Travelling Alone: Reddit Users Give Top Tips For Solo Travel

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Travelling Alone: Reddit Users Give Top Tips For Solo Travel

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Whether you’re clutching a backpack in the middle of the Sahara or feeling invisible in a party hostel, it’s rare you’ll find someone who enjoys the ‘clutch moments’ of being lonely. And while getting the blues can lead to increased confidence once the ordeal is over, in those bleak moments it can be hard to remember why you put yourself in the situation in the first place.

Fortunately for any solitary travellers out there, a trending thread in Reddit’s r/solotravel community has some smart advice on how to beat lonliness while travelling.

“I embark on my first solo journey next week,” Reddit user ‘Canvaseyes’ recently posted. “After being on this and similar threads for a few days (and especially in the wake of covid), I think it’s time to have a broad discussion. This will apply more broadly than to just our solo travels, but given I’m about to depart on one, I could benefit from the focused discussion.”

The topic of discussion? Loneliness.

“Have you experienced profound loneliness, especially if on the road? How did you manage it? Especially if you’re someone who is single/without involved family or even a like-minded friend group. Any advice on how to really settle into yourself while solo traveling, or even in the aftermath of it?”

“For those of us still figuring it out: Where are you at with your feelings of connection? Any thoughts or concerns? Anything we can help you with?” the author of the thread added.

The best insight, we’d argue, was buried in response to these questions, halfway down the thread: “There will be times on your trip when you’ll feel lonely. When that happens take a second to try and relax, to understand what makes you feel that way right then, and that’s it’s okay to feel that.”

“You could try not to think too much about it when those thoughts cross your mind. I find moments like those helpful for understanding myself better.”

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Another interesting insight, courtesy of another user, is that being physically alone isn’t the only thing that can make you feel lonely: “I never felt lonely when I was on a solo trip. But felt lonely when traveling with friends. I think it has a lot to do with expectations.”

Another solo traveller lent their advice to others, writing: “A big part of enjoying travel is not trying to see everything. Instead try to really enjoy what you are experiencing in the moment. If you didn’t hit everything you planned for, you have a reason to come back.”

Not to mention: there are various benefits to being the master of your own itinerary, which the same user pointed out: “After the joy of solo travel, I could never again subject myself to a 6am wakeup and run for a tour bus. That’s not pleasure, that’s a morning commute!”

Another user touted the benefits of going with the flow – a broader travel tip which can help you avoid bouts of loneliness too: “Sometimes the best parts are when things don’t work out as expected. A few years ago I was camping my way around Iceland, and the forecast one rainy day was for 90kph+ winds. I managed to get the last hostel bed in the country that night, and although I had to skip a planned stop to make it to the hostel, the experience at that hostel changed the way I travel, and I wouldn’t change it for the world.”

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Another said, in their experience, lowering your expectations on socialisation when travelling at the beginning of the trip can help too: “When I am on a solo trip, I do not expect engaging with anyone socially. Which in a way, makes me open to anyone approaching me.”

“A short conversation feels like a lot. And, if that short conversation leads to having a meal or a drink or a destination visit, it feels great. Like 0 to 100. After that, I can just go back to my solitude state.”

Of course, being Reddit, a few users took the chance to brag. It wasn’t all hot air though; in doing so they revealed another way to find social connections when travelling: dating apps (and staying in the right kind of accommodation).

“I’ve travelled solo extensively and never felt lonely, but I’m very comfortable being alone. I view it as a positive, not a negative. But I also enjoy being in the company of others when I feel like it, and that’s always available via hostels and Tinder.”

This then led into a discussion around how to make your Tinder profile more attractive as a traveller, with the key insights, from one Tinder using traveller, is to come across as interesting, authentic, and self-sufficient.

“My personal advice is to make your profile interesting, especially if you’re into travelling, have someone (for example a couple you photographed) snap a pic of you in front of a nice view too.”

The key themes of a successful profile? According to this Reddit user: “action, beautiful nature and fun.”

“It’s exciting to meet someone who’s self-sufficient enough and capable of making travel plans and executing them successfully. Also show your main interests (Are you a foodie? Do you love coffee/ music/ dance? Bikepacker, backpacker? Ride horses? Love a certain destination? We want to kinda get an advertisement for you if that makes sense) I (now 22f) personally was on Tinder for the sole purpose of finding travel buddies (my parents didn’t want to let me go alone when I was younger) and with reasonable success.”

“You can’t go wrong with a picture with a large dog, some active sport activity (your face/body can look like crap here, all that matters is the fun/excitement and joy you’re having) (water-splashing pictures such as water-skiing, rafting or bathing in waterfalls always made good contrast) picture in front of a scenic panorama or with children in a foreign country,” the same user added.

Bringing the discussion back to travel, further users discussed the kinds of trips that made them loneliest.

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“I have been traveling for 5 years, and the only time I felt lonely, like really lonely, was when I spent 10 months in Australia living in a campervan by myself.” There was a silver lining though, they said, to being lonely – personal growth.

“It was a very tough year, but it was very enlightening too. As hard as it was to be so alone most of the time, I recommend everyone to, at least once in your life, spend a couple of months alone, with minimum contact with other people, like a personal retreat. You will learn things about yourself that you couldn’t if you never do it, it was such a hard and dark time in my life, but I was always hopeful because I was choosing the way I was living, and now I understand why it happened.”

“You will feel stronger than ever, afraid of nothing, you will realize that you can be happy by yourself, you don’t need people anymore, so your relationships will be a lot healthier, no attachments. When something or someone is not good for you, you will leave right then and there, because you are not afraid of loneliness, you can easily let go of anything or anyone.”

Finally, one user’s comment sums the thread up well: “Keep yourself busy exploring the place… Initiate contact… [And] solitude isn’t for everyone.”

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How to Travel Alone, According to Reddit

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Even as the world reopens and people begin to book flights and plan trips again , solo travel still offers many benefits to those who aren’t deterred by the idea of setting out alone. If that sounds like you, consider the following advice for solo travellers, gleaned from the wisdom of experienced globetrotters on Reddit.

Travel off the beaten path

Travelling alone has its perks, including more flexibility and ease of mobility, which opens you up to exploring lesser-known locales and attractions. When considering solo travel to Spain, Taman182 suggests you “slightly prioritise less common places and experiences, because you can always come back to Madrid or Barcelona.”

This is especially true when travelling around Europe, where getting to nearby countries is fairly easy. “Keep an eye out for cheap flight tickets from your closest airports, because fares … can be super cheap, and you can end up in a lot of random places,” they advise. “I for one ended up on a 10 euro return flight to Vilnius.”

Book your activities well in advance

When travelling solo, it may seem like picking up and doing what you like will be easy because you’ll only need to worry about yourself, but experienced Redditors report that winging it can be tricky because you’ll need to find activities you want to (or feel safe) doing alone, from eating to adventuring.

“Honestly, I think the most difficult part of tackling the national parks is nailing down all your reservations,” Shocktopus89 says. “Some of the heavier hitters book out months in advance, so getting somewhere you feel safe and comfortable can be tricky.”

On my own trip to the U.S. Virgin Islands, I discovered getting dinner out required a reservation at almost every restaurant. I hadn’t planned well in advance, and ended up eating a lot of pizza. Especially amid a travel boom, it will be important to book your must-do explorations ahead of time.

Consider renting a car instead of using rideshares

Sometimes taking cabs or public transportation while travelling can be an easier option than driving in an unknown place. Locals know the roads better, so why not trust them to get you where you need to go? Unfortunately, in some locations, cabs present their own headaches. In Puerto Rico, for example, Reddit user QACman21 “definitely recommend[s] renting a car, as Ubers can be extremely unreliable anywhere outside of a metro area. You can find a ride from San Juan to Ceiba but might have a little more difficulty doing the reverse.”

Sometimes you’ll need to have on-the-ground knowledge of a reliable cab company or even a specific cab driver, and rideshare may not an option at all — all safety factors to consider when travelling without the benefit of strength in numbers. The downside to renting a car is the cost, which you’ll need to shoulder yourself. Car rentals can range from $30 a day to $100 a day, depending on the location and timing, so once again, it’s best to book ahead.

Prepare to be self-reliant in emergencies

When travelling solo, particularly internationally, anything can happen, from losing your passport to getting your cash stolen. More than usual, you must make a plan of action before you leave. Leave photocopies of your passport and travel information with friends at home. Take note of your the locations of consulates and embassies in your destination countries, then make a possible plan of action to reach them in an emergency.

Should your belongings get swiped, Taido_Inukai says, “Get to an embassy ASAP. Call for family help from there. If you’re in a village far away from a major city, file a police report and ask them to help you get to the nearest embassy.”

Thunderroad45 echoes that advice, noting, “the embassy might require a copy of the report to replace your passport.” While you might think you are doomed, you have options, and your country’s consulate or embassy will be able to help verify your identity and help you get a replacement passport. In general, try to keep passports directly on your person rather than in a purse or handbag.

Keep up on changing travel restrictions

As travel opens up worldwide, there are still regulations and restrictions in place that you’ll need to be aware of. For example, in Puerto Rico, as sassylildame mentions, “there’s a curfew, so nightlife shuts down at [10 p.m.].” Those restrictions have changed since sassylildame’s trip , illustrating the importance of checking before you make your plans — you don’t want to find yourself ready for a night out on the town only to realise everything is closed.

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In 2019, Alea Simone quit her job, sold all her furniture, packed her bags, and embarked on a four-month trip across 17 countries in Europe and Asia — by herself. It was the first time she ever traveled solo. The Texas native had never visited Europe or Asia before, and she admits she was intimidated. Would she be able to navigate public transportation ? Communicate in non-English-speaking countries?

“I was really scared,” Simone says, “but at the same time, I had to push myself forward because there really wasn’t much for me to go back to.”

Four years and countless solo trips later, Simone is something of an expert. She recounts her travels to thousands of followers on TikTok and Instagram , offering insight to adventurers, from cheap flight deals to a review of airport nail salon services . While she still gets anxiety ahead of solo travels from time to time, the best way to quell her fears is to hop on the plane and go.

