving around the facility — a companion can offer true friendship to the senior, sharing conversation, games, and meals to help your loved one feel right at home. 

Don’t Forget to Care for Yourself

As a caregiver, be sure to make time for your own needs . Remember, your loved one almost certainly wants you to be rested and healthy — not worn down and stressed! Carve out time to take breaks, get some sleep, exercise, drink water, and eat nutritious meals. 

Don’t be afraid to reach out for help! A professional caregiver can take some of the responsibility of daily care off of your plate, so you can focus on other important things, whether that means getting your loved one’s home ready for their return or taking care of financial matters on their behalf. A companion can also help carry some of the load as your loved one transitions back home after their hospital stay, when they may require additional care and supervision above what you can provide on your own. 

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Do you think your loved one could benefit from the attention and companionship that a professional caregiver can provide? Do you have any more questions, or want to discuss what may be the best course of action for you and your senior loved one as they get ready for a stay in the hospital? Companions for Seniors would be happy to help!

At Companions for Seniors, our companions are trained and bonded, and can help your family shoulder some of the responsibilities of caring for an aging loved one. We are locally owned and operated in Chicago, with clients in the city and suburbs.

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• Driving services
• Preparing and serving meals
• Light housekeeping
• Laundry help 
• Assistance with bathing, grooming, and dressing
• Social support and friendship

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Things To Consider When Visiting Elderly Relatives Amid Coronavirus Crisis

Allison Aubrey

Given the rise in COVID-19 cases, public health officials warn people to be more vigilant when they're out. Is there a safe way to visit grandma and grandpa and other elderly relatives or friends?

RACHEL MARTIN, HOST:

Nearly 120,000 people have died in the U.S. from COVID-19, and about 20 states are currently seeing an increase in cases. Given this rise, public health officials are warning people to be more vigilant as they're out and about. And another question - is there a safe way to visit Grandma and Grandpa and other elderly relatives or friends this summer? NPR's Allison Aubrey is with us to help answer those questions. Hi, Allison.

ALLISON AUBREY, BYLINE: Good morning, Rachel.

MARTIN: So let's start with something that President Trump said. He was at this rally in Tulsa, Okla., over the weekend, and he commented that he had wanted to limit coronavirus testing to keep the case numbers low. What has been the reaction to that? That would obviously be a very controversial thing.

AUBREY: (Laughter) Right. Well, a White House spokesperson said the president was joking when he made that comment, yet some Democratic lawmakers say the administration has yet to fully distribute all the funds allocated for testing. And that aside, if you look back, it is clear that a lack of testing capacity early on did make it hard to know who was infected, right? I mean, I'd say the issue remains politicized because now that testing is more widely available, Trump administration officials say, well, the rise in cases being documented now, it's just a reflection of increased testing; doesn't necessarily mean the virus is on the rise.

MARTIN: Is there any truth to that? I mean, is the increased testing giving us more cases?

AUBREY: No, it's not the case. I mean, all you need to do is look at the hospitalizations. In Texas, for instance, the number of people hospitalized with COVID-19 has increased nearly every day this month. In Houston, the CEO of Houston Methodist, physician Marc Boom, he says there are now more than two times as many people hospitalized compared to Memorial Day. He says the trend line is concerning.

MARC BOOM: This is not a testing issue. I mean, I can unequivocally state that the numbers of tests that have been positive are up very dramatically over the last three weeks. We've let our guard down. We've gotten too lackadaisical. And if we don't change that very rapidly, we could be in trouble in about three weeks.

AUBREY: He says what's notable is that it's now some younger people being admitted with COVID-19 to the hospital. That's compared to what they saw in March and April with older patients.

MARTIN: Why? Just because older people have been taking the precautions and staying home and younger people haven't?

AUBREY: I think that's one explanation. And Boom says many people seem to get the impression that everything was back to normal.

BOOM: People really then breathed a sigh of relief, kind of opened up, did everything out there, threw caution to the wind. And I think we're starting to pay the price for it. People really have to change their behaviors now, or we're going to all regret it.

AUBREY: Because young people are much more likely to survive the virus when they get it. And so far, he says, the death rate among these recent patients seems lower. That's just a preliminary look. But remember - most transmissions are thought to happen in households. So a young person can bring the virus home, spread it to older, higher-risk people in the home.

MARTIN: So Allison, you told us about Texas. Another hotspot right now is Phoenix, Ariz. Tell us what experts are saying there.

AUBREY: Well, there is a significant increase there, too. And that, again, cannot be explained by increased testing. I spoke to Aaron Carroll about this. He's a physician and a health policy expert at Indiana University. He says an important factor to look at here is the increase in the percentage of tests coming back positive.