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More travelers than ever before are choosing to venture on their own. According to a survey by the travel search engine Kayak , searches for single-person flights in 2023 are up 36 percent compared to 2022. Search interest in solo travel hit an all-time high in July 2023. The benefits of solo travel are wide-ranging, from complete flexibility to the potential for a transformative experience . Beholden to no one but themselves, solo travelers can eat where they want, spend what they want, and see what they want.

This isn’t to say solo travelers shouldn’t take their safety seriously. “Solo travel is definitely about getting to know yourself,” Simone says, “and trusting your intuition.” Travelers of color, queer people, and women on their own may be targets for scammers , endure catcalls , and encounter racism and other forms of bigotry. Still, travel experts say the potential for negative incidents shouldn’t deter those who hope to travel alone from doing so. With no one else to depend on, solo travelers must take extra care while planning a trip, navigating around new locations, and interacting with new people. Seasoned independent adventurers offer their best advice for staying safe, yet open to new experiences.

How should I prepare to travel by myself?

Regardless if you’re traveling to the next town over to attend a concert by yourself or you’re hopping on an international flight, you need to be prepared for what awaits you. The farther you venture from home, though, the greater the opportunity for cultural miscommunications and misinterpretations. “You’re not going to read every situation correctly, because you’re in another culture,” says Janice Waugh, the publisher of the website Solo Traveler , “whether you’re from Kansas and going to New York or New York to Kansas.”

Do some Googling to see whether your proposed destination has any travel advisories and whether there are any laws that would make your visiting unsafe. But keep in mind that countries are vast places and while one city or province may not be amenable to tourists, that doesn’t mean the entire country is unsafe for a solo traveler.

Research which neighborhoods are near restaurants, parks, public transportation, or other areas that interest you. Can you walk from place to place? Is your hostel located near all of the sites you want to visit?

Try to identify various local communities on Instagram in your proposed destination — say, a yoga club if you’re into yoga, or a queer social club — and reach out to members for recommendations on what to do and where to stay, says travel writer Bani Amor . Amor also suggests solo travel Facebook groups where you can find intel on various businesses and locals to meet up with.

Familiarize yourself with popular tourist scams, Simone says, so you don’t unknowingly get into what you believe is a taxi at the airport and are grossly overcharged. “It’s usually a very easy Google search,” she says. “What are the common scams in Morocco? What are the common scams in London? What are the common scams in Bangkok?”

When booking flights or other transportation, Waugh recommends arriving during daylight so you can get your bearings. While you’re coordinating your transit, make a plan for how you’ll get to your lodgings, says writer and travel expert Jessica Nabongo . Especially after a long flight where you may be tired and disoriented, knowing how you’ll get out of the airport is crucial. Nabongo is a fan of booking a car service, but for cheaper options, research the public transportation options from the airport. The app Rome2Rio provides a variety of routes, from subway and bus to train and car.

As a good rule of thumb for all travelers, Simone recommends a few crucial travel accessories: locks for your luggage and backpacks , and a portable door lock for hotel and hostel rooms. She also suggests an RFID-blocking wallet to prevent new-age pickpockets from using sensors to steal your data without having to even steal your wallet. A low-profile money belt that you can wear under your clothes helps keep your money close and out of sight.

If you’re traveling to a location where you don’t speak the language, try to learn a few phrases, Amor says, just in case you need to ask for directions or read signs on public transportation.

Before you leave for the airport, train station, or bus stop, or get in a car, tell a few friends and family members where you will be. You can even share your location with a contact in your iPhone or via Gmail on Android and Google Maps (you can always turn this off once you’re home). Someone should always know where in the world you are.

Where is a safe place to stay as a solo traveler?

Travel experts sing the praises of all forms of lodging: hostels, hotels, Airbnb , staying with a friend of a friend. The main consideration is your budget. Hostels will be the cheapest option since you’ll share a room and bathroom with other travelers. However, this is a great opportunity to meet other people, some of whom may also be on their own. “I always like to suggest that people who have never traveled solo stay at a hostel, because hostels are built for solo travelers,” Simone says. “They’re always going to have tours going on you can sign up for.” Remember to always keep your items secure and locked.

For a slightly more expensive option, Amor suggests a private room at a hostel. You’ll have a door that locks and won’t need to share a bathroom.

Hotels and Airbnbs will be the costliest places to stay. “I like the amenities,” Nabongo says. “I like having breakfast and my gym. And I like having a concierge, so I can ask, ‘What should I do? Where should I eat?’”

Take advantage of the staff and hosts wherever you stay, experts say. These people are often locals and are familiar with where you’re visiting. They can provide tour recommendations, directions, and places to avoid.

Before booking, Waugh suggests looking at the lodging’s location on Google Maps’ street view. “Make sure that the area looks like it’s active, that it’s well-maintained, and that you’re going to feel safe,” she says.

You can always tap your network, Amor says, and ask if anyone has a trustworthy friend who might be willing to let you crash. “Before I book anything, anywhere, I’m going online to my social network and I’m being like, ‘Who has got a place? Who has a friend of a friend?” they say. “If I’m a part of a radical community or a punk community, then I know we have some sort of ethos that is very mutual aid [focused].”

No matter where you stay, write the address in a note on your phone or mark the location on Google Maps so you always can find your home base.

How do I meet other people? Is that even safe?

While there’s nothing wrong with enjoying your own company, solo travel gives adventurers the opportunity to meet new people. Group tours and Airbnb Experiences are great ways to mingle with other travelers. Opt to sit at the bar if you can since you’ll be better positioned to chat with other patrons and the bartender. These new connections might invite you to other events they have planned, Simone says, and give you strength in numbers. “You have to be open-minded and you have to be willing to say yes to things,” she says.

Try searching for clubs or social groups that align with your interests, Nabongo says. In major cities, there’s a good chance you can find a manga lovers group, beer runners, or a poetry reading event.

However, always keep these interactions in a public place, Waugh says: a cafe, a park, a museum, a store, historical sites. Simone and Waugh caution against going out by yourself at night unless you’re with an organized group like a bar crawl. Don’t tell anyone where you’re staying either, even if they ask. You can give a general location, like “on the other side of town,” and then keep the conversation moving, Waugh says.

Because different cultures have varying social norms around the appropriateness of certain comments or questions — what one culture considers a compliment may seem creepy to a person from a different background — you may be caught off-guard by offhand remarks. Sometimes cab drivers, for instance, might make comments about the way you look, misgender you, or ask intrusive questions. You don’t need to lie or justify who you are to a stranger, but keep the details to a minimum if you’re not comfortable. “Sometimes they’re just hitting on you, and … not everyone who’s hitting on you wants to abuse you,” Amor says. “But sometimes, it’s not fucking safe. I’ve never lied about having a boyfriend or a husband, but I usually just say ‘no.’”

Should a stranger become persistent in getting you alone, by offering to give you a ride or to veer off a marked hiking trail, consider that a red flag, Amor says. Don’t go anywhere private by yourself with someone you just met, be wary of people who are insistent you make a decision immediately (about whether you’ll join them on a day trip, for example), and don’t worry about being rude. “One thing a lot of us are trained to do is just to be nice,” they say. “You really have to put your foot down at some point.”

Continue using whatever metric you use at home to suss out new connections. If you get a weird feeling from a super-persistent person sitting next to you at the bar, signal to the bartender for assistance, move to another seat, or leave. “If you feel suddenly under threat,” Waugh says, “you just yell.”

Just as there are nefarious people wherever you go, there are kind and curious people, too. You have the opportunity to transform a local’s weeknight dinner into a charming memory. Be open to new connections, Nabongo says, and don’t assume everyone is out to harm you.

What do I do if I get sick or need help?

There are plenty of things that can go wrong when traveling, from the mundane — like getting lost — to the more serious, such as needing medical assistance. With no one else to rely on in a pinch, you may need to outsource help. For logistical issues, like asking for directions or inquiring how to purchase public transit passes, walk into a store and ask an employee or approach a family for assistance, Waugh says.

Waugh also recommends travel insurance , which covers medical expenses should you unexpectedly get sick or injured and need to be hospitalized. (Travel insurance also covers lost luggage and missed connecting flights .) In countries that have universal health care , a visit to a doctor or emergency room is generally cheaper than in the US, but travel insurance can cover the cost of evacuating you to a location where you can get appropriate care if you’re, say, in a remote area. The local US embassy or consulate office can also help you find a medical provider.

For less dire illnesses, local pharmacies are great resources, Waugh says. When she sprained her ankle in France a few years ago, she took an Uber ride to a nearby pharmacy, where employees helped her make an appointment with a specialist.

If you’re a victim of a crime overseas, contact the nearest US embassy or consulate ; they can replace a stolen passport, inform your family, and provide information about local points of contact or organizations familiar with that country’s laws. Involving police may not be helpful or even safe, so it’s up to you whether you want to file a police report if you’re involved in a crime, both stateside and internationally.

Although it’s important to be prepared for potential snafus, fear of the unknown should not hinder your experience. Millions of people live in traveler destinations — many by themselves — and don’t feel threatened by their hometowns. “In particular for women, society puts so much fear into us that I think is completely unwarranted,” Nabongo says. “The world is not as scary as they want us to believe it is.”

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The Ultimate Solo Travel Guide: Travel Alone & Love It

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January 4, 2024 by Janice Waugh

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What is solo travel? After 15 years of traveling solo, I've concluded that it is two things. Solo travel can be done independently or on a group tour. Essentially, solo travel is when you leave behind everyone you know and embark on a trip. Independent solo travel is when you plan and navigate the travel yourself. Group solo travel is when you join a tour or cruise alone. Both provide the unique experience of exploring the world without family and friends who have expectations of you. It's about discovering who you are when no one (that you know) is looking.

Traveling alone delivers access to the world in ways that other forms of travel don't. It is an essential mode of travel, at least some of the time.