AARON CARROLL: If testing was increasing but the percentage of positive tests was staying steady or going down, that would be an argument for, hey, you know, we're just testing more and more healthy people. But the testing percentages in Arizona are through the roof. So the fact that the percent of tests is going up as the number of tests is going up is hugely concerning that more and more people are getting infected.

AUBREY: And all of this, Rachel, is, of course, a reminder to be vigilant about social distancing and masking. These are our best defenses against the virus.

MARTIN: So, Allison, we hear this time and time again - right? - the importance of taking all these precautions and being conscientious.

AUBREY: Yes.

MARTIN: I mean, the hard thing, I think, is that people have a hard time measuring how well it's working.

AUBREY: That's right.

MARTIN: There aren't concrete metrics, right?

AUBREY: That's right. Well, when scientists analyze all the cellphone location data, they see all the increased mobility of states' relaxed restrictions. It is clear that having more people out and about in crowds is linked to more cases. There are lots of models out there. One from scientists at the University of Pennsylvania suggests there could be about 30,000 more deaths over the next couple of months if people slip and reduce compliance with social distancing and masking and hand hygiene. That's one estimate.

I spoke to Aaron Carroll about this. He says - bottom line - crowds bring risk, especially at indoor events, like the rally in Tulsa over the weekend, even if the arena wasn't completely filled.

CARROLL: You had a lot of people bunched up together, screaming and yelling and, for the most part, refusing to wear masks - and so doing very little of the things that I would suggest people should do to be safe. That is what had me very concerned and probably a lot of other experts.

AUBREY: And despite the resistance to masking and the fact that some people see them as a political statement, there is increasing evidence that wearing one really can significantly slow the spread of the virus.

MARTIN: So we still know that the elderly population really is one of the most vulnerable to the virus. It's summertime. You and I have talked about summer before.

AUBREY: (Laughter) Yes.

MARTIN: This is the time when we go reconnect with our family. We go reconnect...

MARTIN: ...With grandparents.

AUBREY: That's right. We're all trying to do this.

MARTIN: How do we? How do we do it safely?

AUBREY: Ah, this is something I've been thinking about a lot because I want to do this as well - take my kids to see my parents. You know, there's no such thing as zero risk since the virus is still circulating. But to minimize the risk, you want to slowly expand your bubble to include those you really want to spend time with.

MARTIN: Yeah.

AUBREY: And you got to be choosy. You can't go to a beach house with a whole bunch of families, then pop in for a visit with the grandparents. You've got to be mindful. And Bill Miller - he's a physician and an epidemiologist at The Ohio State University - he says if you're going to stay with the grandparents in their home, you want to go into almost quarantine mindset for the 10 to 14 days, if possible, before you visit, which means, you know, work from home, limit outings, limit play dates - really take precautions.

WILLIAM MILLER: So once you're there, you basically just want to keep your bubble intact. You don't want to be going out and, you know, going to theme parks or museums and that sort of thing, even if the grandparents don't go along, right? That's the thing to remember, is if you're sharing the house, everything that you do is shared with the elderly folks.

AUBREY: Your exposure could become their exposure. And it's also not unreasonable, before you go, to have the family or kids tested. Keep in mind, tests are not 100% accurate, and if there are days between being tested and the actual visit, there's certainly a chance of exposure during that period. So you want to consider this as well.

MARTIN: So many things to balance.

MARTIN: NPR's Allison Aubrey has been helping us make these decisions for the last few weeks...

AUBREY: (Laughter).

MARTIN: ...And will continue to do so. NPR's Allison Aubrey, again, thanks.

AUBREY: Thank you, Rachel.

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Do’s and Don’ts for Visiting Someone with Dementia

People with dementia can still enjoy having visitors

Older adults with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia may still enjoy having visitors.

To help everyone have a positive experience when visiting someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia, a little advance preparation goes a long way.

You can set visitors up for success by sharing some do’s and don’ts ahead of time and create a calm environment so your older adult can focus better.

Having a great visit and understanding more about dementia might even encourage family and friends to visit more often.

4 tips for planning visits strategically

• Limit visitors to 1 or 2 people at a time. Too many people can be overwhelming.
• Schedule visits for the time of day when your older adult is usually at their best.
• Minimize distractions by keeping the environment calm and quiet . Turn off the TV or loud music and ask any non-visitors to go to another room.
• Send the do’s and don’ts list to your visitors ahead of time so they’ll have time to absorb the information.