However, not everyone takes to it naturally. Some worry about traveling solo. There are concerns around loneliness, safety, and more.

While we have hundreds of articles on the site that get into the details of how to travel solo, here, in one place, is the ultimate guide for those who want to travel alone. The tips in this post will help you have the best experience possible. They will help you travel alone and love it.

If you are traveling independently, read on.

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Why You Will Love Solo Travel

When you travel alone, you travel on your terms. You get to do what you want, when you want. You can connect with people if you wish or avoid them completely. Those are the obvious benefits for going solo as a traveler.

But there are many benefits of solo travel that affect your whole life. The experience encourages you to stretch and grow as a person. You gain confidence and get better at problem solving. You understand yourself better, become more independent, and become a more interesting person.

For more, read Why Travel Solo? 15 Reasons Going Alone Makes Travel Better . Now, let's get on to the ultimate solo travel guide.

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Your Guide for Planning to Travel Alone

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Ultimate Tips to Travel Alone and Love It!

Let's get into the experience of traveling alone.

For some people, enjoying a solo trip comes naturally. Others have to work at how to travel alone. Most who do, fall in love with it. Here are a few things you can do to ensure a great solo adventure.

1. Visualize the trip you want. It's all about you.

Start thinking about the opportunities that are present when you travel alone long before you leave. Is it down time you really want? Build that into the plan. Are you after a creative travel experience ? Research the opportunities before you go and then dream on them until you get there.

2. Gather firsthand knowledge before you go. Personal stories tell you more.

Talk to people who have already traveled to your destination. Doing this was so incredibly helpful when planning my trip to Patagonia. At the time, no amount of research helped me plan the logistics. Talking to people who had made a similar trip gave me insight into the travel options and tips on how to avoid the mistakes they had made. Use your social network to find people. Join online meetup groups based in your destination. Find expat groups at your destination. By talking to people you will learn more about things to do as well as things that are not really for you.

3. Learn to chat with strangers.

Starting conversations with strangers can be a challenge, especially when you're an introvert like I am. However, these conversations can be trip-changing, if not life-changing. There are many skills that can be developed for this and one is never too old to learn them. In fact, it was only when traveling alone after my husband passed away that I learned how much I had grown and taken on the techniques of an extrovert. I learned that I could talk to strangers easily.

4. Tap the experience of the people you meet. Get current information.

As a solo traveler, you'll meet more travelers and locals than those who travel with a partner. Ask a traveler about the best thing they've done so far or a local for the best hidden gem restaurant in the area. The people you meet and the advice they offer will greatly enrich your trip.

5. Be flexible with your plans. Opportunities arise!

When suggestions or opportunities arise from these chance encounters, be flexible enough to act on them. There are times when flexibility must reign and the schedule should be thrown away. I do this most often on road or rail trips.

6. Don't over-plan. You will absolutely need relaxing time.

Managing your travels yourself takes more energy than if you are with someone else. It is important to have extra time in your itinerary to wander a market leisurely, linger over a coffee at an outdoor café, or take that trip into the mountains you hadn't considered.

7. Be patient. Take time to settle in and learn how the city works.

It can be difficult arriving in a new city alone. Take your time. Take a day to relax, watch the city function, and settle in. Read Solo Travel Confidence: How to Be Strong, Capable, and Safe .

8. Explore your destination at different levels. Gain different perspectives.

In London, it's natural to take the Tube. However, riding on the top of a double-decker bus gives you another perspective on the city. But you still wouldn't want to miss the Tube as it's an experience unto itself. My point is, explore the city in as many ways as possible: on foot, by bicycle, via public transit. Take a taxi and talk to the driver. Rent a car and learn what it's like to park or drive on the opposite side of the road. Every mode of movement offers new perspectives.

9. Take in local events. Get to know the daily life of a culture.

Whether it's a street festival or a sporting event, these are opportunities to rub shoulders with locals, offering insight into the culture and, potentially, fun conversations. Events made for tourism will not be as successful for this as events created by and for locals.

10. Be proactive if you’re unsure of yourself.

Ask for help. Standing around looking dazed will not get you where you want to go and it may get you noticed by the wrong people. Go ahead, smile, and ask for help. It's one of the fundamentals of staying safe as you travel solo .

11. Eat locally! Discover the culture through food.

There is nothing like exploring the local cuisine. It gives you a new path into your destination's culture, history, and geography. There is always a reason, historical or geographic, for a specific cuisine that can be explored through your tastebuds and your mind.

12. Shop where the locals shop.

Are you into home renovations? Then a hardware store in another country could be quite interesting. Are you a foodie? Go to the grocery store or the street where all the specialty vendors are located. Are you into fashion or interior decorating? Again, explore (you don't have to buy) where the locals shop.

13. Know which way is up. An old-school map is your friend.

Study a map of your destination. Get to know it. Get a sense of direction using major landmarks like Central Park in New York City or the CN Tower in Toronto. This will help you explore cities happily, with greater confidence. Read How to Navigate a New City Solo .

13. Find people who share your passion.

Whether it's chess or poetry or badminton or books, there will be hubs or groups that share your passion at your destination. Many destinations have an English bookstore which is typically a great resource for events you will want to attend. Google search or find them on meetup.com. What a great way to combine your love of travel with your love of other things.

14. Take day tours and classes.

There are many benefits to punctuating your independent trip with local tours such as cooking classes . You have new ways to better experience your destination, enjoy some social time (after all, solo travelers are not necessarily loners), and you get to take a break and let the tour company run the logistics and planning of the experience.

15. Have great evenings out.

Just because you're traveling solo doesn't mean you have to stay in at night with a book. There are many options for things to do in the evening. If you're in a country where you don't speak the language, music is a good bet. Read What to Do at Night When Traveling Alone and How to Enjoy Going to a Bar Alone When You Travel .

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What If You Don't Love Solo Travel?

Let's face it, not everyone likes the same thing. Some people will travel alone and, for one reason or another, not enjoy it.

The first thing I suggest is that you be patient. You're not going to find your solo travel groove on the first day of your first trip. You need to give yourself some time to settle into your destination and apply some of the many travel alone tips above.

If, then, you're still not loving it, read  What If You Travel and You Don’t Love It ? and the advice of other solo travelers in Feeling Overwhelmed? How to Conquer First-Day Solo Travel Anxiety .

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Round Out Your Guide to Solo Travel with These Resources

Here are a few posts to explore to help you plan your best solo trip.

  • How to Save Money for Travel
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  • Best Solo Travel Destinations: Real Solo Travelers Love These
  • Feeling the Pinch? Solo Travelers Save Money at The Airport
  • How to Get Through an Airport by Yourself with Ease
  • Carry On Packing List That Makes Sense: Traveler Tested
  • Checked Baggage: Top Planning and Packing Tips.
  • Best VPN for Travel: What, Why, How & New Recommendations
  • Road Trip Alone with Confidence: 10 Tips for a Great Trip

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Just 31 Genuinely Helpful Tips For Anyone Who Travels Alone

Don't let the fear of being on your own hold you back. You got this!

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Traveling solo can be intimidating — so we asked travel bloggers, Reddit users, BuzzFeed writers, and members of the BuzzFeed Community to share their best tips for traveling alone. Hopefully their advice will help you navigate — or even inspire — your next solo adventure .

1. mark your phone map with where you're staying so you'll never get lost..

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"Pin your own accommodation. This way you always know your current location relative to, and have directions back to it, no matter where you are in town." — u/Judazzz

2. Carry a pen with you to speed up your travels.

"Bring a pen or two for your forms you may need for immigration. Fill them out on the plane." — u/Jayhcee

3. If you get lonely, mingle with the locals.

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Pub crawls and walking tours are other easy ways to meet people in a new city besides hostels. — u/liatron

4. Keep an emergency stash of cash, just in case.

Keep an emergency fund of cash on you (~100 USD/Euro in local currency) and a good reserve of money in your bank account. This will especially prove useful when having an medical emergency and you have to see a doctor. You'll have to pay upfront, and will get reimbursed later by your travel/medical insurance. — u/rek-me-reksai

5. Practice doing smaller activities alone before embarking on a big solo trip.

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Go out to eat on your own and take some solo day/weekend trips. I found this helped me get comfortable with doing things alone, so that by the time I started traveling abroad by myself, I wasn't worried. — brittnir

6. Don't book accomodations without checking reviews.

Your accommodation will be your temporary home, so read reviews and book with caution. Is the neighborhood sketchy? Are there video cameras or security features? You need to know these things! — Ciara Johnson

7. Travel with insurance.

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In an ideal world, traveling solo would be a walk in the park. In reality, anything could go wrong, so it’s best to be prepared with travel insurance that could cover those not-so-pretty travel moments. —Ciara Johnson

8. Know your limits.

"Drinking until you can’t stand or going until you can’t go anymore is totally not the best idea. It's especially important to know your limits when you're the only person looking out for yourself." —Ciara Johnson

9. Keep your real-time location private, even while sharing your travels online.

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I never post in the moment. If I'm posting a location, it's because I've already left. All of my posts are delayed by several days, or I don't even post until I've come back from the trip. With my [Instagram] stories, I try to delay [them], even when I'm home, at minimum one to two hours. I never share Airbnb, hotel information, or my itinerary during my trips, but I'm more than happy to share them when I get home. — Alexa Renee , travel blogger

10. Just get a selfie stick — you won't regret it.

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Listen, when other people aren't around or you're too shy to ask them to take a photo, the selfie stick will help. A Bluetooth one is great because you can take it from afar! — Arielle Calderon

11. Or, if you have a smart watch, use it as a self-timer remote for perfect selfies.

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Place your phone on a bench or something facing towards you. Hit three seconds on the watch and smile! — c4fe982507

12. Do some research about each destination you're going to and organize the basics, like where you're staying and how to get there, before you arrive.