21 essential do’s and don’ts for visiting someone with Alzheimer’s

• Keep your tone and body language  friendly and positive.
• Don’t speak too loudly.
• Make eye contact and stay at their eye level.
• Introduce yourself even if you’re sure they must know you. “Hi Grandma, I’m Joe, your grandson.”
• Speak slowly and in short sentences with only one idea per sentence. For example: “Hi Mary. I’m Jane, your friend.” or “What a beautiful day. The sunshine is nice, isn’t it?” or “Tell me about your daughter.”
• Give them extra time to speak or answer questions, don’t rush the conversation.
• Use open-ended questions so there will be no right or wrong answers.
• Be ok with sitting together in silence. They may enjoy that just as much as talking.
• Follow their lead, don’t force conversation topics or activities.
• Validate their feelings. Allow them to express sadness, fear, or anger.
• Enter their reality . Go with the flow of the conversation even if they talk about things that aren’t true or don’t make sense.
• Share and discuss memories of the past. They’re more likely to remember things from long ago.
• Come prepared with an activity, like something to read out loud, a photo album to look at, or some of their favorite music to listen to.
• Give hugs, gentle touches, or massage arms or shoulders if the person gives permission and enjoys it.
• Say “do you remember?” This can cause anger or embarrassment.
• Argue. If they say something that’s not correct, just let it go .
• Point out mistakes. It just makes them feel badly and doesn’t help the conversation.
• Assume they don’t remember anything. Many people have moments of clarity.
• Take mean or nasty things they say personally. The disease may twist their words or make them react badly out of confusion, frustration, fear, or anger.
• Talk down to them. They aren’t children and you should show the proper respect.
• Talk about them with other people as if they’re not there.

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• Answer 3 Tough Questions from Seniors with Alzheimer’s
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My 93 yr old mother is in a memory care nursing home. She has been there 3 months and still is confused about where she is and why she is not at home. When I visit (once or twice a week) she cries when I leave and begs me not to. Would it help her if I just go for shorter visits daily at the same time?

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That’s a great thing to try. It often takes some experimenting to find something that will work and help her feel more calm at the end of your visits. If her dementia is advanced enough that her short-term memory has declined significantly, you could try something like telling her you’re going to the restroom (instead of saying you’re leaving) and then she won’t remember that you didn’t come back.

You could also try giving her a stuffed animal (maybe one that reminds her of a former pet?) or a baby doll to help provide comfort. We’ve got more info here – https://dailycaring.com/the-positive-effect-of-therapy-dolls-for-dementia/

my friend is in an assisted living facility, and wants to come to our house to play cards one night her POA does not think that is a good idea.

It’s great that you want to keep playing cards with your friend. There might be a good reason why her POA doesn’t think it’s a good idea. Maybe you could visit her in the assisted living community and play cards there.

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dimentia victims,are all about,care , loving n passion,it’s a stage where every patient need that feeling of love,and care from those around him or her

Absolutely! 💜

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my close friend has dementia. She is now at a facility that takes care of her. I visit with her at least once a week.

It’s wonderful that she’s well cared for and that you’re able to visit so often 💜

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12 Best Items to Pack for a Hospital Stay

CaringBridge Staff | 09.12.19

If your loved one has an overnight or extended hospital stay, you’ll need to bring a few things. The question is: what should you bring?

Here are 12 of the most important items to pack in your hospital bag for a long stay:

1. Pillows and Blankets from Home

Your softest blankets and plushest pillows can help you feel more relaxed and at home, which is especially helpful during long hospital stays.

If anyone is good at the tied quilts, crocheted blankets and or knit blankets they are made for patients who haven’t any family. Our church calls them prayer blankets. But it’s ok just to make and send them to the hospitals pastoral care. Nurses love them. It brightens their room and their outlook. Theresa P.

2. Extra Clothes

Sometimes, you won’t know exactly how long you’ll be staying at the hospital. Packing a few changes of clothes and sleepwear will make you more comfortable and will prevent you from making extra trips back home.

3. Books/Journal

Long stays in the hospital can mean a lot of extra free time. Make sure to pack a few of your favorite books and magazines to keep your mind busy. Some people also find comfort in bringing a Bible or their journal to stay inspired during this time.

4. Pictures of Family and Friends

Having photos of family and friends around is a great reminder of how much love and support is in your loved one’s life. Fun snapshots from family vacations or silly photos of friends will make everyone smile.

Something I like to do is to make a “happy bag” for my daughter. I buy little gifts, usually on clearance, and store them until I know she is going to the hospital. then I put several of them into a small gift bag to give to her while at the hospital. Another thing I do is , if I know it will be and extended stay I have a stash of party , and/or holiday decorations that I use to decorate her room with to cheer her up with. It also works to make the medical team happier. Jill R.