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Make sure you know how to get from where your transportation is (airport, train station etc.) to where you’re staying. Winging it can be fun in some circumstances, but when you just got off a train and you’re tired, you wanna know where you’re going! — igivemyselfthecreeps

13. Be aware of your surroundings, especially at night.

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Don't wear headphones, and avoid staring down at your phone while you walk. The more alert you are, the safer. —Arielle Calderon

14. Don't — or at least TRY not to — overpack. Remember you have to carry it all on your own!

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My first time traveling alone, I took way too much stuff but didn’t realize until I was struggling to move all my luggage by myself. Bring essentials only! Plan different outfits using the same pieces to save space, and don’t bring your whole shoe closet! — elizabethb4d752b39e

15. Take a mini first-aid kit.

I always travel with: Band-aids, pain relievers, Pepto, Benadryl, allergy meds, antibacterial cream, bug spray, anti-itch spray, and more. Each of these things has been a life-saver and they don't take up much space if you do it right. It sucks to get sick in a foreign country when you're on your own, so try to be prepared.

— tessav46e52414b

16. Invest in a hidden wallet so you can keep your valuables close at all times.

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Buy a tiny crossbody travel wallet that you can put under your shirt to hold your ID, passport, money, etc. separate from your purse or backpack. If someone steals your purse, you'll at least still have money and a way to get home. — barnesrenee7

17. Spend time curating a special playlist for your trip and download it to your phone.

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Make a playlist of new songs and artists specifically for your trip. Whenever you hear those songs again after your return, it’ll always remind you of your adventure. — cperryrun

18. Give a copy of your important travel details (flight numbers, hostel names, etc.) to someone reliable back home.

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Make an itinerary to give to a worried mom or friend so someone knows where you’re at in case of emergencies. I always do this for my mom and it really eases her mind about me traveling solo. — ccc12345

Leave your family with a copy of your passport. Should it get lost or stolen they will be able to email it to you. — rachelk4418b3566

19. But remember that just because you make plans, it doesn't mean you have to stick to them. Allow yourself to be spontaneous!

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I can't tell you how many times I ended up chucking out my original plans and doing something completely different (and better) based on meeting new people, both fellow travelers and locals. — russjosephs

20. If you're headed overseas, buy a local SIM card so you don't have to rely on finding Wi-Fi.

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Get a phone card as soon as you arrive in a new country. In case of emergency, it will be easier to call for help. — annarosa

21. Or at the least, use Wi-Fi to download offline Google Maps of the places you're visiting.

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Download maps of the cities you’re going to so you can access GPS without data. I also shared my Google Maps location, which tracks you without data, so if anything were to happen my family and friends could possibly know where I was. — patriciarosswog

22. If you're daunted by the idea of dining out alone, sit at the bar or bring a book to keep you occupied.

If you sit at the bar, you’re able to chat with the bartender who can usually recommend off-the-beaten-path eats or non-touristy activities. Plus, nine times out of ten there are other single diners there, so you’re likely to make a new friend! — nicoleb48c50a074

Bring a book to read or a journal to write in. Much less awkward than sitting there doing nothing or being on your phone. — barnesrenee7

23. Be friendly, approachable, and open to meeting new people.

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Talk to people! I’m incredibly introverted normally but I find I put myself out there more when I travel. Try things you wouldn’t normally do. It’s a chance for growth!

— jaclyne4c835eaa9

24. Even if you can afford a hotel, consider staying in a (highly rated) hostel. Most have options for private rooms as well as dorms.

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Finding a good hostel is the best because if you feel like you need to socialize you easily can, but if you want some alone time, you’re totally in control! I try to find places with a bar or good common area. I've met so many amazing people who I still keep in touch with. — julias4abab2a7a

25. And if you're arriving into a new city late at night, it can be a good idea to book accommodation close to the station or airport, even if it's a bit more expensive.

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The last thing you want is to be lugging your stuff around an unfamiliar place in the dark while you're tired, trying to work out where to get a taxi or bus. This way you can get settled straight away, and in the morning it will be much easier to try and get where you need to go. — jamtoasty

26. Take advantage of free walking tours.

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Free walking tours are a great way to meet fellow travelers and learn the city. I always came back from a tour with new travel friends and an idea of what else I wanted to see. — rachels4674e6161

27. If you're a woman and want to avoid being hit on, it can sometimes help to wear a fake wedding ring.

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If you’re a woman traveling alone and don’t want to get hit on or hassled on the street, buy a cheap ring and wear it like a wedding ring. As ridiculous as it sounds, it will discourage unwanted advances. — laurens4faa6b76c

Honestly, it sucks that this is something women have to deal with. But if you're worried about unwanted attention, it can be a useful thing to do.

28. Try to act confident in public, even when you're not totally sure what you're doing.

Traveling can be confusing and distracting at times, and pickpockets might notice and target travelers who experience this. — Chefdenson

29. But also remember it's OK to ask for help if you need it.

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Whether it’s in the airport or an unfamiliar town, it can save a lot of time to ask a friendly face for assistance rather than trying to figure out a problem yourself or scrolling through pages of Google results. — nathanvh

30. Try not to worry about what other people are thinking. Honestly, they're probably not paying as much attention to you as you think they are.

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I worried about people judging me for being alone, but really no one is paying attention. In fact, most people are probably jealous. — courtiepaigee

31. And perhaps the most important of all: Just go!

You’ll be waiting forever if you’re waiting on someone else to join you. Plus there is something freeing about being able to travel on your own agenda instead of trying to appease everyone else. — katief4af1e7ff1

Note: Submissions have been edited for length and clarity.

Do you have another solo travel tip? Tell us in the comments!

This post contains content from Louise Khong, Ciara Johnson, Liz Richardson, and Arielle Calderon. It was compiled by Laura Frustaci. 

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Traveling Solo For The First Time: 50 Essential Tips

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Traveling solo for the first time ?

Let me start off by saying congratulations!

Personally, aside from my family and friends, nothing has shaped me to the extent that solo travel has.

My confidence, sense of adventure, compassion for others, and tolerance for differing beliefs have all grown stronger because of traveling alone.

Additionally, you can use traveling solo to find yourself and to grow the relationship you have with the most important person in your life — you!

This is why I encourage you to travel solo for the opportunity to grow mentally, spiritually — and physically, too (because you’ll see those muscles toning from lugging around a backpack with no help!).

That being said, I realize that the idea of traveling alone for the first time can be scary for many.

To help you plan an incredible experience with confidence, this solo travel guide shares 50 essential tips for traveling alone for the first time. As you weigh the advantages and disadvantages of traveling alone , this list can help you see just how rewarding solo travel can be. Ha, that rhymed!

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  • Mentally preparing for your solo journey without losing your mind
  • Essential steps for staying safe on a solo trip
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My Favorite Solo Female Travel Destinations [Video]

Watch the video above!

You’ll learn nine of my favorite places to travel alone , though note this list is in no way exhaustive. For instance, Tulum solo travel , taking a solo trip to Amsterdam , and traveling Israel solo are also incredible experiences. There are also some truly great places to travel alone in the US .

After watching, let me know in the comments below what destinations you’d add to it!

Is It Weird To Travel Alone?

Before diving into the tips for traveling alone , I just want to address this question that I get frequently.

In my opinion, it is not weird at all to travel alone — and once you get the hang of it, you won’t feel strange doing it.

Personally, I started traveling solo because I was sick of waiting around for travel partners. After numerous cancelled trips and plans that never came to fruition, I decided to take matters into my own hands and start traveling solo.

The best part?

Along with no longer needing to wait on other people, traveling solo allows for ultimate freedom over your trip itinerary — no negotiation required.

Okay, so now that we’ve gone through that little pep talk for traveling by yourself , let’s dive into the tips.

50 Essential Tips For Traveling Solo For The First Time

Here are 50 essential solo travel tips for a more successful independent journey.

Bonus Tip: Before traveling, check out this guide to choosing the right travel backpack . Comfort and organization on the road = happy traveler.

1. Book your first night (or the first few nights) of accommodation to help you ease into your solo travel journey.

2. Do you tend to get anxious? Planning out your itinerary and having things booked can help relieve this.

3. However, realize you may want to change your plans as you meet other travelers and learn about new cities along the way. This is why I personally choose to travel without making plans .

4. Traveling solo doesn’t necessarily mean you’re “alone.” In fact, I find it almost impossible not to meet other people while traveling, especially as being on you’re own makes you more approachable. For example, when sharing about the Black solo female travel experience, my friend Efia noted that within 10 minutes of her first solo trip she’d made a friend!

5. Invest in some Clever Travel Companion pickpocket-proof clothing , featuring hidden pockets that hide your valuables and eliminate the need for a purse.

By the way, this is a very important solo travel safety tip. Here are others to keep in mind, too:

6. Always carry your accommodation’s card with address. It makes it easier to hop in a cab and get home, especially if you’re in an uncomfortable situation.

7. Give yourself a day or two to get used to your new environment and resist the urge to plan too much during this time.

8. If you’re looking to find a travel buddy make sure to ask them essential questions , such as what their trip budget is and how much alone time they require.

9. Carry a safety whistle . Not only can this help startle ill-intentioned individuals, but it assists with scaring away wild animals, letting people know if you’re trapped somewhere and really any time you’d need to attract attention to your situation. I often wear one around my neck — especially when hiking — tucked into my shirt.

10. Know about travel apps and communities that exist to help connect travelers, like Couchsurfing , Penroads, HereToMeet and Reddit’s Travel Partners message board .

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11. Get involved in the sharing economy to help introduce you to locals and immerse you in local culture. Some of my favorites include BonAppetour and EatWith for dining with locals, Skillshare for classes with locals, and Airbnb for staying with locals.

13. Walk and talk with confidence. Don’t make it obvious you’re an unsure tourist by burying yourself in a map or walking with your head turned down. Walk tall and proud and people might even think you’re a local.

14. Give yourself the opportunity to grow. Traveling solo means you’ll be presented with challenges and new experiences that you’ll need to navigate. Every time you conquer an obstacle or try something new you’re giving yourself the opportunity to learn and grow.

15. As soon as you walk into your accommodation ask for an annotated map of which areas are safe or unsafe to walk alone. Keep it on your person — although don’t be glued to it while you’re walking, as you’ll both make yourself a prime target looking like a distracted tourist, and will miss out on taking in your surroundings. This is an important tip for traveler safety .

16. Make sure any gear you bring with you — if you must bring gear — is insured ( I use a floater policy adjoined to my renter’s insurance ). While I’d recommend this to both solo and group travelers, you are a bit more susceptible to theft when a friend isn’t watching your back. That being said, the mere act of moving from place to place means you’re less organized and sometimes rushed.

17. Keep those valuables at home or hidden. There’s no need to attract unnecessary attention to yourself. Moreover, less important things with you means less important things to worry about.

18. Erase the word “can’t” from your vocabulary. If you think you can’t, then you can’t; however, if you think you can, then you can. A positive attitude will lead to an enhanced solo travel experience.

19. Invest in an intervalometer and a Joby SLR GorillaPod to take better solo photos of yourself, no selfie stick needed. More on my experience using these gadgets on the road here .

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20. Look for hostels with common spaces — kitchens, TV lounges, movie theaters — as well as hostel-planned outings and events if you want to meet other people.

21. Invest in a good flashlight or headlamp . I cannot count how many times I surprisingly needed one of these, whether on an unexpected camping trip or night hike, overnight trains, or having the electricity go out at a place I was staying.

22. Be open-minded and flexible. If you don’t know how to use a squat toilet in Thailand they’re not going to roll out the red carpet for you and bring you a flusher. You figure these things out as you go, and as you encounter new situations and cultural facets you’re able to engage, process and react to them without influence from others.

23. Try to arrive to your destination during the day to avoid being alone in any sketchy areas at night alone.

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26. Packing light is always a good, but an even better idea when traveling solo and having to manage your luggage on your own. Here’s how I travel with just a carry-on . Also, a few cool carry-ons I’d recommend:

  • Tylt Energi Backpack + Battery (for shorter trips; it charges your gear)
  • AmeriBag’s Healthy Back Carry-All Bag – HBBEvo (great for those with back and shoulder issues)
  • Booq’s Cobra Squeeze laptop backpack (eco-friendly with lots of organizational pockets)
  • Travelers Choice Siena 2-In-1 Hybrid Hard-Shell Carry-On Wheeled Garment Suitcase (great for those who will be doing business on the road as there’s a garment bag)
  • Granite Gear Cross-Trek 22″ Wheeled Carry-On Duffel (a rolling suitcase, backpack and duffel in one)
  • Granite Gear Cross- Trek Convertible Wheeled Carry-On with Removable 28L Pack (if you’ll be doing adventurous activities having the removable back is nice)
  • Deuter Futura Pro 34 SL Pack (this is what I use for backpacking trips)

27. Enjoy at least one new experience each day, whether it be taking a class, trying a new sport, going for a scenic hike , sampling a new food or wandering through an interesting museum.

28. Don’t tell everyone you’re alone. While I tell other backpackers in my hostels and guesthouses that I’m traveling alone when trying to put a group outing together, if a stranger asks you who you’re traveling with, tell them your husband/wife/friend is in the bathroom and will be out in a minute. Moreover, if you ever feel uncomfortable, move to a very public area, and even start chatting to someone to make it look like you’re traveling together.

29. Use solo travel to strengthen your relationship with yourself. You’ll be having a lot of alone time — reflecting on what you’ve learned and how you’re feeling — allowing you to get to know yourself without distraction.

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30. Eliminate doubt from your mind. Have confidence in your social and problem-solving skills and you will conquer any challenge that comes your way.

31. If you’re a US citizen, the Smart Traveler Enrollment Program is a free program designed to help keep travelers safe. By entering your information into their system before you leave, the government is then better able to assist you in the event of an emergency.

32. If you carry a bag keep it in front of you. Always have your belongings in sight.

33. Start a blog , or at least an up-to-date social media account about your travels. It’s a great way to keep a sort of journal of your experiences and keep friends and family up-to-do on what you’re doing (although I also recommend keeping in touch with loved ones via phone or email to let them know your accommodation and location details).

34. Before leaving for your trip make copies of your passport, visas, ATM card, credit cards, birth certificate, driver’s license and other important documents or ID cards. Leave one copy at home with your family or a close friend, and take another to hide somewhere in your bag, away from the originals. This will save you much trouble if anything gets lost or stolen.

35. Revel in your complete freedom. Solo travel means you call the shots. Do what you want, where you want, when you want, without having to answer to anyone.

36. Don’t get distracted. One of the most common tactics thieves use to pickpocket travelers is distracting them with a chaotic or interesting situation. For instance, when embarking on female solo travel in Morocco , you may encounter the “wrong way” guys who will purposefully give you the wrong directions to try to get a “tip” out of you.

37. Know when a group is a good idea. While solo travel shouldn’t limit you from doing and seeing what you want, there are certain situations where you will be better off with a group. For example, while popular hiking areas are fine to trek alone, more remote ones are better done with a companion.

38. Don’t assume your hotel room is 100% safe. Make use of in-room lockers and safes, where only you know the combination.

39. Be aggressive in your pursuit of cultural knowledge . Don’t look at the culture you’re visiting as an outsider, but inside dive in headfirst by interacting with locals, taking cultural classes, sampling typical dishes, attending community events and partaking in local life as much as possible. One of the many benefits of solo travel is you’re forced to interact with the community since you don’t have travel companions to talk to.

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40. Talk to strangers . Remember how your parents told you never to talk to strangers? Don’t listen. This doesn’t mean go back to a stranger’s house all by yourself; it means interact with locals in public places and meet other travelers in hostels and on tours for a social and well-rounded travel experience.

41. Instead of making it obvious you’re a tourist, leave your Yankee’s t-shirt and fanny pack at home and instead try to assimilate with the locals.

42. Be selfish. Solo travel means there is nobody there to tell you what to do. Take the opportunity to be selfish without compromise.

43. If you venture out on your own let the front desk — as well as loved ones back home — know your plans. Better safe than sorry.

44. Hire a local guide, at least part of the time, to see your destination from a local point of view. Many cities nowadays also have greeter programs or free tours by locals, where you pay on a tips only basis. Visiting NYC? I offer private photo tours !

45. Learn a few phrases in the local language. While nobody’s expecting you to become fluent in another language before your vacation – although, if you can, you’ll certainly have an advantage – knowing a few useful phrases is crucial. Along with being able to ask where the nearest bathroom is, how to order food and the proper way to greet someone, it is important to know how to ask for help.

46. Say “yes” to adventure — without doing anything completely stupid — and go home with unforgettable memories and stories you can cherish for the rest of your life. That being said, use your common sense and make sure your adventures aren’t jeopardizing your safety.

47. Learn how to defend yourself. Taking a self-defense class is not only smart for solo travelers, but for everyone. Whether you’re on a trip or at home, violent attacks are possible.

48. Don’t get too drunk. Whenever you are so drunk people need to take care of you, you’re making yourself vulnerable. This is especially true if you’re traveling alone in a foreign country.

49. Replace fear with curiosity. Instead of being afraid of the unknown, turn on your curiosity and make a list of trip goals. Bonus points if you do something that completely freaks you out like skydiving or bungy jumping.

50. Most important: listen to your gut! Your intuition is stronger than you think, and usually knows before you do when a situation is positive or negative.

Solo Travel Tips

New to solo travel ?

I made so many mistakes when planning my first trip solo — like booking out every second of my itinerary so that I had no room for adventure.

That’s not what I want for you.

To help you plan a meaningful and memorable trip, I’m sharing my top tips for planning the perfect solo trip — with confidence!

What tips would you add to this guide on traveling solo for the first time?

Bonus solo travel benefits resources:.

14 Benefits Of Traveling Alone + Tips To Make It Happen

An Open Letter From The Father of A Female Solo Traveler

An Open Letter From The Mother Of A Female Solo Traveler

Black Solo Female Travel: An Eye-Opening & Empowering Guide

How To Travel Solo Successfully: 31+ Important Tips

20 Pros & Cons Of Traveling Alone

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Those are some great tips Jessie. I am a seasoned traveler because I am trapped in my 9-5, but loving it 😉 I have one question for you though; How selfish are you LOL.

Anyway, thanks a lot for the share, It was very interesting to read.

@Cindy: Thank you for the kind words and for reading!

This is a great post. I particularly like the fact you encourage your readers to book at least a few days’ worth of accommodation. This is one area of travelling that’s always pushed me way out of my comfort zone as I like to know where I’m going next and what to expect.

No matter what you solo travel will become a hell if you’re not friendly with people. I think as a solo traveler it becomes tough to take pictures of yourself with wonderful things or scenarios. Other than that, I’ve traveled twice solo and really enjoyed a lot.

@Roger: Agreed, though I have a setup for the pix! 🙂 https://jessieonajourney.com/how-to-take-the-perfect-selfie/

OMG Super good article, Very useful for a solo traveller like me 🙂 What’s the best way to travel solo, while travelling in Europe?

Your post has really helped a lot in guiding me with the process of creating my travel blog. It is so articulated. Especially the plugin’s suggestions……

Truly great tips for traveling solo first time! In fact, these tips can also be implemented by season travelers. You have covered every single minute and major preparation necessary to ensure traveling safe.

Your blog is very informative and helpful. Traveling alone is one of the best experience. Challenging but you will discover something different to yourself.

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20 expert solo travel tips for women from the Lonely Planet team

Nov 17, 2023 • 10 min read

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Solo travel is one of the most exciting and liberating experiences you can have © Deepa Lakshmin / Lonely Planet

If you’re eager to see the world, why hold out for the ideal travel companion? Solo journeys create indelible memories.

Yet while voyaging by yourself can exhilarate, it can also be dauting– especially for female travelers. That’s why we asked a few travel-expert colleagues here at Lonely Planet for ideas that any woman setting out alone should keep in mind.