5. Toiletries

Bring along your everyday toiletries. These include:

• Toothbrush/toothpaste
• Shampoo, conditioner and soap
• Hairbrush/comb
• Makeup/lip balm
• Contacts/solution and eyeglasses

6. Phone/Laptop Chargers

You want your phone at full battery to stay in touch with other family members and friends. You may also find your laptop helpful at this time, like if you need to catch up on work or want it for entertainment. Don’t forget headphones if you’ll be listening to something on your device – to not disturb other patients.

7. Extension Cords

Extension cords can come in handy since plugs may not always be in the most convenient locations.

8. Something Comforting

Whether it be a teddy bear, essential oils or fuzzy socks, bring something that always makes you feel comfortable and safe. That way, you’ll always have a little piece of home, even while you’re away.

9. Eye Mask/Ear Plugs

If you have trouble sleeping, an eye mask and earplugs can be helpful in catching some much-needed ZZZs.

10. Medicine

If you’re fighting off a cold or are prone to headaches, consider packing OTC pain or cold medication so you can make sure you’re staying well (but always check with your doctor before taking).

11. Water/Snacks

Bringing your own food and drinks can help you eat healthier and save you money.

Important : Please note these guidelines when bringing outside food and drinks into the hospital:

• Check with the nurse, doctor or dietitian if the food is for the patient.
• Prepare the food safely.
• Bring single-serve items to prevent waste.
• Don’t store perishable foods in the room.
• Label all food items to prevent food from being taken by other patients.

If you decide to eat at the hospital, remember quarters and dollars for the vending machines.

Lately, we’ve started packing the single serving hand held chicken noodle soups that go in the microwave, but we always comply with diet restrictions. So often the food she is served is unappetizing. Use good sense, comply with regulations, but if you’re a frequent flyer you know what your hospital allows or doesn’t. Lastly, don’t take anything you can’t afford to lose. Nedra C.

12. A Gift for the Nurses

They care for your loved one – it can be a very kind gesture to show them you care, too.

For inspiration, here are some fun  gifts ideas for nurses .

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Thanks for your help. I have been in a wheelchair for 43years. Got to help others if you are able I have tried to help others with my own advice from having been in hospital many times. The addition of thank you cards for the nurse staff as well as aLl who help remind ed me to share my gratitude. Cheers. Ron Henderson

I always bring extra undies socks slippers….floors cold…..most of the time pjs is good bottoms ….due. To.test this that. …and another..things like lqptops phones is not always a great idea. …things diaapear in case u have too be moved too different room…..at all hours….

i’m 55 almost 56 years old i got bad knees and my legs are starting give out im going to need a hip and or both knees replaced soon due to being almost 400 lbs for many years and being 6 feet 5 inches tall doesnt help i will require a 7-10 hostipal stay for recovery so i would want an iphone or ipad or chromebook

IAM 70 YEARS OLD, AND HAVE GANGRENE ON LEFT FOOT, A IN NEED OF A AMPUTATION. DONT HAVE NO IDEAR WHAT TO EXPECT BEFOR DURING AND AFTER ! IS THIRE SOME HELP FOR ME ?

depends on if it is for mental heath issus if there is my mental health i bring my meds in the bottle and several outfits that are string free if its for medical my blanket pillow and pills in the bottle

Bring something for gas, like GasX. A lot of abdominal type surgeries can leave you with horrible and very painful gas. The hospitals usually do not have it.

Also pa k bday wash or favorite soap and some body or moisturizing cream

Pen and notebook, write everything down so you read it when you feel better, you tend to not listen when sick

I pack much of the above and a watch, thank you cards, a small note pac and my Bible. Music helps me a lot too. I keep everything in a backpack by the door because I understand that I will most likely end up going quite often. I go solo so I have all that I might need to get through my stay. The hospital bed speaker has an earphone jack and I like to us that. I stay connected through Caring bridge in and out of the hospital.

I always bring my own slippers and soft socks, my own jammies, and a bathrobe

I wish I had some plastic or cloth bags that I could tie to the bed rail – to hold things within my reach. Sometimes workers would leave my table too far from my bed and I couldn’t get to it without setting off an alarm.

What to pack? Phone, iPad, chargers and air pods or earphones. Pens and notepad. Hand mirror. Moisturizer and body lotion. Nail cleaner, emery board, nail clipper. Lip balm. Facial cleanser. Wash cloth. Warm cardigan or jacket. Sweat pants – for warmth and modesty when they make you get up and walk thru the halls. Fuzzy slippers. Minimal makeup – blush, lipstick, under eye concealer. Water bottle. Pareau (or large scarf/shawl) to wrap around your waist if you have to wear a hospital gown.

Hot chocolate packets, the broth packets from Romen noodles, my own spoon and cup, my favorite water bottle, my current cross stitch project, a portable DVD player and DVDs, my own night gown, socks and underware

Bring a medium duffel bag with a small lock/key. Inside: magazine, book, phone charger, travel tooth brush/toothpaste, brush/comb, lip balm, hand creme (air is dry in the hospital), small drawing pad/pen, slippers, couple pair underwear, deodorant, extra outfit, ziploc, small trash bag for soiled items, small momento/photo.

In many hospitals you can ask for shampoos, soaps and some are the no rinse body wash/shampoo type. They have them, you have to ask.

do not bring anything of value. also don’t bring too much, space for is typically limited.

Something I like to do is to make a “happy bag” for my daughter. I buy little gifts, usually on clearance, and store them until I know she is going to the hospital. then I put several of them into a small gift bag to give to her while at the hospital. Another thing I do is , if I know it will be and extended stay I have a stash of party , and/or holiday decorations that I use to decorate her room with to cheer her up with. It also works to make the medical team happier.

Cozy slippers with rubber grippy bottoms and a scarf to keep warm.

Bringing a prayer blanket or shawl is comforting and a great witness!

“If you’re female and at “that age,” extra panty liners may be essential. Or diapers.

CPAP machine and mask wear.

Explore natural medicine. Take more control of your health and stay out of the hospital. Investigate homeopathy!

As a nurse , having extension cords along the floor can be dangerous. Someone can trip over them and wheels of carts may have trouble crossing over them. A battery charger for your cell phone may be better. A sone hospitals you can’t plug a devise into a hospital outlet. Usually there is a red plate over these special outlets. Check with nurses. There are many germs in hospitals, so all blankets, toys should be washed in between visits . I hope people do ask before taking OTC meds! Very important and outside food too. Put your name on every pillow , blanket , clothing or items from home because it can be stollen or mixed in with hospital laundry. If unnecessary items can be sent home please do because there is less chance of loosing it and less clutter is better in a small hospital room.

A hard copy of your medical history and list of prescribed medications and allergic reactions to drugs, OTCs and foods. I broke my elbow while in another state and only had the info on a flash drive. Now I keep a hard copy in my CPap case, so I always have it while traveling. Obviously if you use a CPap or similar equipment you need it.

All very great ideas. Worked in hospital 30 yrs and these are all wise ideas. If anyone is good at the tied quilts, crocheted blankets and or knit blankets they are made for patients who haven’t any family. Our church calls them prayer blankets. But it’s ok just to make and send them to the hospitals pastoral care. Nurses love them. It brightens their room and their outlook. The prayers work!!!! Music helps also. Download some favorites from one of the multiple sites for free. I want to emphasize that sick patients are not on a “vacation” so don’t stay to long. They need to rest. If they are sleeping NEVER wake them up. There are tons of interruptions from staff caring for them. So just sit quietly while they sleep. Plus family / take care of yourselves the sick person needs you to be healthy! Hospitals have resources please use them.

Blankets, pillows or even stuffed toys from home may NOT be okay if the patient requires sterile bedding. Ask nurses first.

Also as a suggestion take things with you to the hospital like family pictures little items that help you feel comfortable and water as well as snacks so you can stay healthy while at the hospital. Thank you so much for giving good advice on what to take to the hospital when you need to go.

Tablet, phone and chargers. Sleep mask, ear plugs and sox and robe. Books and magazines, eye glass cleaner, manicure set.

FOR THE PATIENT (pack everything in a small rolling suitcase–easier to move through halls, parking lots, and elevators)— C-Pap, iPhone, iPad (download movies), chargers, earbuds and/or noise-canceling headphones, toothpaste/brush, hairbrush/hair ties, lotion, lip balm, hand-wipes, dry shampoo or headscarf, eyeglasses case, small bedside lamp, meditation app, notebook/pen, “going home” outfit: soft, easy to slip on, pull-on shoes/sandals.

FOR SIGNIFICANT OTHER: ziplock for patient’s jewelry, wallet, and present medications (our hospital allows them), iPhone, iPad (download movies), chargers/battery backup, nose-canceling earphones, ziplock for patient’s medications, toothpaste/brush, hairbrush, eyeglasses case, hand sanitizer, lotion, lip balm, eye drops, sippy bottle, eye mask, soft cashmere shawl & beanie, meditation app, notebook/pen.

have been having hospital stays regular with heart problems. water accumulation on my heart

If it is for a child do not give them something too challenging Give them something a little lower and easier in effort than they would do when well This advice was given to me by a ward sister when my daughter spent a lot of time in hospital

I always bring a box of soft tissues and a lip moisturizer.