Here are 20 tips to keep you safe, grounded and ready to set out for the trip of a lifetime. All by yourself.

Akanksha Singh in Portugal, standing with the Tagus River behind her.

1. Seek out female hosts (ideally with pets)

If I’m booking accommodation online, I tend to opt for women owners (preferably with pets in their host photos!). This is partly psychological – but I’ve also found that women tend to think about things like where to go to avoid crowds or safer alternatives to more touristy places. It’s nice how protective women are of each other, especially when we’re traveling alone.

– Akanksha Singh , Destination Editor 

Deepa Lakshmin in Morocco, laughing and standing on a wall with the city of Chefchaouen in the background.

2. Ease into it 

It can be tempting to throw yourself outside of your comfort zone all at once, but doing things alone – solo traveling, or even just going out to dinner or the movies by yourself – can feel intimidating at first. But it’s a muscle you build up over time. Start with a day trip or an afternoon wandering a museum you’ve always wanted to see but didn’t know who to go with. When I backpacked through Australia and New Zealand , I tacked on extra days at the end of group tours so I had solo time to explore (and decompress!) after nonstop socializing and being “on.” I’d already acclimated to the new-to-me destination while traveling with the group, which meant I had more confidence and knowledge to navigate the streets on my own.

– Deepa Lakshmin , Social Media Director

Sasha Brady standing in front of the Trevi Fountain in Rome, Italy

3. Consider hostels for connecting with like-minded people of all ages

Hostels are a great way to meet people, especially fellow solo female travelers. I truly believe you’re never too old for hostels. Many cater to people of various age groups and backgrounds, and offer private rooms for added comfort and privacy. I find it’s easier to meet like-minded people in communal settings – the kind of people who are eager to exchange travel tips and stories with you and who genuinely want you to have a good time. I’ve made lifelong connections with people I’ve met in hostels. 

– Sasha Brady , Digital Editor 

Rachel Lewis taking a selfie on the sands at Kure Beach, North Carolina

4. Start with a solo afternoon

I’m not quite 100% to the point where I’m ready to dive into solo travel, so I like to just carve out a day or an afternoon of Rachy Adventures when I’m traveling with friends or my wife. (Said adventure often involves a croissant and an overpriced latte.) Some of my absolute favorite parts of a trip have been a rainy afternoon spent wandering alone in Boston , or sitting alone with a good book on a largely empty beach, taking in the waves.

– Rachel Lewis, Senior Social Media Manager 

Fionnuala McCarthy stands in front of a huge, snow-topped mountain peak, holding up her arms and smiling

5. Book some group activities

If you’re feeling apprehensive about taking a big solo trip, arrange a tour or activity for each day. This way your days will be organized around a preplanned group event. I made connections from all over the world on a solo trip to Australia in my early 20s – and 20 years on, am still in regular touch with a Swedish woman I met on a boat trip to the Great Barrier Reef .

– Fionnuala McCarthy , Editorial Director

Brekke Fletcher stands on a lawn in Napa, California, with the landscape stretching out beyond the cluster of low-rise buildings directly behind

6. Hop on a boat or a bus

I get my bearings by taking either a hop-on, hop-off bus tour or a boat tour. On my first solo trip to Paris , I decided to take a cruise down the Seine – during which I wrote out my plans for the trip and got to know people by offering to snap their photograph. I also find spending time in local bookstores to be a great way to immerse myself in the destination as well as meet fellow travelers and locals who seem very happy to help and offer tips and advice. 

– Brekke Fletcher , Senior Director of Content

Amy Lynch smiling at the camera with the craggy coastline of the Outer Hebrides, Scotland in the background

7. Bring a book 

I’ve cycled and hiked and taken trains all over the world by myself, and I never did any of it without a book on hand. Waiting on delayed trains, sitting down to meals, relaxing in a bar at the end of the day: all of these situations are improved with a book. Reading can also be a useful way to put off any potential unwanted conversation. A woman on her own can be a magnet for chatterers, and I’m not always in the mood to talk to strangers when traveling.

– Amy Lynch , Destination Editor

Morgan Wegner standing on a rock and looking upwards, amidst sun-dappled trees and foliage

8. Indulge your hobbies

Look for activities related to what you already like to do at home. For example, I love to thrift-shop, so I’ll often look up secondhand or charity shops in foreign cities: it’s a great way to get a sense for local fashions and find unique souvenirs. I also love to embroider, and I’ve spent hours at textile galleries, oohing over fine needlework and learning about local fiber-art traditions. I couldn’t do that with a bored travel companion.

– Morgan Wegner, Senior Operations Editor

Erin Lenczycki walking on a rocky outcrop along the coastline in Morocco at sunset

9. Embrace “yes!” – within reason

One of the best things about solo travel is the freedom to make or break plans whenever you want. Some of my favorite travel memories (including meeting my husband!) are because I took a chance and made a plan with new friends over an impromptu drink or meal. Celebrate saying “yes” to things you wouldn’t normally do – but trust the voice in your head at the same time. If the hair on the back of your neck stands up at a turn Google is telling you to make, take a different route. Learn to expand your boundaries – while trusting your intuition.

– Erin Lenczycki, Photo Editor

AnneMarie McCarthy standing beside the sign for the town of Camembert in Normandy, France

10. Be present

Traveling by yourself is a great opportunity to be mindful. With no need to rush or please anyone else, I find myself doing a lot of thinking and reflecting while traveling alone. I try to limit my interaction with my phone as well to really enjoy the quiet. I find some of my most vivid traveling memories have come from these trips.

– AnneMarie McCarthy , Destination Editor

Ann Douglas Lott standing on a harbourside walkway, with the rear propeller of a seaplane behind

11. Plan rest days

For every seven to 10 days of travel, set aside a day to breathe. Sleep in, treat yourself to a nice meal or just give your legs a break. If you can resist the pressure to program every moment of your trip, you won’t feel like you’re “wasting” your time. This is especially true when you’re traveling solo and not on anyone else’s schedule. 

– Ann Douglas Lott , Associate Editor

Jessica Lockhart in New Zealand, standing on a rock behind a wooden sign marking the summit of Mt Tarawera

12. Use apps to your advantage (and with headphones)

When navigating a new city on foot, plug your destination into a maps app, then listen to the walking directions through headphones. This allows you to avoid pulling out a map – which is equivalent to waving a flag printed with “tourist!” Most importantly, when you’re making your plans, try to resist fear (which is used to manufacture headlines and generate clicks). Language and cultural barriers can raise discomfort, which will make you hyper-aware of your surroundings. But that doesn’t mean said surroundings are unsafe. 

– Jessica Lockhart, Destination Editor

Alex Butler standing in front of a sculpture of a red tree on the High Line in New York City

13. Go on a food tour

One thing that makes a lot of solo travelers apprehensive is the thought of dining alone. But if you join a food tour, you’ll have dining companions for the evening and the opportunity to try out a bunch of new restaurants ⁠— all while learning about the local culture. I joined a food tour of Trastevere while traveling solo in Rome : not only did I get to meet fellow travelers, but the tour included a mix of casual street-food spots (excellent for solo travelers) and restaurants. After you check these places out in a group, you may feel more relaxed coming back on your own for a solo-dining experience.

– Alex Butler , Managing Editor 

Zara Sekhavati standing in front of high, pinkish-brown rock formations in Jordan

14. Travel with a power bank

Traveling alone, you will most likely be using your phone more than usual to take photos and videos, and for navigating maps. Even if your phone has a reliable battery, it’s always good to know you have a backup, especially if you’re on your own. There are plenty of small and lightweight power banks that you can purchase to slot into your bag when on the road.

– Zara Sekhavati, Destination Editor

15. Share your location 

To ensure peace of mind, I make it a habit to inform at least one person back home of my whereabouts using the Find My Friend app , which allows them to track my location in real time. While it can be reassuring for safety reasons, what I appreciate the most about it is the tangible sense of connection it provides. My family, in particular, loves that they can place me on a map and accompany me virtually on my explorations.

– Sasha Brady

Melissa Yeager taking a selfie in a mountain range in Argentina, with undulating pink and orange crevasses in the background

16. Traveling solo doesn’t mean traveling alone

For me, traveling solo can be a great way to meet new, like-minded people. Join a tour group like G Adventures or Intrepid for an entire trip, book a day tour with GetYourGuide , find a class for something you’re passionate about like art or cooking, research some of the digital-nomad meetups, find a bar where they show the games of your favorite team…there are lots of ways to forge new friendships on the road. 

– Melissa Yeager , Senior Editor 

Laura Motta sitting in a restaurant in Italy

17. Don’t wait for a partner

I’ve traveled solo to places like Hawaii , the Amalfi Coast and the Dominican Republic . When I tell these stories, someone will occasionally say something to me like, “Oh, I want to go there on my honeymoon, so I’m waiting to take that trip.” My advice? Don’t wait. If you want to somewhere, even a place with a reputation as a “romantic” destination or a honeymoon getaway, go anyway. There are so many ways to enjoy a destination and to make your own memories, with or without another person. If resorts or entire destinations cater specifically to couples, you will see a different – and sometimes more interesting – side of it by going solo.   

– Laura Motta , Senior Director of Content

Alicia Johnson standing in front of a notable house in Barbados, looking at something just out of shot

18. Don’t overshare

The temptation to share your entire trip via social media can be overwhelming – especially if you’re having a fantastic time. But for safety concerns, it’s best to avoid sharing every movement with every follower until you return home. Not only do real-time posts alert people to where you are during every part of your trip, but they also let folks know you’re not home. Consider sharing your photos and videos from the road just with a close number of friends, or wait until your trip is over to flood your social media. 

– Alicia Johnson , Destination Editor

19. Role-play at restaurants

Dining alone can be the best kind of mini-adventure. You can chat with the bartender – often a wealth of local knowledge – or other patrons. You can play at being an international woman of mystery and hunker down with a book or a notebook and pen. And if you’ve had a long day of sightseeing, sometimes it feels good to just sit at a quiet table and fiddle with your phone. The best part? Solo diners can often glide right to the front of the line at popular and award-winning restaurants, even without a reservation. 