Quality tissues and toilet paper. Lip moisturizer or chapstick. Hand cream. Slippers. My daughter has been in and out of hospitals for the past ten years. We now keep a “go” bag that fits neatly in the hospital locker. We always take a pillow and blanket (don’t use white pillow cases or blankets as they can get easily taken by mistake). I agree that most of this stuff is unnecessary for short stays, but her stays are typically 10-21 days. Lately, we’ve started packing the single serving hand held chicken noodle soups that go in the microwave, but we always comply with diet restrictions. So often the food she is served is unappetizing. Use good sense, comply with regulations, but if you’re a frequent flyer you know what your hospital allows or doesn’t. Lastly, don’t take anything you can’t afford to lose. Our last two stays, things were stolen and not by staff, but by “loved ones.” Sad.

Great advice. Thanks for sharing.

Be careful not to bring anything valuable. My brother in law had his wedding band stolen while he was sleeping and sedated for pain.

A lot of these good suggestions are appropriate for long term stays in care centers too.

A drawing tablet and fresh box of markers or crayons….at ANY age!

Bringing medications from home was mentioned but in ALL of my husbands or my hospital stays we were NOT allowed any outside drugs. ALL of our daily meds had to be brought in and given by the nurses. That is why we go through our drug lists with several people at check in, to make sure all needed meds are given daily.

Feminine hygiene products. Hospital gear is not comfortable. Nail file or cutters.

For longer stays, bring a roll of quality TP. The institutional grade supplied in hospital rooms isn’t quite as nice as what you use at home.

Hoping all is well with Baby Ebert & Family!!! Is there any updates on how he & Family are doing? Love, Hugs & Prayers, Kathy & Mike Houston ?

Chapstick!! Hospitals tend to be dry and lips get cracked!

This was very helpful. Thank you. Great suggestions.

No to pillows and blankets from home. Don’t need more ways to transfer germs into the hospital setting. No to OTC drugs. Not allowed. No to toothbrushes, soaps etc. They are provided. Maybe limited cosmetics. Extension cords???? Books, laptops, magazines are a must to stay occupied between naps to get well. Hospitals are places to get well, not a place for vacation.

Just read earlier comments. Definitely bring sanitizer wipes, to help you and the patient stay free of any hospital-borne germs. Also, good idea not to bring blankets, etc. from home, unless you are careful about cleaning them when taking them home.

As a former 40 yr. hospital employee, I would question the advice to bring an extension cord to the hospital. All equipment in hospitals is checked-out and labeled that it is in working order. Some, if not most, are checked and labeled annually. Also, sometimes there are many wires, tubing, etc. in use on the patient, and the cord could just add to the confusion. Just recently, my husband was in ICU, and he had about 5 “connections” to various machines. Then, when he used the phone, that line got all tangled with them. Please ask your nurse first about using an extension cord.

Don’t take your own bedding; the hospital is full of germs and you don’t want to bring any home. Most places don’t allow food brought from home into the room because they need to monitor what the patient eats.

Headphones. Helps drown out the noise from the hallway and allows you to mentally escape from the hospital

When my dad was in the hospital we had some issues with noise, especially TV volume for the other person in the room. I got a bluetooth transmitter that plugged into the TV and noise canceling bluetooth headphones which not only blocked unwanted noise, but also allowed him to listen to phone, radio, audiobooks, TV, etc.

Along with everything else I make sure to pack my CPAP if I know I will be spending the night.

Don’t forget a hand mirror, nail file, nail clippers, a container/can of lightly scented (clean linen is nice) air freshener for the very small bathroom (you might have to share). Stay well!

The most important item to include is a big tub of Clorox wipes. That hospital table for the patient is used for absolutely everything !!! Just imagine the germs alone from a simple lab techs supply tray.

I just thought of this!! Sanitzer wipes!!! For railings, phone, tv remote. You don’t know what germs can lurk or when it was cleaned last.

My book has been helpful for Caregivers with packing! https://www.amazon.com/dp/1733903100/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_1aFNDbZJX3QY5

A bed jacket, or some soft top. Button front or zipper. Just in case you get cold.

I like the bed lamp idea. Sometimes hospitals have a way to turn off the overheads and use only s softer hospital light. These are good ideas for the Caregiver too. I always try to take water, snack, warmth (layers), reading material, phone charger, phone with contact info for people who need to be kept informed. A notebook and pen is a must. It helps everyone remember what was said, what the plan is, etc. Also if the Caregiver needs meds they should definitely take those along. A meditation app on your phone might be helpful.

This kind and compassionate article contains much poor advice, unfortunately. Many of the items suggested will be prohibited or unwelcome hindrances to caregivers. Others have detailed many of these.

Healthcare employees are not allowed to accept gifts or money from patients. All patients receive excellent care regardless of their ability to give gifts. Instead, write a letter to the hospital president recognizing the employees that provided exceptional care. Remember the first and second names of the employees that cared for you (nurses, housekeepers, dietary workers, etc.). Most hospitals have recognition programs for their employees. Also, you may receive a questionnaire from the hospital asking you to rate your care. The scale is from 1 to 5. Hospitals are reimbursed by Medicare based on scores to these questionnaires. Hospitals only get credit for ratings of 5. You may believe that no one is perfect and that a score of 4 is great, however, only ratings of 5 count.

A cooler may be permitted in your hospital room, especially if you have an extended stay, and if you have special diet needs. I was in hospital for 23 days, and even by the end of the stay I was astounded that I still occasionally received meals that were not good for me. I am celiac (must have gluten free foods), plus also a dairy intolerance. The kitchen would still on occasion bring me trays with wrong foods on it, so I was thankful my husband made sure to keep my plug-in cooler stocked with safe foods for me.

Always bring a notebook and pencil or pens to write down the names of the caregivers and doctors you see. Use it to write down questions and instructions!!

Always pack a notebook and pencil/ pens for writing down the names of those caregivers and doctors. Write down instructions AND questions!!

Perhaps there are a few who have a long hospital stay these days, but it’s getting rarer. I am going in for a right hip replacement next week & am only allowed a one night stay. My husband was sent home after just a two-day stay twice, after brain surgery (for glioblastoma). Our instructions were to bring nothing of value (jewelry, electronics, meds, etc) & certainly not our own bedding. I would advise patients to bring minimal items with them at admission (maybe a light robe, since they’ll have you up very quickly to walk & practice stairs) & have family bring some of these comfort items later, if a patient actually turns out to have an extended stay.

A gift for your nurse would be somewhat reasonable if you had the same nurse 24/7.

Please remember there are three (3) shifts of nurses and that they rotate their days off. I took three boxes of single serve microwave popcorn for the nurses so each shift had their own and it covered several days.

We brought a light, cozy bathrobe to wear over the hospital gown, long underwear, and hard soled bedroom slippers, a small prayer shawl to this over shoulders or lap, and vitamins.

Those extension cords … hospitals don’t allow them. One hospital allowed my personal BiPAP machine and a “heavy duty” computer type, surge protection plug-in strip. Be prepared to have it checked out by the Electronics folks at hospital though. I was surprised at the advice to take your own OTC s …that has not been allowed at any hospital I have been in or worked at. Even some skin care products can be an issue. Check everything with the admitting nurse. Any clothing you take may be subject to loss and/or stains. Keep it to a minimum, keep it loose, soft, easily removable, disposable. Doctors, nurses, phlebotomists need to draw blood, take blood pressures, examine you …don’t waste their time waiting for you to remove clothing. Hospital gowns are well designed for a hospital environment.

Depending on oxygen use lip balm not be allowed. I agree with the below comments. Unfortunately I had an emergency hospital admit. recently where I needed to have an airway placed because I was barely breathing. At that time my necklace was removed and my diamond pendant was lost.

I always take my friends in the hospital a bedside lamp. The lighting in hospital rooms is so stark. I turn off all the other lights and just use the lamplight which transforms the space.

Keep valuable jewelry at home. Bring Pony tail holders, razor, lotion, baby wipes,

First of all do not bring in any medicine. Everything has to come through the pharmacy. No self treating. If this is a planned admission check which clothes to pack it may be that you will be in hospital gowns. Next do not bring extension cord it must be checked by biomed and that is ahassel. Bring books and magazines.

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8 Rules Grandparents Shouldn’t Break When There’s a New Baby

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Becoming a new grandparent is an event as revolutionary as the invention of the wheel, if you listen to my grandparent friends. Besides giving them a new little being to love and spoil, the birth of a grandchild changes the family hierarchy. Suddenly the parents are in control, and it’s the grandparents who have to follow the rules . 

This power reversal isn’t entirely unexpected, and in most cases it doesn’t feel burdensome. We adapt to life under a benevolent triumvirate — our grandchild and the parents of our grandchild. Everything goes smoothly, as long as we know the rules — these eight rules, which every new grandparent should heed.