– Laura Motta

20. Feel your feelings – and cry when you need to

Especially if you’re traveling alone for the first time. Especially if you’re far away from everything you’ve ever known. Especially if you feel confused or lonely or out of place. I’ve shed tears in more airports than I care to admit. You’re outside your comfort zone, and that’s scary! It’s normal to feel homesick and miss the people, places and routines that feel familiar to you. But you probably embarked on a solo adventure because some part of you craves something new – and any change requires getting comfortable with being uncomfortable, at least for a little bit. It’s OK to go through it.

– Deepa Lakshmin

This article was first published May 2019 and updated November 2023

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Travelling alone can seem daunting from the comfort of home. What happens if things don’t go to plan? What if you get stranded? Is it safe to go out at night solo? All these  questions and more (what will I do if my luggage goes AWOL? What if my car gets stuck in a ditch? Will I get attacked by bandits?) often plague travellers before their first solo travel trip. To put those fears at bay, read on for our writers’ and editors’ top 15 tips for surviving solo travel. It’ll hopefully furnish you with what to know before traveling to anywhere on your own, and lead you to learn lots of new things about the world – and yourself.

1. Know your strengths

2. do your homework, 3. sleep around, 4. embrace yourself, 5. just say no, 6. take photos, 8. get an early start, 9. find your people, 10. revel in it, 11. embrace tech (and terrible films).

  • 12. Don't hide

13. Learn local lingo

14. bring back up, 15. be aware of safety.

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The sunny delights of solo travel © Shutterstock

It goes without saying that pre-solo-travel anxieties will depend on what you want from your trip, and what kind of person you are. Do you relish being outside your comfort zone, or does the thought fill you with fear rather than exhilaration? Are you a sociable person who wants to be in the middle of everything? If so, you might go crazy if you can't communicate, so head somewhere you speak the language.

Conversely, if you're travelling solo and more of an  introvert , forget the language barrier.  Vibrant cities  are perfect for people watching, especially if those with a thriving café culture. 

Definitely one of our top tips of surviving solo travel. Take time to consider what you want from your trip, and where you’re most likely to get it. For inspiration, and to help you focus on what you want, and how to get it, read our gallery guide  to the best 20 places to travel alone. 

Try a homestay or look for room rentals in an apartment – this gives you an automatic connection with residents when you're travelling alone. As a solo traveller, you'll have lots of options to choose from. Even if your landlord doesn't take you out on the town, you'll at least scoop up a few local tips. Hostels are ready-made for solo travellers too ( here’s our pick of the best hostels in Europe), but bear in mind you might wind up spending more time with other tourists than with locals.

This came up time and time again as one of our writers’ top solo travel tips - being alone for long periods of time can be daunting, but just roll with it. You might learn to love your own company along the way.

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Solo traveller embracing freedom © Shutterstock

Or, if you're feeling social, you can always try to make new friends. Offer to take a family's photo at a big sight, for instance, or sit near a chatty gang at a bar. This really is one of our top tips of surviving solo travel.

Either way, if it's adventure you're after, read our round-up of the world’s best adventure holidays .

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Sometimes, especially in more hospitable and foreigner-fascinated cultures, the attention you get travelling solo can be a little intense. Learn how to say "no, thank you" in the local language, as well as "absolutely not" – plus the local nonverbal gesture for "no", which is often more effective than both.

Also have local help numbers, such as the tourist police, saved in your phone. You'll probably never need them, but just knowing you have them can give you the confidence to deal with awkward situations, whether you’re setting off on a South American solo trip ,   backpacking Australia , or road-tripping Europe .

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Making photography a mission, even if it's just snapping odd little details you notice about a place, gives structure to your day. Your friends back home will appreciate your perspective and the stories behind the pics. It's also a great way to reminisce after your solo travel adventure and remember what you've achieved.

If you fancy upping your Insta game, you could investigate taking an Insta-oriented tour. You'll find them in all corners of the globe, like this photo shoot tour of Oahu, Hawaii , or this Ho Chi Minh City Hidden Gems Instagram Tour - and pretty much everywhere else besides.

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Snapping the perfect scenic shot © Shutterstock

While the thought of visiting restaurants as a solo traveller might fill you with fear (and you might be tempted to live on fast food to avoid awkward situations), put that fear aside. Fancy establishments are fantastic places to dine alone. Waiters are happy to help solo diners who smile and say, "I made a special trip just to eat here. What do you recommend?" Social folks might want to eat at the bar, but there's no shame in taking a table for two.

If you’re really into your food and fancy company at the same time, look up local tasting experiences. Some deliver in-depth detail on local delicacies, like this Parisian introduction to cheese and wine-tasting , while others mix culture and cuisine, like this immersive sightseeing and home-cooking experience in Bucharest. The world is your oyster when it comes to tasting tours (oysters optional).

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Asian street restaurant - a local, social spot to spark conversation © Shutterstock

If the thought of bar-hopping alone makes you die a little inside, just recast your day. Wake up early, enjoy a leisurely breakfast (when all the good stuff is still available on the hotel buffet) and head out for parks, museums and other daytime-only activities. If you pack your day full enough, you'll be ready for bed by 9pm.

Use Facebook and Twitter to make connections where you're travelling. Offer to take local friends of friends out for dinner, and you'll be surprised how many people take you up on it – everyone likes to be a tour guide for a night. Also seek out your interests in your destination. While you might be travelling in solo style, you don't have to be a hermit.

To that end, and wherever you are in the world, you could check-out tours that tie-in with your interests, and your destinations' specialties - as the saying goes, “when in Rome”. Talking of which, as an example, when actually in Rome culture vultures could take an expert-guided tour of the ancient city in the company of other history buffs. Or how about this  Secret Roman History LGBT Walking Tour ? Footie fans will usually have no problem finding fellow aficionados of the beautiful game to hook up with - from touring the Maracana in Rio , to exploring Barcelona's Camp Nou (nb solo travellers could make the latter more social by taking a  stadium tour with tapas ).

You get the idea. Securing a slot on the likes of these trips - doing whatever floats your boat - means you’ll almost certainly be in the company of like-minded folk. A win-win situation.

Even if you do get lonely, don't lose sight of all the things you can do when travelling alone. Some of those perks are tiny – whether that means double-dipping your chips in the guacamole or changing your mind every hour, without worrying about driving anyone crazy. But the real bonus of solo travel is much larger: pure freedom. You can take the exact trip you want, and even if you're not quite sure yet what that might be, you'll have a great time figuring it out.

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Solo traveller capturing the moment and seizing the day - in her own time © Shutterstock

Remember that it's OK to spend the occasional night in watching the TV in your guesthouse. You wouldn't be out every night at home - it'd be exhausting - so why try to do it for several months abroad?

A smartphone or tablet is a must now there's free wi-fi almost everywhere. Having tech to hand means you can check what to know before traveling to your next stop. Among many other things it means you can book your accommodation ahead and ensure a safe pick-up at your destination. And, if you're feeling lonely, you can connect with home, read the news, and listen to podcasts - perfect for passing time on long journeys, and a guaranteed way to travel to your destination in interesting company.

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Long journeys - perfect for planning, podcasts (and catching up on kip). Image: Devil's Nose, Ecuador © Shutterstock

12. Don't hide

It's easy to be daunted by travelling alone, and retreating into the pages of a good novel can feel like the perfect way to escape curious stares on public transport or in restaurants. But going solo means you have a chance to really take in your surroundings, meeting locals and travellers alike along the way. Be content to be by yourself, but confident enough to introduce yourself to people when you want to be sociable.

It's definitely worth making the effort to learn a few words and phrases before you go solo travelling. Just knowing how to introduce yourself, start a basic conversation, order a beer and count from 1–10 makes all the difference. People love to know you're trying, however rusty you are. If you're wondering how to travel pretty much anywhere and make new friends, giving the language a go is a must. If travel opens the mind, learning local lingo is a great way to open doors.

It goes without saying that travelling necessitates having the right documents, and keeping them safe. For solo travellers, that’s even more important - no one wants to be left stranded alone and visa-less. So, make sure you’ve saved the likes of your passport and visa details somewhere safe. Email yourself photos of your vital documents, for example.

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It’s also pretty essential to make sure you’re insured. Head here to check-out options offered by our World Nomads affiliate partner. Having back-up and insurance is a sure-fire way to travel to your destination with fewer worries, As the saying goes it's always better to be safe than sorry. Talking of which…

Solo travel can be both safe and rewarding, but be mindful of safety concerns just as you would travelling in a pair or group. Take care in large cities at night, watch your drinks, be aware of any local scams and keep a close eye on your valuables.

While it's certainly challenging, the hardest thing about solo travel is making that initial leap to do it. After that, all you need is a bit of know-how, an eagerness to explore, and these tried and tested tips on how to travel solo. An incredibly rewarding experience awaits.

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You haven't truly traveled until you've done it alone. Traveling solo changes the entire experience; stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing an adventure by yourself is unlike anything else. If you're planning to take a trip alone, there are definitely some things to keep in mind, and if you're an expert solo traveler, you'll totally agree with these helpful tips from a recent Reddit thread .