1. Grandparents can’t visit unless invited.

While some grandmothers are still reeling from not being invited into the delivery room, here comes a second blow: The new family isn’t quite ready for company. Some parents don’t want hospital visitors, because that’s their time to bond with baby.  And even when baby and company are safely ensconced in the family home, grandparents still have to be invited. It is okay, however, to propose a visit. “Do you think it would be okay if we came over on Sunday?” is a good way to propose the idea. (And it might help if you promise to bring a pot roast.)  

2. If grandparents come to help, they have to take direction well.

The number one thing that parents want from grandparents is a little assistance. Many parents have told me that they would have never made it through the first month (or six months, or elementary school) without help from their parents. That being said, all parental help is not created equal. I heard from a Houston mom whose mother-in-law came to help, ignored the clothes that needed folding and ended up reorganizing the kitchen cabinets. It’s almost funny, the idea of that sleep-deprived new mama trying to find a mug or the colander in a revamped kitchen… except that it’s really not. 

3. Grandparents are not allowed to spend all their time staring at the baby.

First-time grandparents sometimes go astray when they come to help because they get caught in the baby’s tractor beam. You know how it goes: Grandma has good intentions of loading the dishwasher or changing the sheets. Then she passes by that little baby face, and SCHWOOM . She spends the next hour looking at the baby — watching baby television, we used to call it. Now, the mom probably has no problem with the a grandparent holding the baby while she takes a shower. But at other times, the grandparents should tear themselves away from all that baby sweetness and get to work. 

4. Grandparents shouldn’t ignore their older grandchildren.

Sometimes when there is a new grandbaby, there are other grandchildren in the house. While it’s understandable that grandparents are drawn straight to the new baby, they really should sit down with the older grandchildren first. They should spend a little time with them before saying something like, “Oh, I completely forgot about the new baby.” Actually, you’ll never be able to pull off that line, but do greet and visit with your older grandchildren first. Also, bring little gifts for them if you bring things for the baby.

5. If they are staying over, grandparents have to be the best houseguests ever.

If you’re an out-of-town grandparent , your position is a little dicey. On one hand, the idea of a live-in grandparent nanny is probably sounding better and better to the parents every minute. On the other hand, you won’t be staying at the Hilton with room service and a maid; you’ll be sharing a bunk with a kid and 52 stuffed animals. Regardless of the accommodations, if you plan to stay over, you’ll need to be the ultimate houseguest and resident granny — mostly invisible, but ready to swing into action at the first hint of a diaper explosion or a dropped pacifier. You’ll be sort of a stealth Super Granny.

6. Grandparents should leave the time machine behind.

If there is a phrase that parents absolutely do not want to hear from grandparents, it is “When my children were babies…” followed by pretty much any other words. They don’t want to hear about putting alcohol on the umbilical cord, or adding Karo syrup to baby’s bottle, or any of those other outdated baby care methods that worked so well back in the Dark Ages. If you haven’t caught up on modern parenting methods , pick up one of those parenting books that are probably lying around the house where your grandchild lives. You’ll be amazed.

7. Grandparents shouldn’t compete with the other grandparents.

No matter how you feel about the other grandmother , the birth of a new baby isn’t the time for a showdown. Don’t play the game of who can be the best grandmother. Don’t make passive-aggressive statements about her. “That dress Nana gave her is adorable, but don’t you think it looks a little scratchy?” And don’t hog the baby when the other grandmother is on the premises. (The same goes for grandfathers, aunts, friends and anyone else who comes to see the baby.) 

8. Grandparents shouldn’t question what the parents do.

All grandparents have heard the standard advice about not offering their opinion unless asked . Some evidently think that it’s okay as long as you ask instead of tell. Feeding is a favorite topic for this tactic, with “Are you really feeding him again?” alternating with “Do you think he might be hungry?” Another favorite is “Does she have to have that plug in her mouth all the time?” You’re a grandparent, not a contestant on Jeopardy — so you don’t get credit for putting your comment in the form of a question. Being a grandparent means going in with a “closed mouth and open mind,” as Donne Davis of the   GaGa Sisterhood is fond of saying. 

The other great directive that grandparents must follow is much easier to do. Patti Tucker of the Oh, Mrs. Tucker! blog lays it out for us: “The best thing new grandparents can do is love. The End. Period.”  

Deal of the Day

This article was written by Susan Adcox, a writer specializing in generational issues. She is the author of Stories From My Grandparent: An Heirloom Journal for Your Grandchild .

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