  • " Don't keep all your money in one place . Have copies of important documents." — Reddit user ldzk
  • " Have scans of all your important documents on Google Drive . This way, even if you lose any physical copies, you can still access them." — Reddit user hotbrokemess
  • " Download offline maps of the places you plan to visit in Google Maps . This is particularly handy if mobile data access is of an unknown quantity where you're traveling." — Reddit user The_Master_of_LOLZ
  • " Put yourself out there . Walk up to that random group of people your age at a hostel, introduce yourself, and make friends/have people to go out with. Traveling solo can be super lonely, and if you're an introvert at home, chances are you'll avoid meeting people while abroad too without intentional effort." — Reddit user PinstripeMonkey
  • " Send a copy of everything to 1-2 trusted friends you can reach . Being locked out of your regular email can be a pain, and not having easily accessible copies can instantly throw a wrench in your plans. If need be, you can create a new email and have them send all your trip confirmations there. I've had more tech issues than any other troubles on my travels." — Reddit user Xcopa
  • " Write down the info for the consulate(s) somewhere . Or know where to find the info easily, especially if you go to countries that are known to be a bit less safe. — Reddit user BonBref
  • " If you want to meet up with other travelers, seek out an Irish pub . Pretty much every big city on earth has one and they will usually have English speaking travelers and expats who have advice on where you are and possibly will invite you on adventures. If life is a video game, Irish pubs are where you find side quests." — Reddit user Mr_Saturn1
  • " Do your best to look like you know what you're doing or where you're going . It's all nice and good to use common sense but I've always found it much easier to travel when people think you know what you're doing." — Reddit user BonBref
  • " Give yourself extra time for layovers . A couple hours sitting reading a book or getting a bite to eat is a lot less stressful than running through the airport trying to catch your next flight." — Reddit user CoolMondays
  • " Look for a 'free walking tour' in the city . They usually meet in a popular touristy area at like 10 or 11 a.m., and then head off. Usually they are 2-3 hours long with a 15-30 minute break in the middle for lunch. They are 'free,' but you're expected to tip the tour guide. They can also make all sorts of awesome suggestion for dinner, shows, places to go, etc." — Reddit user somedude456
  • " Whenever you go somewhere, don't immediately take out your camera to snap a photo . Take in the majesty of where you are and remember the effort it took to get there. Enjoy the view and listen to the sounds. Since you're with nobody, see your destination with your eyes before you take out your camera." — Reddit user IVTD4KDS
  • " Give yourself a day of rest . You might think is stupid and a waste of time, but knowing you're kicking back and relaxing in a foreign place feels amazing compared to 'gotta make sure I do this.'" — Reddit user dsmei
  • " Learn a few phrases in the local language . Even if you don't sound great, most people will appreciate your effort and it may open more doors to you." — Reddit user meiyoumayo
  • " Don't book all your flights and accommodation . I thought it was smart to plan everything out but eventually you skip flights and change plans to hang out with other people or go to places you didn't know about." — Reddit user 4thegreenbeast4
  • " Consider a hostel instead of a hotel . If you're not into sharing a room with people, you can usually pay a bit more for a private room. Make sure you stay at one with a bar, it's such an easy way to meet people and have a good time." — Reddit user ihopeyoulikeapples
  • " Don't worry too much about loneliness . I had a lot of concerns about loneliness before my first time I traveled alone. In hindsight I can say that I have met the most interesting personalities and had the most memorable experiences of my life during my solo travels. Enjoy the feeling of personal freedom. Go and live the story you will be telling to your grandchildren." — Reddit user hanshumbert
  • " Keep a diary of some sort that you can reflect on . There won't be others to remember the small things, and you find it much easier to delve into deep thoughts when by yourself for extended periods. It's like a mental pallet cleanse." — Reddit user Xcopa
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  1. /r/SoloTravel: Where traveling solo is traveling social!

    I am travelling solo and looking at flights in Indonesia and then back to Australia. I will be returning from Surakarta (Solo) to Canberra. The first flight I have found is Batik Air. Surakarta to Jakarta leaving Surakarta at 10.50am on the 20th of July and landing in Jakarta on the 20th of July and 11.55am.

  2. Solo Travel Tips for First Timers : r/solotravel

    Finally, travel blogs are often a good source. To answer your more general question - hostels are geared towards people who want some combination of: 1) cheap lodging, 2) lodging alongside other like-minded travelers (particularly solo travelers), and 3) people who just want to party with hundreds of randoms.

  3. Solo travel for introverts: A guide with tips and advice-

    This is a blissful scenario for an introvert. So to make up for all the lack of introvert travel advice around here, here is a list of tips and tricks I've learned while solo traveling the past six years: Schedule recharge time: If you're an introvert, you already know the importance of this. For me, this is every night between 10PM to ...

  4. First time "really" solo travelling for a week... where's ...

    I actually travelled totally solo last week, went to Barcelona (been there loads of times before) it was good, but the people aren't quite as welcoming as malaga direction. Travelling solo id recommend torremolinos, la carihuela. Super friendly, sunny and warm but not over the top, unbelievable chiringuitos everywhere, cheap.

  5. First time solo-traveller. Tips? : r/solotravel

    Most people who solo travel do so because of similar reasons to yourself. I know I did; My friends didn't have any real ambitions to travel. And I often decided to do it on my own, and it is without a doubt one of the decisions you'll always look back on that offered you invaluable life experience that you would have never achieved if you ...

  6. Which places should beginner solo travellers absolutely avoid ...

    banthetruthaturperil. •. It isn't that you should "absolutely avoid" these places, but Egypt, Morocco, and India are generally not recommended for a first solo trip, especially if you're female. Colombia and Brazil can also be a little challenging, especially if you don't speak Spanish/Portuguese.

  7. 49 Tips to Travel Better (From a Solo Traveler) : r/solotravel

    LOCALS. 35. Knowing how to say "hello", "thank you" and "cheers" in the local language will get you by in 90% of situations. 36. A notebook and pen will get you by in the other 10% of situations. Turns out travel includes a lot of awkward games of Pictionary. 37. Making an effort to use just one word (even incorrectly) in someone ...

  8. I consolidated all of /r/SoloTravel's little hacks & tips.

    Take screenshots of your tickets and reservations. Upload all your papers in a cloud so you can retrieve them from any computer if you lose your bag/phone. If you have 2FA on your Google account (which you should), also print and bring backup codes, in case you lose your phone. Bring a spare or old phone if you can.

  9. How to Travel Alone, According to Reddit

    Traveling alone has its perks, including more flexibility and ease of mobility, which opens you up to exploring lesser-known locales and attractions. When considering solo travel to Spain ...

  10. Advice Please! Travel to Indonesia : r/solotravel

    Travel to Indonesia : r/solotravel. Advice Please! Travel to Indonesia. Hello, 1st time poster here. I'm going on a business trip to Jakarta in June, and am hoping to stay 4-5 days afterwards and enjoy my subsidised flights by having a holiday. I've done some research of places in Indonesia but there are so many places to go and so many islands ...

  11. Travelling Alone: Reddit Users Give Top Tips For Solo Travel

    Read Reddit's solo travel community share their top tips for avoiding - and embracing - lonliness while you travel. ... Another solo traveller lent their advice to others, writing: "A big ...

  12. How to Travel Alone, According to Reddit

    Travelling alone has its perks, including more flexibility and ease of mobility, which opens you up to exploring lesser-known locales and attractions. When considering solo travel to Spain ...

  13. How do you travel solo? Solo travel safety advice, according to experts

    Beholden to no one but themselves, solo travelers can eat where they want, spend what they want, and see what they want. This isn't to say solo travelers shouldn't take their safety seriously ...

  14. Travel Solo for the First Time: Complete Guide for Newbies

    Having a good sense of what solo travel is like and planning for it will go a long way to easing you into your first solo trip. There is a lot of information on Solo Traveler. In fact, there are over 700 posts about the many aspects of solo travel. This post covers the basics of how to travel alone for the first time.

  15. Advice for solo traveler. Is a 2 week Rome, Barcelona, and ...

    Itineraries. I'm 28M and my first time traveling overseas from the US, and wanting to take a 2 week vacation. I'm thinking June, starting in Rome for 4 days, then Barcelona for 4 days, and Ibiza for 4 days. The Ibiza option is just a random option, so open to a better alternative if any. Would also love to hear ideas on main places or ...

  16. The Ultimate Solo Travel Guide: Travel Alone & Love It

    As a solo traveler, you'll meet more travelers and locals than those who travel with a partner. Ask a traveler about the best thing they've done so far or a local for the best hidden gem restaurant in the area. The people you meet and the advice they offer will greatly enrich your trip. 5. Be flexible with your plans.

  17. How To Travel Alone: 31 Tips For Solo Traveling

    Traveling solo can be intimidating — so we asked travel bloggers, Reddit users, ... Hopefully their advice will help you navigate — or even inspire — your next solo adventure. 1.

  18. Traveling Solo For The First Time: 50 Essential Tips

    Here are 50 essential solo travel tips for a more successful independent journey. Bonus Tip: Before traveling, check out this guide to choosing the right travel backpack. Comfort and organization on the road = happy traveler. 1. Book your first night (or the first few nights) of accommodation to help you ease into your solo travel journey. 2.

  19. Understanding Solo Travel and Navigating Reddit: A Detailed Guide

    Solo travel can be an incredibly liberating experience. It can be a chance to break away from the routine of daily life, to explore new places and cultures, and to push yourself out of your comfort zone. It can also be an opportunity for self-discovery, allowing you to learn more about yourself and what you are capable of.

  20. Expert advice for female solo travelers

    Deepa Lakshmin in Morocco. 2. Ease into it. It can be tempting to throw yourself outside of your comfort zone all at once, but doing things alone - solo traveling, or even just going out to dinner or the movies by yourself - can feel intimidating at first. But it's a muscle you build up over time.

  21. 15 Tips For Surviving Solo Travel

    To put those fears at bay, read on for our writers' and editors' top 15 tips for surviving solo travel. It'll hopefully furnish you with what to know before traveling to anywhere on your own, and lead you to learn lots of new thingsabout the world - and yourself. 1. Know your strengths. 2.

  22. Solo Travel Tips From Reddit

    Traveling solo can be super lonely, and if you're an introvert at home, chances are you'll avoid meeting people while abroad too without intentional effort." — Reddit user PinstripeMonkey ...

  23. The Definitive List of Travel Subreddits to Help You Tour the World

    This travel subreddit is a place for those interested in cruise stories, news, tips, and more. They actually helped me plan the summer cruise, so I can personally vouch for it being a quality resource. r/awardtravel. This is one of the most unique and useful travel subreddits out there.